Wow! This was intense. I love watching the flow when people are engaged in the family constellation work. There are no words to describe what is going on because it is there on a different energy level and things just work itself out. I also like how the instructor was able to flow with it and adding resources to assist this woman.
C'est la premiére fois que je vois une representation du travaille sur le theme et je le trouve formidable. It's the fist time I see such a representation and I found it quite interesting. Es la primera vez que admiro un trabajo similar y me pareció formidable, muy emotivo. Thanx to all for your comments as well.
In the constellation group i am participating, they do not need so many info. Just one sentence as someone above said. And also, no one says who will be the representative. Some people just feel strange after one says the "problem" and they get up and they start realizing what they represent on their own after a while. It works perfectly!
It is hard to explain what is going on in a Hellinger constellation until you participate "actively" in one.
By active participation I mean you are the representant of someone or something who is totally strange to you and still you feel all the person you have never seen have been feeling in that special (family) system. The reactions can be very strong.
I did not believe it myself until experienced it personally. The video however good it is can not reflect what is happening there.
And where to you see the proove that the feelings you felt were from the person you reprensented? Didn't you ask yourself the question that the feelings you had could be just because you implicated yourself that you HAVE TO feel anything?
I was sceptic about it but I stopped thinking when the process started. I felt that a force pushed out of the circle, I tried to stay inside but I could not so I grabbed a chair to hold myself inside the circle but it was not enough support, started to feel deep sadness and cried. All of it was not about me...I personified the mother of a mentally handicapped person. What I want to say is worth trying it instead of learning, reading or speaking about it or watching it. It is not the same.
If a representative thinks that he HAS to feel something, then it was a misunderstanding of the instruction by the facilitator (or the instruction was missing at all). The instruction should be like: be present & aware of where you are standing and see IF you have a feeling or a tendency to move. Then go with your tendency. Strong emotions can be triggered but thats not always the case. The therapist's job is it to decide if it is the issue of the representative or the person being represented.
It is basically a form of meditation where the energy fields between people become visible, and you can change them. It's a bit hard to explain it, but the straneg thing is that apparently is almost always ends in some kind of solution for whicever relationship it is that is being explored.
I'm currently reading a book on this. The book is good, but all I gotta say about this is WTF IS THIS!?
camelot886 4 months ago
I'm not totally clear on how does one LEARN from this process and how do they implement the solution to their personal lives?
tlyoung88 5 months ago
Wow! This was intense. I love watching the flow when people are engaged in the family constellation work. There are no words to describe what is going on because it is there on a different energy level and things just work itself out. I also like how the instructor was able to flow with it and adding resources to assist this woman.
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HarperIrma 1 year ago
Family Constelations, Movements of the soul, no words.
alishavel 1 year ago 2
C'est la premiére fois que je vois une representation du travaille sur le theme et je le trouve formidable. It's the fist time I see such a representation and I found it quite interesting. Es la primera vez que admiro un trabajo similar y me pareció formidable, muy emotivo. Thanx to all for your comments as well.
betokkikke 2 years ago
In the constellation group i am participating, they do not need so many info. Just one sentence as someone above said. And also, no one says who will be the representative. Some people just feel strange after one says the "problem" and they get up and they start realizing what they represent on their own after a while. It works perfectly!
vickytzo 2 years ago
thank you for this. Having experienced a workshop, I know how powerful it is. You get accelerated healing in a remarkably short amount of time
raccoonpoet 2 years ago
It's strange that the facilitator wanted so much information. Too much thinking going on. Hellinger asks for one sentence, and takes it from there.
Tokyodreamz 2 years ago
It is hard to explain what is going on in a Hellinger constellation until you participate "actively" in one.
By active participation I mean you are the representant of someone or something who is totally strange to you and still you feel all the person you have never seen have been feeling in that special (family) system. The reactions can be very strong.
I did not believe it myself until experienced it personally. The video however good it is can not reflect what is happening there.
heni13 2 years ago
And where to you see the proove that the feelings you felt were from the person you reprensented? Didn't you ask yourself the question that the feelings you had could be just because you implicated yourself that you HAVE TO feel anything?
otosfotosf 2 years ago
I was sceptic about it but I stopped thinking when the process started. I felt that a force pushed out of the circle, I tried to stay inside but I could not so I grabbed a chair to hold myself inside the circle but it was not enough support, started to feel deep sadness and cried. All of it was not about me...I personified the mother of a mentally handicapped person. What I want to say is worth trying it instead of learning, reading or speaking about it or watching it. It is not the same.
heni13 2 years ago
If a representative thinks that he HAS to feel something, then it was a misunderstanding of the instruction by the facilitator (or the instruction was missing at all). The instruction should be like: be present & aware of where you are standing and see IF you have a feeling or a tendency to move. Then go with your tendency. Strong emotions can be triggered but thats not always the case. The therapist's job is it to decide if it is the issue of the representative or the person being represented.
szt1964 2 years ago
But what does it mean?
clarissamarro 3 years ago
It is basically a form of meditation where the energy fields between people become visible, and you can change them. It's a bit hard to explain it, but the straneg thing is that apparently is almost always ends in some kind of solution for whicever relationship it is that is being explored.
Leyonne 3 years ago
why is this cool? What is going on?!
benfelluk 4 years ago
this video is so cool
101gemma101 4 years ago