My boyfriend broke up with me because he liked this girl but he still liked me he still held hands with me and hug me but he stoped telling me he loved me for a week but we would talk till 3am on the phone he still liked me he said i made him happy and he never wanted to break up but he dumped me for this ugly chick that no one likes. i feel like shit he is the guy i loved the most and i cant stop crying
i just got dumped 5 hours ago. i found out that he cheated on me. when we talk, he told me that im a piece of shit and this girl he cheated me on is better than me. my self esteem went down instantly because he was my bestfriend and weve been together for 5 years. how do i recover from this? i cant stop hurting myself. i had no friends to talk to. i love him so much and he stomp my heart and tear it to pieces. i died instantly. i have been taking care of him for so long, and this is what i get.
@nadialsdx: time heals all wounds. reach out to ur friends/family. it helps to talk to someone about how u feel. its okay to cry and let all ur emotions out. just know u deserve better and there is someone out there who will appreciate and treat u right.
i love her, i love her more than anything, and i would do anything i can to be with her, even change myself, and even though shes gone, and probably is with someone else. I still cant seem to let her go. I havnt spoken to her in over a month, and its killing, i do my best to keep occupied but its the loneliness that gets me. If its not her i can be with, then id rather be alone. Yes i am a hopeless romantic, but thank you mike, ill try and use your advice to ease the pain.
i love her so much , but she jus decided to walk out suddenly . just too sudden and i cant stand it .it is hurting me so bad . my mind is filled with her ..someone help me..
I played the role of a boyfriend but never held the title of it, She built me up and she was the person I always looked forward to seeing ! But since i caught her with another man. I feel nothing but hate, and embarrassed for like i said I played the role but didn't own the title of bf.And my whole family loved her and her parents loved me. This happened three days ago so its still fresh and I can't get her out of my head :( Help me...... for a guy i have a big heart, and I am truth
focusing on pain just makes it worst.my break up with my boyfriend is going horrible.my first boyfriend and first everything and i cant stop crying.i just want him back.even though the pain is horrible im gonna keep trying though
I basically just broke up with my ex just now. We were each other's first of everything. We got through so many fights and arguments and we also went through a lot of romantic and beautiful moments. I loved him so much but he controlled every part of me. I couldnt do anything without him, nothing seemed fun without him. Everyone told me to leave him but i couldnt, even he himself told me i had to leave him. I knew i had to. But the hardest part is picturing him moving on without me. It's tough..
My now ex left me yesterday. He told me that his feelings had faded. It makes me sick because the night before we shared a beautiful moment and we were all cute and cuddly. We were with each other for 2 and a half years. With him my life was most of the time hell, and now I'm free. The moment he broke up, I realized that I wanted it as well bcus I won't take the physical is psychological abuse anymore!
As always when I read these comments I'm touched by how raw so many of them are. Heartbreak can kill, it really is that painful and I'm sorry you're up against it right now. I work a lot with people dealing with Heartbreak and my biggest recommendation is you get hold of the free chapter on my website. Even that will make a huge difference to how you feel. Sorry I can't respond to comments here so much as I get a ridiculous amount of email.
ive also figured its not worth hurting ande crying about when your ex partner isnt even hurting like you or even seeming like they care so be strong have faith and things will get better.
huhh...his advice does help cuz i start focusing on other things but its just sooo dang difficult when you loved and still love the person sooo much and my break up wasnt even like my ex and i talked and decided to take time apart her folks spoke wit mine and from there everything went down.i see wuts helped me alot is to pray to God...alot and keep focus on improving yourself keep distracted and well time heals all wounds im not saying it wont hurt but youll live and thats wuts important .im 18
My break up with my boyfriend sucks. 3 years and 4 months for nothing. Im 18 young but look thats what hapens when u fall in love at a young age. He was my first love witch makes it so much harder. I would say my first boyfriend to.
everything was fine with me and my boyfriend and all of a sudden shit got real...we were together for 7 months and he was my first love but i guess long distance got the best of him...we broke up yesturday and it still feels like a dream fml schools gonna suck tommmorow
I can't relate to any of these videos.. /': It's like I've gotten all weird over it, like one minute I'll be fine the next I'll be crying, I vomited over it. I'm still hoping we're able to stay friends, which I think I can do (I really hope). What I need is to talk to someone to over it, but when you're ex was practically your last real best friend that can be difficult. The other friends just get bored of hearing it... guhh. l:
@JFuzzman I just watched another video on trying to stay friends, you have to let go. 8 to 12 weeks of not contacting the person will help you out and in the long run if you are better after those weeks you can be friends with them =] I'm going through a tough breakup where she was LITERALLY the ONLY person I would talk to about anything. Let go, say no. You broke up for a reason and staying in the past will bring nothing but pain. You will be okay, I promise.
@HoodyHero I know, I would of considered her a best friend just as much as a girlfriend. Whenever a girl tells you, that she can see you together in the future, avoid it. My ex told me that as well as she wanted to be alone and stuff and.. it seems like that was just to help me go through the breakup so, still no hard feelings there. Moving on and catching up. I think me focusing my life on her was a terrible decision. And I'm starting to improve. Her and I are still in the positive.
@Palak95ify (=It get's better. I'm not going to lie and say I'm completely over her yet or anything, but I feel better about my situation, in fact I probably needed it.Her and I are still friends, I suppose in a way. Still facebook chats and such, but it wasn't so good for me to wrap my whole world around this girl. I'm also not going to say that it doesn't hurt like hell when you find them to like somebody else. Just keep the memories precious, but DON'T relive them..that sucks. -_-
at the end you said you never deserve it but.. what if i was the one that caused it. nothing about cheating. only reason is because i didnt want to marry her so she left now i feel like hell and realized i should and she wonttake me back. for 2 yrs she wanted to and i didnt, how can i blame her? it is my fault now what? ps. we work together for the last 5 yrs and still do !!!!!!!!!
@Creolebway i am going through the same thing.. she wanted me to marry her for 2 years as well... i was scared to move in and marry... she demanded a ring and i wasn't sure what to do..so she left me and now is with a coworker and says she is so happy.. it hurts pretty bad.she has a daughter, good job but was married twice before so that made me nervous...did she really want me or just a husband?the words i always heard from her was marriage not that she couldn't live without me. still hurts tho
I think that getting rejected by someone I love was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life.
For anyone who's going through the same sort of pain that I was experiencing about 6 months ago due to a breakup, I have a recommendation for you. Check out..
Breakups2Makeups. com
The program on there helped me get through a really hard time and ultimately, it helped me get my girlfriend back and my whole life back on track. Good luck guys and girls. Hope it helps :)
i felt the person i would see myself with forever, that had almost the same personality i had. isn't never coming back. why? she's dating my ex friend for 3 years. ill be honest i dated her for less than 3 weeks. but what i thought i saw her in her, i cant find in someone else. thats what missing in my life. i feel better yes because i was proactive in my family life, i work for my own personal needs.people ask about my love life to the point is questionable, i dont want to be heartbroke again.
@asalamalika ...believe me, I know. I lived with my girl for about the duration of your relationship, and ours was both physical and emotional. It sounds like the situation you were in, is that she started seeing you as a friend. You seem like a nice guy, which is fine... But the fact that you didn't hook up is a red flag. Girls love flirting, challenges and adventure. It's weird, but it's true.
The fact is that i get rid of her for log time but then again this biatch comes into my dreams and teases me so the next day is back again..I want her to be erased of my subconsciousness. I want to forget her!!!!!!!! STOP INVADING INTO MY DREAMS YOU F*********G B*****H LEAVE ME ALONE
I've got a question: what do you do when you spend a great deal of time and energy on someone, you think they are perfect for you, you come to know EVERYTHING about them, and then they just hang you out to dry??? I spent a whole year on one girl(my first mistake) and in the end she ended up with another guy...after a year of telling me she was just shy and leading me on, we never even hooked up, but suddenly she has a boyfriend. It's different because it was not physical, I fell in love with he
me and my ex broke up after two years. i kept continuely calling and texting her. and as a result we messed around a bit. while she was dating someone else. but then her gf contacted me asking if anything happened between us. and i told her everything. in a result they broke up and now they both have blocked me on facebook. this is all still really hard for me because i feel like the bad guy for telling her gf everything. im so lost right now even if im talking to someone else as well.
@helena4624 LMAO!! That's what I thought. If he has a weird bump on his head then he shouldn\'t have shaved of his hair, if he HAD hair then you wouldnt be able to see that weird shape
this helps :) i'm stronger mentally than ever u were weighing me down u lied constantly but we did have love and ill never forget u Brittany it's been a week and i'm so happy i made it this far and there is a another better woman out there for me i know it
The girl I have loved with all my heart and soul for two years is moving away. And I will never see her again. I will never love again, because everyone you love will eventually leave you. The pain is too much to bear.
Spare yourself the unbearable heartache. Stop loving people. Stop caring about them. Stop letting people into your life that will eventually leave it. It is the only way to never get hurt again.
@CarlChub Dear, that's not the right solution and it defeats the purpose of this man's video. The girl you loved moving away is not her fault I'm sure. This guy (in the vid) said u need to be strong mentally. If you give up so easily, where's the mental strength in you! No girl wants a guy who is weak and gives up easily. And ironically, when you stop loving people, you WILL get hurt even more. There's truth in what I'm sayin, dude! :)
@quiksilver0000 It wasn't her fault. She got her dream job which was to work at Disney World. I realize that no girl wants a guy who is weak, but that is totally irrelevant to me, because I don't want another girl. I've had so many people around me that I care about either die, or move away, never to be heard from again. I'm tired of the pain it causes. The only way to avoid the inevitable, is to stop getting close to people. I'd rather be alone than to deal with that pain time and time again.
@CarlChub Aw so cute, disney lol! Though I don't know you, i don't want u to be weak either. And I know you're not! I figure this thingy happened recently that's why you feel totally beat. Well me too, everytime I get close to a guy he'll leave in some way or just ignore me completely. I'll be honest, Ive never been through love so guess im not qualified to advice like this dude in the vid. I hope u cheer up tho...u definitely deserve better. Surely ppl will be attracted to you, ha :)
@midnightlight1990 I too am one day single.. we're not alone, this feeling hurts and its never easy. but it is very good you are reaching out to heal quicker. what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger.
i have been crushed and my x just goes out with a person i hate and he wants 2 fight me and says (keep ur hands off my girl) and i dont know what 2 do im desteroyed
@TheMotocrosser199 2 options either take out your aggression pain he dishes out to you cant compare with the pain your already suffering your the one who lost something not him or second forget her and get out there and find someone new the feeling of finding someone knew is so much better can you imagine if you got her back? the fact is she still went out with someone you hate would you really want anything to do with someone as heartless? im going through the same situation myself
After the ridiculously blazay comment I left or was leaving I have to say THANK YOU. You just re-itterated what I knew BUT I needed to hear it. so from kinda watching this vid half assed, I have gone to appreciation. Cheers!
Blargh, got dumped yesterday (4 times in a row overalll lol..). Not too sure I should leave the person because they wanted "friendship" It will just be to difficult, and remain friends with someone just won't do any good since it'll just remind of the past imo... :\
@RTA07 I feel your pain man, I got cheated on last week. Totally in love with her, I still am, and she's in most of my classes. I see her every single day. As hard as it is, we both need to pick up, dust ourselves off and move on. She wants to be friends too but I'm not too sure. Good luck :)
Huh, it's probably best that to forget about her since he has broken your heart after what happened. It'll not be easy, but I really think it's for the best. Hope it all ends well too :)
@RTA07 Yeah..that's what everyone keeps telling me. It's what I really need to do but it's impossible seeing her every single day. Good luck with yourself though, be safe :)
my ex and i broke up 4 yrs ago, i was over her too but then i ran into her a few days ago then old feelings came up and we have some of the same friends, now i cant stop thinking about her, not because i want to be with her cause i dont, but for some reason shes stuck in my head like she was along time ago
My girlfriend dumped men 4 days ago... I still remember all the happy times we had :/. She swored to me that she'll never leave me, but she did. I don't know what to do with my life now that she's gone... I don't know if I'll ever love someone again... Although she lied trough her teeth I still love her... I LOVE YOU LEXIE
yknow...when a woman breaks your heart..this is the worst feeling EVER..
I attempted suicide...trust me it was very risky..BAD.....Im lucky Im here now..
women can be the most cruel and emotionally abusive persons in a relationship....and statistictly it is a fact and it doesnt suprise me AT ALL....that many men have done CRAZY and....very bad things after a breakup or cheating...or betrayal....seriouslly...think about it....its TRUE
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
Wow..I would tell my whole story but it's way too much to type. Anyhow, I just lost my girl as well..it's as if living with her and living for her and us wasn't enough. I was left because I was fussing to her about respecting my feelings. When you're ok with your girl still being friends with her ex but you'd rather that you be present if they are hanging out.. Wouldn't you think that I've given what I could and that she needs to meet half way? Either way she left me because she said our relati
@Th3R3GuLaToR ughhh I hate when they're still up under their ex...my bf just left me for his ex....smh..wtf..and he supposedly wanted nothing to do with her
thank you Michael, i literally watched this video, took your quiz then read and practiced steps one and two on your website, and in less than thirty minutes i was over my break up and literally happy again. i am a logical and rational thinker so i guess teats what helped me to move on also, an emotional person would take a bit longer, but your advice is AMAZING seriously you are a genius. :)
my main tactic to get over a breakup is to start building confidence. once you do that you can tell yourself "damn he(or)she wasnt even good enough for me, my standards are higher" once you do that your ex will eventually see your new found confidence once they see this (confidence is a turn on btw) theyll be wanting you back, thats when you tell them to fuck off and walk away. it works.
the best way to forget an ex is to buy (if your money can buy)is a motorcycle or a sports car ....whenever i felt like shit i.went out just for.the heck of it and start speeding on the roads in low populated areas
I've known this guy for a very long time we had been dating for 2 months then he leaves me for this girl he only knew for 2 days. When we were together he never really told anyone anything, if they asked if he hada girl he said he loved me, now he talks on and on about his new gf and posts pictures of them online. He never was that serious about us..
@SuperHersheyLover I know how you feel I have been dating this girl for 4 years and she was my everything and I mean my everything.. We used to do everything together and everyone at school likes her like everyone but I had her for 4 years and the night before she left me we were at a football game and we were laughing and kissing and everything and then the next day for no reason she doesn't even know why she just says I need to be single idk but i need too and now Im hurting :/ its life...
was with my ex 5 yrs been split up awhile now and all i ever do in spear time is think about her woundering if she ever misses me she broke up with me because she never loved me just saw me as a friend in the end now feel not just heart broken but i feel ive wasted my love on some one who didnt feel same 5 long yrs but i guess my love wasnt enuff makes me think would be be enuff for someone else =(
me and my gf broke up 3 months ago and it still killing me....i tryed so hard to get her back...she acted like she wanted me back and then she got with another guy...i called her the day after and she told me she didnt love me and she never wanted to tlk to me again....please help me....help me forget this...
@steveharry76 i no exactly how u feel my ex gf of 4 years just finished with me on a sat morning just out of the blue just like that and was with her new guy that same afternoon i tried more than everything to get her back she was all i lived for and still do i carnt get her out of my head no matter how hard i try and hardist thing ever is that she hates me and does not want anything ever to do with me ever again and i was so nice to her and bought her everything i dont want to carry on living.
I just want to say I remember when I first watched this and everything he says at first was so true. I was a mess.. looking up how to get over someone on youtube was a prime example of this. BUT it does get better. It's been two months and it still hurts but the pain is so severe. Just know that the pain will go away. It really will.. so keep holding on. And know that someone out there does love you.
from her in 3 weeks and ive lost 15 pounds because i cant eat i cant sleep all i do is think about her and replay the scerino in my head to the point where i think im losing it i dont know what to do i feel like i cant breath without her how can she throw away all them years like they never happend everything reminds me of her we lived together for five years and i way so happy when we got back together and engaged but now thats all over even if i want her back her i know i can never trust her
she was not there her boss said she did not have to work today and after i droped her off she was just hanging out at the bar with some guy and then left with him so i waited there at the restaurant for her to show up because we shared a phone and i know she had to call from the restaurant when it was time for her to get off work and then i saw her pull up in some guys car then i confronted her and all she said was i dont want to hurt you know more and then she moved out again i havent heard
I was living with the love of my life for five years and about 5 months ago we seperated because i saw some texts on her phone then she came back a month later and she said she made a mistake and she could not live without me even though i told her i have trust issues with her i took her back and things were better than they ever were we started going out more together she was way more affectionate then she ever was so we got engaged then about 3 weeks ago i was picking her up from work and
To be honest i went to the website and watched the whole video,i took the quiz,id i honestly think im feeling a bit better.
wisconsinskater09 1 day ago
I want to get off this rollercoaster NOW.
Rtv03 4 days ago
@JFuzzman message me bro im going through the same shit we can have a conversation
hereltch 4 days ago
by the way your head is a triangle at the top
beoch116 4 days ago
i didnt want her to be. the one that got away.
beoch116 4 days ago
My boyfriend broke up with me because he liked this girl but he still liked me he still held hands with me and hug me but he stoped telling me he loved me for a week but we would talk till 3am on the phone he still liked me he said i made him happy and he never wanted to break up but he dumped me for this ugly chick that no one likes. i feel like shit he is the guy i loved the most and i cant stop crying
iitzamberbby 1 week ago
i just got dumped 5 hours ago. i found out that he cheated on me. when we talk, he told me that im a piece of shit and this girl he cheated me on is better than me. my self esteem went down instantly because he was my bestfriend and weve been together for 5 years. how do i recover from this? i cant stop hurting myself. i had no friends to talk to. i love him so much and he stomp my heart and tear it to pieces. i died instantly. i have been taking care of him for so long, and this is what i get.
nadialsdx 1 week ago
@nadialsdx You can talk to me if it helps. d= I know talking about how I felt has helped me.
JFuzzman 1 week ago
@nadialsdx: time heals all wounds. reach out to ur friends/family. it helps to talk to someone about how u feel. its okay to cry and let all ur emotions out. just know u deserve better and there is someone out there who will appreciate and treat u right.
roxygirl4910 5 days ago
i love her, i love her more than anything, and i would do anything i can to be with her, even change myself, and even though shes gone, and probably is with someone else. I still cant seem to let her go. I havnt spoken to her in over a month, and its killing, i do my best to keep occupied but its the loneliness that gets me. If its not her i can be with, then id rather be alone. Yes i am a hopeless romantic, but thank you mike, ill try and use your advice to ease the pain.
3wc 1 week ago
I broke up with my gf and after sometimes, i realize how much i love her. Now hes happy with another guy. Stupid me.
leynd000 1 week ago
i love her so much , but she jus decided to walk out suddenly . just too sudden and i cant stand it .it is hurting me so bad . my mind is filled with her ..someone help me..
Isenhart881 2 weeks ago
@Isenhart881 I'm feeling the same, I guess i want to cheer u up by saying your not alone..
FortuneNeko 2 weeks ago
thank you T____T i will try this out..
scapebhoy 2 weeks ago
I played the role of a boyfriend but never held the title of it, She built me up and she was the person I always looked forward to seeing ! But since i caught her with another man. I feel nothing but hate, and embarrassed for like i said I played the role but didn't own the title of bf.And my whole family loved her and her parents loved me. This happened three days ago so its still fresh and I can't get her out of my head :( Help me...... for a guy i have a big heart, and I am truth
highasahorse86 2 weeks ago
i want to have a personal talk with you
kumar123854 2 weeks ago
youre absolutely right i agree!
houdapurple 3 weeks ago
Fuck my life
rbreezy0001 3 weeks ago
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Sigh .. Break ups suck :(
This has to be the worst feeling in the world. There's nothing worse than being rejected by someone you love.
It's been 6 months since my girlfriend broke up with me and it still hurts so much!!
I've been using the program on Breakups2Makeups. com and I'm starting to get positive reactions from her so that's a start at least.
People say "you never know what you have until it's gone". It's so true! :(
MMArtist99 3 weeks ago
OMG!! me n my x broke up n i cant get ovver him n wacthing this video made me think of y we broke up n helping me move on alitte by litte
Brookehawaiirocks 3 weeks ago
i fancied a girl and i really love her how can i get over of her my mind is obssered her
kumar123854 3 weeks ago
you are my god
kumar123854 3 weeks ago
@JFuzzman you're not alone. Trust me. and hopefully it's all better for you.
LittleNinjaJazz 3 weeks ago
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britishbuldoggg 1 month ago
focusing on pain just makes it worst.my break up with my boyfriend is going horrible.my first boyfriend and first everything and i cant stop crying.i just want him back.even though the pain is horrible im gonna keep trying though
themorticiansgf 1 month ago
This guy just made me feel worse. When he was describing the pain in the beginning....thx buddy.
Kailey338 1 month ago
I basically just broke up with my ex just now. We were each other's first of everything. We got through so many fights and arguments and we also went through a lot of romantic and beautiful moments. I loved him so much but he controlled every part of me. I couldnt do anything without him, nothing seemed fun without him. Everyone told me to leave him but i couldnt, even he himself told me i had to leave him. I knew i had to. But the hardest part is picturing him moving on without me. It's tough..
iamRAWKEL 1 month ago
@iamRAWKEL Breakups suck :( I hate picturing my ex happy without me too
everyloss 1 month ago
Thank you for this. 6yrs wasted but i still believe it will get better.
goldendyme8506 1 month ago
My now ex left me yesterday. He told me that his feelings had faded. It makes me sick because the night before we shared a beautiful moment and we were all cute and cuddly. We were with each other for 2 and a half years. With him my life was most of the time hell, and now I'm free. The moment he broke up, I realized that I wanted it as well bcus I won't take the physical is psychological abuse anymore!
eeelineify 1 month ago
As always when I read these comments I'm touched by how raw so many of them are. Heartbreak can kill, it really is that painful and I'm sorry you're up against it right now. I work a lot with people dealing with Heartbreak and my biggest recommendation is you get hold of the free chapter on my website. Even that will make a huge difference to how you feel. Sorry I can't respond to comments here so much as I get a ridiculous amount of email.
RelationshipGym 1 month ago 7
ive also figured its not worth hurting ande crying about when your ex partner isnt even hurting like you or even seeming like they care so be strong have faith and things will get better.
BoyzOnDaBlock 1 month ago
huhh...his advice does help cuz i start focusing on other things but its just sooo dang difficult when you loved and still love the person sooo much and my break up wasnt even like my ex and i talked and decided to take time apart her folks spoke wit mine and from there everything went down.i see wuts helped me alot is to pray to God...alot and keep focus on improving yourself keep distracted and well time heals all wounds im not saying it wont hurt but youll live and thats wuts important .im 18
BoyzOnDaBlock 1 month ago
God ...it makes me cry...:((
MrAndreithegame 1 month ago
My break up with my boyfriend sucks. 3 years and 4 months for nothing. Im 18 young but look thats what hapens when u fall in love at a young age. He was my first love witch makes it so much harder. I would say my first boyfriend to.
Joanna4956 1 month ago
what if ur break up wasnt a bad one , we broke up cause were going to differnt colleges? help
xkingkittyx 1 month ago
@xkingkittyx I'm kind of going through the same thing here. Even worse for me she wants to leave the country and live somewhere else...
TheBlazinViper 1 month ago
cone head
danahmite1 1 month ago
Who you callin pin head?
algib77 1 month ago
everything was fine with me and my boyfriend and all of a sudden shit got real...we were together for 7 months and he was my first love but i guess long distance got the best of him...we broke up yesturday and it still feels like a dream fml schools gonna suck tommmorow
2LegitToQuit17 1 month ago
My boyfriend went and left me and our 1 year old son, thanks alot :(
BeautyBoudior 1 month ago
To late.. My heart is already slashed open..
BlueNeon292 1 month ago
@BlueNeon292 i know how you feel...
2LegitToQuit17 1 month ago
You are WONDERFUL, Michael. Thank you for the uploads. You have been a big help!
ArtsLover12 1 month ago
I can't relate to any of these videos.. /': It's like I've gotten all weird over it, like one minute I'll be fine the next I'll be crying, I vomited over it. I'm still hoping we're able to stay friends, which I think I can do (I really hope). What I need is to talk to someone to over it, but when you're ex was practically your last real best friend that can be difficult. The other friends just get bored of hearing it... guhh. l:
JFuzzman 1 month ago 16
@JFuzzman I just watched another video on trying to stay friends, you have to let go. 8 to 12 weeks of not contacting the person will help you out and in the long run if you are better after those weeks you can be friends with them =] I'm going through a tough breakup where she was LITERALLY the ONLY person I would talk to about anything. Let go, say no. You broke up for a reason and staying in the past will bring nothing but pain. You will be okay, I promise.
HoodyHero 1 month ago
@HoodyHero I know, I would of considered her a best friend just as much as a girlfriend. Whenever a girl tells you, that she can see you together in the future, avoid it. My ex told me that as well as she wanted to be alone and stuff and.. it seems like that was just to help me go through the breakup so, still no hard feelings there. Moving on and catching up. I think me focusing my life on her was a terrible decision. And I'm starting to improve. Her and I are still in the positive.
JFuzzman 1 month ago
@JFuzzman im going through the same shit nigga
malnig1 1 week ago
@JFuzzman im srsly in d same condition :( one moment happy n d other sad n ol dat moodswing thing :( n i totally agree wid dat best frnd thing
Palak95ify 1 week ago
@Palak95ify (=It get's better. I'm not going to lie and say I'm completely over her yet or anything, but I feel better about my situation, in fact I probably needed it.Her and I are still friends, I suppose in a way. Still facebook chats and such, but it wasn't so good for me to wrap my whole world around this girl. I'm also not going to say that it doesn't hurt like hell when you find them to like somebody else. Just keep the memories precious, but DON'T relive them..that sucks. -_-
JFuzzman 1 week ago
egg head
TheSeeker7714 2 months ago
Thank you for your words
mcloven83 2 months ago
*let someone in
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MostLikelyOnline 2 months ago
Crazy. 33 seconds in and I started crying. Once you let someone it they freakin throw you in the garbage
MostLikelyOnline 2 months ago 2
@MostLikelyOnline What happened?
BenGenio 2 months ago
Guys...GO OUT AND HIT ON EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE....YOU WILL FEEL BETTER...THAT'S THE BEST WAY...
IraHayesIraHayes 2 months ago 4
who you callin' pinhead?
catcherintheryerocks 2 months ago
i love u
mrsimple311 2 months ago
This sucks
LiannaRodriguez 2 months ago
So what was the secret?
msgetritetime 2 months ago
at the end you said you never deserve it but.. what if i was the one that caused it. nothing about cheating. only reason is because i didnt want to marry her so she left now i feel like hell and realized i should and she wonttake me back. for 2 yrs she wanted to and i didnt, how can i blame her? it is my fault now what? ps. we work together for the last 5 yrs and still do !!!!!!!!!
Creolebway 2 months ago
@Creolebway you not alone on this
djcjjwash 2 months ago
@Creolebway i am going through the same thing.. she wanted me to marry her for 2 years as well... i was scared to move in and marry... she demanded a ring and i wasn't sure what to do..so she left me and now is with a coworker and says she is so happy.. it hurts pretty bad.she has a daughter, good job but was married twice before so that made me nervous...did she really want me or just a husband?the words i always heard from her was marriage not that she couldn't live without me. still hurts tho
djcjjwash 2 months ago
Hello. My name's Michael.
beckaluv1 2 months ago
I only got to the first minute bc he was making me feel worse:(
Mrpwnjuice 2 months ago 3
To all of those who are still mourning over their break ups,
Here is a quote I live by "What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger"
Darkoness21 2 months ago
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I think that getting rejected by someone I love was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life.
For anyone who's going through the same sort of pain that I was experiencing about 6 months ago due to a breakup, I have a recommendation for you. Check out..
Breakups2Makeups. com
The program on there helped me get through a really hard time and ultimately, it helped me get my girlfriend back and my whole life back on track. Good luck guys and girls. Hope it helps :)
BillTheTrainer 2 months ago
i felt the person i would see myself with forever, that had almost the same personality i had. isn't never coming back. why? she's dating my ex friend for 3 years. ill be honest i dated her for less than 3 weeks. but what i thought i saw her in her, i cant find in someone else. thats what missing in my life. i feel better yes because i was proactive in my family life, i work for my own personal needs.people ask about my love life to the point is questionable, i dont want to be heartbroke again.
Grungeaintdead101 2 months ago
ii watched this even im really not in a breakup. and i found this vid very funny. idk why. im gonna watch some fail compilations now. bye.
LOVEuBlink182 2 months ago
I love how he says 'three different approaches' and puts up two fingers ;p x
emilyw31 2 months ago
@asalamalika ...believe me, I know. I lived with my girl for about the duration of your relationship, and ours was both physical and emotional. It sounds like the situation you were in, is that she started seeing you as a friend. You seem like a nice guy, which is fine... But the fact that you didn't hook up is a red flag. Girls love flirting, challenges and adventure. It's weird, but it's true.
MLorio777 3 months ago
TURTLE TURTLE >_>
twojaek 3 months ago
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Thank you, Michael. That's all I wanna say. Yes, Im gonna be okay.
breezevn09 3 months ago
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I have a funny!!! yet helpfull video on my channel of '10 ways to get over a break up' Check it xx
ThingsTimesTen 3 months ago
your head is an eraser
llVIU 3 months ago
I wish we can have a personal talk,.
katsuneshinsengumi 3 months ago 29
The fact is that i get rid of her for log time but then again this biatch comes into my dreams and teases me so the next day is back again..I want her to be erased of my subconsciousness. I want to forget her!!!!!!!! STOP INVADING INTO MY DREAMS YOU F*********G B*****H LEAVE ME ALONE
Luffy768 3 months ago 2
thanks man this really helped me out i.o.u
jackcthomas123 3 months ago
Hahahah really boring
Jessisamerican 3 months ago
It's really useful to me, thank you
dabiejong 3 months ago
her for her personality and now I'm torn up. It's been months.
Asalamalika 3 months ago
I've got a question: what do you do when you spend a great deal of time and energy on someone, you think they are perfect for you, you come to know EVERYTHING about them, and then they just hang you out to dry??? I spent a whole year on one girl(my first mistake) and in the end she ended up with another guy...after a year of telling me she was just shy and leading me on, we never even hooked up, but suddenly she has a boyfriend. It's different because it was not physical, I fell in love with he
Asalamalika 3 months ago
me and my ex broke up after two years. i kept continuely calling and texting her. and as a result we messed around a bit. while she was dating someone else. but then her gf contacted me asking if anything happened between us. and i told her everything. in a result they broke up and now they both have blocked me on facebook. this is all still really hard for me because i feel like the bad guy for telling her gf everything. im so lost right now even if im talking to someone else as well.
TheTacofrenzy 3 months ago
wheres the quiz???
Faceslamm 3 months ago
IM CRYING MY EYES OUT! :O
sazlovesyou12 3 months ago
@sazlovesyou12 ME TOO.
4EVERjADExoxo 3 months ago
Scored 11 on the test, it's been 8 months now and things are only getting worse.. I miss him so much..help
TheMasquerade93 3 months ago
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i'll probably never get over my ex, thats why im never getting involved in another relationship for the rest of my life it just fucks your head up
robstaa89 3 months ago
his head is demented lol
helena4624 3 months ago
@helena4624 LMAO!! That's what I thought. If he has a weird bump on his head then he shouldn\'t have shaved of his hair, if he HAD hair then you wouldnt be able to see that weird shape
TheDellanator 3 months ago
@helena4624
your head is empty! I could hear my echo if I talked in your ears lol
ICanTalk12 3 months ago
@ICanTalk12 wow k someone has issues..... and thnk you!
helena4624 3 months ago
Aww I love people like you. Your voice is soothing and very personal :)
I'm glad you have a loving wife now and I hope the best for your family ^^
quiksilver0000 3 months ago
this helps :) i'm stronger mentally than ever u were weighing me down u lied constantly but we did have love and ill never forget u Brittany it's been a week and i'm so happy i made it this far and there is a another better woman out there for me i know it
blueoctober6 3 months ago
The girl I have loved with all my heart and soul for two years is moving away. And I will never see her again. I will never love again, because everyone you love will eventually leave you. The pain is too much to bear.
Spare yourself the unbearable heartache. Stop loving people. Stop caring about them. Stop letting people into your life that will eventually leave it. It is the only way to never get hurt again.
CarlChub 3 months ago
@CarlChub Dear, that's not the right solution and it defeats the purpose of this man's video. The girl you loved moving away is not her fault I'm sure. This guy (in the vid) said u need to be strong mentally. If you give up so easily, where's the mental strength in you! No girl wants a guy who is weak and gives up easily. And ironically, when you stop loving people, you WILL get hurt even more. There's truth in what I'm sayin, dude! :)
quiksilver0000 3 months ago
@quiksilver0000 It wasn't her fault. She got her dream job which was to work at Disney World. I realize that no girl wants a guy who is weak, but that is totally irrelevant to me, because I don't want another girl. I've had so many people around me that I care about either die, or move away, never to be heard from again. I'm tired of the pain it causes. The only way to avoid the inevitable, is to stop getting close to people. I'd rather be alone than to deal with that pain time and time again.
CarlChub 3 months ago
@CarlChub Aw so cute, disney lol! Though I don't know you, i don't want u to be weak either. And I know you're not! I figure this thingy happened recently that's why you feel totally beat. Well me too, everytime I get close to a guy he'll leave in some way or just ignore me completely. I'll be honest, Ive never been through love so guess im not qualified to advice like this dude in the vid. I hope u cheer up tho...u definitely deserve better. Surely ppl will be attracted to you, ha :)
quiksilver0000 3 months ago
@CarlChub
That's exactly what I did a couple years back.
Honestly people, it always ends in pain. I know from experience that the good stuff isn't worth the crashing and burning at the end of it all.
Look at me now. I am happy because I am free from the pain :3
Salyxas 3 months ago
I Love ur voice. Could you read some bedtime story :P
loricicable 4 months ago 59
watching this video made me remember her ffs :(
blackskull56 4 months ago
My love of my life broken up with me and i think i"ll dieee !! Everithing reminds me of him !!
pmigla 4 months ago
It hurts so bad because I thought he was my Prince on the white horse. I don't think the pain will ever stop.
lindalovesmusic1 4 months ago
Thank u brogerz
midnightlight1990 4 months ago
Doesn't help that my ex was also called Michael.
danirosebud 4 months ago
It hurts more knowing she'll be over me in a few days..
H0lyMessiah 4 months ago
It hurts so bad I'm one day single and I dnt knw wat to do I miss her so much
midnightlight1990 4 months ago
@midnightlight1990 I too am one day single.. we're not alone, this feeling hurts and its never easy. but it is very good you are reaching out to heal quicker. what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger.
brogerz86 4 months ago
i have been crushed and my x just goes out with a person i hate and he wants 2 fight me and says (keep ur hands off my girl) and i dont know what 2 do im desteroyed
TheMotocrosser199 4 months ago
@TheMotocrosser199 2 options either take out your aggression pain he dishes out to you cant compare with the pain your already suffering your the one who lost something not him or second forget her and get out there and find someone new the feeling of finding someone knew is so much better can you imagine if you got her back? the fact is she still went out with someone you hate would you really want anything to do with someone as heartless? im going through the same situation myself
mcplacid 4 months ago
ikr :'(.....(i'm a guy) when she broke with me i always thought that she was the one but i guess i was wong
sebastian88783 4 months ago
I've replayed the part when you say "you gonna be okey" 10 times or more now. It actually feels abit better
IgnoreMyName 4 months ago
Thanks for taking the time to make these videos
scatteredmist 4 months ago
i hope everyone here discussing can get better too.
god took them out of our lives for a reason...we will find a better person...
also...
i recommend reading eat pray love. the book is soooooo good for after a break up and even though i am only 21, i can totally relate.
good luck everyone <3
drunkblackout27 4 months ago
i am 11 days single and got out of a bad relationship...i will check back in a month and let you know how i feel.
thanks for the video!!!!!!! and advice!
drunkblackout27 4 months ago
this bald guy just makes me feel 10x better
MakeAMovie77 4 months ago
Very good advice
Relationshipcoach1 4 months ago
After the ridiculously blazay comment I left or was leaving I have to say THANK YOU. You just re-itterated what I knew BUT I needed to hear it. so from kinda watching this vid half assed, I have gone to appreciation. Cheers!
Joeyedinburgh 4 months ago
I went from looking for advice to just being turned on lol..... make urself less sexy m8! That voice is amazing!
Joeyedinburgh 4 months ago
fuck. this is killing me.
xRamsaay 4 months ago
@xRamsaay
lol ikr...
:'D
RTA07 4 months ago
@RTA07 Absolute torture. Hope you're okay too.
xRamsaay 4 months ago
@xRamsaay
Blargh, got dumped yesterday (4 times in a row overalll lol..). Not too sure I should leave the person because they wanted "friendship" It will just be to difficult, and remain friends with someone just won't do any good since it'll just remind of the past imo... :\
RTA07 4 months ago
@RTA07 I feel your pain man, I got cheated on last week. Totally in love with her, I still am, and she's in most of my classes. I see her every single day. As hard as it is, we both need to pick up, dust ourselves off and move on. She wants to be friends too but I'm not too sure. Good luck :)
xRamsaay 4 months ago
@xRamsaay
Huh, it's probably best that to forget about her since he has broken your heart after what happened. It'll not be easy, but I really think it's for the best. Hope it all ends well too :)
RTA07 4 months ago
@RTA07 Yeah..that's what everyone keeps telling me. It's what I really need to do but it's impossible seeing her every single day. Good luck with yourself though, be safe :)
xRamsaay 4 months ago
she*
RTA07 4 months ago
my ex and i broke up 4 yrs ago, i was over her too but then i ran into her a few days ago then old feelings came up and we have some of the same friends, now i cant stop thinking about her, not because i want to be with her cause i dont, but for some reason shes stuck in my head like she was along time ago
Kronicyumyum 4 months ago
egg - snm
TheLouLau 4 months ago
My girlfriend dumped men 4 days ago... I still remember all the happy times we had :/. She swored to me that she'll never leave me, but she did. I don't know what to do with my life now that she's gone... I don't know if I'll ever love someone again... Although she lied trough her teeth I still love her... I LOVE YOU LEXIE
0424lalo 4 months ago
but what if this person was sooo good with you and you were the one who causes all the problems. in this case what should i do ?
Anassdiani 4 months ago
@Anassdiani You dumped them or did they dumped you?
0424lalo 4 months ago
@0424lalo she did that
Anassdiani 4 months ago
yknow...when a woman breaks your heart..this is the worst feeling EVER..
I attempted suicide...trust me it was very risky..BAD.....Im lucky Im here now..
women can be the most cruel and emotionally abusive persons in a relationship....and statistictly it is a fact and it doesnt suprise me AT ALL....that many men have done CRAZY and....very bad things after a breakup or cheating...or betrayal....seriouslly...think about it....its TRUE
dragonslayerED30 4 months ago
Thankyou x
kotodama27 4 months ago
Thank you for this post. Everyone has some silly jokes to post but this is not a funny matter. Thank you for this post it is helping someone.
msprettyprissy01 4 months ago
The shape of this guys head looks like he's had it bashed in by his clients a few times. lmao :D
andyfayuk 5 months ago
Im jus gonna do wat i did b4 we met party my ass off n make money everyday!!
bigken510n420 5 months ago
Lmao ur gonna be ok!!! Notice it skips so he can laughhh lmao!!
bigken510n420 5 months ago
Break ups suck!!
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
If you're going through the same, go to:
Breakups2Makeups. com
That guide helped me get through it.
MMArtist99 5 months ago
Hello, im Michael.
I specialize in having my head shaped like a dick.
robsteri 5 months ago
Our relationship was too hard she says....too much for someone you love I guess
Th3R3GuLaToR 5 months ago
Wow..I would tell my whole story but it's way too much to type. Anyhow, I just lost my girl as well..it's as if living with her and living for her and us wasn't enough. I was left because I was fussing to her about respecting my feelings. When you're ok with your girl still being friends with her ex but you'd rather that you be present if they are hanging out.. Wouldn't you think that I've given what I could and that she needs to meet half way? Either way she left me because she said our relati
Th3R3GuLaToR 5 months ago
@Th3R3GuLaToR ughhh I hate when they're still up under their ex...my bf just left me for his ex....smh..wtf..and he supposedly wanted nothing to do with her
msgetritetime 2 months ago
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yahgurliecree 5 months ago
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MMArtist99 5 months ago
THANK YOU SO MUCH ! <3
horsesrock126 5 months ago
Wow, this made me cry ...(I'm a guy) .. I wish people wouldn't be so heartless these days :(
jeansstayfitted 5 months ago 27
@jeansstayfitted
I know what you mean. :(
brokenroses22 5 months ago
@jeansstayfitted I know right! :(
EmoLiciousLovexx200 4 months ago
@jeansstayfitted my girlfriend dumped me and told me i was sweet and kind but my friend is better looking
loner20092010 3 months ago
thank you Michael, i literally watched this video, took your quiz then read and practiced steps one and two on your website, and in less than thirty minutes i was over my break up and literally happy again. i am a logical and rational thinker so i guess teats what helped me to move on also, an emotional person would take a bit longer, but your advice is AMAZING seriously you are a genius. :)
meadpro 5 months ago
this video just made me cry shit loads.
alicegreycollins 5 months ago
2:58 i just started crying.........
AdonayFloresLaMota 5 months ago
my main tactic to get over a breakup is to start building confidence. once you do that you can tell yourself "damn he(or)she wasnt even good enough for me, my standards are higher" once you do that your ex will eventually see your new found confidence once they see this (confidence is a turn on btw) theyll be wanting you back, thats when you tell them to fuck off and walk away. it works.
imperfection32 5 months ago
the best way to forget an ex is to buy (if your money can buy)is a motorcycle or a sports car ....whenever i felt like shit i.went out just for.the heck of it and start speeding on the roads in low populated areas
L4TIn0St4NdUp 5 months ago
I've known this guy for a very long time we had been dating for 2 months then he leaves me for this girl he only knew for 2 days. When we were together he never really told anyone anything, if they asked if he hada girl he said he loved me, now he talks on and on about his new gf and posts pictures of them online. He never was that serious about us..
SuperHersheyLover 5 months ago
@SuperHersheyLover I know how you feel I have been dating this girl for 4 years and she was my everything and I mean my everything.. We used to do everything together and everyone at school likes her like everyone but I had her for 4 years and the night before she left me we were at a football game and we were laughing and kissing and everything and then the next day for no reason she doesn't even know why she just says I need to be single idk but i need too and now Im hurting :/ its life...
tessaro1 5 months ago
was with my ex 5 yrs been split up awhile now and all i ever do in spear time is think about her woundering if she ever misses me she broke up with me because she never loved me just saw me as a friend in the end now feel not just heart broken but i feel ive wasted my love on some one who didnt feel same 5 long yrs but i guess my love wasnt enuff makes me think would be be enuff for someone else =(
TheDeabz 5 months ago
@TheDeabz well i wasted nine years and much of my youth. Got dumped on a saturday morning. Now she's seem to have met another guy. That's wasting.
swedo88 5 months ago
me and my gf broke up 3 months ago and it still killing me....i tryed so hard to get her back...she acted like she wanted me back and then she got with another guy...i called her the day after and she told me she didnt love me and she never wanted to tlk to me again....please help me....help me forget this...
steveharry76 5 months ago
@steveharry76 i no exactly how u feel my ex gf of 4 years just finished with me on a sat morning just out of the blue just like that and was with her new guy that same afternoon i tried more than everything to get her back she was all i lived for and still do i carnt get her out of my head no matter how hard i try and hardist thing ever is that she hates me and does not want anything ever to do with me ever again and i was so nice to her and bought her everything i dont want to carry on living.
1980sas1 5 months ago
Me:Taylor,what's going on why are you ignoring me?
Taylor:I don't know
Me:is this some mood your in or do you not love me anymore
Taylor:I'm sorry
Me: are you really doing this?
Taylor:I'm so so sorry James
•she walks away•
Me:why?
•she keeps on walking•
Please help me get this out of my head
jmo1234m 5 months ago
Oh my God it hurts!! This sucks!!
saintsinner72 5 months ago
Yeah, but what if it's been 8 whole months since breakup? :/ that's a bit different
domdabom27 5 months ago
I just want to say I remember when I first watched this and everything he says at first was so true. I was a mess.. looking up how to get over someone on youtube was a prime example of this. BUT it does get better. It's been two months and it still hurts but the pain is so severe. Just know that the pain will go away. It really will.. so keep holding on. And know that someone out there does love you.
areyou0988 5 months ago
Don't know what to tell y'all BUT if you happen to have money, you can buy off your unhappiness...think about it ;) I knew what to do
TheEtoileNoire 6 months ago
from her in 3 weeks and ive lost 15 pounds because i cant eat i cant sleep all i do is think about her and replay the scerino in my head to the point where i think im losing it i dont know what to do i feel like i cant breath without her how can she throw away all them years like they never happend everything reminds me of her we lived together for five years and i way so happy when we got back together and engaged but now thats all over even if i want her back her i know i can never trust her
rtb954 6 months ago
she was not there her boss said she did not have to work today and after i droped her off she was just hanging out at the bar with some guy and then left with him so i waited there at the restaurant for her to show up because we shared a phone and i know she had to call from the restaurant when it was time for her to get off work and then i saw her pull up in some guys car then i confronted her and all she said was i dont want to hurt you know more and then she moved out again i havent heard
rtb954 6 months ago
I was living with the love of my life for five years and about 5 months ago we seperated because i saw some texts on her phone then she came back a month later and she said she made a mistake and she could not live without me even though i told her i have trust issues with her i took her back and things were better than they ever were we started going out more together she was way more affectionate then she ever was so we got engaged then about 3 weeks ago i was picking her up from work and
rtb954 6 months ago <