I can tell you preachers are not dropped out of heaven. Humans preach. Don't be surprised when we sin. Also don't judge. To me this woman is the manifestation of why Satan goes after preachers so hard. Because when he gets the preacher he also gets others to sin by being vain enough to judge the preacher as if they are God. When we judge we use time that could be used praying for that person. There is absolutely no blessing in what this woman is doing. He will pay for his sins and so will she.
You would be better received if you would present yourself better. Be full face view. Stop rolling the eyes upward. Shows dishonest nature. Stop clearing your throat. once again, shows dishonest nature. Be to the point. Stop the B/S.
@OthelloCarmellow Everyone is a hypocrite. It's sad that 95% of church going self professed christians are living lives that give a black eye to christianity. If I were you and saw all of the hypocrisy in this world it would turn me against God too. Don't put to much stock in people though. Everybody sins. Put your stock in God. He is very real and he will give freely blessings to those who trust and choose to follow him. Jesus Loves you and that is truth. Right where you are.
every one was not born with the god grace and nature's grace of good qualities and the good fate to have good inteligence ,good qualities ,good wisdom ,and circuimstances not to commit ever any mistakes or sins
somewhere weve lost the fear of God. (adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God) My calvinistic pastor teaches from the pulpit that God allows us to sin.Because of his view of sovereignty he preaches that whereever you are is where God wants you to be and has planned it so.
@fish5133 The teaching you received is what happens under law. Study to show yourself approved, rightly dividing the Word of Truth. The dividing point is the Cross. Before the cross, we had to follow every point of the law to be saved (can't do bad and be saved). No one has been able to do that other than Jesus.God loves us and sent Jesus to pay the price of sin (death) for us. So now the ONLY thing we must do is CHOOSE LIFE. By faith are we saved, not works. So even the adulter can be saved.
@fish5133 Many preachers fear teaching Grace.They think that Christians will have the liberty to sin,not come to church,or give their tithe.So for the pastor/priest to keep their flock in their power,they mix law and Grace.You must DO something good in order to stay saved. (Keep coming for confession/walk the isle) People would be in bondage to the pastor.Grace has freed us from that bondage.The“law” is no longer written on stone,but in our hearts.Through Christ grace,we are no longer in bondage
@andersonbnb . No problem with your reply. Quite agree. I know i am saved by Grace and not of works. I asked my pastor if a christian falls and commits adultery is he an adulterer- his reply was no--he would have to commit adltery several times to be an adulterer.! For believers struggling with a sin that besets them to hear from the pulpit that sort of thing can result in them giving up the battle. Then the pastor throws the guilt trip and says well they probably arent saved in the first place
@fish5133 Wow! It seems your pastor needs to study a little more. Even though a Christian is saved after sinning, he still must face the consequences of his action. Yes, society requires the criminal to face jail time, no matter the criminal's relationshiup to God. David had to contend with a disfuctional family life. Jesus gave us two new commandments; To Love God, AND to love our neighbor. We should strive to keep both. God Bless!
Jesus said you commit adultery if you just look at a woman lustfully. My advice to you would be to READ and STUDY your Bible every day for yourself - and leave the baptist church and find a good non-denominational Bible believing church. "Once saved always saved" is a lie from the very pit of hell.
I'm always amazed to see how people can completely ignore all the warnings that God has given us in His Word and believe in a "promise" that is NOT anywhere in scripture. Do you know that God will hold you accountable for every soul that falls into hell because of your false teaching?
@edadan2009 What are you trying to say that is false teaching. She is merely saying were all human and sin everyday. As a christian man I agree with her. Pastors are human just like their congregates. It's sad because Pastor's are held to a higher degree of accountability. The best thing we can do is pray for our pastors. This will help keep them from destroying their witness. My former pastor left our church but I know he loves his wife. He can still cheat. It's called sin.
@edadan2009 Are you pentecostal. I am here to tell you that it is a twisting and smattering of scriptures put together and led by the devil who is the father of lies to concoct a lie in humans heads that you can lose your salvation. How do you lose something that can't be earned. God's saved me by Grace through Faith. No man and nothing external can take my soul from my father's hand. ABBA! Daddy!
It doesn't matter how much of a freak a woman is in her marriage because some men just cheat no matter how much sex they get from their wives. I think it may be the thrill of the chase, variety, or just because they can get away with it. Just like the sistah said "there is no reason" so I suggest not to try to figure it out once you learn your man is cheating. Leave him and go about your business with God. Life is too short for this crap.
Sister, My wife experienced what you described here. It took many years before she was able to trust me to even walk into the back yard alone. She always compared my actions to his. We have been married 30 years and have a very strong marriage. Your message is good for many.
If I could add to it I would say to all wives: it is ok to require honesty in your marriage and to not become mad or upset if he complies. It fosters trust in him to be honest with you.
....Contued from below: Anyone who is not cloaked and covered by the spirit of God is just as vunerable as everybody else!!. Satan was around before man was created, he knows all mens weakneses better than they do!! and he will keep on feeding man with temptation. The Key to overcome is in the scriptures
A Man of God, is a man first and foremost before being of God!!!, You cannot resist temptation ousite the annoiting with your natural man, this is why pastors always need to cross examine themselves continually to make sure they are free from sin and are clocked in the spirit of God.
@uraniumnostrils You'd never get my booty, Pig! I'd lure ya and dump you in a NY second. I guess some women should know not to rush in, since there's guys like you out there! YUCK!!!
Being a Christian, pastor or layman, does not make you a sinless person. God knows that it is impossible for us to follow 10 simple rules. That is why we have the Good News that Jesus forgave us and paid for our sins at the cross two thousand years ago. None of us are perfect...Just forgiven, (even the unsaved are forgiven and the sin debt has been paid in full), and if we choose to believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord, we are saved, no matter how terrible the sin is that we do. God is Love.
@andersonbnb Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but you can loose your salvation!! very easily!!!, please reesearch this, it is important. Their is only one way to overcome temptation 1 Corithians 3:16, get him to dwell in you and guide you and fight on your behalf!!, 1st baptism with water, 2nd with the Holy Spirit (Luke 3:16), please look into this. God bless you.
@jollygooddude Sorry it is impossible to lose salvation just from committing a sin. The ONLY unforgivable sin is blasphemy. Blasphemy is saying no to God as Lord. Check out where Paul said that NOTHING can separate us from the love of God. To teach that anyone can lose salvation makes God a liar. Because the wages of sin is death, in order to be re-saved Christ would have to be crucified again. That is not going to happen. He paid for ALL sin at that time. Jesus said it, that settles it.
@andersonbnb “For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit, and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come, if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance........(Hebrews 6:4-8), (Hebrews 10 26-30).
To fall away is to commit a deep Sin like Kill, Rape,it is to Sin willfully nowing it deeply grieves God (2 Peter 2:20)
@jollygooddude I agree with the Scripture. It is impossible for the saved to be saved again. There is no need, or way to be re-saved. Once is enough. Jesus said " It is finished." I belive it.
@Jollygooddude You are mixing law and grace. If you want to be saved by the law, you must follow all ten commandments. No sin is deeper than another. Break one, you break them all. It is impossible for us to follow the law, because we are not perfect. Jesus released us from the law. Where there is no law, there is no sin. We call this Grace. We are saved by Grace, not by works (trying to follow the law). We no longer are bound by the law. We are saved, and secure in Jesus' Word.
@jollygooddude Continuing my thought... David commited adultry with Bathsheba. He even had her husband killed. David did not loose his salvation. It does not mean David was right by man's standards, but he was still a child of God, no matter what he did. Being saved is forever.
@andersonbnb God himself made a personal convenant wth King David. Their is no such thing as salvation in the Old Testament!!!!!, they were refered to as Gods people! and it was of a time when the Holy Spirit was not given to us! then the Word came as our Lord Jesus(To bring Salvation) & to redeem us back to God, so that we might dwell wth him in heaven. The Bible says .(Hebrews 6:4-8), (Hebrews 10 26-30). It appears you refuse to accept what is written, it is in the Bible!!!.
@jollygooddude ...faith was reckoned to Abraham for righteousness (Romans) Jesus met with Moses and Elias (Matt). So there was salvation before Jesus died. What was it? It was the promise (Faith) of Jesus dying on the cross. They looked forward to it. We look back to it. We all are save by faith. There is no foundation to you saying I don’t accept the Word of God. The Israelites were "chosen" to evangelize, not keep God to themselves, nor, that they all would be saved without faith.
@jollygooddude It was Samuel that anointed David. David was anointed for a political position. It had nothing to do with salvation. David’s love for and faith in God is what brought him to salvation. After David’s repented of his sin, did he ask God to restore the joy of Thy salvation. (salvation was know in his time.)
@jollygooddude Your are misreading the passage in Hebrews. If you would keep it in context (read the Book) Paul is saying that there is nothing more needed for a saved person to do, after committing sin, to restore his salvation. He never lost it. Don’t feel bad about it. Many people have misread that passage. You only need to be saved once. Thee is nothing you can do to lose salvation.
@andersonbnb It is important to get this right!!, " if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for themselves the Son of God, and put Him to an open shame...........but if it bears thorns and briers, it is rejected and near to being cursed, whose end is to be burned.” (Hebrews 6:4-8) and you think I misread this!!!, how many ways are their to understand this????
@jollygooddude Let me re-word the Hebrew passage...Hay Christian, you sure are lucky to be saved!! Under the law you would be toast! Paul compared "law" and "grace" throughout his letters. As in last will and tesiaments, the New Testament of the Bible has authoity over the old Testament. Am I in the "will" of God? You bet!! The Testaments of God, New and Old are Jesus's last will and testament. In order to be in force, He had to die.
Good grief! Does anyone commenting here know God's Word? God is Holy and Righteous and will not tolerate your willful sin. You are badly mistaken. Please read and study your Bible every day - it holds the keys to eternal life.
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pfft, touch not my anointed? Anointed to do what? Be a whore?
I do not know what really happened but I do not care who you are (this includes the judges, police officers, popes, kings, queens, government, men and women), we are ALL held accountable for we do unto others.
@carlabellis TRUE HOWEVER!!!--God uses people ACCORDING TO THEIR OWN HEARTS. Jesus had to be betrayed. He did not MAKE Judas betray him. He knew Judas's heart was after money regardless of the love He showed him and knew Judas would not repent or change so He used Judas according to what was in his heart to get his plan accomplished. He would not have used Judas that way if Judas' heart was not that way. he uses all of us according to what is in our heart. God knows us before we are even born.
@MissEternalKiss Sorry this is such a late post but I hope that you have forgiven him and DROPPED HIM! If he's doing that before you even marry what other warning do you need. it will only get worse after marriage.
I'm pressed for time but here's a quick comment. 1.LADIES: strong men of the Bible have succumbed. Even angels of God lost out because they wanted women (Gen 6:1-7 and their punishment Jude 6:6). You have a powerful effect on men so carry yourselves respectfully. 2.MEN realize this and stop acting like it ain't so. You have no business acting or being in situations that are conducive to sin. This comment section is too short. Will post a video response to this shortly. Men it's on you to stand.
Amen, there is no reason they just do it because they want to do it. Even if you were the most perfect woman/man on earth to your spouse....they still might cheat on you. People do stuff because they want to, it has nothing to do with what someone do or say. Your actions dont justify no one else actions. I hear you
If a man is going to cheat, a man is going to cheat.
Pastor, or not.
I believe most people go into the religion "business" just for all the popularity, benefits, and everything else a " holy " man gets.
I believe the world has lost its spirituality because there is too much negativity in the world, too many people possessed with greed and untrue intentions. You do speak the truth but it doesn't mean everyone will cheat. I wish you the best and for you to find happiness.
If a man is going to cheat, a man is going to cheat.
Pastor, or not.
I believe most people don't go into the religion business just for all the popularity, benefits, and everything else a " holy " man gets.
I believe the world has lost its spirituality because there is too much negativity in the world, too many people possessed with greed and untrue intentions. You do speak the truth but it doesn't mean everyone will cheat. I wish you the best and for you to find happiness.
Get A Life....why don't you fast AND pray for those lost individuals instead of trying to dog them out...it's obviously you are still hurt by what has happened to you and you are secretly getting revenge by exposing your ex husband.....you need to repent for that!
seems like you didn't have what it takes to keep your man.......why do men cheat? I have 8 brothers and they say men cheat because of the woman they're with causes them too.soooooooooo examine yourself!
JUST BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND CHEATED DOES NOT DIMINISH THE GOODNESS & PURENESS OF GOD. YOU SHOULD BE VERY AFRAID TO USE THIS AS A PLATFORM FOR YOUR PERSONAL LIFE! GOD'S PERFECTION DOES NOT DEPEND ON MEN (OR WOMEN).
and the women who have sexual relations with other women husbands in the church is not daughters of god they are mostly women that hangs around the church every day and on sundays trying to prostitute themselves to pay there bills or keep the men in the church for the pastors some children have no idea why they mothers neglect them and always at the church
when a man says he is a man of god but will not obey the words of god how jesussaid a man that is following him should treat his wife they they are not operate ing in the will of god words and he need to remove himself out of the pulpit and take his disobeying hands of the bible because satan has already claimed him and he is obeying satan
Please DO figure it out, ladies. The modern “pastor” is an OT anachronistic construct (i.e., priest) Jesus called “adulterous” (Mt 12:39). Where the Bible tells men to speak, “pastors” tell men to be silent & where women are to be silent, “pastors” tell then to speak (1 Cor 14:26ff). This is the 2-fold sin of David – murder men/manhood and seduce women with feminism. Emotional adultery leads to sexual adultery & “pastors” have plenty of opportunity and inclination.
As a Christian man, father and husband, I find myself agreeing with you here. My old church closed down because pastor was out on the road cheating. Matter of fact, several of the ministers were living foul, myself included. I wasn't married at the time, but I was acting improperly with the sister I was seeing. God convicted me and I stepped down willingly out of respect. Now that God's blessed me with a wife, I'm trying to love her as God requires me to. Much Love.
@deek77 what u described unfortunately is more prevalent than not, thanku for yo honesty...but the truth of it is we humans have really made a mess of Gods Original Design
@deek77 Good for you. I wish more men would be honest and feel convicted. I ran with a pastor before I was married (I did not attend his church). I understand God forgives, but the Pastor should not be unfaithful and have the best weed in the bay.
@deek77 Good for you. I wish more men would be honest and feel convicted. I ran with a pastor before I was married (I did not attend his church). I understand God forgives, but the Pastor should not be unfaithful and have the best weed in the bay.
1Co 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
@pastorsexwife ... um what? I do apologize for trying to define the difference between a loving christian husband & the man you described here. I am not sure why you felt the need to try be foul.
You could judge every preacher by the actions of one man but that would be as fair as everyone judging you based on the action of the woman he cheated w/ solely because you are a woman too. I do know what its like to be hurt but spending this much effort on him just allows him to stay in your life.
1st i respect ur opinion that men dont have to have a reason to cheat, neither do woman. iv cheated and been cheated on. it hurt when cheated and i asked what didnt i do. and when i cheated it wasnt what she didnt do it was about what it wanted. truthfully i dnt think ill ever want only 1 woman, and dont think im alone in feeling that way. nature shows man how to live, we teach ourselve how we think we shld live, i will follow nature. re examine natural relationships
Keep telling it Baby! Im a Brother and I support you 400%. You bothers talking about I made a mistake is full of it. You made a decision not a mistake. Keep telling it Baby!
I think there is a connection between a theology that liberates and actions that go accordingly.
Whats the point? Sister, i'm sorry for jerk...cheating, lying men. Preachers are totally depraved, too. Jesus does renew all things though... Be well, and seek healing.
Anyboby in there right mind know that these preachers are skunks. They are a bunch of money hungry sex addicts. God did not call these insecure cowards.
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not be hurt to the extend of turning to a judge.Think about what you did not do when you were married,Pastor a human beings like you.You will always be hurt Get out of your rebellious attitude and let God take care of the rest.You are not helping any woman going thru this cos you dont know there stories.i pray God give you more wisdom life.snap out of your hurt and stop blackmailing the men of God.only God knows ALL
@TheSamuel121 she's not calling out any particular man for their sin...just the act of sin. If the shoe doesn't fit, it doesn't apply to you. Are your feet hurting?
woman the bible says let the good and the bad grow and when Jesus come back there will be separation,the word of the lord said again touch not my anointed do my prophet no arm,you are placing a very big curse on your life,you need to dissolve your organization and get out of you past,move on with your life,face God so he can put a smile on your face.You sound like a very hurt woman.When you were married to the pastor if you had done what the bible had told you to do to support i believe u will
@TheSamuel121 here u go with the touch not......which i have not...its just the truth and for you to say im not helping women is a broad statement dont u think?.....untrue also....sorry to dissappoint you
People as HUMANS make mistakes. Divorce was given for the hardness of Hearts. So if a man of God as a human...again step out of the path of righteousness and walks in the ways of darkness that is between him and God. Do you know the bible says even when we talk about the sins of our pastors we still error. It's still abomination to decuss it. So in love sister be careful what you say. Memories of past carry strong emotions. God Bless you!
@pholmesj79 u r right pastors are humans....but i home in a lot on the fact that many many many are going under the guise of a Pastor and God never called them to that position...i understand the word of God and the do's and don'ts please dont misunderstand my message..what i said in the vid is absolutely the TRUTH
I agree with your point of pastors being just as susceptible to temptation. However, I disagree with your belief that there doesn't have to be a reason. Transgressors don't have to reveal reasons or maybe haven't analyzed their reasons. But there is ALWAYS a motivation behind ANY behavior whether it be cheating, molesting, abusing, etc. Very sorry you got hurt, you clearly deserve better. Thanks for trying to help people.
I was just commenting on that very issue. people thing because you marry a man and try to change him into something he will never be, reason being he is a serpent and you can not change a serpent, they are poisons, people need to know who the serpents are.
People don't need a reason to do bad things but they have a choice. Both men and women. There is a reason though! The reason is that satan puts it in the heart and people choose to give in to sin. satan's plan is to destroy marriages and destroy man and women of God.
If a man or woman remains in Christ and the man or women gives all of them to their husband or wife, since they are strong both in faith and in relationship, they do not fall. There was an open door! Think about what door that was.
People put too much faith in people who claim to be a 'man/woman of God' Anyone can go around saying they are the chosen one but it has nothing to do with what you say and how much you go to church. I have mostly found that the people who attend church the most and constantly preach about it are the most hypocritical.
Cheat, do u really care, it sux if u knew that person for a long time, but dont care wht kind of title a person has, if they tired of u, they might chose to cheat, duh. Also move on, why do lady stress Cheating, smh
Here is the double edged sword for the"Saints" because first there are many who are in positions of "PASTORS" who haven`t been called to that office, in fact more than a few couldn`t pastorize milk, never mind trying to be a pastor of the body of Christ! Guess what though, it`s our responsibility to read, study and discern the word of God for ourselves. Of course the Devil wants to bring down the men and women of God, so pray for all pastors, but be responsible for your own relationship w/God!!
Not only does his being a preacher not guarantee his marital fidelity, but in fine point of fact, his entering "Clergyman" on his 1040 in no way guarantees his being a genuine man of God. Jesus Himself took time warn us of all the "wolves in sheep's clothing" we would be running into.
@pastorsexwife you want a pitty party Mrs lady learn to take things to God and leave them there... Man of the cloth or not he is still a Man, no im not saying that it right but come on your Messy... God is the only perfect one every one knows that... SMh DID YOU REALLY NEED TO PUT THIS ON YOU TUBE? YOU NEED A HUG.. LMHO
what are you talking about? you are not making any points for people to away ... cheating is not acceptable regardless of what the wife or husband is not doing be in bed, kitchen, finances whatever area...
Um...miss if your husband was a man of God then he SHOULDN'T be cheating on you. If he really is then I suggest he quit preaching because preachers are supposed to follow the Bible that doesn't mean their perfect but it means they don't cheat or steal or kill etc. Preachers are supposed to be a role model and what is cheating showing the people that look up to him.
@RealTalkerMan sir first of all I am not deluded thank you very much I don't mean to mislead the mind or judgement I am just stating as I believe as you have done towards me second of all let me tell you something mister I ain't Religious I'm AM HOLY GHOST SAVED and yes some 'religious' people are hypocritical but as for me and I know that you probably aren't going to believe this I am not and You mister need to get SAVED by the Loving Grace of God or else you will go to Hell Read Romans KJV
I like you!! I believe that you were exposed to alot cause you wit it! Not wit the BS but just wit it and people like you, people are comfortable with exposing stuff to, Its really because they want you to be involved. Thats how it on the streets so I'm sure it's in the church to. Ladies please because your man is a pastor or deacon don't mean he has a reason for cheating. I see y'all put too much on your MAN in the church just like we do on the streets. Same Thang. Sisters
Again I realize there is great hurt and pain and disappointment, but who among us can cast stones at someone else’s sin having been without sin right now? That may be a strong way to phrase not knowing how you feel inside, but I can only say that the same compassion that Christ had mercy on for us, the same we should show to others, even those committing the worst sins by our measures.
As with the boy considered a lunatick or even those in Matthew 4:24 who were possessed, we must take them to Jesus, many time in prayer versus condemning them. While we must call out the wrong sometimes, we must not lack the compassion Christ had to see them delivered. Sometimes our hurt and pain and anger overshadows the way that we should pray, in that we push the plates away from long periods of time and pray continually if we ourselves are in right standing and can be heard.
I dont disagree with you, such is a spirit of possession by the enemy, just as with spirits of lying, lust, etc. However, just as with the man who had a son possessed by an evil spirit in Matthew 17:15-18, some conditions require prayer, intercession, and exocism of the demon. While there are casulaties in this Spiritual war that sometimes spill over into the natural and cause hurt and grief to others, still it is a soul not to be abandoned.
My apologies for just now writing: you said "one must forgive true that....now whats yo point....men cheat for the most part and stop only because they got caught......right? not because they are sorry " Interesting considering that we have numerous biblical accounts of people coming to Christ in repentance because they recognized their fall and failures. To say they only stop because they got is not 100% right. Some actually do repent out of a contrite /broken heart (Psalms 51:17)
@jlc4christ some do...for the most part when cheating comes out or molestation or incest its been going on for years and they got caught and its not that they are even going to stop now its that they are going to be more careful the next time....i speak the truth
Im sorry? look i dont have any idea what your saying. you seem to be interchanging through the subject. you dont pause in between sentences your subjects you just blather on and on and i think you should stop.
@pastorsexwife they're probably people who want actual advice about their cheating spouses, but instead you provide them with constant chatter about your awful husband.
Let God be true and every man a liar. Years ago I remember asking my father why does it seem like no one actually fears God. Why does man lack the understanding that is necessary to follow Christ? Daddy knew he could take me to the scriptures, yet he chose to tell me, "Until man sees every aspect of his life the way God sees it, then he really doesn't see at all. There are no layman terms when viewing God and His commandments. Blind eyes cannot see no matter how much light is shined in them.
A man of the cloth is not necessarily a man that fears God. They do not cheat. They are committing adultery. Call a spade a spade. Our society has pacified the henious sins of the world i.e., Sodimites are called Gays, Adultery is called Cheating, Fornicating is called Cheating; actually only a married person can "cheat" single people committed fornication WHICH GOD WILL JUDGE!!!
Preachers are flesh and sometimes sin. Is cheater a worse sin then wearing a tatoo or other stuff that u may be doing. Sometimes the wives help them cheat by running them to the other women. still no excuse. All sin will be judged
@kbkcogic I dont consider tatts a sin...we are so simple when it comes to scriptures we take scriptures and make another rule with them...i.e. lev.28 with regard to the cutting of the flesh then it symbolized paganism...my tatts do not end of story
You are absolutely right. It does not matter if a man is a man of the cloth or a thug...they CHEAT and they don't need a reason to do so. Trust me...I'm speaking from experience.
In the apostolic church structure, the pastor is considered to be the one with the vision. Like they are the one that hears from God and leads the church in a certain direction. In many cases, it seems they are considered more "discerning" or "right" because of their position. Some churches with this structure have boards and elders and overheads to share the power and keep accountability. Others do not. Either way, the pastor is not any more "arrived" than the rest of us
I agree. In many Christian circles, the pastor or the role of a pastor can be an idol. Charisma (who they appear to be to the public) can be valued over character (who they really are behind closed doors). Pride is a huge temptation, and one is at risk if they do not have the calling (and therefore grace) to be in a role of such power and influence. It can also be a temptation for some who might not have a secure identity in God, like they can lust after power and image.
I can relate to some of what you share. My husband isn't "of the cloth" nor has he cheated on me, but i was traumatised by an experience in a destructive group where there was this power given to the leaders that belongs to God. It was said that they were "prayed into their positions", therefore they were "ordained godly authority". The consequence in summary was that they could not be wrong. Very very dangerous territory the day a Christian forgets they are a sinner in need of God's grace.
Yes, we the brotherhood of the Christian community owe justice, compassion, n protection to the victims of these abusive n exploitive practices. We owe them more than our prayers, our shallow pseudo-Christian cliches, n our tendency to blame the victims while excusing n ignoring the abusive n exploitive behaviors n practices of misguided leaders.Our silence n inaction is just as destructive as the above mentioned behaviors, it also emboldens the abuser as being untouchable. May God help us all
The power structures of the Christian community must begin to address the issues of sexual immorality that are coupled with sexual n verbal abuse n the misuse of pastoral n Christian authority . The Christian community must confront these abusers with the explicit n practical principles of scripture that denounces these abusive practices regardless of the perpetrators.The congregants of our Christian communities deserve the justice n freedom of God be practiced by all Christian communities.
Finally ppl cheat, disegard marriage vowels, exploit, n manipulate ppl for different reasons. Some believe their position allows them to exploit for personal gratification. Some because of emotional insecurities n other personal struggles. The societal definition of masculinty exists in the church despite a call to adhere n practice the doctrine of personal responsibility. The church must address this issue practically to prevent future exploitive practices from destroying our congregants.
How do we reconcile the inconsistencies of christian walk with our dogma, doctrines, n the spoken word of God. Throughout biblical n church history we see inconsistencies with the christian walk n God's ideal n expectation for humanity. Despite these issues God still calls us to be transformed daily by biblical balanced living. To often marriages n relationships are based on the shallowness of emotion instead of developing people holistically to deal n reconcile the challenges of marriage.
The body of Christ has wrestled with this question of sexual inmorality throughout the history of time. So being a preacher doesn't exempt you from participating in sexual inmorality. The Christian community must begin to address these issues by challenging the power structures of our churches that allows the leadership of the church to exploit thier congregants for their own fleshly gratification.Sometimes the leadership structures of the church mirror the same exploitive practices of society.
What makes the preacher/pastor/bishop different than the rest of humanity. The reality of this equation if u believe in the calling of God; is God call an imperfect human to preach a perfect gospel. This doesn't give anyone a license or permission to sin, offend the fellow believers by exploiting ppl for their sexual gratification. People will give into their temptations which r goverened by the desires of the flesh. Yes, the believer should consistently submit to be transformed by God daily.
@Peace5327 some christians might do hate but reals saints dont. We just stand on the Living word of God. If she was over her hurt why is she putting this on you tube "christian" woman dont do that.
was you doing what you was supposed to be doing as a wife? and was he Filled with a true and genuine HOLY GHOST? my pastor is a woman and her husband cheated on her and had another baby with the other woman BEFORE he got saved. She kept on serving God. and real pastors dont get divorced. Yea they can cheat, but that sumthing they want to do but if they want to stay with God, they Ask God and thier wives for forgiveness. and meanwhile while he was doing all that you should have been praying .
I would go a step further & say if your man is a preacher you have a HIGHER, near 100% chance to be cheated on. It's the forbidden fruit is sweeter thing I think.
@blackhumanity103 "God allowed"??? P-lease! God's will (if there is one) is one thing and convenience is another. A man of faith would call this blasphemy. I simply call it hypocrisy. Stop trying to sugarcoat that pill. It's as bitter as it comes.
Why has this video turned into a free for all to speak so harshly against another.There is sin in the world and the word tells us that there would be heirlings that would come and decieve but Jesus said His own know His voice and will not follow after another. When we as a people come to understand we a the church and not a building we will stop looking for the Messiah to be standing in a pulpit and realize He reigns in our hearts.
I previously left a comment 2 your video. I am saddened that you feel you must attack others only because they disagree with your views. I see a Sister in pain and anger has taken root in your heart. Anytime we make general statements about any one group shows our lack of maturity in that area. God is a loving and forgiving God. You must forgive this man that hurt you so you can accept the forgiveness He so freely will gift to you. Be blessed and I pray that there will be true healing.
@VictoriousFlood still it must be told to help others not to live a lifetime of pain rather recognize now...and please dont judge me when u dont know me...i have forgiven a long long time ago..but am compelled to tell
he was not a man of god you can be tempted but be able to surpass it
carmen3205 1 week ago
I can tell you preachers are not dropped out of heaven. Humans preach. Don't be surprised when we sin. Also don't judge. To me this woman is the manifestation of why Satan goes after preachers so hard. Because when he gets the preacher he also gets others to sin by being vain enough to judge the preacher as if they are God. When we judge we use time that could be used praying for that person. There is absolutely no blessing in what this woman is doing. He will pay for his sins and so will she.
mraims2plez 1 week ago
Prayingfor you that you have healed and your life is better now
HollyTNUSA 1 week ago
You would be better received if you would present yourself better. Be full face view. Stop rolling the eyes upward. Shows dishonest nature. Stop clearing your throat. once again, shows dishonest nature. Be to the point. Stop the B/S.
starr522 1 week ago
What do u want?
MrVideojag 1 week ago
thumps up...
glogaray2 2 weeks ago
Christian hypocrites? No way.
OthelloCarmellow 2 months ago
@OthelloCarmellow Everyone is a hypocrite. It's sad that 95% of church going self professed christians are living lives that give a black eye to christianity. If I were you and saw all of the hypocrisy in this world it would turn me against God too. Don't put to much stock in people though. Everybody sins. Put your stock in God. He is very real and he will give freely blessings to those who trust and choose to follow him. Jesus Loves you and that is truth. Right where you are.
duke4eva84 2 weeks ago
Christian hypocrites? No way.
OthelloCarmellow 2 months ago
every one was not born with the god grace and nature's grace of good qualities and the good fate to have good inteligence ,good qualities ,good wisdom ,and circuimstances not to commit ever any mistakes or sins
bgupta2001 3 months ago
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deborahknight20 3 months ago
somewhere weve lost the fear of God. (adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God) My calvinistic pastor teaches from the pulpit that God allows us to sin.Because of his view of sovereignty he preaches that whereever you are is where God wants you to be and has planned it so.
fish5133 3 months ago
@fish5133 The teaching you received is what happens under law. Study to show yourself approved, rightly dividing the Word of Truth. The dividing point is the Cross. Before the cross, we had to follow every point of the law to be saved (can't do bad and be saved). No one has been able to do that other than Jesus.God loves us and sent Jesus to pay the price of sin (death) for us. So now the ONLY thing we must do is CHOOSE LIFE. By faith are we saved, not works. So even the adulter can be saved.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@fish5133 Many preachers fear teaching Grace.They think that Christians will have the liberty to sin,not come to church,or give their tithe.So for the pastor/priest to keep their flock in their power,they mix law and Grace.You must DO something good in order to stay saved. (Keep coming for confession/walk the isle) People would be in bondage to the pastor.Grace has freed us from that bondage.The“law” is no longer written on stone,but in our hearts.Through Christ grace,we are no longer in bondage
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@andersonbnb . No problem with your reply. Quite agree. I know i am saved by Grace and not of works. I asked my pastor if a christian falls and commits adultery is he an adulterer- his reply was no--he would have to commit adltery several times to be an adulterer.! For believers struggling with a sin that besets them to hear from the pulpit that sort of thing can result in them giving up the battle. Then the pastor throws the guilt trip and says well they probably arent saved in the first place
fish5133 3 months ago
@fish5133 Wow! It seems your pastor needs to study a little more. Even though a Christian is saved after sinning, he still must face the consequences of his action. Yes, society requires the criminal to face jail time, no matter the criminal's relationshiup to God. David had to contend with a disfuctional family life. Jesus gave us two new commandments; To Love God, AND to love our neighbor. We should strive to keep both. God Bless!
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@fish5133
Jesus said you commit adultery if you just look at a woman lustfully. My advice to you would be to READ and STUDY your Bible every day for yourself - and leave the baptist church and find a good non-denominational Bible believing church. "Once saved always saved" is a lie from the very pit of hell.
edadan2009 2 months ago
@edadan2009 no its not a lie....Gods grace is even BIGGER than even u no
pastorsexwife 2 months ago
@pastorsexwife
I'm always amazed to see how people can completely ignore all the warnings that God has given us in His Word and believe in a "promise" that is NOT anywhere in scripture. Do you know that God will hold you accountable for every soul that falls into hell because of your false teaching?
edadan2009 2 months ago
@edadan2009 What are you trying to say that is false teaching. She is merely saying were all human and sin everyday. As a christian man I agree with her. Pastors are human just like their congregates. It's sad because Pastor's are held to a higher degree of accountability. The best thing we can do is pray for our pastors. This will help keep them from destroying their witness. My former pastor left our church but I know he loves his wife. He can still cheat. It's called sin.
duke4eva84 2 weeks ago
@edadan2009 Are you pentecostal. I am here to tell you that it is a twisting and smattering of scriptures put together and led by the devil who is the father of lies to concoct a lie in humans heads that you can lose your salvation. How do you lose something that can't be earned. God's saved me by Grace through Faith. No man and nothing external can take my soul from my father's hand. ABBA! Daddy!
duke4eva84 2 weeks ago
@duke4eva84 Unfortunately I have a close personal friend I love and care about very much who has fallen into this false teaching.
duke4eva84 2 weeks ago
@duke4eva84
God gave us a new and better covenant through Jesus Christ. Right?
So, I would like to start by having you tell me what a covenant is.
edadan2009 1 week ago
It doesn't matter how much of a freak a woman is in her marriage because some men just cheat no matter how much sex they get from their wives. I think it may be the thrill of the chase, variety, or just because they can get away with it. Just like the sistah said "there is no reason" so I suggest not to try to figure it out once you learn your man is cheating. Leave him and go about your business with God. Life is too short for this crap.
VIsidore 3 months ago
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andersonbnb 3 months ago
Sister, My wife experienced what you described here. It took many years before she was able to trust me to even walk into the back yard alone. She always compared my actions to his. We have been married 30 years and have a very strong marriage. Your message is good for many.
If I could add to it I would say to all wives: it is ok to require honesty in your marriage and to not become mad or upset if he complies. It fosters trust in him to be honest with you.
ronharveyII 3 months ago
pastorsexwife, i guess i read that wrong...
AnalEvisceration88 3 months ago
....Contued from below: Anyone who is not cloaked and covered by the spirit of God is just as vunerable as everybody else!!. Satan was around before man was created, he knows all mens weakneses better than they do!! and he will keep on feeding man with temptation. The Key to overcome is in the scriptures
jollygooddude 3 months ago
A Man of God, is a man first and foremost before being of God!!!, You cannot resist temptation ousite the annoiting with your natural man, this is why pastors always need to cross examine themselves continually to make sure they are free from sin and are clocked in the spirit of God.
jollygooddude 3 months ago
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katieandellie2011 3 months ago
You deserve better anyway, Pastor's ex!!
womanwonder10 3 months ago
@uraniumnostrils You'd never get my booty, Pig! I'd lure ya and dump you in a NY second. I guess some women should know not to rush in, since there's guys like you out there! YUCK!!!
womanwonder10 3 months ago
I'll cheat on anyone. why? Because all booty gets boring to me after 3 months.
uraniumnostrils 4 months ago
what man don't!!!!
bling1999 4 months ago
Being a Christian, pastor or layman, does not make you a sinless person. God knows that it is impossible for us to follow 10 simple rules. That is why we have the Good News that Jesus forgave us and paid for our sins at the cross two thousand years ago. None of us are perfect...Just forgiven, (even the unsaved are forgiven and the sin debt has been paid in full), and if we choose to believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord, we are saved, no matter how terrible the sin is that we do. God is Love.
andersonbnb 4 months ago
@andersonbnb That is so true, God is love
SkateBoardTARD 3 months ago
@andersonbnb Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but you can loose your salvation!! very easily!!!, please reesearch this, it is important. Their is only one way to overcome temptation 1 Corithians 3:16, get him to dwell in you and guide you and fight on your behalf!!, 1st baptism with water, 2nd with the Holy Spirit (Luke 3:16), please look into this. God bless you.
jollygooddude 3 months ago
@jollygooddude Sorry it is impossible to lose salvation just from committing a sin. The ONLY unforgivable sin is blasphemy. Blasphemy is saying no to God as Lord. Check out where Paul said that NOTHING can separate us from the love of God. To teach that anyone can lose salvation makes God a liar. Because the wages of sin is death, in order to be re-saved Christ would have to be crucified again. That is not going to happen. He paid for ALL sin at that time. Jesus said it, that settles it.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@andersonbnb “For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit, and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come, if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance........(Hebrews 6:4-8), (Hebrews 10 26-30).
To fall away is to commit a deep Sin like Kill, Rape,it is to Sin willfully nowing it deeply grieves God (2 Peter 2:20)
jollygooddude 3 months ago
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@jollygooddude I agree with the Scripture. It is impossible for the saved to be saved again. There is no need, or way to be re-saved. Once is enough. Jesus said " It is finished." I belive it.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@Jollygooddude You are mixing law and grace. If you want to be saved by the law, you must follow all ten commandments. No sin is deeper than another. Break one, you break them all. It is impossible for us to follow the law, because we are not perfect. Jesus released us from the law. Where there is no law, there is no sin. We call this Grace. We are saved by Grace, not by works (trying to follow the law). We no longer are bound by the law. We are saved, and secure in Jesus' Word.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@jollygooddude Continuing my thought... David commited adultry with Bathsheba. He even had her husband killed. David did not loose his salvation. It does not mean David was right by man's standards, but he was still a child of God, no matter what he did. Being saved is forever.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@andersonbnb God himself made a personal convenant wth King David. Their is no such thing as salvation in the Old Testament!!!!!, they were refered to as Gods people! and it was of a time when the Holy Spirit was not given to us! then the Word came as our Lord Jesus(To bring Salvation) & to redeem us back to God, so that we might dwell wth him in heaven. The Bible says .(Hebrews 6:4-8), (Hebrews 10 26-30). It appears you refuse to accept what is written, it is in the Bible!!!.
jollygooddude 3 months ago
@jollygooddude ...faith was reckoned to Abraham for righteousness (Romans) Jesus met with Moses and Elias (Matt). So there was salvation before Jesus died. What was it? It was the promise (Faith) of Jesus dying on the cross. They looked forward to it. We look back to it. We all are save by faith. There is no foundation to you saying I don’t accept the Word of God. The Israelites were "chosen" to evangelize, not keep God to themselves, nor, that they all would be saved without faith.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@jollygooddude It was Samuel that anointed David. David was anointed for a political position. It had nothing to do with salvation. David’s love for and faith in God is what brought him to salvation. After David’s repented of his sin, did he ask God to restore the joy of Thy salvation. (salvation was know in his time.)
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@jollygooddude Your are misreading the passage in Hebrews. If you would keep it in context (read the Book) Paul is saying that there is nothing more needed for a saved person to do, after committing sin, to restore his salvation. He never lost it. Don’t feel bad about it. Many people have misread that passage. You only need to be saved once. Thee is nothing you can do to lose salvation.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@andersonbnb It is important to get this right!!, " if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for themselves the Son of God, and put Him to an open shame...........but if it bears thorns and briers, it is rejected and near to being cursed, whose end is to be burned.” (Hebrews 6:4-8) and you think I misread this!!!, how many ways are their to understand this????
jollygooddude 3 months ago
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andersonbnb 3 months ago
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@jollygooddude Let me re-word the Hebrew passage...Hay Christian, you sure are lucky to be saved!! Under the law you would be toast! Paul compared "law" and "grace" throughout his letters. As in last will and tesiaments, the New Testament of the Bible has authoity over the old Testament. Am I in the "will" of God? You bet!! The Testaments of God, New and Old are Jesus's last will and testament. In order to be in force, He had to die.
andersonbnb 3 months ago
@andersonbnb
Good grief! Does anyone commenting here know God's Word? God is Holy and Righteous and will not tolerate your willful sin. You are badly mistaken. Please read and study your Bible every day - it holds the keys to eternal life.
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downyourtube 4 months ago
pfft, touch not my anointed? Anointed to do what? Be a whore?
I do not know what really happened but I do not care who you are (this includes the judges, police officers, popes, kings, queens, government, men and women), we are ALL held accountable for we do unto others.
amoredecoeur 4 months ago
shut the fuck up
Tickboxes 4 months ago
@carlabellis TRUE HOWEVER!!!--God uses people ACCORDING TO THEIR OWN HEARTS. Jesus had to be betrayed. He did not MAKE Judas betray him. He knew Judas's heart was after money regardless of the love He showed him and knew Judas would not repent or change so He used Judas according to what was in his heart to get his plan accomplished. He would not have used Judas that way if Judas' heart was not that way. he uses all of us according to what is in our heart. God knows us before we are even born.
megachews 4 months ago
@MissEternalKiss Sorry this is such a late post but I hope that you have forgiven him and DROPPED HIM! If he's doing that before you even marry what other warning do you need. it will only get worse after marriage.
megachews 4 months ago
I'm pressed for time but here's a quick comment. 1.LADIES: strong men of the Bible have succumbed. Even angels of God lost out because they wanted women (Gen 6:1-7 and their punishment Jude 6:6). You have a powerful effect on men so carry yourselves respectfully. 2.MEN realize this and stop acting like it ain't so. You have no business acting or being in situations that are conducive to sin. This comment section is too short. Will post a video response to this shortly. Men it's on you to stand.
megachews 4 months ago
Amen, there is no reason they just do it because they want to do it. Even if you were the most perfect woman/man on earth to your spouse....they still might cheat on you. People do stuff because they want to, it has nothing to do with what someone do or say. Your actions dont justify no one else actions. I hear you
realness25 4 months ago
Pastors are humans... They also need a place to bury their junk.. Deal with it!
Bestline7 4 months ago
@Bestline7 wrong!!! they are driven by lustful desires period, has nothing to do with
burying their junk or being human it's about making stupid choices
TheStrawbeery 4 months ago
I like how I hear your smoke alarm chirping LOL
mbsk3lton 4 months ago
man theses fake ass blackmen aint calld from god this christian shit isa way for them to gt money and pussy
MrDerrickgibbs 4 months ago
I agree with her.
If a man is going to cheat, a man is going to cheat.
Pastor, or not.
I believe most people go into the religion "business" just for all the popularity, benefits, and everything else a " holy " man gets.
I believe the world has lost its spirituality because there is too much negativity in the world, too many people possessed with greed and untrue intentions. You do speak the truth but it doesn't mean everyone will cheat. I wish you the best and for you to find happiness.
wissinator123 4 months ago
I agree with her.
If a man is going to cheat, a man is going to cheat.
Pastor, or not.
I believe most people don't go into the religion business just for all the popularity, benefits, and everything else a " holy " man gets.
I believe the world has lost its spirituality because there is too much negativity in the world, too many people possessed with greed and untrue intentions. You do speak the truth but it doesn't mean everyone will cheat. I wish you the best and for you to find happiness.
wissinator123 4 months ago
I agree you sound bitter and this does nothing for the edifying of the kingdom of god.
pookiejohnson1975 4 months ago
That beeping in the background? That yo fire alarm battery goin dead. Betta change it out for it get even more louda.
browneyedcarol 4 months ago
Get A Life....why don't you fast AND pray for those lost individuals instead of trying to dog them out...it's obviously you are still hurt by what has happened to you and you are secretly getting revenge by exposing your ex husband.....you need to repent for that!
mrsmable100 4 months ago
seems like you didn't have what it takes to keep your man.......why do men cheat? I have 8 brothers and they say men cheat because of the woman they're with causes them too.soooooooooo examine yourself!
mrsmable100 4 months ago
Don't cha know dat man be doin the Lords work servicing dim poor lonely Hos
luvchoclabs 4 months ago
JUST BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND CHEATED DOES NOT DIMINISH THE GOODNESS & PURENESS OF GOD. YOU SHOULD BE VERY AFRAID TO USE THIS AS A PLATFORM FOR YOUR PERSONAL LIFE! GOD'S PERFECTION DOES NOT DEPEND ON MEN (OR WOMEN).
girlblue4ever 4 months ago
Only person that every walked this earth sin free is Jesus. Enough said!
TheMsun4gettable 4 months ago
and the women who have sexual relations with other women husbands in the church is not daughters of god they are mostly women that hangs around the church every day and on sundays trying to prostitute themselves to pay there bills or keep the men in the church for the pastors some children have no idea why they mothers neglect them and always at the church
MRLANGFORD100 4 months ago
when a man says he is a man of god but will not obey the words of god how jesussaid a man that is following him should treat his wife they they are not operate ing in the will of god words and he need to remove himself out of the pulpit and take his disobeying hands of the bible because satan has already claimed him and he is obeying satan
MRLANGFORD100 4 months ago
Please DO figure it out, ladies. The modern “pastor” is an OT anachronistic construct (i.e., priest) Jesus called “adulterous” (Mt 12:39). Where the Bible tells men to speak, “pastors” tell men to be silent & where women are to be silent, “pastors” tell then to speak (1 Cor 14:26ff). This is the 2-fold sin of David – murder men/manhood and seduce women with feminism. Emotional adultery leads to sexual adultery & “pastors” have plenty of opportunity and inclination.
tjotwo 5 months ago
As a Christian man, father and husband, I find myself agreeing with you here. My old church closed down because pastor was out on the road cheating. Matter of fact, several of the ministers were living foul, myself included. I wasn't married at the time, but I was acting improperly with the sister I was seeing. God convicted me and I stepped down willingly out of respect. Now that God's blessed me with a wife, I'm trying to love her as God requires me to. Much Love.
deek77 5 months ago 7
@deek77 what u described unfortunately is more prevalent than not, thanku for yo honesty...but the truth of it is we humans have really made a mess of Gods Original Design
pastorsexwife 5 months ago 4
@deek77 Good for you. I wish more men would be honest and feel convicted. I ran with a pastor before I was married (I did not attend his church). I understand God forgives, but the Pastor should not be unfaithful and have the best weed in the bay.
tookuy 4 months ago
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@deek77 Good for you. I wish more men would be honest and feel convicted. I ran with a pastor before I was married (I did not attend his church). I understand God forgives, but the Pastor should not be unfaithful and have the best weed in the bay.
tookuy 4 months ago
@deek77 i cannot say you are wrong. lets continue to pray.
niceguystl 3 months ago
1Co 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
BlindLed 6 months ago
@pastorsexwife ... um what? I do apologize for trying to define the difference between a loving christian husband & the man you described here. I am not sure why you felt the need to try be foul.
You could judge every preacher by the actions of one man but that would be as fair as everyone judging you based on the action of the woman he cheated w/ solely because you are a woman too. I do know what its like to be hurt but spending this much effort on him just allows him to stay in your life.
tmomof6 6 months ago
@tmomof6 not being foul but what goes on in a lot of relationships is foul the world is a big orgy
pastorsexwife 6 months ago
1st i respect ur opinion that men dont have to have a reason to cheat, neither do woman. iv cheated and been cheated on. it hurt when cheated and i asked what didnt i do. and when i cheated it wasnt what she didnt do it was about what it wanted. truthfully i dnt think ill ever want only 1 woman, and dont think im alone in feeling that way. nature shows man how to live, we teach ourselve how we think we shld live, i will follow nature. re examine natural relationships
chacoal 6 months ago
Keep telling it Baby! Im a Brother and I support you 400%. You bothers talking about I made a mistake is full of it. You made a decision not a mistake. Keep telling it Baby!
andre12593 6 months ago
preach it sister. i'm a man and I gotta back you up.
YOU'RE ONLY SPEAKING THE TRUTH. listen to the real preacher speak!
14kinetik 6 months ago
I think there is a connection between a theology that liberates and actions that go accordingly.
Whats the point? Sister, i'm sorry for jerk...cheating, lying men. Preachers are totally depraved, too. Jesus does renew all things though... Be well, and seek healing.
timothybitz 7 months ago
Anyboby in there right mind know that these preachers are skunks. They are a bunch of money hungry sex addicts. God did not call these insecure cowards.
barmason3 8 months ago
JESUS BLESS YOU @ parplegal2B Let God be true and every man a liar. Years ago I remember asking my father why does it seem like no one actually fears God. Why does man lack the understanding that is necessary to follow Christ? Daddy knew he could take me to the scriptures, yet he chose to tell me, "Until man sees every aspect of his life the way God sees it, then he really doesn't see at all. There are no layman terms when viewing God and His commandments. Blind eyes cannot see<<< I LOVE U.....
joypeacelove81 8 months ago
not be hurt to the extend of turning to a judge.Think about what you did not do when you were married,Pastor a human beings like you.You will always be hurt Get out of your rebellious attitude and let God take care of the rest.You are not helping any woman going thru this cos you dont know there stories.i pray God give you more wisdom life.snap out of your hurt and stop blackmailing the men of God.only God knows ALL
TheSamuel121 8 months ago
@TheSamuel121 naw! u got it wrong....what i said in this video is the truth and i have not been hurt by a cheating husband...
pastorsexwife 8 months ago
@pastorsexwife -if so God bless you,and i pray that you continue in the "narrow and hard path" that leads to eternal life.Love and blessings
alrok777 8 months ago
@TheSamuel121 she's not calling out any particular man for their sin...just the act of sin. If the shoe doesn't fit, it doesn't apply to you. Are your feet hurting?
kaymara01 7 months ago
woman the bible says let the good and the bad grow and when Jesus come back there will be separation,the word of the lord said again touch not my anointed do my prophet no arm,you are placing a very big curse on your life,you need to dissolve your organization and get out of you past,move on with your life,face God so he can put a smile on your face.You sound like a very hurt woman.When you were married to the pastor if you had done what the bible had told you to do to support i believe u will
TheSamuel121 8 months ago
@TheSamuel121 here u go with the touch not......which i have not...its just the truth and for you to say im not helping women is a broad statement dont u think?.....untrue also....sorry to dissappoint you
pastorsexwife 8 months ago 2
I am listening to the things you are saying.
People as HUMANS make mistakes. Divorce was given for the hardness of Hearts. So if a man of God as a human...again step out of the path of righteousness and walks in the ways of darkness that is between him and God. Do you know the bible says even when we talk about the sins of our pastors we still error. It's still abomination to decuss it. So in love sister be careful what you say. Memories of past carry strong emotions. God Bless you!
pholmesj79 8 months ago
@pholmesj79 u r right pastors are humans....but i home in a lot on the fact that many many many are going under the guise of a Pastor and God never called them to that position...i understand the word of God and the do's and don'ts please dont misunderstand my message..what i said in the vid is absolutely the TRUTH
pastorsexwife 8 months ago
@pholmesj79 R u serious with this comment, that we cant talk about those devil worshipping preachers, CHILE BYE, ain't no such thing ,
TheMsRunRun 8 months ago
I agree with your point of pastors being just as susceptible to temptation. However, I disagree with your belief that there doesn't have to be a reason. Transgressors don't have to reveal reasons or maybe haven't analyzed their reasons. But there is ALWAYS a motivation behind ANY behavior whether it be cheating, molesting, abusing, etc. Very sorry you got hurt, you clearly deserve better. Thanks for trying to help people.
cricketecho 8 months ago
how the fuck did i got here? seriously
DieOrFail 8 months ago
pastor sex wife
couponville1 8 months ago
I was just commenting on that very issue. people thing because you marry a man and try to change him into something he will never be, reason being he is a serpent and you can not change a serpent, they are poisons, people need to know who the serpents are.
harold1973able 8 months ago
People don't need a reason to do bad things but they have a choice. Both men and women. There is a reason though! The reason is that satan puts it in the heart and people choose to give in to sin. satan's plan is to destroy marriages and destroy man and women of God.
If a man or woman remains in Christ and the man or women gives all of them to their husband or wife, since they are strong both in faith and in relationship, they do not fall. There was an open door! Think about what door that was.
jorgeediaz1 8 months ago
People put too much faith in people who claim to be a 'man/woman of God' Anyone can go around saying they are the chosen one but it has nothing to do with what you say and how much you go to church. I have mostly found that the people who attend church the most and constantly preach about it are the most hypocritical.
RealTalkerMan 8 months ago
Cheat, do u really care, it sux if u knew that person for a long time, but dont care wht kind of title a person has, if they tired of u, they might chose to cheat, duh. Also move on, why do lady stress Cheating, smh
korva044 9 months ago
Here is the double edged sword for the"Saints" because first there are many who are in positions of "PASTORS" who haven`t been called to that office, in fact more than a few couldn`t pastorize milk, never mind trying to be a pastor of the body of Christ! Guess what though, it`s our responsibility to read, study and discern the word of God for ourselves. Of course the Devil wants to bring down the men and women of God, so pray for all pastors, but be responsible for your own relationship w/God!!
777BossTown 10 months ago
Not only does his being a preacher not guarantee his marital fidelity, but in fine point of fact, his entering "Clergyman" on his 1040 in no way guarantees his being a genuine man of God. Jesus Himself took time warn us of all the "wolves in sheep's clothing" we would be running into.
Crowsnester1 10 months ago
Call me a cynic (about the sexually repressive nature of religion) but I would think a minister would be more likely to cheat rather than less.
105Mittens 10 months ago
@anacostia yea i made points u just missed them...sorry
pastorsexwife 10 months ago
@pastorsexwife you want a pitty party Mrs lady learn to take things to God and leave them there... Man of the cloth or not he is still a Man, no im not saying that it right but come on your Messy... God is the only perfect one every one knows that... SMh DID YOU REALLY NEED TO PUT THIS ON YOU TUBE? YOU NEED A HUG.. LMHO
Mr91199119 8 months ago
what are you talking about? you are not making any points for people to away ... cheating is not acceptable regardless of what the wife or husband is not doing be in bed, kitchen, finances whatever area...
anacostia73 10 months ago
@jermyfishbeck...u r a cheater...and u tell women to get over it ...the book u need to read is ALL MEN CHEAT including u
pastorsexwife 10 months ago
BITTER! Party of one, your table is ready! You need to focus elsewhere, there is a book called "radical" you should read. And get over it
jeremyfishbeck 10 months ago
Um...miss if your husband was a man of God then he SHOULDN'T be cheating on you. If he really is then I suggest he quit preaching because preachers are supposed to follow the Bible that doesn't mean their perfect but it means they don't cheat or steal or kill etc. Preachers are supposed to be a role model and what is cheating showing the people that look up to him.
TheChristiangirl777 10 months ago
@TheChristiangirl777 my xhusband did not cheat on me i never said that....peace
pastorsexwife 10 months ago
@TheChristiangirl777 You are deluded! Religious people are usually the most hypocritical!!!
RealTalkerMan 8 months ago
@RealTalkerMan sir first of all I am not deluded thank you very much I don't mean to mislead the mind or judgement I am just stating as I believe as you have done towards me second of all let me tell you something mister I ain't Religious I'm AM HOLY GHOST SAVED and yes some 'religious' people are hypocritical but as for me and I know that you probably aren't going to believe this I am not and You mister need to get SAVED by the Loving Grace of God or else you will go to Hell Read Romans KJV
TheChristiangirl777 8 months ago
@TheChristiangirl777 You proved my point with your last sentence. I repeat... You are delusional!! The Bible was written by MAN not GOD!!!! Wake up!
RealTalkerMan 8 months ago
@RealTalkerMan okay you want an about the Bible being written by man well here it is INSPIRED by GOD penned by man Praying for you
TheChristiangirl777 8 months ago
I like you!! I believe that you were exposed to alot cause you wit it! Not wit the BS but just wit it and people like you, people are comfortable with exposing stuff to, Its really because they want you to be involved. Thats how it on the streets so I'm sure it's in the church to. Ladies please because your man is a pastor or deacon don't mean he has a reason for cheating. I see y'all put too much on your MAN in the church just like we do on the streets. Same Thang. Sisters
javavon5069 10 months ago
Again I realize there is great hurt and pain and disappointment, but who among us can cast stones at someone else’s sin having been without sin right now? That may be a strong way to phrase not knowing how you feel inside, but I can only say that the same compassion that Christ had mercy on for us, the same we should show to others, even those committing the worst sins by our measures.
jlc4christ 10 months ago
As with the boy considered a lunatick or even those in Matthew 4:24 who were possessed, we must take them to Jesus, many time in prayer versus condemning them. While we must call out the wrong sometimes, we must not lack the compassion Christ had to see them delivered. Sometimes our hurt and pain and anger overshadows the way that we should pray, in that we push the plates away from long periods of time and pray continually if we ourselves are in right standing and can be heard.
jlc4christ 10 months ago
I dont disagree with you, such is a spirit of possession by the enemy, just as with spirits of lying, lust, etc. However, just as with the man who had a son possessed by an evil spirit in Matthew 17:15-18, some conditions require prayer, intercession, and exocism of the demon. While there are casulaties in this Spiritual war that sometimes spill over into the natural and cause hurt and grief to others, still it is a soul not to be abandoned.
jlc4christ 10 months ago
My apologies for just now writing: you said "one must forgive true that....now whats yo point....men cheat for the most part and stop only because they got caught......right? not because they are sorry " Interesting considering that we have numerous biblical accounts of people coming to Christ in repentance because they recognized their fall and failures. To say they only stop because they got is not 100% right. Some actually do repent out of a contrite /broken heart (Psalms 51:17)
jlc4christ 10 months ago
@jlc4christ some do...for the most part when cheating comes out or molestation or incest its been going on for years and they got caught and its not that they are even going to stop now its that they are going to be more careful the next time....i speak the truth
pastorsexwife 10 months ago
@jlc4christ We still need to forgive them...
muffin8902 10 months ago
Im sorry? look i dont have any idea what your saying. you seem to be interchanging through the subject. you dont pause in between sentences your subjects you just blather on and on and i think you should stop.
mrthevid 11 months ago
@mrthevid naw i got about 94000 that gets my blabbing...is that what u called it. ???
pastorsexwife 11 months ago
@pastorsexwife they're probably people who want actual advice about their cheating spouses, but instead you provide them with constant chatter about your awful husband.
mrthevid 11 months ago
Let God be true and every man a liar. Years ago I remember asking my father why does it seem like no one actually fears God. Why does man lack the understanding that is necessary to follow Christ? Daddy knew he could take me to the scriptures, yet he chose to tell me, "Until man sees every aspect of his life the way God sees it, then he really doesn't see at all. There are no layman terms when viewing God and His commandments. Blind eyes cannot see no matter how much light is shined in them.
parplegal2B 11 months ago
They do it because of depravity.
parakeethands 11 months ago
A man of the cloth is not necessarily a man that fears God. They do not cheat. They are committing adultery. Call a spade a spade. Our society has pacified the henious sins of the world i.e., Sodimites are called Gays, Adultery is called Cheating, Fornicating is called Cheating; actually only a married person can "cheat" single people committed fornication WHICH GOD WILL JUDGE!!!
parplegal2B 11 months ago
@parplegal2B all the same..we all know what we talking about...laymans terms....unda the sheets with someone that doesnt belong to you
pastorsexwife 11 months ago
Preachers are flesh and sometimes sin. Is cheater a worse sin then wearing a tatoo or other stuff that u may be doing. Sometimes the wives help them cheat by running them to the other women. still no excuse. All sin will be judged
kbkcogic 11 months ago
@kbkcogic I dont consider tatts a sin...we are so simple when it comes to scriptures we take scriptures and make another rule with them...i.e. lev.28 with regard to the cutting of the flesh then it symbolized paganism...my tatts do not end of story
pastorsexwife 11 months ago
You are absolutely right. It does not matter if a man is a man of the cloth or a thug...they CHEAT and they don't need a reason to do so. Trust me...I'm speaking from experience.
pinkcherry32 11 months ago
good
toosmoothforyou2006 11 months ago
In the apostolic church structure, the pastor is considered to be the one with the vision. Like they are the one that hears from God and leads the church in a certain direction. In many cases, it seems they are considered more "discerning" or "right" because of their position. Some churches with this structure have boards and elders and overheads to share the power and keep accountability. Others do not. Either way, the pastor is not any more "arrived" than the rest of us
sarahscollage 11 months ago
@sarahscollage thats true sarah.....my point mainly in my quest to magnify the fact that many are pastoring that was never called to begin with....
pastorsexwife 11 months ago
@pastorsexwife
I agree. In many Christian circles, the pastor or the role of a pastor can be an idol. Charisma (who they appear to be to the public) can be valued over character (who they really are behind closed doors). Pride is a huge temptation, and one is at risk if they do not have the calling (and therefore grace) to be in a role of such power and influence. It can also be a temptation for some who might not have a secure identity in God, like they can lust after power and image.
sarahscollage 11 months ago
I can relate to some of what you share. My husband isn't "of the cloth" nor has he cheated on me, but i was traumatised by an experience in a destructive group where there was this power given to the leaders that belongs to God. It was said that they were "prayed into their positions", therefore they were "ordained godly authority". The consequence in summary was that they could not be wrong. Very very dangerous territory the day a Christian forgets they are a sinner in need of God's grace.
sarahscollage 11 months ago
Yes, we the brotherhood of the Christian community owe justice, compassion, n protection to the victims of these abusive n exploitive practices. We owe them more than our prayers, our shallow pseudo-Christian cliches, n our tendency to blame the victims while excusing n ignoring the abusive n exploitive behaviors n practices of misguided leaders.Our silence n inaction is just as destructive as the above mentioned behaviors, it also emboldens the abuser as being untouchable. May God help us all
revoj67 1 year ago
The power structures of the Christian community must begin to address the issues of sexual immorality that are coupled with sexual n verbal abuse n the misuse of pastoral n Christian authority . The Christian community must confront these abusers with the explicit n practical principles of scripture that denounces these abusive practices regardless of the perpetrators.The congregants of our Christian communities deserve the justice n freedom of God be practiced by all Christian communities.
revoj67 1 year ago
Finally ppl cheat, disegard marriage vowels, exploit, n manipulate ppl for different reasons. Some believe their position allows them to exploit for personal gratification. Some because of emotional insecurities n other personal struggles. The societal definition of masculinty exists in the church despite a call to adhere n practice the doctrine of personal responsibility. The church must address this issue practically to prevent future exploitive practices from destroying our congregants.
revoj67 1 year ago
How do we reconcile the inconsistencies of christian walk with our dogma, doctrines, n the spoken word of God. Throughout biblical n church history we see inconsistencies with the christian walk n God's ideal n expectation for humanity. Despite these issues God still calls us to be transformed daily by biblical balanced living. To often marriages n relationships are based on the shallowness of emotion instead of developing people holistically to deal n reconcile the challenges of marriage.
revoj67 1 year ago
The body of Christ has wrestled with this question of sexual inmorality throughout the history of time. So being a preacher doesn't exempt you from participating in sexual inmorality. The Christian community must begin to address these issues by challenging the power structures of our churches that allows the leadership of the church to exploit thier congregants for their own fleshly gratification.Sometimes the leadership structures of the church mirror the same exploitive practices of society.
revoj67 1 year ago
What makes the preacher/pastor/bishop different than the rest of humanity. The reality of this equation if u believe in the calling of God; is God call an imperfect human to preach a perfect gospel. This doesn't give anyone a license or permission to sin, offend the fellow believers by exploiting ppl for their sexual gratification. People will give into their temptations which r goverened by the desires of the flesh. Yes, the believer should consistently submit to be transformed by God daily.
revoj67 1 year ago
@Peace5327 some christians might do hate but reals saints dont. We just stand on the Living word of God. If she was over her hurt why is she putting this on you tube "christian" woman dont do that.
mrsjoekey 1 year ago
was you doing what you was supposed to be doing as a wife? and was he Filled with a true and genuine HOLY GHOST? my pastor is a woman and her husband cheated on her and had another baby with the other woman BEFORE he got saved. She kept on serving God. and real pastors dont get divorced. Yea they can cheat, but that sumthing they want to do but if they want to stay with God, they Ask God and thier wives for forgiveness. and meanwhile while he was doing all that you should have been praying .
mrsjoekey 1 year ago
I would go a step further & say if your man is a preacher you have a HIGHER, near 100% chance to be cheated on. It's the forbidden fruit is sweeter thing I think.
999Atwood 1 year ago
Why do you people play the word down to cheat for the act of adultery?
Bible says ITS ADULTERY.
Give the right name to the sin - Adultery.
Why are people committing adultery and even pastors?
Nobody is now preaching against sin.
rcasoundhmv 1 year ago
I'm sorry your wedding vows were not honored by your ex. Stay strong.
mjcbtl64 1 year ago
@goodgooglegoo...I am Happy see the rest of my story
pastorsexwife 1 year ago
Women do need to figure it out .. so they don't have to keep going through it over and over. - I understand you being an unhappy person - GET HAPPY !
There's a reason for everything ... some of the things you talked about ?
The reason is because of the evil / demons inside of that person - OR ?
the evil / demons that person allowed to come into their body.
goodgooglegoo 1 year ago
why do you think God allowed men to have concubines in the bible? The wife is the queen and a hoe is a hoe....live with it!
blackhumanity103 1 year ago
@blackhumanity103 now break that down....what?
pastorsexwife 1 year ago
@blackhumanity103 "God allowed"??? P-lease! God's will (if there is one) is one thing and convenience is another. A man of faith would call this blasphemy. I simply call it hypocrisy. Stop trying to sugarcoat that pill. It's as bitter as it comes.
wibloc 1 year ago
I Agree with you!!
UnTamedLucyObella 1 year ago
BUMBACLAT!!!
Ziggyflavel1 1 year ago
@Ziggyflavel1 ok
pastorsexwife 1 year ago
Why has this video turned into a free for all to speak so harshly against another.There is sin in the world and the word tells us that there would be heirlings that would come and decieve but Jesus said His own know His voice and will not follow after another. When we as a people come to understand we a the church and not a building we will stop looking for the Messiah to be standing in a pulpit and realize He reigns in our hearts.
VictoriousFlood 1 year ago
I previously left a comment 2 your video. I am saddened that you feel you must attack others only because they disagree with your views. I see a Sister in pain and anger has taken root in your heart. Anytime we make general statements about any one group shows our lack of maturity in that area. God is a loving and forgiving God. You must forgive this man that hurt you so you can accept the forgiveness He so freely will gift to you. Be blessed and I pray that there will be true healing.
VictoriousFlood 1 year ago
@VictoriousFlood still it must be told to help others not to live a lifetime of pain rather recognize now...and please dont judge me when u dont know me...i have forgiven a long long time ago..but am compelled to tell
pastorsexwife 1 year ago