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  • haha omggg the thing u said about high school happened to me tooo!!! Girls used to hate me they only like me being lesbian lol

  • You are wonderful :) 

  • can we trade bodies?

    thanks.

  • I relate to a majority of your opinions and feelings about yourself.

    Haha, and I'd totally shave my armpits too.

  • I'm bigendered. Some days I'm feeling more masculine other days more feminine. I have my friends online use male pronouns when reffering to me. (Chromosomes are XX) Fuck yes. Rocking the grey area.

  • My brother shaves his body (including his underarms) and he is as masculine as they get

  • I'm a skinny girl trapped in a fat body XD

  • @MarieCurie83 oh my god, that almost brought tears to my eyes... guess i'm not the only one that feels that way... i find it so unfair......

  • there's another youtuber "Uppercasechase1" who talks about not being "trans* enough" also...though i'm not trans, it's really sad that alot of trans people are looked down upon by their own community. as if they're not already looked down upon by a certain portion of society too :\

  • OH MY FUCKING GOD

    you are so gorgeous!!

    Im a dude and Im so attracted to you!

  • Tough guys wear pink lol

  • I've been watching you're videos and I absolutely love you! And not just because of your looks (although u look amazing as a girl or boy or anywhere in-between :) but I love your personality so much! You're so happy and fuck what anyone else says u are so amazing and inspirational :) :) and u make me want to smile!! Never stop being who you are right now please -3

    Ps your eyes are so gorgeous ;) and I like guys without armpit hair! :D I would totally date you :)

  • you're awesome and always make me smile...i'm trans too but am still working on coming out because i have built up such a lie for myself like everyone thinks i am super femme and sometimes i feel like i have totally fucked myself over but anyway thanks so much for sharing

  • ky i really want your pants im gonna steal them from yo

  • Congratulations with everything, chest surgery etc. Remind me of Adam Lambert. Slightly feminine but handsom as anything!! Keep your chin up :)

  • you are awesome :)

  • You're inspiring thank you gorgeous

  • You're so inspiring thank u gorgeous

  • ur not a man...just lesbian

  • @Gaga92ify he is a he.. and like HE said.. fock you xD jk jk stop being a pain in the ass. dont like it, dont support but if you are in the DONTs that much... DONT WATCH and DONT comment either. have a nice day :D

  • Your smile and spirit are so infectious! I love that you are so sure of who you are and are willing to share it with the world. I'm 29 and I'm just figuring out who I am. I'm not transgender but I love androgyny. I'm a woman but yet I like to look like guy. I'm married but I still find myself attracted to women. I hope that in time I'll have myself all sorted out. In the meantime, thank you for your videos!

  • you are amazing.

  • you are beautiful. inside and out :)

  • Fuckin brilliant!

  • As long as you are happy. I say. People will always have comments about who/what you are, but it's about you and you deserv to be happy. Just wanted to say that, to all of you :)

  • People tend to think that transitioning ftm automatically means changing your character/personality/taste and the like..... which always struck me as strange...

    anyway, Love your vids, love your radiant energy-glow, and love your style.

  • Guys who wear makeup kick ass, also your voice reminds me of the guy from Heathers...

  • Thank you

  • I LOVE TOMBOYS!

  • woow..like what the hell..major thanks for this video!

    Let me explain al lil bit..When you put that paper on with that 75 % thing..i thought this is weird cuz thats exactly what i told my girlfriend ´n friends. And i´m so happy that you say this, cuz i feel like i´ve been forced to make a decision about my gender. And that is what i really don´t want.it makes me confused.now i´ve seen your video i´m a little bit more relaxed cuz now i know there are more people who feel like this.

    Thanks alot!

  • Omg. Your like a fucking hot dude. With or with no makeup c: and seriously more guys should be shaving there armpits. Like when I'm with a dude at the beach and they put there arms around me. I like seriously like puke. It's gross (in my opinion) but ily. Xx you amaze-a-balls

  • thats so true. i wish more people would think about gender more often. there is no all boy all girl people.  nobody is 100% of anything.

  • I totally respect you!! your aweomse!<3

  • i just watched every single 1 of ur videos. and although im a straight girl i have to say your soo fucking hot haha its really cool to see ur journey. do your thing dont let those people piss u off. People feel the need to label every1 in the world, but what people dont realize is labels arent important. It takes time to find urself and its so refreshing to see some1 who went thru all the struggles of doing so and will walk the extra mile to feel comfortable w. themselves ur amazing <3 xoxo

  • Be you. Everyone tries to label, male, female, trans it doesn't matter you are who you want to be and who you feel you are, if anyone asks you to label yourself just tell them labels don't say who you are, you are unique, you are brave, your are beautiful, you are handsome, you are a good person, and most of all you are happy. i think you are awesome other then that a label is just a way for other people to identify you. But you know who you are Take care and just be you ;0)xx

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  • Dude, you rock the grey area. F*ck what people think...your a 75.2% type of guy...doesn't make you any less of a man :). Just live your life because you only get once. Take the ones that love and respect you and ignore the rest.

  • Hey! Do like Pink? You look just like her twin brother!!!^^

  • I agree with what you're saying in terms of being free to be yourself and all that. But just thought I'd point out that no -- not everyone is within that spectrum. See: agender/third gender/no gender, etc~

  • wow i love your eyes they are so pretty!! :)

  • Your so dang cheerful ! I love it.

  • Ky, i love your vids. bro, you're just like.. huge inspiration to me... you have no idea. thanks for the videos you've posted and i hope you continue posting... :)

  • Lol you're just a pretty boy ;) I know plenty of guys who shave there arms and chests and blahblahblah, and I know guys that where make up, style their hair and care about the clothing they wear...it doesn't NOT make you not a guy it just makes you....you :)

  • Ok u are such a gorgeous guy OMG. I think u look hot with make up and personally I don't like guys with arm pit hair lol. Just do u,Ky. Ur an awesome guy!

  • So do u still have a V?

  • i feel totally the same way.

  • 'be who you are and fuck everyone else' the more I watch your videos the happier I become with who I am :)

  • This Kid is pretty buff,I'm fascinated with FTM, I'm MTF myself and I wonder what would happen If I took one on in a fight,Would I win? lol

  • I love your pink, and your man-up. :)

  • I think your beautiful!!!!!!

  • You're so god damn attractive I've been turned into a slight youtube stalker when it comes to your videos. Best wishes for the new year, you're amazing.

  • You. Are. So. Amazing.

    We're all in the grey area. Whether we're comfortable with that or not.

    Your gender isn't the big deal. It's your beautiful, sexy smile, your happy personality, and your amazing strength.

    I love you <3

  • To thine own self be true or lose your soul. "What choice have I in the face of this wind but to put up my sail?" J. Winterson - The passion

  • You're SOOOO sexy!! Dang!

  • your so handsome, I am so happy your transition went well.

  • I love the explosion of acceptance in the last decade, or even two decades. Thank god we're not in the 1970s. Hey everyone, imagine being a black lesbian back then. That's like three minorities. Oh the insanity. And hey man this is great! You're an inspiration to me. By the way you have to see the movie "Boys Don't Cry", because it's such a tragedy. It's the rape and murder of an FtM because of who he was.

  • I can watch you on and on like a creep, just because you're such a beautiful man. It's unbelievable how someone can be that attractive. Seriously. Way too undescribably beautiful especially in your FTM video.

    Sigh...

  • ur so hot! i love u. i can totally understand ur story

  • this doesn't relate to the topic. but.... I LOVE YOUR SPEAKERS IN THE BACKGROUND!!!

  • And it was recorded on my Birthday! great video

  • i know how you feel....

  • Where can I get this song??

  • Do it!. I dont take the hormones. But im in the same space. I hate body hair. Had to many butches and trans talk shit about me. Im all the "man" i need to be. Honestly hormones and extra body hair is why Im not on them. yuck. But good for you and screw everyone. Be yourself. who ever that is .. ;)

  • This is such a relief for me. Im ftm..and I for some reason I felt like I had to be manly to be ftm. I dont even know. I want to be a guy, flat chest, the whole getup. But Im pretty feminine. Very "Uke".

    And I know when I get on T...shaving my armpits >.<

  • your gorgeous..great arms.

  • I know exactly what you mean. I'm a transguy and am in your same boat. I think what a lot of people don't realize or understand though is that gender identity and gender expression are two completely different things. Just because your gender identity is simply male, doesn't mean you have to limit how you express yourself. You know who you are and thats all that matters.

  • really great video. so much of the stuff out here in internetland promotes only the black or white of gender, especially when talking about transitioning. it ends up being basically a narrative of going from one gender to the stereotype of another. thanks for promoting the gray area where people can be authentic about themselves.

  • i think gender IS fluid.. society just has a need to categorize things - girl/boy, hetero/homo.. then upon realizing not everyone fits into those categories, they make even more - bi, queer, intersex, middlesex, whatever. with strict guidlines for classification purposes - makeup -> girl, muscles and hair -> boy. How simply silly it all is.

    i live androgynously. (and find it amusing that it pisses some people off)

    i love your massive sharpie collection btw lmao.

  • I like how you say "as much as I identify in the middle, I am still completely male"

    We have similar genders. :)

  • i looooove the gray area. and you just took the gray area to a hottttt new level!

  • I absolutely adore you! Someone told me I was your twin and I take that as a compliment :) You're totally sexy and are definitely transitioning very well. You're very inspiring..keep up that confidence, you're gonna go far. Can't wait for more videos!

  • Ky I love your strength & the courage to tell the world to fuck themselves, to do what makes you feel complete. I think you're sexy as hell & if you ever hit up Vegas, email a girl. Mrs.Skeleton1031@gmail... or find me on FB/MySpace Shandee Lang. You're an inspiration to many, even those who aren't in the transgender world. :)

  • @princess1347 Nothing about this video was of him complaining but rather answering the question of the curious or the close minded (which is around the category) you seemingly tend to fall under w/ a comment like that. I'm not transgender, in fact I'm merely bisexual. The play land where ppl say it doesn't exist & you have to choose one or the other. It's ppl like you that make other shun & it's ppl like Ky that remind them it's okay to be who they are.

  • Thank GOD. I thought I was the only one like that! Everyone thinks I'm not rlly trans and that i shouldnt transition... bcuz I wear makeup and I like guys... and I'm like sorry I'm not some macho man but i AM nontheless a man. I am pretty femme and I think on ur spectrum i would be about 65% most of the time. Although, I have to admit, I do enjoy dressing in lolita stuff and going out in a long curly wig :3 But thats just who I am and I'm freaking proud!

  • OMG get an life ..... really all this to fix what... something in ur mind thats broken..... WOW what will people do to be normal.....WOW..... that wat i see.... don't post if can handle the feed back period.....

  • Andros are hot.

  • thank you for this video. you are so completely honest and real. you are unlike anyone else and that is truly refreshing to me. i'm so incredibly happy to finally find a guy who is more like how i feel. not as masculine as some of the others but true to who they are inside. im so scared but you have given me so much inspiration. thank you so much.

  • it's so helpful to see another person on T who rocks the andro look! thanks for being awesome.

  • You are amaszing. You are like twice as alive as most people.

  • wow this is truly amazing....good for you!..im at a point where im stuck in my life becuase ive realized i was born male but outside came out as female...if theres anyway you can talk to me about how you had the courage to do all this it would be alot of help dude thankss and congratss=)

  • I love u and ur hott!

  • Hello

  • You have very beautiful eyes... and an amazing smile :D

  • armpit hair is disgusting - guy, girl or whatever in between. Armpit hair is just not attractive!

    That's beside the point. Good for you, people need to get out of this gender binary system. Keep it up :)

  • @TripnSlide hahahaha I feel the same way about armpits xD

  • Come to Sweden, here all men wear pink:)

  • You always look so happy in your vids.

    I love this.

    Your an inspiration. Keep it it.

  • Ky you're gorgeous no matter how you identify! Haha it's so cute that you made a chart about your gender identity lol! You are so cute, love your smile and your chuckle! Keep up the good work and stay happy :)

  • not too be mean but you look alitle like dani in a shoot of love with tila

  • Wow your inspiring. I a female that just happened across your vids and your journey has been amazing. You look awesome and your male and female features are equally good looking. You have amazing style. You have opened my eyes to the struggles of

    People who don't fit into the classic boxes we create for them. Keep being the individual you are and shaving those armpits and wearing makeup xox

  • hi im a gay guy, you trans guys are so fucking hot! especially you. you turned out to be a handsome boy/boi. you rock! keep it up bro!

  • when i came out as trans to my mom she made a comment about my eyeliner i basically told her to fuck off. and i shave my armpits too! i hate body hair in fact. not excited for my legs or face to be hairy, but it comes with the transition. i definitely call myself a "boi" or trans-guy but not really trans-man. i think, honestly, MAN is something you have to grow & mature into, you don't just get rights to the word because you want to establish your masculinity in the world, FTM or not...

  • Wow, male or female you'd be hot! Great look! :D Your hair is perfect!

  • You are cute in and out of transition but I think you are sexy now that you did.You're too young for me but I have eyes like everyone else.LOL!

  • Adrogynous is exactly what it seems to be that you are by the way that you put it. And people dont usually get that there is no one way to be trans.I am a bio-female yet I understand the whole spectrum pretty much.

  • own it! i'm a girlyman, i'm feminine in a lot of ways, but i am a man. or, a boy. i like to be a boy more than a man, but it's still the same type of thing. my feminine mannerisms don't make me a girl, and it's tough trying to explain that to people who don't understand gender. this is a great video! i love your energy!

  • Do what makes you happy! You're cool, seriously.

  • man u like opend my mind alot more ur sooo rad i love u and the gray area has more cookies xD

  • I can relate to this video so so so much! :-D It's good to know I'm not alone!

  • if u could just let your eye bow grow....

  • officially love that shirt you are wearing...btw I have the same one

  • oh my god you're adorable. haha

  • oh, and then when I want to have some fun i say "I'm a boy AND a girl. Lucky me. Must suck for all those fools who only get to be one!"

  • I love that you're sharing this, I identify in the grey area too, and I'm always so proud when people have the guts to stand up and talk about being gender queer - it's the only way we're ever going to broaden the worlds minds to the spectrum of gender rather than our current binary gender system.

    One point though - do you really need to 'identify'? I get asked that question a lot, and what do i say? I say "I'm a person" and that should be enough for people to have some respect.

  • ur so awsome i love your smile and eyes and i even love ur arms their so big and beautiful your an awsome person your such a prettyboi :)

  • "fuck everyone else, they don't matter." that's so true. the world would be an INCREDIBLE place if everyone lived by this.

  • out of all the videos on FTM i enjoyed yours most of all. You define you, never let anyone try to break you. They are ignorant because they dont understand, i myself am not a transgender but i used to live a life of the sort, things change. You are awesome, never forget who you are, hey i think adam lambert is very sexy with his guy liner on, so Ky free your mind let your spirit be your guide, never forget you define you, everyone else can------------------------%$#­@! I think you get it.

  • You are so adorable, I honestly just want to hug you. Much love from a fellow transguy. :3

  • like pink said do what u do . and if no one like it fuck them i mean i was thinking the same thing what the hell are you but damn people look at me and said that all my life so what ever you are thats you so live your life for you not youtube bro iight

  • it's like the difference between a masculine female and an effeminite male; a really fine, indefinite line. it's funny how a lot of people get confused when the lines are blurred. some people don't really see how fluid gender can be.

  • do you identify as a straight man though?

  • It wont let me post the article, but i can send u the link if you want it.

  • 6,666 views... thats scary. :P

  • i dont think that i ever claimed to be a lesbian, everyone always forced that label on me. and yes girls have always treated me different. i am actually a straight [possibly Bi] guy trapped inside a bio-female body. i love that u rock ur makeup so hard lol my sister told me growing up i'd look a lot prettier with eyeliner on, of course now i call it "guy-liner" but i can't stop wearing it for more than a day or so at a time... i am either read as a very feminine guy or a super-masculine girl!!!

  • I loved when you said 'it's not so black and white'

    I say that all the time because people get confused about sexuality and stuff. I mean, I'm not a transgender I'm gay. But theres still a lot of ignorance and misunderstanding with gay people too.

    This video was great dude.

  • I think this was my favorite video you've done. I really commend you for being real to yourself and not trying to confrom to the set "standards" of BOTH the cisgendered community as well as the FTM community. Everyone deserves the right to be themselves especially when they dont always fit into the "norm". Take it easy

  • I really like you

  • MY GOD you're so pretty, why don't you take off your make-up ?

    kisses from Brazil!!!

  • Wow, Ky... I don't know why I never ran across your videos before. You're awesome! I hope to see more videos from you. :D

  • Dude you need to upload more videos.

  • I soo...get you. Heck I'm a 45 year old woman and I'd give anything to find someone like you. Androgeny is very sexy. Don't ever change, stay true to yourself, you are the epitome of everything I've ever looked for, if only you were older.....dang....LOL

  • Sounds like we have very similar identities. Stay true to yourself :)

  • you look so great here!

  • & the last 6 months i really been mad thinkin about it! i think its time i spoke out & told others no matter wat they think, u r right, fuck them pplz! those that love me fa me will stil b here for me right? im pretty sure my mom already knows i want to be a man but i havent told her str8 up. i will soon tho. cuz i want to do T. ive hated my body for as long as i can member and im 18 1/2 now. so ya, its been a while haha. if you could get back to me, that'd b great

  • i have 2 friends who are in the proces of taken T so that deff helps alot! Ive wanted 2 be male ever since i could member.

  • hey Ky, im Chris. you have inspired me alot! a friend showed me ur videos, i watched them & im alot more confident now on telling my mom & everyone else that i want to transition.

  • the sound quality is really terrible

  • You inspire me Ky. You're awesome. What you wear shouldn't determine who you are.

  • Armpit hair sucks!

  • There are a lot of androgy transguys here in Seattle. If you're ever in Seattle visit Capitol Hill. You'll fit right in.

  • you made me laugh when you smiled and said "and fuck everyone else" :)

  • I know so many other people out there consider themselves genderqueer or something in between both.. but you are honestly the only guy on youtube that I have seen that's felt in between. Most are completely hardcore completely male. I knew if I ever did transition, I would still wear makeup and act and do some of the things you said you still do. I am so glad there is someone else. It makes me feel so much better. Now if only I had the guts and the resources to do all this.

  • i think its cool. to feel so comfortable to totally be yourself. mad props

  • Wow....that was a great video! I feel the same way! I'm a non-masculine Celine Dion-loving, pop-singing, Xena: Warrior Princess- watching MAN! And...people don't know how to take that...so it's hard...but it made me feel better to watch your video. You're beautiful, Ky!

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  • I totally feel u on ur 75% and sometimes 100% but never less than 50% thing, nice vid ;)

  • You look like Adam Lambert!!!!

  • very well put

  • ky youre amazing just the way you are. I like the fact you're comfortable to be so metro and you don't fit into a little male persona box. anyone who questions and or hates on you i honestly think is out of pure jealousy. you are one of the most attractive people i've ever seen, and the most fun. <3love and miss you

  • Nice Vid, u r right in what u say, the most important thing is to be comfortable with u, the biggest problem in society is that everything has to be pigeon holed & life is not like that, life is full of grey areas & thats ok.

    I luv the drawin, damn gud illustration made me smile, enjoy being u & if people around u can't accept that then they are not worth yr time & energy.

    U seem like a nice guy & have a gud heart & that's what counts mate, that is what makes a decent man, keep the faith bro

  • Guy liner<3 FTW

  • finally! someone that agrees with me! thats how i feel as well. im in the "grey" area. when people question me and say that im not a real transguy because of the way i look, dress, act, etc. but gender is something merely what you personally identify as... and nobody cant tell you what you are... only yourself can. and like you said. fuck everyone else. just be yourself.

  • i think that you look so happy and i thank you for your video because it reminds me to be who i am.

  • i totally don't think it matters what others think about the way you look/dress, if you're happy that's all that matters...atleast that's how i think.....i could care less what people say about me and you could choose to not explain yourself

  • you look great you seem happy what more do you need right?? lol

    keep your chin up!

  • pink use to be a male color

  • Well put. Good video.

  • hahaha why do u wear pink!!!? hehe just do what u do and be how u are but i guess thats what u are doing :P ;) great vid

  • I loved everything u had to say. kudos to you for speaking your mind. LOVE that statement. Be who you are and fuck everyone else. being in the grey is so much better than being black or white!!

  • Man, Do what makes you happy.

    I understand what you mean, at the moment I'm pre-t and I constantly get pegged as just a lesbian even though I bind. Good on ya for being who you are and I wish I had your courage. I know how you feel, I'd probably be a 75 % er too....

  • So glad I found your vids. Androgenous transguy. Perfect. I wish I could make my eyes look that gorgeous. Very brave person, you are. Thanks for putting yourself out here.

  • I totally agree with u!

    U are handsome and cool, be urself, man! U r doing a great job and u r so right...fuck everyone...who cares!?!

    All the best xx

  • great vid man, i think these things are important for transguys to be aware of....it's important to be your own person than just fit into a mold...

  • Good video. I agree. I like to wear pink and shave, but no makeup. Alot of stuff thats difficult on a day to day basis.

  • There are more people in the "gray area" than in the black or white areas. I love the 75%ers!

  • completely relate to everything you said.

  • Hi Ky!

    Your videos are great!

    I never took T and I dress as woman to go to work, and more manly when I go out for fun. I lift weights too. I consider myself post-gender, all of those stuff that people hold as man/woman, well, doens't make a lot of sense if you think about it... we are actually in another level, when we can see beyond that stuff.

  • Ky i abosolutely LOVED this video! You've pretty much said exactly how i feel!!! :) I LOVE IT!!! GO KY! STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF AND FUCK EVERYONE ELSE!! : )

  • You are awesome. Be your fabulous grey and pink self!

  • Love the video :)

    Someone I can relate to. Minus the T and stuff.

    Some days I feel girly but still masculine and other days I'm like ah lets try and pass like a dude today. But at the same time, I'm not super masculine. I love your videos man :)

  • Love the video!

    I can personally relate to you soo much more than any of the other transguys on youtube. I currently identify as a lesbian but I'm hoping to begin transitioning soon. Some days I do feel more fem than others I feel more manly and you are the only guy on youtube that I have heard of that has that same feeling. Thanks! (:

  • you have the brightest smile I've ever seen on anyone

  • you are so hot. i cant help it.

  • i understand were you come from one day im wearing hair clipins for longer hair and like right now i wont ot binde and i dont now its just heard some days i now im genderqueer but it gets really heard thanks for the video it helps alot with knowing im not alone and great video and allsome hair!

  • Good for you man! Be you! Don't change to suit what other ppl consider to be the "norm." If you're comfortable with who you are, that's all that matters. I think I fall into the 75% range as well. Good way to look at it. You seem like a cool guy. Good on ya! :)

  • Love it! continue to be who you are man. this video makes me feel very proud thank you!

  • I love it! Thank you for sharing with us and for just being who you are. I can totally relate to that. It's nice to see that there are other people out there who understand the gray area. I'm a girl but have always been interested in doing the FTM thing... but I just never do. Too much money. Or too much effort. I'm OK in my body, I don't mind it too much. But I always wonder and want it anyway. Maybe someday after I watch more people go through it. Thank you for sharing. :)

  • iiiii love how you think.

  • personally i hate gender... and any kind of branding or labeling. Just be you.