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  • This is my boyfriends account and I'm too lazy to log into my own. So no one send him hate male...lol. That said, why is interracial the first option thrown at us? Why must it be a white man and not a black man who may not be American? Just saying. Whiten men have never been nor will they ever be an option, not because I'm racist, because I'm not attracted to them. Period.

  • @alkaterz I think there just saying do blk women have to marry a blk man? Blk men date ALL types of women

  • Mixed children will have issues, but all children go thru issues. The end of this video is the best.

  • These blk wmn need to open up to other men. If blk men are willing to date outside, but are bashed for preferring lighter women, then blk women should be bashed for preferring blk men only. It is 2011 !!! who do you think is raising all these blk men who don't finish school? usually blk womn bc they choose to mate with deadbeat slackers! If you did not raise a college educated blk man then you can't comlain about the lack of them!!!!

  • @heyniggaimback well it saves my community, the HUMAN community.

  • im not getting mirred

    that not my thing i dont get it

    SO WHAT

  • @Ebonytheartist The program is called "Black Women in America," not "Women Looking for Men" or "Black, Heterosexual Women in America." Some Black Women in America are lesbians. This program claims to be inclusive of the experiences of black women, yet excludes part of the black female population (lesbians). I'm not looking for a woman on this video. Lol. That would be ridiculous. I was watching the video and noticed that they left out the dating experiences of black women who date women.

  • This documentary has nothing about black lesbians. Not all black women date men from. Typical of a film based off of black studies to ignore gay existence. I am a bi-racial lesbian and I'm comfortable dating women from either race. Lesbians aren't as racially territorial as men. This movie fails.

  • @orangesofaful You are so right it ignores gays/lesbians all together. I'm so sick of the dL situations. For one, a cheater is just that a cheater! I don't care who it is with same sex or opposite, but why do you think ppl feel the need to hide it??? we can't even speak of it openly and admit that blk lesbians/gays are in our community.

  • @Ebonytheartist

    Lol which one of these women were OUT OF SHAPE? dont bite your tongue, these women are beautiful and could easily get another race of men if they were OPEN MINDED enough. The fact they want black men keeps them single. Women like me, date out EASILY. If they were smart, they will follow

  • @tatiyanakissdoll Agreed. These black women are idiots for not being open-minded about dating outside their race. They're keeping themselves single by wasting their years waiting on some quality black man that will 99.9% of time, never come.

  • Can you believe that snooty-ass women ( 3:42) who dismissed an online brother for misspelling some word. That's why she single.

  • Black women are having trouble finding dates and mates because black women have spent the last 35 plus yrs claiming that they're strong totally independent black women who aren't ever going to need a man of any kind for anything under any circumstances and black women have used their incomparably warped concepts of strength and masculinity to make total disrespect for people a totally hideous form of solidarity and strength which has yielded the media sensation known as The Black Girl Curse.

  • @pc0p1mp

    lol dont get too excited, most black women will ALWAYS choose themselves before getting married lol. For the most part, most arent complaining about being single like the media is making it out to be. The media is only using this excuse as a way to tell us to date other races of men. Thats what this is all about, nothing else

  • Economics, education and incarceration so true...........

  • You go girl! You keep your white man! I'm gonna go find me one, too :)

  • That lady is delusional. Her kids will only be accepted by the black community if they choose to act exactly how their black peers dictate they should. I think that people don't get how racist their own communities truly are until they have biracial kids and then see what their kids have to deal with when they're thrown to the sharks.

  • Racist blk women deserve to be unhappy!

  • A lot of women have super-high standards. If you demand a high salary, that rules out teachers, policemen, social workers, etc. If you demand a college degree, you rule out every guy who's in the army, or a corrections officer, or an EMT.

  • what is so important about being educated or have a degree anyway ,most of what you learn is lies anyway its just being taught to think like someone else whih is normally desitfull

  • I don't know why people continue getting married interracially. It's rather selfish and cruel to the kids that come from such relationships.

    Let everyone marry whomever they look like and the world would be a more peaceful place than it is now.

  • @leston4life That is pretty stupid. Might as well say poors shouldn't marry. How to do interracial children suffer? They are accepted by blacks and black and white children still have shit to deal regardless.

  • @TheTrueMaker Whatever! Marry whomever you wanna marry. That was just my opinion, shaped by reality, and I stand by it.

  • @leston4life black or black murder make up the highest percentage of homicides in the U.S. as a result of a black person who got involved with another black person so don't sit behind your computer & tell me I'm required to date someone with the same skin color as me. Are you that stupid & superficial?

  • @PopCulture20 So you wanna get you a white man? Go ahead, sweetie!

  • @leston4life and you continue to be a dumbass for the rest of your life, because one of the reasons why black people like you don't have a sense of ambition or diversity is because you think getting involved with a white person professionally or personally is a disease so GET OVER YOURSELF

  • @PopCulture20 It's rather stupid to make such an assumption since you don't personally know me. You are trying to twist my words here... Just because I am not an enthusiast of interracial marriage doesn't mean that I don't deal professionally and personally with whites----I do it everyday.

    However, when it comes to marriage and procreation, reality sets in....and I am a realist. You might want to deny reality all you want, but you can't do anything about it.

    Work on your self-esteem.

  • @leston4life It's ironic how you tell me to work on my self-esteem, but you can't handle intterracial dating because of society's perception on it. That's an example of low self-esteem so let's not get hypocritical here

  • @PopCulture20 Go and marry whoever you desire! That's your lot, not mine. About self-esteem, judging by your tones, you seem to be seeking for a relationship with a white person because you think you are inadequate, somehow.

    That's why I said you have a problem with your self-esteem. Work on it.

  • @leston4life Where in my post does it show that I evoke low self-esteem? It's me telling you that most mixed couples won't give a damn about YOUR opinions or feelings towards it because I see people like you all the time in public who turn their noses at mixed couples & I just laugh & shake my head because it's people like YOU that love & keep reinforcing stereotypes & racism. YOUR the MAIN reason why America will never progress and I have German relatives by the way since you know me so well

  • @PopCulture20

    "Where in my post does it show that I evoke low self-esteem?"

    Low self-esteem is quite obvious from your comments. You don't need to say it directly. I reason that if someone could help you to change your color from whatever it is now to "white", you'd be willing to pay him/her.

    Just remember that the kids are those who are going to bear the brunt of interracial marriages by finding it hard to "belong" in either parental side. It's irresponsible to let kids suffer that.

  • @leston4life WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? Do you know how to stay on point in response to someone else's argument? Why are you avoiding my responses? Because you know that I'm being more factual while you're more opinionated & ignorant like the stereotype that you are. And since you seem to think that I don't like blacks......let me make myself VERY CLEAR..........I prefer educated African-Americans with a sense of life, pride & diversity................not uneducated buffoons like YOU!!!

  • wow- thanks for the support on the comment. i also wanted to add, that there are SOME people out there that date interracially ONLY to prove a point... or they want their children to look a certain way because of ridiculous things that were said to them about the way they look... or they feel having a certain race on their arm makes them better etc... these people are just as bad as the ones who say dating/marrying interracially is wrong. fall in love, not in color.

  • Man America is a screwed up country.

  • why do we think that just because someone shares the same skin as us, they "belong to us" in terms of a mate. we belong to each other as human beings. this is the problem with ALL races- think outside this box you have created in believing that you need someone who has your skin. if this world only thought that way, a lot of problems with relationships and marriage would decrease. love is not a color.

  • @yellow85 true

  • @yellow85

    agreed

  • @KollegeGirl13 I agree. But I think taking rejection isn't as big an issue as most people make it. Men and women in general get too caught up in the gender war and don't lift each other up - particularly blacks. When a sista rejects a brotha, is she respectful, or does she ignore him like he doesn't exist cause he doesnt fit HER idea of what she needs. When a brotha is turned downy, can he still be respectful and move forward with a positive attitude? It goes both ways I think.

  • @KollegeGirl13 I hate clips like this that make black men look dysfunctional or underachieving. That's not the major reason why so many sistas are single. There are lots great brothers around, but white men, etc see this and think that sistas are just easy pickings because black men are lame!

  • @KollegeGirl13 But then its not really about what men do or don't do. Its about some of the things black women can do to be successful in finding a good brotha.

  • @KollegeGirl13 That's true... But ultimately your odds are better finding a good mate - whether you are a guy or a girl - if you know how to pick someone based upon good character, vs. shallow measures of value.

  • Oh yeah, Soledad O'brien is married to a white man. I'm not hating though. it's cool.

  • @JGREEN3575 Agreed! Too many women concern themselves with details that are unimportant.

  • Americans are so obsessed with color it's ridiculous! And pretty fuckin sad...love who love no matter how they look, and raise your possibly bi-racial or multi racial children to be just what they are, MIXED!

  • @az0963818

    agreed again

  • well the problem with race in this country is that if effects both races every second whether its blantant, subtle every day...I understand why the rest of the world doesn't understand.See how our stupid ass media keeps agitating and bringing the shit to our face (i.e. black history month, kkk) Why is there even a black in america? Why don't they talk about whtie in america or mexican and all the negatives about that. Or just have an American in America because we all do the same damn thing!

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  • America is too preoccupied with race in this country

  • @JGREEN3575 loooooooooool no one cares about what you want. most of these women said they were happy being single...its just that in society there is great emphasis on a woman to be married...this would surely change in due time.

  • Soledad O'Brien is a very beautiful woman. Wow!

  • TO ANY AND ALL CONCERNED PARTIES, CARAMELPRINCESSXXX41 IS A GAY WHITE MAN WHO SUCKS DICK AND HATES BALCK MEN BECAUSE WE DOn"T SWING HIS WAY. DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND IGNORE HIS GAY ASS. OTHERWISE, HE'LL TRY TO SUCK YOUR DICK AND GIVE YOU A CASE OF THE DISEASE THAT THERE IS NO CURE FOR.....THAT IS ALL......

  • who said they WANTED TO BE? lol

  • Will someone define what a "professional" black woman is? And why do I keep seeing big girls complaining? This bashing black men stuff is getting old

  • 3:03 that woman is a clown!!! 3:41 - 3:44 she needs to get off her high horse

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: Actually, we went over this...SHE'S PANAMANIAN AND BLACK, so by your own criteria, she's technically a "HALF BREED"....EPIC FAIL ONCE AGAIN, FAGGOT....I won't even give you the title of woman, because that cesspool of a "vagina" that you have yeast congealing in barely qualifies...I don't even know if I'd even call it a vagina...

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: Actually, we went over this...SHE'S PANAMANIAN AND BLACK, so by your own criteria, she's technically a "HALF BREED"....EPIC FAIL ONCE AGAIN, FAGGOT....I won't even give you the title of woman, because that cesspool of a "vagina" that you have yeast congealing in barely qualifies...I don't even know if I'd even call it a vagina...More like a horribly failed experiment from the fucking island of DR. Moreau..And don't act like you don't know who he is, "HUMANITIES" MAJOR....

  • @Daywalker225xxxx lol...they call her a BLACK PRINCESS get over it

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: They also call T.I. The king of the south, but it doesn't mean he's of a ROYAL lineage...YOU get over it, and stop making excuses for her ass. She married into royalty and wasn't born into it....

  • @Daywalker225xxxx we all know T.I is some ghetto rapper...theres a BIG difference lol...ofcourse she wasnt born into it LMAO..thats what makes it even more great! lol..FAIL

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: Ummm....NO, actually, GERMANY didn't recognize her until she married a PRINCE. THEREBY, SHE MARRIED INTO HER POSITION AS OPPOSED TO being BORN into it. And if your IGNORANT ass could learn to read, you'd see that I said that T.I. get gcalled KING OF THE SOUTH, but HE's CERTAINLY NOT ROYALTY, just as THAT HALFBREED PANAMANIAN BITCH WASN'T ROYALTY EITHER. SHE MARRIED A MAN CONSIDERED ROYALTY TO GET HER STATUS..... SHE WAS NEVER BORN INTO IT....LIAR....

  • @Daywalker225xxxx WELL DUH! thats what makes it great..do you know about the european royal dynasty? do you know how hard it is for a woman/man of ANY ethnicity let alone RELIGION to marry the bloodline of royalty? thats why they call it BLUE BLOOD...there is even suspecions on the fact that princess diana was KILLED because the english royal family feared she was going to bring that ARAB MUSLIM into the dynasty. so for her to get there, is GREAT. dont hate. then again, wm can do what they want

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: Again, she is not of NOBLE decent. SHE HAD TO MARRY IN ORDER TO GET HER STATUS. END OF DISCUSSION. No hate on my part, but I'm merely telling YOU how that works since you're all on her clit, you apparently need to know how things work instead of putting YOUR own personal spin on it.

  • @Daywalker225xxxx it isnt end of discussion because that wasnt even a NEEDED discussion..show me where i said she was BORN into it...jajajjajajajajaja your such a wacky looser.

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: Oh, It's the end of the discussion as far as I'm concerned, unless you plan on arguing with yourself, dumb ass!! Like I said already, go squat down on a rubber 12 incher, because you're yesterday's condom as far as I'm concerned, punk.....BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA­AAA!!!!! SILLY FAGGOT, DICKS ARE FOR CHICKS!!! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!­!

  • @Daywalker225xxxx lol and this is a guy that CLAIMS he owns a job bwwwwahahahahahahahah AIDS GIVER XD

  • @Daywalker225xxxx

    she is a princess because she is MARRIED to a prince....END OF CONVERSATION lmao...do you really excpect a black person to be BORN into european royal bloodline? are you that stupid? do you black americans really have that low of an IQ..no wonder why half of you men dont graduate..your soooo dumb LMAO 

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: THAT'S WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING FROM THE FUCKING BEGINNING, YOU IDIOT. I TOLD YOU THAT SHE WAS NEVER ROYALTY, BUT IN AFRICA THERE ARE KINGS AND QUEENS WHO ARE NOBILITY AS A RESULT OF BLOOD AS OPPOSED TO MARRYING INTO THEIR STATUS. THIS HALFBREED PANAMANIAN IS NOTING MORE THAN AN OPPORTUNISTIC WHORE IN MY OPINION.... 

  • @Daywalker225xxxx who cares? shes still married to royalty..

  • These shows are so silly and such one-sided rubbish.  LOL!

  • my gf is black.

  • Hang on, 6:14, that guy looks like he's part Black..

  • @JGREEN3575 well, you do realise this generation is known as the I-POD generation (as they call it in the uk) or lets say...the COMPUTERIZED/TECHNOLOGY generation? yes! meaning, if young black females came on here and saw only black men bashing them...they would AUTOMATICALLY think this is IT..this is how they all think of them....not to mention hollywood is already doing their part in brainwashing young black female with this whole princess and frog thing...so you better be careful

  • @JGREEN3575 my mother is a black female, i have black female friends...im more close to blacks(mainly the females) than the males (im more close to the white ones)..so yes, i dont mean to trash black men..i just happen to support and 'back' black women and it so happens that black men tend to be the ones that have some shit to say about them. Everyone knows that no other man puts their race of women down like black men lol.

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: Shut the fuck up, you LYING faggot. You trash BLACK MEN every time you come on here. GO FIST YOURSELF, BITCH...Fuck you and all the fucking man hating whores you run with.....And White men Hate white women! Don't believe me? Okay, Name one horror movie where a white woman didn't die a brutal death or get fucked up somehow? Even better yet, How many of those movies make millions as a result of WHITE men going to see them??? Yeah, bitch...Thought so...

  • @Daywalker225xxxx lol white men date out the most. You said im a white man..whats wrong now punk? are you really going to use a SCARY movie to justify yourself? because i could use serial killers but ofcourse your too dumb to see how the two dosent relate...dumb ass XD

  • @caramelprincessxxx41: BITCH, YOU'RE a walking SCARY MOVIE!! Just shut the fuck up awready!!!

  • @JGREEN3575 not really...because in the uk, i wont be defined as BLACK so what do you mean?

  • @JGREEN3575 actually, i dont live in the ghetto...my mother (who is black) and father are doing pretty well, still together and we live in one of the most richest areas...=p...not that many black kids could say that (no offense) ROFL....so i dont do welfare...dont confuse me for your ghetto sheboon mother =P

  • @JGREEN3575 ROFL....point is...its about QUALITY not QUANTITY...the average black men get fat or ugly looking white chicks and the hollywood black men get the women hollywood dont give a fuck about who just goldigg them, get them into trouble and add to black mens already bad stereotype (oj simpson anyone)? ROFL...when men of other races go for bw they go for QUALITY bw and bw will take men ON TOP...its not about the AMOUNT that date but the QUALITY. your teacher shouldve taught you ;)

  • I dated a Black woman once. Black men didn't seem to object when they saw us. But there was a Black woman who walked up to us and said "sister, what vibrator are you using?"

  • @caramelprincessxxx41 thanx for the facts sweetie...oh yea n GODDAMN!!! BLACK MEN NEED TO GO TO CHURCH OR SOMETHING TO SLOW DOWN.! i luv yall but its so not necessary

  • these is the same women who have aids.

  • @caramelprincessxxx41 give BW hiv only 2% of the time so your were gay comment is false dam!! cant you black bitches come up w/ some new material besides that false shit on oprah. Pathetic!!

  • @coptic777 ur a sick person lol go get some help , i guess hatin others fills up that empty life u have lmao....hey do us all a favor and find a church

  • @caramelprincessxxx41 here we go w/ the were are mostly fags etc. Hey I got news for you. BW are the highest in abortions. That explains your high HIV rates & even higher herpes rates. Also most of you are fat bitches period. You are the least likely of ALL people male/female etc. to get married or even a man that's a fact also BW are the least likely to breastfeed of ALL women what a bunch of useless women you all are! My point is your high hiv rates are not from DL men the CDC reportsDL men..

  • @caramelprincessxxx41 First off I can care less they can have the american black woman. The fact is honey most of you are overweight so by your own comment that still means most of you are not getting other races of men that are taking you seriously. Keep dreaming though nobody can take away your fantasy from you I guess. My intention is not to mock you just to be real the attitudes, calling out BM etc. weaves over the years has caught up w/ BW no matter what you say BW are @ the bottom dating

  • watch the state of black relationships trailer at:

  • thank god for your experiences ???????more like thank the devil and leading the other stupid blackwoman to their doomsday.the way they interact is like watching a movie,don't these blackwoman realize television programs your mind on how you think,walk,carry yourself as a person.thats why it says "stay tune for the next programming" mind control.these women aren't strong nor educated,their weak and uneducated

  • disgusting the way she just lay down with that white cave dwelling devilman and has his child.integration is wrong,stop race mixing.i guess the devilvision convice them to forget about slavery and the 2010 slavery.yeah he has you in mental slavery.and fuck martin luther king fucking sellout,he lead many to their deaths,dog attacks,spray with water hose, why would you kill yourself to join the whiteman society after they have lynch,murder rape you

  • the blackwoman watches to much bullshit televison,she wants what the whitewoman has in her society so she goes for the whiteman you is exhalted in this america society.this is not our rest blackwoman and man american life is not our way of life only if your a damn devil and wants to be whiteman devil's advocate.i hope the whiteman lynch and murder their stupid black ignorant asses

  • when will people realize we are not africans.the whiteman lied to us and he still lie to us.fuck the whiteman education.adam &eve,eve is still eating the whiteman fruit so she can be exhalted in this society.if the blackman doesn't looks,dress and acts like the whiteman standards in his society the black woman doesn't love you

  • all these aunt kizzez and uncle toms.i can't wait until the race wars breakout in america and we will see where they stand on that day,it's coming very soon.didn't the whiteman lynch,rape the blackman & woman.just because the whiteman television promotes"forget about slavery" they will.bullshit both black and white at the sametime

  • I'm glad dat they talked about interracial datin between blacks and whites, but wahat about

    Blacks and Latinos

    Blacks and Asians

    Blacks and Native Americans

    Blacks and Middle Easterns?

  • I don't get that Chris Rock quote. Brothers have not been "exercising" their options forever. There was a long time where even looking at a white woman would get a black man killed. Black women were dating white men before the other way around. It wasn't until around the time of the 'black power' movement did black women hold on to this "nothing but a brotha" motto.

  • What does having an advanced degree have to do with having a sucesssful marriage? Are they taking marriage classes in college?

  • Oh yea other races of men are really lining up to wife american black women w/ the weaves , attitudes etc. ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

  • " I aint saying shes a gold digger". lol

  • Just started a new fb page,.. Pls join..... BLACK WOMEN WHO ARE OPEN TO DATING ANY RACE, AS LONG AS HE IS A GENTLEMAN...

  • our main problem is that these women are too superficial so by the time it comes to date them we want to throw up....its al about "money" and "status"

  • why is CNN so interested in black relationships all of a sudden? HHmm i wonder - oh propoganda i hear you say - oh surely not - white people wouldnt use their media to divide the black community surely.

    No, i'm sure they wouldnt do that, white people love blacks, i'm sure their just looking out for our interests lol *yeah right*

  • A lot of the comments posted by these black men only add more credence to the fact that many professional black women are single.

  • @palmbeachmadame85 How so?

  • i agree with Kann Dous more black women should take advantage of all their dating options instead of just dating black men only btw, wonderful couples in the video

  • why do some people hate Interracial dating so much i see some Comments that are racist to white people but if some one comes on here talking about black people badly you get mad. date people and see there actions don't judge by the skin not all black people are the same not all white people are the same

    im not saying don't date black people date black people and date other races to.

  • fuck these delusional black bitches of 2010, they disgust me to point i could careless if one was buutt naked standing right in front of me. The way they dress u could consider they walking naked in public, the who fuck wants these triffling whores that sold their souls to the devil to get up in this society. They been sucking the white man d!ck eva since we were brought here as slaves n today they still sucking the white mans dick

  • Fuk these delusional black bitches, its 2010 and i am so fed up and sick of their shit, i rarely even look at these days even if she's butt naked in front of me, they just fucking disgust me.

  • Bitch shut the fuck up...it is probably you sucking the so called "White Dick" and it didn't take you where you want to be obviously, that's why you're hating right now.

  • @barlynchi shut up woman r woman white or black it dont matter we are all the same we r all humans damn

  • Black+white=grey.

  • this black bitch a white devil lover, her and her white kkk member grand dragon and have each other. and have little bi-racial clan member kids. black women sold their souls to the devil, and are nothing but sexual objects now, no one wil lever take them serious in a relationship.

  • Most black women do not care about black men nor do they care about good black men.Black men are dying in America.

  • we need to date if we find a man attractive and see if there is more not if the man is black or not some black men date all races of people to see if something is there why not us.

  • Honestly, too many of our black men are in jail or prison and it is getting worst.

  • People need to find LOVE, just love, not limit it to a race. :\

  • black man for me

  • Living in Scandinavia, and seeing the 'epitome' of white every day... that Tom Rasmussen, yeah, sure he is white - but not THAT white, if you get me?

    If I saw him on the street over here, I would actually think he had some 'foreign blood' in him. GREAT documentary by the way.

  • Racism is stupid. Raise the kids as themselves. How the Hell do you raise a kid black, or white anyway? Just raise them well, and they'll be fine.

  • @lulz666f Aaaaaaamen!

  • @lulz666f so tru:)!

  • Interesting. I also want to note that the reason why some black mothers place greater care on their daughters education rather than sons, is that the white men feel less intimidated by the black woman.

  • @225megan bull shit

  • The director of "Something New" is frontin and fooling NO ONE!!...her FAKE speaking voice and her overall look is CONTRADICTORY...we know a hoodrat when we see one LOL

  • Where did you get your information from? You can't just quote numbers. Keep in mind that a lot of those unmarried women chose to be unmarried. Why don't you look up the divorce rate with Black and White people

  • In case you forgot. 79 percent of all welfare recipients are White. The majority of people who live under the poverty line are White from the Midwest. You need to do your research before you say we need to straighten up our lives.

  • I won't even lie, I'm a stickler for correct grammar. I would feel a bit cautious if someone spelled whose or who's wrong. Although, I don't think she didn't say yes to him because of that. She was looking at his profile picture. It probably didn't look sophisticated to her.

  • Black Women expect a lot!!! Thats the killer right there.. All black women want is MONEY!!! Its always bout a black man job.. I'm a black guy myself and all I ever hear is how black men dont have careers or they dont make EQUAL to what I make... For Example I work for a non profit organization, that caters to poverty born children.. I might make $30k a year but I'm happy that I have my job because I was an orphan and I wanted to make a change... Why cant I be happy with what I do?

  • fuck niggers, im moving to iceland

  • phys08 ~ Henry Lewis Gates ( Pres. Obama'a friend) is married to his WHITE wife for over 30 years.

  • phys08 ~ Black Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas has been married to his WHITE wife almost 40 years..... Long-term Black Man/ White woman relationship are just as common as long-term WM/BW relationships.

    .

  • *** One reason for the many single Black women and fatherless homes in the blk community is the well known, "Can't No Man Tell Me Shit", attitude of the Black woman.. This attitude plus her insane belief that SHE is to be Man of the house, and attempting to force the Black Man into a Feminine role, is one reason why many Blk Men don't take seriously the idea of marriage to a Blk Woman.

    Many BM chose singleness or marriage to women of Other races who do Not share the BW's twisted mindset.

    .

  • All these black women telling us how well they are doing.

    I thought black people were treated so badly in this country?

    Maybe they weren't after all.

    Maybe the problems black people have in America are internal.

  • your are not black,so how in hell can you begin to understand anything black ppl say/go through

  • *** 70% of Black women single?.. If a Black man is looking for a Black Woman to marry, there really aren't many if any Black women left for him to chose from after he rules OUT all of the "bad apples" listed below,,,

    * Those who think the WOMAN is to be Head of the House.

    * Those who are FAT

    * Those who have STD's

    * Those who are Lesbians

    * Those who hate being Black

    * Those with DIVA complexes

  • * Those with GODDESS complexes

    * Those with "PRINCESS SYNDROME"

    * Those who are NOT Feminine

    * Those who are simply NOT Attractive

    * Those with OOW kids and "Baby-Daddies

    * Those who would never CARE about you

    * Those who will listen to girlfriends above listening to you

  • * Those who are Arrogant, Prideful, Selfish, and Self-Centered

    * Those who are Stubborn, Confrontational, and Disrespectful

    * Those who dont believe in Up-lifting or Praising a BLACK man

    * Those who won't COOK a meal for her man

    * Those who want a man to COOK for HER

    * Those who are in DEBT up to her eyeballs

    * Those who are MATERIALISTIC

  • * Those who have rotten Credit

    * Those who don't believe in GOD.

    The "pickins" among Black women are VERY slim.,. Yet a Black man must NOT lower his Standards!!.. Those BM who do lower their standards normally end up DIVORCED or trapped in an unhappy marriage without Love, without Support, and without RESPECT in his own home. Black men MUST include women from OUTSIDE of the black race to find enough QUALIFIED women to chose from when looking for a Real woman to LOVE HIM and to marry.

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  • *** One reason for the many single Black women and fatherless homes in the blk community is the well known, "Can't No Man Tell Me Shit", attitude of the Black woman.. This attitude plus her insane belief that SHE is to be Man of the house, and attempting to force the Black Man into a Feminine role, is one reason why many Blk Men don't take seriously the idea of marriage to a Blk Woman.

    Many BM chose singleness or marriage to women of Other races who do Not share the BW's twisted mindset.

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  • That was a long list, but same rules could apply to black men as well.

  • Black women have already complied their long list of why there aren't any quality black men on the planet... My point is that there are also NO quality black WOMEN on the planet as well.

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  • LOL, if you say so.....but i believe since there are more collage educated, highly skilled, gorgeous black woman in america than black males i find that hard to believe. I know its easier to say "I know you are but what am I", but let's get real. We all know what the deal is. Peace.

  • "Black men MUST include women from OUTSIDE of the black race to find enough QUALIFIED women to chose from when looking for a Real woman to LOVE HIM and to marry."

    The same could be said for black woman & the shortage of "good black men", but I won't say that because I know better. You sound very bitter and hurt by events that might have happened in your life. You don't sound like a wise person at all.

  • Not wise?... I'm wise enough to know what a man should look for in a wife...And yes, I am married, 14 years.

  • For someone who already has someone who sound so angry & bitter. Chill...you have yours; let others get there's (no matter what "race" they might be). Your right a degree does not make a woman a good woman, but it is somewhat essential to have in today's world in order to compete. Black mean cannot compete and that is a huge problem in our community. You can't brush that off and say it doesn't matter, because it does. Like i said before your list could apply to both men & woman. Have a nice day.

  • (cont)- This Intentionally Maltreatment and Educational neglect of young boys is still practiced today by MANY bw to promote their own agenda of dominance over BM,. BW help create an underclass of black males who turn to a life of crime just to survive.

    BW publically criticize BM and speak of the disparity of education between blk males vs. blk females,, a disparity that Black WOMEN themselves deliberately helped to create by their own intentional Maltreatment and Neglect of young black boys.

  • @VAIO294 Think about Oprah's giving for education in Africa. IT IS LIMITED TO GIRLS.. I thought to myself.. Its not like African BOYS are getting top shelf education either. By excluding the boys, they are going to create another generation of girls who look down on men & are prone to "our own men are beneath us" mentality.

  • White men perceive black women to be harder workers than black men. This mentality dates back to early European visitation's to Africa, where white men witnessed the african men sitting down smoking all day and chatting with friends while the woman was the breadwinner--gathering the food, taking care of the children, providing the income--taking care of the family. BW understand it will be easier for their daughters than sons b/c of WM ingrained perceptions of BM

  • *** Black Women have been intentionally engaged in the destruction of the Black Family and Black community.

    In The 1960's It Was First Observed By Social Scientist That Black MOTHERS Engaged In Intentional Maltreatment And Emotional Neglect Of Their Own Black MALE Children, Taking GREATER CARE AND INTEREST In Their Daughters Education and Success Than In Their Sons,. BLACK Women Were The First And Only Race Of Women Who Were Noted To Have Engaged In This Destructive Practice Here In America.

  • lady ~ Also, I didn't say getting a degee "doesn't matter".. I said it doesn't qualify you be to a WIFE or a Good Women... And yes, I am pro-education.. You get an education to help you get a JOB so you can SUPPORT yourself,, and that's what you're suppose to do as an adult,, Support Yourself.... Yet, the problems with black women are problems of the heart, they are spiritual and generational problems that a "degree" cannot fix.

    Btw, most black Women are NOT college educated.

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  • @ladybott5 , well, a disturbing amount of Black women on the internet are saying just the same thing. Which, is why I hear more black men saying the same thing. But then the same women act like hypocrites and say the men are wrong for using the same justification and for vilifying BW just like they vilify BM. The contradiction is just asinine.

  • @ladybott5 WHO KEEPS TELLING YOU THAT THERE IS A "SHORTAGE" OF "GOOD BLACK MEN"? Ahhhh, white people.. and they want to see your numbers decrease ANYWAY.. perfect strategy.. focus on the relationship problems of black males and females EXCLUSIVELY.. keep playing the same tired stupidity & propaganda over & over.. watch black males & females blame each other, tear each other apart, instead of warring with white supremacy- BUILD NOTHING & breed out while EVERYONE ELSE MULTIPLIES & BUILDS!

  • lady ~ "College educated, highly skilled, gorgeous"? None of that makes a female a Real Women, nor does that qualiify her as a WIFE.... A degree simply helps you to get a job so you can feed, clothe, and shelter yourself, and that's what you're suppose to do... But you don't learn how to be a WIFE with a "degree".

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  • well they seem to be a 'wife' to the wm so how comes its only bm that are complaining..i see we meet again sargent?