Do You Know The #1 Secret To A Truly Happy Relationship?

[starfoxstarwolf5423]

My friend said "How 'bout sex?"

[MrHappyrelationships]

Awesome advice and raises a very profound, and unspoken question.....how to tame our ego. I tried asking my ego what its purpose was. It replied that it is essential when we are young to keep us trying to catch up to the amazingly capable adults around us. It keeps us from quitting. It also said that egos like to retire young. I invited mine to retire comfortably and it is far less obtrusive than before. Give it a try and comment here on what happens.

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[WhenLilacsLast]

Succinct but very informative and helpful. Thanks!

[MrEmptyinside]

Should be #1 video on youtube . . . don't love her if she is this, love her for what she is.

[Starkiller60]

"are there secrets to a happy long term relationship?"

"...love" noooooooo wayyyy

[LifeFirst]

That's not all he said....

[Starkiller60]

really?

[DanDevil888]

If all the problems in this world are all about women, then I will soon be your new dictator. I am being tortured by the CIA and deleted my memory when i was 17 and contacted CIA via patriot act. They are still torturing me. enjoy it. myspace/neverending888

Don't cry about a perfect man.

[fantasyformyman]

wow thats so true but men always bring some kind of issues to women

[Maliaariadne]

WOW this is very profound and one of the best notable statements on "love" that I have heard..... I will never forget these words.

"Love means unconditional acceptance of that which you love" and "I love you the way that you are and the way you choose to be in the future"

So well put .... simply stated and it speaks the truth.

[Starkiller60]

are you serious?

[Maliaariadne]

I was "serious" at that moment. Though, I can not really relate to it right now; a mist of bitterness is clouding my perceptions at this moment.

"Ideally", the statement made above about unconditional acceptance is true, no matter what. A pure form of love is acceptance of that which you love and love is unconditionally given in free will without need of love in return.

However, I am choking on the sweet grapes I am speaking of as they are frozen right now and they're very hard to swallow.

[Starkiller60]

you're a "douchebag" at the moment.

[Maliaariadne]

{^: well you know I have always aspired to be a "douchebag" as they seem to serve an absolute function and what would the world be with out them. HHHmm?

[Starkiller60]

hahah absolutely.

[Sparkypim69]

me and my gf agree to dissagree but somtetimes she just gets "annoyed" and she gets moody and then every litlle thing i say is suddenly bad like " hey im gonna go now i gotta go 2 a friend ( when i told her be4 she got moody that i was gonna go ) she says " yeah w/e see if i care if im rly so important 2 u " and stuff like that should i stay in this relationship?

[TeleuteEirene]

I believe that the key to any happy relationship is to be thankful. I mean there will always be that little habits that WILL tick you off but try to focus on the bigger picture of the relationship and be thankful. At times when I feel that his bad points are really bringing me down, I try to get over it but taking a different angle and be thankful for the fact he's (e.g.) a good provider.

[DanAndJenn]

I absolutely agree with this. I have a gratitude journal and when I'm feeling down about something, each day I write at least 5 things that I grateful for. It may sound corny, but it really works, after a few days, I stop noticing the little things that bother me...

--jennifer

[XXXXXXXZar]

A foolish piece of advice. Getting married out of love is exactly what the average person does. The divorce rates speak for themselves, i think. Yes, you can't find a 100% exact replica of yourself. But if you search for that 90% instead of settling with a lousy 20% then you just might have a successful marriage.

[mypoetforever]

SO TRUE! Yes... I'd also say it's awesome, and something that everyone should serious consider before they destroy what could be a happy, lasting relationship.

[FallenAPPL3]

AWSOME

[corndogers564]

Even I agree with him when he says "You're not going to find anyone whose 100% insync with you, it's just unrealistic". We all have our opinions, flaws, etc. This doesn't just go with relationships too. If the people would be more loving, & less judging, we'd live in a much better place.

[corndogers564]

Sorry. I meant to say "If people would be more loving.."

[spdblue91]

i love that old man hehe hes 100% right

[navagation]

Awesome! Smart man! 10/10 Well done!

[Sinjinator]

Come and micromanage me, baby! Leave your ego at the door.

[oscar325]

on the contraire..

of everyone who liked it.

personally i didn't, and thought it was all common sense what he said. The advice was obvious.. of course if you love someone you're likely to last longer.

Come on..

[Americansolider]

Yeah I think he stated the obvious, He did not answer the question properly.

[pisdghfvgju]

nice video.very good advice.

[xxwendyx]

thats good advice!

[sexywifebabe]

This is a good vid and it tells it like it is and there is no B.S. But how many poeple have tried to find there soul mate the question is is there one out there for everone all u can ask in life & love is to be happy with yourself and your panter if u have that good and all the happyniess to u .

[Zoomiepn]

good communication skills is th main point

[101Airbornearmywife]

I think this particular video is great, If you truely love your spouse you wont sweat the small stuff. Youll communicate ALOT and just so you know, EVERYTHING is small stuff no matter how big you think it is. Its all small stuff, get irritated? Just don't go to bed angry with him, anger fuels your thoughts towards divorce. Otherwise happy living.

[meestahwill]

That is some real talk.

[davy3D]

this guy is o great. not that you guy arnt, i love you guys and youve helped me out alot. my wife says sometimes "we are just growing apart" tats like says "im not in love with you anymore" but now i know what to do. thanks you guys and luv ya

[DanAndJenn]

I can't remember if it's this video or not, but I wasn't kidding when I said that Paul has saved us many times. We all need that objective third party to help us through the bumpy times - especially one like Paul, who is a very good counselor/therapist.

[Centrist01]

Awesome video. I hope to find true love as soon as possible. I'm not into that "hookup" bullshit. If you found someone you absolutely enjoyed being every day, why would want to be with any other person? These kind of truths become self-evident with wisdom.

I have noticed that unfortunately, all over the world, government "loves" us. Government tries to micromanage our lives and causes suffering for everyone. Say no to the "nanny state." Say no to authoritarianism.

[spellthemagicword]

Magnificent! Completely True! Amen to this!!

[gossamerwindweb]

I would say this is exactly what has happened with my husband and me. We have given up any micromanaging and just accept, are truthful and unconditional in our love. That is why we hardly fight anymore.