I always find Alex's analogy about 'Cool Moss' is really helpful with Approach Anxiety.
Firewalkers (who walk over hot coals) imagine that they are walking over 'cool moss' & that, instead of their feet getting hotter & hotter, they are getting cooler & cooler with every step.
Same with an approach - just tell yourself positive things (as in this video) & that you're "just going to talk to her & see if you can make her laugh" & the anxiety evaporates.
This is a very good video but there are a few things that I don't necessairly agree with. Approach anxiety never really goes away however it is something you can and must deal with. Personaly belive its the fear in a large part that makes the game more fun. That being said there are many many diffrent types of game taylored to diffrent lifestyles and if this type of thinking works who am I to say diffrent?
I thought I will share this with You: -I am good at eating pizza -I have 6 lvls 80 in World Of Warcraft -Have not shaved in 2 weeks -plays Blues -Just got Gran Turismo 5 -But I am better at Forza Motorsport 3 jokes aside: When You approach a girl that you are attracted to, the sole act of walking up to her and starting the conversation lets her know that you are confident. Sure, you may walk up and start talking with a bitch, but then again, why would You? Good advice, Thanks!
Good video. That fear is made up, its in your head affecting your body. Why let people you dont know determine getting to know someone. If u get blown up then she wasnt for you anyways. But I have heard so many women say "I wish he would have said something or approached." Guys, a lot of those women u stare at and dont approach could be winners. I have a friend who is a 15 on a scale of 10. She never gets approached in NYC. Guys will walk up and say "You are beautiful" And thats it.
Good video. That fear is made up, its in your head affecting your body. Why let people you dont know determine getting to know someone. If u get blown up then she wasnt for you anyways. But I have heard so many women say "I wish he would have said something or approached." Guys, a lot of those women u stare at and dont approach could be winners. I have a friend who is a 15 on a scale of 10. She never gets approached in NYC. Guys will walk up and say "You are beautiful" And thats it.
"I'm smart, I'm funny, and dog-gone it, people like me !! "
TheMichaelDenny 1 month ago
Great advice,she seems like a very sweet person.
arific 11 months ago 2
I always find Alex's analogy about 'Cool Moss' is really helpful with Approach Anxiety.
Firewalkers (who walk over hot coals) imagine that they are walking over 'cool moss' & that, instead of their feet getting hotter & hotter, they are getting cooler & cooler with every step.
Same with an approach - just tell yourself positive things (as in this video) & that you're "just going to talk to her & see if you can make her laugh" & the anxiety evaporates.
tdp1909 1 year ago
stop being so hard on her guys, she's got a sweet disposition.
trevormac77 1 year ago
So cute! thank you:)
bldroptopbeast 1 year ago
This is a very good video but there are a few things that I don't necessairly agree with. Approach anxiety never really goes away however it is something you can and must deal with. Personaly belive its the fear in a large part that makes the game more fun. That being said there are many many diffrent types of game taylored to diffrent lifestyles and if this type of thinking works who am I to say diffrent?
Arenzoj 1 year ago
eqilibrium 1 year ago
Super-duper advice.
bigboy45454545 1 year ago
Good video. That fear is made up, its in your head affecting your body. Why let people you dont know determine getting to know someone. If u get blown up then she wasnt for you anyways. But I have heard so many women say "I wish he would have said something or approached." Guys, a lot of those women u stare at and dont approach could be winners. I have a friend who is a 15 on a scale of 10. She never gets approached in NYC. Guys will walk up and say "You are beautiful" And thats it.
jackrabb33 1 year ago 8
Good video. That fear is made up, its in your head affecting your body. Why let people you dont know determine getting to know someone. If u get blown up then she wasnt for you anyways. But I have heard so many women say "I wish he would have said something or approached." Guys, a lot of those women u stare at and dont approach could be winners. I have a friend who is a 15 on a scale of 10. She never gets approached in NYC. Guys will walk up and say "You are beautiful" And thats it.
jackrabb33 1 year ago
What happened to the other guy from australia
war10ck69 1 year ago
Do never take advice from a woman, me saying im beautiful everyday makes me think im gay
part1hey 1 year ago 37
in reality, the other guys around would be jealous of u cos u have to balls to approach. theyll look up to u (respect) most likey haha
brownie003 1 year ago