Tom--as always, brilliant stuff! But here's the deal. As Freud first postulated, people want Variety in their life. (Variety means changing states, changing friends, changing jobs, etc.) But they NEED Familiarity. The Familiarity of the same people they have already been hanging around...even though those people are deleterious to a serious, permanent change they want to make. The key is to encourage people to accept Change and find a way to replace the Familiarity they are accustomed to.
I don't know, part of me says that's just escaping your problem and quitting in a way. I think you need to change yourself first, then others could want to change eventually too.
But I agree if you're with people who do really really bad or morally bad things, I agree it's smart to hang out with a less negative vibe.
Only socialize with positive, confident, ambitious people. Listen to the 'positive voice' inside your head. In using the 'Law of attraction', keep positive feelings inside you. GO TOWARDS a better life, rather than AWAY FROM a bad life.
Wow...I wonder what happened to the sound on this. It obviously worked a while back
I will repost it.
TomVizzini 3 years ago
sound?
dw3541 3 years ago
Mm Ok...
carign 3 years ago
Arrrigth!
carign 3 years ago
Tom--as always, brilliant stuff! But here's the deal. As Freud first postulated, people want Variety in their life. (Variety means changing states, changing friends, changing jobs, etc.) But they NEED Familiarity. The Familiarity of the same people they have already been hanging around...even though those people are deleterious to a serious, permanent change they want to make. The key is to encourage people to accept Change and find a way to replace the Familiarity they are accustomed to.
PlanetMcLean 4 years ago
Awesome! I agree with you 100%
rawdonmax 4 years ago
I don't know, part of me says that's just escaping your problem and quitting in a way. I think you need to change yourself first, then others could want to change eventually too.
But I agree if you're with people who do really really bad or morally bad things, I agree it's smart to hang out with a less negative vibe.
jkygogo 4 years ago
Meant to say, it's good advice and common sense is not that common.
EdZep123 4 years ago
Common sense but you keep saying "alright?". :)
EdZep123 4 years ago
Only socialize with positive, confident, ambitious people. Listen to the 'positive voice' inside your head. In using the 'Law of attraction', keep positive feelings inside you. GO TOWARDS a better life, rather than AWAY FROM a bad life.
UKJazzCat 4 years ago
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you look like an illegal alien
amerklinger 4 years ago
I always find it amazing what filters some people look at the world through. I am embarrassed for you
TomVizzini 4 years ago
you look like an illegal alien.
amerklinger 4 years ago
If you can't change the people around you, change the people around you.. BRILLIANT!
MrBigChop 4 years ago