Domino effect argument. Women are evil, chats are evil, women chats with men, she must have sex... That seems absolutely logical. *sarcasm* This man is absurd.
@gamemaker1234 I'm not saying that they are, I am simply highlighting the theological position of many religious fundamentalist. This idea that women are evil evolved out of a distortion of Platonic idealism. It was believed that the material world was evil and that the goal of those within the world was to escape it for a more perfect immaterial world. Since women were the ones who gave birth, or brought us into this material world, they were considered “evil” by many fundamentalists.
@gamemaker1234 Then again I'm not quite sure if you are trying to assert that they actually are? If you are trying to defend that position then you are a fucking moron, please kill yourself.
i am not muslim but have been learning about Islam, i do talk to men on my facebook account, strangers i talk to only in the open on my wall where it is public for all to see and the second sex is mentioned i will delete and block the person and i talk to my brothers on private chat .. is this considered wrong?
Non-Muslim ladies. Please don't marry Muslims. Most of them do not reciprocate your love. Most are GIGOLOS and USERS. They lie about many things, lie about their "love" for you. When you look into your Muslim boyfriend's eyes, you might mistake his glazed looks for the melting look of love, BUT GET THIS, IT IS NOT LOVE. It is only his thought of your passport via marriage - the passport to the land of milk and honey. Thoughts of your passport, money, properties make Muslims go all googey-eyed.
I am seriously asking. I love this girl and she loves me and we want to marry in a Jewish ceremony. Only problem is she is muslim. She wants to know the penalty of apostating from islam.
@Fattboy26 dude if you're in love and you can respect her beliefs and she can respect yours and you can find a way to love eachother and take care of eachother despite that then fuck the world man.. ofcourse marry her. tell her that she cant live being afraid of what a sheikh might think of marrying a jew or even converting.. if its what makes her fucking ecstatic then everyone and anyone should respect it.. I know God will... he created you didnt he? you fell in love for a reason
@Fattboy26 awww :) who are you afraid that would be a problem for? Does she not believe in it at all? Or does she just want to be a non-muslim on paper? Or is this a parental problem?
Look her father is not to thrilled that she wants to convert to Judaism. She is trying to convince her family to convert to. We want to get married in a Synagogue. But she is afraid that visiting her family in Saudi Arabia as a apostate and a Jewish convert might be a problem.
@Fattboy26 well if anyone harasses her about it it would be on a personal level not on a legal level. Ofcourse she'll get a few teases about the fact that she converted in the beginning but itll just be peoples opinions there isnt a law that would make her immoral or anything... Anyone can twist any words of the religion just so they can make fun of her if they want to. But that's the maximum they can do. If it's a problem with her familyy then she needs to personally sort that out with them.
@Fattboy26 buut if you're looking for a verse in the Qur'an that clears your situation, theres this one: "kol ya ayoha al kaferoon. la a3bedo ma ta3bodoon w antom 3abedoon ma la a3bod. Lakom deenakom wa leyya deeni".. it means: tell them, non-believers I dont worship what you worship and you dont worship what I worship. you have your religion and I have mine.. It's basically trying to tell muslims how to handle non-believers by letting them live.
Yeah but how come Saudi Arabia does not allow any other faith build churches. I don't know we wanted to visit her family in Saudi Arabia after we married.
@tonia8647 "Mahram" means "non-marriageable". This applies to your parents, siblings, children, siblings' children, your parent's spouses, uncles/aunts, grandparents. This is incest. Also included are milk-mothers and their children, which is, any woman that breast-feeds you that is not your mother, she becomes your seragite mom and her children are considered siblings and therefore incestuous. You also cannot marry those of the same gender. A woman does not need to wear a veil before Mahram.
@tonia8647 mahram are individuals that a person can't marry to like his/her siblings, parents, grandparents, uncles/aunties, nephews/nieces. In Islam whoever that have had sexual intercourse with your mahram are also considered as mahram even after divorce or even without any marital relationship. Besides that, a wet nurse and her mahram will also be considered as your mahram. Basically there are 3 ways of determining mahram; (1) Blood (2) sexual relationship (3) wet nursing
@tonia8647 dude if you wanna learn about islam pleaaaase do not listen to these extremists.. get a translated version of the book and be careful where you buy it from.. :)
not everyone has a male mahram...some women's male mahram passed away already or they don't live close by....so does it mean these sisters cannot get married ?
how can he come to my house? he lives literally at the other end of the world..and we cannot meet, because of visa problems. im so confused, may allah guide me.
you can't split a house in half. alot of times the divorce happens and they give the house to the woman even though the man paid for it or still is paying for it. that's not justice. that's insanity. you ever heard the saying "it's cheaper to keep her"?
actually it is. ibn saud was installed by the british government. those laws are the laws of the saudi family. the iranian revolution was constructed by the west to get rid of the sha. they trained khomeini.
this clearly shows how much knowledge you lack in muslim thought and knowledge. i know people who are the biggest muslims around and there daughters aren't wearing hijab, aren't practicing. to further show your delusion most muslim women don't wear hijab. and don't practice. you tell me genious. how does hijab benefit men? men have to wear beards and aren't allowed to wear anything revealing from the navel to below the knees. so we have to cover up too
Some Muslims are enlightened and don't force their beliefs on their children. However they are not following Islamic teachings: we both know that the Qur'an makes numerous references to men having control over women, even to the point of being allowed to beat them. The hijab benefits men because it removes sexual temptations; men should, however, be able to resist such temptations without making women wear dark and oppressive clothing.
This is not a musim. this is known as a hipocrit. one who claims to believe but really doesn't. yes there are references to men being the guardians of women. the beat them ayat is addressed in a hadith. it says to tap them lightly on the knee with a stick. hijab only limits temptation. it helps men NOT LOOK. which is besides the talking about trying to fornicate with part. dark and oppressive clothing. lmao. they choose to wear that.
let me correct you. they practiced when they were little. wore hijab but they got old and started hanging around this group and that group got a boyfriend or girlfriend and the rest is history. an act of worship is done solely for the pleasure of allah. not please family community or father or husband. and so any muslim girl wearing a hijab to please other than allah is not a religious girl.
a girl and a guy just talking for no reason is a trap. the conversation can wonder. they might like each other. something important then no it's not.
well nova we clearly see the results of not covering up in american society. you don't have to aggree with shariah. just acknowledge that it's alot more difficult to follow if women and men were open friends and women don't cover up.
islamic culture comes from the sources. not from the brains of some human beings in the 21st century. islamic culture is not domes and art. islamic culture is shari'ah and shari'ah is based off the qur'an and the sunnah. not what some people decide in the 21st century. you know damn well it doesn't say anywhere to stone the woman that was raped. so why do people like you try to act like it's apart of islam?
who told you anyway that muslims treat women as sex objects? There's alot of rules and ordinances to dealing with a wife in islam. it's not have sex with her and beat her like you and some muslims think.
Just watch videos like this one and you will see that Islam can't look beyond sex when it comes to women. For example, he says that a girl and a guy just talking is a "satanic trap". One of my best friends in high school was a girl, so I know how absurd this kind of thinking is. Women have to cover up because their BODY is all that Islamic is fixated on, as opposed to their humanity.
Well, that's up to them. If they're both happy and willing to do that, what business is it of anyone else? Again you prove that you are obsessed with sex when it comes to women.
we're trying to follow shariah not democratic secularism. no faithful muslim is happy and willing to sin. if he/she does he/she is ashamed. no i'm not obsessed with sex when it comes to women. i'm in control. i don't want casual sex with a woman. i want a relationship children love happiness. like most muslims.
So in other words you don't trust yourself to control your own desires. You'd rather introduce oppressive and stupid laws and rules because you don't trust yourself to be friends with a girl without trying to get her in bed! Amazing!
nothing in the qur'an or hadiths are oppressive or stupid. religious girls don't want to talk to me as much as i don't want to talk to them. we don't question our rulings laws or codes. we love our rulings laws and codes. women CHOOSE to wear hijab. and niqab. and don't argue with me i've talked to a couple ones who's family aren't religious and chose islamic lifestyle. all that force stuff is a lie. a grown muslim chooses to follow allah's orders.
It is imposed upon them by their fathers and husbands. Even in non-Muslim countries where they could LEGALLY refuse to wear it, doing so would often result in their being ostracised by their families and communities, or even hurt or killed. The "rulings" are invented by men for the benefit of men. You have basically admitted this yourself by indicating that you don't trust your own self-discipline.
I think you've realised that your arguments are absurd. Please go and reflect on the problems and injustices and are caused by Islamic culture. Have a nice day.
you think that because you wanna think that. i'm actually getting really tired of people who believe what they want to and don't believe in proofs and evidences. i consider people like that to be subhuman. untermensch
Subhuman? That's a rather strange choice of word. You haven't shown me any proof or evidence. But the best evidence of all is to just look at the state of Muslim countries; look at Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Iran, etc. And compare them to the U.S., UK, France, etc. Islam DOESN'T WORK. It is simply inferior to secular, liberal democracy. That's why Muslim countries are corrupt, economically stagnant and oppressive.
none of these countries you mentioned follow proper islamic teachings. all 3 of those countries have governments that were installed by the west. INCLUDING iran. you don't believe me just do your research.
muslim countries are corrupt because of western installments. lmao. it has nothing to do with islam. if you don't know what you're talking about don't talk. if you don't have a source you don't know what you're talking about
Oh, so it's the West's fault that Saudi Arabia doesn't let women drive, and that Iran beats up protesters, that that Pakistan kills 1000 women a year in insane honour killings? Whatever you say. They are corrupt because they use Islam as an ideological shield against their own people. They are oppressive because Islam is oppressive.
saudis follow there own thing. iranians follow shi'a. what's your point. people follow alot of stuff other than islam. you know something called culture.not all muslims are informed on islam. especially in pakistan. lmao. they have people there that prostrate to the shrines of dead people
You don't seem to understand that when you have a religion which says that women are inferior to men, and that women have to obey men, and that men can beat women, this will inevitably lead to women being oppressed. It's really quite simple. Of course men and women should respect EACH OTHER and be loyal to EACH OTHER, but they should have equal rights.
her father my mistake. authu billah. all of my prospects i have found have come from the internet. if there was no internet i'd be lookin for a good non muslim woman to give shahadah and get married to. when i ask people if they know any sisters that want to get married they say no plain and flat out. it's not the setting. you think i'm going to wander off into craziness? why won't you immigrant people give us your daughters?
with all due respect to the sheikh i find alot of what's being said to be only to cause further problems in the west. Finding a woman to marry in the west isn't as simple as having the money finding the suitor and getting married. you look around you could be looking for 10+ years. and along the way when you find someone you like his father says no because you're not ________ or you don't have a big enough bank balance.
@Skindrift It's better like that, mainly because men fight for their women. Beats 2 men marrying 1 women that is just awkward. You better off with a virgin and married couple or a man marrying a couple's wife.
chat this.know that satan's son mohamad's enjoyed sex perversions with toddlers, grannies,criminal activities of lies, deceit, hallucination, theft, slaughter of innocent children, women and old men, amputations &stoning of people, killings of pregnant women, raping of female slaves &booties, idiotic belief of pagan stone vagina shaped allah,fake prophesies, plagarized ideas from torah and bible, sister-wife-mother beater..more.conning infidels and muzzies?koran is a manual of terrorism.
It's funny: we hear so much from certain Muslims about women being treated like sex objects in the West, yet it's ISLAMIC culture that can't see anything other than sex when they look at women. Chatting online is going to lead to sexual conversations? Don't be foolish. Friendship between guys and girls is normal.
that's false. women are human beings within the islamic context. in the west they are objects for sexual use. women are mothers caretakers. that's not an object. a sexualized beast ready to hump any man or woman is an object.
Your comments simply aren't supported by the facts. In "the West" women are business leaders, government ministers, police officers, intelligence officers, university lecturers, doctors, etc. They are free to act and dress however they like and any sexual violence against women is severely punished. Conversely, Islamic law doesn't seem able to look past sex when it comes to women and girls; that's why girls aren't even allowed to be friends with guys or to talk to them online.
there all sexual objects. especially the police officers. i'm born and raised in america don't act stupid with me. i was raised in front of the television
The fact that you were raised in the United States illustrates that you have never experienced Islamic culture; you therefore have no credibility in arguing that it protects women's rights. America may have a highly sexualised society, but that is very different from treating women only as sex objects. You strike me as another impressionable and naive westerner who takes what you have for granted. Women are better off in the West than at any other time in human history.
islamic culture is in the books. the muslim's culture is in practice. idk why you would say that anyway. it's hilarious. WOMEN ARE ONLY TREATED AS SEX OBJECTS. i kissed a girl and i like it. get out of here man. i'm no dummy. the average woman dresses herself to be sexually appealing. i don't take what i have for granted. im merely keeping it real. something that alot of people in the states don't know too much about.
You honestly think that you can understand a culture just by reading about it? I don't see how your kissing a girl and enjoying it has any bearing on the subject of how women are treated by society. Of course the average girl tries to appear attractive to attract guys - just like the average guy tries to appear attractive and confident in order tot to attract girls. Sex and relationships is central to human nature, but is again irrelevant to the issue of women's rights in society.
apparently you didn't properly read or comprehend what i said. instead of wasting my time i'm going to ask you to read it again. kissing a girl is known as first base. cut the bull. i'm an american i know what goes on in this country. what i wanna ask you is why are you trying to fool these foreigners and immigrants so that they think that women are dignified and respected in American society when there no more than tools and sexual objects?
Actually what you said didn't really make sense; what exactly do you mean? We obviously have a very different idea of what being "dignified and respected" entails. In my mind it means equality before the law, equal rights, equal opportunities, and blaming MEN for not controlling their sexual urges, not women. And by the way, i'm British and not American.
what we mean by being dignified and respected is the nature of the respective parties being respected. not some idealized non practical garbage. the nature of the man is respected as well as the nature of the woman. and people act like themselves not like the other party. it is much harder for men to control there sexual urgies not women. but both are blamed. haraam is haraam no matter what circumstance you're in
And what is "the nature of the woman" in your mind? Let me guess: submissive and obedient? This kind of thinking is exactly the problem. Historically, men have protected and provided for women and so women have obeyed and submitted to men. But times have changed. in modern society women don't need "protecting" in the same way, and so they shouldn't be treated as inferior or be expected to cover their bodies for the benefit of horny men. Act like a man and control yourself!
shy quiet reserved. not outgoing confident and dominant like the man.(it is so sad how alot of women try to take up this role). the brain of the man and the woman hasn't changed and neither has the physiology. the man will ALLWAYS give to the woman. you have all these women being raped and beaten and you're saying women don't need protecting. women want and crave protection. it's within there nature.
But that's just ridiculous. I am a man and yet I'm quite reserved; I don't really like speaking to large groups, etc. I've met many women who are NATURALLY a lot more outgoing than me - very confident, love to party, etc. It makes no sense to say that certain personality traits are limited to men or women. It is husbands who do the beating in Islamic cultures, and women are PUNISHED for being raped. At least the LAW protects women in America.
they have lost there feminine nature. if they became muslim and put on a hijab i'd still say no thank you. this is called unladylike conduct.
what's your point? i didn't say anything about muslims being perfect. and i pointed that out. but of course the prophet(saw) said that there is no blame on a woman for being raped. and the men who do it are punished with deathand women have rights over men in america's legal system. a woman merely says he hit me and he's gonna be in jail for months.
I think the truth is that you feel threatened by confident, intelligent women. You say that women are "unladylike", but what you mean is that they aren't submissive to men. My original point stands: Islamic culture is obsessed with and cannot look past sex when it comes to women. It is oppressive and wrong.
no. i don't feel threatened. there not gettin my phone number. i like quiet women. women who know there role. women who obey man's authority. i'm not missing out on some crazy aggressive testosterone driven woman
A relationship with a doormat would be boring. If you just want to be obeyed you'd be better off getting a dog. An exciting and stimulating relationship involves arguments, compromises and ultimately fighting to win and keep a girl's loyalty and respect. That's my opinion anyway.
obedience is apart of it. because i'm the leader of the household. when someone comes to visit they ask for the "man of the household". your idea of a relationship shows that you aren't romantic. and btw some women will walk away from you if you aren't projecting yourself as leader and a man. once a woman gives you orders the relationship is finished. you'll no longer have her respect. she'll be using you for money maybe sex and she'll be cheating on you
I don't know of anyone who visits and asks for "the man of the household". People sometimes ask for the "homeowner" or the "bill payer", which may be a man or a woman. I actually agree with you that letting a woman walk all over you is likely to result in her losing respect for you. But the same is true is you are a control freak. As I stated, successful relationships are about compromise - listening and making decisions together.
depends on the decisions. and depends on the control. the homeowner and the bill payer is usually the man. even if the woman has a job. sometimes it's the woman. i know a muslim who has a wife that pays for everything. he's a lucky guy. doesn't have to work. but most of the time it's the man. you allways have to listen to the woman. that's something she needs. listening and paying attention to. lots of attention.
If the man and woman are married then they would both own the home - that's what marriage entails. And a good example is if the woman is talking to other men online, such as old school friends. The man would have no right to stop her doing that. This video indicates that Islam would try to stop male/female friendships. And as for divorce - marriage is a legal union; if the couple are no longer happy, then they should divorce. Life is too short to waste in a miserable relationship.
and what happens when they break up? where does the house go? no woman has no right to talk to man and man has no right to talk to woman. woman has a right to object to the man talking to women and the same thing the other way around. i'm asking you why do you think that the relationships are so miserable? somalis have high divorce rates.
All property and money should be divided up fairly in the event of divorce. What you are saying is outrageous. i've already told you that one of my best friends in high school was a girl. I talk to her pretty much every week online, even though she is going out with someone. So what you're saying that that her boyfriend should be allowed to stop her talking to me? How should I know why some people are miserable? Sometimes relationships just fall apart.
yup. man earned the most money should give up that house and car. and pay her 2,000 a month. justice is a case by case basis. there is no justice in the american legal system. yes he should be.
i hate when people talk and they don't know what there talking about. you only need to look up women's rights in islam. women have the right to divorce the right to choose there own partner(can't be forced into marriage) women have rights in marriage women have the right to vote women women can and have been learning freely without discrimination islam and or other studies. some of the biggest scholars were women. women in the west rarely have a feminine nature to them nowadays
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If I were born into that religion I'd leave the second I hit 18. I don't care what my family or church would think of me, a religion that treats women like s*** is not worth being a part of.
@yusufulhas I wrote that a month ago, so it's hard for me to remember exactly why I said that. But after watching the video again it seems to me that they tell women what they can and can't do. If a woman speaks with a man over the internet, they automatically assume it's for sexual reasons, when in reality it might be just a good friend of hers. It should be up to the women, not the men, on weather or not they want to talk to certain people online.
what do u mean? from where did u heard about abusement for women and children in Islam? i can see that u get the wrong information :)
don't ever said something bad when u didn't know the religion by heart..
we aren't saying bad things about ur religion.. so why did u say something bad about ours?
Islam is PEACE, we don't like any disagreement about religion.. yes, u're christian and im a Muslim.. let's practise what our religion told ask to do.. do good deeds and avoid evil doings
this video is not correct. Don't ask expert wannabees. you can talk to each other in any media as long as you do it openly, with wali or representative. It does not make a difference if it is at masjid, food court or parking lot. It just should be not alone, but you are sinning just because you ask a brother a question or have a conversation
from what i understood, what he means is it opens the doors to shaitan, then the shaitan tempts them, the male and female into doing wrong, even if they are religious, the shaitan as we all know works step by step
@noobcake56 y is eyerything haram in dis life?life of a muslim in dis world is like a prison ....and a prisoner is not allowed 2 do many things ...only bad things have been made haram ....
woah. i love this. women should not be allowed to write also, because the writing devices, pens and pencils, have been designed by Satan. which is the reason they look so phallic and erotic. i hope someone does something about this quickly
Its called knowledge. This didnt wake up one morning and decide to give speeches. He has studied for many years. He quote Sahih Hadith and Quran. He proof for his words. Dont make mockery out Islam. its the only reigion which has clear guidance. The Noble Quran.
Literary interpretation can take away any clarity in any guidance. What you see happening is the modern-day adaptation of a contextualized ruling that was suitable for its time. Tell me MuslimWomen1(I don't know why you're women and not woman), do you feel, as a Muslim, that if you chat with a person over the internet you will end up discussing matters of sex and other things that are haram?
There is no such thing a modern interpretation forget about it. Its not happening. Literal interpretation? Do you know what tafseer of the Quran is? Its an explanation of each Ayah(verse) in detail.
Allah(swt) created us all and He knows best how men and women and all his creations funtion. Therefore we should follow his guidance, the guidance of Qura and Sahih Hadith.
One other thing, I see the not practicing muslims and unbelieving men and women, I compare them to the people I know who are practicing Islam purely, they way they treat the opposite sex is much different.
I LOVE SATAN...HAHA...SATAN ENCOURAGES INDIVIDUALITY NOT BEING FORCED TO FOLLOW POINTLESS RULES BY SOME OLD MAN YOU DONT EVEN KNOW .... IM GOING TO GO LIVE MY LIFE THE WAY I WANT TO, PEACE OUT
As salaamu alakem, in america especially there is a problem, a lot of women convert and maybe they live in places where there are very few muslims indeed, its hard for them to get a muslim husband or even to cover and bad situations come out of this,I wish there were places for converts where they could go live near muslim commuties and have somewhere to stay until they find work,housing or husbands (whatever comes first)
salam aleikom, first of all, thank u for answering my question,
U mean a women is allowed to ask even if she asks a man??? my question is is she alloawes to do that : to ask a man (about Islam of course) isn't it haram in the religion of Islam?????
@coucoumus wa 'alaikum as Salaam, well , sister...yes, it is...if you see the history of islam... women companion of the Prophet (peace be upon him) asked the questions regarding everything to him. And after the Prophet's death (peace be upon him) we have seen, companions used to ask question to Aisah (May Allah be pleased with her)....read the below Hadeeth
there is no marriage for an american muslim male unless he talks to a woman either a muslim woman or giving a non muslim woman shahadah or going oversees for a woman that doesn't speak english and wants a green card. the only americans i know that are married either gave there woman shahadah or took one from oversees. except for 1. if you're going to knock the muslim program in America i supposed that you Create a better one. or preferably give us one of your daughters
@coucoumus More over women companion used to inquire about religious matters that many women nowadays would find embarrassing to ask about. For instance, `A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) praised the women of Al-Ansar for trying to understand their religion without being held back by bashfulness for they used to ask about such matters as major ritual impurity, wet dream, purificatory bath, menstruation, chronic vaginal discharge, etc.
@coucoumus as I said earlier, over the internet or otherwise, u should make sure that u are asking the question from the right person, who is knowledgeable and plus you should follow the hijab system also. By the Way sister, I am not a scholar, but what I have given the answers is what I know, of the little knowledge that Allah had blessed me with. To ask ur question on islam/ to find answers, you can visit islamqa(dot)com , this is the most authentic website which i know
@coucoumus The answer is YES! whom else can you ask if you cant ask scholars or an imams about islam, and al scholars and imams are male, so just ask what ever you want to know and dont feel ashamed, you asking because you want to learn and ALLAH loves learned people.
@coucoumus Over the internet or whereever u are allowed but u should know the person u r asking the question is the Right person. If not whether it is internet or other wise, its wont be good. Allah knows best.
@coucoumus well women should ask women its dangerous to convo with men over the net regardless of weather its about islam or not research the story of barsesa this should enlighten you abit more even through email it is not good "whatever is halal is clear whatever is haram is clear and anything between it avoid it to safe gaurd your deen & honour" please do go on islam qa im not a shaykh or anything may Allaah guide us and help us all
i'll be damned if i go majnun or i fall into zina because i'm waiting for something that's not going to happen. if you condemn the chats you should help set up COMPLETELY SAFE ways to enjoin the good and forbid the wrong. or else be quiet because you're only adding to the fitna.
as an enemy of islam you have all the right to confuse your self and fight against the Truth. This advise is to the muslims and muslim means the one who submitts his/her will to Allaah and we are very happy and satisfied by doing this and this submission makes us brave nad strong and we worship none else not even our own desires ...but how can you feel this freedom and light when you dwell in darkness.
alhamdulillah I meat with muslem lady and I merry her and I have a son now I meat her in the net and from the first time we start chat her family and my family knows that I am from Iraq and she is from Azerbaijan we are alhamdulillah happy family and we was chatting more than one year and never say bad words .alhamdulillah for every thing.
@tarikm1 alhamdolillah you are happy and you are living well but what is Haram in Islam is Haram .. we pray for your safe life but we ask you not to support the wrong and reject the fact and truth as advised by noble sheikh.BarakAllaah fee
@AbuMusaNiazi alsalam 3likom wa ra7mat Allah wa brakatoho brother Abu Musa. Thank you for your advise bark Allah fik brother I know what haram in Islam its haram inded and I was not rejecting what the shaikh saying Thank you again brother
@yusufulhas yes we give our daughters in marriage and that is enjoining good .....not like you kuffras who can not stop their daughters to perform adultery thus by doing wrong.The difference is that we muslims enjoin good and forbid wrong.Whereas you infidels order wrong and can not dare to perform good.Think over what i said.....
different times different scenarios. that's the point i'm tryin to make. if there is no food to eat except pork you can eat pork to survive. no i'm not rafidee.
gotta say this sounds like nasiha aqliah- sound advice. The Rabbis of the Hasidm ban internet in the home. And few here can say that the conversation btwn the sexes is often spiritual or polite. It is often the means for release. But the release is haram.
Assalam Alaikum, I don't know who you are, but I assume that you are a Muslim. So what I would say is you should not feel / think like that. Anas (radhiallahu anhu) said that he heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) say: Allah the Exalted said: O son of Adam! As long as you invoke Me and plead to Me, I will forgive you whatever you have committed, and I will not make much of it. O son of Adam! If your evil deeds reach the borders of the sky,
and then you ask Me for forgiveness, I will forgive you. O son of Adam! If you bring forth the earth full of errors, then you meet Me while you do not associate anything (or anyone) with Me, I will bring forth for you its full of forgiveness. [At-Tirmidhee (Shaikh Albanee rendered it as Hasan)]
Say: O My servants who have transgressed against their own souls, despair not of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surah az-Zumar
Haha...muslims are so deluded and evil. lol
it's not 1100AD you retards.
KillinDaWelfareMCs 2 days ago
how if iam a convert to islam and i have no mahram??what is the way to marry?my mahram is christian and they do not accept muslim husband
mariam14009 1 week ago
rules made by men for women;
why doesnt a woman give such fatwa?!!!
KaliPuppies 1 week ago
fuck this virus of a religion- from iran
Dj1LL 3 weeks ago
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Just look at the questions this "guru" has been asked: are muslims really that stupid ?
hierostratus 3 weeks ago
What do you mean "allowed" women can do whatever they want
Abena20 1 month ago
Domino effect argument. Women are evil, chats are evil, women chats with men, she must have sex... That seems absolutely logical. *sarcasm* This man is absurd.
Salieri325 1 month ago 5
@Salieri325 Women are Evil WHAT!
gamemaker1234 2 weeks ago
@gamemaker1234 I'm not saying that they are, I am simply highlighting the theological position of many religious fundamentalist. This idea that women are evil evolved out of a distortion of Platonic idealism. It was believed that the material world was evil and that the goal of those within the world was to escape it for a more perfect immaterial world. Since women were the ones who gave birth, or brought us into this material world, they were considered “evil” by many fundamentalists.
Salieri325 2 weeks ago
@gamemaker1234 Then again I'm not quite sure if you are trying to assert that they actually are? If you are trying to defend that position then you are a fucking moron, please kill yourself.
Salieri325 2 weeks ago
Temptations are situations created by Satan to cause us to fail. Trials are situations created by God to strengthen our Faith.
Lawane510 1 month ago
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i am not muslim but have been learning about Islam, i do talk to men on my facebook account, strangers i talk to only in the open on my wall where it is public for all to see and the second sex is mentioned i will delete and block the person and i talk to my brothers on private chat .. is this considered wrong?
tonia8647 1 month ago
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MUSLIM, (ا ل إ س ل ا م) { I S L A M } إن الدين عند الله الإسلام , Sunni Islam, Ahle Sunnat Wal Jama'at, SALAFI
hammadghulam 1 month ago
Any religion that considers the Internet the devil's handiwork in the 21st century is just too fucked-up to be tolerated.
Kalevala87 1 month ago
wtf dis man is fuckin crazy. islam is stupid. I was a muslim. not anymore ... ew
nicholasoghlaw 1 month ago
@nicholasoghlaw believe me you never were a muslim, may god guide you
fastcourse 1 month ago
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Non-Muslim ladies. Please don't marry Muslims. Most of them do not reciprocate your love. Most are GIGOLOS and USERS. They lie about many things, lie about their "love" for you. When you look into your Muslim boyfriend's eyes, you might mistake his glazed looks for the melting look of love, BUT GET THIS, IT IS NOT LOVE. It is only his thought of your passport via marriage - the passport to the land of milk and honey. Thoughts of your passport, money, properties make Muslims go all googey-eyed.
2urita 2 months ago
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I want to marry a muslim woman she wants to marry me I am Jewish. Will you allah bless this marriage? Shalom
Fattboy26 3 months ago
I want to marry a muslim woman she wants to marry me I am Jewish. Will you allah bless this marriage? Shalom
Fattboy26 3 months ago
@Fattboy26 huhh?
redhend 1 month ago
@redhend
mohammed was a pedophile.
Fattboy26 1 month ago
@redhend
Oh I want to marry and convert many muslim women to Judaism. Is that Haram?
Fattboy26 1 month ago
@Fattboy26 hahahhahaha are you trolling? or are you seriously asking
12345nadine 1 month ago
@12345nadine
I am seriously asking. I love this girl and she loves me and we want to marry in a Jewish ceremony. Only problem is she is muslim. She wants to know the penalty of apostating from islam.
Fattboy26 1 month ago
@Fattboy26 dude if you're in love and you can respect her beliefs and she can respect yours and you can find a way to love eachother and take care of eachother despite that then fuck the world man.. ofcourse marry her. tell her that she cant live being afraid of what a sheikh might think of marrying a jew or even converting.. if its what makes her fucking ecstatic then everyone and anyone should respect it.. I know God will... he created you didnt he? you fell in love for a reason
12345nadine 1 month ago
@12345nadine
She says she wants to leave islam. Would that be a problem. But thanks I would invite you to the wedding.
Fattboy26 1 month ago
@Fattboy26 awww :) who are you afraid that would be a problem for? Does she not believe in it at all? Or does she just want to be a non-muslim on paper? Or is this a parental problem?
12345nadine 1 month ago
@12345nadine
Look her father is not to thrilled that she wants to convert to Judaism. She is trying to convince her family to convert to. We want to get married in a Synagogue. But she is afraid that visiting her family in Saudi Arabia as a apostate and a Jewish convert might be a problem.
Fattboy26 1 month ago
@Fattboy26 well if anyone harasses her about it it would be on a personal level not on a legal level. Ofcourse she'll get a few teases about the fact that she converted in the beginning but itll just be peoples opinions there isnt a law that would make her immoral or anything... Anyone can twist any words of the religion just so they can make fun of her if they want to. But that's the maximum they can do. If it's a problem with her familyy then she needs to personally sort that out with them.
12345nadine 1 month ago
@Fattboy26 buut if you're looking for a verse in the Qur'an that clears your situation, theres this one: "kol ya ayoha al kaferoon. la a3bedo ma ta3bodoon w antom 3abedoon ma la a3bod. Lakom deenakom wa leyya deeni".. it means: tell them, non-believers I dont worship what you worship and you dont worship what I worship. you have your religion and I have mine.. It's basically trying to tell muslims how to handle non-believers by letting them live.
12345nadine 1 month ago
@12345nadine
Yeah but how come Saudi Arabia does not allow any other faith build churches. I don't know we wanted to visit her family in Saudi Arabia after we married.
Fattboy26 1 month ago
all of this religious insanity and rules, rules, rules...always fucking rules.
and who is this invisible sky daddy they call Allah? Do they have a shred of proof?
No..just millions of children are brainwashed from birth with this nonsense. It's tragic.
Thopter 3 months ago
@Thopter I guess full-grown, independent, intelligent adults can be brainwashed too.
freghorn 2 months ago 4
@Thopter hahahahahahaahahaha sky daddy! omg this is all so fucked! and im a muslim! let me guess.. he's saudi arabian
12345nadine 1 month ago
i'm a catholic learning about Islam plz can someone tell me what a " Mahram " is??
tonia8647 4 months ago
@tonia8647 "Mahram" means "non-marriageable". This applies to your parents, siblings, children, siblings' children, your parent's spouses, uncles/aunts, grandparents. This is incest. Also included are milk-mothers and their children, which is, any woman that breast-feeds you that is not your mother, she becomes your seragite mom and her children are considered siblings and therefore incestuous. You also cannot marry those of the same gender. A woman does not need to wear a veil before Mahram.
MankindForRevolution 4 months ago 6
@tonia8647 mahram are individuals that a person can't marry to like his/her siblings, parents, grandparents, uncles/aunties, nephews/nieces. In Islam whoever that have had sexual intercourse with your mahram are also considered as mahram even after divorce or even without any marital relationship. Besides that, a wet nurse and her mahram will also be considered as your mahram. Basically there are 3 ways of determining mahram; (1) Blood (2) sexual relationship (3) wet nursing
yuhin90 3 months ago
@tonia8647 dude if you wanna learn about islam pleaaaase do not listen to these extremists.. get a translated version of the book and be careful where you buy it from.. :)
12345nadine 1 month ago
not everyone has a male mahram...some women's male mahram passed away already or they don't live close by....so does it mean these sisters cannot get married ?
dahliaflo2001 4 months ago
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What a wise and great man ! An intellectual giant! A worthy mentor of our children! His sanctimonious nature is as boundless as his dick is small.
Such a challenging question will surely test his mental faculties and profound ignorance to the breaking point.
Allahu Akhbar !
hierostratus 4 months ago
how can he come to my house? he lives literally at the other end of the world..and we cannot meet, because of visa problems. im so confused, may allah guide me.
laloca787894 5 months ago
@laloca787894 You guys don't have to meet to commit haram, just talk about improper ways is wrong between people who are not married
nasr313 5 months ago
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يمسح محمد الخصيتين من الكلاب
SheikhTaqiyyameister 5 months ago
you can't split a house in half. alot of times the divorce happens and they give the house to the woman even though the man paid for it or still is paying for it. that's not justice. that's insanity. you ever heard the saying "it's cheaper to keep her"?
yusufulhas 7 months ago
delete the 2 slashes out of the link and attach it to youtube.com
yusufulhas 7 months ago
watch/?v=/qRWI54IWOX4
watch this have a good day
yusufulhas 7 months ago
actually it is. ibn saud was installed by the british government. those laws are the laws of the saudi family. the iranian revolution was constructed by the west to get rid of the sha. they trained khomeini.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
relationships usually last 3 years in the west. 50% of marriages end up in divorce. you got it all wrong. there's alot of things wrong
yusufulhas 7 months ago
that's not a proof. that's called garbage. you might as well have said that for example i'm right because i'm smarter than you
yusufulhas 7 months ago
this clearly shows how much knowledge you lack in muslim thought and knowledge. i know people who are the biggest muslims around and there daughters aren't wearing hijab, aren't practicing. to further show your delusion most muslim women don't wear hijab. and don't practice. you tell me genious. how does hijab benefit men? men have to wear beards and aren't allowed to wear anything revealing from the navel to below the knees. so we have to cover up too
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Some Muslims are enlightened and don't force their beliefs on their children. However they are not following Islamic teachings: we both know that the Qur'an makes numerous references to men having control over women, even to the point of being allowed to beat them. The hijab benefits men because it removes sexual temptations; men should, however, be able to resist such temptations without making women wear dark and oppressive clothing.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
This is not a musim. this is known as a hipocrit. one who claims to believe but really doesn't. yes there are references to men being the guardians of women. the beat them ayat is addressed in a hadith. it says to tap them lightly on the knee with a stick. hijab only limits temptation. it helps men NOT LOOK. which is besides the talking about trying to fornicate with part. dark and oppressive clothing. lmao. they choose to wear that.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@novasigma
let me correct you. they practiced when they were little. wore hijab but they got old and started hanging around this group and that group got a boyfriend or girlfriend and the rest is history. an act of worship is done solely for the pleasure of allah. not please family community or father or husband. and so any muslim girl wearing a hijab to please other than allah is not a religious girl.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
a girl and a guy just talking for no reason is a trap. the conversation can wonder. they might like each other. something important then no it's not.
well nova we clearly see the results of not covering up in american society. you don't have to aggree with shariah. just acknowledge that it's alot more difficult to follow if women and men were open friends and women don't cover up.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
islamic culture comes from the sources. not from the brains of some human beings in the 21st century. islamic culture is not domes and art. islamic culture is shari'ah and shari'ah is based off the qur'an and the sunnah. not what some people decide in the 21st century. you know damn well it doesn't say anywhere to stone the woman that was raped. so why do people like you try to act like it's apart of islam?
yusufulhas 7 months ago
who told you anyway that muslims treat women as sex objects? There's alot of rules and ordinances to dealing with a wife in islam. it's not have sex with her and beat her like you and some muslims think.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Just watch videos like this one and you will see that Islam can't look beyond sex when it comes to women. For example, he says that a girl and a guy just talking is a "satanic trap". One of my best friends in high school was a girl, so I know how absurd this kind of thinking is. Women have to cover up because their BODY is all that Islamic is fixated on, as opposed to their humanity.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
friends become sexual partners very fast and very often. you know that
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Well, that's up to them. If they're both happy and willing to do that, what business is it of anyone else? Again you prove that you are obsessed with sex when it comes to women.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
we're trying to follow shariah not democratic secularism. no faithful muslim is happy and willing to sin. if he/she does he/she is ashamed. no i'm not obsessed with sex when it comes to women. i'm in control. i don't want casual sex with a woman. i want a relationship children love happiness. like most muslims.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
So in other words you don't trust yourself to control your own desires. You'd rather introduce oppressive and stupid laws and rules because you don't trust yourself to be friends with a girl without trying to get her in bed! Amazing!
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
anything leading to haraam is haraam.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@novasigma
nothing in the qur'an or hadiths are oppressive or stupid. religious girls don't want to talk to me as much as i don't want to talk to them. we don't question our rulings laws or codes. we love our rulings laws and codes. women CHOOSE to wear hijab. and niqab. and don't argue with me i've talked to a couple ones who's family aren't religious and chose islamic lifestyle. all that force stuff is a lie. a grown muslim chooses to follow allah's orders.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
NO, they DON'T choose!
It is imposed upon them by their fathers and husbands. Even in non-Muslim countries where they could LEGALLY refuse to wear it, doing so would often result in their being ostracised by their families and communities, or even hurt or killed. The "rulings" are invented by men for the benefit of men. You have basically admitted this yourself by indicating that you don't trust your own self-discipline.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
believe what you want to. go believe in bananas. just leave me the hell alone. come back and talk to me once you've opened your heart to the truth.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
I think you've realised that your arguments are absurd. Please go and reflect on the problems and injustices and are caused by Islamic culture. Have a nice day.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
you think that because you wanna think that. i'm actually getting really tired of people who believe what they want to and don't believe in proofs and evidences. i consider people like that to be subhuman. untermensch
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Subhuman? That's a rather strange choice of word. You haven't shown me any proof or evidence. But the best evidence of all is to just look at the state of Muslim countries; look at Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Iran, etc. And compare them to the U.S., UK, France, etc. Islam DOESN'T WORK. It is simply inferior to secular, liberal democracy. That's why Muslim countries are corrupt, economically stagnant and oppressive.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
none of these countries you mentioned follow proper islamic teachings. all 3 of those countries have governments that were installed by the west. INCLUDING iran. you don't believe me just do your research.
muslim countries are corrupt because of western installments. lmao. it has nothing to do with islam. if you don't know what you're talking about don't talk. if you don't have a source you don't know what you're talking about
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Oh, so it's the West's fault that Saudi Arabia doesn't let women drive, and that Iran beats up protesters, that that Pakistan kills 1000 women a year in insane honour killings? Whatever you say. They are corrupt because they use Islam as an ideological shield against their own people. They are oppressive because Islam is oppressive.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
saudis follow there own thing. iranians follow shi'a. what's your point. people follow alot of stuff other than islam. you know something called culture.not all muslims are informed on islam. especially in pakistan. lmao. they have people there that prostrate to the shrines of dead people
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
You don't seem to understand that when you have a religion which says that women are inferior to men, and that women have to obey men, and that men can beat women, this will inevitably lead to women being oppressed. It's really quite simple. Of course men and women should respect EACH OTHER and be loyal to EACH OTHER, but they should have equal rights.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
look up on your comment page have a good day i gotta go
yusufulhas 7 months ago
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salarashour 7 months ago
her father my mistake. authu billah. all of my prospects i have found have come from the internet. if there was no internet i'd be lookin for a good non muslim woman to give shahadah and get married to. when i ask people if they know any sisters that want to get married they say no plain and flat out. it's not the setting. you think i'm going to wander off into craziness? why won't you immigrant people give us your daughters?
yusufulhas 7 months ago
with all due respect to the sheikh i find alot of what's being said to be only to cause further problems in the west. Finding a woman to marry in the west isn't as simple as having the money finding the suitor and getting married. you look around you could be looking for 10+ years. and along the way when you find someone you like his father says no because you're not ________ or you don't have a big enough bank balance.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
So females have to have males watchers but males don't have to have female watchers?
Skindrift 7 months ago
@Skindrift
why would males need female watchers? why don't you grow some balls and stop letting those women control your life.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas Exactly and so do females. Grow some ovaries and brush them dudes off. At all times in this world there are more women than men.
Skindrift 7 months ago
@Skindrift It's better like that, mainly because men fight for their women. Beats 2 men marrying 1 women that is just awkward. You better off with a virgin and married couple or a man marrying a couple's wife.
makemap 4 months ago
@makemap not everyone cares about marriage.
Skindrift 4 months ago
chat this.know that satan's son mohamad's enjoyed sex perversions with toddlers, grannies,criminal activities of lies, deceit, hallucination, theft, slaughter of innocent children, women and old men, amputations &stoning of people, killings of pregnant women, raping of female slaves &booties, idiotic belief of pagan stone vagina shaped allah,fake prophesies, plagarized ideas from torah and bible, sister-wife-mother beater..more.conning infidels and muzzies?koran is a manual of terrorism.
TruthRevealed88 7 months ago
It's funny: we hear so much from certain Muslims about women being treated like sex objects in the West, yet it's ISLAMIC culture that can't see anything other than sex when they look at women. Chatting online is going to lead to sexual conversations? Don't be foolish. Friendship between guys and girls is normal.
novasigma 8 months ago
@novasigma
that's false. women are human beings within the islamic context. in the west they are objects for sexual use. women are mothers caretakers. that's not an object. a sexualized beast ready to hump any man or woman is an object.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Your comments simply aren't supported by the facts. In "the West" women are business leaders, government ministers, police officers, intelligence officers, university lecturers, doctors, etc. They are free to act and dress however they like and any sexual violence against women is severely punished. Conversely, Islamic law doesn't seem able to look past sex when it comes to women and girls; that's why girls aren't even allowed to be friends with guys or to talk to them online.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
there all sexual objects. especially the police officers. i'm born and raised in america don't act stupid with me. i was raised in front of the television
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
The fact that you were raised in the United States illustrates that you have never experienced Islamic culture; you therefore have no credibility in arguing that it protects women's rights. America may have a highly sexualised society, but that is very different from treating women only as sex objects. You strike me as another impressionable and naive westerner who takes what you have for granted. Women are better off in the West than at any other time in human history.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
islamic culture is in the books. the muslim's culture is in practice. idk why you would say that anyway. it's hilarious. WOMEN ARE ONLY TREATED AS SEX OBJECTS. i kissed a girl and i like it. get out of here man. i'm no dummy. the average woman dresses herself to be sexually appealing. i don't take what i have for granted. im merely keeping it real. something that alot of people in the states don't know too much about.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
You honestly think that you can understand a culture just by reading about it? I don't see how your kissing a girl and enjoying it has any bearing on the subject of how women are treated by society. Of course the average girl tries to appear attractive to attract guys - just like the average guy tries to appear attractive and confident in order tot to attract girls. Sex and relationships is central to human nature, but is again irrelevant to the issue of women's rights in society.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
apparently you didn't properly read or comprehend what i said. instead of wasting my time i'm going to ask you to read it again. kissing a girl is known as first base. cut the bull. i'm an american i know what goes on in this country. what i wanna ask you is why are you trying to fool these foreigners and immigrants so that they think that women are dignified and respected in American society when there no more than tools and sexual objects?
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
Actually what you said didn't really make sense; what exactly do you mean? We obviously have a very different idea of what being "dignified and respected" entails. In my mind it means equality before the law, equal rights, equal opportunities, and blaming MEN for not controlling their sexual urges, not women. And by the way, i'm British and not American.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
what we mean by being dignified and respected is the nature of the respective parties being respected. not some idealized non practical garbage. the nature of the man is respected as well as the nature of the woman. and people act like themselves not like the other party. it is much harder for men to control there sexual urgies not women. but both are blamed. haraam is haraam no matter what circumstance you're in
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
And what is "the nature of the woman" in your mind? Let me guess: submissive and obedient? This kind of thinking is exactly the problem. Historically, men have protected and provided for women and so women have obeyed and submitted to men. But times have changed. in modern society women don't need "protecting" in the same way, and so they shouldn't be treated as inferior or be expected to cover their bodies for the benefit of horny men. Act like a man and control yourself!
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
shy quiet reserved. not outgoing confident and dominant like the man.(it is so sad how alot of women try to take up this role). the brain of the man and the woman hasn't changed and neither has the physiology. the man will ALLWAYS give to the woman. you have all these women being raped and beaten and you're saying women don't need protecting. women want and crave protection. it's within there nature.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
But that's just ridiculous. I am a man and yet I'm quite reserved; I don't really like speaking to large groups, etc. I've met many women who are NATURALLY a lot more outgoing than me - very confident, love to party, etc. It makes no sense to say that certain personality traits are limited to men or women. It is husbands who do the beating in Islamic cultures, and women are PUNISHED for being raped. At least the LAW protects women in America.
novasigma 7 months ago
they have lost there feminine nature. if they became muslim and put on a hijab i'd still say no thank you. this is called unladylike conduct.
what's your point? i didn't say anything about muslims being perfect. and i pointed that out. but of course the prophet(saw) said that there is no blame on a woman for being raped. and the men who do it are punished with deathand women have rights over men in america's legal system. a woman merely says he hit me and he's gonna be in jail for months.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
I think the truth is that you feel threatened by confident, intelligent women. You say that women are "unladylike", but what you mean is that they aren't submissive to men. My original point stands: Islamic culture is obsessed with and cannot look past sex when it comes to women. It is oppressive and wrong.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
no. i don't feel threatened. there not gettin my phone number. i like quiet women. women who know there role. women who obey man's authority. i'm not missing out on some crazy aggressive testosterone driven woman
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
A relationship with a doormat would be boring. If you just want to be obeyed you'd be better off getting a dog. An exciting and stimulating relationship involves arguments, compromises and ultimately fighting to win and keep a girl's loyalty and respect. That's my opinion anyway.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
obedience is apart of it. because i'm the leader of the household. when someone comes to visit they ask for the "man of the household". your idea of a relationship shows that you aren't romantic. and btw some women will walk away from you if you aren't projecting yourself as leader and a man. once a woman gives you orders the relationship is finished. you'll no longer have her respect. she'll be using you for money maybe sex and she'll be cheating on you
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
I don't know of anyone who visits and asks for "the man of the household". People sometimes ask for the "homeowner" or the "bill payer", which may be a man or a woman. I actually agree with you that letting a woman walk all over you is likely to result in her losing respect for you. But the same is true is you are a control freak. As I stated, successful relationships are about compromise - listening and making decisions together.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
depends on the decisions. and depends on the control. the homeowner and the bill payer is usually the man. even if the woman has a job. sometimes it's the woman. i know a muslim who has a wife that pays for everything. he's a lucky guy. doesn't have to work. but most of the time it's the man. you allways have to listen to the woman. that's something she needs. listening and paying attention to. lots of attention.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
If the man and woman are married then they would both own the home - that's what marriage entails. And a good example is if the woman is talking to other men online, such as old school friends. The man would have no right to stop her doing that. This video indicates that Islam would try to stop male/female friendships. And as for divorce - marriage is a legal union; if the couple are no longer happy, then they should divorce. Life is too short to waste in a miserable relationship.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
and what happens when they break up? where does the house go? no woman has no right to talk to man and man has no right to talk to woman. woman has a right to object to the man talking to women and the same thing the other way around. i'm asking you why do you think that the relationships are so miserable? somalis have high divorce rates.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas
All property and money should be divided up fairly in the event of divorce. What you are saying is outrageous. i've already told you that one of my best friends in high school was a girl. I talk to her pretty much every week online, even though she is going out with someone. So what you're saying that that her boyfriend should be allowed to stop her talking to me? How should I know why some people are miserable? Sometimes relationships just fall apart.
novasigma 7 months ago
@novasigma
yup. man earned the most money should give up that house and car. and pay her 2,000 a month. justice is a case by case basis. there is no justice in the american legal system. yes he should be.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@novasigma
i hate when people talk and they don't know what there talking about. you only need to look up women's rights in islam. women have the right to divorce the right to choose there own partner(can't be forced into marriage) women have rights in marriage women have the right to vote women women can and have been learning freely without discrimination islam and or other studies. some of the biggest scholars were women. women in the west rarely have a feminine nature to them nowadays
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agodsend624 8 months ago
If I were born into that religion I'd leave the second I hit 18. I don't care what my family or church would think of me, a religion that treats women like s*** is not worth being a part of.
Sallyallie89 9 months ago
@Sallyallie89
what are you talking about?
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas I wrote that a month ago, so it's hard for me to remember exactly why I said that. But after watching the video again it seems to me that they tell women what they can and can't do. If a woman speaks with a man over the internet, they automatically assume it's for sexual reasons, when in reality it might be just a good friend of hers. It should be up to the women, not the men, on weather or not they want to talk to certain people online.
Sallyallie89 7 months ago
@Sallyallie89
where in this video does it say anything about women specifically not chatting with men?
yusufulhas 7 months ago
NARROW MINDED EVIL BASTARDS...ANY EXCUSE TO BEAT A WOMAN
MUSLIMS MEN ...ALL OF YOU ARE ....COWARDS BEAT WOMEN AND CHILDREN
THAT SAYS A LOT FOR YOU MUSLIM SO CALLED MEN......
ISLAM AND ITS FOLLOWERS ARE THE WORST ON THIS PLANET....
ALL IS NOT LOST...
MUSLIMS WILL STAND BEFORE THE THRONE OF GOD
THE ONE TRUE LIVING GOD
JESUS CHRIST
JESUS IS LORD
Gelnprato 10 months ago
@Gelnprato
what do u mean? from where did u heard about abusement for women and children in Islam? i can see that u get the wrong information :)
don't ever said something bad when u didn't know the religion by heart..
we aren't saying bad things about ur religion.. so why did u say something bad about ours?
Islam is PEACE, we don't like any disagreement about religion.. yes, u're christian and im a Muslim.. let's practise what our religion told ask to do.. do good deeds and avoid evil doings
pwencezyana 8 months ago
Mashallah....
MegaAlmisbah 10 months ago
this video is not correct. Don't ask expert wannabees. you can talk to each other in any media as long as you do it openly, with wali or representative. It does not make a difference if it is at masjid, food court or parking lot. It just should be not alone, but you are sinning just because you ask a brother a question or have a conversation
chrishasan 1 year ago
@chrishasan Isn't that what the sheikh just said? Or are you just trying to find faults in your Muslim brother?
SrMadinah2011 10 months ago
@chrishasan
from what i understood, what he means is it opens the doors to shaitan, then the shaitan tempts them, the male and female into doing wrong, even if they are religious, the shaitan as we all know works step by step
mlntas 10 months ago
y everything is haram in this life
noobcake56 1 year ago
@noobcake56 y is eyerything haram in dis life?life of a muslim in dis world is like a prison ....and a prisoner is not allowed 2 do many things ...only bad things have been made haram ....
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PeteJernigan 1 year ago
woah. i love this. women should not be allowed to write also, because the writing devices, pens and pencils, have been designed by Satan. which is the reason they look so phallic and erotic. i hope someone does something about this quickly
naddooma 1 year ago
@naddooma
lol.....
Its called knowledge. This didnt wake up one morning and decide to give speeches. He has studied for many years. He quote Sahih Hadith and Quran. He proof for his words. Dont make mockery out Islam. its the only reigion which has clear guidance. The Noble Quran.
MuslimWomen1 1 year ago
@MuslimWomen1
Literary interpretation can take away any clarity in any guidance. What you see happening is the modern-day adaptation of a contextualized ruling that was suitable for its time. Tell me MuslimWomen1(I don't know why you're women and not woman), do you feel, as a Muslim, that if you chat with a person over the internet you will end up discussing matters of sex and other things that are haram?
naddooma 1 year ago
@naddooma
There is no such thing a modern interpretation forget about it. Its not happening. Literal interpretation? Do you know what tafseer of the Quran is? Its an explanation of each Ayah(verse) in detail.
Allah(swt) created us all and He knows best how men and women and all his creations funtion. Therefore we should follow his guidance, the guidance of Qura and Sahih Hadith.
MuslimWomen1 1 year ago
@naddooma
One other thing, I see the not practicing muslims and unbelieving men and women, I compare them to the people I know who are practicing Islam purely, they way they treat the opposite sex is much different.
I thank Allah(swt) for making a Muslim.
MuslimWomen1 1 year ago
I feel sorry for the women... it is difficult,extremly ....difficult for women to find a normal man.
Anomiman 1 year ago
@Anomiman
that is so true. Men are hard to find nowadays.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
stop crying in the beginning of this video
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molkanadolmone 1 year ago
How about a mother? Is she qualifies to be our Mahram in the absence of our father?
Anjhally 1 year ago
How aout a mother? Is she qualifies to be our Mahram in the absence of our father?
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cherrydaisies 1 year ago
As salaamu alakem, in america especially there is a problem, a lot of women convert and maybe they live in places where there are very few muslims indeed, its hard for them to get a muslim husband or even to cover and bad situations come out of this,I wish there were places for converts where they could go live near muslim commuties and have somewhere to stay until they find work,housing or husbands (whatever comes first)
cherokiimslm 1 year ago
salam aleikom, first of all, thank u for answering my question,
U mean a women is allowed to ask even if she asks a man??? my question is is she alloawes to do that : to ask a man (about Islam of course) isn't it haram in the religion of Islam?????
thanks
coucoumus 1 year ago 2
@coucoumus wa 'alaikum as Salaam, well , sister...yes, it is...if you see the history of islam... women companion of the Prophet (peace be upon him) asked the questions regarding everything to him. And after the Prophet's death (peace be upon him) we have seen, companions used to ask question to Aisah (May Allah be pleased with her)....read the below Hadeeth
abuRumaysah 1 year ago
@abuRumaysah salam aleikom
ok thanks and barakAllah fikom for answering
Wa salam aleikom
coucoumus 1 year ago
@abuRumaysah
there is no marriage for an american muslim male unless he talks to a woman either a muslim woman or giving a non muslim woman shahadah or going oversees for a woman that doesn't speak english and wants a green card. the only americans i know that are married either gave there woman shahadah or took one from oversees. except for 1. if you're going to knock the muslim program in America i supposed that you Create a better one. or preferably give us one of your daughters
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@coucoumus More over women companion used to inquire about religious matters that many women nowadays would find embarrassing to ask about. For instance, `A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) praised the women of Al-Ansar for trying to understand their religion without being held back by bashfulness for they used to ask about such matters as major ritual impurity, wet dream, purificatory bath, menstruation, chronic vaginal discharge, etc.
abuRumaysah 1 year ago
@coucoumus as I said earlier, over the internet or otherwise, u should make sure that u are asking the question from the right person, who is knowledgeable and plus you should follow the hijab system also. By the Way sister, I am not a scholar, but what I have given the answers is what I know, of the little knowledge that Allah had blessed me with. To ask ur question on islam/ to find answers, you can visit islamqa(dot)com , this is the most authentic website which i know
abuRumaysah 1 year ago
@coucoumus The answer is YES! whom else can you ask if you cant ask scholars or an imams about islam, and al scholars and imams are male, so just ask what ever you want to know and dont feel ashamed, you asking because you want to learn and ALLAH loves learned people.
Selam/Peace
RealName007 1 year ago
@RealName007 yes its ok May Allah reward you; thank you to have answered,
coucoumus 1 year ago
i have a question please (excuse me for my English Im French)
Is a women allowed just to ask question about islam over the Internet??? Please answer me may Allah reward you
coucoumus 1 year ago
@coucoumus Over the internet or whereever u are allowed but u should know the person u r asking the question is the Right person. If not whether it is internet or other wise, its wont be good. Allah knows best.
abuRumaysah 1 year ago
@abuRumaysah
p.s you shouldn't be so arrogant so as to declare your viewpoint to be apart of islam. computers didn't exist in the time of the prophet.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@coucoumus
Haram !
hierostratus 9 months ago
@coucoumus well women should ask women its dangerous to convo with men over the net regardless of weather its about islam or not research the story of barsesa this should enlighten you abit more even through email it is not good "whatever is halal is clear whatever is haram is clear and anything between it avoid it to safe gaurd your deen & honour" please do go on islam qa im not a shaykh or anything may Allaah guide us and help us all
Journey4Jannah 7 months ago
@Journey4Jannah
i'll be damned if i go majnun or i fall into zina because i'm waiting for something that's not going to happen. if you condemn the chats you should help set up COMPLETELY SAFE ways to enjoin the good and forbid the wrong. or else be quiet because you're only adding to the fitna.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
I certainly do not have any objection to the common sense issues that come along with online chatting.
But to say that it is the 'devils' work is just a bit silly.
NaomiChambers 1 year ago
as an enemy of islam you have all the right to confuse your self and fight against the Truth. This advise is to the muslims and muslim means the one who submitts his/her will to Allaah and we are very happy and satisfied by doing this and this submission makes us brave nad strong and we worship none else not even our own desires ...but how can you feel this freedom and light when you dwell in darkness.
AbuMusaNiazi 1 year ago
Assalamualaykum again
Sorry, I have some mistake in that message because of my English -_-"
I mean...
Could you sent me this answer of shaykh by writing the description of it .
Shaykh speak rapidly.
iUmmah 1 year ago
Assalamualaykum warahmatullah
Could you give me the description of this video??
I desire to translate it for my sister.
There are many people misunderstand about this situation.
Jazakumullah Khayr
iUmmah 1 year ago
Wa Alaikum as Salaam, What do u mean, brother?
abuRumaysah 1 year ago
that is soooo true
oxsupaflyox 2 years ago 2
al hamdo le allah .........thanx 4 this great video
korsisalon 2 years ago 2
Subhan'Allah, absolutely correct, it is a trap. Very good advice.
Superman4ever 2 years ago 2
alsalam 3likom
alhamdulillah I meat with muslem lady and I merry her and I have a son now I meat her in the net and from the first time we start chat her family and my family knows that I am from Iraq and she is from Azerbaijan we are alhamdulillah happy family and we was chatting more than one year and never say bad words .alhamdulillah for every thing.
Alsalam 3likom
tarikm1 2 years ago 2
@tarikm1 alhamdolillah you are happy and you are living well but what is Haram in Islam is Haram .. we pray for your safe life but we ask you not to support the wrong and reject the fact and truth as advised by noble sheikh.BarakAllaah fee
AbuMusaNiazi 1 year ago
@AbuMusaNiazi alsalam 3likom wa ra7mat Allah wa brakatoho brother Abu Musa. Thank you for your advise bark Allah fik brother I know what haram in Islam its haram inded and I was not rejecting what the shaikh saying Thank you again brother
fi aman Allah
tarikm1 1 year ago
akhi barakAllaah fik ...may Allaah the Exalted support you and sustain you for ever.ameen.
AbuMusaNiazi 1 year ago
@AbuMusaNiazi
you can enjoin the good and forbid the wrong by offering up your daughters.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas yes we give our daughters in marriage and that is enjoining good .....not like you kuffras who can not stop their daughters to perform adultery thus by doing wrong.The difference is that we muslims enjoin good and forbid wrong.Whereas you infidels order wrong and can not dare to perform good.Think over what i said.....
AbuMusaNiazi 7 months ago
@AbuMusaNiazi
i am muslim. i just pointed out that you refer to forbidding wrong and enjoining good but you won't give us your daughters.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
@yusufulhas why are you confused? why u r not sure about your islam...r u rafidee?
AbuMusaNiazi 7 months ago
@AbuMusaNiazi
different times different scenarios. that's the point i'm tryin to make. if there is no food to eat except pork you can eat pork to survive. no i'm not rafidee.
yusufulhas 7 months ago
gotta say this sounds like nasiha aqliah- sound advice. The Rabbis of the Hasidm ban internet in the home. And few here can say that the conversation btwn the sexes is often spiritual or polite. It is often the means for release. But the release is haram.
kuldi1000 2 years ago
oh god more i hear more i think im going to hell =(((((
tweakarella 2 years ago
Assalam Alaikum, I don't know who you are, but I assume that you are a Muslim. So what I would say is you should not feel / think like that. Anas (radhiallahu anhu) said that he heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) say: Allah the Exalted said: O son of Adam! As long as you invoke Me and plead to Me, I will forgive you whatever you have committed, and I will not make much of it. O son of Adam! If your evil deeds reach the borders of the sky,
abuRumaysah 2 years ago
and then you ask Me for forgiveness, I will forgive you. O son of Adam! If you bring forth the earth full of errors, then you meet Me while you do not associate anything (or anyone) with Me, I will bring forth for you its full of forgiveness. [At-Tirmidhee (Shaikh Albanee rendered it as Hasan)]
abuRumaysah 2 years ago
Say: O My servants who have transgressed against their own souls, despair not of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surah az-Zumar