Be Happy - How to Reclaim Your Authentic Happiness

[NUSHKILICIOUS01]

thank you!

[boognishishere]

Life is and always will be an impending tragedy.

[FocusedAttentioncom]

@boognishishere Henry Ford said, "If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right." Since our thoughts generate our actions and our actions generate our outcomes, I'd say in your case you are right. But this is not something I would claim for my life.

[boognishishere]

@FocusedAttentioncom My statement is obviously too deep for you to understand without explination. Let me explain: You will die just as I. And it will not be a happy time. Some of us do not persue happyness as happyness is a momentary response to outside stimulus. There is a thing called bliss that lets the individual be just as "happy" with tragedy as with celebration. To break to down even further: death is imminent for us all so you had better get ready to face it. You will be scared.

[hadouken56]

Again people dislike the stupidest things.

[potetgull0]

My head is full of fuck. I want to be happy. I don't want to be in this spacy state. A bad trip on weed(Yes u can get hallucinations and shit on weed) escalated the small anxiety and bad self-esteem into something much bigger. And on top of that I am in this spacy state where it feels like I am disconnected from this world(depersonalization, just google it) and it makes me sad that i have been like this for almost a year. I just want to be happy but my head won't let me.

[Stanzo86]

i wish i was happier, i'm currently on a very self destructive path. i hope everyone who reads this finds true happiness

[MrVikas07]

@Stanzo86 A year passed now... have you got over it?

Hope u have... if not come here to me... I will show u the beautiful world. Rememebr God loves u... and I too

Always a happy person

Vikas

:-)

[Stanzo86]

@MrVikas07 i havent gotten over it... i am seeking counseling now for alcoholism though, i was in iraq 5 years ago and i still cant live it down. i just dont think there is happiness for everyone out there... thank you for the message and your kind words, it truly means a lot that someone i have never met took the time to check in on me. take care-

[MrVikas07]

@Stanzo86 Hey... I have uploaded a video: Meditation- for depression...for you

Chk my uploads

[flignar]

Nailed it....very well done... but I don't at all think it's in our nature to be happy, it's a choice as you say on your website. And not everyone misinterprets the events that hurt them...even when very young. Your example isn't one of those but sometimes children are just not that wanted and that's the way it is.

[TheColoradoAdventure]

This video was incredibly enlightening. Unfortunately, it's title is misleading. It doesn't tell you HOW to change. Just that you should. Well of course we should. So how do we do that, and get passed these old patterns?

[FocusedAttentioncom]

We're glad U found the video enlightening & completely understand why U would like more information about getting past the old patterns.

Unfortunately in a video of this length, it's nearly impossible 2 give U more than we did. The 1st & most important step is getting conscious that these patterns even exist.

Next, when U notice these patterns showing up in your life, to shift your focus of attention from the expected scenario to focusing on what you would rather Be, do, or have instead.

[katlo98]

Thanks for this video, just what i needed to hear. thanks once again!

[Blazerelf]

im a humble teen in a very rich school being the only dark skin guy where all otehr dont understand whats effort since they have it all im simply not compatible to have friend i would have to fake a personality is liek+with- ill never be a happy person

[Cathy24601]

You won't always be in that school. When you finish you can do whatever you want. I was home schooled till I went to college and I still don't fit in. I don't even fit in with my own race because my upbringing was so different than the norm. I'm just me. I quit trying to be someone else. If people don't like who I am then that's ok. I know there will be some people that will like me for who I am. If you just be yourself at least you will know who is really your friend. You might be surprised.

[valerievanos1]

i can identify completely with this video .......it has taken me 10yrs of work on myself to eliminate old tapes playing around in my head ....just written a book called from darkness to light .....a true story .....

[Lapicoz]

im in chronic pain.. im never happy

[jojoisthebest]

lol

[frisky170]

I don't feel happy.

[cbhlnf]

Gay

[SCHemeboi]

no its not gay... human life has pattern... and learning how to control it doesn't mean your stupid... anyways... you could be happy.... in only two ways... being good or bad...

be positive ; ) it works!

[ilikevidsandcoolstuf]

almost none of this is untrue im almost always sad but when around pepole i act happy and help and ask for it and it just makes it worse sometimes...

[Howboutthinking]

Hey buddy I honestly just looked this video up because I recetnyl became so much happier. I would realy like for you to read my above comments and to realize that retrospectively. The only reason I am so happy right now is because how severely i was suffering previous. This last week marks my one year mark for my two consecutive unjuries i mention in my above comments. I also am again playing hockey and i love life and you will too budy. I love everyone and everything now

[Gary1111001]

This video highlights why I am usually happy, inthusiastic and want to live to 100 - I don't do relationships. That would be an attachment to another persons life and emotions....something I'd have no control over.

Other than that, the message is good.

[88Laina]

Thanx for a nice video, made me smile:)

[colombiacrack88]

that easier said then done some people who are depressed cant just be happy out of nowhere

[vapourmile]

Why are you filling our lives full of this depressing rubbish? Get a sense of humour, that'll do a lot more to make people happy you conceited morons.

[1candideov]

True, plush2you. What you are talking about is honor from happiness. But this type of happiness is not the real thing. The realll thing is from being a virtuous person who has good, moral habits.

[imastupidasswhoreaty]

uh true.

[plush2you]

and why do i need other people to love me to be happy? i have myself and that is fine with me.

[ArtlessMonster]

Because you're manic and have no idea what real happiness is. Either that or you're not including your friends with the definition of 'love'.

[Howboutthinking]

I think I hate life. I personally believe that non existence would be better than the pain we all create in the world

[KIERAN11872]

That would depend on who you ask...SOme people might agree and others definetly not...

[Howboutthinking]

I respect your imput kieran. I added this comment as I was injured from my college hockey. I was just very upset at the time and still currently am. I'm just very upset that I came so far in ncaa hockey to end up getting injured and ending my career. I apologize for my pessemism. And of course none existence wouldn't be seen as being better without life in the first place

[ArtlessMonster]

Noooo, don't think like that. Is life worth all the work? Um.. ... *runs away*.

[ArtlessMonster]

In my moments of happiness it seems like the answer is yes. But I'm not really happy right now so future me can suck my dick.

[aoecake]

Howboutthinking i personally belive you are kinda right, but mostly cuz of the unfairness in the world. Some people get born rich, healthy and lives a life with almost no pain, others loose half or even their whole family, and gets handicapped. i mean.. think about getting borned blind, deaf, and with a body is totally paralysed. It hurts me when i think about that some people acctualy lives like that.

[neurochris]

there are ups and downs in life

[1QTpi]

This is such a great video! Can't wait to learn more!

[mangogold]

When I can remember these principles moment to moment, the quality of my relationships DO improve.

[iamfound]

Powerfull! So many people can relate to this.

[PuddleDancercom1]

I will share this one with my friends.