The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
I was with you until I started seeing racism in YOUR video towards white women. You give a couple of isolated cases of supposed gold-digging and this is supposed to represent "white women". That's not logically sound.
I have experienced on many occasions where an "interracial couple" for some odd reason will go out of their way just to come by me, i guess in hopes of receiving a negative reaction which i think is beyond absurd because first of all i don't know who these people are. In addition some black women have contributed to the false notion that all black women are angry at black men who date out of their race. It's ashame how we are unfairly judged and put in the same category based on one's actions.
@Justbeingteyana said [[I have experienced on many occasions where an "interracial couple" for some odd reason will go out of their way just to come by me, i guess in hopes of receiving a negative reaction which i think is beyond absurd because first of all i don't know who these people are. ]]
Maybe you look friendly and they're just saying hello. Why would they expect a bad reaction as opposed to a good one? What couple would go looking for a hostile reaction?
@LucisFerre1 Black women are often judged as a whole on the basis of negative perceptions. So of course they would expect a bad reaction as opposed to a good one.
In regards to the comments below, why are blacks pushing stereo-types on blacks? The minds of blacks are definitely molded and shaped by the white media in such ways that we degrade our own and put whites on a pedestal. White women and other racial groups have babies out of wedlock everyday by different men. Why our black women the high-light of issues that everyone face? I'm black and i didn't grow up without my dad, and for those who did you don't know what the situation is/was behind it.
White kids who grew up without dads in the home are never put under a "MICROSCOPE" by their own race it's all about painting a pretty picture. They sugar-coat sixteen and pregnant which is a show that predominately targets white teen pregnancy - white teen mothers having kids out of WEDLOCK but no one seems to want to touch on that matter because the show isn't predominately targeted at blacks females ... catch my point? They can expose their dirty laundry yet everyone is hush hush about it.
As a Black Man i never used Sistas as an excuse.But! I do however call situations as its given to me like I see it.But I always try to make a fair and just asesstment.As a Man if I'm wrong about something.I'm man enuff to own up to my infractions.However cant always say the same 4 some Sistas.Its seems its ok 4 BW to judge & micro managed BM but when da tables turn they dnt like being confronted about anything.& thats where da issues at.I luv BW & all.But I aint stupid.
I just have to say that I love black women. But when I was comming up in school and even in college black women would not give me the time of day. But now that I am successful and got my stuff together here they come running wanting me to take care of them and their kids. I'm sorry, but i'm not going to take the leftovers on top of taking care of someone elses kids.
@southboy99 You know, there are MANY white guys who have the same story ("Back then, she didn't know me, now I'm hot, she's all on me.") ...Do you think that Hugh Heffner would have all of those hot chicks around him, if he didn't have money? White girls reject nice white dudes, too ("Get lost, LOSER!") Like a white guy told me, himself, white girls play more "accepting" and "submissive" with black guys ...and usually, these are the white girls that white men don't like (w/ low self-esteem)
@Lashid4u Not so. You have more black women that are into the Thug sex appeal. Most white women don't look for the same things Black women look for in a mate. This is why so many black women are single with multiple kids by different men. You don't see white women like that or I should at least say that many. Not saying white women are better. But most white women grew up with their fathers while most black women have not. White women are more family oriented.
@southboy99 WRONG! nonblack men dont stay thugs. black men do stay thugs.
therefore white women have a choice of the type of men they can choose. if a lot want the bad boy- they can go for younger dudes. but if the want the corporate dude- they can go for guys their ages!!!
now how many black women have that leverage huh???
@impatientwithdesire There is a difference between thug and bad boy. White guys don't generally sell crack or sing songs about selling crack or going to jail like we do. We praise a woman dancing on a poll before we praise one in college. Even in college most white women know what a real man is. Most of them grew up with one in their life. Many black women have not.
@southboy99 Don't forget real men don't get taking by strangers and be haul off in a boat to a strange land to work and to be beat if they refuse to do so. Death was better! Black men never going to get the respect other men gets here in country with that kind of reputation. NIggas were less than a man day 1, when the white man grab their asses and put'em on that boat. and the woman who did this video knows better. In this country, it doesn't matter how much education you got, if you're a BM.
@southboy99 ahh so black men are the only ones who go through this? so nonblack women are running around with poor men? last time i checked- those white women were the biggest golddiggers! especially with you black guys
oh..but thats ok cause you think they deserve to be treated well, right?
I pretty much agree with this video. I think that of you choose to be with a white female, then that's your choice - not something that Black women somehow forced you into: you wanted to do it. That said, if you've made the choice, then go forth and do not beat Sisters inthe head with it. If I so happened to fall into true love with a woman of another race, I think I would probably be focused on her and not on disrespecting Black women, who I would still love as Sisters.
It is utterly amazing reading through the comments and seeing the number of BM that feel they have NO participation in the downfall of the BC. This is the default (il)logic of BM on the net.
Sorry Black males. You are AS RESPONSIBLE for our downfall as you claim BW to be.
look lady , when black women stop hiding behind weaves , and throwing their lives away through sex with no good men , then they will get a good brother. Instead of complaing maybe you could take a lesson from white women. At least they listen , and are usually better breed and educated , making them more compatable. Who wants to be bothered with " daddy issues " which is your mama's fault , and children out of wedlock?
White women today have weaves, have baby daddy issues, have several babies out of wedlock, are not well bred or educated. They enter rehabs with addictions and get arrested too.
Your stereotypes are just old and dated. Or you just never traveled beyond your little area.
@7Beyonder I'n not stuck inthe 50' s. But ironically , black women were doing better in the 50's than they are now. They were not murdering their children in the abortion centers, they were not having babies out of wedlock like slave whores, and they were married. The purpose of the civil rights movement was to move blacks froma place of independence and self reliance , to being dependent on the government. White women have the same problems , but not nearly to the same extent as black women.
I see. Your focus is on the defects within black women. All the while talking about "taking lessons from white women." White people can be dependent on the government, but not us. OK.
My uncles used to call that type of logic "house nigga"...Massa's ultimate weapon against black people."
And you have the nerve to bring up the civil rights movement. When your very comments contradict what it was really about. And you spread this poison, for all to see.
"Instead of complaing maybe you could take a lesson from white women. At least they listen , and are usually better breed and educated , making them more compatable."---TBURSEE.
That comment in itself, tells me who you are. The stereotypes are astounding.
Maybe you need to travel beyond your area...see what real African women are doing in this world.
@ tbursee....your just an uneducated person! No one can blame you for your ignorance and stupidty! You're just a person who is very low on the evolutionary scale and you have failed to grow and learn as a person! Your stereotypes are completey ridiculous! White girls wear weaves and have children out of wedlock too....they prostitute and get pimped by black men too.....so what are you talking about Lamo?
great video!! people on here need to stop making comments to each other and comment on the video! maybe if we do so there wouldn't be some much drama!!
@ImALilMuch what part dont you understand? you dont know what i was talking about which was clearly noticable in the very first comment Im not about to argue with you about black society and relationships btwn black women and men. My first comment was so long ago that i dont even remember exactly what i said, the reason i pointed out what this video was about is because thats what my comment was referring to soo again your point is?
@ImALilMuch yes but obviously this video is about black women in relationships with black men. idk what point you're trying to prove but this is really irritating. To end this discussion, this can go for racial issues, gender issues, social activities, etc. Bad experiences in the past will effect future experiences either in a postive or negative manner
IM A BLACK MAN AND I LOVED YOUR VIDEO . YOU BROKE IT DOWN . LIKE MOMA SAID TELL THE TRUTH AND SHAME THE DEVIL . ALL YOU SO CALLED BROTHERS THAT READ MY COMMENT YOU DEAD WRONG . AND YOU NO ITS THE TRUTH . BLACK WOMAN LOVE US TO MUCH TO EVER BE OUR ENEMIES . THEY LOVE US MORE THEN ANY WOMAN YOU CAN EVER FIND . I HAD A WHITE WOMAN AND THAT SLUTT DROVE ME CRAZY . BUT I NEVER BLAMED BLACK WOMAN FOR MY DOWN FALLS . BECAUSE A REAL MAN WOULDNT DO THAT . ARE YOU A REAL MAN ?
@thinkalott33 Spell Check First my dude, (In DMX voice) then get money. Its hard to take you veiw point seriously with grammar and spelling like that.
your opinion of my intellect does not negate the fact that no one will take you seriously with spelling and grammar like that........just trying to keep it real with you and help you at the same time.
@ImALilMuch And you said this to say what? At the end of the day we do not have socially intelligent and people who think outside of themselves and their own experiences. My comment was based on generations of women who have these mentalities.
@ImALilMuch I hate sounding like a loop but this is war! White supremacy is a system of white genetic survival. DO THE RESEARCH! In war you must use every weapon at your disposal including the weapon of mass (DICKSTRUCTION). The everyday white person is not the creator of this system & I don’t hate them. The owners of this system hate the BM & now you know why. It’s obvious you don’t know what the hell you’re talking about woman and I’m done talking. Have a nice one.
@ImALilMuch Listing the symptoms of a problem in place of the seed cause proves your're lacking complete understanding. You are an example of a people who have been totally mind wipe. Living in a situation where your experiences are shaping your thoughts and you are “not” the owner of the system that creates experiences, you are under thought control. You are clueless until we control the system that organize society expect organize chaos life loop status forever!
@ImALilMuch I’m proud of any BM who navigates himself into so call success. But I also know the BM & BW successes are oversees. It is nation time anything less is bitch hood reality. There is no such thing is building an economic and social structures that remove you from dependence on the "system" in a nation not of your own that’s an illusion. Obama is a product of white genetic destruction! This is still “war” they won a lot of battles but it’s not over.
@ImALilMuch For you to say the divide between the BM & BW was orchestrated by us proves you are lacking understanding. We do not control the system that governs our community. We are not the owners of the monetary system. We are chasing prosperity that is in the hands of a master deceiver & mind manipulator. This ruler is shaping society in an energy that allows the BW to prosper. BM will not summit to this system but you will. The BM is getting at his woman Obama is a product of that.
im tired of blck women tryna tlk down bout us brothers. im not gonna say im pro black im pro life. my wife is white. i have dated blck women, and i think there beautifull, but i dont date blck women. alot of blck women in the ghetto dont hold there standards as high, they want a fuck up ass blck man then they blame every black man 4 1 mans actions. im sick of this "mad black woman"syndrome.. its gettin old. this is 2k11. go date a white man if ur uhappy with us.. stop complaining.
@Cruiz954 If you are now with a white woman, then, there isn't even a need for you to be in this convo, cuz you no longer have personal dealings with black women...
@Lashid4u sounds to me tht your trying to ignore the facts to me. i am relevant to the convo seeing as i am a balack man thts been on both ends of the situation. its sad tht intead of realizing wht im saying u wanna brush it aside like your better then me.. ha. well i got news for u be real with yourself.
@Cruiz954 Seriously, STOP assuming about black women, being so sensitive ...If you were to overlook all my videos, you'd have a better understanding of where I stand
@Lashid4u never assumed black women are senstive u did sweetheart. i dont speak for every black woman, as i hope u arent speaking on behalf of every black man. u look about 40 so i would think u could handle a convo alot better then this instead of trying to make me look wrong. do some soul searching, stop posting black and white videos and post somthing relative, like the economic struggles between the poor and the rich in america.
@Cruiz954 No, I am speaking of YOU being so sensitive...and if this is what I choose to do videos about, that is my choice. No one is stopping YOU from making such videos (on the economy, etc.) ...Btw, I am posting from my business math class (class ended, though, and I'm just hanging out).
@Cruiz954 ... You proved your own point. Ghetto Black women as you pointed out don't have high standards; however, that's ONE type. Black women are as diverse as their skin tones and hair textures yet EVERYBODY (including BM) put us all in the same category. You say our standards are too low, then the next brother says that our standards are too high. For this reason, I'm convinced that the problem doesn't lie with the BW at all. My essence is beautiful. Take me as I am or keep it moving.
The divide between BM & BW was manufactured but BW seems not to give a fuck. BW wants BM to submit to the same system that is turning BW against BM. The average white people are not script writers of society. They are sacrifices. You’ll be surprise how much of your life is scripted. BW learn to see with your mind it gives you understanding what you see with your eyes because seeing is not always believing.
@thirdstreetent These black women you put negative tags on are the black women YOU produce ...are the black women YOU raise (or did not raise, which makes it worse) ..I'm not faulting, anyone, I'm just making you look at what YOU'RE saying when you are trying to put these negative labels on the females that YOU produce
@thirdstreetent ..I have had more issues w/ black men than could be imagined, but I don't feel the need to go on and on about how white men are better, or use that as an excuse to run to white men ...WHY would I even give them the satisfaction, considering their history in relation to my people, which is a big contribution to why we are so fucked up, now? Have some fuckin' dignity, black people!
well honey i love my white man. i am in my 20's not in my 200's. nor is my man. if black men put yall throughso much -why stick by them? dont you deserve a better life than that? are bm providing that for you? no? then move on! just cause you date nonblack men doesnt mean you cant be proud of your race. hell, i am! but if you want to talk about being raped of resources and being treated like shit...ever since we came here- white men didnt have to do as much as black men are doing to us now!
Keep spreading the good new my friend. Every time I hear a "you need to keep with your own kind" argument, it's supported by irrational racism. As you alluded to on your profile page, white men/black women marriages are VERY stable compared to other parings. If there were anything wrong with black women, it would be in that case also, but obviously isn't. I'll make a video on this soon, but I still need to research some stats.
Black men are sick of black women attitudes PERIOD. Thats why black men date outside their race. Would you a date a nagging, loud, rude, bossy and controling person ( which is the stereotype of black women and they earned it). Black women have been proud of this stereotype for years and now that black men use it too date outside. Black women now are calling black men weak for not wanting to put up with it (the atittude of course). Who wants to put up with an atittude?
@CrazyBrah21 Again: Don't use black women as your excuse. These naggy, bossy black women are products of YOUR semen, so, are you saying that the white man's seed is more valuable? If you want a white women, there she is ...bye! There is no need to "announce" why you are going to her. If you are no longer dealing w/ sistas, WHY even inform us of anything? WHY even try to school us anymore? Y'all need to just cut the shit....
@CrazyBrah21 i know you posted this a month ago but i'll be real. You are giving straight up bullshit. period. Not all black women have attitudes,have you met all of the black women in today's society? I'm going to use the same statement that guys use for women, "maybe YOU'RE the problem when YOU keep ATTRACTING the WRONG women." Have yu ever wondered where these "attitudes" come from? since birth alot of black women have not KNOWN black men. The man births them then leaves them as a child, if
@CrazyBrah21 you grow up without a black male role model or father figure how can you ever see a black man in a positive light? all yu see is some bum who had sex with your mother, left her to raise you, left her to work her fingers to the bones just to put a little bit of food on the table, you see a man who didnt support you emotionally, mentally, how do you think a black woman can TRUST a black man? she may love black men, but how can she truly trust you when in the back of her mind she
@CrazyBrah21 sees a guy who's done her nothing but wrong??? People need to realize that not only are black people standing up for themselves, their own individuality but they're also standing up for the whole society. Black people are the most easily generalized race in the world and we generalize ourselves, look at how we point the finger at one another and blame one another for things that one man has no control over! One black man/woman does you wrong and u say all bm/bw are the same.
Not to mention . It doesn't even look NATURAL ! Take a long hard look at a black standing next to a white in a sexual union. It's a perfect example of being unequally yoked....
Let me clarify for those who want to make this a racial issue. We do not battle against flesh & blood, but against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual host of wickedness in heavenly realms (PERIOD)!!! Satan and his legions have been using man and every other tool in his tool box to defile the seed of man. This goes far beyond most peoples understanding - but if scripture is read an understanding will be given. We were commanded not to mix outside of our seed and man has
NOBODY! because I refuse to let peoples social fears, stigmas, hatred & insecurities have any effect on me or my life. Black people who have an issue with this, keep putting black men who date "other" women in one box. Where all self hating, we're trying to blame you, we're somehow trying to rub your noses it, bla bla bla. Some men are just attracted to WOMEN. Doesnt matter what color you are. & Im not all that attracted to white women. Theyre "ok" but latin, asian & black women :)
@omahni2 Like I've said, black men have BEEN w/ women of other races - this aint shit new ...This aint so much about white women, or black men w/ white3 women, but BLACK WOMEN being blamed for this. Now, if true love is your case, then, you aint got shit to prove to me ..But the video is titled "DON'T USE BLACK WOMEN AS YOUR EXCUSE". So, for you to take offense to me just defending bw, perhaps I'm tapping into a truth about you...Yet, you claim that people don't get to you..sure
I dont see black men using black women as their excuse. As for me Im half Latino. My mother is PR. So when I date a Latino women do I hate myself?? You're not tapping into a truth about me at all. I was raised to love everyone and I DO. I obviously got to you..you're the one who got pissy about me saying people need to stop talking about this BULLSHIT and deal with people being with who they want to be with. I dont care what color you are this shit is annoying and offensive.
@omahni2 You are speaking for yourself, I am speaking for what I am hearing and witnessing at school, work, ("Golddigger") on ytube, and all over the internet - why don't you check it out for yourself, if you think I'm kidding you. And you didn't "get" to me - I think I'm just merely responding to YOUR post to ME in MY video. If you wanna chase the rainbow, aint nobody stopping you - how is what I'm saying offending you if it doesn't apply to you?
Even the way you're saying "chase the rainbow" is offensive. You sound racist or at the very least have your own PERSONAL issue with interracial dating. Specifically black men with white women, wich is RACIST. There's no way to spin it. You cant refute the undisputable! ANYBODY that MAKES UP all kinds of BULLSHIT "rationalizations" as to why people of their race date "outside the race" is a racist. Thats what makes you and everyone like you offensive. I am the product of LOVE not ..
As if YOU dont take offense to racism aimed at black people in general...But its ok to throw racism at a gender of a specific race and disguise is as concern. And out of 100 balck men who SEE PAST COLR, how many of them actualy say they blame black women for dating other races? Im half black half PR, our president is half black half white but if it was up to people like you we wouldnt exist...so yeah the shits offensive.
@omahni2 Do you even know what racism is? Talking about racism, and showing lashing out against racism and self-hatred embedded in blacks is not racism ...See my video, "Blacks Are Just As Racist" ...But even if you watch it, you're gonna still act like you don't know ...You're not fooling me, nor are you changing me...And if you wanna think I'm racist, then, I'll be that racist ...NOW WHAT?
@JaKKeBrOwN part1.Any black ape fella or any nonwhite male that finds white woman attractive is for every men. A white woman looks like a white man her dad. Her dad is a white man and not a black ape fella.
@JaKKeBrOwN part2.The reason why white woman are the most beautiful woman on the earth is becouse only white woman and men are made in God's image, white, bright eyes, angel hair, only the white adamic race came from adam and eve only they are God's children.
@MegaWhitemaster I see that you feel the need to keep confirming to everyone (and yourself) that white is most beautiful; thus, I question: Do you TRULY believe this?
@JaKKeBrOwN part3.The sons and daughters of adam and eve today are mostly white european heritage people. White adamic people from accross the world and from all walks of life are coming to accept that it's possible that God did not make black people or any of the nonwhite races.
@JaKKeBrOwN part4.Tens of thousands of years ago FALLEN ANGELS / SATANIC ET's came to the earth took ape DNA modified the ape DNA and made black people and all the nonwhite mudraces with black people being the least modified of the ape DNA thats why black people look act and are in the image of a ape. There are races of people on the earth today that God did not make they were made/seeded by FALLEN ANGELS. MATTHEW 15:13.
@MegaWhitemaster What an azz-backwards theory! LOL ...Look at my vid on Evolution about the "ape man" ..Btw, shave a primate, and what color are they, usually? Why don't apes have kinky hair? I mean, this is the most outstanding African trait? ..You can't be THAT stupid, yet, claim to be the "master race"! LOL
Respond to this video...part1.white women:cook, clean, oral sex, better looking, easier to live with, less drama, no thug baby daddys on the side, less cheating, not that much thug loving,no babies at all except with there MAN(which would be you good bm), excersize, no out of wedlock children, not fat stanky,
@MegaWhitemaster White women cook and clean (unlike bw)? If that's true, then, WHY did white women have black women cooking for their hubbies and children for SO MANY YEARS (and still do)? ..And aren't they the main ones behind the feminist movement, trying to kill the idealism of women belonging in the kitchen? Black women aren't that focused on that - got bigger issues. And I've lived w/ white females (more than you have, I'm sure) ..they're not all so "fresh" as you wanna try to fool people
Respond to this video...part 2.real natural hair, less attitude, treat you as a MAN, the list goes on the only advantage black women have over white women is them booty's and thick thighs but is that booty worth puttin up with the normal typical sista brings? attitude, thug baby daddys on the side, a whole
@MegaWhitemaster Real, natural hair, but fake t!tties, azzes, lips, complextion ...Shall I go further? ..You need to stop while you're ahead, because you're allowing me to clown the white women you love, and that's REALLY not my purpose
Respond to this video...part 3bunch of out of wedlock children, no cooking/cleaning, no oral sex, not respecting you as a MAN, all that back talking, constaly sizing you up, hollering im independent, I'm strong, listenin to beyonce all day copying her, taking all your child support money for her own benefits, big fat enormous size
Respond to this video...part4. coochies where you have to have a 8 inch cock just for it not to slip out, the only thing great about black women is the sex good black men stay far away from sistas as possible unless you want to be playing step pops to kids that aint yours! just use em for sex and make sure you wear atleast 2 condoms black women are not on the same level mentality as a black man bw may have some college degrees but god forgot to give them common sense
@MegaWhitemaster How do you know about a black woman's coochie, if, I'm assuming, you haven't been w/ any (cuz they are ape women)? Hmmm...As I believe, when a female first has sex, it hurts - it hurts EVERY female, because it's closed. So, if a sista's cooch is already so "wide" ..Then, WHY would it hurt the first time? Oh, and if the sista's cooch was so bad, then, WHY couldn't he stay w/ his woman, creepin' w/ black women since slavery?
@Hikaru2g Some of these so-called "angry black men" are, actually, white trolls, posing as blacks, w/ deceptive names and ebonics. They troll black forums, videos, etc., trying to keep shit going between black men and women, shifting our focus from the message of unity, to just fighting back and forth w/ each other. So, I'd just ignore the bullshit (when it goes so far, I just delete it, cuz I'm not having that back-n-forth bullshit).
@Lashid4u, Yea that's true but sadly there are those trolls that are actually African American men. Only thing is that they won't show their face just like the cowards they are
@Lashid4u livin with a black girl only brings trouble but livin with a white girl will make a cute couple black girls dont cook nor clean or do dishes they favorite place is the salon and they hate bein in the kitchen,cheating,not loyal & wishy washy & always have other people kids!
@NatTurnerIsAlive Naw i'm not gonna let them off the hook that easily! White women knows our plights but so do black women, the difference is that black women are getting taken care of so our problems are not their problem! Matter fact, she's likely the biggest problem in our lives!
As long as the BLACK WOMAN is taken care of, that's all the black woman is concerned about!
Ol girl knows about the prostitution thing which is exactly why she never answered my question!
Now, the reason why I feel that Black women are jealous of white women is because it's not necessarily about them being with the white girl, it's more about them spending their money & maintaining their status with them!
I noticed that you had Richard Pryor & Lionel Richie which = CELEBRITIES!!!
Basically RICH MEN!!!
I never hear complaints about the broke niggas, they get mad because the ww get to divorce him & take his money rather than black women!
I like this video as it is very refreshing to see a sista tell it like it is without expressing hatered toward black men. As a black man I get tired of seeing brotha's out there making excuses for dating white women by blaming black women this is so so sad. Also what you said about pushing white women in a sista's face is so true nowadays. It seems to me that some black men like white women when things are good & when things get bad all of a sudden they want/need a sista in there life.
@rebels75q and it is just as refreshing to see a brotha who can just "hear" what a sista's saying, understanding that it is all, TRULY, about LOVE for the black man (and the black race), and not about bashing brothas in any way.
@Lashid4u and it's also evident that most black women are ONLY talking about rich men/Celebrities because EVERY SINGLE TIME they mention a "Good Man" it ironically has something to do with MONEY!!!
If there was more black women marrying (only to divorce later) RICH BLACK MEN then there wouldn't be such complaints...
Black women have been VERY open and accepting of men who make less money than them, unlike white women, who aint havin' that - and I'm not talking about the white women that white men don't want, and have a mandigo fantasy, thus, they will let a brotha use them (being irresponsible) ...But white men know that if they lose/quit their job ...White women don't play that, while sistas are, actually, VERY lenient, despite all the bitchin' we do
Lashid) The only point I was trying to make is that black women COMPLAIN about us getting with white women but the ones they complain the loudest about coincidentally just happens to be RICH!
Stay on the topic & please tell me why men like Flavor Flav, Shabba Ranks, Patrick Ewing, Sam Cassell, etc can get gorgeous women that just happed to be checking for them?
I pay attention to obvious shit & women try to sweep shit under the rug instead of admitting that MONEY IS THE ONLY IMPORTANCE!
@NatTurnerIsAlive ..only reason black women dont say shit about white men being wiith them is beacause the white men are with them, so apparently the black women can date outside her race but the black man is apparently there property.& the black women wonder why black men like white womens personalities better.hmmm...think about that..white women dont say nothin about the white men dating black women because we are not jealous and not possesive..let me say tho not all black women are like this
The end of your video was classic. You know, people give the impression that the grass is greener on the other side, but you showed that people are the same regardless. The brothers thought they were avoiding a problem, but found out to late were not. Instead of judging people on race, it is wiser to look at their character. CLASSIC!
um sorry i got to say this but in my opinion lionel's black wife is better looking than the woman he left her for. just on looks and their ways of things. lionel actually dated down, not only did he leave a beautiful woman that looked better than the ww, but he left a real woman for a superficial, and insecure one at that. wat a way to date down lmao.
Girl, now you know you are so wrong for putting R.Kelly and Twan on this! lol That was too funny but you called out some major points. Find you someone to be with regardless of skin tone,be happy, and keep it moving. Point blank.
IAM NOT JUST DATING THE WHiTE MANS DAUGHTER, IAM FUCKING HER TOO... ALL BECAUSE MY OWN BLACK WOMEN REJECT ME AND ACT AS IF BLACK MEN ARE A LOWER CLASS OF HUMAN BEING...(NOT ALL BLACK FEMALES BUT A VAST MAJORITY) AND I DONT HAVE THE TIME TO TRY AND FIND THE FEW BLACK FEMALES THAT ARE DIFFERENT!
@NatTurnerIsAlive your such a fool...why would black women question white men? thats a white womans other half not a black womans...black women aint SUPERWOMEN you know. They cant do everything by themselves..just because it apperars that way and they know how to put up with shit and still keep it moving it dosent mean that she has to watch over other races of men or even black men. And stop with that slavery stuff, its getting old
@NatTurnerIsAlive Tell me ..what is it about white women that intimidates me? I have no problem seeing a film w/ Angelina Jolie, but white women can't even take seeing a black woman w/ a BLACK man in a movie. But please, tell me ...I wanna know why people think that black women are intimidated by black men ..I talk about my disapproval of brothas having a light-skinned preference ...Am I jealouse of light-skinned girls, too?
@NatTurnerIsAlive I don't give a damn what the white man is called, he is not my concern. And they were raping the black women (whether through physical force, or mental deception), there's a difference. Honestly, you can't build an army if you sleep with the enemy. Just admit that you want to fuck white women, and stop trying to save face! Tired of these fake, revolutionaries! I have more respect for those who just say "I WANT A WHITE WOMAN", giving no explanations, and just move on.
@Lashid4u exactly! thats wat i told him, he must want a ww, he gone say wm are the enemy but ww arent! he dogs bw too much. if wm were using bw(cause they like dat dark meat) for sex, wat the fuck does he think ww are using bm for? i know he doesnt reallly believe they care? i have yet to see the day a ww brings down a white supremacy structure that benefits her! lol
@Lashid4u and not every man, is meant to be a leader, where and the heck do bm get this fix that they deserve these good bw, when they bashing sistas and putting them in a box, dont support us enough, who in the world said they are worthy of being the leader of black people. NOT every man a woman should follow, thats why i say its good to have a mind of your own, you cant always depend on man, sometimes they let you down.
I can understand why black men isn't getting the respect from the women of their kind, one thing they are known to be a coward people the reason I say this, they were the ones was capture by another race of people and put into servitude and they didn't put up a fight, that why I consider black men are cowards. I'm really um talking about the African race are cowards they didn't pursue after the ones that capture his people they just stood there and let it happen.
@cocoaj13 its true! ive realised this aswell...when black men make videos just talking about a white womans looks over a black womans looks and society etc...you will get atleast 4 response videos by WHITE MEN who are defending white women LMAO...white women dont even have to defend themseleves...white men will do it for them(despite them being the highest INTERRACIAL daters) they still know that without their women there is no them. black men however, will be the ones making the bashing videos
I just want to know one thing Lashid4u. That what you say after 5:00, how do you know that? (That's not the Lashid I know, in the other video you say stop bitching when there is something to bitch about. Now this.) You don't see everything in the world so that's the worst thing I've ever heard you say.
How would you like it if a thug came on here saying no thugs ever kill people on buses, that is the biggest crop of bullshit in the history of man, so detectives don't ever investigate this crime. Wouldnt taht be a big ass slap in the face to you woman? Or what if a cop came on youtube and said there is no such thing as racial profiling, racial killing, and racist beatings carried out by police. That is the biggest crop of bs. That thug and cop is on your side??????????
This goes back to black man's collective immaturity. First, it was "the white man" who was keeping them down now its "black woman". Its always someone elses fault for their circumstances or behavior. They always making excuses for shit. If you like to swirl, just swirl, I don't know who they are trying to convince with the black women have "bad attitudes" that is some bullshit. If most black women have bad attitudes, then most black men have bastard children and have been to jail.
these black men so brainwashed by the image the wm has created of his women as the most high epitome of femminity.they will accept any ww and give her a pass on anything she does wrong they don't talk about them being gold digger or scandolous skanks but let a black women do it then she's ain't nothing but a dirty ho.they talk about bw being in collusion with wm but they r the 1s being used by the wm pawn the ww
i agree with u.i noticed the same thing u r talking about in blacksploitation movies of the 70s the same thing is going on in movies today u the black males characters love interest is a women of another race u don't see this for wm in movies geared towards white this is nothing but brainwashing to divide black men from black women.
when are bw going to start speaking up for her men. when are bw going to admit that she is raising the sorry men since dad is not in the home (prob do to the 'strong' bw attitude she prides so much). when are bw going to admit that she is dressing up in weaves to look more european. the average bw get mad when you tell her she should submit to her husband. why is that? bw are loosing grip on her own reality due to trying to adopt the ww's history and reality.
bw having been using bm for their excuse for years while bm said nothing. bw have sat back and watched their men being dragged threw the mud and said nothing. now that bm are speaking back and pointing out that there are two sides to the coin bw are complaining. but again the average sista refuse to admit it and it she does she will not hold steady to it. slavery really did a number on us.
i am a bw and i too thought thay bm where trying to simply blame bw for everything until i took the time to actually talk to a few black men open mindly and i actually learned alot from them. we have been conditioned in this country that our men have nothing to offer us and because of this we look for reasons to put them down. we are trained to be defensive towards them. these men are not soley blaming us they are only asking us to realize and own our part in the problem. can u do that?
most bm even those who date ww prefer bw but bw refuse to listen to bm. many bw are lost and they do not realize that they are doing the work of the wm. black feminist is really the problem and will ultimately be the demiss of the black race! unless we as bw wake up and make some changes and encourage our fellow sistas to do the same.
@shelkev1 Again: STOP BLAMING black women for every choice a black man makes! Black men not taking responsibility for anything is a strong stereotype used against black men, and when they continue to use black women as an excuse for every choice they make ...it only justifies that stereotype. Black women need to wake up. Black men need to wake up. Plain and simple
@Lashid4u I never blamed bw for everything but the typical response bw have when asked to take accountability is that they are being blamed for every thing. There are thousands of vids of bw talking about what the bm dont do and that the bm is jumpin the fence with out ever looking at the facts. Stats show that not as many bm are jumpin the fence as the media wants us to believe. but no vids of bw taken any ownership to the problems and then speaking of working together.
I agree that many bm are being drivien to ww by bw. You just admitted in ur vid that u once preferred ur brothas to date ww. the problem i see with many bw is they are unwilling to listen to bm and are too quick to dismiss the feelings and thoughts of bm off as BS. if these bm who are ir dating were so happy and preferred ww they would not still be commenting on the current state of the bw.
@shelkev1 That's bullshit. Black men have BEEN lusting for white women - this is just the newest excuse. The old excuse is that they were just "getting back at the man". Black women have put up w/ WAY more than just "neck rolling" and a "bad attitude", so, if that were the case, we would've ALL been driven to white men! So, quit using that excuse. If a brotha wanted a black woman, he would be w/ a black woman. A guy I know just tell the truth: he's attracted to ww, which has nothing to do w/ bw
@Lashid4u typical response Im going to assume you did not read any of my other messages. this is the prob with outr bw right now. we really need to own up or shut. you are using ONE example of a bm and forget about the MANY who are speaking out every where. if you take one look at the state of bw and see were a man would be turned off then you got issues.
@Lashid4u true, but i never understood, their race of women have the WHOLE dang package, diff skin tones, curvaceous, full lips, face body and all. dont understand it, never will.
@shelkev1 i dont think ANY black man is 'driven' to white women; the few black men that have said this were full of shit. no more/less than black women who claim 'no good black men' idiocy. both are losers, and both are LYING.
@neoconsnightmare3 well im not speaking on what u think. im speaking on what black men have been screaming from mountaintops yet everyone refuse to listen.
@shelkev1 i'm not speaking on what i THINK, i'm speaking on FACT. a FEW black men may say that, and its not an issue of 'refusing to listen'. its simply a NON fact.
just like black WOMEN have been yelling equally idiotic stuff.
BOTH are losers when they yell that...to sensible people, it should be a non issue.
@neoconsnightmare3 sure you are speaking about what you think since that is what YOU wrote in your first comment to me. maybe you should revisit your own words, lol! now in regards to your so called FACT. where is your proof to back up your statement. I can send you tons of links where bm are backing up my statements unless your gonne refute these men's statements and tell them what they should feel based on your thoughts, lol! get a grip.
@shelkev1 shelkev, do you REALLY think the 'jedi mind trick' is going to work with me? c'mon. i'm giving fact, whether you like it or not. you saying it's what i 'think' won't change it. send 'tons of links' that show 'black men lust after white women'. by not putting a percent on it, or even a 'some', you're implying that 'lusting after white women' is the mode of black men. now prove it. and YOU get a grip.
@shelkev1 by the way, prove ONE BLACK MAN 'yelled from mountaintops' that he 'lusts after white women'?
how are black men, in general (or even a significant percentage) 'driven to white women'? how many REALLY SAY AND MEAN 'they're driven to white women'? give me stats. i can give you ONE stat: 90% of black men who marry will marry black women. u.s. census. have a nice day.
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
pc0p1mp 1 week ago
So all this talk,and marches about equality and intergration was just something to do. I smh for you Martin.
gmann1695 4 weeks ago
I was with you until I started seeing racism in YOUR video towards white women. You give a couple of isolated cases of supposed gold-digging and this is supposed to represent "white women". That's not logically sound.
LucisFerre1 1 month ago
I have experienced on many occasions where an "interracial couple" for some odd reason will go out of their way just to come by me, i guess in hopes of receiving a negative reaction which i think is beyond absurd because first of all i don't know who these people are. In addition some black women have contributed to the false notion that all black women are angry at black men who date out of their race. It's ashame how we are unfairly judged and put in the same category based on one's actions.
Justbeingteyana 2 months ago
@Justbeingteyana said [[I have experienced on many occasions where an "interracial couple" for some odd reason will go out of their way just to come by me, i guess in hopes of receiving a negative reaction which i think is beyond absurd because first of all i don't know who these people are. ]]
Maybe you look friendly and they're just saying hello. Why would they expect a bad reaction as opposed to a good one? What couple would go looking for a hostile reaction?
LucisFerre1 1 month ago
@LucisFerre1 Black women are often judged as a whole on the basis of negative perceptions. So of course they would expect a bad reaction as opposed to a good one.
*Catch my drift*
Justbeingteyana 1 month ago
@Justbeingteyana So true!
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire Thank you.
Justbeingteyana 1 month ago
In regards to the comments below, why are blacks pushing stereo-types on blacks? The minds of blacks are definitely molded and shaped by the white media in such ways that we degrade our own and put whites on a pedestal. White women and other racial groups have babies out of wedlock everyday by different men. Why our black women the high-light of issues that everyone face? I'm black and i didn't grow up without my dad, and for those who did you don't know what the situation is/was behind it.
Justbeingteyana 2 months ago
White kids who grew up without dads in the home are never put under a "MICROSCOPE" by their own race it's all about painting a pretty picture. They sugar-coat sixteen and pregnant which is a show that predominately targets white teen pregnancy - white teen mothers having kids out of WEDLOCK but no one seems to want to touch on that matter because the show isn't predominately targeted at blacks females ... catch my point? They can expose their dirty laundry yet everyone is hush hush about it.
Justbeingteyana 2 months ago
As a Black Man i never used Sistas as an excuse.But! I do however call situations as its given to me like I see it.But I always try to make a fair and just asesstment.As a Man if I'm wrong about something.I'm man enuff to own up to my infractions.However cant always say the same 4 some Sistas.Its seems its ok 4 BW to judge & micro managed BM but when da tables turn they dnt like being confronted about anything.& thats where da issues at.I luv BW & all.But I aint stupid.
visionkingdom 3 months ago
I just have to say that I love black women. But when I was comming up in school and even in college black women would not give me the time of day. But now that I am successful and got my stuff together here they come running wanting me to take care of them and their kids. I'm sorry, but i'm not going to take the leftovers on top of taking care of someone elses kids.
southboy99 3 months ago in playlist for black women 2
@southboy99 You know, there are MANY white guys who have the same story ("Back then, she didn't know me, now I'm hot, she's all on me.") ...Do you think that Hugh Heffner would have all of those hot chicks around him, if he didn't have money? White girls reject nice white dudes, too ("Get lost, LOSER!") Like a white guy told me, himself, white girls play more "accepting" and "submissive" with black guys ...and usually, these are the white girls that white men don't like (w/ low self-esteem)
Lashid4u 3 months ago
@Lashid4u Not so. You have more black women that are into the Thug sex appeal. Most white women don't look for the same things Black women look for in a mate. This is why so many black women are single with multiple kids by different men. You don't see white women like that or I should at least say that many. Not saying white women are better. But most white women grew up with their fathers while most black women have not. White women are more family oriented.
southboy99 3 months ago
@southboy99 WRONG! nonblack men dont stay thugs. black men do stay thugs.
therefore white women have a choice of the type of men they can choose. if a lot want the bad boy- they can go for younger dudes. but if the want the corporate dude- they can go for guys their ages!!!
now how many black women have that leverage huh???
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
@impatientwithdesire There is a difference between thug and bad boy. White guys don't generally sell crack or sing songs about selling crack or going to jail like we do. We praise a woman dancing on a poll before we praise one in college. Even in college most white women know what a real man is. Most of them grew up with one in their life. Many black women have not.
southboy99 1 month ago
@southboy99 Don't forget real men don't get taking by strangers and be haul off in a boat to a strange land to work and to be beat if they refuse to do so. Death was better! Black men never going to get the respect other men gets here in country with that kind of reputation. NIggas were less than a man day 1, when the white man grab their asses and put'em on that boat. and the woman who did this video knows better. In this country, it doesn't matter how much education you got, if you're a BM.
dasunmanify 4 weeks ago
@southboy99 ahh so black men are the only ones who go through this? so nonblack women are running around with poor men? last time i checked- those white women were the biggest golddiggers! especially with you black guys
oh..but thats ok cause you think they deserve to be treated well, right?
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 Thx. I receive your well wishes and wish you the same.
rmsolympic1 4 months ago
I totally agree with lashida4u. They love to Blame us for their problems or their screwed up behavior!!!
Dlovely291 5 months ago
I pretty much agree with this video. I think that of you choose to be with a white female, then that's your choice - not something that Black women somehow forced you into: you wanted to do it. That said, if you've made the choice, then go forth and do not beat Sisters inthe head with it. If I so happened to fall into true love with a woman of another race, I think I would probably be focused on her and not on disrespecting Black women, who I would still love as Sisters.
rmsolympic1 5 months ago
It is utterly amazing reading through the comments and seeing the number of BM that feel they have NO participation in the downfall of the BC. This is the default (il)logic of BM on the net.
Sorry Black males. You are AS RESPONSIBLE for our downfall as you claim BW to be.
0Uhuru0 6 months ago
As a black man I love only Black women. I really love a sista like you who keeps it real!
andre12593 6 months ago
@andre12593 ..and we (I) love you back! :)
Lashid4u 6 months ago
You are a very intelligent Sista. Would love to Chat sometimes!
andre12593 6 months ago
look lady , when black women stop hiding behind weaves , and throwing their lives away through sex with no good men , then they will get a good brother. Instead of complaing maybe you could take a lesson from white women. At least they listen , and are usually better breed and educated , making them more compatable. Who wants to be bothered with " daddy issues " which is your mama's fault , and children out of wedlock?
tbursee 7 months ago
@tbursee
LOL...you kidding right?
You must be stuck in the 50's
Take a "lesson from white women?"
White women today have weaves, have baby daddy issues, have several babies out of wedlock, are not well bred or educated. They enter rehabs with addictions and get arrested too.
Your stereotypes are just old and dated. Or you just never traveled beyond your little area.
7Beyonder 7 months ago 4
@7Beyonder I'n not stuck inthe 50' s. But ironically , black women were doing better in the 50's than they are now. They were not murdering their children in the abortion centers, they were not having babies out of wedlock like slave whores, and they were married. The purpose of the civil rights movement was to move blacks froma place of independence and self reliance , to being dependent on the government. White women have the same problems , but not nearly to the same extent as black women.
tbursee 7 months ago
@tbursee
I see. Your focus is on the defects within black women. All the while talking about "taking lessons from white women." White people can be dependent on the government, but not us. OK.
My uncles used to call that type of logic "house nigga"...Massa's ultimate weapon against black people."
And you have the nerve to bring up the civil rights movement. When your very comments contradict what it was really about. And you spread this poison, for all to see.
Shame.
7Beyonder 7 months ago
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@7Beyonder (CONT.)
"Instead of complaing maybe you could take a lesson from white women. At least they listen , and are usually better breed and educated , making them more compatable."---TBURSEE.
That comment in itself, tells me who you are. The stereotypes are astounding.
Maybe you need to travel beyond your area...see what real African women are doing in this world.
7Beyonder 7 months ago
@7Beyonder HA good one!!!!!!!!! Praise your soul! We got to preach!
ExaltedSirian 7 months ago
@ tbursee....your just an uneducated person! No one can blame you for your ignorance and stupidty! You're just a person who is very low on the evolutionary scale and you have failed to grow and learn as a person! Your stereotypes are completey ridiculous! White girls wear weaves and have children out of wedlock too....they prostitute and get pimped by black men too.....so what are you talking about Lamo?
ExaltedSirian 7 months ago
great video!! people on here need to stop making comments to each other and comment on the video! maybe if we do so there wouldn't be some much drama!!
mspurr24 8 months ago
Go to Australia!!! Noone hates! Everyone loves!!!
QuestionMr 9 months ago
@ImALilMuch what part dont you understand? you dont know what i was talking about which was clearly noticable in the very first comment Im not about to argue with you about black society and relationships btwn black women and men. My first comment was so long ago that i dont even remember exactly what i said, the reason i pointed out what this video was about is because thats what my comment was referring to soo again your point is?
thesamechangebiotch 11 months ago
@ImALilMuch yes but obviously this video is about black women in relationships with black men. idk what point you're trying to prove but this is really irritating. To end this discussion, this can go for racial issues, gender issues, social activities, etc. Bad experiences in the past will effect future experiences either in a postive or negative manner
thesamechangebiotch 11 months ago
IM A BLACK MAN AND I LOVED YOUR VIDEO . YOU BROKE IT DOWN . LIKE MOMA SAID TELL THE TRUTH AND SHAME THE DEVIL . ALL YOU SO CALLED BROTHERS THAT READ MY COMMENT YOU DEAD WRONG . AND YOU NO ITS THE TRUTH . BLACK WOMAN LOVE US TO MUCH TO EVER BE OUR ENEMIES . THEY LOVE US MORE THEN ANY WOMAN YOU CAN EVER FIND . I HAD A WHITE WOMAN AND THAT SLUTT DROVE ME CRAZY . BUT I NEVER BLAMED BLACK WOMAN FOR MY DOWN FALLS . BECAUSE A REAL MAN WOULDNT DO THAT . ARE YOU A REAL MAN ?
thinkalott33 11 months ago 17
@thinkalott33 I agree with u dude
fmcneillii 8 months ago
@thinkalott33 Spell Check First my dude, (In DMX voice) then get money. Its hard to take you veiw point seriously with grammar and spelling like that.
DaSurreal1da 4 months ago
@DaSurreal1da ok . retard
thinkalott33 4 months ago
your opinion of my intellect does not negate the fact that no one will take you seriously with spelling and grammar like that........just trying to keep it real with you and help you at the same time.
DaSurreal1da 4 months ago
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@DaSurreal1da Thank you but i dont need your help .
thinkalott33 4 months ago
@ImALilMuch And you said this to say what? At the end of the day we do not have socially intelligent and people who think outside of themselves and their own experiences. My comment was based on generations of women who have these mentalities.
thesamechangebiotch 11 months ago
@ImALilMuch I hate sounding like a loop but this is war! White supremacy is a system of white genetic survival. DO THE RESEARCH! In war you must use every weapon at your disposal including the weapon of mass (DICKSTRUCTION). The everyday white person is not the creator of this system & I don’t hate them. The owners of this system hate the BM & now you know why. It’s obvious you don’t know what the hell you’re talking about woman and I’m done talking. Have a nice one.
madmac29 11 months ago
@ImALilMuch Listing the symptoms of a problem in place of the seed cause proves your're lacking complete understanding. You are an example of a people who have been totally mind wipe. Living in a situation where your experiences are shaping your thoughts and you are “not” the owner of the system that creates experiences, you are under thought control. You are clueless until we control the system that organize society expect organize chaos life loop status forever!
madmac29 11 months ago 2
@ImALilMuch I’m proud of any BM who navigates himself into so call success. But I also know the BM & BW successes are oversees. It is nation time anything less is bitch hood reality. There is no such thing is building an economic and social structures that remove you from dependence on the "system" in a nation not of your own that’s an illusion. Obama is a product of white genetic destruction! This is still “war” they won a lot of battles but it’s not over.
madmac29 11 months ago
@madmac29 LMAO
UniversalMinded 8 months ago
@ImALilMuch For you to say the divide between the BM & BW was orchestrated by us proves you are lacking understanding. We do not control the system that governs our community. We are not the owners of the monetary system. We are chasing prosperity that is in the hands of a master deceiver & mind manipulator. This ruler is shaping society in an energy that allows the BW to prosper. BM will not summit to this system but you will. The BM is getting at his woman Obama is a product of that.
madmac29 11 months ago
im tired of blck women tryna tlk down bout us brothers. im not gonna say im pro black im pro life. my wife is white. i have dated blck women, and i think there beautifull, but i dont date blck women. alot of blck women in the ghetto dont hold there standards as high, they want a fuck up ass blck man then they blame every black man 4 1 mans actions. im sick of this "mad black woman"syndrome.. its gettin old. this is 2k11. go date a white man if ur uhappy with us.. stop complaining.
Cruiz954 1 year ago
@Cruiz954 If you are now with a white woman, then, there isn't even a need for you to be in this convo, cuz you no longer have personal dealings with black women...
Lashid4u 1 year ago 2
@Lashid4u sounds to me tht your trying to ignore the facts to me. i am relevant to the convo seeing as i am a balack man thts been on both ends of the situation. its sad tht intead of realizing wht im saying u wanna brush it aside like your better then me.. ha. well i got news for u be real with yourself.
Cruiz954 1 year ago
@Cruiz954 Seriously, STOP assuming about black women, being so sensitive ...If you were to overlook all my videos, you'd have a better understanding of where I stand
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u never assumed black women are senstive u did sweetheart. i dont speak for every black woman, as i hope u arent speaking on behalf of every black man. u look about 40 so i would think u could handle a convo alot better then this instead of trying to make me look wrong. do some soul searching, stop posting black and white videos and post somthing relative, like the economic struggles between the poor and the rich in america.
Cruiz954 1 year ago
@Cruiz954 No, I am speaking of YOU being so sensitive...and if this is what I choose to do videos about, that is my choice. No one is stopping YOU from making such videos (on the economy, etc.) ...Btw, I am posting from my business math class (class ended, though, and I'm just hanging out).
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Cruiz954 ... You proved your own point. Ghetto Black women as you pointed out don't have high standards; however, that's ONE type. Black women are as diverse as their skin tones and hair textures yet EVERYBODY (including BM) put us all in the same category. You say our standards are too low, then the next brother says that our standards are too high. For this reason, I'm convinced that the problem doesn't lie with the BW at all. My essence is beautiful. Take me as I am or keep it moving.
freetobemenoapology 11 months ago 5
@freetobemenoapology Preach
Lashid4u 11 months ago
The divide between BM & BW was manufactured but BW seems not to give a fuck. BW wants BM to submit to the same system that is turning BW against BM. The average white people are not script writers of society. They are sacrifices. You’ll be surprise how much of your life is scripted. BW learn to see with your mind it gives you understanding what you see with your eyes because seeing is not always believing.
madmac29 1 year ago
"These naggy, bossy black women are products of YOUR semen, so, are you saying that the white man's seed is more valuable?"
i guess females coming from semen automatically makes it a man's fault huh? the reverse psychology thing is just sad.
thirdstreetent 1 year ago
@thirdstreetent These black women you put negative tags on are the black women YOU produce ...are the black women YOU raise (or did not raise, which makes it worse) ..I'm not faulting, anyone, I'm just making you look at what YOU'RE saying when you are trying to put these negative labels on the females that YOU produce
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@thirdstreetent ..I have had more issues w/ black men than could be imagined, but I don't feel the need to go on and on about how white men are better, or use that as an excuse to run to white men ...WHY would I even give them the satisfaction, considering their history in relation to my people, which is a big contribution to why we are so fucked up, now? Have some fuckin' dignity, black people!
Lashid4u 1 year ago 11
well honey i love my white man. i am in my 20's not in my 200's. nor is my man. if black men put yall throughso much -why stick by them? dont you deserve a better life than that? are bm providing that for you? no? then move on! just cause you date nonblack men doesnt mean you cant be proud of your race. hell, i am! but if you want to talk about being raped of resources and being treated like shit...ever since we came here- white men didnt have to do as much as black men are doing to us now!
impatientwithdesire 2 months ago
@impatientwithdesire we meet again, lol.
Keep spreading the good new my friend. Every time I hear a "you need to keep with your own kind" argument, it's supported by irrational racism. As you alluded to on your profile page, white men/black women marriages are VERY stable compared to other parings. If there were anything wrong with black women, it would be in that case also, but obviously isn't. I'll make a video on this soon, but I still need to research some stats.
Cheers.
LucisFerre1 1 month ago
@LucisFerre1 :)
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
Black men are sick of black women attitudes PERIOD. Thats why black men date outside their race. Would you a date a nagging, loud, rude, bossy and controling person ( which is the stereotype of black women and they earned it). Black women have been proud of this stereotype for years and now that black men use it too date outside. Black women now are calling black men weak for not wanting to put up with it (the atittude of course). Who wants to put up with an atittude?
CrazyBrah21 1 year ago
@CrazyBrah21 Again: Don't use black women as your excuse. These naggy, bossy black women are products of YOUR semen, so, are you saying that the white man's seed is more valuable? If you want a white women, there she is ...bye! There is no need to "announce" why you are going to her. If you are no longer dealing w/ sistas, WHY even inform us of anything? WHY even try to school us anymore? Y'all need to just cut the shit....
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@CrazyBrah21 i know you posted this a month ago but i'll be real. You are giving straight up bullshit. period. Not all black women have attitudes,have you met all of the black women in today's society? I'm going to use the same statement that guys use for women, "maybe YOU'RE the problem when YOU keep ATTRACTING the WRONG women." Have yu ever wondered where these "attitudes" come from? since birth alot of black women have not KNOWN black men. The man births them then leaves them as a child, if
thesamechangebiotch 1 year ago
@CrazyBrah21 you grow up without a black male role model or father figure how can you ever see a black man in a positive light? all yu see is some bum who had sex with your mother, left her to raise you, left her to work her fingers to the bones just to put a little bit of food on the table, you see a man who didnt support you emotionally, mentally, how do you think a black woman can TRUST a black man? she may love black men, but how can she truly trust you when in the back of her mind she
thesamechangebiotch 1 year ago
@CrazyBrah21 sees a guy who's done her nothing but wrong??? People need to realize that not only are black people standing up for themselves, their own individuality but they're also standing up for the whole society. Black people are the most easily generalized race in the world and we generalize ourselves, look at how we point the finger at one another and blame one another for things that one man has no control over! One black man/woman does you wrong and u say all bm/bw are the same.
thesamechangebiotch 1 year ago 2
Not to mention . It doesn't even look NATURAL ! Take a long hard look at a black standing next to a white in a sexual union. It's a perfect example of being unequally yoked....
GeneticallySuperior1 1 year ago
@GeneticallySuperior1 lol
Lashid4u 1 year ago
Let me clarify for those who want to make this a racial issue. We do not battle against flesh & blood, but against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual host of wickedness in heavenly realms (PERIOD)!!! Satan and his legions have been using man and every other tool in his tool box to defile the seed of man. This goes far beyond most peoples understanding - but if scripture is read an understanding will be given. We were commanded not to mix outside of our seed and man has
GeneticallySuperior1 1 year ago
And black women do stuff like this to. Date and marry for money.
nativemrv19722 1 year ago
I don't think it is nothing wrong with the black man sampling other women. They don't have to be white are black women.
nativemrv19722 1 year ago
Why are people still talking about this BULLSHIT!!!!
Why cant people be with who they want to be with??!!
omahni2 1 year ago
@omahni2 WHO THE HELL is stopping you from being w/ who you wanna be with?
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u
NOBODY! because I refuse to let peoples social fears, stigmas, hatred & insecurities have any effect on me or my life. Black people who have an issue with this, keep putting black men who date "other" women in one box. Where all self hating, we're trying to blame you, we're somehow trying to rub your noses it, bla bla bla. Some men are just attracted to WOMEN. Doesnt matter what color you are. & Im not all that attracted to white women. Theyre "ok" but latin, asian & black women :)
omahni2 1 year ago
@omahni2 Like I've said, black men have BEEN w/ women of other races - this aint shit new ...This aint so much about white women, or black men w/ white3 women, but BLACK WOMEN being blamed for this. Now, if true love is your case, then, you aint got shit to prove to me ..But the video is titled "DON'T USE BLACK WOMEN AS YOUR EXCUSE". So, for you to take offense to me just defending bw, perhaps I'm tapping into a truth about you...Yet, you claim that people don't get to you..sure
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u
I dont see black men using black women as their excuse. As for me Im half Latino. My mother is PR. So when I date a Latino women do I hate myself?? You're not tapping into a truth about me at all. I was raised to love everyone and I DO. I obviously got to you..you're the one who got pissy about me saying people need to stop talking about this BULLSHIT and deal with people being with who they want to be with. I dont care what color you are this shit is annoying and offensive.
omahni2 1 year ago
@omahni2 You are speaking for yourself, I am speaking for what I am hearing and witnessing at school, work, ("Golddigger") on ytube, and all over the internet - why don't you check it out for yourself, if you think I'm kidding you. And you didn't "get" to me - I think I'm just merely responding to YOUR post to ME in MY video. If you wanna chase the rainbow, aint nobody stopping you - how is what I'm saying offending you if it doesn't apply to you?
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u
Even the way you're saying "chase the rainbow" is offensive. You sound racist or at the very least have your own PERSONAL issue with interracial dating. Specifically black men with white women, wich is RACIST. There's no way to spin it. You cant refute the undisputable! ANYBODY that MAKES UP all kinds of BULLSHIT "rationalizations" as to why people of their race date "outside the race" is a racist. Thats what makes you and everyone like you offensive. I am the product of LOVE not ..
omahni2 1 year ago
@Lashid4u
"reason" so fuck you and anybody that thinks like you.
omahni2 1 year ago
@omahni2 Yeah ..I must've hit you personally..lol
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u
As if YOU dont take offense to racism aimed at black people in general...But its ok to throw racism at a gender of a specific race and disguise is as concern. And out of 100 balck men who SEE PAST COLR, how many of them actualy say they blame black women for dating other races? Im half black half PR, our president is half black half white but if it was up to people like you we wouldnt exist...so yeah the shits offensive.
omahni2 1 year ago
@omahni2 Do you even know what racism is? Talking about racism, and showing lashing out against racism and self-hatred embedded in blacks is not racism ...See my video, "Blacks Are Just As Racist" ...But even if you watch it, you're gonna still act like you don't know ...You're not fooling me, nor are you changing me...And if you wanna think I'm racist, then, I'll be that racist ...NOW WHAT?
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u
I dont have to say anything...You just told me what I wanted to hear..you're racist...Have a good day..
omahni2 1 year ago
@JaKKeBrOwN part1.Any black ape fella or any nonwhite male that finds white woman attractive is for every men. A white woman looks like a white man her dad. Her dad is a white man and not a black ape fella.
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@JaKKeBrOwN part2.The reason why white woman are the most beautiful woman on the earth is becouse only white woman and men are made in God's image, white, bright eyes, angel hair, only the white adamic race came from adam and eve only they are God's children.
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster I see that you feel the need to keep confirming to everyone (and yourself) that white is most beautiful; thus, I question: Do you TRULY believe this?
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@JaKKeBrOwN part3.The sons and daughters of adam and eve today are mostly white european heritage people. White adamic people from accross the world and from all walks of life are coming to accept that it's possible that God did not make black people or any of the nonwhite races.
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@JaKKeBrOwN part4.Tens of thousands of years ago FALLEN ANGELS / SATANIC ET's came to the earth took ape DNA modified the ape DNA and made black people and all the nonwhite mudraces with black people being the least modified of the ape DNA thats why black people look act and are in the image of a ape. There are races of people on the earth today that God did not make they were made/seeded by FALLEN ANGELS. MATTHEW 15:13.
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster What an azz-backwards theory! LOL ...Look at my vid on Evolution about the "ape man" ..Btw, shave a primate, and what color are they, usually? Why don't apes have kinky hair? I mean, this is the most outstanding African trait? ..You can't be THAT stupid, yet, claim to be the "master race"! LOL
Lashid4u 1 year ago
Respond to this video...part1.white women:cook, clean, oral sex, better looking, easier to live with, less drama, no thug baby daddys on the side, less cheating, not that much thug loving,no babies at all except with there MAN(which would be you good bm), excersize, no out of wedlock children, not fat stanky,
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster White women cook and clean (unlike bw)? If that's true, then, WHY did white women have black women cooking for their hubbies and children for SO MANY YEARS (and still do)? ..And aren't they the main ones behind the feminist movement, trying to kill the idealism of women belonging in the kitchen? Black women aren't that focused on that - got bigger issues. And I've lived w/ white females (more than you have, I'm sure) ..they're not all so "fresh" as you wanna try to fool people
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster Are you living in lala land brotha? Sound conflicted
neimah79 1 month ago
Respond to this video...part 2.real natural hair, less attitude, treat you as a MAN, the list goes on the only advantage black women have over white women is them booty's and thick thighs but is that booty worth puttin up with the normal typical sista brings? attitude, thug baby daddys on the side, a whole
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster Real, natural hair, but fake t!tties, azzes, lips, complextion ...Shall I go further? ..You need to stop while you're ahead, because you're allowing me to clown the white women you love, and that's REALLY not my purpose
Lashid4u 1 year ago
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MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
Respond to this video...part 3bunch of out of wedlock children, no cooking/cleaning, no oral sex, not respecting you as a MAN, all that back talking, constaly sizing you up, hollering im independent, I'm strong, listenin to beyonce all day copying her, taking all your child support money for her own benefits, big fat enormous size
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
Respond to this video...part4. coochies where you have to have a 8 inch cock just for it not to slip out, the only thing great about black women is the sex good black men stay far away from sistas as possible unless you want to be playing step pops to kids that aint yours! just use em for sex and make sure you wear atleast 2 condoms black women are not on the same level mentality as a black man bw may have some college degrees but god forgot to give them common sense
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster How do you know about a black woman's coochie, if, I'm assuming, you haven't been w/ any (cuz they are ape women)? Hmmm...As I believe, when a female first has sex, it hurts - it hurts EVERY female, because it's closed. So, if a sista's cooch is already so "wide" ..Then, WHY would it hurt the first time? Oh, and if the sista's cooch was so bad, then, WHY couldn't he stay w/ his woman, creepin' w/ black women since slavery?
Lashid4u 1 year ago
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MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
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MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive, So you think your Mother, Grandmother, Great grandmothers are whores?
Repeat those same disgusting words to them and send me a bill from the hosipital so I can see the damage your mother and grandmothers did to you.
You're a real sell out and not even the real Nat turner would approve your resentment and being a total sellout to black women
Hikaru2g 1 year ago
@Hikaru2g Some of these so-called "angry black men" are, actually, white trolls, posing as blacks, w/ deceptive names and ebonics. They troll black forums, videos, etc., trying to keep shit going between black men and women, shifting our focus from the message of unity, to just fighting back and forth w/ each other. So, I'd just ignore the bullshit (when it goes so far, I just delete it, cuz I'm not having that back-n-forth bullshit).
Lashid4u 1 year ago
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@Lashid4u, Yea that's true but sadly there are those trolls that are actually African American men. Only thing is that they won't show their face just like the cowards they are
Hikaru2g 1 year ago
@Lashid4u livin with a black girl only brings trouble but livin with a white girl will make a cute couple black girls dont cook nor clean or do dishes they favorite place is the salon and they hate bein in the kitchen,cheating,not loyal & wishy washy & always have other people kids!
MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@JaKKeBrOwN oh,wow...*smh*
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Naw i'm not gonna let them off the hook that easily! White women knows our plights but so do black women, the difference is that black women are getting taken care of so our problems are not their problem! Matter fact, she's likely the biggest problem in our lives!
As long as the BLACK WOMAN is taken care of, that's all the black woman is concerned about!
Ol girl knows about the prostitution thing which is exactly why she never answered my question!
TRUTH HURTS!!!!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@JaKKeBrOwN THANKS...WILL check it out!
Lashid4u 1 year ago
the real reason you forgot to put in this video sista is black women dont like to eat ass?
poletown74 1 year ago
Okay first of all you are Cute!
Now, the reason why I feel that Black women are jealous of white women is because it's not necessarily about them being with the white girl, it's more about them spending their money & maintaining their status with them!
I noticed that you had Richard Pryor & Lionel Richie which = CELEBRITIES!!!
Basically RICH MEN!!!
I never hear complaints about the broke niggas, they get mad because the ww get to divorce him & take his money rather than black women!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
I like this video as it is very refreshing to see a sista tell it like it is without expressing hatered toward black men. As a black man I get tired of seeing brotha's out there making excuses for dating white women by blaming black women this is so so sad. Also what you said about pushing white women in a sista's face is so true nowadays. It seems to me that some black men like white women when things are good & when things get bad all of a sudden they want/need a sista in there life.
rebels75q 1 year ago
@rebels75q and it is just as refreshing to see a brotha who can just "hear" what a sista's saying, understanding that it is all, TRULY, about LOVE for the black man (and the black race), and not about bashing brothas in any way.
Much love
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u and it's also evident that most black women are ONLY talking about rich men/Celebrities because EVERY SINGLE TIME they mention a "Good Man" it ironically has something to do with MONEY!!!
If there was more black women marrying (only to divorce later) RICH BLACK MEN then there wouldn't be such complaints...
Did i mention that you were cute?
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 lol ..thanks for the compliment...
Black women have been VERY open and accepting of men who make less money than them, unlike white women, who aint havin' that - and I'm not talking about the white women that white men don't want, and have a mandigo fantasy, thus, they will let a brotha use them (being irresponsible) ...But white men know that if they lose/quit their job ...White women don't play that, while sistas are, actually, VERY lenient, despite all the bitchin' we do
Lashid4u 1 year ago
Lashid) The only point I was trying to make is that black women COMPLAIN about us getting with white women but the ones they complain the loudest about coincidentally just happens to be RICH!
Stay on the topic & please tell me why men like Flavor Flav, Shabba Ranks, Patrick Ewing, Sam Cassell, etc can get gorgeous women that just happed to be checking for them?
I pay attention to obvious shit & women try to sweep shit under the rug instead of admitting that MONEY IS THE ONLY IMPORTANCE!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lashid4u And answer this, have you ever heard ANY FEMALES talking about how they like certain dudes because they have money?
Have you ever heard of ANY FEMALES talking about marrying rich guys just to divorce them, get Alimony & esp CHILD SUPPORT?
Have you ever heard of PROSTITUTION? When you give up the ass for Material items, a Movie Date, Weed & Alcohol, etc YOU ARE A PROSTITUTE!
You don't necessarily have to stand on the corner!
Please answer the above questions SPECIFICALLY!!!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
It is just so unfortunate that intimate relationships have to be politicized like this. Choose a partner out of love not ideology.
catguy00 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive ..only reason black women dont say shit about white men being wiith them is beacause the white men are with them, so apparently the black women can date outside her race but the black man is apparently there property.& the black women wonder why black men like white womens personalities better.hmmm...think about that..white women dont say nothin about the white men dating black women because we are not jealous and not possesive..let me say tho not all black women are like this
BLUEEYEDBARBiE18 1 year ago
The end of your video was classic. You know, people give the impression that the grass is greener on the other side, but you showed that people are the same regardless. The brothers thought they were avoiding a problem, but found out to late were not. Instead of judging people on race, it is wiser to look at their character. CLASSIC!
2enchant 1 year ago
um sorry i got to say this but in my opinion lionel's black wife is better looking than the woman he left her for. just on looks and their ways of things. lionel actually dated down, not only did he leave a beautiful woman that looked better than the ww, but he left a real woman for a superficial, and insecure one at that. wat a way to date down lmao.
thesassiest 1 year ago
To hell with white women,ill stick to my sisters
DONTA9231 1 year ago
This nat turner dude is a charecter.Lame ass
DONTA9231 1 year ago
Girl, now you know you are so wrong for putting R.Kelly and Twan on this! lol That was too funny but you called out some major points. Find you someone to be with regardless of skin tone,be happy, and keep it moving. Point blank.
Prettytoes29 1 year ago
IAM NOT JUST DATING THE WHiTE MANS DAUGHTER, IAM FUCKING HER TOO... ALL BECAUSE MY OWN BLACK WOMEN REJECT ME AND ACT AS IF BLACK MEN ARE A LOWER CLASS OF HUMAN BEING...(NOT ALL BLACK FEMALES BUT A VAST MAJORITY) AND I DONT HAVE THE TIME TO TRY AND FIND THE FEW BLACK FEMALES THAT ARE DIFFERENT!
TheJFLAMEZ 1 year ago
@TheJFLAMEZ didnt white women do that? yet you still will marry date and fuck them? DOUBLE STANDARDS?
thesassiest 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive your such a fool...why would black women question white men? thats a white womans other half not a black womans...black women aint SUPERWOMEN you know. They cant do everything by themselves..just because it apperars that way and they know how to put up with shit and still keep it moving it dosent mean that she has to watch over other races of men or even black men. And stop with that slavery stuff, its getting old
caramelprincessxxx41 1 year ago
hiw did black women opress them? this is what i dont get jajajajajajajaja it makes me laugh and who cares about black men and white women?
caramelprincessxxx41 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Tell me ..what is it about white women that intimidates me? I have no problem seeing a film w/ Angelina Jolie, but white women can't even take seeing a black woman w/ a BLACK man in a movie. But please, tell me ...I wanna know why people think that black women are intimidated by black men ..I talk about my disapproval of brothas having a light-skinned preference ...Am I jealouse of light-skinned girls, too?
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u a bw with any man they cant take!
thesassiest 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive I don't give a damn what the white man is called, he is not my concern. And they were raping the black women (whether through physical force, or mental deception), there's a difference. Honestly, you can't build an army if you sleep with the enemy. Just admit that you want to fuck white women, and stop trying to save face! Tired of these fake, revolutionaries! I have more respect for those who just say "I WANT A WHITE WOMAN", giving no explanations, and just move on.
Lashid4u 1 year ago 2
@Lashid4u exactly! thats wat i told him, he must want a ww, he gone say wm are the enemy but ww arent! he dogs bw too much. if wm were using bw(cause they like dat dark meat) for sex, wat the fuck does he think ww are using bm for? i know he doesnt reallly believe they care? i have yet to see the day a ww brings down a white supremacy structure that benefits her! lol
thesassiest 1 year ago
@Lashid4u and not every man, is meant to be a leader, where and the heck do bm get this fix that they deserve these good bw, when they bashing sistas and putting them in a box, dont support us enough, who in the world said they are worthy of being the leader of black people. NOT every man a woman should follow, thats why i say its good to have a mind of your own, you cant always depend on man, sometimes they let you down.
thesassiest 1 year ago
I can understand why black men isn't getting the respect from the women of their kind, one thing they are known to be a coward people the reason I say this, they were the ones was capture by another race of people and put into servitude and they didn't put up a fight, that why I consider black men are cowards. I'm really um talking about the African race are cowards they didn't pursue after the ones that capture his people they just stood there and let it happen.
cocoaj13 1 year ago
@cocoaj13 its true! ive realised this aswell...when black men make videos just talking about a white womans looks over a black womans looks and society etc...you will get atleast 4 response videos by WHITE MEN who are defending white women LMAO...white women dont even have to defend themseleves...white men will do it for them(despite them being the highest INTERRACIAL daters) they still know that without their women there is no them. black men however, will be the ones making the bashing videos
caramelprincessxxx41 1 year ago
@cocoaj13 whats even more funny to me is that ive seen more appreciation videos coming from white or asian men than black men jajajajaja
caramelprincessxxx41 1 year ago
I just want to know one thing Lashid4u. That what you say after 5:00, how do you know that? (That's not the Lashid I know, in the other video you say stop bitching when there is something to bitch about. Now this.) You don't see everything in the world so that's the worst thing I've ever heard you say.
WildL23 1 year ago
How would you like it if a thug came on here saying no thugs ever kill people on buses, that is the biggest crop of bullshit in the history of man, so detectives don't ever investigate this crime. Wouldnt taht be a big ass slap in the face to you woman? Or what if a cop came on youtube and said there is no such thing as racial profiling, racial killing, and racist beatings carried out by police. That is the biggest crop of bs. That thug and cop is on your side??????????
WildL23 1 year ago
This goes back to black man's collective immaturity. First, it was "the white man" who was keeping them down now its "black woman". Its always someone elses fault for their circumstances or behavior. They always making excuses for shit. If you like to swirl, just swirl, I don't know who they are trying to convince with the black women have "bad attitudes" that is some bullshit. If most black women have bad attitudes, then most black men have bastard children and have been to jail.
trulytatum 1 year ago
@trulytatum and most bm like bad attitudes if thats the case, considerin the fact alot of black babies(adding the abortions also) are being MADE.
thesassiest 1 year ago
Wow how one sided IMO, you should also address the bw who date wm because of bm this and bm that. SMH
The black community as a whole is a complete joke honestly both sides always pointing fingers but never taking responsibility for his or her actions
DXcellence718 1 year ago
these black men so brainwashed by the image the wm has created of his women as the most high epitome of femminity.they will accept any ww and give her a pass on anything she does wrong they don't talk about them being gold digger or scandolous skanks but let a black women do it then she's ain't nothing but a dirty ho.they talk about bw being in collusion with wm but they r the 1s being used by the wm pawn the ww
theredeemed22 1 year ago
@theredeemed22 true
thesassiest 1 year ago
i agree with u.i noticed the same thing u r talking about in blacksploitation movies of the 70s the same thing is going on in movies today u the black males characters love interest is a women of another race u don't see this for wm in movies geared towards white this is nothing but brainwashing to divide black men from black women.
theredeemed22 1 year ago
since when is asking some one to take accountability for their own actions blame? wake up my sista!!!!
shelkev1 1 year ago
when are bw going to start speaking up for her men. when are bw going to admit that she is raising the sorry men since dad is not in the home (prob do to the 'strong' bw attitude she prides so much). when are bw going to admit that she is dressing up in weaves to look more european. the average bw get mad when you tell her she should submit to her husband. why is that? bw are loosing grip on her own reality due to trying to adopt the ww's history and reality.
shelkev1 1 year ago
bw having been using bm for their excuse for years while bm said nothing. bw have sat back and watched their men being dragged threw the mud and said nothing. now that bm are speaking back and pointing out that there are two sides to the coin bw are complaining. but again the average sista refuse to admit it and it she does she will not hold steady to it. slavery really did a number on us.
shelkev1 1 year ago
i am a bw and i too thought thay bm where trying to simply blame bw for everything until i took the time to actually talk to a few black men open mindly and i actually learned alot from them. we have been conditioned in this country that our men have nothing to offer us and because of this we look for reasons to put them down. we are trained to be defensive towards them. these men are not soley blaming us they are only asking us to realize and own our part in the problem. can u do that?
shelkev1 1 year ago
most bm even those who date ww prefer bw but bw refuse to listen to bm. many bw are lost and they do not realize that they are doing the work of the wm. black feminist is really the problem and will ultimately be the demiss of the black race! unless we as bw wake up and make some changes and encourage our fellow sistas to do the same.
shelkev1 1 year ago
@shelkev1 Again: STOP BLAMING black women for every choice a black man makes! Black men not taking responsibility for anything is a strong stereotype used against black men, and when they continue to use black women as an excuse for every choice they make ...it only justifies that stereotype. Black women need to wake up. Black men need to wake up. Plain and simple
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u I never blamed bw for everything but the typical response bw have when asked to take accountability is that they are being blamed for every thing. There are thousands of vids of bw talking about what the bm dont do and that the bm is jumpin the fence with out ever looking at the facts. Stats show that not as many bm are jumpin the fence as the media wants us to believe. but no vids of bw taken any ownership to the problems and then speaking of working together.
shelkev1 1 year ago
I agree that many bm are being drivien to ww by bw. You just admitted in ur vid that u once preferred ur brothas to date ww. the problem i see with many bw is they are unwilling to listen to bm and are too quick to dismiss the feelings and thoughts of bm off as BS. if these bm who are ir dating were so happy and preferred ww they would not still be commenting on the current state of the bw.
shelkev1 1 year ago
@shelkev1 That's bullshit. Black men have BEEN lusting for white women - this is just the newest excuse. The old excuse is that they were just "getting back at the man". Black women have put up w/ WAY more than just "neck rolling" and a "bad attitude", so, if that were the case, we would've ALL been driven to white men! So, quit using that excuse. If a brotha wanted a black woman, he would be w/ a black woman. A guy I know just tell the truth: he's attracted to ww, which has nothing to do w/ bw
Lashid4u 1 year ago
@Lashid4u typical response Im going to assume you did not read any of my other messages. this is the prob with outr bw right now. we really need to own up or shut. you are using ONE example of a bm and forget about the MANY who are speaking out every where. if you take one look at the state of bw and see were a man would be turned off then you got issues.
shelkev1 1 year ago
@Lashid4u true, but i never understood, their race of women have the WHOLE dang package, diff skin tones, curvaceous, full lips, face body and all. dont understand it, never will.
thesassiest 1 year ago
@shelkev1 i dont think ANY black man is 'driven' to white women; the few black men that have said this were full of shit. no more/less than black women who claim 'no good black men' idiocy. both are losers, and both are LYING.
neoconsnightmare3 1 year ago
@neoconsnightmare3 well im not speaking on what u think. im speaking on what black men have been screaming from mountaintops yet everyone refuse to listen.
shelkev1 1 year ago
@shelkev1 i'm not speaking on what i THINK, i'm speaking on FACT. a FEW black men may say that, and its not an issue of 'refusing to listen'. its simply a NON fact.
just like black WOMEN have been yelling equally idiotic stuff.
BOTH are losers when they yell that...to sensible people, it should be a non issue.
neoconsnightmare3 1 year ago
@neoconsnightmare3 sure you are speaking about what you think since that is what YOU wrote in your first comment to me. maybe you should revisit your own words, lol! now in regards to your so called FACT. where is your proof to back up your statement. I can send you tons of links where bm are backing up my statements unless your gonne refute these men's statements and tell them what they should feel based on your thoughts, lol! get a grip.
shelkev1 1 year ago
@shelkev1 shelkev, do you REALLY think the 'jedi mind trick' is going to work with me? c'mon. i'm giving fact, whether you like it or not. you saying it's what i 'think' won't change it. send 'tons of links' that show 'black men lust after white women'. by not putting a percent on it, or even a 'some', you're implying that 'lusting after white women' is the mode of black men. now prove it. and YOU get a grip.
neoconsnightmare3 1 year ago
@shelkev1 by the way, prove ONE BLACK MAN 'yelled from mountaintops' that he 'lusts after white women'?
how are black men, in general (or even a significant percentage) 'driven to white women'? how many REALLY SAY AND MEAN 'they're driven to white women'? give me stats. i can give you ONE stat: 90% of black men who marry will marry black women. u.s. census. have a nice day.
neoconsnightmare3 1 year ago