How to Read Body Language : Importance of Eye Contact in Body Language

[DiorVanity]

what about the people with no eyes? are they supposed to glue googly eyes on and shake there head around!!??

[koreanmarco]

in dealing with women, all she said does not work, you will seem obvious, and it makes her angry, and you will wonder " w t f is wrong with her " . ha ha ha -- you never ask a women for advice in relationships.

[myuhdidas]

next time i want to know if someones interested in me, ill get close enough to check theyre pupils...

[USCUSCTrojan1]

This whole eye reading is a bunch of BS. I'm Asian and we tend to view people who use a lot of eye contact as weird, strange, scary etc. Periodic eye contact is nice but start looking at me like Armenians do and I will get as far away from you as possible.

[hanaro66]

@onecoolgreek Haha so true.

[misspinkpunkykat]

What about with Asian and autistic people?

[Vrishchii]

@misspinkpunkykat lol oh wow! what about guys with big brows?

[rosewind05]

what if he shows all of the good signs but when i asked him if he liked me he said no ....but even after i asked him , he kept huging ,siting, eye to eye contact, hanging out ect ...does he have a secret crush on me...?

[Foyder]

I have a phobia of eye contact? Am I alone here?

[uykukyuk]

@Foyder I have the opposite. Im always searching for eyecontact. Ive met a guy in a bar once and he asked me if I was family of someone. That someone is my sister. He said he recognized me because my sister does the same thing. I always look in someones eyes to see what kind of person he/she is. Some people even told me they were intimedated because of me looking that direct at them..

[SunnyFlower5]

@uykukyuk Same here, seems to frighten so many, but then i think if they can't cope with it, it's their problem. The ones who are cool with it, are usually cool with me :o)

[uykukyuk]

@SunnyFlower5 Some guys see it as flirting and that is my problem because they think Im interested. But most of the times they aren't my type:P And that is annoying:S

[ThePrettieminnie]

@Foyder me ttoo -__-

[G92Terran]

thumbs up if this is the same exact woman from uncharted 3 as a villian

[rosy2lee2]

thats bullcrap... the most obvious way of reading someone is through their eyebrows. and i dont look at peoples eyes when im interested in them, i look at their noses.

[paytheprice11]

@onecoolgreek how are you so sure that if a girl plays with her hair, she does in fact like you?

[alinasofials]

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[Rahmiel15]

i get a feeling of being stared at n crowdiness when i look someone in the eyes n get fidgity i always do n always feel ike im being watched so when i stare sumone in hte eyes i feel surrounded n im already clausrtaphobic so it no help much lol

[conquestdrifter]

I was talking to a girl we acted like boyfriend/girlfriend. Before she left I asked her that I would like to be in a relationship but when I did I noticed her eyes kept looking down an she said it's because it a far distance relationship and all and that is true but I was wondering if she wanted to be with me because she kept pausing when i asked her questions about our relationship. Thank you for your help

[fiddlesteven]

You are furthering stereo types. Many people with disabilities exhibit these characteristics. They are soft nerolical signs. Some of them may not look you in the eye because they are not able to process so much stimulus all at once. You are spreading misinformation about some of our most vulnerable indiviuals. People may misinterpret these signs in an individual with hiden disabilities. You are doing harm to them. I am shocked that expert village has alowed you to spread this kind of thing.

[WeallAreAdults]

staring to much in someones eyes could make them think your a weird person.

I hate girls that stare into my eyes continuesly during a conversation, makes me feel uncomfortable.

But thats just sometimes, if i'm interrested in someone who does, its just heaven on earth hehe

[leklekjasmine416]

ive had problems with making eye contact with people my whole life even people i know , like idk what it is like i can look at their ayes for about 3 seconds and then it gets sooo hard for me and i end up lookin away i really need help because ppl think i dnt care but i really do...

[goodolt70s]

Trains are great to get close to women,if i,m in a good mood when i get on the train,i,ll sit opposite a woman i like,it,s funny how they react,even though i don,t look at them much,most of them seem to freeze,they then start playing with there handys,or get out a newspaper,but now and again they,ll chance a glance.lollllll :-)

[goodolt70s]

I have phases where i look at almost every woman i like when i get on the bus,train,when i,m at a bar,in the supermarket,wherever,whatever and then there are days where i don,t look at them.:-)

[assasinate3000]

I stare at everyone..... In the eye..... During conversation

[Charlestonthedrummer]

wow her voice is so soothing and her eyes are gorgeous! Oh god I must meet her...

[fishersann2k7]

punch in the face

[bbrabbit]

you speak so clear.

[kenaeda65]

i often avoid eye contact (prolonged)i feel like the object of my reflection will think im staring at him/her. i think it probably seems wierd .can anyone identify w/ this ?

[Victordove]

@kenaeda65 Lol, yep.

[creekside20985]

this is really gonna help me to tell if someones lying when i interveiw them about sasquatch! tnks

[eternallight351]

thanks! this would really help me big time when attending a very long & boring conference!

[sinner13909]

omg to true

[cesaryusuf]

interesting, it is gunna help me to deal in meetings thanks

[datingwomensex]

Bravo for this one.

[johanssonmatte]

i will keep this on my mind

[onceIpoopedmyself]

i like making eye contact , and staring people down.

[ThisIsRickyGervais]

Have you tried starring up your ass hole yet?

[onceIpoopedmyself]

you have

[mzmelendez08]

lol those comments : The funniest comments I've ever seen on Youtube. Just felt like telling people that.

x) LMFAO

[KrissSro]

@onceIpoopedmyself LOL XD

[lucy798]

i look around when im nervous, i find it so difficult to make eye contact with people like teachers :|

[indigograves]

But how do you force yourself to look someone in the eye w/o blushing and revealing your weaknesses? Every time I look a girl in the eye, whether I like them or not, my face always turns red and I lose face.

[Liist]

I do it when I'm nervous. Just go beyond your limits once, find out it's not so bad, and over time it'll be better.

[indigograves]

thnx for the tip

[BabyDyce32]

There's a gang of smart ass comments on this vid... But I do completely understand what she's saying though... I focus on the eyes a lot when I'm speaking with somebody face 2 face.

[soldierofff]

Crackheads' eyes are the most beautiful ones out there

[teaminsidious]

hahahhaha

[vedranzna]

hahaehahahahahaha

[AbsolutelyCrackers]

when i see eyes I just see eyes. they dont say a thing

[soldierofff]

that's because you are at level zero

[th4tw3irdg1rl]

xD I look at my teachers when they explain someone, and they're the ones who look away... does that mean that they aren't interested in teaching us?

[mobious666]

u know y because evryone is to stupid to understand this stuff.damn it!

[shaniahopkins]

i avoid eye contact any longer than two seconds because i have a bad eye that i was born with, and i have had successful conversations and no one has ever htought i was avoiding them, so does that mean i'm rude? i don't understand what you mean by the eyes tell everything.

[Starrypla]

don't always believe the dilated eyes thing, if they have been drinking the eyes dilate too!

[etacovda]

can you say:

"bad yellow hair...bad yellow coat" with your eyes?

[mightyhidden]

how can u tell her only using ur eyes ' Fuck U!' ?

[pink2alien]

love it !!

[Allyredstar]

But it is a totally other interpretation for people from other cultural background than just white and west.

[Recovermin]

I was talking to this girl. I did all the classic signs of interest. I leaned in towards her, Squared my hips to face her. Kept soft eye contact. Mirrored her gestures. I was trying to read her eyes, but when she realized she could'nt brush me off, she plucked them out and ate them. What do I do now?

[sahnie82]

lol

[dreamer4614]

hahaha......there r so many sarcastic bullshit comments on these vids lol

[musicxcraze]

@Recovermin LMAO

[edwardyourlord2]

@Recovermin dude. 2steps forward 1 step back. lean in then lean back. mix it up. you came on too strong. mirror her but not all the time. eye contact but look away as well, do other stuff man.. tease her and be confident. end of the day, be your own man. she'll come. =)

[fattigbonddrang]

@Recovermin tried to hard!

[molusk1201]

@Recovermin Well next time don't go to the Insane Asylum to try and pick up a girl

[f0rSak3n1]

@Recovermin lol



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[riccardozz1]

if I like a girl, I am usually looking at her face, not elsewhere. If she likes me, her eyes dart around trying to make eye contact. If its unknown girl on the way, she looks and nervously pulls away looks again

[goldmine332]

DONT LOOK AT A WOMAN EYE, loook at her pussy, or TITS get the view in first, LOOK AT THE GOODS, before you move, GIRLS like people who look at there tits and pussy.

[kuaieq]

this works i just tried it on my mom and she had sex with me

[hititandquitit69]

score!

[Charlestonthedrummer]

@kuaieq what? ;S

[ch1ral]

gateway to the soul

[loyalisttothekore]

naa.... dont believe that...eyes can be deceiving aswell...though there is some truth in it

[frtuhgr]

did u kno while ur talking and ur lying ur eyes may move left or right as a sighn of gathering creativity from the brain

[xcseal]

good job you totally took that from the former fbi agent on another vid

[TenshiNeko46]

If I like a guy, I smile a lot and usually my eyes dart all over cuz I'm nervous. lol. I do try to make eye contact tho and try really hard to look interested. I brush my hair over my shoulder and look down at the floor. I usually don't know what to say, and speak quietly. I'm not a confident girl tho, so this is really how shy girls would act. lol.

[arisremounia3]

you are a cutie... Don't change a single thing...

[MadArab2012]

say im kinda nervous saying this, but i think you're cute.

[funorex]

You're fucking uggly

[martin2833]

im like coll, when i like a girl i dont want to let her know im lookin at her

[Collx3sHP]

I always try to look people in the eyes, but for some reason I find it really hard. I don't know why. =\

[ohsoklumsy92]

that means u must be shy.

[markidontknow]

dude were the same ^^

[IITLII]

Lol i know!! It happens to me too! Its hard to look at the person in the eye.... my eyes for some reason tend to become heavy and I m forced to break eye contact with that person

[RuddyWasHere]

I try but i feel awkward

[xmychemloverx]

why do you feel awkward?

[RuddyWasHere]

i've never liked eye contact unless i dont know the person...i feel intimidated by people. But when i do look at people people tend to look at me all weird.

[xmychemloverx]

i've never liked eye contact either..i feel is kind of emvarassing..is like "OOOWWHH!"...but..sometimes i'm strong i can look at somebody's eyes...but it feels kind of weird...and...but.why do people look you all weird.....???..maybe..they feel intimidated too?....i don't know

[RuddyWasHere]

hehe...maybe i'm more evil than i thought.lol.

[TheAllDogProject]

Low self estem usualy. I know how you feel. We have to try out best to be more confident! Good luck to us both!

[Maycekeeler]

Trues true.

[DRiPPz6800]

if a girl does not look at you does that mean your not attractive??

[Dimi000]

Could be completely opposite actually. Ive had girls say to me how they cant even look at the guy cause hes so "HOT". Oh and many people are just insecure so they cant keep eye contact. I myself will sometimes not look at a girl im interested in too much wen im talking to her just to appear less interested. Which would make her more interested in me and make her ask herself questions like "Hes not looking at me , does he think im not attractive? " ;)

[RayifyJay]

@Dimi000 Please keep in mind that there are also individual differences when it comes to body language. Some people may act aggressive and do what you said, but there are also people who becomes defensive whne they're interested in someone, much like what you specified by 'not looking'.

[edwardyourlord2]

@Dimi000 nice

[foreverguga]

@Dimi000

And when you give in and seduce her, she thinks "oke he's attracted to me and now he's no longer interesting to me"

Then she dumps you and moves to the next challenge.

Women want a challenge, a dick/jerk/asshole. And they hope to make some adjustments to this which is totally impossible, and lose themselves in trying it and complaining for the rest of their lives.

Perfect relationship

[generallyanony]

not necessarily, just means they haven't thought about you in any way, find you too attractive too look at withought being embarrased, or, as has been said in the film, find you unnattractive. Usually they're a few clues to which one it is.

[aLeKoNa2]

yeah like dimi says, sometimes girls will avoid making direct eye contact or look at your face because they are really good looking