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  • this song reminds me of RIP baby angel born 31/1/12 4:20pm died not even a hour later :( your family will miss u and i will be forever sadden to have never of met u

  • For fucks sake. Alex's brother was called TOM EDWARD GASKARTH, hense the initials T.E.G on his hand tattoo. He even tweeted that his brother was called Tom, is that not enough?

  • I Think I'm Going To Cry :( -3

  • RIP Daniel Gaskarth we may not know you but we love you anyways

  • rip aj hazen(15 years old) and david suetta(17 years old)suicide isnt the way to go.love you.miss you

  • honestly this song gets me everytime <3

    alex's fan caught everyones attention from being in ATL

    and his brother commited suicide <3

    R.I.P

  • I hope he's watching over us all HUGS FOR EVERYONE

  • i dont know why but this sounds so much like silverstein but without the screams

  • you know somehow i take death different then i should but i guess its just me like i should feel more bad when a child is born to see he/she will suffer but like more happy when someone dies cuase i know that person will rest peaceful

  • Not to be rude but a lot of people are focusing on brother's name or other details. Focus on the song that he wrote for him because he was going through a rough time. If you really care about the details, Alex's brother's name was Tom and he was in a car crash when he drank to much alcohol and didn't committ suicide. Now that you know the details enjoy the music and feel the emotions. R.I.P. Tom Gaskarth <3

  • @musicxlove1123 Alex's brothers name was Daniel he committed suicide in 2005

  • @cholobabe1999 no Alex said in a tweet that his brother's name was Tom. Daniel was just on Tumblr or a Fanfiction and people just thought his name was that. Also, I dont get why people really care about the name, what matters is that Alex is getting over it by writing this song!

  • It was someone like a friend tht told me about ATL she said i'll make a deal you go home and watch ATL and come bk nxt week and tell me what u think so ill go bk nxt week and tell her their the one of the most nicest most sweet band i have ever heard and alex i dont know how id cope i rlly cant look up to u more xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx­xx

  • ik im stupid for not knowing this, but how did his brother die? )': i love them so much and this song makes me sad when i listen to it. )':

  • @skelsey268 His brother committed suicide, he doesn't like to talk about it. I can see why, it's a sad subject and really none of our business to know too much about it. He's so strong ♥

  • @osnapitzacupcake oh yeah i kinda figers that but i was still going to ask and i get why he wouldnt want to talk about it. ):

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  • @VaLiZa1 stories* no one* Now stop being an asshole and just listen to the music.

  • This song kinda reminds me of my dad. He didn't commit suicide, but he passed away 4 days ago because he had lung cancer (from smoking cigarettes) It put alot of us in pain to see him in the hospital and so sick, in so much pain. But now he's now he's not in pain anymore.

    I love you daddy<3

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  • I tried suicide once then heard this song it releases me from pain and suffering. thank you All Time Low

  • @sophie6167

    *Hug*

  • My boyfriend got killed for xmas evening. Police caught the killer but nothing can bring him back :( R.I.P. Mike -3 :(

  • Suicide... Wow... :/ I was thinking about suicide... The lyrics to this song made me think, about the pain I'd leave on others in my life.... :'( -\3 Its really hard to listen to this without crying, I love it. I love all time low...

  • SHUTUP MHOBERTC3

  • Poor Alex i think im gonna cry

  • nvm i know alex

  • who is Alex anyways?

  • @jacobs1henri

    The lead singer.

  • ITS SO SAD EVERYONE HUG ME

  • @jacobs1henri

    *Hug.*

  • 0:44 The not Alex hit at the word scream was beautiful

  • Can someone explain what the song is about?

  • @LittleAngelLove32

    It's about suicide long story short, it tells the tale of what happened between Alex and his brother.. My interpretation is that they had a fight the night before then he killed himself and showed up dead the next day.

  • @LittleAngelLove32

    Alex's brother that is, and he's feeling so guilty that they fought and stuff.

  • @LittleAngelLove32

    Alex's older brother. He committed suicide when Alex was younger. Judging on the lyrics of the song i would say that before he died, him and Alex probably weren't getting along. But its just a guess. I wouldn't trust anything you find on the internet either. Alex really doesn't like talking about it. But really..Who would?

  • awsome

    

  • Old ATL is so meaningful and well-written. It's not necessarily that the new stuff doesn't sound pretty or anything, but gosh the lyrical quality pales in comparison.

  • I know I'm going to sound like a heartless bitch to most of you, but I don't find death sad. It's just the end to a story. Sometimes it's not natural, murder or suicide, but the one who died would never want to see you sad anyway. Just keep smiling with the memories.

  • @mhobertC3 I do find death sad but I like what you meant and it's true :)

  • my girlfriend broke up with me on christmas eve. due to not being ready for a long term relationship. she lost a good friend who was 15 at the time to cancer.

    i lost my cousin 3 summers ago in a horrific train accident. :(

  • nothing realy sad happend in my life, i know life is a bitch but i have a brother too i dont want him to die

  • PS this song is so emotional, and makes me sad. Poor Alex. :(

  • Hey other ATL fans I need help... ATL has how many albums??? There the Party Scene album, It So Wrong, Its Right, Put up or Shut up, Nothing Personal, and Dirty Work? But I think I am missing one?

  • such a beautiful song.

  • i heard he wrote this song for his brother who commit suicide a few years ago. they got in a huge fight and his brother ran away and they found his dead body. its so tragic.

  • @phantomshawty The Gaskarths never relesed what happened they thought it would be best not to all that the public knows is that Tom died when Alex was 12

  • @phantomshawty They're is not a specific story. The Gaskarth family thought it would be best to not saying anything to the public about it.

  • @xxOreoGirl oh i heard somewhere that that was why he wrote the song cuz u can tell by some of the lyrics.

  • @phantomshawty I think he died in his sleep because it'd make more sense for example the song is called lullabies, there are also references to dying and sleeping such as sing me to sleep

  • @allagainst1000 oh yeah thats true!

  • @phantomshawty considering they never released how his brother died it's possible to make as many assumptions as possible, right? :)

  • @allagainst1000 yeah

  • This is the first song that's made me cry.

    I don't know what it's like to loose someone I was close to, but I know what it's like to loose someone, and regreting that you never got to know them.

    My grandpa died this summer, and I always told him I'd come to visit him.

    But I never did.

    Now if I had one wish it would be that I got to visit him before he died.

  • im sitting at school thinking about this song and almost start crying

  • Great Song wen I first heard it I cryed im 12 and this song is amazin

  • When people call me a poser or make fun because of my love for All Time Low, it hurts. heres why:

    on bad days, when everything becomes too much for me, All Time Low always saves me. over and over.

    i think to myself, "If Alex lost his brother to suicide... how would he feel if one of his biggest fans died the same way?" and that keeps me here. so never judge people by their favorite band, because you never know their reason for loving them.

  • Sam; always in my heart.<3

  • I've lost a two friends allready. Im only 14. And i might loose another one soon...but i hope she stays strong <3

    R.I.P Weasly and Ashton, Stay strong Kelly <3

  • this song relates to me well...amazing song

  • Alex <3

  • Miss my grandma so much.

  • what happpened to his brotherrr?

  • @AmieB1996 i don't think anyone knows definitely some people say suicide but i read something that said he died in his sleep

  • RIP Tom Gaskarth.

  • Dear Jay,

    How are things in heaven? I just wanted to tell you that you were my best friend and you always will be. I miss you so much but I feel like your still here. You will always be in my heart.  -love jordyn

    Jay Leon Evans 1994-2011 I love you

  • R.I.P. Mike... You were my best friend and always will be... 12/05/11

  • My friend shot and killed my brother last night and then killed himself. He would have been 19 in a few days. This is a cruel, cruel world. Ryan, I love you so much. I'll see you in my dreams, waiting to say I miss you, I'm so sorry. Please watch over me...

  • @CuppyCakeBaby08 im so sorry to hear about your loss im sure he's watching over you.

  • This Song Reminds Me Of My Brother..I Feel So Bad For Alex Though. He's A Very Strong Guy Though. And I Admire All His Music. He's Such A Good Guy.

  • This makes me really guilty right now. Because I feel like I hate all of my family. But then again, if one of them died...?

  • I got really attacted to this song when my mom died... I never knew the true meaning of the song until now.

    How ironic.

  • @Miyazaki253  exactly what i posted above. stay strong <3

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  • @FearlessRLC96 Oh.. Shit. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Don't blame yourself, it wasn't your fault. I know it sounds rather empty coming from me, but.. It's not your fault. It really isn't.

  • This song always brings me to tears. </3

  • I cryeverytime I think of this song it makes me think of my best friend almost liek a brother to me i understand how Alex feels in this song my best friend allen committed suicide a few months back and im not going to be abke to get over it its hard so i just find it amazing he could put his feelings into a song its amazing

  • And I think it's stupid*****

  • I will admit I am a heartless bitch and I think when people get emotional over songs... But after listening to the lyrics... And hearing the pain in Alex's voice, I teared up... This is such a Beautiful song.!

  • 60 people dont have a heart

  • there are no word to descibe this song, <3

  • This song makes me want to hug him. :(

    " I miss you, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.. "

  • Someone put funny as a reaction? Wow.....

  • saddest song ever :/

  • Funny??? This song is about Alex's brother that died...

  • What the actual fuck ,why would someone put 'funny' on the reaction?

    Do they not realize what Alex is singing about?D:<

  • could*

  • Imagine being twelve, and losing your brother.

    ... I think Alex is one of the strongest people I know.

  • @ellacapello in some way i know how it feels :/ i was 13 and my granddad committed suicide :'( my granddad wasn't a particularly well liked man by the rest of my family but he and i were close and his suicide broke my heart, i was so depressed, i had to see counsellors for 2 years after his suicide and i still blame myself

  • @ellacapello What happened to his brother?

  • @ellacapello imagine being 5 and losing ur brother.. if you can, welcome to my life..

  • @ellacapello imagine being 12 and losing your mother.

    nirvana, blink, all time low. 3 bands that helped me be here today, even without her.

  • @ellacapello I'm 12, and I'm watching my brother slip away...

  • @ellacapello My dad committed suicide when I was 10/:

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  • 60 deaf people eh?

  • This Song Saved My Life...</3

  • poor alex, no one should have to go through that. R.I.P Thomas Gaskarth.

  • 3000

  • it made me cry.

  • It inspires me so much that Alex uses his talents to make a tragic event into something beautiful and meaningful. <3

  • -3 this is the saddest song ever! I feel so bad for Alex! he really loved his brother -3 we all love you alex's brother -33

  • This is the saddest song ever now that i know the actual meaning </3 breaks my hears

  • 240p fuck you ù_ù

  • Thank you Alex for showing us how to stay strong in a time of sorrow. This song is amazing and a great example of what can happen if you stop acting like a coward and wanting to kill yourself when things get rough. Greatness is everywhere....

  • 60 people don't have a heart, I love Alex <3 :)

  • I'm crying.

    It's 4:06am, and I'm sitting on my bedroom floor with my laptop, listening to this song and crying. And I have school tomorrow.

    How absurd.

  • @0sexiest0nerd0 Go treat child.

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  • @nico1994uy *blinks* I'm not American.

  • Going to see them on November 5th (:

    Such a wonderful, yet sad song :c

  • : ) Love.it !

  • My favorite All Time Low song. <3333

  • Such a touching song. It made me cry... All Time Low, and of course, Alex Gaskarth: Inspirations and, like, amazing. =#D<3

  • this song is so beautiful, It makes me cry everytime. Alex is too amazing for words <3

  • Can everyone stop arguing over this song and just enjoy it? Does it matter how Alex's brother died? No it doesn't, the fact that he is dead IS what matters. But do you really think that Alex would like it if he came on here and saw everyone talking about is brother, I know for one that I would hate it if I were him. This song helped Alex move on and it is beautiful, so either appreciate it or go away, simple as.

  • I love this song :'(

  • its so hard to watch him preform this song live. he always cries :///

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  • one of best song from all time low , and it is full of meaning .. love u ATL

  • The first time I heard this song I almost cried. This song will save my life many a time, I know it!! It's so beautiful, and it's something I can cry and rock out to at the same time! ATL's fun songs are something to rock out to, and songs like Therapy and this one are good to just have a good cry. Thank you for the beautiful song, Tom, Alex and his family, as well as the rest of ATL!! You've saved lives with this song, which includes mine. <3

  • im gonna find out why alex died i swear u all

  • @arveniscool Alec didn't die wtf are you even talking about.?

  • @arveniscool Alex didn't die

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  • spill the wax over the spaces

    left in place in angry birds

    LOL

  • Personally, I don't believe anything the internet tells me unless I hear it in an interview. I know how to research. I haven't found anything to indicate either way. All I know is that Therapy prevented my little sister, who is a musician, from writing a song about losing her big sister. That's the only truth that really matters.

  • I will miss you mom

  • every time i hear this song, a tear runs across my cheek. its so sad and so beautiful.

  • I have a tear every time I listen to this song, it's so beautiful <3

  • Singing this song is just like reading a suicide note.

    RIP <3333 nice song BTW

  • All Time Low is amazing, and this song...

  • I love my brothers so much and only imagining what would happen to me if i lost them. Alex got over it so quick, though, i see him in other videos all happy as if nothing - its a sign of a strong heart! :3 something like tht would mark me for life...

  • @ShadowHeartization Alex just got a rose tattooed on his hand with, im guessing Toms' initials on it. He's no where near over it.

  • @ShadowHeartization he didnt get over it. you can never get over something like that. you can push it to the back of your mind and try to forget, and you can fake a smile, but things like that will never go away. no, none of my close relatives have died but i know it would hurt so, so much. yes, it has been so long now, but i bet there are still times when he cries himself to sleep. but yes, i agree. he has a very, very strong heart <3

  • "yes. i was twelve at the time and he was twenty-one when he died. he spiraled out of control, as many people with that problem do. it was very sad and definitely shapes you. i don’t preach that you shouldn’t drink - i believe in user choice - but definitely made me make sure that there are no traces of that tendency in me because of my experiences" Alex in an interview.

  • @TimAllOverOfficial what interview is this in?

  • @TimAllOverOfficial I started to miss my brother after this.

  • @TimAllOverOfficial Who Died Wait Huh?

  • @TimAllOverOfficial aww. but wait what interview did he say this in?

  • *Chills*

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  • Today i took a knife and put it down on my wrist. Right before i was about to do it. This song came on, and i put the knife down. This song seriously saved my life .. <3

  • @amandagaskarthx Seriously? O.o

  • @ducky19991 yup..

  • @amandagaskarthx cool. then maybe you should write a song after that.

  • @amandagaskarthx tell alex that !!!!<3

  • @amandagaskarthx unvelieble...

  • @amandagaskarthx unbelievable...

  • @amandagaskarthx you were about to kill yourself and then you went "UGHH DERP" and then randomly decided to turn on the computer and go on youtube, and randomly look for a song you already know and re-listen to it which NOW (you claim) made ALL the difference in your world considering your prior knowledge on it.... thumbs up whore much bro?

  • @jp86II since you know so much about this, let me just correct you. No actually things happened so i went down to the kitchen got a knife and right as i was going to do it.. my spotify changed to this song. I had music on in the beginning. It wasn't like my computer magically went to youtube to save my life. just fuck off.

  • @amandagaskarthx soo a song about a guy singing about his suicidal drunk brother when he was a kid gave you the message of "life is good", id prefer you fucking yourself, than me fucking off

  • @jp86II you are really ignorant you know that right. "Make it a sweet, sweet goodbye. It might be for the last time and it's not right" made me realize that i have more to live for and made me think of the people who would care. I don't even need to explain myself to you.

  • @amandagaskarthx so unrighteous sweet goodbyes referring to dead people gives you the urge to live?

  • @jp86II can you just shut up? I didn't ask for thumbs ups? I didn't lie? and i don't even want people to know about it, i don't even know why i wrote it in the beginning.

  • @amandagaskarthx if you dont want people to know about it why post it to begin with?? and if you didnt lie, you have serious problems bro, im not gonna lie to you :))

  • @jp86II I just wrote that i didn't know. OH MY GOD ARE YOU SERIOUS!? I THOUGHT TRYING TO KILL YOURSELF WAS SOMETHING A HOBBY. Seriously. I know i have problem, you don't need to tell me that.

  • @amandagaskarthx also a bit of problem in simple logical reasoning, just saying

  • @amandagaskarthx .....um thats some likely story o_o

  • Listening to this continuously just to manage to get through each painful day

  • My Unce, my boyfriend... I love you, Rest in peace <3 ;'(

  • Tomorrow is my grandpas birthday. He died a few years ago and i havent been to the cemetary to see him because I was afraid i wouldnt be able to cope with his death if i did, but i still am. Sunday my mom offered to take me and my grandma, i am finally going to see him. Im going to sing this song to him<3 R.I.P grandpa, i love you. R.I.P Thomas Gaskarth, all time low fans love you<3333 Im sorry for your loss Alex<3

  • All time low, Alex u r amazing and a very strong person to have done that!!:) I want to thank you so much for weitting that song because it saved my cousins life. She was going to kill herself then she listined to this song and she re-thought everything:) thanks so much love you guys!!!:)

  • can we all just stop fighting? clearly he's found peace through this song and so should all of you.

  • Today it would have been my grandma's birthday we recived a phonecall of my uncle earlier this afternoon informing us that my grandad has also died :'( R.I.P at least their together now and in a better place </3

  • I love this song so much idk why!

  • R.I.P Tom Gaskarth

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