The womyn to the reader's right can't help batting her eyes, and then after "eating pussy is just chivalry without pants" starts tossing her hair! But is she performing a queer identity or a hetero one?
6:44 arm-wrestling for the check lol. i love that bear addresses that butch/butch dating exists, that never happens. clearly cuz if ur butch you have to date a femme, unless theres no femmes, unless the butch in question likes dating butches lol
Bear, you're mighty funny! Great statements of contradictions and complexity. So Bear, is ID'ing as a butch an automatic statement of a preference for female pronouns... unless it isn't? Just curious.
i just finished the book yesterday and i loved it. it talked about so many different things and i could relate to so many different ideas and thoughts she had. it was really good.
Wow you make us butch girls sound uneducated and very confused. lmao. I would like to get a copy of that book... I'm butch and I only date butch girls, so I find this very amusing.
Who are the sorority girls in the audience? I doubt that can identify with a narration about butchness. Maybe they were required to go for extra credit :)
I also love how that other critter you're sharing the frame with seems to register something at the end when you say that butch is a complicated standard. She gives one little nod. Her expression is a little more conscious after that.
Wow, you know I think Bear finally helped me understand why I am and am not a butch who wants to and doesn't want to be butch who is too butch and not butch enough.
It took me a surprisingly long while to realize that even if ze wasn't coming to my hometown anytime soon, I could still watch hir performances online.
I love that girl checking out your ass.
panjianlien 3 months ago
The womyn to the reader's right can't help batting her eyes, and then after "eating pussy is just chivalry without pants" starts tossing her hair! But is she performing a queer identity or a hetero one?
betsyritz 8 months ago
omg your hilarious absolutely brilliant
moondancer72 9 months ago
a butch is makeing belive your some one else but you dont know who
merbenzgill 9 months ago
Love this:-) You so fabulously capture the craziness of the many opinions and views circulating in Lesbian Culture.
PumaJ60 1 year ago
oh my...lol this is cute and as a fem I own the book...
moondancer72 1 year ago
this made me laugh so much. So many rules and its just a great read none the less.
IS this book on tape with you reading? If not, it totally should be!
Kagomemiko247 1 year ago
eerily creepy how accurate that book is.
DompletelyConstroyed 2 years ago
I bought your book and gave it to a baby butch for training!! This femme loved your book!
1monologue 2 years ago
6:44 arm-wrestling for the check lol. i love that bear addresses that butch/butch dating exists, that never happens. clearly cuz if ur butch you have to date a femme, unless theres no femmes, unless the butch in question likes dating butches lol
Re253 2 years ago
... or not.
Brilliant.
kanzeon53 2 years ago 3
Bear, you're mighty funny! Great statements of contradictions and complexity. So Bear, is ID'ing as a butch an automatic statement of a preference for female pronouns... unless it isn't? Just curious.
kabardinkasf 3 years ago
haha this is so awesome!! i need to buy the book!
EliasAsher 3 years ago
the girl on the end is friggin hilarious
donkeyfly69 3 years ago
truly fabulous
SighNotSo 3 years ago 4
i just finished the book yesterday and i loved it. it talked about so many different things and i could relate to so many different ideas and thoughts she had. it was really good.
camerawomanrolls 3 years ago
HAHA I NEED to get this book! xD
I am a butch and this is absolutely hilarious!
WindChaser0001 3 years ago
Hilarious
awartha 3 years ago 2
Wow you make us butch girls sound uneducated and very confused. lmao. I would like to get a copy of that book... I'm butch and I only date butch girls, so I find this very amusing.
AntidoteAstacia 3 years ago
Ahhahaa~ look at that blonde girl with the white shirt, she's seriously staring at him up and down
C8Shay 3 years ago 2
Thank you Bear, for explaining that for me!
Viviane212 4 years ago
love it! I have to share this with my bois!
shhhon 4 years ago
Who are the sorority girls in the audience? I doubt that can identify with a narration about butchness. Maybe they were required to go for extra credit :)
richiejr80 4 years ago
Look at you, Bear. So hot.
I also love how that other critter you're sharing the frame with seems to register something at the end when you say that butch is a complicated standard. She gives one little nod. Her expression is a little more conscious after that.
Nicely done.
Switchboi903 4 years ago 2
yeah! yeah! yeah! absolutely!!!!
garnetred02 4 years ago 2
I know what femme is, and it's a dyke who's attracted to Bear! Love IT!
graceaware 4 years ago
graceaware: nice one :)
TheonenonlyRMD 4 years ago
Thanks! I loved this poem and video so much i put in my MySpace profle!
graceaware 4 years ago
is that blonde girl staring at bear's ass?
mountainboi2 4 years ago 2
Bear is awesome. I love having him as a friend. Such a smart, well-spoken, well-written Bear.
elliotboi1 4 years ago
Those 2 girls really don't understand sarcasm huh??
awake303 4 years ago 2
is he a butch??.. lol (just din't know what to write, lol.. cool vid.)
Fannywish 4 years ago
Fantastic video. :D
purrverse 4 years ago
I love this piece.
sprgrl1 4 years ago
Wow, you know I think Bear finally helped me understand why I am and am not a butch who wants to and doesn't want to be butch who is too butch and not butch enough.
dartxni 4 years ago 2
Fantastic stuff!
joectigger 4 years ago
high five!
daddyrhon 4 years ago
The girl to Bear's right is just staring the whole time with her mouth open like she don't know what the hell is going on LOL.
lilkeys 4 years ago 2
she looks lost lol i love this vid
typhoon32190 4 years ago
It took me a surprisingly long while to realize that even if ze wasn't coming to my hometown anytime soon, I could still watch hir performances online.
Monfri 4 years ago
Right on!
ButcLesb 5 years ago
Chivery without PANTS! LMAO.
skyaroma 5 years ago