Ashe, sister. Brothers and sisters need each other! Why else would we call each other "brother and sister"? The white man has taught us this individualistic mentality in order to tear apart our families, which will in turn, continue to tear apart our culture. When women learn that "learning our place" is not a negative, we will begin to move forward.
i'm happy to hear this, the part about being equally yoked is the truth. the sexes have their different roles, yes. but one could never survive without the other. different, but equally important. a man may not be able to house a life in his body or feed it from his body, but a woman couldn't provide the physical protection from danger that a man can. all the great tribes understood this precious balance between the sexes. television, in my opinion has taught us to rebel against one another.
Well said.... As a single BM, 45yrs old it is wonderful to here another sister finally say what needs to be brought in the open for all the crazy stuff we have been programmed in our heads. Continue to wake some of your sisters up because I have not given up on them, but I must say.... I am not looking to marry any of them any time soon. Thank you for simply saying it. BRAVO!!! indeed. 8-)
@Defiant359 Hey! I'm glad you feel what I'm saying. Thanks for not giving up on us. There are some improvements I've seen but there is still a lot of work we need to do on ourselves. Peace!
foxy you've got your head on straight and I have a deep appreciation for what you said in your video. You're probably developing more than your fair share of enemies among your fellow Sistas but being a Brother who has dated both black and white women I can tell you that I have a much easier time with women outside my race. To be honest, I probably will not end up marrying a Sista and my family has come to accept that about me. Not cause I'm running away, I'm just tired of attitude.
As a black man, all I see is black men with white women, and black women sitting home along watching brothers run around with white women, and they're cool with it sometimes they support it, and these old white women is not up to part, they're bad looking,and so. Sometimes I hate looking at them. Me, I blame the brothers for their actions, really they make it hard for me to get a nice intelligent black woman for the way they behaved around our black women.
This a wonderful, wonderful video. Keep speaking truth girl! This world has truly deceived us into thinking that we are in control. Shalom, and may God bless
strength is strength regardless of gender. The bottom line is its not so much a problem that is tied to the black community but what is tied to the skill, productivity level etc. of individuals in the black community. kind of like the parable of the talents in the Holy Bible. Women are more, whether white or black, in the job market. In the end, that submission element is dangerous. If you want to submit, cool, however please maintain strength and aggressiveness to maximize all productivity
Hey Sis U R absolutely right on the money.Ive made it my journey to be in search of that full circle connection with my people.Especially the Sisters.Ive more successfull interactions w/BW.And also my losses.I think Sis. having knowledge of their selves as BW and havin some amount of interest in their culture would help create a more positive and proproductive force of goodness for our people as awhole.Thus also could present better courtship situations.Original+Original=OriginalLove of BM/BW.
i don't agree entirely. I have a black woman. A "strong black woman" and I ENCOURAGE her to speak her mind! but guess what she can come to and speak her mind and still speak respectivly!! and visa versa! i've dated white women too and that submissive shit is wack. a black woman can be strong and articulate and STILL respect and support her black man.
@ZELLious179 Can't beat a sister, my brother. Strength needs strength when the strong temporarily become weakened. Make sure you treat your queen right.
When I see videos like this...it makes me nervous. You know why? Because we have a problem with Black Females being abused all over the nation...possibly the world ...in such large record numbers and for generations back...anytime you have artist degrading a the Black Woman and millions of people chanting against her...you have a PROBLEM....this is genocide of the Black Female...so messages to be "submissive" is inappropriate at this time. We have to reestablish the Black community first.
thank you for this video..its helping me process through lot of mess in my mind.i do wish i could be with a guy who wouldnt put me down though..so i could be supportive.i just left someone for that reason,and it was wearing me down emotionally..it hurts cuz his in love with me,and im scared of giving in and going back. thankyou for your words of wisdom
Please do not misunderstand my message. No matter what a brother is going through, it is not okay for him to put you down or abuse you. Watch my "what submission means" series as I speak on this topic further and clarify what submission is really about. Peace.
a real woman should undastand that it is the man's role to be uncomfortable and do the things to provide and protect, you know most men want to lead and call themselves the leader but dont know how to lead undastand me, cause if he was leadin the right way you wouldnt hear all about the wonderwoman superhero image know what i'm talkin bout
"You can both be leaders, but you can be leaders in different ways". That is a very enlightening statement that many men and women should accept, from all states of the human condition.
Power, control, responsibility, none of these should be completely in the hands of one person, nor should one person seak to dominate the other to obtain any of these things. If a man forgets his place he should be no more or less reminded than a woman
Damn! I'm impressed! I knew you had a man the first couple of minutes hearing you out. Where did all that GOOD old school wisdom come from, in such a young woman?
You're like the Barack Obama of sista's right now..You got my vote! LOL
I agree. I believe its a cycle for black women that needs to be broken. I thought 4 a long time that brothers were the issue bcuz of the women in my family & what I saw, when I was growing up. I found out that the "independent woman status "creates a big issue. Women teach their sons to be dependent & their daughters to be independent. The roles have changed & has caused seperation & chaos. We need to unite! Thanks sista!
Wow. I can't believe I'm actually seeing a video like this from a black woman. Excellent words, sis. I hope some of you listen to what she's saying.
Nowadays its like a coin flip. Either the woman acts like a damn man and is disrespectful as hell or she acts like a slut and disrespects herself. Brothers that are worth anything just want a good woman who is supportive and can converse without a bunch of unnecessary lip.
Thanks so much for your comment. It's refreshing to know that people are hearing what I'm saying and not prejudging based on the title of the video. You know how that goes. lol Thanks for stopping by bro
There was a brother on here who gave his opinion starting with the words "from a black man's perspective. I meant to reply to it and thank him for the comment and accidentally deleted it anyone out there know how to retreive posts?
All these FAKE Black power muthafukas should cease to speak and allow YOU to speak foxydiva. You could probably criticize (me) with so much finesse , I wouldn't even know you did it.lmao 5 stars!
LMFAO!!!! Right on bruh Keemosobbee!!! Thank you for that tremendous compliment. I have a lot of respect for you and your views. You bring a lot of refreshing realness to the table that very few in the YT community have and I appreciate that very much. That reminds me of something an old school friend said to one of our former classmates years ago "she called me everything but a child of God....and what made it so bad she didn't cuss not one time!" We all just busted out laughing!
you are dam right about what your saying because most sistahs dont wanna be there for a brother when he needs the support of a sistahs see this is what is missing with the blackman and woman unite ! sistah dont need a real man then how can we produced the generation of kids without a man !
it's also why working men need to stop believing that love is nothing more than hormones and convienience and make do with strip club blow jobs. a man who takes care of his business doesn't need to get married and have kids.
these same white women are just pigs chasing cock.they deserve what they get.when they have a good man they have all these conditions like hes got to maintain a steady income and share in half her crap.if she loses her job hes got to "understand" and support her. If it's the reverse she's gone.
women need to stop having kids with ASSHOLES.they have NO ONE TO BLAME BUT THEMSELVES.
Tell the truth when a woman shouts at her man when he is trying really can make a blackman very discourage and force him to leave but let a man who goes to jail and sells drugs he hardley get any lip but yeah most blackman just want a black woman to be soft not too soft but just a woman
I hear you. That's something I had to learn. That softness is one of the things our men need. Some of us forgot how to be ladies. Not soft like pushovers but feminine women
Oh and btw, I posted a series of comments on RevolutionaryINK's vid. In reference to the subject in your vids concerning the word 'submission' in Hebrew in Scriptures. You can check it out if you like; just didn't want to 'spam' your vid as well. (~_^)
Thank you sis for this wonderful vid, and the description of women with 'inflammable' hearts and fiery tongues is very correct. I believe only (Divine) Love can quench their ever burning desire to be loved and learn how to love. (1 Cor. 13). Yah Love & Mercy
No, thank you so much for your positive comments and scripture references my sister. I'm so glad you stopped by. Divine love is definitely the catalyst to what they need. Peace and Respect
I would agree that one would not need a man to be tactful. I have seen and known a lot of women who are tactless even in the presence of their men. Single parenting takes a lot more of controlling your mouth. It means thriving amidst all the challenges in life. The book by Carolyn Ellis, The 7 Pitfall of Single Parenting" talks about these thriving principles. Great video! Thanks.
You are more on the pulse of the issues than even you want to admit.
We have become a race of people who have become driven to be selfish in our own loneliness.
Sisters do not support much more than themselves to some degree and even then they are not that positively supportive to becoming anything more than alone.
REAL TALK!
We all need to learn that our game is too weak to not kick it up more than normal.
Don't mean to get off subject,But the assumptions happen to me yesterday at the movies.I go to the movies next to my house by myself.I went to see Tyler Perry's new movie.You believe the assumptions that came my direction,the BW that work their was like your by yourself so that means your broke and lonely.And I work in surgery saving lives,I have my own house and car.And they assumed that I was lonely..lolThat's why I say if the KKK gave me a choice to be hung or date a BW.I rather be hunged.
It was so refreshing hearing you! I was beginning to think no one else understood the black man. You hit the nail on the head. You understand the problem and the solution - the black woman is brainwashed from childhood thorough the public school system and television and it is perpetuated because no one uses their brains and recognizes what is happening. You could give lessons to a lot of black "females" (I can't really call them women because they have to learn how to be women). You go girl!
I love this video and I love the Boondocks picture in the background. I love love love that show. I think you made very good points. My husband and I both share a responsibility in our household but I always tell everyone, my husband is the head of the family (even though it's just the 2 of us right now) but we both know our roles. Mine is the roll of the lover, the confidant and his cheerleader! And we don't have any misunderstandings in our house.
It just hit me how we are nothing like our grand & great-grandparents. I remember how my grandma was with my grandfather. Little things like nobody could eat until my grandfather did, or every decision had to go through him first. Stuff like that symbolizes the unions they used to have. If it was okay for them, why isn't it for us? Something happened along the way. I'm not sure what exactly.
What happened was someone majorly dropped the ball. Whether it was the man or the woman, no one will ever know. But since it's clear that a ball has been dropped, the only place to go is to the grass roots of it all. Videos like this one could serve as a great model on how a woman can learn to be submissive without having to be run over. Equal respect, YES... Equal LOVE ..YES... Equal roles? NO. That doesn't mean that the woman is not important in the relationship and that the man is superior
but that their jobs/roles, while they're different are equally important.
If I could talk to a sister who thought that submission was slavery. I'd tell her that it's nothing like that. That submission is part of the glue that keeps a family together from both the led by the man, husband, lover, father... co-led by the woman, wife, lover and mother.
I can't say that you're wrong here. I think (my opinion only people) that we have lost the mutual respect that used to exist. If we really believed we were queens & kings, & carried ourselves that way we would have less problems.
You are very right. I agree with you. I think the term Black community is being used because there needs to be one, it is what is supposed to be but is greatly in the works.
I think people are hurt and the attitude is a defence mechanism. Cause if you don't care, you don't get hurt. Or atleast that's what they think but they cheat themselves out of true happiness. Both males and females. They all need to look for healing from within and forgive their guardians who obviously didn't know any better for doing them wrong in the past. The fact that we are here now shows that someone loved us, no one is perfect. Forgive them and do better don't repeat the cycle.
GREAT points Ma'am!Very good video!I think a LOT of BW need to know the real meaning of submissiveness but FIRST need to humble themselves into admitting that they really do need men in their lives.
Right!And for single women Pride & unsubmissiveness=remaining alone/single...what man wants a woman who thinks she has EQUAL authority in a marriage and is too prideful to admit her weaknesses?I don't know of any.
what man wants a woman who thinks she has EQUAL authority in a marriage and is too prideful to admit her weaknesses?
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usually WEAK "men" and men thinking that sharing authority is going to make the woman happy, when it's only going to make the woman secretly DESPISE and RESENT her man for not having any backbone.
Excellent point, Buttaluv10. REAL MEN do not want women who think they have EQUAL authority in marriage. It's totally against their nature to permit it, but the men with no backbone will.
You are right about that sistah . It used to be even when the world would hate black men we could come home to our black woman who loved and supported us but not anymore well I feel like if a woman really loves you she will still do those things. As for the community people still made it even in single parent households because the community raised the children when now it's that don't say nothing to my child mentality.
Not needing a man is not about being selfish, it is about being independent. That is what people like Oprah and Whoopi try to convey. How many times do we see bitches and hoes rank men according to what they can give them (and their babies) materially, in exchange for fulfilling male "needs"? When women are independent, they find men for the right reasons and men find women who aren't selling themselves but seeking real love.
True independence is always a good thing, but a lot of sisters get the independence message twisted. Independence does not equate taking on masculine traits, showing disrespect towards men or encouraging other women to do so. It's also not about sending the message that women are better than men. I agree that women who are truly independent have no problem finding and keeping men for the right reasons
"Independence does not equate taking on masculine traits, showing disrespect towards men or encouraging other women to do so.."
I finally have to disagree with you. INDEPENDENCE does mean all the above, to females (not real women) whose thinking has led or is leading them to radical feminism & even to lesbianism.
Look around.. it is quickly rising! What I hate is that so many Black females are being led to this by their "heroins" and know not what is happening.
Independence in that sense is exactly that. I stand corrected brother. Black women being easily led by listening to the wrong people was exacly my point earlier. We need to stop thinking like the current collective and learn to think for ourselves.
I thank you for this video. I need a woman in my life i was created to love the black woman. Too many sistas dont realize how much the brothers are discriminated on. Not to say you dont suffer either but in too many places on many jobs the blk woman is promoted over us. Even when we have the same skill sets and and experience. The whiteman prefers you as eye candy and views us a threat. So some of the brothers resort to dealing because they cant make it in the cracker world.And sistas dont care.
While Ive nothing against them, women like Oprah/Whoopi dont cater to our audience so I wouldnt bring them into the equation. Its not ALL about being independent. I agree every woman should be able to care for herself/children need be, but often time women get TOO carried away to where they get the "i don't need a man for nothin" mentality...and that's part of whats breaking up homes in the black community. Our children need mothers and fathers to play their roles. 2 many women dont know theirs.
Well when you say "our audience" I hope you realize you don't speak for the black community as a whole. The biggest problem in the black community imho is NOT black women's attitude. I do not deny it could be a problem, but a small one compared to the elephant in the room: black men. Even if we look at black women as an isolated case, their biggest problem is LACK of independence, not too much of it. Oprah and Whoopi do not "cater" to any audience, they are iconic role models to all.
You are absolutely on point cjospdfjiod. Thank you for your comment and for hearing me. I'm Oprah/Whoopi's biggest fan, but do I take relationship advice or life advice from them just because they're rich and on television? No. If we continue to deflect blame on our men and live in denial, our community will continue to deteriorate.
well when you put it that way...but blaqueindigo didn't put it like that emphasize
EQUALITY. She said man under God and woman under man. Then she went on...She knocked MLK now u knockin Oprah? K...less knocking down our good examples please.
I agree that if a man is to lead he must be lead by the Creator. I wasn't trying to mimic what blaqueindigo said but rather give my condensed opinion in agreement. That is why I kept referencing her video.
What does the bible say is what should matter. It states to follow Jesus Christ's example. Jesus taking his lead from the Father (God), and the man taking his lead from Jesus Christ, the woman taking her lead from her man, and then the children taking their lead from the parents. This is the way that I read it!
firemama1269 if we follow the Bible to the letter, we'll be living in the stone age. Instead of hypocritically picking out parts that suit me, I choose to not take the Bible literally. To me, God and goodness are not literal concepts from old books. God and goodness are universal, time-less, spiritual and apply to ALL people in ALL times. Unlike religions and old books which were authored thousands of years ago by a few inspired men whose outlook has not kept up with nor survived the times.
I disagree with the outlook not surviving our times. If you look at the majority of the laws, they are based on what was written in the Bible. I am sure alot of people would agree that if the principles that were set forth in the Bible were followed, there would be alot less of unwanted pregancies, illnesses, broken marriages, etc. I value your opinion though.
I have to say that you speak the truth, and you brilliantly articulated the black female culture blueprint. With people like you, connecting the disconnected, we have a new info structure to launch black relationships off of.
I say thank you ever so much for speaking your language as well to the people. Maybe with this new direction a lot of sisters will head your advice and incorporate that into their new way of thinking.
I was speaking of caring in the financial sense rather than emotional. I suppose human emotion and flaws will always take precedence. That's why I want just one husband one wife and our kids...much less complicated.
I heard that! Usually, I'm sure the man wants a second or third wife for the wrong reasons, according to tradition the man is supposed to take on multiple wives for child bearing reasons or other such family duties. It's a matter of doing it the right way, not selfishly
Excellent points, Sistah, especially when it comes to some BW being reckless with their mouths, being selfish, submitting, supporting, and disrespecting our black men. Two thumbs up!
Thank you Khemistry101 and IntegrityLivesOn. Please do not lose hope, there are more of us out here than you think. I was inspired by a brilliant young sister named blaqueindigo and her short series on single parenting. Go to my favorites if you would, and check her out. After seeing her vids last week I had to speak on it. Thank you both very much for your compliments. It's good to know that I'm being heard.
You're quite welcome, foxye3diva3, AND YES YOU'RE DEFINITELY BEING HEARD LOUD AND CLEAR! It's so refreshing and encouraging to come across other sistahs whose eyes and hearts are open to the truth! I love blaqueindigo's videos. She's an intelligent, beautiful sistah filled with so much wisdom beyond her years! As a matter of fact, I'm on my way to check out her channel! I'm also looking forward to viewing more of your videos. Blessings. :-)
Wow! Her eyes opened! foxye3diva3, I found your video thanks to EV. It is good to see more sistas like yourself speak up! I'm starting to believe that hope is not completely dead.
Hope is still here as you can see. I suggest that you start talking to some of these intelligent sisters. I talk to several on the phone weekly. It keeps my hope high that change is gonna come!
(Check out BlaqueIndigo's channel to be refreshed.)
I am honestly split on that issue. In Islamic and much of African culture it is acceptaple. I don't want to say that the ancestors are wrong for that, but I don't know if I would personally go for it as I'm used to the one on one. That would be totally foreign territory for me. How do you feel about it?
Also, evens1, yes I do feel more free now. I feel like I am more in touch with myself now than ever. I agree with statement #3, as us sisters need to educate those who are still lost and buying into the nonsense that is preventing them from living up to their true selves. Thank you again
Thank you. I appreciate that compliment. Honestly, when I was out of order I promptly got checked, which was something I was not used to. As alien as this seemed to me it didn't turn me off or sway me from continuing the relationship. Instead I started doing a lot of soul searching, meditating and educating myself about myself and why I felt so superior so to speak. I went back to my roots the way I was initially raised by my mother AND father.they taught me that femininity is modesty.
That's wonderful, foxye3diva3. I wish more BW would do this, because I sincerely believe if they did, many of them would find themselves in healthy, loving relationships with our black men.
The concept of what submission REALLY means is a much needed lecture on YT.
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I second that notion. Not only that, there NEEDS to be videos by Good Black Women who are married to Good Black Men about HOW to get and KEEP a Good Black Man.
Magazines like Cosmos and Glamour LOVE put lists about "10 Things You Should Do To Get a Man". Well, GBW ought to similar videos on YT with suggestions for BW about how best to gaina and KEEP a Good Black Man.
oh and for the brother or sister who recently commented. I accidentally deleted your comment when I meant to respond to it. So sorry about that!
foxye3diva3 2 weeks ago
from a black man: u are so right. tv has had a big part in the problem. i've not owned on in eight years. people need to turn it off.
GQbum 3 weeks ago
@GQbum 8 years. Kudos to you! Thanks for stopping by
foxye3diva3 2 weeks ago
Ashe, sister. Brothers and sisters need each other! Why else would we call each other "brother and sister"? The white man has taught us this individualistic mentality in order to tear apart our families, which will in turn, continue to tear apart our culture. When women learn that "learning our place" is not a negative, we will begin to move forward.
art12mind12 5 months ago
@art12mind12 Indeed. Amin. Thank you for your comment
foxye3diva3 2 weeks ago
This is real talk!!!
mrgentlemen4u 11 months ago
i'm happy to hear this, the part about being equally yoked is the truth. the sexes have their different roles, yes. but one could never survive without the other. different, but equally important. a man may not be able to house a life in his body or feed it from his body, but a woman couldn't provide the physical protection from danger that a man can. all the great tribes understood this precious balance between the sexes. television, in my opinion has taught us to rebel against one another.
moccothelocco 1 year ago
@moccothelocco You are absolutely right. We need to get back to basics and turn off the dayum TV!!!
foxye3diva3 1 year ago
wow you are a very special woman to have all these amazing views.
and right mentality on the men women subject.
we need more black women and men like u to revive our society!
with a 50/50 relationship u can never go wrong!
youngl098765 1 year ago
@youngl098765 Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting. Most of all thank you for LISTENING to what I had to say lol. Much luv and respect.
foxye3diva3 1 year ago
BRAVO!!! BRAVO!!! BRAVO!!!
Well said.... As a single BM, 45yrs old it is wonderful to here another sister finally say what needs to be brought in the open for all the crazy stuff we have been programmed in our heads. Continue to wake some of your sisters up because I have not given up on them, but I must say.... I am not looking to marry any of them any time soon. Thank you for simply saying it. BRAVO!!! indeed. 8-)
Defiant359 1 year ago 2
@Defiant359 Hey! I'm glad you feel what I'm saying. Thanks for not giving up on us. There are some improvements I've seen but there is still a lot of work we need to do on ourselves. Peace!
foxye3diva3 1 year ago
foxy you've got your head on straight and I have a deep appreciation for what you said in your video. You're probably developing more than your fair share of enemies among your fellow Sistas but being a Brother who has dated both black and white women I can tell you that I have a much easier time with women outside my race. To be honest, I probably will not end up marrying a Sista and my family has come to accept that about me. Not cause I'm running away, I'm just tired of attitude.
lptinvestor 1 year ago 2
As a black man, all I see is black men with white women, and black women sitting home along watching brothers run around with white women, and they're cool with it sometimes they support it, and these old white women is not up to part, they're bad looking,and so. Sometimes I hate looking at them. Me, I blame the brothers for their actions, really they make it hard for me to get a nice intelligent black woman for the way they behaved around our black women.
cocoaj13 1 year ago
The truth will set you free .
teddet87 1 year ago
You put it perfect! Please keep telling it like it is. I wish everyone...men and women and not just black people, could see this video.
ladyEulaelie 1 year ago
This a wonderful, wonderful video. Keep speaking truth girl! This world has truly deceived us into thinking that we are in control. Shalom, and may God bless
Samonethomas 1 year ago
black women are submissive towards white men though
Washanen07 1 year ago
strength is strength regardless of gender. The bottom line is its not so much a problem that is tied to the black community but what is tied to the skill, productivity level etc. of individuals in the black community. kind of like the parable of the talents in the Holy Bible. Women are more, whether white or black, in the job market. In the end, that submission element is dangerous. If you want to submit, cool, however please maintain strength and aggressiveness to maximize all productivity
a0987564847388493 1 year ago
i like what you are saying
sgospelrider 1 year ago
Hey Sis U R absolutely right on the money.Ive made it my journey to be in search of that full circle connection with my people.Especially the Sisters.Ive more successfull interactions w/BW.And also my losses.I think Sis. having knowledge of their selves as BW and havin some amount of interest in their culture would help create a more positive and proproductive force of goodness for our people as awhole.Thus also could present better courtship situations.Original+Original=OriginalLove of BM/BW.
visionkingdom 2 years ago
Good vid sis...
mozadek1 2 years ago
i don't agree entirely. I have a black woman. A "strong black woman" and I ENCOURAGE her to speak her mind! but guess what she can come to and speak her mind and still speak respectivly!! and visa versa! i've dated white women too and that submissive shit is wack. a black woman can be strong and articulate and STILL respect and support her black man.
ZELLious179 2 years ago 9
@ZELLious179 Can't beat a sister, my brother. Strength needs strength when the strong temporarily become weakened. Make sure you treat your queen right.
Peace and love.
iamhonestjohn 2 years ago
@ZELLious179
You are absolutely right ZELLious179
foxye3diva3 1 year ago
@foxye3diva3 Speaking truth against this feminist crap. Realist black woman I've ever met on here and some others, lol.
visionimagify 1 year ago
Very well said
Majorjoy6565 2 years ago
Real Talk...
WilliamTHUNDA 2 years ago
When I see videos like this...it makes me nervous. You know why? Because we have a problem with Black Females being abused all over the nation...possibly the world ...in such large record numbers and for generations back...anytime you have artist degrading a the Black Woman and millions of people chanting against her...you have a PROBLEM....this is genocide of the Black Female...so messages to be "submissive" is inappropriate at this time. We have to reestablish the Black community first.
demi1milli 2 years ago
This video gets (10) stars **********
lisamorg9 2 years ago
Thank you sister thank you our brothers are our leaders and our providers. Much luv4ourgdblkmen.
"A sister's Luv4ourBrothers"
We support you
We stand with you
We hear you
We see you
We are listening
We love you
"A Sister's Luv4ourBrothers"
lisamorg9 2 years ago
thank you for this video..its helping me process through lot of mess in my mind.i do wish i could be with a guy who wouldnt put me down though..so i could be supportive.i just left someone for that reason,and it was wearing me down emotionally..it hurts cuz his in love with me,and im scared of giving in and going back. thankyou for your words of wisdom
hotchillibot 2 years ago
Please do not misunderstand my message. No matter what a brother is going through, it is not okay for him to put you down or abuse you. Watch my "what submission means" series as I speak on this topic further and clarify what submission is really about. Peace.
foxye3diva3 2 years ago
a real woman should undastand that it is the man's role to be uncomfortable and do the things to provide and protect, you know most men want to lead and call themselves the leader but dont know how to lead undastand me, cause if he was leadin the right way you wouldnt hear all about the wonderwoman superhero image know what i'm talkin bout
DCPimpin100 2 years ago
I feel you DC. Thanks for stopping by.
foxye3diva3 2 years ago
"You can both be leaders, but you can be leaders in different ways". That is a very enlightening statement that many men and women should accept, from all states of the human condition.
Power, control, responsibility, none of these should be completely in the hands of one person, nor should one person seak to dominate the other to obtain any of these things. If a man forgets his place he should be no more or less reminded than a woman
c00lwatter 2 years ago 5
Foxy3diva3,
I wish you luck in your endeavors from hereon out.
In addition, I hope that you are still with the man that changed you for the better person that you have become.
One.
SuavecitoBro2 2 years ago
Yes I am. Thank you so much.
foxye3diva3 2 years ago
foxye3diva3,
I hope you are still with that man that changed you for the better.
You sound cool-as-fuck, ma. I wish you luck in your endeavors from hereon out. One.
SuavecitoBro2 2 years ago
Really good video. I love your delivery.
UKGully 2 years ago 2
I am gonna cry. This is excellent.
dantej32 2 years ago
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment.
foxye3diva3 2 years ago
Damn! I'm impressed! I knew you had a man the first couple of minutes hearing you out. Where did all that GOOD old school wisdom come from, in such a young woman?
You're like the Barack Obama of sista's right now..You got my vote! LOL
nolanj23 2 years ago
LOL! Thank you for that and thank you for stopping by.
Foxy
foxye3diva3 2 years ago
I agree. I believe its a cycle for black women that needs to be broken. I thought 4 a long time that brothers were the issue bcuz of the women in my family & what I saw, when I was growing up. I found out that the "independent woman status "creates a big issue. Women teach their sons to be dependent & their daughters to be independent. The roles have changed & has caused seperation & chaos. We need to unite! Thanks sista!
Candeegirl77 3 years ago 2
Thanks so much for your comment
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
TRUE this needed to be said.
Israelitepriestess 3 years ago
Wow. I can't believe I'm actually seeing a video like this from a black woman. Excellent words, sis. I hope some of you listen to what she's saying.
Nowadays its like a coin flip. Either the woman acts like a damn man and is disrespectful as hell or she acts like a slut and disrespects herself. Brothers that are worth anything just want a good woman who is supportive and can converse without a bunch of unnecessary lip.
Good video, I'm gonna share this.
BarryNC 3 years ago
Thanks so much for your comment. It's refreshing to know that people are hearing what I'm saying and not prejudging based on the title of the video. You know how that goes. lol Thanks for stopping by bro
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
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BarryNC 3 years ago
There was a brother on here who gave his opinion starting with the words "from a black man's perspective. I meant to reply to it and thank him for the comment and accidentally deleted it anyone out there know how to retreive posts?
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
5 stars
Room4Improvement 3 years ago
All these FAKE Black power muthafukas should cease to speak and allow YOU to speak foxydiva. You could probably criticize (me) with so much finesse , I wouldn't even know you did it.lmao 5 stars!
keemosobbee 3 years ago
LMFAO!!!! Right on bruh Keemosobbee!!! Thank you for that tremendous compliment. I have a lot of respect for you and your views. You bring a lot of refreshing realness to the table that very few in the YT community have and I appreciate that very much. That reminds me of something an old school friend said to one of our former classmates years ago "she called me everything but a child of God....and what made it so bad she didn't cuss not one time!" We all just busted out laughing!
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Lmao! no problem and thanks.
keemosobbee 3 years ago
you are dam right about what your saying because most sistahs dont wanna be there for a brother when he needs the support of a sistahs see this is what is missing with the blackman and woman unite ! sistah dont need a real man then how can we produced the generation of kids without a man !
79563RUB 3 years ago
it's also why working men need to stop believing that love is nothing more than hormones and convienience and make do with strip club blow jobs. a man who takes care of his business doesn't need to get married and have kids.
baserunner316 3 years ago
these same white women are just pigs chasing cock.they deserve what they get.when they have a good man they have all these conditions like hes got to maintain a steady income and share in half her crap.if she loses her job hes got to "understand" and support her. If it's the reverse she's gone.
women need to stop having kids with ASSHOLES.they have NO ONE TO BLAME BUT THEMSELVES.
baserunner316 3 years ago
Right on Sista, I can dig it!
jblackmel 3 years ago
Tell the truth when a woman shouts at her man when he is trying really can make a blackman very discourage and force him to leave but let a man who goes to jail and sells drugs he hardley get any lip but yeah most blackman just want a black woman to be soft not too soft but just a woman
Wilmrbadguy 3 years ago
I hear you. That's something I had to learn. That softness is one of the things our men need. Some of us forgot how to be ladies. Not soft like pushovers but feminine women
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing that i really need to hear that......
rizzin2thetop 3 years ago
You're very welcome. Thanks for watching and listening
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Oh and btw, I posted a series of comments on RevolutionaryINK's vid. In reference to the subject in your vids concerning the word 'submission' in Hebrew in Scriptures. You can check it out if you like; just didn't want to 'spam' your vid as well. (~_^)
deborahbetty58 3 years ago
Not a problem sis. Feel free to post a video response whenever you feel inspired.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Thank you sis for this wonderful vid, and the description of women with 'inflammable' hearts and fiery tongues is very correct. I believe only (Divine) Love can quench their ever burning desire to be loved and learn how to love. (1 Cor. 13). Yah Love & Mercy
deborahbetty58 3 years ago
No, thank you so much for your positive comments and scripture references my sister. I'm so glad you stopped by. Divine love is definitely the catalyst to what they need. Peace and Respect
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
I agree totally with you.If you have that brotha who fits that description of that good brotha-then hell yeah stand behind that brotha.
sistagirl3298 3 years ago
Right on thanks so much for your comment and for feeling where I'm coming from.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Damn, you are beautiful. You're words are powerful. But somehow I don't think most women will digest this message very easy...but I hope they do. :)
Jeffery4763 3 years ago
Thank you very much. I hope so too.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
I would agree that one would not need a man to be tactful. I have seen and known a lot of women who are tactless even in the presence of their men. Single parenting takes a lot more of controlling your mouth. It means thriving amidst all the challenges in life. The book by Carolyn Ellis, The 7 Pitfall of Single Parenting" talks about these thriving principles. Great video! Thanks.
blendedfamilynews 3 years ago
Thanks so much for your comment and the information!
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
You are more on the pulse of the issues than even you want to admit.
We have become a race of people who have become driven to be selfish in our own loneliness.
Sisters do not support much more than themselves to some degree and even then they are not that positively supportive to becoming anything more than alone.
REAL TALK!
We all need to learn that our game is too weak to not kick it up more than normal.
respect
darkdominance911 3 years ago
"Real talk" is right brother. We sisters have to be that change we want to see in our brothers. Thanks so much for listening. Peace.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
I understand ur (valid) motivation for this video:
On the other hand, there are very few points on which I agree w/blaq.
TABULOUS1 3 years ago
Yeah, you have to take blaque like a lot of people on YT with a grain of salt.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
she's on point like red beams. excellent video, I'd like another please.
kobenbawest 3 years ago
Right on. I'm working on it.
Peace
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Thank you for this vlog. When I read the title I didn't think that I would agree BUT I DO! good work.
Valor69 3 years ago
APPLAUSE!!!
Teresita40 3 years ago
Thank you for speaking out. More ladies need to hear this.
tonyatunez 3 years ago
You're welcome.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Women ned to listen to a Man
WarSymbol1 3 years ago
Outstanding! That's one video blog I need not make. A lady said it all with eloquence! We love you!!
isata88 3 years ago
Love you back!!
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
well said sis.
ibbs72 3 years ago
rated.
2bbgunsup 3 years ago
Don't mean to get off subject,But the assumptions happen to me yesterday at the movies.I go to the movies next to my house by myself.I went to see Tyler Perry's new movie.You believe the assumptions that came my direction,the BW that work their was like your by yourself so that means your broke and lonely.And I work in surgery saving lives,I have my own house and car.And they assumed that I was lonely..lolThat's why I say if the KKK gave me a choice to be hung or date a BW.I rather be hunged.
chenderson30 3 years ago
what color is ur mom? do u r did u have a good relationship with r family.with ur FATHER?
goldenbeauty1123 3 years ago
Both black,But how does my parents which I have a good relationship with,Apply to the black women of today?
chenderson30 3 years ago
It was so refreshing hearing you! I was beginning to think no one else understood the black man. You hit the nail on the head. You understand the problem and the solution - the black woman is brainwashed from childhood thorough the public school system and television and it is perpetuated because no one uses their brains and recognizes what is happening. You could give lessons to a lot of black "females" (I can't really call them women because they have to learn how to be women). You go girl!
57FAIRY 3 years ago
Thanks very much 57FAIRY and garret144. Much love right back at you!!
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
You are a QUEEN
garret144 3 years ago
Much LOVE my Sista!
A Brother
garret144 3 years ago
It's hard to be submissive when you don't know how. We need someone to show them.
leedime 3 years ago
You're absolutely right.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
WELL SAID AND TRUE!
iratetruth 3 years ago
Great video!!!
koolbreeze3000 3 years ago
Well said and honest presentation. Thank you sistah. Shalom
soulnblack 3 years ago
I love this video and I love the Boondocks picture in the background. I love love love that show. I think you made very good points. My husband and I both share a responsibility in our household but I always tell everyone, my husband is the head of the family (even though it's just the 2 of us right now) but we both know our roles. Mine is the roll of the lover, the confidant and his cheerleader! And we don't have any misunderstandings in our house.
pinkdes2ny 3 years ago 3
One of the best comments I've ever read.
AfreeQueen 2 years ago
It just hit me how we are nothing like our grand & great-grandparents. I remember how my grandma was with my grandfather. Little things like nobody could eat until my grandfather did, or every decision had to go through him first. Stuff like that symbolizes the unions they used to have. If it was okay for them, why isn't it for us? Something happened along the way. I'm not sure what exactly.
HeLuvShe 3 years ago 5
What happened was someone majorly dropped the ball. Whether it was the man or the woman, no one will ever know. But since it's clear that a ball has been dropped, the only place to go is to the grass roots of it all. Videos like this one could serve as a great model on how a woman can learn to be submissive without having to be run over. Equal respect, YES... Equal LOVE ..YES... Equal roles? NO. That doesn't mean that the woman is not important in the relationship and that the man is superior
AfreeQueen 2 years ago
but that their jobs/roles, while they're different are equally important.
If I could talk to a sister who thought that submission was slavery. I'd tell her that it's nothing like that. That submission is part of the glue that keeps a family together from both the led by the man, husband, lover, father... co-led by the woman, wife, lover and mother.
AfreeQueen 2 years ago
Shalom Achoti,
And Todah Raba (thank you very much)
jdiggidy7 3 years ago
I am so mad that i am just now seein this video. Go girl! I love you. Keep the truth in circulation.
blaqueindigo 3 years ago 7
Love you too sis! I'll keep on keepin' on and you do the same!
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
your words are just as beautiful as your face I wish I could find more secure women like you to date
peace sista
blkskin1 3 years ago
I can't say that you're wrong here. I think (my opinion only people) that we have lost the mutual respect that used to exist. If we really believed we were queens & kings, & carried ourselves that way we would have less problems.
Reicya 3 years ago 4
You are very right. I agree with you. I think the term Black community is being used because there needs to be one, it is what is supposed to be but is greatly in the works.
cakeNkittens 3 years ago 3
Right on sista keep up the good work. Peace!!!
calliope3rdward 3 years ago
I think people are hurt and the attitude is a defence mechanism. Cause if you don't care, you don't get hurt. Or atleast that's what they think but they cheat themselves out of true happiness. Both males and females. They all need to look for healing from within and forgive their guardians who obviously didn't know any better for doing them wrong in the past. The fact that we are here now shows that someone loved us, no one is perfect. Forgive them and do better don't repeat the cycle.
Vammus 3 years ago 2
This vid is the truth.. You have made very good points in this video..
GlamorCouture 3 years ago
GREAT points Ma'am!Very good video!I think a LOT of BW need to know the real meaning of submissiveness but FIRST need to humble themselves into admitting that they really do need men in their lives.
buttaluv10 3 years ago 2
Humility is a difficult thing for an "independent" woman to express. Most think that equates being weak. It's just the opposite.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
CO-SIGN.
Humility is absolutely important. Pride comes before the fall.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
Pride comes before the fall.
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Right!And for single women Pride & unsubmissiveness=remaining alone/single...what man wants a woman who thinks she has EQUAL authority in a marriage and is too prideful to admit her weaknesses?I don't know of any.
buttaluv10 3 years ago
what man wants a woman who thinks she has EQUAL authority in a marriage and is too prideful to admit her weaknesses?
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usually WEAK "men" and men thinking that sharing authority is going to make the woman happy, when it's only going to make the woman secretly DESPISE and RESENT her man for not having any backbone.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago 2
Amen
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Excellent point, Buttaluv10. REAL MEN do not want women who think they have EQUAL authority in marriage. It's totally against their nature to permit it, but the men with no backbone will.
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago
Ditto!
Evens1 3 years ago
You are right about that sistah . It used to be even when the world would hate black men we could come home to our black woman who loved and supported us but not anymore well I feel like if a woman really loves you she will still do those things. As for the community people still made it even in single parent households because the community raised the children when now it's that don't say nothing to my child mentality.
blacktigerwu 3 years ago 3
EXCELLENT VIDEO.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago 2
I can stand corrected and checked to that! I like the way you communicate. You are balanced
for one.
zeragito 3 years ago
Not needing a man is not about being selfish, it is about being independent. That is what people like Oprah and Whoopi try to convey. How many times do we see bitches and hoes rank men according to what they can give them (and their babies) materially, in exchange for fulfilling male "needs"? When women are independent, they find men for the right reasons and men find women who aren't selling themselves but seeking real love.
zeragito 3 years ago
True independence is always a good thing, but a lot of sisters get the independence message twisted. Independence does not equate taking on masculine traits, showing disrespect towards men or encouraging other women to do so. It's also not about sending the message that women are better than men. I agree that women who are truly independent have no problem finding and keeping men for the right reasons
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Foxy wrote
"Independence does not equate taking on masculine traits, showing disrespect towards men or encouraging other women to do so.."
I finally have to disagree with you. INDEPENDENCE does mean all the above, to females (not real women) whose thinking has led or is leading them to radical feminism & even to lesbianism.
Look around.. it is quickly rising! What I hate is that so many Black females are being led to this by their "heroins" and know not what is happening.
EV
Evens1 3 years ago 2
Independence in that sense is exactly that. I stand corrected brother. Black women being easily led by listening to the wrong people was exacly my point earlier. We need to stop thinking like the current collective and learn to think for ourselves.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
I thank you for this video. I need a woman in my life i was created to love the black woman. Too many sistas dont realize how much the brothers are discriminated on. Not to say you dont suffer either but in too many places on many jobs the blk woman is promoted over us. Even when we have the same skill sets and and experience. The whiteman prefers you as eye candy and views us a threat. So some of the brothers resort to dealing because they cant make it in the cracker world.And sistas dont care.
aahronb 3 years ago 6
This guy is always on point.
DFCstyleX 3 years ago
While Ive nothing against them, women like Oprah/Whoopi dont cater to our audience so I wouldnt bring them into the equation. Its not ALL about being independent. I agree every woman should be able to care for herself/children need be, but often time women get TOO carried away to where they get the "i don't need a man for nothin" mentality...and that's part of whats breaking up homes in the black community. Our children need mothers and fathers to play their roles. 2 many women dont know theirs.
cjospdfjiod 3 years ago 2
Well when you say "our audience" I hope you realize you don't speak for the black community as a whole. The biggest problem in the black community imho is NOT black women's attitude. I do not deny it could be a problem, but a small one compared to the elephant in the room: black men. Even if we look at black women as an isolated case, their biggest problem is LACK of independence, not too much of it. Oprah and Whoopi do not "cater" to any audience, they are iconic role models to all.
zeragito 3 years ago
You are absolutely on point cjospdfjiod. Thank you for your comment and for hearing me. I'm Oprah/Whoopi's biggest fan, but do I take relationship advice or life advice from them just because they're rich and on television? No. If we continue to deflect blame on our men and live in denial, our community will continue to deteriorate.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
well when you put it that way...but blaqueindigo didn't put it like that emphasize
EQUALITY. She said man under God and woman under man. Then she went on...She knocked MLK now u knockin Oprah? K...less knocking down our good examples please.
zeragito 3 years ago
I agree that if a man is to lead he must be lead by the Creator. I wasn't trying to mimic what blaqueindigo said but rather give my condensed opinion in agreement. That is why I kept referencing her video.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Well I condensedly agree with you girl! Keep it up:)
zeragito 3 years ago
What does the bible say is what should matter. It states to follow Jesus Christ's example. Jesus taking his lead from the Father (God), and the man taking his lead from Jesus Christ, the woman taking her lead from her man, and then the children taking their lead from the parents. This is the way that I read it!
firemama1269 3 years ago
Absolutely. I agree that if a man is to lead he must be lead by the Creator.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
firemama1269 if we follow the Bible to the letter, we'll be living in the stone age. Instead of hypocritically picking out parts that suit me, I choose to not take the Bible literally. To me, God and goodness are not literal concepts from old books. God and goodness are universal, time-less, spiritual and apply to ALL people in ALL times. Unlike religions and old books which were authored thousands of years ago by a few inspired men whose outlook has not kept up with nor survived the times.
zeragito 3 years ago 2
I disagree with the outlook not surviving our times. If you look at the majority of the laws, they are based on what was written in the Bible. I am sure alot of people would agree that if the principles that were set forth in the Bible were followed, there would be alot less of unwanted pregancies, illnesses, broken marriages, etc. I value your opinion though.
firemama1269 3 years ago
I have to say that you speak the truth, and you brilliantly articulated the black female culture blueprint. With people like you, connecting the disconnected, we have a new info structure to launch black relationships off of.
I say thank you ever so much for speaking your language as well to the people. Maybe with this new direction a lot of sisters will head your advice and incorporate that into their new way of thinking.
/bow
Niyz3x 3 years ago
hearin sistahs like you lets me know not all hope is lost. But i gotta be honest your mindstate is few and far between when it comes to black woman.
bnasty313 3 years ago 2
Nice video! The boondocks poster made it look like you had a Huey freeman momment, lol!!
btuck2 3 years ago
I was speaking of caring in the financial sense rather than emotional. I suppose human emotion and flaws will always take precedence. That's why I want just one husband one wife and our kids...much less complicated.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
LOL. There can be only one. Classic! One of my favorite movies and quotes. Say that sis!
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
LOL
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
I heard that! Usually, I'm sure the man wants a second or third wife for the wrong reasons, according to tradition the man is supposed to take on multiple wives for child bearing reasons or other such family duties. It's a matter of doing it the right way, not selfishly
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Excellent points, Sistah, especially when it comes to some BW being reckless with their mouths, being selfish, submitting, supporting, and disrespecting our black men. Two thumbs up!
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago 2
Thank you Khemistry101 and IntegrityLivesOn. Please do not lose hope, there are more of us out here than you think. I was inspired by a brilliant young sister named blaqueindigo and her short series on single parenting. Go to my favorites if you would, and check her out. After seeing her vids last week I had to speak on it. Thank you both very much for your compliments. It's good to know that I'm being heard.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
You're quite welcome, foxye3diva3, AND YES YOU'RE DEFINITELY BEING HEARD LOUD AND CLEAR! It's so refreshing and encouraging to come across other sistahs whose eyes and hearts are open to the truth! I love blaqueindigo's videos. She's an intelligent, beautiful sistah filled with so much wisdom beyond her years! As a matter of fact, I'm on my way to check out her channel! I'm also looking forward to viewing more of your videos. Blessings. :-)
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago 2
Blessings upon you as well. I'm looking forward to making more videos as well.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Wow! Her eyes opened! foxye3diva3, I found your video thanks to EV. It is good to see more sistas like yourself speak up! I'm starting to believe that hope is not completely dead.
Khemistry101 3 years ago 3
Khemistry
Hope is still here as you can see. I suggest that you start talking to some of these intelligent sisters. I talk to several on the phone weekly. It keeps my hope high that change is gonna come!
(Check out BlaqueIndigo's channel to be refreshed.)
EV
Evens1 3 years ago
EVE, I also know that if a man is to take on a second or third or so.. wife, it is not acceptable unless he can care for the additional wives equally
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
I am honestly split on that issue. In Islamic and much of African culture it is acceptaple. I don't want to say that the ancestors are wrong for that, but I don't know if I would personally go for it as I'm used to the one on one. That would be totally foreign territory for me. How do you feel about it?
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Also, evens1, yes I do feel more free now. I feel like I am more in touch with myself now than ever. I agree with statement #3, as us sisters need to educate those who are still lost and buying into the nonsense that is preventing them from living up to their true selves. Thank you again
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
Bravo!!!
1.) I'd like to know .. WHAT Specific thing shook you out of the Strong Black Female mindset.
2.) Do you feel more human and free now than before your changes?
3.) I request more videos where you break several of your detailed info down for the women.
The concept of what submission REALLY means is a much needed lecture on YT.
EV
Evens1 3 years ago
Thank you. I appreciate that compliment. Honestly, when I was out of order I promptly got checked, which was something I was not used to. As alien as this seemed to me it didn't turn me off or sway me from continuing the relationship. Instead I started doing a lot of soul searching, meditating and educating myself about myself and why I felt so superior so to speak. I went back to my roots the way I was initially raised by my mother AND father.they taught me that femininity is modesty.
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
That's wonderful, foxye3diva3. I wish more BW would do this, because I sincerely believe if they did, many of them would find themselves in healthy, loving relationships with our black men.
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago
Foxy wrote
" I started doing a lot of soul searching, meditating and educating myself about myself and why I felt so superior so to speak."
I have a crazy feeling that somewhere in that excellent mind of your's there is a solution to this entire mess that we are in.
I would love to chat with you offline soon to see if we can do some brainstorming.
EV
Evens1 3 years ago
Bravo is right, Ev! Foxye3diva3 made some very valid points!
IntegrityLivesOn 3 years ago
Integrity wrote
"Foxye3diva3 made some very valid points!"
Sister, I agree with you, but, just for fun, let us know what points she made that were not valid.
List them.
EV
Evens1 3 years ago
The concept of what submission REALLY means is a much needed lecture on YT.
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I second that notion. Not only that, there NEEDS to be videos by Good Black Women who are married to Good Black Men about HOW to get and KEEP a Good Black Man.
Magazines like Cosmos and Glamour LOVE put lists about "10 Things You Should Do To Get a Man". Well, GBW ought to similar videos on YT with suggestions for BW about how best to gaina and KEEP a Good Black Man.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago 3
Thank you very much
foxye3diva3 3 years ago
great video
rydar1978 3 years ago