cont. A supportive spouse/partner wouldn't mind what you aspired to do or be or how you maintain yourself anyway as long as you don't selfishly compare him or your lifestyle together with what other people/peers have that you don't have ("keeping up with the Jones') and pressures. That's how in the end the woman gets what she wants and not need to rely on the man entirely for her own upkeep...AND by being patient and not doing what I've stated before, he would be happy to work hard for you too.
I DEFINATELY AGREE with everything you've stated in this video. Particularly, when you've stated how a woman should maintain her self intellectually, career wise etc, my father has always taught me that. He said instead of expecting a man to do and be everything for you, the woman should direct the energy and focus on enhancing herself. It's not to imply that I should take care of a man, but if I want better, I SHOULD aspire to do it myself if my partner isn't interested in doing it. A
Well, you make a good point but I wouldn't call a woman who provides for her OWN high maintenance woman a high maintenance women. She's just having high standards then. High maintenance women let OTHERS maintain them in the superficial stuff they want to easily have a wildcard that enables them to "belong to high society". I hate that kind of women.
Great points made. I do agree w/ you but would also like to add that a high-maintenance woman should remain grounded. There's nothing worse than a woman spends money on herself but looks down on other people.
Real beauty is no foundation liquid make up.Great skin,no fake eyelashes. Long eyelashes that are natural. No excessive eye make up,and only make up that accents your already great looks. No hair dyes that look fake especially if your hair is not gray. Why not accept what you are and not put excessive make up on? If a person is healthy and radiant, they don't need excessive beauty products. I like some excellent skincare, but RAW foods and great attitude help.Eating RAW kale every morn
LOVE LOVE LOVE this video! Your best thus far in my opinion. I totes agree with you and the strangest thing is, I was only JUST debating this issue with a friend the other day. Money makes the world go round but it shouldn't make you go loco like a baby's toy top...
Very Good, a lot of people have bought the lie that money brings happiness when anyone with common sense knows after you get what you've been dreaming of you want more... to be happy is to be content now and a soul mate costs nothing!
Nice piece Christiana. You make an important distinction between an archetypal WAG and a woman who demands excellence in her life. Two-ends of the spectrum guys.
I'm not sure you were inviting topics for discussion, but i'd love to hear your thoughts on whether you, as a Christian girl, could ever entertain the notion of a romantic relationship with a self-defined Atheist. Would the subsequent drive to convert each other tear you apart? Or could you remain respectful to each other's beliefs?
Men ask for favour and you will get the right woman. Women dont go looking, wait, delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart........
Adam fell asleep to find his eve. He knew his asignment to tend the garden. She came into his life to be a help mate in his God given asignment. A man must know hi asignment in life given by God and a woman must look for a man who knows his purpose, because if you are to be together you are going to go in your God given role the same way to be a help and in this the help is reciprocated where you fulfuill your destiny in God
I dont normally comment, but i watched most of ur 28 videos whilst readn. I have to admit most of the things u say makes so much logical sense. You offer thought provoking ideas. Newayz, this my way of giving a compliment, keep up the gd work. I pray that God continues to bless u n increase u. Coz nwdays most ppl wanna talk but aint really saying anything. Anything thats of gr8 value.
Love it and love you...I loved especially when you said " a wise woman looks at what drives a man...a foolish woman looks at what a man drives"...Keep it up!
AMEN!
noisence 4 weeks ago
cont. A supportive spouse/partner wouldn't mind what you aspired to do or be or how you maintain yourself anyway as long as you don't selfishly compare him or your lifestyle together with what other people/peers have that you don't have ("keeping up with the Jones') and pressures. That's how in the end the woman gets what she wants and not need to rely on the man entirely for her own upkeep...AND by being patient and not doing what I've stated before, he would be happy to work hard for you too.
lkofie 1 month ago
I DEFINATELY AGREE with everything you've stated in this video. Particularly, when you've stated how a woman should maintain her self intellectually, career wise etc, my father has always taught me that. He said instead of expecting a man to do and be everything for you, the woman should direct the energy and focus on enhancing herself. It's not to imply that I should take care of a man, but if I want better, I SHOULD aspire to do it myself if my partner isn't interested in doing it. A
lkofie 1 month ago
You make some sense but your concept of being 'high maintenance' is casuistical bullshit. Sorry but it's true.
torresstr8 1 month ago
Well, you make a good point but I wouldn't call a woman who provides for her OWN high maintenance woman a high maintenance women. She's just having high standards then. High maintenance women let OTHERS maintain them in the superficial stuff they want to easily have a wildcard that enables them to "belong to high society". I hate that kind of women.
CosmicD 2 months ago
Compare high maintenance women with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 2 months ago
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torresstr8 1 month ago
Great points made. I do agree w/ you but would also like to add that a high-maintenance woman should remain grounded. There's nothing worse than a woman spends money on herself but looks down on other people.
soulphisticated 2 months ago
@soulphisticated so true.
kenyagirl2009 1 week ago
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Real beauty is no foundation liquid make up.Great skin,no fake eyelashes. Long eyelashes that are natural. No excessive eye make up,and only make up that accents your already great looks. No hair dyes that look fake especially if your hair is not gray. Why not accept what you are and not put excessive make up on? If a person is healthy and radiant, they don't need excessive beauty products. I like some excellent skincare, but RAW foods and great attitude help.Eating RAW kale every morn
peoniesfleur 2 months ago
great quote - sums it up nicely
smithhedgehog 3 months ago
I totally agree...
AJCiti 4 months ago
Food, Clothes, Shelter, Warmth and Love. Wash them and care for them and do the same for the man in your life..........
StylenCulture 4 months ago
You are stunning *.*
Rashishi1444 4 months ago
can you do A 'growing up african' video like your blog ?
FashionIsPerfection 6 months ago
You are sooooooo beautiful
527matt 7 months ago
Are you nigerian?
sweetogo 7 months ago
LOVE LOVE LOVE this video! Your best thus far in my opinion. I totes agree with you and the strangest thing is, I was only JUST debating this issue with a friend the other day. Money makes the world go round but it shouldn't make you go loco like a baby's toy top...
BLEURGH
onyxsta 8 months ago
Generally 'high maintenance woman' doesn't mean 'independant woman' it means 'freeloading bitch'. Sorry but very true.
torresstr8 8 months ago 2
if you can't afford a high maintenance woman, dont get one. simples!
Ladytan2588 8 months ago
Very Good, a lot of people have bought the lie that money brings happiness when anyone with common sense knows after you get what you've been dreaming of you want more... to be happy is to be content now and a soul mate costs nothing!
Reddigitalmusic 8 months ago
Nice piece Christiana. You make an important distinction between an archetypal WAG and a woman who demands excellence in her life. Two-ends of the spectrum guys.
I'm not sure you were inviting topics for discussion, but i'd love to hear your thoughts on whether you, as a Christian girl, could ever entertain the notion of a romantic relationship with a self-defined Atheist. Would the subsequent drive to convert each other tear you apart? Or could you remain respectful to each other's beliefs?
goldfishwars 8 months ago 2
nice 1 thanks xxxx!
bidemi86 8 months ago
Men ask for favour and you will get the right woman. Women dont go looking, wait, delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart........
messtomessage1 8 months ago
Adam fell asleep to find his eve. He knew his asignment to tend the garden. She came into his life to be a help mate in his God given asignment. A man must know hi asignment in life given by God and a woman must look for a man who knows his purpose, because if you are to be together you are going to go in your God given role the same way to be a help and in this the help is reciprocated where you fulfuill your destiny in God
messtomessage1 8 months ago
I dont normally comment, but i watched most of ur 28 videos whilst readn. I have to admit most of the things u say makes so much logical sense. You offer thought provoking ideas. Newayz, this my way of giving a compliment, keep up the gd work. I pray that God continues to bless u n increase u. Coz nwdays most ppl wanna talk but aint really saying anything. Anything thats of gr8 value.
2kay4real 8 months ago
As always: fantastic video!
agirlcanmack 8 months ago
i think the gold is really fly too! looks amazing w ur skin tone. awesome video btw ^_^
Uniqu3Mami 8 months ago
You are really pretty
and love what you saying
xxxWorthyOfLovexxx 8 months ago
I haven't heard someone use the word "fly" to describe something cool..in like forever! Im going to help bring it back... ( :
lalasayslaugh 8 months ago
A wise woman looks at wat drives a man a foolish woman looks at wat a man drives! Excellent! wher did yu read this?
layalovesvlogs 8 months ago 2
your back yay!!!!
loving the hair
holidaygh3 8 months ago
wonderful words of wisdom!
layafunkay 8 months ago
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can i show you how to make oreos?
PAPAEMUSIC 8 months ago
Love it and love you...I loved especially when you said " a wise woman looks at what drives a man...a foolish woman looks at what a man drives"...Keep it up!
damefine22 8 months ago
I absolutely agree with you!
cosmiikluv 8 months ago
@cosmiikluv hiii i watch yur videosss i love them ! random just fout id sayyy :-P lol
layalovesvlogs 8 months ago