I think blessed are the forgetful (Nietzsche quote) must be taken in the ''pardon'' way, I think you shouldn't regret anything in life. There's also Freud and Jung references in the movie, which is always great.
@lovemyselfforever86 the lesson of this movie is that deleting someone or something is not always that good!..because these people-things are our memories..whats the point deleting them?We go back to the start?
We learn from our mistakes..we dont delete them ;)
@natalie29ga I like Clem's line about how she hates men who think she completes them or somehow can fix them as she's, "Just a fucked up girl trying to find her own peace of mind." That line was so true & so classic. If you can't go into a relationship accepting of each others faults then ur in the wrong relationship b/c people don't change, not really. U have to be willing to accept the good, bad, & ugly along w/the gr8, memorable, & amazing that comes with it.
Really great movie. Maybe the best ever! I thought at the end it was just saying that we go through the whole thing of falling in love, being ok for awhile, then things fall apart and you just go back and do it again. In the real world we have to do it with different partners. Here they could start again because their memories were erased.
@tsanur I don't see that it has to be w/different people b/c in the end, they knew they had each other erased; they knew the worst of each other. It was a matter of remembering that moment in time & holding onto it thru the good, bad, & difficult times to something that could be potentially life-altering. I'm coming from one with a BS in self-destructing to avoid what I thought would always be fallout in a bad sense yet on 4/6, I'll celebrate my 20+ wedding anniversary. What's that say?
@PaisleyPlace At the end she says she will get bored and feel trapped and that he will think bad things about her. And he says yes that is true. So they are about to do it again with each other, but only because they have no memory of how it went bad. That is the view of the movie maker as I see it. It doesn't have to be that way. Lots of relationships don't go that way. Mine did. May you hang on to the moment and celebrate 50 years together some day!
@tsanur They had their tapes that the secretary sent to them so they know where they screwed up & that gives them the opportunity to get it right this time, so to speak... I think that gives hope at least. Btw, April will put us at the halfway mark (married); we're much closer as a couple b/c it took 5yrs for me to be comfortable enough to say yes to the proposal & then actually do it. It's not been easy but we've weathered the storms. Hoping we can keep doing so too.
@PaisleyPlace Good point about the tapes. And Joel did try to keep his memories and in that way save the relationship. And you could argue that because Joel fought so valiantly, that is the reason that the Dr. came to the house and that resulted in the secretary mailing out the tapes. And thus the ending is hopeful. I hope you both keep it going also. Very sweet.
@tsanur it's just a cautionary tale about how you shouldn't be scared of going into relationships, even if there is going to be pain and all that shit that goes along with it.
you know, it took me a long time to understand the ending.. but i finally got it. Even tho they are going to break up in the future, they are going to enjoy it
@766Light766 well it can go either way they can stay together and not break up since they learn their lesson or like you say enjoy the time whats left with each other
@realplutonicmind9 I actually disagree with you. I just think that, this time the reason for this scene, the reason that they made mary send back all the tapes is to show the audience that they could have a second chance. That instead of forgetting their mistakes, they should learn from it. Joel, in the movie had said that he would change things, in the scene in montauk, where they were at the last memory, he regretted what he'd done. He wished that he'd done things different. And he did.
@hyperzz018 That is an interesting take on things. I guess I will have to watch the movie again! I was puzzled about Mary sending back the tapes. I don't remember that scene at Montauk of the last memory. Thanks for commenting here.
Como cambiarían las relaciones si uno solo aprendiera a decir: "ok".
hiroka29 1 week ago
Okay.
PhoebeTom97 1 week ago
I dream of someone being ok with me....
senchaisgreen 2 weeks ago
really would it be too much to go through with this clip to the end???
Phersephoie 2 weeks ago
I think blessed are the forgetful (Nietzsche quote) must be taken in the ''pardon'' way, I think you shouldn't regret anything in life. There's also Freud and Jung references in the movie, which is always great.
JonathanArsenault12 2 weeks ago
try not to cry when this scene shows up...
while cutting onions
and having a midget kicking your balls
JonathanArsenault12 2 weeks ago
You can erase memories but you can't erase love :)
myusername94 4 weeks ago 4
@myusername94 you squeezed the whole movie in one sentence!
TheILOVEMJMImiss 3 weeks ago
BLESSED ARE THE FORGETFUL...
I think i might believe that...
Who knows?
slumanythingsiro 4 weeks ago
"Ok" and they jumped in the depth together.. :-)
TheEennaamvooryoutub 4 weeks ago
so the lesson of the movie is that you can't erase someone completely, i guess.
lovemyselfforever86 1 month ago
@lovemyselfforever86 the lesson of this movie is that deleting someone or something is not always that good!..because these people-things are our memories..whats the point deleting them?We go back to the start?
We learn from our mistakes..we dont delete them ;)
slumanythingsiro 4 weeks ago
I'm REALLY in love with this movie... <3
TheEennaamvooryoutub 1 month ago
@pasleypace well put, the pain is worth the moments of love shared
woodlpve 1 month ago
Ι'll get bored with you and feel trapped because that's what happens with me .
natalie29ga 1 month ago 2
@natalie29ga I like Clem's line about how she hates men who think she completes them or somehow can fix them as she's, "Just a fucked up girl trying to find her own peace of mind." That line was so true & so classic. If you can't go into a relationship accepting of each others faults then ur in the wrong relationship b/c people don't change, not really. U have to be willing to accept the good, bad, & ugly along w/the gr8, memorable, & amazing that comes with it.
PaisleyPlace 1 month ago 4
i love this movie..
NatacaBurnley 2 months ago
"ok" best movie line ever.
PHANTASTIKMUSIK 3 months ago 33
@PHANTASTIKMUSIK That is a great line! Thanks for pointing it out.
tsanur 1 month ago
@PHANTASTIKMUSIK 100% agreed.
brunofujii 1 month ago
I love the movie and wonder if that happened to me would I still fall in the with that same man again.
happygirl925 3 months ago
@happygirl925 I would fall in love with you so easily. I have an honest to God feeling that you are beautiful both on the outside and on the inside.
Maloperverso 3 months ago
Really great movie. Maybe the best ever! I thought at the end it was just saying that we go through the whole thing of falling in love, being ok for awhile, then things fall apart and you just go back and do it again. In the real world we have to do it with different partners. Here they could start again because their memories were erased.
tsanur 4 months ago 12
@tsanur yes, its good, then ok, then falls apart, then good again. just the way the cookie crumbles. much love
Izzy8u 4 months ago
@tsanur I don't see that it has to be w/different people b/c in the end, they knew they had each other erased; they knew the worst of each other. It was a matter of remembering that moment in time & holding onto it thru the good, bad, & difficult times to something that could be potentially life-altering. I'm coming from one with a BS in self-destructing to avoid what I thought would always be fallout in a bad sense yet on 4/6, I'll celebrate my 20+ wedding anniversary. What's that say?
PaisleyPlace 1 month ago
@PaisleyPlace At the end she says she will get bored and feel trapped and that he will think bad things about her. And he says yes that is true. So they are about to do it again with each other, but only because they have no memory of how it went bad. That is the view of the movie maker as I see it. It doesn't have to be that way. Lots of relationships don't go that way. Mine did. May you hang on to the moment and celebrate 50 years together some day!
tsanur 1 month ago
@tsanur They had their tapes that the secretary sent to them so they know where they screwed up & that gives them the opportunity to get it right this time, so to speak... I think that gives hope at least. Btw, April will put us at the halfway mark (married); we're much closer as a couple b/c it took 5yrs for me to be comfortable enough to say yes to the proposal & then actually do it. It's not been easy but we've weathered the storms. Hoping we can keep doing so too.
PaisleyPlace 1 month ago
@PaisleyPlace Good point about the tapes. And Joel did try to keep his memories and in that way save the relationship. And you could argue that because Joel fought so valiantly, that is the reason that the Dr. came to the house and that resulted in the secretary mailing out the tapes. And thus the ending is hopeful. I hope you both keep it going also. Very sweet.
tsanur 1 month ago
@tsanur or because what they had was never really over to begin with...
piXiewonder 1 month ago
@tsanur it's just a cautionary tale about how you shouldn't be scared of going into relationships, even if there is going to be pain and all that shit that goes along with it.
herpderpmonkey 3 weeks ago
^___^
VereanceNess 5 months ago
you know, it took me a long time to understand the ending.. but i finally got it. Even tho they are going to break up in the future, they are going to enjoy it
766Light766 6 months ago
@766Light766 well it can go either way they can stay together and not break up since they learn their lesson or like you say enjoy the time whats left with each other
AnimeDollxAna2 6 months ago
@766Light766 IMO, the loop at the end makes it clear that well...they loop.
They break up, erase their memories, meet again, have a relationship, break up, erase their memories...
realplutonicmind9 6 months ago
@realplutonicmind9 I actually disagree with you. I just think that, this time the reason for this scene, the reason that they made mary send back all the tapes is to show the audience that they could have a second chance. That instead of forgetting their mistakes, they should learn from it. Joel, in the movie had said that he would change things, in the scene in montauk, where they were at the last memory, he regretted what he'd done. He wished that he'd done things different. And he did.
hyperzz018 5 months ago
@hyperzz018 That is an interesting take on things. I guess I will have to watch the movie again! I was puzzled about Mary sending back the tapes. I don't remember that scene at Montauk of the last memory. Thanks for commenting here.
tsanur 4 months ago
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MartyArreguin39 7 months ago
Another Planet of the Apes remake?!
ForrestBloch94 7 months ago
I would....
KerbyBarriola058 7 months ago
PENICIFY wait. they have pills for that.
JacquelinRadeke681 7 months ago
a spell to selena gomez XD
ZoraPoff60 7 months ago
Me too :D
kavcus 7 months ago
a spell to make him put my comment in his video
loaruk 7 months ago
Omg...Smurfs the movie...smh
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nafoda 7 months ago
James Franco on my birthday and Shia Labeouf on my mom's. Yay :)
liovyp 7 months ago