Dating: Should a Woman Ask a Guy for a Date?

[carlyprinz]

@PlanetAbiola hahaha OMO YORUBA NI MI O

BA WO NI??

[Odakufilms]

I'll pay for the first date, but not more than 50% because then I would feel like I am paying for some wanna be prostitute. I want a life partner, not something bought and paid for.

[MRTEL7777]

MOST DECENT GUYS ARE TOO SHY TO ASK A GIRL OUT. BUT ASSHOLES AREN'T AFRAID CAUSE THEY COULD CARELESS. THAT'S WHY MORE WOMEN ARE SINGLE NOW THEN BEFORE, MOST RELATIONSHIPS END IN DISASTER BECAUSE ASSHOLE AND WOMEN RUN THE DATING GAME, IT IS WHAT IT IS. IF A WOMEN IS EXPECTING A GENTLEMEN TO ASK THEM OUT THEY'RE IN TROUBLE. MY SIS IS HAPPILY MARRIED 15 YRS CAUSE SHE ASK A SHY GUY OUT. SHE KNEW WHAT TIME IT IS.

[Fanna4love]

not in high school apparently ugh boys are so immature

[BigBlaqueKat]

If a man wants you, he will ask you. If you have to ask him, chances are he doesn't want you or you wouldn't have to make the first move. What year it is has nothing to do with it. Intelligence never goes out of style.

[iLMMFAO]

I JUST CAN'T DO IT! It's not that I'm shy cause I'm not, I'm just too proud. :/

[bilynia78521]

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[nddavi58]

if i could change the world according to my rules, i would have it so that women had to learn to approach us men because its usually men that have to buy them things, give them attention, pay for dates, pay for children, etc. What do i get out of it?? XD

[nddavi58]

truth is that you will never go on a date with a woman if you wait for her to make the first move. it simply will not happen because women are allowed to accept that fear of rejection whereas men are not allowed to have that emotion.

[zesarahbear]

Either sex can be the dominant role, my last bf insisted on being the recessive partner and I've found that some guys prefer to be asked out cuz their too shy. And if there is a pattern of the man being the dominant in most relationships it's just left over old beliefs and stereotypes from previous generations, in 10 years or sooner women will be above and beyond the stereotype.

[edgewaters72]

@zesarahbear Yeah, I'm pretty much like your last bf myself. To be honest I've never really been into any of the women I've asked out, cuz its just not my thing to be taking the lead all the time. Maybe I'm a lesbian in a man's body lol, idunno, but ... its just the way I am, and I don't honestly care much if I dont live up to the expectations of my gender anymore. I'm just not into that role, it doesnt do it for me.

[WhyMenLeave]

interesting video... will have a look at the other one... thanks.

[JohnnyBoyBlogs]

A man should try to take the lead in the relationship.

In every relationship there needs to be the masculine and the feminine energies. One dominant and one recessive.

In the gay community, they recognize this too.

[nobodysperfect06]

why? who said so? did God say so? does it say so in the Bible that the guy has to be the leader?

[starfaery]

You can just do it discretely, write a small letter asking him. That's not being too agressive.

[yankee54]

This videon made my day.

I'm gonna ask him out because

I think he needs the little push.

& Well what's the worst that can happen.

Whatever happens happens,

and well there's only one way to find out.

Wish me luck because

I want this guyy so bad<3<3

[jl287771]

so let me get this str8,

you support the gays because they dont have to worry about who should ask who out on dates?

THats kinda whatt you said:)

[jl287771]

antiquated

[chicolofi]

Men also like to be pursued.

[Lilart1981]

Before I watch this video, YES YES YES! Women should definitely approach men. It doesn't make them look easy or slutty, it makes them look CONFIDENT & SELF-ASSURED! Comfortable in their own skin! Plus I hear so many females complain about the type of guys that approaches them so that would cut a lot of BS out of the equation!

I think "picky women" should DEFINITELY approach men!

I have noticed that women don't have any qualms about approaching a man with lots of money though! Hmmm....

[Chaos2ThaWorld1]

ill be suprise the any girl will ask me out first Ill b even more thrilled if they ask 2 marry me

[joyariffic]

i think its fine for a woman to ask a man out but im not doing it. ill ask him out for the 3rd date or later but not for the first date. if hes in to me he will ask me out

[erminthon88]

he said "i'm lesbian"?

[Machelle3200]

i'm sorry..buti aint asking no dude out.....lol

[ChaosButterfly8]

Should a Woman Ask a Guy for a Date?

Yes, if you don't care where the relationship goes.

If he is into you he will ask you out.

If he's into you and he doesn't ask you out do you really want a man with no balls?

[nobodysperfect06]

thats bullshit

[hourglas39]

Depends on what your asking him out for, if you know what he's "Packing" then Hell yeah and take that Pony for a Ride ! LOL

Just Kidding :) heheh

Yeah, if your both feeling each other, than I'd say go for it. :)

Life is too short for Regrets :)

[Chaos2ThaWorld1]

can women even b perverted?

[PlanetAbiola]

huh?

[Chicago10281]

@PlanetAbiola I thought it was the other way around! Men should (and usuallydo)ask women out for dates, but, I can see where you're coming from! Women should ask men out for dates!

[gilimiligili]

Women should defintely ask men out , and women should also propose to men.

in 2010 it doesn't have to be a question at all.

P.S. look at my channel , i have 2 videos , one is for how women can propose to men , and two is how women can ask men out.

[PlanetAbiola]

Sounds good, G! xo

[SanjulaFdo]

You Rock my World Abiola!

[PlanetAbiola]

Thank you, All Star!!! xo

[HappyNipples07]

I love to ask my men out!

[Demetrifan1990]

A guy like me never let's a girl ask me out! Mans job!

[PlanetAbiola]

I feel you. Personal choice.

[nobodysperfect06]

why? geeze

[plox4duh]

Outstanding work Abiola! You are the queen!

[PlanetAbiola]

Thank you!

[tranceissoawesome]

Just in time for V-day! I needed the tips....thanks!

[PlanetAbiola]

You're welcome, Trance.

[nationoftrancextc]

This girl knows her dating tips. Nice work!

[Caldwellbbh]

She is fine!!! whoa!

[Byrontions]

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[Calvertbbn]

Guys that don't ask a gil out don't stand a chance in the relationship!

[Burtonbbn]

I think women should do whatever they want to do.  Ask or be asked...it's all good in my book!

[Lewissgt]

I love your advice! Thanks!

[Hunterkji]

I am loving this girl!

[PlanetAbiola]

;-D

[Henrygjko]

I watch you all the time!

[PlanetAbiola]

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[Alexhkj]

I love this girl!

[Crosbybhty]

Making love is the point. Who cares who asks who out!

[PlanetAbiola]

;-D

[Maxghkl]

well why not!?

[Adamdsh]

I have a blast watching you girlfriend!

[PlanetAbiola]

Thanks Adam!! xoxo

[Victoriafjli]

I think it's all about the person and their personality!

[Johndfgaf]

no no no....step ya game up playa

[Conanbghjcv]

I think it is okay for women to ask men out!

[PlanetAbiola]

It's hard to be lonely if you don't wanna be, right? :-)

[kimhessdivorceguru]

Work it girl!

[PlanetAbiola]

Thank you, Kim!

[Interscope100]

HELL YEAH!!!!

[PlanetAbiola]

Nice!! lol

[mikethemasterdater]

Funny, we responded the opposite!

[PlanetAbiola]

Not surprising!! lol

[LuvemOrLeavem]

I love the joke you opened with, very funny. Ladies like you can pull off asking a guy out without looking too eager, but I think that a lot of women aren't cut out for this (you know, the mere mortals lol)

[PlanetAbiola]

Tina, you're too sweet. lol

[RealGurl920]

good video, abiola as always.

[PlanetAbiola]

Thank you!! xo

[BlueSilence1985]

I agree, but sometimes shyness gets in the way though. :))

[PlanetAbiola]

Start small. Invite him to a party with you to just "hang out." :-)

[Pirate7X]

I would go for that and I wouldn't even see the seduction coming. I'm accustomed to pursuing the woman but classy approach wins me over strong.

[PlanetAbiola]

Yes -- Classy is a must!

[nando1635]

PERVS, KNOCK IT OFF! hehehe Love it and thanks for having our back on the NOH8!

[Artsamust]

Cute vid Abiola...this is the year of breaking out the box...I say YES..let's do it ladies...it can't hurt...

[rosebud1985]

totally agree with you Abiola =)

[PlanetAbiola]

Yes! We missed you, Rosebud!! :-) Make sure you enter the lip gloss and Queen Latifah DVD giveaways. xo