I don't consider myself Gay.. Don't like the label.. but I like guys :/
Is that a problem when it comes to actually being myself though?
In the past, when people ask me I've just said "yeah im gay" because I hate having to explain the whole "im not gay, I'm 'into guys'" thing... I've never felt comfortable with saying im gay, never thought that i was and still dont think that i am...
:/ This is frustrating for me because when I was 10 I kissed a girl and I really liked it and I'm attracted to girls so I think I'm Bi, I suggested it to my mom and she just started laughing and had the look that says "Are you kidding?", to be LGBT is also illegal in my country, you get the death penalty or life imprisonment :/ but I'm glad many people are able to come out of the closet because It makes life so much simpler and better for those people<3
I'm so glad you stuck up for yourself like that, it reminds me of my friend but he came out to his mom during a fight and right when he said she stopped in mid sentence and gave him a hug and now they're alot closer
iv known that im bisexual since i was 11 but iv been suppressing it for 2 years. iv just now recently accepted myself. im now 13 years old. i feel whole alot better. Only a few friends know and their completely fine with it. which is surprising because i live in a very homophobic town. Since i accepted myself i feel like im floating on air. And just recently a friend who didnt now until now ask if im bi. and all i could think is how he knew that. and all he told me is i look it,
@Missidepain Well i am so happy that you feel like this so young so much better then getting to like 20 and thinking crap what have i been doing to myself! Proud! ^_^
@RolyUnGashaaHD Im glad your proud. And here's an update. A couple days ago i manged to tell 2 other people. One of person was like ok cool. The second person just started to jump up and down. and it turns out she's bi too. i feel even better because more people have accepted me.
omg, i did the whole dating girls thing, holy shit, been there done that, thank you omg ppl flip out when they found out i dated girls when i was a kid.
Roland, your coming out story is great. I never get tired of hearing coming out stories; they're inspirational and remind me of the liberating feeling that you mentioned of just saying, "I'm gay!" Everyone I know knows I'm gay and when I was growing up, I was also picked on and tortured in school, blah blah blah. Your joyful personality and positivity really are uplifting. Thank you, Roland, for being you.
Totally can't remember if I have commented on this before. 11 is very young indeed! But with your sister accepting it then it was probably a good thing as you had that support there :). Good for you for sticking up to your granddad's brother!
@RolyUnGashaaHD Roland, I absolutely adore you! I'm an American girl who is struggling on who I am. I've been trying to tell my real dad that I'm bi-sexual, but he's a huge homophobic person. I think it's time to let my dad know. All of my family knows except for my dad, grandma, granddad, and my aunts and uncles. I love you Roland! Thank you for uploading this video!
Omg! :( I feel EXACTLY how you felt years ago, Y'know Im 17 now, and I totally suppress my homosexuality (not that I am feminine, but people would certainly know...)
Sadly my family and country wouldn't be so friendly with me like your case... so... yeah xD I hope I find someone lovely in a gay-friendly country in the future and be relaxed with who I am :)
Okay... so i stopped watching yhu for a while... and it was okay I guess but then I checked muah email, and i had like 20 emails from youtube saying "RolyUnGashaahd just uploaded another video!" I then looked back like on the days that i didn't watch yhu and they were terrible! I lost my gay pride! =( so im turning back in! <3 missed u!
@RolyUnGashaaHD haha glad to be back! lol I honestly don't know what the hell im gonna do once yhu stop making videos! don't do it n e time soon! or i'd have like a gay pride break down! don't want to turn straight on yhu! XD lol
Haha I could relate to so much of this, I feel all warm and fuzzy inside after watching it now ^.^ Thank you for sharing yourself with the world Roland. I love you =D
I'm 22, almost 23 and although a few coworkers now, the only family member that knows is my brother and he refuses to believe that this is who I truly am. He thinks I'm a straight person who is struggling with gay thoughts. And because I thought he would be the easiest of my family to come out to, it's made it a bit more difficult for me to want to come out to my sister and parents, though I think, my sister will take a bit easier, I'm still worried.
I know that I'm on my own and there's nothing they can do to try to change me, but they're my family and I value their opinions, especially those about me.
@8913151822 Oh i am sorry it was like that but please don't let it bring you down or anything stay proud <3 its gonna be one of them things that may seem a bit weird at first but in time they will understand more
I finally came out to my dad last week which felt good he gave me a hug and just said he was thinking while we were sitting there just tell me your gay I just called him a git and said he could of said something coz we were sitting in silence for 20 mins lol I haven't told anyone else yet but im just waiting for the right time to tell my mum before I announce it to the rest of the world but I can't wait to get started with my new gay world, I luv your vids and keep up the good work your doing XD
it's so true that once you come out fully you feel a lot better. i came out in june-ish and now, at university, i really embrace it and i'm having a GREAT time. Roly you're amazing, really. It's so cool that you shared your coming out story, it will permit others to have an example :)
my mom said that i was to young to know about my sexuality i only told my and they believed and my mom thought that it was bullshit so am i still technically in the closet or not?
I have never said that I was gay, everybody in school just always said I was with the names and I was just so confused not knowing what that was in secondary school and ive just always been judged by the way I act even when people ask I just can't bring myself to say it, I swear a piece of me dies every time it comes up in a convosation and when you were talking about saying it to the mirror I started to cry because I find it so hard and because I have autism its even harder for me :'( xx
@Robabob1994 and even talking to people face to face is hard who I have known for years its not easy and the shit I get of christians about 'Ughhhhh its a choice, why would god create gay people' if they suffered in school like we had to they would know how hard it is </3 x
@thyago1211 click "view all comments", ctrl+f and type in whatever username you want to find =)
anyway, he said that he was willing to accept his son's sexualtity, but as soon as his son started to say that he was born this way, mr supertruth found it offensive to his seed.... so he threw his son out of the house.... SO supportive of him =)
Coming out was the hardest thing for me, though, my dad knows, but he didn't find it out from me, he found it out from my mother. I was angry, and my dad doesn't really care for me any more since he found out since he's very old fashioned, but I am who I am ~<3
im going thru some crazy shit and all the emotions are overriding my logical mind amd you really have been keeping me going thru the internal battle tha im going thru thank you and i love you i feel like you can understand internal conflict and know how i feel
heyy im gay but im not out yet but listening to people like you being so proud and comfortable is inspiring...im almost getting to that point where im comfortable enough to tell my best friend...all i want to say is thank you :)
I think this is so inspiring because I know a lot of guys that would not be comfortable about coming out. Everyone has haters, but like you said they're not you and the don't know how you feel. You are so brave and confident. You set a great example for others who are homosexual, and you give them a motivation to tell their loved ones and friends that they are gay or lesbian. I love all of your videos and this is my favorite because you are so colorful(: UnGashaa!
I think that coming out is one of the bravest things that someone can do. When my friend came out to me he said how it was like a giant weight had been lifted off of his shoulders since he had been so scared. To think that some people throw that back in your face is just insane.
And for @SuperTruth77, your son must have been so scared for years and throwing it in his face was just stupid.
I had gf's thru high school, one gf for each year, when they would start to get too serious I would stop things. One of them tried to get things going too far one night and I freaked out, because there was no way I wanted to have sex with a girl. I broke up with her the next day. LOL The sad part is having to deceive people and lie everyday to hide who we truly are and for that I am sorry to all the people that I lied to and deceived. Hopefully one day we wont need to hide as kids.
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I must admit I was a bit disappointed when my 19YO Son ‘came out’ as being Gay, but ultimately I was fully prepared to respect his lifestyle choices.
However, he then started coming out with some crap about being “born this way”, effectively blaming ME & MY SEED for providing a homosexual genetic trait. I’ve no time for that kind of offloading of responsibility, so threw him out the house. We haven’t spoken since & that’s fine by me.
@SuperTruth77 That is horrible thing to do. That is your child and people like you don't deserve to have kids you should love them no matter what.. What kinda parent are you who can say & Do that!?.. No one has a choice in there sexuality. You are born this way. If you think its so easy to choose, why don't you be gay for a day??? If its that easy to change and find the other sex attractive then do it!
@SuperTruth77 You should get over yourself and this Stupid pride you have about not making gay kids. This is not about you this is about your son and how he feels. Think about what this is doing to him to know his dad did this? its people like you that make me sick and make kids scared to come out to everyone! I suggest you stop making this about you and go see and say sorry to your son coz he may not show it but this will be so hard for him UGH!
@SuperTruth77 this makes me sad :( my best friend is gay and for a while his mom wanted to send him off to straight camp, which BROKE HIS HEART. for the longest time they weren't on good terms, and it really affected him. he did terribly in school and had the worst attitude towards life, but now she accepts him for who he is and he is so much better now. i really hope that you can eventually patch things up with your son because things can end horribly when kids aren't close with their parents.
it was long but it left me in happy tears. im 21 and only just now begining to accept the fact that i'm a female who likes females. and youre right, it is a huge, orgasm-like feeling to release that pressure. you are quite blessed dear.
You're great, Roland!! I'm straight & can't exactly empathize w/ everything you've been through. But I definitely understand insecurity & I envy your confidence & security you now have. P.S. You & Ross are SO cute!! UnGashaa!! :)
Heya! I was coming out too slow but succesfuly and I was happy doing it slow, then I told this one girl and she seemed alright with it, then I get all these texts asking me if im actually gay because so and so told me and w/e, and as you were I was truely and uturly shocked, She is now out of my life and have no absolute contact with that person, but all and all I love your videos and your awesome :)
I saw my brother go through a terrible time when he came out in his freshman year of high school, which made me decide not to come out until college. It was an easier time, and though it was hard emotionally, I think it was the right choice for me. Everyone should come out exactly when THEY feel it's most appropriate.
I loved your story. I can sympathize to a certain degree as all of my gay and lesbian friends took YEARS to tell me (even though I always knew) and I could see in their face how absolutely terrified they were in telling me. It kinda broke my heart that they were so worried I'd hate them but I do understand it's gotta be so tough. :)
@81laurenjean It's so hard to explain in some way like unless you are gay you wont know how scary it is to tell someone but its nice to have your support and it will mean more to them then you think :3
So for istance, as far as I live here I might never freely live my sexuality, have an opened-air relationship with my boyfriend, even adding my parents' hatred towards homosexuality conceived as "against Nature". It's very horrible to feel yourself and to do not have the chance to live how Nature provided you, by not being free to enjoy who you are who you love.
@RolyUnGashaaHD I hope so, though it being so hardly conceiving in such crisis times like these we're living in. But I can't exclude this chance. Maybe Great Britain is a candidate of my next hypothetical future settlements, for I came there last summer (In Surrey actually) and I fell in love with it. I wonder why how many Englishmen are leaving away from your country rather to prefer Italy when your country is more opened-mind than mine...
Hi Roland I can't but sympathise with everything you said because I lived the same you said when I was 11 at school. I like your accent because I have a great deal of British people, my Italian origins, though. Anyway, I think you're more fortunate than me or other guys like us who live in other parts of the world. Here in Italy,even more in southern Italy Church has sadly enclosed people's minds and locked their freely right to decide of their lives and what is really fair and what isn't.
How to get rid of Christian haters whom knock on your door.....
1. GOD made me the way I AM because I exist to be a witness to your accusation that GOD makes mistakes, do you accuse GOD of making mistakes?
2. Why was Moses forbidden from entering the promised land?
3. Do you adhere to all the laws of Moses that were written for the Levite priesthood, or only one of them, and do you accept that pedophilia with rent-boys was the main concern of Moses when authoring this law?
glad you knew who you were at such a yooung age takes some people ages to figure out and sorry to hear that "sam" betrayed your trust. i got ousted on facebook with a fella i was seeing tag me in a relationship with him so that was fun well everyone seem cool with it so worked out in the end.
You go girl! All my gay/lesbian/bisexual/trans friends all knew from an early age too, but had issues accepting it for fear of mistreatment and losing people they love. You're so right, you change so much when you begin to accept yourself, in any way! So happy for you, and love your vids so much! :)
I would have had no problem with a 20 minute version of your story. I think every second of your video can be a piece of hope for the once who haven't any at the moment...
I don't consider myself Gay.. Don't like the label.. but I like guys :/
Is that a problem when it comes to actually being myself though?
In the past, when people ask me I've just said "yeah im gay" because I hate having to explain the whole "im not gay, I'm 'into guys'" thing... I've never felt comfortable with saying im gay, never thought that i was and still dont think that i am...
It's confusing :(
NoteDeath010 15 hours ago
:/ This is frustrating for me because when I was 10 I kissed a girl and I really liked it and I'm attracted to girls so I think I'm Bi, I suggested it to my mom and she just started laughing and had the look that says "Are you kidding?", to be LGBT is also illegal in my country, you get the death penalty or life imprisonment :/ but I'm glad many people are able to come out of the closet because It makes life so much simpler and better for those people<3
JadieWazEre 2 days ago
Thanks Rolland <3
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I'm so glad you stuck up for yourself like that, it reminds me of my friend but he came out to his mom during a fight and right when he said she stopped in mid sentence and gave him a hug and now they're alot closer
britty14100 6 days ago
@britty14100 Well i am happy she was ok with it :)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 day ago
I KNOW RIGHT?! Lol, I think you're an inspiration to others.
GoldHeartLocket 1 week ago
@GoldHeartLocket Thank You means a lot to me :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 day ago
awww u made me cry :) maybe one day i'll be brave enough too
funnykoreantv 1 week ago
@funnykoreantv I am sure you will Stay Proud :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 day ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD Lol. But your gorgeousness makes up for it. :)
1609nh 1 week ago
@1609nh HAHAHAH AWWWW ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 day ago
And i stood there for almost 2 minutes in shock. And when i said yes he looked ok with it. Since that accident i think im ready to tell other people
Missidepain 1 week ago
iv known that im bisexual since i was 11 but iv been suppressing it for 2 years. iv just now recently accepted myself. im now 13 years old. i feel whole alot better. Only a few friends know and their completely fine with it. which is surprising because i live in a very homophobic town. Since i accepted myself i feel like im floating on air. And just recently a friend who didnt now until now ask if im bi. and all i could think is how he knew that. and all he told me is i look it,
Missidepain 1 week ago
@Missidepain Well i am so happy that you feel like this so young so much better then getting to like 20 and thinking crap what have i been doing to myself! Proud! ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD Im glad your proud. And here's an update. A couple days ago i manged to tell 2 other people. One of person was like ok cool. The second person just started to jump up and down. and it turns out she's bi too. i feel even better because more people have accepted me.
Missidepain 1 week ago
@Missidepain OMG YAY!! please keep me updated i love to hear things like this makes me all Happy ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 day ago
wow , imagine how long the video woulda been if he didn't talk so fast !!!! :P
kyle1895 1 week ago
@kyle1895 I know right lol see i like the speed i talk for this reason lol :P
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
I think I love you even more ^///^;
You are so amazing and inspiring Roland!
MrJason300 1 week ago
@MrJason300 Thanks So Much :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
That hit straight to the heart. (Or however that saying goes)
"You're not me, so you don't know how I feel."
Great video Roland. Thanks for telling your story again. =)
MrJason300 1 week ago
@MrJason300 Thank You and yeah well had to do a HD one haha and coz more had happened hehe
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
You are seriously my hero<3(:
Scar5309 2 weeks ago
@Scar5309 Aww That's Cute ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
'You're not me, so you don't know how I feel.' Exactly how I feel. :) You're amazing! -3
GoldHeartLocket 2 weeks ago
@GoldHeartLocket Thanks and yeah used to piss me off when people say you feel like this you're to young
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
omg, i did the whole dating girls thing, holy shit, been there done that, thank you omg ppl flip out when they found out i dated girls when i was a kid.
allthingsOlympic 2 weeks ago
@allthingsOlympic I don't know y though like we r trying to be str8 like
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
Oh my gosh I had to turn the volume down to the lowest setting. Lol lol lol lol lol
1609nh 2 weeks ago
@1609nh Yeah i am quite loud haha
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 week ago
I want a Roland Plushie that when you squeeze says quotes <3 That would be Grreeaatt <3 :3
xxSakuraYuukixx 2 weeks ago
@xxSakuraYuukixx hahaha OMG i should do it haha
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD I'd buy that <3! :3 and it would be adorable!
xxSakuraYuukixx 2 weeks ago
Roland, your coming out story is great. I never get tired of hearing coming out stories; they're inspirational and remind me of the liberating feeling that you mentioned of just saying, "I'm gay!" Everyone I know knows I'm gay and when I was growing up, I was also picked on and tortured in school, blah blah blah. Your joyful personality and positivity really are uplifting. Thank you, Roland, for being you.
jborges311 2 weeks ago
@jborges311 Awww thanks for this comment it was sweet :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
Totally can't remember if I have commented on this before. 11 is very young indeed! But with your sister accepting it then it was probably a good thing as you had that support there :). Good for you for sticking up to your granddad's brother!
Fr4yTheStrings 3 weeks ago
@Fr4yTheStrings yeah i reached a point then where i just needed to say NO FUCK YOU and not just take it
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
have u watch glee ? is a great show ! :)
WeHearGlee 3 weeks ago
@WeHearGlee I Can't Stand It hahaha sorry :P
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD Roland, I absolutely adore you! I'm an American girl who is struggling on who I am. I've been trying to tell my real dad that I'm bi-sexual, but he's a huge homophobic person. I think it's time to let my dad know. All of my family knows except for my dad, grandma, granddad, and my aunts and uncles. I love you Roland! Thank you for uploading this video!
Much Love,
Kaylee! xoxoxoxo
ForeverYours1011 3 weeks ago
@ForeverYours1011 Yeah sounds like you are ready to tell him i really hope everything goes ok :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD I get to see him on Saturday, I'll probably tell him then. :) Thank you Roland! ^_^
ForeverYours1011 2 weeks ago
My first time seeing this video and I love you all ready(not in a gay way)
TheGoldenEyedboy 3 weeks ago
@TheGoldenEyedboy Thanks ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
Omg! :( I feel EXACTLY how you felt years ago, Y'know Im 17 now, and I totally suppress my homosexuality (not that I am feminine, but people would certainly know...)
Sadly my family and country wouldn't be so friendly with me like your case... so... yeah xD I hope I find someone lovely in a gay-friendly country in the future and be relaxed with who I am :)
Sharpeeks 3 weeks ago
@Sharpeeks Awww i hope everything turns out ok i am sure it will until then you always have me and loads of other friends here :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
omg♥ :') what a story, you are right once you accept yourself you recent start living.
jhon1959 3 weeks ago
@jhon1959 Glad you liked it ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 2 weeks ago
I LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO. ROLAND IS THE BEST.
ndclark23 3 weeks ago
@ndclark23 Thank You :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 3 weeks ago
@Kylexxhere ^_^ thanks
RolyUnGashaaHD 3 weeks ago
Okay... so i stopped watching yhu for a while... and it was okay I guess but then I checked muah email, and i had like 20 emails from youtube saying "RolyUnGashaahd just uploaded another video!" I then looked back like on the days that i didn't watch yhu and they were terrible! I lost my gay pride! =( so im turning back in! <3 missed u!
rpence98 4 weeks ago
@rpence98 YAYness Welcome back <3
RolyUnGashaaHD 3 weeks ago 2
@RolyUnGashaaHD haha glad to be back! lol I honestly don't know what the hell im gonna do once yhu stop making videos! don't do it n e time soon! or i'd have like a gay pride break down! don't want to turn straight on yhu! XD lol
rpence98 3 weeks ago
@rpence98 LOL well i am not planning on stopping anytime soon lol as long as there is YouTube i will be here haha =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 3 weeks ago
Haha I could relate to so much of this, I feel all warm and fuzzy inside after watching it now ^.^ Thank you for sharing yourself with the world Roland. I love you =D
MickieManiac505 4 weeks ago
@MickieManiac505 Thanks i am glad you liked it
RolyUnGashaaHD 3 weeks ago
@yasminsomething26 Thanks haha
RolyUnGashaaHD 4 weeks ago
BTW, I absolutely love your accent and voice!!!
8913151822 4 weeks ago
@8913151822 Oh hahaha Thanks ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 4 weeks ago
I'm 22, almost 23 and although a few coworkers now, the only family member that knows is my brother and he refuses to believe that this is who I truly am. He thinks I'm a straight person who is struggling with gay thoughts. And because I thought he would be the easiest of my family to come out to, it's made it a bit more difficult for me to want to come out to my sister and parents, though I think, my sister will take a bit easier, I'm still worried.
8913151822 4 weeks ago
I know that I'm on my own and there's nothing they can do to try to change me, but they're my family and I value their opinions, especially those about me.
8913151822 4 weeks ago
@8913151822 Oh i am sorry it was like that but please don't let it bring you down or anything stay proud <3 its gonna be one of them things that may seem a bit weird at first but in time they will understand more
RolyUnGashaaHD 4 weeks ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD Thank you! :)
8913151822 4 weeks ago
I finally came out to my dad last week which felt good he gave me a hug and just said he was thinking while we were sitting there just tell me your gay I just called him a git and said he could of said something coz we were sitting in silence for 20 mins lol I haven't told anyone else yet but im just waiting for the right time to tell my mum before I announce it to the rest of the world but I can't wait to get started with my new gay world, I luv your vids and keep up the good work your doing XD
TheSmokingkiller 4 weeks ago
@TheSmokingkiller Aww That is so cute haha i am so happy for you good luck with telling everyone else make sure you let me know how it goes =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 4 weeks ago
What did you say your Granddad said? I couldn't quit understand you.
anyway, Roland, I truly love you. You are truly one of my heroes! :3
xpenguinxxrockerx 4 weeks ago
@xpenguinxxrockerx Oh haha he said he is open minded enough to accept mu lifestyle haha he is so funny how he says things
RolyUnGashaaHD 4 weeks ago
it's so true that once you come out fully you feel a lot better. i came out in june-ish and now, at university, i really embrace it and i'm having a GREAT time. Roly you're amazing, really. It's so cool that you shared your coming out story, it will permit others to have an example :)
nano2610 1 month ago
@nano2610 Awesomeness on coming out! i send a big hug hehe :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 4 weeks ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD np :)))
Celihoney 1 month ago
I just love that you describe it like it's an orgasm! Funny.
tutielpapi15 1 month ago
@tutielpapi15 LOL its the only thing i could think of haha idk how to explain things lol
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD Orgasm seems pretty close! hahahaha :P
tutielpapi15 2 weeks ago
your story was adorable. :D yay!
alir20 1 month ago
@alir20 Aww Thanks haha :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
roly you're the best!!! :D
alir20 1 month ago
@alir20 ^_^ Thanks hehe
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD thanks you make me smile everyday
bornthisway913 1 month ago
my mom said that i was to young to know about my sexuality i only told my and they believed and my mom thought that it was bullshit so am i still technically in the closet or not?
animeyaoilover100 1 month ago
@animeyaoilover100 Well you are out but that is a little strange i am sure she will come round to it
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I have never said that I was gay, everybody in school just always said I was with the names and I was just so confused not knowing what that was in secondary school and ive just always been judged by the way I act even when people ask I just can't bring myself to say it, I swear a piece of me dies every time it comes up in a convosation and when you were talking about saying it to the mirror I started to cry because I find it so hard and because I have autism its even harder for me :'( xx
Robabob1994 1 month ago
@Robabob1994 and even talking to people face to face is hard who I have known for years its not easy and the shit I get of christians about 'Ughhhhh its a choice, why would god create gay people' if they suffered in school like we had to they would know how hard it is </3 x
Robabob1994 1 month ago
and the quest for supertruth77's comment begins unless someone plz tell me what he said!!
thyago1211 1 month ago
@thyago1211 click "view all comments", ctrl+f and type in whatever username you want to find =)
anyway, he said that he was willing to accept his son's sexualtity, but as soon as his son started to say that he was born this way, mr supertruth found it offensive to his seed.... so he threw his son out of the house.... SO supportive of him =)
TheWendywonka 1 month ago
Coming out was the hardest thing for me, though, my dad knows, but he didn't find it out from me, he found it out from my mother. I was angry, and my dad doesn't really care for me any more since he found out since he's very old fashioned, but I am who I am ~<3
Toru887 1 month ago
@SuperTruth77 ... You're a bitch. In the most feminine way possible. A bitchy, bitchy, bitch.
ThunderousWake 1 month ago
I really envy you!!! :D
bieboo16 1 month ago
@bieboo16 You're amazing ^^
bieboo16 1 month ago
im going thru some crazy shit and all the emotions are overriding my logical mind amd you really have been keeping me going thru the internal battle tha im going thru thank you and i love you i feel like you can understand internal conflict and know how i feel
bornthisway913 1 month ago
@bornthisway913 Awww I send a hug to you stay strong and proud ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
roland i love uuu!!! <3
Celihoney 1 month ago
@Celihoney Awww Thanks :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
what is UnGashaa?
irishdude69 1 month ago
@irishdude69 watch vedm day 14 i think
bornthisway913 1 month ago
I LOVE YOU ROLAND<3333
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@x3Caitiiex3 Hehhe Awwww :3 thanks
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD no problem you are awesomeee!
x3Caitiiex3 1 month ago
hii roland can u plzz tell me what does UnGasha means?? <3<3 thnxx and btw i loove u so much and u r sooo cute when u say ur name(RolyUnGasha) :P <3
zaar072 1 month ago
@zaar072 /watch?v=OF4LvdpTZM4 its on that video :)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I am bi and I am proud! I Love You, Roland, stay strong! x
daylighterka 1 month ago
@daylighterka Yay good for you :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
heyy im gay but im not out yet but listening to people like you being so proud and comfortable is inspiring...im almost getting to that point where im comfortable enough to tell my best friend...all i want to say is thank you :)
lilcj88 1 month ago
@lilcj88 Aww no probs its what i am here for stay proud =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I think this is so inspiring because I know a lot of guys that would not be comfortable about coming out. Everyone has haters, but like you said they're not you and the don't know how you feel. You are so brave and confident. You set a great example for others who are homosexual, and you give them a motivation to tell their loved ones and friends that they are gay or lesbian. I love all of your videos and this is my favorite because you are so colorful(: UnGashaa!
TheJJBaby14 1 month ago
I think that coming out is one of the bravest things that someone can do. When my friend came out to me he said how it was like a giant weight had been lifted off of his shoulders since he had been so scared. To think that some people throw that back in your face is just insane.
And for @SuperTruth77, your son must have been so scared for years and throwing it in his face was just stupid.
pancakekatiekoo 1 month ago
I had gf's thru high school, one gf for each year, when they would start to get too serious I would stop things. One of them tried to get things going too far one night and I freaked out, because there was no way I wanted to have sex with a girl. I broke up with her the next day. LOL The sad part is having to deceive people and lie everyday to hide who we truly are and for that I am sorry to all the people that I lied to and deceived. Hopefully one day we wont need to hide as kids.
smjack2 1 month ago
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Fucking faggots
callum10101 1 month ago
@callum10101 WHY are you even watching this video/taking the time to be so hateful???
KyliesMCJ 1 month ago
I friggen love you....period!
pvampire 1 month ago
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I must admit I was a bit disappointed when my 19YO Son ‘came out’ as being Gay, but ultimately I was fully prepared to respect his lifestyle choices.
However, he then started coming out with some crap about being “born this way”, effectively blaming ME & MY SEED for providing a homosexual genetic trait. I’ve no time for that kind of offloading of responsibility, so threw him out the house. We haven’t spoken since & that’s fine by me.
SuperTruth77 1 month ago
@SuperTruth77 That is horrible thing to do. That is your child and people like you don't deserve to have kids you should love them no matter what.. What kinda parent are you who can say & Do that!?.. No one has a choice in there sexuality. You are born this way. If you think its so easy to choose, why don't you be gay for a day??? If its that easy to change and find the other sex attractive then do it!
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago 33
@SuperTruth77 You should get over yourself and this Stupid pride you have about not making gay kids. This is not about you this is about your son and how he feels. Think about what this is doing to him to know his dad did this? its people like you that make me sick and make kids scared to come out to everyone! I suggest you stop making this about you and go see and say sorry to your son coz he may not show it but this will be so hard for him UGH!
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago 25
@RolyUnGashaaHD You are such a DOUCHEBAG that I want to kick you
ninjadeathfox 1 month ago
@SuperTruth77 this makes me sad :( my best friend is gay and for a while his mom wanted to send him off to straight camp, which BROKE HIS HEART. for the longest time they weren't on good terms, and it really affected him. he did terribly in school and had the worst attitude towards life, but now she accepts him for who he is and he is so much better now. i really hope that you can eventually patch things up with your son because things can end horribly when kids aren't close with their parents.
DarkSheikah11 1 month ago
@SuperTruth77 Wow you fucking asshole. Your son WAS born that way and you need to get the fuck over it. It's about him, not you, selfish asshole.
AlyceLovezHIM 1 month ago
@SuperTruth77 What an ASS you are!! Really they should put you in jail for this!!!
bieboo16 1 month ago
it was long but it left me in happy tears. im 21 and only just now begining to accept the fact that i'm a female who likes females. and youre right, it is a huge, orgasm-like feeling to release that pressure. you are quite blessed dear.
evelynsairi 1 month ago
@evelynsairi Aww i am sure everything will get better and better from now on :) stay proud <3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
You're great, Roland!! I'm straight & can't exactly empathize w/ everything you've been through. But I definitely understand insecurity & I envy your confidence & security you now have. P.S. You & Ross are SO cute!! UnGashaa!! :)
kristengrace14823 1 month ago 4
@kristengrace14823 Aww Thanks so much
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
omg, Sporty Spice? really? why Sporty wthell :D ???
youre more of a Posh Spice….with Scary Spice's stamina
savoneo 1 month ago
@savoneo Not when i was a kid haha
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I love how you censor yourself!
KyliesMCJ 1 month ago
@KyliesMCJ Well i don't normally but coz of the kinda video this is i think it was better if i did hahaha
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD LoL! I understand.
KyliesMCJ 1 month ago
I love you, I love you, I love you <33333 You're inspirational :*
AlfreRod 1 month ago
@AlfreRod <3 ^_^ AWwwww
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
Heya! I was coming out too slow but succesfuly and I was happy doing it slow, then I told this one girl and she seemed alright with it, then I get all these texts asking me if im actually gay because so and so told me and w/e, and as you were I was truely and uturly shocked, She is now out of my life and have no absolute contact with that person, but all and all I love your videos and your awesome :)
Megakent11 1 month ago
@Megakent11 Thank You =) and yeah no time in our lives for people like that
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
Notice how this video has 0 dislikes. <3
byline320 1 month ago
@byline320 There is now hahaha but i don't care i would rater have another dislike then nothing at all lol still gets me up the video lists haha
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
BEEEHEEEEHEEEEHEEEE ;D im on my old account :3 p.s. its me SARAH :D
cupcakesrock2100 1 month ago
@cupcakesrock2100 Oh HAHA HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@LewisButlerPRO You are very sweet ^_^
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
LUV U ROLAND 4 EVA
luvsjadensmith 1 month ago
@luvsjadensmith Aww thanks :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
you are very strong person and i love you :)
laecuanena90 1 month ago
@laecuanena90 Thanks and yeah i am life is to short to be scared of who you are
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I saw my brother go through a terrible time when he came out in his freshman year of high school, which made me decide not to come out until college. It was an easier time, and though it was hard emotionally, I think it was the right choice for me. Everyone should come out exactly when THEY feel it's most appropriate.
JamieDanger 1 month ago
@JamieDanger yeah i agree no one should be forced out or feel like they are when its the right time you just know =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I loved your story. I can sympathize to a certain degree as all of my gay and lesbian friends took YEARS to tell me (even though I always knew) and I could see in their face how absolutely terrified they were in telling me. It kinda broke my heart that they were so worried I'd hate them but I do understand it's gotta be so tough. :)
81laurenjean 1 month ago
@81laurenjean It's so hard to explain in some way like unless you are gay you wont know how scary it is to tell someone but its nice to have your support and it will mean more to them then you think :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
So for istance, as far as I live here I might never freely live my sexuality, have an opened-air relationship with my boyfriend, even adding my parents' hatred towards homosexuality conceived as "against Nature". It's very horrible to feel yourself and to do not have the chance to live how Nature provided you, by not being free to enjoy who you are who you love.
PaulosPrince 1 month ago
@PaulosPrince Oh no i am so sorry to hear that maybe you should move away?
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
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@RolyUnGashaaHD I hope so, though it being so hardly conceiving in such crisis times like these we're living in. But I can't exclude this chance. Maybe Great Britain is a candidate of my next hypothetical future settlements, for I came there last summer (In Surrey actually) and I fell in love with it. I wonder why how many Englishmen are leaving away from your country rather to prefer Italy when your country is more opened-mind than mine...
PaulosPrince 1 month ago
Hi Roland I can't but sympathise with everything you said because I lived the same you said when I was 11 at school. I like your accent because I have a great deal of British people, my Italian origins, though. Anyway, I think you're more fortunate than me or other guys like us who live in other parts of the world. Here in Italy,even more in southern Italy Church has sadly enclosed people's minds and locked their freely right to decide of their lives and what is really fair and what isn't.
PaulosPrince 1 month ago
@MatthewHollywood420 Yay Thanks =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
Aww... Roland I like you more and more :)
But you speak so fast that i can not take it at that speed.
I wish you could speak a bit slower.
But keep the same, I'll do my best to enhance my speed :)
lipoosome 1 month ago
@lipoosome LOL this is me slower hahaha but i am glad you like my videos hehe
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
Heyyy :) Gave me a warm feeling, as usual whenever i hear it :3 Love ya <3<3
gothrock88 1 month ago
@gothrock88 Hahahaha OMG you must have seen it 3 times now :P:P:P i am shocked you are not sick of it haha <3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD Haha :P Yep it has been 3 times! I would watch it another 3 times as well if you made them! ^.^ Makes me happy! :) <3<3
gothrock88 1 month ago
<3 :( YOUR AN AMAZING PERSON
donvel39 1 month ago
@donvel39 Thanks :3
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD your welcome :D
donvel39 1 month ago
How to get rid of Christian haters whom knock on your door.....
1. GOD made me the way I AM because I exist to be a witness to your accusation that GOD makes mistakes, do you accuse GOD of making mistakes?
2. Why was Moses forbidden from entering the promised land?
3. Do you adhere to all the laws of Moses that were written for the Levite priesthood, or only one of them, and do you accept that pedophilia with rent-boys was the main concern of Moses when authoring this law?
2012ReturnOfMilkman 1 month ago
@2012ReturnOfMilkman Ooo i will remember this
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
glad you knew who you were at such a yooung age takes some people ages to figure out and sorry to hear that "sam" betrayed your trust. i got ousted on facebook with a fella i was seeing tag me in a relationship with him so that was fun well everyone seem cool with it so worked out in the end.
MuhahahaDan 1 month ago
@MuhahahaDan Aw well i am happy everything is good now =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
BEST. VIDEO. EVER!
RosstorWho 1 month ago
@RosstorWho Thanks Babe :3 i am happy i did it at last after all the time i was saying to you that i was going to do it haha <3 xx
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
@RolyUnGashaaHD thats what im here to do
bornthisway913 1 month ago
I love you!!!
JessicaBabby88 1 month ago
@JessicaBabby88 ^_^ thanks hehe
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
You go girl! All my gay/lesbian/bisexual/trans friends all knew from an early age too, but had issues accepting it for fear of mistreatment and losing people they love. You're so right, you change so much when you begin to accept yourself, in any way! So happy for you, and love your vids so much! :)
yaxofossiad 1 month ago
@yaxofossiad Thank you =) i always like your comments hehe you are always so kind =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
Thank you very much for this Roland.
TehBryanxx 1 month ago
@TehBryanxx No probs i am happy to share the story hehe =)
RolyUnGashaaHD 1 month ago
I would have had no problem with a 20 minute version of your story. I think every second of your video can be a piece of hope for the once who haven't any at the moment...
memamu0 1 month ago