My advice to you is not to go for the thug show aggression every instant guy. The guy who is nice to you and will snap without hesitation if you are disrespected is the one. The women who gave this nice guy a shot were all surprised when we got intimate. I now realize that that was the equated nice with weak. Remember Hulk? "Don't get me mad, you wouldn't like me when I'm mad!" I dare say sometimes the nice guy is nice not because he has to be but because he prefers to be.
GREAT VID. Goin thru that whether it was Verbally or physical is hard to get out. I have been there. Sometimez u can get the same kind "love" So much u feel like itz hard to break free. I think seeking therapy is good. I feel blessed I had my friendz in my life to be my therapy durin those hard timez because u need someone 2 talk to and help u break free from the cage u THINK u cant escape from. Abuse. Even when itz over being Mentally and physical broke down alwayz seem 2 leave a scar tho.
Inadvertly, you attract abuse when you have seen or been the victim of abuse. Every relationship I had was the same person, over and over. I never saw the signs at the beginning. I just began to pull myself out of the cycle. I am thinkin about doing a video response. Great video!!!
Yes, sometimes it has a reverse effect. Witnessing abuse made me very aggressive. My dad verbally abused my mom and physically abused me. I applaud you for going to counseling. I don't know why people think it sooo taboo.
It's good to hear how you stood up fo yourself and got the help you needed, IMO this is the best way to get back at abusers because you become such a stronger person because of it.
mmm. cycles are hard to break. i'm glad you realized that you couldn't do it alone, ms. Lady. too many people think they're too good, or too ashamed, for pyschiatric attention. when you need help, you need help. VERY good insight.
My advice to you is not to go for the thug show aggression every instant guy. The guy who is nice to you and will snap without hesitation if you are disrespected is the one. The women who gave this nice guy a shot were all surprised when we got intimate. I now realize that that was the equated nice with weak. Remember Hulk? "Don't get me mad, you wouldn't like me when I'm mad!" I dare say sometimes the nice guy is nice not because he has to be but because he prefers to be.
xldjvista 1 year ago
GREAT VID. Goin thru that whether it was Verbally or physical is hard to get out. I have been there. Sometimez u can get the same kind "love" So much u feel like itz hard to break free. I think seeking therapy is good. I feel blessed I had my friendz in my life to be my therapy durin those hard timez because u need someone 2 talk to and help u break free from the cage u THINK u cant escape from. Abuse. Even when itz over being Mentally and physical broke down alwayz seem 2 leave a scar tho.
butt3rflykiss3s69 2 years ago
Inadvertly, you attract abuse when you have seen or been the victim of abuse. Every relationship I had was the same person, over and over. I never saw the signs at the beginning. I just began to pull myself out of the cycle. I am thinkin about doing a video response. Great video!!!
deborahdaughter7 2 years ago 2
Yes, sometimes it has a reverse effect. Witnessing abuse made me very aggressive. My dad verbally abused my mom and physically abused me. I applaud you for going to counseling. I don't know why people think it sooo taboo.
deborahdaughter7 2 years ago 2
AN EXCELLENT VIDEO!
sarkazzII 2 years ago
It's good to hear how you stood up fo yourself and got the help you needed, IMO this is the best way to get back at abusers because you become such a stronger person because of it.
Oh yeah, Still lookin good, Ms. Lady ;)
pookiebear97 2 years ago
Great video Lady.
YazziJazzi 2 years ago
mmm. cycles are hard to break. i'm glad you realized that you couldn't do it alone, ms. Lady. too many people think they're too good, or too ashamed, for pyschiatric attention. when you need help, you need help. VERY good insight.
Lojik419 2 years ago
Great advice! Sometimes you have to grab the bull by the horns and go from there.
Magicallydelicious84 2 years ago