After that, try going out somewhere by yourself, like to a park or a cafe. a cafe would be better in my opinion, and make small talk with people. You don't have to go up a say something randomly. Like, just pay them a compliment, like "oh, your purse is so cute!" ect. Or you could go to a book store, and just talk to someone about your interest in books, they will be more open then you think.I promise. I'm also shy too, but iv been working on it for over a year.
really, i think it has to do with yourself. if your uncomfortable with yourself,then you won't be comfortable with other people. do you feel like they judge you? you have to work on your confidence first. like, maybe start off with just going to a chat room. introduce yourself,don't lie about who you are, and just chat randomly with the people there. They also have different chat rooms of your favorite topic. Like take harry potter or twilight for instance, talk about your favorite things.
Im not shy at all but yeah just don't care what people think. Thats how i get by. I just do what i want and say what i want so just do you thing and don't care.
to be honest, I've never really been a shy person. I'm just naturally out there. So, I'll just give you tips on how to be naturally out there. First of all, try to concern yourself as little as possible with what others are thinking of you. Secondly, try, try, and try again to be as confident as possible. Thirdly, pray. Having faith will help you with every one of your problems.
i used to be really shy as well and I just realised I could be so much more in any situation. Being shy was like a defense mechanism for me, like protecting myself from hurt or not making friends and rejection but it was like overnight, that I realised I wanted to take control of my life and not let other people define how I felt. No one external to you has any power over you!
I use to be really shy, but then one day i was just thinkin about things, my life and all that, and realised whats the point in being shy.. then i stopped caring what others thought of me.
After that, i was more open, i could talk to anyone and well... i pretty much stopped being shy, i have the odd problem around a few people.. but normally i can get around it.
My only tip is that you just have to be yourself, if they dont like you, then thats not the kinda person u wana hang with.
hey, yeah that video made sense... like my parents are kinda the same.. cept its a little different, like my mum, only wants to talk.. which is good cause i can listen, and my dad... doesnt really listen, so im guessing thats what went wrong there...
But you have to reaslie, while they are there to love u and all that, there are other people out there that u can talk with and share ur life with.
Well im def your friend!!! And i used to be shy too...like i would go to school some days and literally not say a word all day...then one day i just decided not to be shy anymore...it was weird...but it worked i just went full blast and just simply talked to anyone i met...and to my surprise they talked back lol...i used to think making friends was some kind of task that i needed to do...but i relized that if i just was myself friends soon followed...You Rock...and have fun at home lol
I'LL BE YOUR BFF IF YOU LEARN HOW TO READ HARRYPOTTER FASTER.
teem16 1 year ago
you would speak to everyone on youtube... but not people in your town. k....... pretned there a camera and talk??
xomeggy11 3 years ago
I love ur hair, i have the same color-ish lol..
kaseyodonnell 3 years ago
After that, try going out somewhere by yourself, like to a park or a cafe. a cafe would be better in my opinion, and make small talk with people. You don't have to go up a say something randomly. Like, just pay them a compliment, like "oh, your purse is so cute!" ect. Or you could go to a book store, and just talk to someone about your interest in books, they will be more open then you think.I promise. I'm also shy too, but iv been working on it for over a year.
moonlightblossom 3 years ago
thanks for the advice. I appreciate it. I'll keep it in mind
deepwonderment 3 years ago
really, i think it has to do with yourself. if your uncomfortable with yourself,then you won't be comfortable with other people. do you feel like they judge you? you have to work on your confidence first. like, maybe start off with just going to a chat room. introduce yourself,don't lie about who you are, and just chat randomly with the people there. They also have different chat rooms of your favorite topic. Like take harry potter or twilight for instance, talk about your favorite things.
moonlightblossom 3 years ago
My parents are decepticons
MABAM09 3 years ago
do a video on twilight like edward cullen books
adamdh8 3 years ago
I have read twilight... but after reading BD i don't like it any more. certianly not enough to do an entire video on it.
deepwonderment 3 years ago
omgosh i didn't like breaking dawn either!!! yayyy
it just seemed like a giant fanfic to me, not really my thing. do you listen to mugglecast?? jw
nothingreally1234 3 years ago
i'm not really adam i'm using my brothers account. HAVE U READ TWILIGHT
adamdh8 3 years ago
Im not shy at all but yeah just don't care what people think. Thats how i get by. I just do what i want and say what i want so just do you thing and don't care.
jellyjamsixpack 3 years ago
to be honest, I've never really been a shy person. I'm just naturally out there. So, I'll just give you tips on how to be naturally out there. First of all, try to concern yourself as little as possible with what others are thinking of you. Secondly, try, try, and try again to be as confident as possible. Thirdly, pray. Having faith will help you with every one of your problems.
smileypersons 3 years ago
i used to be really shy as well and I just realised I could be so much more in any situation. Being shy was like a defense mechanism for me, like protecting myself from hurt or not making friends and rejection but it was like overnight, that I realised I wanted to take control of my life and not let other people define how I felt. No one external to you has any power over you!
papershreds 3 years ago
I'll tell you how not to be shy!!! Just stop caring what anyone else thinks. I am the opposite of shy- it works for me!
susanlippincott 3 years ago
I use to be really shy, but then one day i was just thinkin about things, my life and all that, and realised whats the point in being shy.. then i stopped caring what others thought of me.
After that, i was more open, i could talk to anyone and well... i pretty much stopped being shy, i have the odd problem around a few people.. but normally i can get around it.
My only tip is that you just have to be yourself, if they dont like you, then thats not the kinda person u wana hang with.
Unforgiver1 3 years ago
hey, yeah that video made sense... like my parents are kinda the same.. cept its a little different, like my mum, only wants to talk.. which is good cause i can listen, and my dad... doesnt really listen, so im guessing thats what went wrong there...
But you have to reaslie, while they are there to love u and all that, there are other people out there that u can talk with and share ur life with.
Unforgiver1 3 years ago
Ah see I'm shy too so I can't really help you there. haha.
squeegeebean 3 years ago
Well im def your friend!!! And i used to be shy too...like i would go to school some days and literally not say a word all day...then one day i just decided not to be shy anymore...it was weird...but it worked i just went full blast and just simply talked to anyone i met...and to my surprise they talked back lol...i used to think making friends was some kind of task that i needed to do...but i relized that if i just was myself friends soon followed...You Rock...and have fun at home lol
ramillen 3 years ago
I am totally ur bff!!!! no joke! We are going to have to go chill at starbucks and like jam with Annie Lennox!!!!
hugmedonthurtme 3 years ago
sounds fun!
deepwonderment 3 years ago