How do you look at the opposite sex?

[galwithbigshells]

with both eyes open lol

[DawndeeDALLAS]

right...hehe

[jantheempress]

haha, I look but I'm so much on the portrait painting page that I think things like; gee he'd be a good model!

[LeSaMilano]

'you got about 3 seconds and no double takes!' LOL

I don't check out guys like that- I look at both men AND women but not in THAT way - I just love people watching. If anything, I look into the eyes and then the smile.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

right.... men are just different than us. We are above all that...hehe

[moomay11649]

Men are so easily stimulated.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

yes they are~hehe

[Jinxie228]

I look at the women at walk by and I have a bad habit of poking my hubby in the ribs and saying "did you see that woman"? At first he thought it was a trick question. I point out her hair, body and "can you believe she is wearing that". lol He is my best friend so I treat him as one when we are out and about. I see men when they walk by but could care less, I'm only interested in what my hubby has to offer me. It took him a while to get use to me. lol

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Yeah I do that too I guess. But my b/f thinks I even look at a mans crotch...OMG NO! Paaaaaaaalease...hehehe

[TamHickey67]

Yes, I'm a man, and yes, I look, but if I'm honest, if any of those ladies came over to me and told me I had a sexy butt I would run a mile! I'd also question their eyesight lol.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

My question is ...Do men think we think how they think when hey see a woman. Do ya'll think we are checkin out ya'll butts or whatever?

[1mzooty]

I'm seen some women do that actully. Not "all" women are like that though. I don't think "all" men are like that either. I mean heck, im a 35 year old virgin, and I dont look at evry girl I see with lustfull eyes. I look and think "oh shes pretty" or "Oh not my type". Now if the womans drop dead gorus, I wuld probably have a lustfull look. However, those woman (IMHO) are far and few between... I have very very speicfic tastes.. Hard to come by woman of that type.. (but thats probably just me)

[1mzooty]

On the other hand, I guess It depends on what they are wearing also.. If there wearing a maid outfit, or somthing really revealing yeah.. That would gain a lustfull look.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Yes but do you think women look at men the way a guy does?

[1mzooty]

Hrmm, guess I wasen't clear.. That questions not easily answered. Yes, some women do, not not all of em.

[Perroquet51]

Zooty, you and your maid fetish! LOL

[1mzooty]

LOL, well gotta love Maids, the outfits sexy, and such =)

[Perroquet51]

Have you ever seen those exotic male birds with all the plumage that bounce around and make fools of themselves trying to appeal to the female? Meanwhile, she's just lazily pecking at the ground and yawning. People are a bit like that, I think.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

We are more like animals than one would think....hehe

[ghostbusterguy2001]

i stare as though its like no tomorrow but realy all were looking at is ass boobs and legs

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Really!...hehe

[MISSBEBEBLUE]

We had peacocks, the male peacock will left his tail and spread it open into a breath taking fan, sometimes vibrating to add to the excitment, every year they would molt. I remember seeing a male who had molted all but 3 tail feathers, still, he would spread those 3 ragged feathers open, 1 pointed north & 2 pointed east, and strut around the yard looking & acting like the last idiot. My sistah's & I would laugh, because we knew men like that, the Peacock Syndrome we call it.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

OMG that is the funniest story... I have known a few like that myself...lol

[Dlorezzz]

I am attracted to men with Brains !! The package is nice but it won't last. I don't want a man that is prettier than me..I am turned off by arrogance and vanity... Since I am married I actually never notice men much...

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Yeah it is nice to be the pretty one...hehe

[robertpina99]

It's difficult for a man to know if a woman is interested or even attracted because she only looks once and then never again. My father used to say that if a man doesn't look at a woman once, he's not a man, but if he looks twice he's not a gentleman.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

I really do love your comment... Very well said~

[tunisianswife]

nope, men and women's brains are wired differently. Women are more into the brain, wondering what they do for a living, what their personality is like, I'm not a butt checker, I'm not a looker since marriage, actually. before I was married, I'd also look at the ring finger of the left hand. lol You have such beautiful eyes...I'm sure 'lookiloo boyfriend' gets lost in them. Is that your tiara club feather fan, or did you just get through playing french maid? lol Susan

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Sooo Different! thanks for the comment about my eyes. Yeah I have three different colored fans. I get nervious when I do a vid so if I have something in my hands I fell better. Maybe that is because I use to smoke? You know holding the cig and all that...hehe

[LatteSue]

If I notice a man the first I look for is if they are vain. If seem vain or snobish I don't even bother to look any further. After that I notice their eyes, smile and yes, their booty! haha But all those things are physical and we all know that stuff fades. Better find something more in a partner if you want it to last.

[LatteSue]

I have a lot of missing words in my post! haha I blame the actifed I'm taking for my sinus! :D

[DawndeeDALLAS]

yep you can be the best lookin guy in the world but if he knows he is. He is usually a jerk~

[bowlingballout]

My wife agrees with you... However, guys are just looking, we really don't care beyond that.

IMO making a deal about a guys tendency to notice other people is a great way to kill an evening. Remember, he's with you. If he cares, that's all he wants - you.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

He really don't do a double take unless the girl is like va-voom, and then I am doing a double take too...hehe In a streight kind of way...hehe

[bowlingballout]

Exactly, double takes are for out of the ordinary encounters. Same would go if you saw someone with a purple mohawk.

So if a woman is spilling out of her blouse, it's impossible NOT to look. I would equate it to a human train wreck.

There are some guys that are just pigs, and they gawk at everything and have to give a play-by-play as if it were a sporting event. That's just boorish behavior.

[timido66]

Yeah, the double take is not good.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Can you still do a double take if I have poked out one eye?

[timido66]

ROFL

[KimOsh72]

I lost it, eh! Starting over LOL

I'm in agreement with you. When I see men I always look at their face. If I come face to face with them for some reason, I look at their eyes, lips, mouth, hair, etc.

Generally speaking, when I'm in public (like the supermarket or the mall) I don't even take notice of the people around me usually.

I equate sexiness with a persons character and personality so I would actually have to interact with a man before my eyes began to wander lower than his face.

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Yeah im like that alot too about other people. I just go about my business

[KimOsh72]

where did my comment go?

[imthelady1976]

There is not much to look at in men my age. LOL Most of them have lost their hair, their butt and now there is just the belly. LOL

[Dlorezzz]

Get a younger man. Young men like older women..

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Yes they do My friend is 43 and her b/f of a few years now is 24

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Well then they better have money...hehe

[txnrobin]

female looking at male: i'll notice he's good looking (pretty eyes, nice hair, groomed, pretty smile) and think 'wow, he's good looking'. i'll wonder if he's vain or straight or intelligent or funny. that's about as far as it goes. i'm not thinking va-va-va-voom, how'd like to hit that, or whatever the hell men think, lol ;)

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Thanks for your comment...guys don't realize we are programed different...hum!

[charlambe]

I will make a video response later tonight

[DawndeeDALLAS]

Can't wait to see it...hehe