That's messed up...if someone interrupted me when I was trying to kill myself, I'd be pissed and kill them........but only scared b*tches tell people when they are gonna kill themselves in hopes of getting saved...pathetic.
Online friendships are awesome, because you can talk to friends in your own time, and if they make you angry you can block them....hahaha such power, some much power!
bad idea. what if this person is not a 'good' person? meeting someone in real life that you met over the internet is one of the dumbest things ever to do.
wow that's an amazing story...i dont really know how to answer that though...i mean you can meet someone on the internet that can be your complete soul mate and then you can also meet someone that can be a complete pycho path......I think the best thing to do is to use good judement and proceed with caution ;))
Back in my teenage days I spent most of my time online and made several friends who I ended up meeting in real life. I didn't find anything wrong with it then, and still don't to this day. Nevertheless, I do feel that it's important to be careful if you plan on meeting an online friend despite how long you've talked to them. Now-a-days I've lost interest in making friends online because I've learned that it's nearly impossible to get to know someone properly without physically being beside them.
I'd love to meet some of my online friends. I don't have many, and I would like to make more, but I wouldn't mind meeting some of them, like the ones I have on myspace.
You really do have to be careful though, when you're talking to people online. But that's my mom's paranoia bleeding into me. Haha, anyway...I like having Online friendships as well as friendships IRL. ^_^
On the subject on online friends, I have made a ton of really good friends from musicians' forums. I'm so close to one of them we're sisters now. It's a shame she lives on the other side of the world though :/ Because of this, even though some of my best friends are online, they live too far away to meet very often, so it's important to keep your relationships with IRL friends too.
I made some really good friends, and even though we arn't living next door to each other, we have the same interesses, and then we can talk about it together! :)
Online friendships are great. I've been meeting people from online friendships for a little while now. If I do meet someone from an online friendship, I will insist that we meet in a public area, like a mall, a theme park, and most importantly with a friend. Now I'm a guy so I normally don't bring a friend with me, but I always say bring your friends, we'll hang out, and let that be the premise of how we interact for a while. Now I am a normal, sweet individual, but you ALWAYS have to be safe.
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Why do you even care? Only a blind person would even consider being with you, or a pedophile if he put a bag on your head, sorry but you had it coming and oh btw your version of Still Alive was painful... seriously wtf?
I'm thinking Lonely Girl xerox... Sad puppy dog eyes and good material made me want to be supportive... Video quality makes me question... Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me...
People always say, "oh be careful, perverts!" etc, and I know that sometime IS the case, but the way I see it, you can get like; perverts in the real world, and you can get tricked in the real world. It doesnt just stop, so I think they're okay :]
its different for everyone. some people are scared that theyre gonna get stalked and raped and other's think that if youre carefull then, none of this shit will happen to you. it might since there are some freaks on the net, but thats not the case for me. i met some real nice people on the net and one of them has been one of my besties for almost 3 years now, and were still talk everyday.
I met my fiance online, we have been together now for almost 7 years. She is my lover, my friend, my partner, my advisor, and my soon-to-be-wife. I will not say that it can work for everybody but it did for me. Now, I have to say this about the video. If a person has issues in real life they bring them onto the net with them. I have also met a few people from the net that I would gladly feed through a woodchipper whilst still alive. Kinda like real life i guess.
ok, well i have a few friends who ive met through online games, and for the most part, i wouldnt meet up with most of them, but there are a couple who i do plan on meeting in the future because i feel that i know them so much, ive even gone as far as talking to them on the phone
I like ur comment Buttz. Just to add tho Cupcake... - if u do want to meet someone it would be best to make the situation safe or on neutral ground to start with. Trust your instincts and try to have other ppl 'meet' your online friend as two observations are better than one...
i have a few online friends and some of them i would like to meet, but some others not really-it would feel wierd. I don't feel like i really know people well enough through a screen
It's a difficult question. When you're lonely and don't find a soulmate, you tend to see online persons as more real than they are. I have had an American girlfriend 4200miles from where I live. We met up, we liked each other but what I am and the distance killed it.
Ever since then I have never considered purely virtual friends the same as real friends. I have more to tell about this, but youtube restricts posts to a certain # of characters.
omg :D you got that skirt from Sweet Rococo didn't you!?! - :D I discovered it a couple days ago - tis amazing! - As for online friendships, I've gotten the bad and the good out of it - it can be really dangerous, I know from personal experience - but there were two people I met and stayed with, ate with :o and went to an amusement park with and it was alright :o - if you meet someone offline - best if you know them for a long time and also better that it isn't someone << "interested" in you...
pukupuku : well i got it from dream shoppe or something like that ^^ i was going to get it from sweet rococo but when i discovered it was 60$ at another shop and over 100$ at sweet rococo it was east to make a choice. thanks for the comment btw
YO AAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDRRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN what the fuck is this shit AAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDDRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNN
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cool story, makes you feel like theres some hope for humanity after all. I've been talking to this one person for almost 4 years, I've never met him in real life, or even seen a picture of him, but I consider him to be one of my best friends ever :) I think that explains what I think about online friendships. great video CAT!
When I started using the internet, I decided to follow one rule: The real world and the cyber world will never meet.
Cyberfriends are problematic. First the world is full of preditors of all kinds. And not all predators will kill you; some will just manipulate you until they suck you dry.
The second is that every minute you spend with an online friend is a minute you don't spend in the real world with a real friend.
Treat your online friends as if are Martian penpals, & U will B OK.
Alot of people put on a act while online. Ever notice how many millionares you run into over the internet? It seems like 90% of the people will tell you they just won 60 million dollars in the lottery. What im getting at is that its easy to get carried away and fake who you are online. Then when you meet these people in real life they are nothing like their online personality.
As shown by your story, online friendships may seem to some as less personal than the face-to-face variety, but can clearly have life-changing/saving results! I think if it's positive and healthy and works well for someone - why not??
An example that popped into my head - think of the online relationships that probably sustain so many soldiers in Iraq (and all around the world) right now?
More videos like this please. Not that the singing is bad, but it's also good to break it up a bit.
In reply - The online world is merely an evolution of typical telephony, and it's enduring a longer period of anonymity like telephones did before caller ID. Eventually someone will invent software to crack the privacy and make people accountable for what they say online- whether it's a perv trying to lure kids into his car, people trying to kill themselves or legitimate friends who really care.
I've met quite a few friends on the internet (and dated a few people on here too)and overall I think it's a good thing as long as your careful who you talk to because there are alot of fakes online too and you can end up getting hurt if you trust the wrong person.
I've met quite a few people in RL that I first met online. I consider them friends, it doesn't matter to me whether I met them first in Online or in the "real" world - friends are friends.
Ok first off, the intro to this video is awesome but I"m worried for you. I'm sure some dirty old man in germany saw that and went to town on himself. Also i loved the ADD part! haha
Online relationships can go both ways. Most of the time the people are liars and crazy bastards. However since I'm a musician I can use sites like myspace to promote / whore myself out to people I don't know. Usually it's a good way to get new fans but sometimes I get freaks too.
I read that story too. It got me thinking, i wonder if i did something like that someone would try to help me. The only friend i have on the net, lives countries away, he probably wouldn't get to me on time x.x
I don't know if its good or bad to have friends through the net, some are so good you meet, you become best friends, others are so bad, you meet, you get killed 8-).
I guess you just have to take precautions and risks.
Nice intro! I've seen several similar cases on forums I go to, except the "victims" (or however you'd call them) usually end up being phoneys LOL I don't know why people would make up stories like that, it's pathetic.
Anyway, online friendships are cool, but they should never completely substitute "real life" friendships, although they could eventually become real life too, but you know what I mean.
That's messed up...if someone interrupted me when I was trying to kill myself, I'd be pissed and kill them........but only scared b*tches tell people when they are gonna kill themselves in hopes of getting saved...pathetic.
Online friendships are awesome, because you can talk to friends in your own time, and if they make you angry you can block them....hahaha such power, some much power!
bearcricket 2 years ago
Internet relationships are fine.
HelenWheelsWheels 2 years ago
You should get your glasses fixed, they don't seem to fit. :U
Mitzoke 2 years ago
i thank it is cool. in fact before school starts i am going to meet one of my online friends. what do you thank of it?
canyouhelpout 2 years ago
bad idea. what if this person is not a 'good' person? meeting someone in real life that you met over the internet is one of the dumbest things ever to do.
jojo8745210 2 years ago
you have a cool sense of fashion
funguywoo 2 years ago
i think your a batty :)
emmarachel09 2 years ago
you are ugly
juhotheonehanded 2 years ago
and you love little boys now go fuck yourself and leave
lukevash 2 years ago
i think u can meet good friends online ,but u should becarefull.life is to short so lets give chance for online friends
flowerewe83 2 years ago
wow that's an amazing story...i dont really know how to answer that though...i mean you can meet someone on the internet that can be your complete soul mate and then you can also meet someone that can be a complete pycho path......I think the best thing to do is to use good judement and proceed with caution ;))
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LittleMissClumbzie 3 years ago
Back in my teenage days I spent most of my time online and made several friends who I ended up meeting in real life. I didn't find anything wrong with it then, and still don't to this day. Nevertheless, I do feel that it's important to be careful if you plan on meeting an online friend despite how long you've talked to them. Now-a-days I've lost interest in making friends online because I've learned that it's nearly impossible to get to know someone properly without physically being beside them.
xxAsherz 3 years ago
yep-so-let's-fuck
Kindahuge 2 years ago
^_^ I liked this video
Animetard0123 3 years ago
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I just want to punch you in the face.
rydeen18 3 years ago
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fuck off you whore
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr169 3 years ago
Every time you "pause" the video you allways look.. wierd
PooFactory1 3 years ago
yes very true lol
MusicGroupProduction 3 years ago
Hey, Cupcake!
I'd love to meet some of my online friends. I don't have many, and I would like to make more, but I wouldn't mind meeting some of them, like the ones I have on myspace.
You really do have to be careful though, when you're talking to people online. But that's my mom's paranoia bleeding into me. Haha, anyway...I like having Online friendships as well as friendships IRL. ^_^
CrystalChord2010 3 years ago
I love your socks <3
On the subject on online friends, I have made a ton of really good friends from musicians' forums. I'm so close to one of them we're sisters now. It's a shame she lives on the other side of the world though :/ Because of this, even though some of my best friends are online, they live too far away to meet very often, so it's important to keep your relationships with IRL friends too.
aermancer 3 years ago
I like making friends on the internet!
I made some really good friends, and even though we arn't living next door to each other, we have the same interesses, and then we can talk about it together! :)
WinnifredArtemis 3 years ago
A few of the people i've met online are better friends than the people I know in life.
I love them with all my heart. They're people too, just farther away. I wouldn't trade them for the world.
xCorpseKitty 3 years ago
Online friendships are great. I've been meeting people from online friendships for a little while now. If I do meet someone from an online friendship, I will insist that we meet in a public area, like a mall, a theme park, and most importantly with a friend. Now I'm a guy so I normally don't bring a friend with me, but I always say bring your friends, we'll hang out, and let that be the premise of how we interact for a while. Now I am a normal, sweet individual, but you ALWAYS have to be safe.
Crackmandan 3 years ago
it's a trap
RectalDiscourse 3 years ago
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Why do you even care? Only a blind person would even consider being with you, or a pedophile if he put a bag on your head, sorry but you had it coming and oh btw your version of Still Alive was painful... seriously wtf?
JahGuidanze 3 years ago
I'm thinking Lonely Girl xerox... Sad puppy dog eyes and good material made me want to be supportive... Video quality makes me question... Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me...
Great performance dear and safe journeys.
seraphic14u 3 years ago
Online friendships?
I think they're alright, you know?
People always say, "oh be careful, perverts!" etc, and I know that sometime IS the case, but the way I see it, you can get like; perverts in the real world, and you can get tricked in the real world. It doesnt just stop, so I think they're okay :]
Good video, by the way. :]!
xsakurinx 3 years ago
its different for everyone. some people are scared that theyre gonna get stalked and raped and other's think that if youre carefull then, none of this shit will happen to you. it might since there are some freaks on the net, but thats not the case for me. i met some real nice people on the net and one of them has been one of my besties for almost 3 years now, and were still talk everyday.
kitten140 3 years ago
I want that song, but I can't find it..
NagaruTensei 3 years ago
it's by perfume and you could find it easily on jpopsuki if you have bittorrent or buy the cd ^^
CupcakeAndTea 3 years ago
I met my fiance online, we have been together now for almost 7 years. She is my lover, my friend, my partner, my advisor, and my soon-to-be-wife. I will not say that it can work for everybody but it did for me. Now, I have to say this about the video. If a person has issues in real life they bring them onto the net with them. I have also met a few people from the net that I would gladly feed through a woodchipper whilst still alive. Kinda like real life i guess.
fullwood13 3 years ago
ok, well i have a few friends who ive met through online games, and for the most part, i wouldnt meet up with most of them, but there are a couple who i do plan on meeting in the future because i feel that i know them so much, ive even gone as far as talking to them on the phone
buttzillaman 3 years ago
I like ur comment Buttz. Just to add tho Cupcake... - if u do want to meet someone it would be best to make the situation safe or on neutral ground to start with. Trust your instincts and try to have other ppl 'meet' your online friend as two observations are better than one...
LeightonBuck 3 years ago
Where are you from?
Rapistelija 3 years ago
I WANNA SEE YOUR BODY!
MexicanTuber 3 years ago 6
Begone, with your Evil Nerdy Lisp!
WilliamZelpher 3 years ago
lol you are right.. she does look a bit nerdy.. must be because of da video... *shrugs*
TalimSoul 3 years ago
10 out of 10
koko25333 3 years ago
i have a few online friends and some of them i would like to meet, but some others not really-it would feel wierd. I don't feel like i really know people well enough through a screen
electricmayhem2000 3 years ago
I strongly disagree with that comment.
I fap to Cupcakesandtea everyday.
TsugaruRage 3 years ago
LOL
TalimSoul 3 years ago
is it just me or does it seem like this girl's on the verge on tears in every video?
custrag 3 years ago 6
wtf it's Tim Rogers
zkey14 3 years ago
It's a difficult question. When you're lonely and don't find a soulmate, you tend to see online persons as more real than they are. I have had an American girlfriend 4200miles from where I live. We met up, we liked each other but what I am and the distance killed it.
Ever since then I have never considered purely virtual friends the same as real friends. I have more to tell about this, but youtube restricts posts to a certain # of characters.
jawtheshark 3 years ago
AMAGUUUUD, this wasnt a booring vid, it was GREAY :D God job!
Tuvisen 3 years ago
So, I don't get it. Are you, like, half-pig, or what?
darthmethodist 3 years ago
pretty much ^^
CupcakeAndTea 3 years ago
Why do you try to act Japanese? I really feel embarrassed for you.
Josephdorf03 3 years ago
omg :D you got that skirt from Sweet Rococo didn't you!?! - :D I discovered it a couple days ago - tis amazing! - As for online friendships, I've gotten the bad and the good out of it - it can be really dangerous, I know from personal experience - but there were two people I met and stayed with, ate with :o and went to an amusement park with and it was alright :o - if you meet someone offline - best if you know them for a long time and also better that it isn't someone << "interested" in you...
pukupuku 3 years ago
pukupuku : well i got it from dream shoppe or something like that ^^ i was going to get it from sweet rococo but when i discovered it was 60$ at another shop and over 100$ at sweet rococo it was east to make a choice. thanks for the comment btw
CupcakeAndTea 3 years ago
Awwe. D: If you don't mind me asking, what book is this from?
As for online friendships, I think they're pretty sweet!
hellotamz 3 years ago
hellotamz: it's from the readers digest may 2008 issue ^^
CupcakeAndTea 3 years ago
meeting people online = RAPE
FYAD
leeanator 3 years ago
kill yourself
sirutube20 3 years ago
you're daxflame in a dress
cheeseofultimatedoom 3 years ago
Cupcake, this is absolutely not a boring video. I have made an video response, but!!!..I can't upload it.
Garak1 3 years ago
Garak1 : lol i still think it is and take your time maybe it's youtube acting up^^
CupcakeAndTea 3 years ago
YO AAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDRRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN what the fuck is this shit AAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDDRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNN
Riotgrrill 3 years ago
Watching this shit in HIGH FUCKIN' QUALITY!!! HELL YES
BagOfGlass 3 years ago
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BagOfGlass 3 years ago
cool story, makes you feel like theres some hope for humanity after all. I've been talking to this one person for almost 4 years, I've never met him in real life, or even seen a picture of him, but I consider him to be one of my best friends ever :) I think that explains what I think about online friendships. great video CAT!
MrJockemon 3 years ago
When I started using the internet, I decided to follow one rule: The real world and the cyber world will never meet.
Cyberfriends are problematic. First the world is full of preditors of all kinds. And not all predators will kill you; some will just manipulate you until they suck you dry.
The second is that every minute you spend with an online friend is a minute you don't spend in the real world with a real friend.
Treat your online friends as if are Martian penpals, & U will B OK.
pteranodonfilms 3 years ago
Alot of people put on a act while online. Ever notice how many millionares you run into over the internet? It seems like 90% of the people will tell you they just won 60 million dollars in the lottery. What im getting at is that its easy to get carried away and fake who you are online. Then when you meet these people in real life they are nothing like their online personality.
ZX2ManDave 3 years ago
Cupcake u r one sensative, passionate and generally all around hot woman, inside and out. Kudos to u babydoll,
Lost0Poet 3 years ago
Awesome intro - you should do more like that!
As shown by your story, online friendships may seem to some as less personal than the face-to-face variety, but can clearly have life-changing/saving results! I think if it's positive and healthy and works well for someone - why not??
An example that popped into my head - think of the online relationships that probably sustain so many soldiers in Iraq (and all around the world) right now?
mojopineapple 3 years ago
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your an idiot
cassdrina 3 years ago
That would be you're not your.
Stupid troll.
yankeekracker 3 years ago
More videos like this please. Not that the singing is bad, but it's also good to break it up a bit.
In reply - The online world is merely an evolution of typical telephony, and it's enduring a longer period of anonymity like telephones did before caller ID. Eventually someone will invent software to crack the privacy and make people accountable for what they say online- whether it's a perv trying to lure kids into his car, people trying to kill themselves or legitimate friends who really care.
grayrobot 3 years ago
Love the skirt. Where did you get it?
I've met quite a few friends on the internet (and dated a few people on here too)and overall I think it's a good thing as long as your careful who you talk to because there are alot of fakes online too and you can end up getting hurt if you trust the wrong person.
xXxSweetxXxLolitaxXx 3 years ago
you are weird..in a good way :)
llollipop0 3 years ago
I've met quite a few people in RL that I first met online. I consider them friends, it doesn't matter to me whether I met them first in Online or in the "real" world - friends are friends.
rileysaplank 3 years ago
I have two or three real friends online meaning ppl i can trust i do plan on meeting them someday when i get money
Ademis 3 years ago
Great intro. A bit long...but it was good so I didn't mind.
Online friendship... it's good...but ... it can be disappointing. So many seemingly normal people turn into nutjobs... :(
Gimmeabreakman 3 years ago
Ok first off, the intro to this video is awesome but I"m worried for you. I'm sure some dirty old man in germany saw that and went to town on himself. Also i loved the ADD part! haha
Online relationships can go both ways. Most of the time the people are liars and crazy bastards. However since I'm a musician I can use sites like myspace to promote / whore myself out to people I don't know. Usually it's a good way to get new fans but sometimes I get freaks too.
gtrslinger 3 years ago
I love your skirt!
I read that story too. It got me thinking, i wonder if i did something like that someone would try to help me. The only friend i have on the net, lives countries away, he probably wouldn't get to me on time x.x
I don't know if its good or bad to have friends through the net, some are so good you meet, you become best friends, others are so bad, you meet, you get killed 8-).
I guess you just have to take precautions and risks.
Draumurin 3 years ago
Nice intro! I've seen several similar cases on forums I go to, except the "victims" (or however you'd call them) usually end up being phoneys LOL I don't know why people would make up stories like that, it's pathetic.
Anyway, online friendships are cool, but they should never completely substitute "real life" friendships, although they could eventually become real life too, but you know what I mean.
GlitterGold 3 years ago