The young gentleman who now has all of my attention also didn't get it right away. He noticed me almost immediately,but even though he is very good-looking,somehow he just wasn't my type,and I didn't start giving him much attention until I noticed that he seemed to like me. First that pricked my curiosity,then slowly I started appreciating the attention more and more,I tried to find out more about him,and little by little feelings and attraction developped on my end as well.. 6-8 months into it.
Excuse the cliché nature of my comment, but I once became extremely attracted to one of my teachers back in college.. to the point that I would hang around after class if I knew he was working late and pretend to have to go to the bathroom or such just to pass by his office and catch a glimpse of him before leaving.. Well that very teacher, the whole first month I was in his class, I would meet him in the hallways and not even recognize him!..
Thank you I think I speak for all your viewers and people that is interested in your videos every time they see them for myself I consider you my mentor I want to learn everything that you know not only that but to understand in different ways how a relationship works all your secrets that your mind has I want to understand more and one day meet you in person thank you and see you later
Just saw your vid for the first time.. well i'm not gonna read a book, but i am going to see all your videos :O i love the way you explain! you keep my attention great job
I'm in the weirdest situation. I have that instant spark when I see any random chick. I love my wife, but I would bang 70% of good looking chicks I meet each day.
@MrBj2020 There's nothing bad in a temptation: it testify how much you need beauty, love...but, you can either fall for it, or start facing it and think about you, your life and your wife...did you ever hear the sentence "Quid animo satis?" (it's something like...what's enough for me? What will fully satisfy me?)..seems like your wife is not enough, right? And all the girls you see? I don't believe so (for instance, you will never be able to bang 20-30 chicks per day...)
hey bro in the past week i've met 4 women and have gotten their numbers, gone home and added them on facebook and saw they were all in a relationship?! Can you suggest what to do and what is going on?
Totally agree. While there are deal breakers for some things generally you should be open. Good advice as usual. Sometimes I might not find someone attractive right away but when I get to know them more I get attracted to them and like them. Of course for guys we have to worry about getting in the "friend" zone. Also girls have this fantasy like the movies that it will be instant and if it isn't then "that's not the one" which is B.S.
yeah, that was me, we kept seeing each other as coincidences until we got into a really interesting conversation that lasted hours...the rest is history
thank you all for your kind words and I am sorry I have been away. I will try to post videos more regularly. If you have any specific topics or issues that you would like me to address, drop me a line. Thanks.
Could you please make a video about guys dating taller girls? I am 1,76 cm(5'9'') and I'm in love with a girl that is 1,85 cm(6'1''). Could you please make a video and share your advice and tips. The girl I like seems to like me too, because I'm confident and I haven't ever really mentioned or bothered about the height difference, but I would still like to hear some tips from you=datingGOD!
book... movies... you forgot GAMES :D
diogotomediogo 3 days ago
HITCH!!!
FunkyMONK56 1 week ago
The young gentleman who now has all of my attention also didn't get it right away. He noticed me almost immediately,but even though he is very good-looking,somehow he just wasn't my type,and I didn't start giving him much attention until I noticed that he seemed to like me. First that pricked my curiosity,then slowly I started appreciating the attention more and more,I tried to find out more about him,and little by little feelings and attraction developped on my end as well.. 6-8 months into it.
HijaDelMar6 2 weeks ago
Excuse the cliché nature of my comment, but I once became extremely attracted to one of my teachers back in college.. to the point that I would hang around after class if I knew he was working late and pretend to have to go to the bathroom or such just to pass by his office and catch a glimpse of him before leaving.. Well that very teacher, the whole first month I was in his class, I would meet him in the hallways and not even recognize him!..
So yes, time can work wonders sometimes.
HijaDelMar6 2 weeks ago
Where have you learned everything you know? you're really good at speaking(:
MiniBanana7 2 weeks ago
Good to see you back. Started watching your vids a few years ago and I think most of your advice and tips are pretty sound.
neimaD11 2 weeks ago
how to forget a psychopath in class who is stalking me? by forgive her?!? i don`t know may you can help. Thank you
bigartistify 3 weeks ago
Спасибо за советы Аркадий!
xzibitboy1 3 weeks ago
best relationship advice. period. this guy knows his stuff and he is very kind
TDP788 3 weeks ago
Thank you I think I speak for all your viewers and people that is interested in your videos every time they see them for myself I consider you my mentor I want to learn everything that you know not only that but to understand in different ways how a relationship works all your secrets that your mind has I want to understand more and one day meet you in person thank you and see you later
exclusiveaccess85 3 weeks ago
priyatno vidit mudrogo, xoroshogo russkogo parnya na youtube govorashego na angliskom :) xoroshie video u vas
gooduniforme 4 weeks ago
Thanks, you always give us something to think about. I like your style.
DrumChanel 1 month ago
Just saw your vid for the first time.. well i'm not gonna read a book, but i am going to see all your videos :O i love the way you explain! you keep my attention great job
TheFacAlosta 1 month ago
I'm in the weirdest situation. I have that instant spark when I see any random chick. I love my wife, but I would bang 70% of good looking chicks I meet each day.
What's wrong with me? I'm serious.
MrBj2020 1 month ago
@MrBj2020 There's nothing bad in a temptation: it testify how much you need beauty, love...but, you can either fall for it, or start facing it and think about you, your life and your wife...did you ever hear the sentence "Quid animo satis?" (it's something like...what's enough for me? What will fully satisfy me?)..seems like your wife is not enough, right? And all the girls you see? I don't believe so (for instance, you will never be able to bang 20-30 chicks per day...)
arzigogolato1 1 month ago
@MrBj2020 it's called being a guy. you're just realizing this now? it's always been my feeling that's why so many guys fear marriage, me included
cdixon5150 4 weeks ago
unbelivable
gamerhack 1 month ago
Thank you. =]
kelbek00 1 month ago
arkady you have so much wisdom
ElectricSpaceMonkey 1 month ago 2
tough question!
Uristenzor 1 month ago
do one on how to get a religious girl to be more sexual
MrNick1537 1 month ago 4
Disagree
coolmask123 1 month ago
Brilliant. Your statement, "Don't judge a book by its first few pages" is spot-on.
chriswlowe 1 month ago
Ha. "Don't judge a book by its first few pages".. respect.
Conza88 1 month ago
hmm, try to give people a chance!
dancing1133 1 month ago
what if I really just like prostitutes lol
thefatman69dude 1 month ago
Welcome back Arkady!
TheWhopperTinger 1 month ago
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Arkady is the Socrates of dating
durkma2 1 month ago
Arkady is the Socrates of dating
durkma2 1 month ago
wow. thanks for that one =) will take on board
TaliaDanceFan 1 month ago
"Unless there completely repulsive to you" I cracked up when he said this.
tgainerjennings 1 month ago
im obsessed with your videos haha why did I just discover you now?
TheSubergirl 1 month ago
hey bro in the past week i've met 4 women and have gotten their numbers, gone home and added them on facebook and saw they were all in a relationship?! Can you suggest what to do and what is going on?
InSanaaT 1 month ago
@InSanaaT
Sometimes woman cheat (or are willing to in that moment you got the number). Sometimes woman give their numbers out to guys to get rid of them.
Kitsune81 1 month ago
Very well said.
poppapump23 1 month ago
I miss your videos, keep them coming!! :D
alfanemesis 1 month ago
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df393 1 month ago
Welcome back man! Another excellent video!
squrilleyboy 1 month ago
Good video!
chuey1988 1 month ago
Genius!
MrZynetik 1 month ago
dude... about time!
OneNameJustin 1 month ago
Totally agree. While there are deal breakers for some things generally you should be open. Good advice as usual. Sometimes I might not find someone attractive right away but when I get to know them more I get attracted to them and like them. Of course for guys we have to worry about getting in the "friend" zone. Also girls have this fantasy like the movies that it will be instant and if it isn't then "that's not the one" which is B.S.
rowsdower12 1 month ago
Excellent video!
mxkxylplk 1 month ago
in this video you are not lousy like your first videos i watchedl!! because now i can hear you in HQ! :-)
HOUSEtwisted 1 month ago
Nice suit...
sweetkkk 1 month ago
Great advice!
SOCRATES012 1 month ago
amazing! genius!
ragtimest 1 month ago
brilliant as usual
TheBiggamer64 1 month ago 6
Marry me.
tjd07x 1 month ago 5
Great video and examples!
Nate11111Dog 1 month ago
yeah, that was me, we kept seeing each other as coincidences until we got into a really interesting conversation that lasted hours...the rest is history
dreamer32993 1 month ago
On point as usual.
dragonfist25 1 month ago 2
you're back!!!!!
chrisrocks2010 1 month ago 74
i love these
bchou222 1 month ago 36
thank you all for your kind words and I am sorry I have been away. I will try to post videos more regularly. If you have any specific topics or issues that you would like me to address, drop me a line. Thanks.
arkady39 1 month ago 15
@arkady39 Best Arkady39! :)
Could you please make a video about guys dating taller girls? I am 1,76 cm(5'9'') and I'm in love with a girl that is 1,85 cm(6'1''). Could you please make a video and share your advice and tips. The girl I like seems to like me too, because I'm confident and I haven't ever really mentioned or bothered about the height difference, but I would still like to hear some tips from you=datingGOD!
Best regards
1Jacob4 3 weeks ago