Hi, I am a mother going through the same thing. I haven't seen my son in 5 years and not a day goes by that I don't think about him and miss him. It would have been civil if my ex mother in law hadn't manipulated the situation. Anyway I hope you see your girls soon.
If a child has a good father, please don't keep his father from him. Children need a good father and fathers need their children. The same can be said for good mothers. Please don't ever use children as pawn between battling adults.
MY LOST LOVE, MY LOST CHILD I wonder what you’re doing and how your living life What new things did you learn today and how did you sleep last night Did you feel raindrops on your face or sunshine in your eye Of all the questions left uknown the biggest one is why Why can’t we be together Why can’t I watch you grow Why can’t I guide you through this world This I just don’t know But I promise we’ll be together no matter how long it seems Just know your always in my heart and always in my dreams
Im a mother who hasn't seen my two girls in 2 yrs and it's killing me a little more each day. I miss them so much. My x is a controling jerk who played dirty in our divorce.I have alway's been a good mother. I will pray you get to be with your girl's again soon who are beautiful by the way.
Hatred is not an emotion that comes naturally to a child. It has to be taught. A parent who would teach a child to hate the other parent represents a grave and persistent danger to the mental and emotional health of that child. JUSTICE FOR ZOE and EVE
Right, wrong or indifferent, the casualties of this battle are incalculable. The hurt invisible to the eye but forever imprinted on the hearts of these two little girls, to be manifested in ways not yet known. I wonder how often their mother stops to think about the impact her choices will have on these girls for the rest of their lives. At some point they will have a relationship with their dad - but will they still want one with their mother after the truth is finally told?
Some day, Zoe and Eve will see these comments & video & they will know that thier Mother stole a wonderful part of their lifes away. What a sin, what a crime against children.
In my personal experience, I strongly believe that children are not who they were destined to be in their life because they are often forced to side with one parent to the detriment of the other and are robbed of their childhood by a selfish parent. The child loses the benefit of both parents.
In adolescents, their minds are fragile and can be transformed into an alienators dream because the children are taught to share in the hatred and lie their way through life.
Stacey is the only one here that seems confused. She is confusing HER need to control and maniplulate Zoe and Eves affections and health with what is "best for them". It is only best for her and no one else.
Her going from relationship to relationship, and attempting to change their last name will never change your daughters heritage or who thier real father is.
I can only imagine your grief and pain right now.
I am truly sorry for the hell that you and you daughters are going through.
The only thing that motivates this alienator is spite, and the need to control and manipulate others. She obvioulsly has an insatiable need for acceptance and love from the people around her. This mother is an emotionally damaged and crippled individual that values her own "feelings" more than the well being of your children. she pretends to be the victim "doing what is best" for the children.
The healthy and reasonable parent wants to keep their children feeling emotionally safe with both parents. A healthy parent encourages visits with the other parent, does not talk negatively about the other parent. and honestly tries to set aside their own hostile feelings to help their child feel less distress. The healthy parent is sensitive to the child's feelings and needs and encourages positive feelings toward the other parent because they know it is paramount to their well being.
I happen to know this Dad, and he is a good, kind, loving and fit parent who loves all children. Zoe and Eves mother on the other hand is a child abuser. That's right any parent who would make false allegations and deliberately keep a child from a willing and loving parent then fill that child's mind full of lies about their Dad is a child abuser.
Parental alienation is child abuse. Our children need both parents, two parents equals twice the love, why would anyone deprive a child of that?
I feel ur Pain. I have been separated from my daughter, but Finally I Won Joint Custody after they drained every penny I had. I do support Fathers4justice, and ACFC, and shared Parenting.
You have beautiful children, and I hope you get you rights back to your children.
Brother, I feel your pain every day that I am without my daughters. Maybe someday our fight will prevail and we will get our children back where they belong, with BOTH parents. Your Brother Fathers 4 Justice, Sean. F4J
It's nice to see a father who wants to be so involved in his children's lives.
I think that it's such a double-standard these days. When a women gets pregnant, she's the first to bash the father if he leaves and doesn't want to be around. They play the pity-card and get everything they want. Then when a father does want to be involved, they won't let them.
I really encourage you to help take a stand. Get everyone you possible can together and take this to everyone who will listen.
When a parent with an addiction problem uses her children as pawns in a disturbing game of retribution and retaliation against a loving father you really have to wonder at what point the tables will turn against this woman who dares to call herself a mother. Loving parents do not rob their children of relationships with those who love and care for them.
We know the truth, not only by the reason, but also by the heart.
BLAISE PASCAL
Truth is not only violated by falsehood; it may be equally outraged by silence.
HENRI FREDERIC AMIEL
It takes two to speak truth -- one to speak and another to hear.
HENRY DAVID THOREAU
I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant
Hi, I am a mother going through the same thing. I haven't seen my son in 5 years and not a day goes by that I don't think about him and miss him. It would have been civil if my ex mother in law hadn't manipulated the situation. Anyway I hope you see your girls soon.
maureenavena33 1 month ago
I wish I had something to offer other than my sympathy and solidarity as a fellow alienated parent....
tbrcbcac 6 months ago
If a child has a good father, please don't keep his father from him. Children need a good father and fathers need their children. The same can be said for good mothers. Please don't ever use children as pawn between battling adults.
A Child Advocate.
Stngraybch 1 year ago
I'm living the same ....I'll take this song too. It's so hard for a father
Haywax 1 year ago
bigdaddyskydive 1 year ago
Thanks Tim. Glad you liked my little movie. My ex wife hates it, because she is a "kid owner" and knows the truth.
bigdaddyskydive 1 year ago
Im a mother who hasn't seen my two girls in 2 yrs and it's killing me a little more each day. I miss them so much. My x is a controling jerk who played dirty in our divorce.I have alway's been a good mother. I will pray you get to be with your girl's again soon who are beautiful by the way.
MsShanmarie 1 year ago
Thanks Shanmarie, I have always been a good father. It is sad what these scum will do to our children to punish us.
bigdaddyskydive 1 year ago
Zoe and Eve.
Evil will go past us like a river. We will be together again someday. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS.
Dad
bigdaddyskydive 1 year ago 4
Hatred is not an emotion that comes naturally to a child. It has to be taught. A parent who would teach a child to hate the other parent represents a grave and persistent danger to the mental and emotional health of that child. JUSTICE FOR ZOE and EVE
F4JDAD 1 year ago 5
Right, wrong or indifferent, the casualties of this battle are incalculable. The hurt invisible to the eye but forever imprinted on the hearts of these two little girls, to be manifested in ways not yet known. I wonder how often their mother stops to think about the impact her choices will have on these girls for the rest of their lives. At some point they will have a relationship with their dad - but will they still want one with their mother after the truth is finally told?
shanndunn 2 years ago 6
Some day, Zoe and Eve will see these comments & video & they will know that thier Mother stole a wonderful part of their lifes away. What a sin, what a crime against children.
TDMinc 2 years ago 5
Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Never forget that everything Hitler did in Germany was legal.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
bigdaddyskydive 2 years ago
In my personal experience, I strongly believe that children are not who they were destined to be in their life because they are often forced to side with one parent to the detriment of the other and are robbed of their childhood by a selfish parent. The child loses the benefit of both parents.
In adolescents, their minds are fragile and can be transformed into an alienators dream because the children are taught to share in the hatred and lie their way through life.
STOP PARENTAL PREDITORS
F4JDAD 2 years ago 6
Stacey is the only one here that seems confused. She is confusing HER need to control and maniplulate Zoe and Eves affections and health with what is "best for them". It is only best for her and no one else.
Her going from relationship to relationship, and attempting to change their last name will never change your daughters heritage or who thier real father is.
I can only imagine your grief and pain right now.
God bless and heal you and your children.
Heatherjac485 2 years ago 5
I am truly sorry for the hell that you and you daughters are going through.
The only thing that motivates this alienator is spite, and the need to control and manipulate others. She obvioulsly has an insatiable need for acceptance and love from the people around her. This mother is an emotionally damaged and crippled individual that values her own "feelings" more than the well being of your children. she pretends to be the victim "doing what is best" for the children.
Heatherjac485 2 years ago 4
I feel for you and understand the pain. 905 days today since I saw the 3 daughters I love.
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter"
Martin Luther King
rallyline 2 years ago 8
The healthy and reasonable parent wants to keep their children feeling emotionally safe with both parents. A healthy parent encourages visits with the other parent, does not talk negatively about the other parent. and honestly tries to set aside their own hostile feelings to help their child feel less distress. The healthy parent is sensitive to the child's feelings and needs and encourages positive feelings toward the other parent because they know it is paramount to their well being.
bigdaddyskydive 2 years ago
I happen to know this Dad, and he is a good, kind, loving and fit parent who loves all children. Zoe and Eves mother on the other hand is a child abuser. That's right any parent who would make false allegations and deliberately keep a child from a willing and loving parent then fill that child's mind full of lies about their Dad is a child abuser.
Parental alienation is child abuse. Our children need both parents, two parents equals twice the love, why would anyone deprive a child of that?
amom2477 2 years ago 6
I feel ur Pain. I have been separated from my daughter, but Finally I Won Joint Custody after they drained every penny I had. I do support Fathers4justice, and ACFC, and shared Parenting.
You have beautiful children, and I hope you get you rights back to your children.
Justice will prevail.
thestreetdogg 2 years ago 9
Keep fighting - your kids need their dad more than ever!!
shanndunn 2 years ago 4
Brother, I feel your pain every day that I am without my daughters. Maybe someday our fight will prevail and we will get our children back where they belong, with BOTH parents. Your Brother Fathers 4 Justice, Sean. F4J
wreckmaster9899 2 years ago 5
It's nice to see a father who wants to be so involved in his children's lives.
I think that it's such a double-standard these days. When a women gets pregnant, she's the first to bash the father if he leaves and doesn't want to be around. They play the pity-card and get everything they want. Then when a father does want to be involved, they won't let them.
I really encourage you to help take a stand. Get everyone you possible can together and take this to everyone who will listen.
nanomom4U 3 years ago 6
When a parent with an addiction problem uses her children as pawns in a disturbing game of retribution and retaliation against a loving father you really have to wonder at what point the tables will turn against this woman who dares to call herself a mother. Loving parents do not rob their children of relationships with those who love and care for them.
shanndunn 3 years ago 5
"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."
EDMUND BURKE. 1729-1797
Evil is unspectacular and always human
And shares our bed and eats at our own table.
W.H. AUDEN, Herman Melville
It is a sin to believe evil of others, but it is seldom a mistake.
H. L. MENCKEN:
triffy32 3 years ago 3
We know the truth, not only by the reason, but also by the heart.
BLAISE PASCAL
Truth is not only violated by falsehood; it may be equally outraged by silence.
HENRI FREDERIC AMIEL
It takes two to speak truth -- one to speak and another to hear.
HENRY DAVID THOREAU
I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant
MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR.
F4JDAD 3 years ago 2