Relationship: Pt.1 How 2 make your man fall n luv w/u & keep him happy

[MrBigbootychaser]

I NEED A WOMAN LIKE YOU . WOW !

[dominoeslover]

BooBoo- I love your confidence ma! <3

[DRAGONZ18719]

On the DYNASTY thiz shyt true.....This is BEYOND 100%....ANY FEMALE that disagree, just missed one of the most VALUABLE things you said that a man won't tell you him self.......As men, we don't say to the woman what we appreciate about her, bt we tell everybody else, when we talk to our friends, family, and even co-workers...we assume our women know these things, then it hit us that we NEED to show them that....you women will know whn this happen kuz he will do sum romantic shyt out of NOWHERE

[montanadeleon1]

@DRAGONZ18719 lol, thank u sir

[sammydee21]

Just came across this video but i all gotta say is you're one beautiful lady

[MeshaSweets]

this is not true really....men only want a chick they can not have period...because you can a phenomenal and man is next door with the dirty white chick. So i say do you and the man will follow...a porno star doesnt get a engagement ring or married..this is advice after you already married to keep him but get him you have to not want him

[DeeRoach88]

The women that don't agree with this advice are the ones that aren't willing to put in the effort to be irreplaceable but expect the world from their man. Good advice.

[Coolyfett]

I like this....good advice for ladies. Especially black women.

[lilmzcookie5508]

U R BEAUTIFUL

[Lak3yia334]

Love your video.. Ur right when it comes to a relationship, ppl do need to go the extra mile and learn their parnter and their needs.. When something is good, dont settle with "good", find a way to make it better... When you find that person that opens your mind and heart you should want to do more and better yourself... To me, women AND men need to learn to do this for each other... Women love and stand by your man and Men love and cherish your woman for all that she does

[pc0p1mp]

The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.

As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.

[dixanna27]

I can really relate to you honey..unfortunately my 6yr relationship of pleasing and pleasing and pleasing went down the drain He was still getting it from here and there and I done my part..I said I wouldnt do it for another boyfriend (husband only) But I do know the nicca still wants to be back with me (NO no...)lol

[lkofie]

@dixanna27 I think your statement "....I wouldn't do it for another boyfriend (husband only)..." is you at least LEARNING from your experience and coming into your own. I have a friend that I actually advised accordingly YET she continuously does WIFE things for men that have not even established the relationship as she being the only woman they want to date....she actually does all this DURING THE PURSUIT and establishes the relationship before HE does...and she wonders WHY she isn't married.

[Kamikazeina]

You're lovely, thanks for the video =)

[TheRealHelleCat]

=) You're a wonderful Lady.

[anijah11110404]

I feel the same as long as he is also going those extra miles

[blakarrot]

I actually agree with you on that. I'm that way, as a man. Not just make an effort but to become necessary. I've had a coupla exes get in to new relationships had they're new men (people I've never met) mad at me, Just from hearsay. I'm always looking for new methodology to be imprinted in her life. Great video. Now, I just need to find one who gives it back to have a "Happily Ever After". So thanks for giving me hope that some actually GET IT! Love and blessings to you.

[05Godschild]

GREAT!!!

[sxyteesa0890]

Are you still at WSHH Honey? if not you better sue people its still on youtube...

[danseurglamour]

such awesome advice

[flyvanessa85]

love the look and the vid

[CherryBlossom7o7]

I disagree with this advice ( but do u girl) but most women don't have the the time to be a extraordinary cooks or are to tired to be a personalised porn stars and there are men who would just take advantage of a woman and would not appreciate what she dose for him also trying to b perfect can also b tiring

[montanadeleon1]

@CherryBlossom7o7 thats fine, thats what makes me phenomenal and ahead of most women who don't 'FEEL' like being the best that they can be. This ain't for everybody, just those that desire phenomenalbility

[15725linwood]

VERY GOOD ADVICE! keep the videos coming

[CaramelRain331]

I understand what ur sayin but that doesnt always work..I have a friend that does all and then some for every man she get yet they continue to leave her for the next chick and their never satisfied with her. She is constantly looking for someone to love her and she does all she can to keep them.

[montanadeleon1]

@UB190 I was heartbroken about my last break up but quickly recovered when i reminded myself I should love ME more than anybody else

[JusCindy]

How would you know the right guy to go up and beyond for ?

[montanadeleon1]

@JusCindy a phenomenal woman knows what kind of man is worthy of her

[beauticianlady]

Yes! I have never met anyone who thinks how I think...my last relationship made me open.my eyes to so much n it was a learning experience and in. my relationship now I do everything over the top..n im so.accustom to it i.justt cnt do anything less....But I love ur videos..both makeup tutorial and advice ones...I am now subscribed to you :)

[montanadeleon1]

@beauticianlady thanks love

[mdavid22]

Haha this is exactly how I think!!!! You must be a scorpio. Every ex girlfriend I've had wants to stay in contact but I refuse to give them any of my Phenomenal after they decided to move on.

[montanadeleon1]

@mdavid22 pisces

[ShellB12]

I agree, but of course there are no set of rules that will work for everybody. Everyone wants to figure out the magic formula to have the outcome they desire in their relationships. But all that really boils down to is manipulation. If you aren't being yourself, you are working too hard, and like everything else, nobody works hard forever and the manipulator will eventually get comfortable. That's why men and women say "you don't do the things u used to do" after a long relationship.

[montanadeleon1]

@ShellB12 thats why we are not suppose to get complacent in a relationship, i need to make a vid on that cuz i had one on my old channel

[glamourgirlholly]

i think you are amazing, and you have such empowering advice to give to us women. thank you so much, i believe i came across you for a reason :) i just see things in a new light now because i am soooo scared that my boyfriend will dump me one day and knowing all about self worth is such an important thing xx

[montanadeleon1]

@glamourgirlholly and if he dumps you....who cares, cuz you'll be so phenomenal by then, u can replace him as soon as u want ;-)

[xBrazilianBarbiex]

soooo well said!!

[MrBarney524]

@xBrazilianBarbiex

What does a Brazilian know about being average?

[8506lina]

I feel u shouldnt have to fight to keep that man yes love him show him u love him in all ways but competeing that to much of a job and is he fighting that hard to keep you. Its good advice but it seem to me if a man loves you he should no matter what. U shouldnt have kill yo mind to keep him.

[montanadeleon1]

@8506lina it comes second nature to keep myself on my toes to be phenomenal, whatever motivates me is what works for ME. do u

[LowDrop]

Very good advice. Im on it.

[rikka1287]

Remember Ladies, you have to think on the same level as your man. You cannot assume that you man will get the same message that you are tryin to put out. Men and woman are going to respond differently and put it to the test. Let your man watch this video and check his verbal and non-verbal responses. But I am not knockin this video at all...agree with most things said in here...but i have been that route and def knows how that back fires. But keep the videos coming, love ur topics

[rikka1287]

I must say I do not disagree with you..but i will say this from reading the 48 Laws of Power...plot your steps very carefully because although i do not disagree with you I will say you can always be replaced and topped..and you are very pretty. And I am looking from a prespective of giving everything and being what i considered irreplaceable...and trust i am on top of my game across the board..but that is what has actually put me in a hole...and I lost all power and i am not talkin emotionally.

[montanadeleon1]

@rikka1287 huh?

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 in a nutshell I have been what is considered to be irreplaceable. And believe or not men do not get the same message all the time as we would like them to. Being what i considered to be irreplacable b/c that is how i am by nature I actually discovered my mistakes, and it was from reading 48 Laws of Power. I had lost power without realizing it because I was showing what i thought he had already saw but instead the more i showed the more wrong ideas he got about me.

[montanadeleon1]

@rikka1287 well that was your particular man u were with. i choose to be phenomenal in life to family friends my man and kids cuz everybody like being treated good and nurtured and catered to. As a mother of 5, it just comes naturally to me

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 ok well i see this dead because you are missing my point...I said nothing about you being phenomenal woman lol. And then i go back...see how you just missed the message i put out there...never assume that everyone gets your message the same lol. And im speaking in life baby not just with ur man...i used that as an example because that was your initial topic. OMG i was really just tryin to piggy back off what you said...because anything can back fire....and thats real

[montanadeleon1]

@rikka1287 so what is your point? i dont get what your're trying to tell me about my video. cuz if yur saying no matter how great u are to a man he will leave if he wants to,,,then i already know that.

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 I was merely commenting on your video to add. And you are still missing my point sweetie. Any person will leave if they want to duh! Im basically saying look at things from another prespective to make sure they see that you are a phenomenal woman, just because YOU say you are phenonmenal does not mean that is what the WORLD sees. If thats what you plan to do with your man make sure that is what he sees...and nothing else. Look at you from his eyes and mind.

[montanadeleon1]

@rikka1287 watch the video I JUST put up luv

[Jakayla92]

erbody who keep commenting on all these phenomenal videos talking bout it dont take all dat, this and that...orite...so have your man view @montanadeleon1 's videos on the subject and ask HIM is that all necessary to please him...I bet you'll be shocked at his response while you thought you had erthang down packed dont speak for yo man let him speak for himself on wat it takes 2 be pleased and satisfied

[montanadeleon1]

@Jakayla92 lol, thats something to think about. i wonder how many women will try that

[Jakayla92]

@montanadeleon1 not many...they just prefer to knock what someone else does in their own lives and continue to live with an old mentality come on its 2012 that cooking,cleaning,taking care of the kids all day woman was fine dont get me wrong but why comment negatively to someone who wants to top that. Take care Montana love your videos

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 not to many because I swear as females feel as though they can change or they know what is best for their man. Sadly a lot of females to the complete opposite. But you should not have to out do yourself but continue to be who you are. If you are a good woman that that is something he already sees...the more you try to convey that your message becomes misread...and you being a good woman can be mistaken for doormat. I would love to speak with you on another level.

[montanadeleon1]

@rikka1287 I'm phenomenal in every sense of the word, so being a doormat in not realistic. No one can do to me what i wont allow them and i know my worth so i know what treatment i deserve from my mate

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 You are missing my point. Do not think for one minute that there is not a female that cannot do what you do maybe even better. It goes for men too b/c its always someone out here that can outshine the next person. I never said you were a doormat..i said that how it can come off b/c again you never assume that the message you put there he will fully get understood. I am to evil to be a doormat but i started to look from his eyes after i read the book

[montanadeleon1]

@rikka1287 so after u read the book what changed? u stopped being phenomenal and started being average? thats not in me to do

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 It help me make sure that what i was putting out there wasn't being misktaken and in the end for all to see what type of woman that i am. Im not just sayin it...im hearing it....b/c that is what counts. Like i said just because you believe that is what you are putting out there doesn't mean your message will be read the same by others...and i mean in life not just with men. Being average is not taking the time to understand but in belief that you are doing something diff.

[rikka1287]

@montanadeleon1 I'm not trying to offend you but believe it or not..i was saying the same things at one point but i realized that i was making mistakes with that metality. Not to say anything bad about you, but like i said the biggest lesson i learned is never assume your message will be heard the same by all. Just think of that..maybe something will click maybe not..it did with me. So I stop showing but started looking at what others were seeing. They weren't seeing what i was trying to show

[princessdiamond123]

Great advice from a wife perspective! It's imp2 luv God1st,luv of oneself&luvn da Hubby wholeheartedly...I like that u r providing a more clever way of LOVING, it's so extraordinary...I agree...the more a woman/wife loves herself then naturally she increases her ability to love da Hubby/bf!

[beautymakeover]

Do you be that irreplaceable before marriage?

[montanadeleon1]

@beautymakeover u can give him samples of your qualities but not work hard at it like u got a ring on your finger already

[VivaLaTika]

giiirl you need to write a book! your advice is bomb.com! LOVE.

[montanadeleon1]

@VivaLaTika thanks luv

[PiNKandLuV]

You just taught me sooo much in this video ! Great advice !

[M3shr1983]

I wish my wife could b as you say..

SMH...

[gerryguillory]

thats right men do like challenges u neva suppose to give everything to a man unless u know that u are the only women in his life. because what u wont do another women will

[taylorsjitt]

EXCELLENT on this video… I hope you posted this one to the FB group… you were soooo TRULY ON POINT!!!! ;-)

[ayanharr]

.:: Clears Throat ::.

AMEN Montana!

[heartluvr65]

like the song...

[janicepr08]

AMENNNNN!!!!!!!

[onlinebabeful]

Support your husband 90% ,but always hold back 10% that is your safety net.

Be the best women you can be for yourself then your husband-dont be too giving on a regular basis because men get bored with routine-men like a challenge so present it when necessary..make sure you give your man the world but only if you get it back#

I love like no other and thats why men always want me back.

[itscomplicated011]

you should write a book, i would so buy it!!

[TheLuxurybrown]

Good points :-)

[63tay]

you sound like a pisces woman



[montanadeleon1]

@63tay i am

[katiebrookeee]

im like you but i got the "you care too much" card thrown at me..bs

[mrshughesnewshoes]

i disagree with you love...just be you and make sure he has what he needs...love food and a happy home...thats all it takes...

[montanadeleon1]

@mrshughesnewshoes U can be average, I choose to be PHENOMENAL. We're just different

[miszreese]

@mrshughesnewshoes agreed. If you have to change for a mf, then wtf is the point?

[montanadeleon1]

@miszreese and its not me changing, being phenomenal for me just comes naturally. MOST females arent like me

[miszreese]

@montanadeleon1 That's wonderful... I commented on the lady's comment, wasn't about you. Glad you're super confident but the attitude isn't necessary.

[montanadeleon1]

@miszreese where did u get attitude from? from reading some letters on a screen. how do u read attitude from that? I'm curious. Like I said, most females aren't like me. Some ppl say I'm doing the most when the truth is, it's just natural for me.

[miszreese]

@montanadeleon1 Happy Holidays sweetheart.

[gailloullou]

I love this video, the best video in the world....I'm pumped up! wwwooooo! Thanks girl God bless you

[MsJada]

I needed this message girl! ugh..... :)

[bubblescdj88]

Soooooooo true.

[xavia01]

YOU BETTER PREACH!!

[qutie182001]

Great video :)

[dakingofhearts]

I LOVE THIS REAL WOMAN SHIT! =]

[MsBeautyOBSESSIVE]

Thumbs up!!

[all4ubabyjor]

i love this video girl

[SensuallyStrong]

hmmmmm

[PukhamaD]

I know that's right girlfriend! I heard your conviction in your voice...."the AVERAGE woman....the PHENOMENAL woman" lol....seriously this is some great advice!

[beethatonehun]

what happens if you go above and beyond to be the best wife or girlfriend, and then YOU decide that HE is the one thats replaceable. You left him bcuz he didn't reciprocate up to the standards you have. But you're still heartbroken bcuz you cant find a man that wants to be irreplaceable for YOU. They all don't get what it take to keep you...

[montanadeleon1]

@beethatonehun life is as simple or as complicated as u make it, move on. you have to do YOU in between relationship and love YOURSELF cuz nobody knows how long its gonna take for your next good potential mate comes along

[paandesaal]

Thanks for sharing!

[licialicous]

It all starts with self love

[shaylajanese]

Great video. You kept it all the way real

[1lilgirlbaby5]

that wasn't the smartest question lol not every man is the same everyone likes and looks for different things in a woman

[12345kissy]

Great video

[logician3]

I got a question, Im a guy and id like to know where i can meet a woman with this type of mentality, cause most women dont....

[Beautyishername77]

Yes mama, yes....I live by this and have been for years..u speak the truth be the greatest you that you can be..phenomenal woman

[Mfenwick1986]

ooookay, while watching this, i got the feeling like you really missed him. I know u r changing ur life and becoming better, but how bout u include him n that, too? the Bible does say that sometimes the womwan is how a man is brought to HIM,,,think about it girl. And ;et me say, Im proud of u. u r tru;y beautiful n and out. nur light shinessoooo bright with this new mentality, and baby, I dont even know you. God Bless

[noraknowsBEST]

This is amazing. Wow

[MsFarzee]

This is excellent advice

[abeautyallen1]

YOU SAID THAT!!!

[twuchick]

awesome vid...really inspired me to step it up in my relationship

[rxqueen602]

Thank you Montana it reminds us to not take for granted certain things and always put your best effort into the relationship.

[lrae3]

If i could buy this video i would

[lrae3]

Amen!

[dreamgirl2872]

Yes, yes, yes, yes! You are on it sister! Great advice. You're awesome girl. Stay on your journey to self love. The most important relationship you'll ever have besides your relationship with GOD is the one u have with yourself! Love u girl!!!!

[mimi504]

AWWWW man!!! I wanted to like this video!! oh well LOL!! Thanks girl, your videos are always on point! :D

[thefranchise75]

I love how you say baby, LOL!

[INDINOIS]

SPEAK

[quitamay2010]

I like what u said in this video. I think that both sexes can relate to this advice. Im on a self love journey also and sometimes we dont realize how much our actions, even small ones affect our relationships. Kudos for the advice.

[amberlinea]

wonderful vid Montana... as a wife of 9.5 years I KNOW that you are right. Oh and btw you look gorg!! =)

[xoxtamisha]

Amen sis

[ALauren91]

Thanks montanna, your videos are always helpful!

[sshabon22]

I like the way u think! At first I was giving you the side eye and decided to listen and...I LOVE it! U go girl!

[sshabon22]

I like the way u think! At first I was giving you the side eye and decided to listen and...I LOVE it! U go girl!

[TheJeneli24]

Just a question???? Why would he leave if you doing everything you need to do??? just wondering ??? Confused.

[montanadeleon1]

@TheJeneli24 sometimes thats what some men do, cheat cuz they think they won't get caught or cuz they see something new they wanna try out or see if the "still got it"

[MsDollist]

Love this vid hun

[bee777ful]

ON POINT

[01Galileo]

Great advice!

[werejodelle]

Monatana thank you so much for this video . You really do sound like an amazing person giving the relationship your all and more ! What are some things that we can keep improving other than the sex and cooking ? Maybe you could add some of your tips and tricks in another video if you have the time . Your really wondeful tho this video made me motivated

[montanadeleon1]

@werejodelle each woman should come up with their own personalized way to please their man once they learn what he likes

[wwicequeen30]

Great advice!

[SoileauFamily]

Feelin that cuz I know I'm one of a kind so I never had relationship problems but I agree on going all out for ur man and being his one of a kind

[DaintyBrownGirl]

I had to favorite this! Too many women are so busy screaming how independent they are to be there for their man!

[msrayson]

beautiful look

[divalena30]

THAT"S REAL TALK!! GO GIRL!!!

[BlkChnDoll]

#church.....

[TheTeeti]

Well said Ms. Montana.....Us ladies gotta step our cookies up.... ;-))

[MZHUEY100]

amen tona! u spoke the truth go hard for your man/woman and they will see what they had when there's nomore.. i study ppl in general and alot women need to stop talking and listen to your man and you right when u go hard they wanna keep you home lol,, be friends and lovers that bond will never go away..love this topic

[NikkiAlynn00]

this is so true ...agree 100%

[CooperWednesday]

Pretty lady.

[CooperWednesday]

Pretty lady.

[Yellaabooty]

lol loveeee this!

[justd0ingmything]

You're gorgeous! When you have your hair like this you look like Nicki Minaj! :)

[kimmeeeee]

I'm glad I started watching your channel because at this point in life I need to hear these things more than ever

[majoshlin]

i'm sorry to say that i have to disagree with you on the part about that of out doing. you can be the most beauuuutiful woman, cook well, dress, and to sum it up...do everything better than better and if your husband/boyfriend etc wants to leave, he'll leave. it doesn't matter because lust begins in the heart and no beauty can change that except for Christ!

[montanadeleon1]

@majoshlin who cares if he leaves, cuz when he leaves, you're left with yourself, so u better have SELF LOVE

[majoshlin]

@montanadeleon1 PRECISELY!!!!!!!!

[latereasa]

PREACH!!!!!!

[Terranika1986]

I swear me and you thinkso much alike. everything u talked about is exactly how i am i love to nuture, feed, and take care of mines, lol great job!

[lillynava1]

Keep these kinds of vids coming! <3

[lillynava1]

Keep these kinds of vids coming! <3

[SoLady1]

Love this!

[Tink3rluvv]

Love your videos, you are truly a blessing to many lifes.

God allows us to go through certain trials so that we can grow from them and then help others with our experiences. I truly belief he has a purpose with you bigger then what you can even imagine. God Bless you!!

[crod1219]

PREACH!!!! LOL....This is definately your calling girl. God Bless

[samtrax15]

This some good teaching........ This needs to be on major TV!!! I learn from u thank you

[montanadeleon1]

@topshelfbeauty thats why I only spoke on a "wife

[topshelfbeauty]

Thanks for giving this advice you are so right! Love your confidence every women should think this way of themselves. I'm happy you stated that this should only be for a man that your truly in love with. I would like to add that the women should recognize if the man is truly worth her giving him her all, because sometimes it may not be worth it the man may never fall in love with you cause your not the one for him. Women need to be able to recognize this and not make fools of themselves.

[back2theKurls]

EXCELLENT ADVICE. Thanks for sharing. Have a great weekend

[back2theKurls]

EXCELLENT ADVICE. Thanks for sharing.

[ladymajesty200412]

Great tips. I love being irreplaceable ;) 

[jaurre2007]

be a proverbs 31 woman and all will fall in to place hop this helps be blessed

[wyse3879]

You are too real, and so fine.

[Jtbeauty11]

love the makeup