If you are a guy and your dump the girl, THEN LET HER GO. There is no such thing as 'just friends' after a relationship. Depending on the magnitude of the relationship, give it at least 6 months to a year of no contact.
Im a guy and I dated a girl for a year. I loved her so much and i never had a relationship were I wasnt cheated on. And then she just left me for another guy and it was a week ago and now she telling this guy she loves him. I cant get over it I really want to soo bad but I just cant I really need help or something.
@Caboose2320 as far as I can read, it sounds like Im in the exact same position as you. Why dont you message me and tell me how it all went down. I know what im going to do, maybe i could give you some ideas?
Only women have trouble dealing with break ups, because that's all they think about. Us guys have it easier, because we actually have lives. After a break up, we just go home, watch tv, play video games online, argue with someone in Call of Duty, so our minds are so distracted that the next morning we won't even remember the name of our ex.
@TheBearOverThere That's not true, maybe some guys are like that but it does depend on a lot of things.
1. Who breaks up with who
2. How long you have been together for / or how close you were
3. Why you break up can have an affect
and so on. So it depends on a few things. Obviously the girls you have broken up with were not important to you, and that's why you can move on so quickly.
@TheBearOverThere I also played call of duty online, I became a master at "eder dam" or "poisson d'angers", but I still missed my girlfriend! If you haven't, it's because you weren't that much into her!
I just got dumpped yesterday :'( But theres a problem most of my friends are her friends and i have no idea what i should do I can not just hide in my room all day... Help? :'(
my chick broke up with me like 6 months ago n i thought i was over her til i had a dream where she tells me tht she still loves me n stufff!! then now i feel like i still love her afterall she is my first.. idk wat to do now ? :(
@BAaKaBaDasS I think you should concentrate on the next beautiful girl who will come your way. If you ex comes back to you then take it as an opportunity to give it another shot. :) Make sure you both work on changing your ways for the better though.
@BAaKaBaDasS Love Hurtssss :( i love dis guy truley and it took me ABOUT twoo frkenn years to get overr himm but then i found someone rlly speaciall.... move on with lifee anndd theress bettter out theree anddd somone who truley loves you baakkk(:
do i want revenge? no . do i need to look at pictures to remember ? no she just like here , i did waited for calls but still my unconscious mind still having wierd conversation with her , sigh , why u girls cant be little passionate , oh sorry cant expect much more from fakest creature in the universe
@hopelessthug Trying to cheer people up, works for some, doesn't work for all. Sorry you are going through a tough time. It will get better for you, you just need to believe it. :)
@hetnhdf ?? that didn't really make much sense. But I tryed to make sense of your comment. I have been through a massive break up before with my three year boyfriend, so I really truly know what it is like. Thus, my inspiration to write a novel
i broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago because he was a perv and he flirts with all the girls at school but i miss him tike heak i want him back so much so on the first day of school im going to ask him out again
I broke up with a guy for something thats not worth breaking up for about 3 months ago, and ever since i broke up with him i want him even more. Not till he was gone did i realize how much i like him and i want him back but its so stupid to get back since I broke up with him. Now I cant seem to move on although he has, help!!
@mel2call we tend to want what we have lost, especially if we do not have someone else. There must have been an underlying reason for you breaking it off with him! It is also the fact that it is totally natural to want someone back which you have shared intimacy with, especially if they have someone else or have moved on... I think you should let him go and if he wants you he will contact you, otherwise you may make things worse. In the end though you need to do what feels right inside of you:)
hahaha thnx for the video, i'm passing through a really tough time right now, and your video made me laugh...
BTW i don't agree that crying means that you don't love yourself, after all a breakup is a loss, a person that shared my life for years and knew very little something about me is gone for ever, so crying seems natural for me ...
4 months ago, my boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He told me he didn't love me anymore. It's been 4 months, and I'm still madly in love with him. I still have all of his stuff becuase he said he didn;t want it back. I really am trying to get over him but I can't seem to.
o.k. my response to this may sound harsh, but it is the truth...as I have been through this with past bf of 3 years. When you get rid of all the "Stuff" that reminds you of him you will get over it faster. But you also need to follow the tips in the video. It was hard for me to do, but I burnt it all hehe It really helped me to psychologically move on though ;)
Ok i came here b-cuz im 15 my bf wrote me a note sayin tht he was breakin up with me...he didnt even say why! i cnt stop thinkin bout him an i see him in school everyday an its really hard on me...what should i do i try to stay with my friends but somehow he keeps popping up
hey gshineman either your drunk (which I hope you are) or an extremely bad speller. Also, if your 21 and stuck up on a high school relationship then you should just shoot yourself now! haven't you ever heard the phrase college the best years of your life??!?!? yeah its true when else do you get to go out and met as many people..... social interaction is key my friend. My advice quit your bitching and move on to your new gf five finger sally XD lol these videos are sarcastic and actual self help.
ok well I came to this channel because im been broken up for the since Jan.07 look i know its prolly stupid buy im only 21 nd it happened back in highschool i still miss her and she broke up with me and nd i still cant get over it i mean i tried nd it jus gets as far as it gets idk wat to do...she jus moved on and i never rly did
dear gshineman, I used to have a crush on someone for a long time. I understand it can take some healing sometimes. But think of your happiness. You deserve to be happy. You will find someone as special as her. I promise. You need to believe it though and learn to love your self....in a healthy way! ;)
i recently got crushed by a girl, i cant get over it, i thought i had something and then she just ruined me, im a junior in high school and i know i can do better but it isnt enoug for me, she is always around me , in my classes, even sitting next to me and i ask myself how am i going to get rid of these feelings for her. I cant get away from her, any suggestions?
it will be hard, but block her out of your mind and focus on other goals for yourself that will make you happy. Also do what I said in the video, think of the qualities you want in your partner and focus on that. I am sure another girl will come your way!
sleep with someone hotter than her, preferably her best friend! once you get back on the saddle you will realize that there are tons of girls out there.
the phone thing is where im at right now lol we just broke up and i feel like i cant live....and that chris brown so u played for like 8 seconds started tears cause i have a memory with him from that song....im really sad but thanks :)
thanks for making these
BklueDevil66 1 month ago
If you are a guy and your dump the girl, THEN LET HER GO. There is no such thing as 'just friends' after a relationship. Depending on the magnitude of the relationship, give it at least 6 months to a year of no contact.
MrSmashman1981 4 months ago
Nice
bordmanjr 5 months ago
THIS WAS ME COMPLETELY ! I'M GOING TO TAKE YOUR ADVICE THANK YOU SO MUCH !:)
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xxcraszyckutexx 7 months ago
Dhatsxz Me Waitin Fo The Fone Call. ii Am Actually Waitin Fo A Text :'(
xxcraszyckutexx 7 months ago
Great video:-)
latoriababyphat 10 months ago
Im a guy and I dated a girl for a year. I loved her so much and i never had a relationship were I wasnt cheated on. And then she just left me for another guy and it was a week ago and now she telling this guy she loves him. I cant get over it I really want to soo bad but I just cant I really need help or something.
Caboose2320 1 year ago
@Caboose2320 as far as I can read, it sounds like Im in the exact same position as you. Why dont you message me and tell me how it all went down. I know what im going to do, maybe i could give you some ideas?
BatMak23 1 year ago
you are hilarious.
BernadetteDiMeglio 1 year ago
Only women have trouble dealing with break ups, because that's all they think about. Us guys have it easier, because we actually have lives. After a break up, we just go home, watch tv, play video games online, argue with someone in Call of Duty, so our minds are so distracted that the next morning we won't even remember the name of our ex.
TheBearOverThere 1 year ago
@TheBearOverThere That's not true, maybe some guys are like that but it does depend on a lot of things.
1. Who breaks up with who
2. How long you have been together for / or how close you were
3. Why you break up can have an affect
and so on. So it depends on a few things. Obviously the girls you have broken up with were not important to you, and that's why you can move on so quickly.
KerryMakis 1 year ago 6
@TheBearOverThere I also played call of duty online, I became a master at "eder dam" or "poisson d'angers", but I still missed my girlfriend! If you haven't, it's because you weren't that much into her!
pierneus 1 year ago
Ur video was really helpful thank you
guyanarulz 1 year ago
Your so hot!!
samsok81 1 year ago
i know how to deal with a break up.....by looking to your eyes!! :-)
persini 1 year ago
Also many people think she will get back with me... If she does i have no idea what to do :( Please reply....
smitj019 1 year ago
I just got dumpped yesterday :'( But theres a problem most of my friends are her friends and i have no idea what i should do I can not just hide in my room all day... Help? :'(
smitj019 1 year ago
you can check mark the box (find true love) cause im right here haha
famous23tom 1 year ago
my chick broke up with me like 6 months ago n i thought i was over her til i had a dream where she tells me tht she still loves me n stufff!! then now i feel like i still love her afterall she is my first.. idk wat to do now ? :(
BAaKaBaDasS 1 year ago
@BAaKaBaDasS I think you should concentrate on the next beautiful girl who will come your way. If you ex comes back to you then take it as an opportunity to give it another shot. :) Make sure you both work on changing your ways for the better though.
KerryMakis 1 year ago
@BAaKaBaDasS hunhhhhh me 2 only it was last week, i want her back so much, but shes with someone els :'(
gunmaker9758 1 year ago
@BAaKaBaDasS Love Hurtssss :( i love dis guy truley and it took me ABOUT twoo frkenn years to get overr himm but then i found someone rlly speaciall.... move on with lifee anndd theress bettter out theree anddd somone who truley loves you baakkk(:
sara958967 5 months ago
I LOVE THIS VIDEO! is hilarious! thanks for making me feel ten times better lol
glittercowgirl72 1 year ago
ill try that one thanks , its about 1070 hours that shes gone wateva its me again no more us or we gtta find a way that makes me happy n stronger
hopelessthug 1 year ago
do i want revenge? no . do i need to look at pictures to remember ? no she just like here , i did waited for calls but still my unconscious mind still having wierd conversation with her , sigh , why u girls cant be little passionate , oh sorry cant expect much more from fakest creature in the universe
hopelessthug 1 year ago
@hopelessthug Trying to cheer people up, works for some, doesn't work for all. Sorry you are going through a tough time. It will get better for you, you just need to believe it. :)
KerryMakis 1 year ago
whenu look like u hun brake ups r a piece of cake woman have it easy u dont have a fucking clue
hetnhdf 1 year ago
@hetnhdf ?? that didn't really make much sense. But I tryed to make sense of your comment. I have been through a massive break up before with my three year boyfriend, so I really truly know what it is like. Thus, my inspiration to write a novel
KerryMakis 1 year ago
i broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago because he was a perv and he flirts with all the girls at school but i miss him tike heak i want him back so much so on the first day of school im going to ask him out again
Damienluver100 1 year ago
i hate the Hi Guys
keemo53 1 year ago
I broke up with a guy for something thats not worth breaking up for about 3 months ago, and ever since i broke up with him i want him even more. Not till he was gone did i realize how much i like him and i want him back but its so stupid to get back since I broke up with him. Now I cant seem to move on although he has, help!!
mel2call 1 year ago
@mel2call we tend to want what we have lost, especially if we do not have someone else. There must have been an underlying reason for you breaking it off with him! It is also the fact that it is totally natural to want someone back which you have shared intimacy with, especially if they have someone else or have moved on... I think you should let him go and if he wants you he will contact you, otherwise you may make things worse. In the end though you need to do what feels right inside of you:)
KerryMakis 1 year ago
this is hilarious is definateky wiped my tears away hehe aw thanks very useful stuff :)
pinknglitter1 1 year ago
@pinknglitter1 you're welcome :)
KerryMakis 1 year ago
hahaha thnx for the video, i'm passing through a really tough time right now, and your video made me laugh...
BTW i don't agree that crying means that you don't love yourself, after all a breakup is a loss, a person that shared my life for years and knew very little something about me is gone for ever, so crying seems natural for me ...
Thnx again...
alikala 1 year ago
4 months ago, my boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He told me he didn't love me anymore. It's been 4 months, and I'm still madly in love with him. I still have all of his stuff becuase he said he didn;t want it back. I really am trying to get over him but I can't seem to.
kelina4949 1 year ago
o.k. my response to this may sound harsh, but it is the truth...as I have been through this with past bf of 3 years. When you get rid of all the "Stuff" that reminds you of him you will get over it faster. But you also need to follow the tips in the video. It was hard for me to do, but I burnt it all hehe It really helped me to psychologically move on though ;)
KerryMakis 1 year ago
Ok i came here b-cuz im 15 my bf wrote me a note sayin tht he was breakin up with me...he didnt even say why! i cnt stop thinkin bout him an i see him in school everyday an its really hard on me...what should i do i try to stay with my friends but somehow he keeps popping up
lovetgal 1 year ago
LMFAO!! This is sooo funny!
militarymonty 2 years ago
Great vid! You are so hilarious! thanks!
meka4996 2 years ago
hey gshineman either your drunk (which I hope you are) or an extremely bad speller. Also, if your 21 and stuck up on a high school relationship then you should just shoot yourself now! haven't you ever heard the phrase college the best years of your life??!?!? yeah its true when else do you get to go out and met as many people..... social interaction is key my friend. My advice quit your bitching and move on to your new gf five finger sally XD lol these videos are sarcastic and actual self help.
cryptachronflava 2 years ago
ok well I came to this channel because im been broken up for the since Jan.07 look i know its prolly stupid buy im only 21 nd it happened back in highschool i still miss her and she broke up with me and nd i still cant get over it i mean i tried nd it jus gets as far as it gets idk wat to do...she jus moved on and i never rly did
gshineman 2 years ago
dear gshineman, I used to have a crush on someone for a long time. I understand it can take some healing sometimes. But think of your happiness. You deserve to be happy. You will find someone as special as her. I promise. You need to believe it though and learn to love your self....in a healthy way! ;)
KerryMakis 2 years ago
i recently got crushed by a girl, i cant get over it, i thought i had something and then she just ruined me, im a junior in high school and i know i can do better but it isnt enoug for me, she is always around me , in my classes, even sitting next to me and i ask myself how am i going to get rid of these feelings for her. I cant get away from her, any suggestions?
maxhangtime 2 years ago
it will be hard, but block her out of your mind and focus on other goals for yourself that will make you happy. Also do what I said in the video, think of the qualities you want in your partner and focus on that. I am sure another girl will come your way!
KerryMakis 2 years ago
sleep with someone hotter than her, preferably her best friend! once you get back on the saddle you will realize that there are tons of girls out there.
funkkysegaboy 2 years ago
Thanks for this vid. Helped me realise some stuff (:
keataa 2 years ago
no probs! :)
KerryMakis 2 years ago
this helped
shygurl4428 2 years ago 2
I'm glad :)
KerryMakis 2 years ago
the phone thing is where im at right now lol we just broke up and i feel like i cant live....and that chris brown so u played for like 8 seconds started tears cause i have a memory with him from that song....im really sad but thanks :)
floetry613 2 years ago
you'll be fine, be strong! and you're welcome!
KerryMakis 2 years ago
Nice vedeo
metamorphazised 2 years ago 2
see you loved the guy and now you want revenge? what ever happened to letting the one you love go? be happy for him
smileynirvana2 2 years ago
Yes true, that's why it is best not to seek revenge and to be happy within yourself.
KerryMakis 2 years ago
Kerry , Have I ever told you that you just have the most marvelous face ? You are so playful and cute ! Too funny, thanks for the lift... Aloha...
euripideesshreds 2 years ago 6
4:20 O.o
nikmiknikmik 2 years ago
you are funny and really cool! :) love your videos! ;)))
SerpentineGiedre 2 years ago 4