The Wrong Way to be a Parent during a Divorce.

[parie4me]

:'(



[skin9n]

Hmmm.....it's sad how all this happens but sometimes ppl don't know how it feels until it actually happens to them...this also affects the kids, growing up with out a dad or a mom.....

[SporeshadowX]

yakult244 I agree

[Mickeymouselover777]

This feels like what my parents used to be like but now after the divorce I really MISS it

[ivaflimkien]

appeal to the people of malta-do NOT vote IN FAVOUR of divorce in the upcoming referendum this year. vote NO.

[unclefixer]

Getting a divorce starts a war, usually because one side thinks they can win! Nobody wins, one side might end up with the kids, the house and all the money, but they did not win. The other side who lost it all will see to that.

Peace requires justice, and justice is holding accountable that person that " started this war" Most of the time , it is the woman, and the system is not interested in holding her accountable, that might slow the money making racket down and put fear in these women.

[PepperAnnBootsey]

I wish I could change the past. I'm hurting so bad now and there's nothing I can do. After tomorrow it'll be officially over. :( This is what happened to my parents last night I bet

[RobertMOdell]

Divorce is a sin. Remarriage is a sin.  If you have divorced and remarried, you will not go to heaven.

[SassySoulja4]

@RobertMOdell Unless you've asked God for forgiveness. And besides, cheating, in all forms is the leading cause of divorce and remarriage, which is also a sin.

[RobertMOdell]

@SassySoulja4 If you were cheated on or your spouse dies are the only cases where God allows you to leave your marriage and re-marry. Otherwise, it is known as adultery. You cannot get forgiveness for any sin that you are continuing to commit. You must repent and forsake sin before God will forgive.

[devol264]

@RobertMOdell heh well guess what, its also a sin to judge people the way got is suppose to. not to seem rude but you have no say if god will forgive or not. here is a question, have you ever had sex before marriage or even touched yourself? have you taken the lords name in vain? think about it my friend, you are not one to judge, our father is the one who will judge and he will decide who will go to heaven or hell not you.

[RobertMOdell]

@devol264 God already told us who will go to heaven or hell. Those who forsake their sins, and follow Christ will go to heaven. Those who do not will go to hell. Yes, I have sinned in my life many many times. However, I repented and turned to Christ and He has saved me from my sins. It is Jesus who will decide who goes to heaven or hell. It is not a sin to give righteous judgment. Rather, it is commanded. Additionally sharing the gospel it isn't even judging to begin with.

[RobertMOdell]

1 John 3:4-9 No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him. ... No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God.

[devol264]

@RobertMOdell but you will sin again correct? then you will be forgiven again correct? why cant these people be forgiven for their mistakes?

[RobertMOdell]

@devol264 If I do sin again, I will only be forgiven if I repent. If I continue to live in deliberate sin, then all I have to look forward to is hell. You cannot both repent and continue to live in sin at the same time. In order to repent, you must forsake your sin, and that means you must stop and seek forgiveness. It is impossible to continue on in adultery and at the same time gain forgiveness. You must first repent.

[demondog108]

@RobertMOdell Divorce is bad, but in my mother's case, it was necessary. She was forced to marry my dad at age 14 for land property conveniences over there in California. After several years, Mom got tired of my Dad's Alcoholism and took me and my older sister and ran away from San Antonio to somewhere in East Texas. My dad was an raging alcoholic but NOT willing to get himself help or heed my mother's warnings.

So if you divorce for the safety of your children, is that a sin?

[RobertMOdell]

@demondog108 What you have described are the right reasons for separation. But why divorce? God hates divorce. It is an extreme form of separation that does not reflect the character of love. However, if divorce is actually needed to protect the children, God says He sees the motivations of the heart. Such a difficult situation as divorce also opens the door wider for being tempted into adultery.

[demondog108]

@RobertMOdell Well, Divorce is a depressing situation, by all means, but my mother didn't even want to marry him. Her parents and my Dad's parents MADE them marry ( it's what they always do in Mexican society). It was so both families could add their land together. A marriage of convenience for the Parents and not for my mother or father.

[nubradmn]

this is why i'm so scare to get marry. all i want is a good career, a two bed apt and an adopted child

[RobertW1809]

So real. Well done.

[MrThe1whomakesnovids]

I'm fourteen and I like to think I'm relatively mature and I think that anyone who is a parent and is considering divorce please don't do it. In my opinion when you make the mistake of marrying the wrong person and then having children with that person it is your job as a parent to suffer through it at least until your child or children are out of the house. For me it ruined everything when my parents got a divorce I am forced to act differently at each house and It's difficult to know who I am.

[BearOfGlock]

@MrThe1whomakesnovids LOL suck it up bitch everyone goes through hard times.

[xMusicalMelancholyx]

D: This all happned... I heard it from my parent's room.... I am soo sad.

[rainbows6100]

@xMusicalMelancholyx hey my dad said 0:15 the same thing....

[todopor]

Is so true.We act like that in our marriage,i think want to get the divorce

[PeaceAndLove4Ever3]

Wow....at first i thought they were yelling at there kids.

But this made my cry....seriously.

[Badkitty1108]

The only thing that would have made this video more realistic is if they'd shown the parents accusing their kid of being just like the "bad" parent. My dad loved to tell me, at the age of 6, how my mom had brainwashed me to waste money. When I liked a Madonna song at age 8 he said, "You don't like Madonna. Your mother does." So I just stopped being myself around him and tried to act like someone else in the hopes that maybe he could love me. Totally fucked me up for years.

[divorceddaddy]

This is sad. My Swiss wife has convinced my daughter to hate me. I have never known my daughter since she was two, but still she tells me how well she knows me and how i am a master manipulator and this and that - all the stuff her mom used to say to me. She thinks she knows me. It's easier to believe dad was a bastard instead of knowing me and discovering the cold hard truths about how mom broke our connection. She'll be 18 on May 18, 2009. We've been separated by an ocean since she was two.

[Sameliah1991]

thats very sad . well i hope one day she will realize how much you love her and how much you really want to know her.

[airraideagle]

All parents (mothers & fathers) who get divorced, cheat/commit adultery, abandon their family, and thus destroy their family, are nothing but SICKENING FUCKING CUNTS! And I hope they experience all of the pain, hurt, devastation, suffering, confusion, grief and AGONY that they cause their kids.

[Bama8902]

Hey im a parent of 2 great children. Some times you cant be with the person that you got married to. Most people start to change years after marriage. Some times divorce is the only option.

[whatsthepointtothisw]

shouldnt the kids have a say in this, because when my parents divorced, i had a choice

[fastlee93]

wtf

[RevolutionChick]

mmmm...if my only parents watched this.

[BALANCE94015]

the purpose of DIVORCE is to INSTITUTIONALIZE CHILDREN. RESTRAINING ORDERS is to isolate, decimate, ruin, manipulate, and destroy men. CHILD SUPPORT is the modern day slavery, with no accountability as to how that support is being spent, and that quickly leads to poverty, crime, imprisonment, and suicide, in the worst case, a family genocide. WOMEN IN THE UNITED STATES HATE MEN FOR WOMEN HATE THEMSELVES. POWER AND CONTROL, RIGHT?

[MomsChoiceAwards]

Important work! You should consider entering this in the Mom's Choice Awards Category #907: YouTube Amateur Video Production.

[videoparentingcourse]

This Video was apart of a series showing the devestation of a divorce on children. The course offered in Florida shows parents how not to act, and helps them find a middle groun when going through a divorce.