Dating Advice: Spice up your first phone conversation with a woman!

[marouan1020]

Bullshit

[kajoj21]

pardon? what? what? woot?!

crap... if so, it shall be tried :))

[anthriani]

lol the advice is good... but to be fair.. a girl can think ur funny and at the same think 'what an idiot'

[roddous29]

i agree with it its all about the confidence in ur voice thats the key thing

[eviltheory]

Man, I would trade my guitar skills for your dating skills! You are brilliant!

[Persia4L1fe]

You're Awesome!! thanks for all these videos that you make and your great website!

[ninatbx]

Who is the man?

Arkady is the man.

[druidage]

haha that made me laugh! dude ur awesome thanks for the videos!

[AxiomaticObserver]

that was smooth, Im taking notes.

[yyydanyyyy]

and the phone bill will become bigger and bigger then and there :P

just kidding!

you're advices are extraordinary!

[arkady39]

@yyydanyyyy

Thanks a lot.

[djbro16]

exaggerate your confidence, women love it, feminist dont.. also a perfect tool to weed out those feminist!

[fsasdrummerboy]

dude your awesome. thank a bunch man

[djotroy17]

I think your vids are great...however I also think a few of your jokes including this one is a little cheezy and that your accent really helps you pull it off. I think if I tryed using this the girl wouldnt catch the humor and see me as being rude.

[arkady39]

Well, surely no joke works on every girl every time, but every single tip I share has been successfully used by at least two of my students on two separate occasions. And again - like in any other part of interaction with women, HOW you deliver your conversation, jokes, humor, etc... is so much more important than the exact words you use. Sometimes, the cheesiest joke works, especially if your tone and your voice convey that you know that what you say is cheesy.

[babinkaman]

Thanks for putting all of this advice on here for free! You seem really genuine and humble, which is a good change from some other dating instructors i've seen. Keep it up!

[skunkfromtheashes]

I don't agee with this, but i'm still gonna try it.

[arkady39]

Ok, why don't you agree with this?

[rocawhite]

ur a genous

[arkady39]

Thanks, you are too kind.

[evielife]

Hehehe you are a master of good lines. You don't even have a sexy accent on your e-mails and you flatter me.

[arkady39]

You are too kind!

Don't be terrified of the dating world. It's out there waiting for you to grab it by its horns!

A.I.

[arkady39]

Thanks for your kind words. Whether it comes across as arrogant or funny only depends on one thing - the tone / tonality of the voice. If it's clear that the man speaks with playful / sarcastic attitude it will not come across as arrogant and most cool women like yourself will find it funny and attractive!

[arkady39]

Exactly. You must come across as playful and teasing and sarcastic. If you sound serious, that's going to have a reverse effect. Also, some women have a very poor sense of humor and they just don't get jokes (I find those to be generally unworthy of dealing with).

[mercilessgladiator]

very niceee, sometimes i might over do it and they might think im conceieded -_-"

[arkady39]

Thank you. You won't come across as conceited if it's clear from your voice that you are being playful and are teasing her.

[puawannabe]

I think I have trouble in that area. Sometimes when i try to seem playful and humorous (C&F) it comes off the wrong way. I guess I need to practice on my delivery?