There are only 2 styles I trust and am comfortable with in selfdefense, and those are Pukulan Serak, and Yang Shao Hou's Tai Chi.
If you can find a teacher in either of those styles, don't pass that opportunity up. And that is not hype, just my experience (and bodytype/temperament) in 34 years learning and reading about martial arts.
Yang Shao Hou Tai Chi
watch?v=T2cJpBeNOsE
Serak
watch?v=WiJfPs0sRFs
No exaggerated postures, and reflexive/percussive movements are what you are looking for.
just came across this interesting video with good instruction.....the only problem rarely being mentioned is that in actual physical self-defense you wear yourself out so very quickly ;consider the head-butt ,you may do 10 times headbutts by the time you finish you probably are too exhausted . It is very demanding whether you " fight '' or " flight " ....fitness first ,technique and strength are inseparable. Awareness and mental preparation is all that you need. Good luck
I've been in Martial Arts self Defense Training for 25 years learning judo,jujitsu, teakwandow, sambo,and pancration and have never seen anything like that. Just do what ya seid but with the praying thing but push out with your arms that will brake his grip. or just hit his elbos down-word. There are many things you can do but only so many work for you.
Maybe you will wounder, but kicking between legs in half-close position works really bad in real life. Eyes are also hard to reach, he will just put his head down and shackle to sides and she will lose grip pretty fast. But sill very fast attack against eyes is probably best option she would have.
to any ladies watching this, do as much damage as you can, show thefucker you are not taking shit from anybody, do everything he says plus a good kick in the nuts ITS YOUR LIFE
in wing-tsun,we were always taught not to do it that way because the guy could be a lot stronger and it might be ineffective if you cant break his grip on the neck.we were taught to take your right arm,loop it around over the top of both his arms and force them down with a hard strike,grab his arms at the waist with your left arm and elbow strike with the right
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Eye gouge-depicted by this great video- 50lbs of pressure can rupture a eye. This is easily achievable with your thumbs.This will render them blind. Very effective, and a much better option then just pulling their arms down where they can re grab you/ strike you.
Yikes, you should almost never have to head-butt your oppnt, especially not a good idea if they are bigger and stronger. Good advice about not collapsing the arms if the opponent is bulkier. Choking back better or thumbs to the eyes good advice, but there is another choice that does not require a lot of strength. Have the kid take one hand, rake the face grab the opposit opponent wrist while stepping behind turning the body out of the choke. That technique is all body and little str reqrd.
I've been teaching my students to do a kind of double-hand power assist to the chin with a kick to the shin, a stomp to the foot, then going into fiend (one arm across the collar bone, grabbing the opposite shoulder then with the other coming back like in a traditional MMA block--"combing the hair or using the cellphone.") Then a mid-line attack to the sternum/solar-plexus. then drive and get outta there.
This is not a very good way. I am a chinese and I learn kung fu. I suggest you should do it outside and use your elbow to hit his arm and push him away with your right hand.
@bleedingrosesinc IT is best to strike with the upper ridge of the forehead right at the hairline, but also it is important to hit the correct target. The nose and mouth area are far more fragile then the area you are hitting with, and they will give, you may get a slight cut to the scalp but it is far worse for him. You don't want to hit forehead to forehead, this could hurt you.
what if your head butts strike the crown of their head with your forehead? I have seen more see inflicted concussions when trying to use a head butt. Place your tongue to the roof of your mouth for a five second window, whats wrong with multitude of techniques taught the world over. a good pal striking uppercut to the jaw is nice too, no matter the size of the attacker.
I am a knife fighter with a background in judo, boxing and Chinese fast grappling. Anything can work under the right situation the only problem all dangerous situations are dynamic and there is no given set of rules. For women because of their physical stature I recommend weapons, but if it comes down to it anything that can give them the opportunity to escape I recommend.
@ThePowersleeper That could easily be worked into the technique, but the groin may not be exposed. Besides that this technique isn't all that complicated if you think about it.
@hrvad Well there are several easier ways of doing it, where you aren't hurting yourself in the process in the same manner as here (referring to the headbutt) plus your everyday brute doesn't really think of covering up his groin.
Well, that's all fine and dandy when you say "That not a real good defense for a choke you will get kill really fast"... but would you mind explaining a better one then?!?
There's a technique in Hapkido that's probably more effective: in the same position, the defender rams a finger in the soft part of the neck and then pushes down making a C figure with her finger, like trying to ram your finger down into and down their wind pipe. Give it a try, push the soft area GENTLY! at the bottom of the neck just before the collar bones join at the chest, it will choke them and they will have to back off.
Would'nt work if you 13 facing a male opponent that is above 16, And also he can easely lean his head back to prevent the face pushing technice, Correct me if im wrong?
@TheTrollLegacy If he leans back enough to where her hands can'r reach him then he has to release the choke. When he does this simply change tactics. Instead of attacking high line which he would now be prepared for attack low line.Maybe kick him in the groin and escape. This is a workable technique. We could "what if" it to death. That is why we train. To get solutions to these "what ifs".
Great video. I think the most important lesson from this video was when you stated that "do the technique until he lets go and she can run away". I know each state has it's own laws on "self defense" but generally speaking if the attacker is no longer a threat to you (or someone else) then you should disengage from the conflict. There are many techniques for self defense but understnding of the law is equally important to real self defense. Thank you for your time. Osu
@DarkMagician70 actually yes she could have pulled your hands off of her neck. your squeezing your hands together at arms length, where as she would be pulling your hands apart just inches from her throat. the back and shoulder muscles, along with the position, create a mechanical advantage in favor of her. she would easily, even with no weight training, be able to remove your hands, and then kick you in the groin. sorry; its just physics. she could have.
A kick to the man parts works too. But if thats in-successful you're gonna pass out before you can do the thing in this vid. I reccomend doing this instead of trying to go for the lower area honestly, its more effective and quicker. :D Who says you can't combine them? Replace the headbuts with attacks lower and heh.. he for sure isn't chasing you then.
If he's close enough to choke me he's close enough for me to kick him in the balls or once I gouged his eyes I'd kick him in his balls. my husband taught me a better way to break a choke hold though, just grab hold of one of his fingers and bend it backward and break it then kick him in the balls.
@Mekana89 well headbutts do hurt but when u r in a situation like this u have adrenaline so it will only hurt afterwords but either way look at it this way would u rather take the headache or die??
The head-butt part at the end concerns me. What if i hurt myself in the process? From what I hear head-butts hurt like hell... how can I run away if Im disoriented myself with my attacker?
I agree. This is better for a female because she may not be able to loosen the attacker's arms from the outside positioning of her arms; however, with her arms between his in an upward "praying" position, she will have a better chance. The eye technique, though brutal, will definitely help coupled with one or more head butts.
Very unique and rational defense. I was doubtful at first but then i saw where you went with that. The only criticisms are if its in a struggle the movement of arms to the face may miss there target and it will be a fight to get the hands in place before going out. The second is that when you head butt you cause mild mild concussion equivalent to the force used. Surely in the exact position you were in a knee to the groin would be faster safer and more effective take down. What is this MA btw?
@1stNightingale Thank you, I teach a mix of styles. This video contains at least two. The praying hands technique is Hapkido. The thumb gouge and head butt are from Krav Maga. Most of my videos are like this, compilation of different forms, applied to a specific scenario
@1stNightingale i agree with you. to be be effective with the nut you have to drill it over and over again, there is a lot of room for error in a frantic struggle. a knee to the nuts would be a lot more effective, allowing for escape. also when attacking the eyes its good practise to aim for the tear ducts and force your thumbs in then spread outwards. still a good defense video though, im not criticising just putting in a couple of things my sensei taught me. others may disagree
IAnother thing to do against a male is a sharp jab, by pointing fingers and thumb together, and striking the armpit. It causes that entire side of the body to go temporarily numb, just long enough to get away. Another thing to do, and very effective as well, is using the index finger, push in the middle of the chest cavity, at the throat, and then down. It will cause the "attacker" to choke and release grip.
In that position his throat is open & undefended, take those praying hands & jab him as hard as you can in the adams apple. He'll let go in a hurry, the attacker should choke her out with his elbow close together. This way he can still move them outward to defend himself from any attack more easily because now she will have to go for a longer strike from outside of his arms. This is a bad choking technique either way since her hands are free to reach for a knife & stab him in the mid section.
You were so much bigger that the victim, I doubt it would work on such a small woman. Good technique to use on my next date. Squeeze until the blood vessels in the white of the eyes pop, then you know you got a keeper. Those tendons in the neck are hard to cut through even with a fillet
@RyuHanamichi Ideally, you want to avoid giving your opponent any chance to get your back in an altercation. Try to stay facing them; at least until out of physical reach.
Great video. More realistic than others I have seen. Another technique that may work is to have the victim tuck her chin in, sweep one arm over the choker's arms as she steps out and to the side and turns around, hitting the choker with her elbow as she pivots. Then, depending on the situation, she goes for his groin, eyes, or runs.
@gaggotgaggot no, you said you would have grabbed them. If you sexually assault someone and they react violently against you, you brought it on yourself
I've never tried it, but this looks like a legit technique. Like the others said, though, a knee to the nuts is an option as well, after you've relieved the pressure from the throat, that is.
Why not try punching the attackers throat hard then do that? Just a suggestion because if the punch to the attacker's throat is hard enough, he/she will have difficulty breathing and will most likely give up.
I am an instructor with years of training and have worked in the close protection industry, and whilst this is a very well made clip, the technique wont work in some instances because of arm length strength and the amount of pressure on the throat,in reality when someone applies that type of choke its always at arms length so they can apply as much pressure as possible, trust me I have had this happen to me
Love the thumbs to the eyes. Something else to consider. When in the praying move, another may be the attackers throat. However, turn one hand (most likely the dominate hand) so palm is facing the victim and knuckles facing attacker fingers extended. The fingers can then pinpoint the throat area. Enjoyed the vid.
Maybe the first self defense videoon YOUTUBE that I have seen that would actually work. It is simple, not at all pretty, but effective. One thing though, as he said this is a deadly force situation, so once she has her thumbs on the eyes if she hooks the thumbs and digs the fight is over.
Every guy for the past 10000 years expects and defends against female knee to groin, not to mention that knee to groin does not incapacitate and is simple to block. It is a silly technique to teach a girl when her life is at stake.
@cutegirl1854 Agreed. Forget all that. Press in his eyes. I mean drive your thumbs all the way in, nails leading, you'll dish out crazy pain, he'll break the hold, slap away the arms fast and run! Oh and he'll have serious damage to his eyes as well. That'll teach him some manners.
Try it out gently with a friend, it'll take only a little bit of pressure to really push your nails and fingers deep into the eyes. Now remeber that in a situation like this you don't hold back. Push in hard!
How is she gonna headbutt someone that's much taller than her. I don't think this would work in a real situation, especially if someone grabs your neck much taller and stronger.
@TributeToTesla Agreed. Forget the headbutt. Press in his eyes. I mean drive your thumbs all the way in, nails leading, you'll dish out crazy pain, he'll break the hold, slap away the arms fast and run! Oh and he'll have serious damage to his eyes as well. That'll teach him some manners.
Try it out gently with a friend, it'll take only a little bit of pressure to really push your nails and fingers deep into the eyes. Now remeber that in a situation like this you don't hold back. Push in hard!
@CMBPT2010 Aaaannnnddd, where does the head wind up after a knee to the gut/groin???? Conveniently down, for a head butt or possibly to be pushed into a rising knee. :D
THATS EASY, YOU CAN ALSO TURN YOURSELF FOR ONE SIDE, HE WILL LEAVE YOU. BUT I PREFER MAKE PAINFUL DAMAGES IN ORDER TO AVOID NEXT ATTACK. THE FINGERS MUST ENTER FAST AN DEEPER IN THE EYES ORBIT. NO MERCY. IN PREFERENCE WITH KI THEYARE LIKE STACKS, AND DONT BREAK.
i agreed with your method right up to the headbutt point. there should be no reason for the headbutt. once a person is getting their eyes stabed by the thumbs they are likley going to let go and try to get the girls hands out of their eyes. it would seem a better use of the womans energy to simultaneous knee the groin and when the attacker lossens his grip due to pain to RUN. plus most people do not know how to properly head butt and might knock them selves out. Just my opinion.
@perfectshot77 it is a very bad idea to "beg" in such a situation. If someone chokes you you 1. can not speak any more and 2. have only approx. 14 (!) seconds until you pass out. The time until you pass out is so short because the blood (and thus oxygen) transport to your brain is stopped - you can NOT compare this with holding your breath, which you easily can do much longer! So your highest priority in such a moment has to be to regain the blood-flow to your brain (aka stop the choking).
@perfectshot77 What?!? NO. One of the worst pieces of well known advice out there is to yell "Fire!" Fire is an environmental danger. People may want to observe, but only from a distance that's safe for themselves. And yelling "Help" by itself isn't much better because it communicates nothing. You need to yell clear concise commands that tell bystanders what your situation is so they can help accordingly.
@timtico It is important to remember that the most important part of this technique is the hold break. The eye gouge and head butt are only suggested conclusions. A person could choose others id they prefer.
@perfectshot77 Begging for mercy and crying is not going to help-if someone is determined to harm you, they will go through with it, they wont change their mind. Best thing to know in this situation is how to counterattack.
When it's your husband, you don't react in time. When he's twice your weight and 7" taller with longer arms, nothing works. Tried everything. Tried the moves in self-defense class years later. I know none would have worked. This is tougher than you make it look. Couldn't reach his eyes. Tried pushing arms up from middle, tried going overtop, tried elbows, tried kicking (he just leaned at different angle), can't scream, can't speak. Eyes black. Nothing to bargain to. I'll NEVER be there again.
@Dorisequador heres a real world tip for you , what if you dont have those things on you eh, and what if the persons not from america where you can go running around with a gun everywhere you go , what then .....
did she really actually put her thumb into his eyes? that looked painful
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There are only 2 styles I trust and am comfortable with in selfdefense, and those are Pukulan Serak, and Yang Shao Hou's Tai Chi.
If you can find a teacher in either of those styles, don't pass that opportunity up. And that is not hype, just my experience (and bodytype/temperament) in 34 years learning and reading about martial arts.
Yang Shao Hou Tai Chi
watch?v=T2cJpBeNOsE
Serak
watch?v=WiJfPs0sRFs
No exaggerated postures, and reflexive/percussive movements are what you are looking for.
tigerone1970 2 days ago
just came across this interesting video with good instruction.....the only problem rarely being mentioned is that in actual physical self-defense you wear yourself out so very quickly ;consider the head-butt ,you may do 10 times headbutts by the time you finish you probably are too exhausted . It is very demanding whether you " fight '' or " flight " ....fitness first ,technique and strength are inseparable. Awareness and mental preparation is all that you need. Good luck
NevilleRainier 2 days ago
Dude you just have to punch him in the neck, poke his eyes, then kick him in the groin, then right after that you can palm up his nose and then run.
gwidao123 3 days ago
:D I like this ;]
HaiJessiwa 6 days ago
I've been in Martial Arts self Defense Training for 25 years learning judo,jujitsu, teakwandow, sambo,and pancration and have never seen anything like that. Just do what ya seid but with the praying thing but push out with your arms that will brake his grip. or just hit his elbos down-word. There are many things you can do but only so many work for you.
kamjman 1 week ago
Maybe you will wounder, but kicking between legs in half-close position works really bad in real life. Eyes are also hard to reach, he will just put his head down and shackle to sides and she will lose grip pretty fast. But sill very fast attack against eyes is probably best option she would have.
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to any ladies watching this, do as much damage as you can, show thefucker you are not taking shit from anybody, do everything he says plus a good kick in the nuts ITS YOUR LIFE
elrockerchido 1 week ago
wtf.
Tobiwahnkenoby 1 week ago
in wing-tsun,we were always taught not to do it that way because the guy could be a lot stronger and it might be ineffective if you cant break his grip on the neck.we were taught to take your right arm,loop it around over the top of both his arms and force them down with a hard strike,grab his arms at the waist with your left arm and elbow strike with the right
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Eye gouge-depicted by this great video- 50lbs of pressure can rupture a eye. This is easily achievable with your thumbs.This will render them blind. Very effective, and a much better option then just pulling their arms down where they can re grab you/ strike you.
bruserboy2 2 weeks ago
Yikes, you should almost never have to head-butt your oppnt, especially not a good idea if they are bigger and stronger. Good advice about not collapsing the arms if the opponent is bulkier. Choking back better or thumbs to the eyes good advice, but there is another choice that does not require a lot of strength. Have the kid take one hand, rake the face grab the opposit opponent wrist while stepping behind turning the body out of the choke. That technique is all body and little str reqrd.
gwinn7e 2 weeks ago
the easy way is to use one finger and trust to the middle of the neck
kheirul 2 weeks ago
I've been teaching my students to do a kind of double-hand power assist to the chin with a kick to the shin, a stomp to the foot, then going into fiend (one arm across the collar bone, grabbing the opposite shoulder then with the other coming back like in a traditional MMA block--"combing the hair or using the cellphone.") Then a mid-line attack to the sternum/solar-plexus. then drive and get outta there.
Ronnock 2 weeks ago
This is not a very good way. I am a chinese and I learn kung fu. I suggest you should do it outside and use your elbow to hit his arm and push him away with your right hand.
kaionsam 2 weeks ago
How about both?
cigarzan 2 weeks ago
:D headbutts :D ahahahahah :))))
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yeah, slap the ears, punch the knows, gouge the eyes, kick the groin....anything
aa3gunner 3 weeks ago
Interesting video tutorial. By the way, your name wouldn't happen to be Nick would it? You look like an Isshin Ryu guy I new years ago in Okinawa...
Uminchuu 3 weeks ago
How about a kick to the groin.instaid of headbutting??
padeiro73 4 weeks ago 17
@padeiro73 Of course you can do that. Improvisation and adaptation are keys to success. Just use the "whatever works" method. That is what I teach.
DarkMagician70 4 weeks ago 8
@padeiro73 or a knee in the nads.
spartandog1000 1 week ago
seems working
Cawa9475 4 weeks ago
I want to know, with what part of the head I should hit if I don't wanna knock myself out at the same time?
bleedingrosesinc 4 weeks ago 4
@bleedingrosesinc IT is best to strike with the upper ridge of the forehead right at the hairline, but also it is important to hit the correct target. The nose and mouth area are far more fragile then the area you are hitting with, and they will give, you may get a slight cut to the scalp but it is far worse for him. You don't want to hit forehead to forehead, this could hurt you.
DarkMagician70 4 weeks ago 2
Is she wearing pajamas?
vinigreen 4 weeks ago
@vinigreen who cares
bleedingrosesinc 4 weeks ago
what if your head butts strike the crown of their head with your forehead? I have seen more see inflicted concussions when trying to use a head butt. Place your tongue to the roof of your mouth for a five second window, whats wrong with multitude of techniques taught the world over. a good pal striking uppercut to the jaw is nice too, no matter the size of the attacker.
donoberloh 4 weeks ago
very good to know thanks from Croatia!
dylanfloyd777 4 weeks ago
This could work if the woman doesn't panic.
curtisb3000 1 month ago
@curtisb3000 even a commando can have a adrenaline rush and don't react very fast
pedi007 1 month ago
@pedi007
I am a knife fighter with a background in judo, boxing and Chinese fast grappling. Anything can work under the right situation the only problem all dangerous situations are dynamic and there is no given set of rules. For women because of their physical stature I recommend weapons, but if it comes down to it anything that can give them the opportunity to escape I recommend.
curtisb3000 1 month ago
LOL, dont try to brake the hold in the first place. Its a waste of time.
Wing Chun strait blast is ALL you need in this instance for ANYONE.
You grab me, I punch you
You try to choke me, I punch you
You try to move, I punch you
Its as simple as that.
gambleyourhealth 1 month ago
This feminism thing has gone too far.
John27346 1 month ago
I used to to complicated moves like you, but then my opponent took a knee to the groin!
ThePowersleeper 1 month ago
@ThePowersleeper That could easily be worked into the technique, but the groin may not be exposed. Besides that this technique isn't all that complicated if you think about it.
hrvad 1 month ago
@hrvad Well there are several easier ways of doing it, where you aren't hurting yourself in the process in the same manner as here (referring to the headbutt) plus your everyday brute doesn't really think of covering up his groin.
ThePowersleeper 1 month ago
That not a real good defense for a choke you will get kill really fast
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Well, that's all fine and dandy when you say "That not a real good defense for a choke you will get kill really fast"... but would you mind explaining a better one then?!?
Spetsop 1 month ago
There's a technique in Hapkido that's probably more effective: in the same position, the defender rams a finger in the soft part of the neck and then pushes down making a C figure with her finger, like trying to ram your finger down into and down their wind pipe. Give it a try, push the soft area GENTLY! at the bottom of the neck just before the collar bones join at the chest, it will choke them and they will have to back off.
daniel121212121212 1 month ago
knee him in the balls!
dannyboiiiiii94 1 month ago
Yeah; the first part looks effective, but a head butt esp. with a taller person means their teeth in your scalp (see video).
I'd go for a "nut butt" with a knee instead.
Otherwise, very good advice.
KutWrite 1 month ago
Would'nt work if you 13 facing a male opponent that is above 16, And also he can easely lean his head back to prevent the face pushing technice, Correct me if im wrong?
TheTrollLegacy 1 month ago
@TheTrollLegacy If he leans back enough to where her hands can'r reach him then he has to release the choke. When he does this simply change tactics. Instead of attacking high line which he would now be prepared for attack low line.Maybe kick him in the groin and escape. This is a workable technique. We could "what if" it to death. That is why we train. To get solutions to these "what ifs".
MrBigdaddy8 1 month ago
Practical and effective, I like it
SubliminalSin 1 month ago
@DarkMagician70 Sir
Great video. I think the most important lesson from this video was when you stated that "do the technique until he lets go and she can run away". I know each state has it's own laws on "self defense" but generally speaking if the attacker is no longer a threat to you (or someone else) then you should disengage from the conflict. There are many techniques for self defense but understnding of the law is equally important to real self defense. Thank you for your time. Osu
1banryukyu 1 month ago
@DarkMagician70 actually yes she could have pulled your hands off of her neck. your squeezing your hands together at arms length, where as she would be pulling your hands apart just inches from her throat. the back and shoulder muscles, along with the position, create a mechanical advantage in favor of her. she would easily, even with no weight training, be able to remove your hands, and then kick you in the groin. sorry; its just physics. she could have.
UrSoMeanBoss 1 month ago
@DarkMagician70 yes, especially because AT THE SAME TIME she kicks you in the balls.
BranRudy 1 month ago
@ItsKarmaAgain This is not street fighting mate, it's self defense. This girl hasn't pumped herself full of steroids.
MyWorldIsPurple 1 month ago
@MyWorldIsPurple street fighting ain't krav maga... krav maga techniques would come in most usefull in situations like this
ItsKarmaAgain 1 month ago
A kick to the man parts works too. But if thats in-successful you're gonna pass out before you can do the thing in this vid. I reccomend doing this instead of trying to go for the lower area honestly, its more effective and quicker. :D Who says you can't combine them? Replace the headbuts with attacks lower and heh.. he for sure isn't chasing you then.
CoffeeBitLPs 1 month ago
what do u do if he's banging your head against the wall while he's choking u?
anjelahsparks 1 month ago 4
@anjelahsparks Get his hands off of your neck, Attack a soft target on his body, Get your body off of the wall, and run away.
Simplicity breeds effectiveness
DarkMagician70 1 month ago 5
@anjelahsparks your screwed lol
demolishionhammer 1 week ago
If he's close enough to choke me he's close enough for me to kick him in the balls or once I gouged his eyes I'd kick him in his balls. my husband taught me a better way to break a choke hold though, just grab hold of one of his fingers and bend it backward and break it then kick him in the balls.
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Morometeks 1 month ago
@Mekana89 well headbutts do hurt but when u r in a situation like this u have adrenaline so it will only hurt afterwords but either way look at it this way would u rather take the headache or die??
kandyilyhearts 1 month ago
@Mekana89
kandyilyhearts 1 month ago
The head-butt part at the end concerns me. What if i hurt myself in the process? From what I hear head-butts hurt like hell... how can I run away if Im disoriented myself with my attacker?
Mekana89 1 month ago
so when you get choked like that, you have to pray for god then a lightning bolt will strike thy enemy and then fight back again.
SSZLegacy 1 month ago
if all else fails a kick to the balls or a good hard grab and twist down should pull them off.
john6947aq 1 month ago
if girls would learn this it will better there chance..tx ..keep teaching..god bless
rubylaser163 1 month ago
I agree. This is better for a female because she may not be able to loosen the attacker's arms from the outside positioning of her arms; however, with her arms between his in an upward "praying" position, she will have a better chance. The eye technique, though brutal, will definitely help coupled with one or more head butts.
pehunter1 1 month ago
headbutts rule in situational self-defense
prayer is wonderful
thanks
FlyingAxblade 1 month ago
Nice, I like the general idea of breaking the opponent's structure by driving the head back. Body goes where the head goes, I guess.
fdesa12 1 month ago
and if a girl does that to me is it ok for me to blind her also?
can you post some men self defense? where a man blinds a girl,kicks her in her tits,vagina etc.
or are you sexist and you think woman aint capable of fighting?
TheSUBGAMER 1 month ago
@gaggotgaggot lol it is funny how these fags attack you because you want to grab her tits lol
TheSUBGAMER 1 month ago
Or just strike the throat! I wouldn't recommend the headbutt unless someone has had training and knows how to properly execute the headbutt.
KungFuKid1015 1 month ago
Very unique and rational defense. I was doubtful at first but then i saw where you went with that. The only criticisms are if its in a struggle the movement of arms to the face may miss there target and it will be a fight to get the hands in place before going out. The second is that when you head butt you cause mild mild concussion equivalent to the force used. Surely in the exact position you were in a knee to the groin would be faster safer and more effective take down. What is this MA btw?
1stNightingale 1 month ago
@1stNightingale Thank you, I teach a mix of styles. This video contains at least two. The praying hands technique is Hapkido. The thumb gouge and head butt are from Krav Maga. Most of my videos are like this, compilation of different forms, applied to a specific scenario
DarkMagician70 1 month ago 2
@DarkMagician70 or when u do the first technique she can hit him tot the groin and do much damage :D
gang1337grace 1 month ago
@1stNightingale i agree with you. to be be effective with the nut you have to drill it over and over again, there is a lot of room for error in a frantic struggle. a knee to the nuts would be a lot more effective, allowing for escape. also when attacking the eyes its good practise to aim for the tear ducts and force your thumbs in then spread outwards. still a good defense video though, im not criticising just putting in a couple of things my sensei taught me. others may disagree
ronin599 1 month ago
why would a bad guy grab her neck when boobies are so close?
prithwin 1 month ago
of kick him in the ballsack so when he bend over to poke his eyes
CaptainArdvark 1 month ago
It doesn´t work..
TheGaboces 1 month ago
This would work great unless you are 5' tall and the dirtbag is 6'5". Ball kicks might be the only option at that point.
cougarfanparkingonly 1 month ago
IAnother thing to do against a male is a sharp jab, by pointing fingers and thumb together, and striking the armpit. It causes that entire side of the body to go temporarily numb, just long enough to get away. Another thing to do, and very effective as well, is using the index finger, push in the middle of the chest cavity, at the throat, and then down. It will cause the "attacker" to choke and release grip.
94REDSC 1 month ago
In that position his throat is open & undefended, take those praying hands & jab him as hard as you can in the adams apple. He'll let go in a hurry, the attacker should choke her out with his elbow close together. This way he can still move them outward to defend himself from any attack more easily because now she will have to go for a longer strike from outside of his arms. This is a bad choking technique either way since her hands are free to reach for a knife & stab him in the mid section.
MrNightro 1 month ago
he teaches, HOLD HIS HEAD, TAKE TO THE YOUR HEAD AND KISS, thats ol :D
Turk1yemm 1 month ago
How is this only intended for women? Men could use this technique too. It's not like men never find themselves in urban fights.
ShiningNow 2 months ago
@gaggotgaggot what's wrong with you, man? you not getting laid enough or something? i mean, who says shit like that? get a grip.
kalevraa 2 months ago
You were so much bigger that the victim, I doubt it would work on such a small woman. Good technique to use on my next date. Squeeze until the blood vessels in the white of the eyes pop, then you know you got a keeper. Those tendons in the neck are hard to cut through even with a fillet
southernsecurity 2 months ago
Why not straighten your right arm and twist your body 180 degrees?
To finish it you can spin the full 360 with your left elbow in the face of opponent.
RyuHanamichi 2 months ago
@RyuHanamichi Ideally, you want to avoid giving your opponent any chance to get your back in an altercation. Try to stay facing them; at least until out of physical reach.
IRS345 2 months ago
Great video. More realistic than others I have seen. Another technique that may work is to have the victim tuck her chin in, sweep one arm over the choker's arms as she steps out and to the side and turns around, hitting the choker with her elbow as she pivots. Then, depending on the situation, she goes for his groin, eyes, or runs.
fredbyte1 2 months ago
NICE
bennybk100 2 months ago
Or she can use punch you in the throat, you would let go too.....
Athrunwong 2 months ago
Also a knee to the nuts could be great
atomdragon4 2 months ago
@ohhowsplendid not if you headbutt in the nose. It will sting you a bit but should bust their nose and won't hurt you as much as them
TheRushingWind 2 months ago
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pedro8991 2 months ago
I like the eye-gouging technique, but couldn't help noticing that instead of her headbutting you on the chin, you were chin-butting her on the head.
FuriousGibbon 2 months ago
@gaggotgaggot no, you said you would have grabbed them. If you sexually assault someone and they react violently against you, you brought it on yourself
TheRushingWind 2 months ago
I've never tried it, but this looks like a legit technique. Like the others said, though, a knee to the nuts is an option as well, after you've relieved the pressure from the throat, that is.
MrGarky 2 months ago
1:22 Or a great classic nutshot...
MrR4SSE 2 months ago
couldnt you just kick the attacker in the groin after the grab their head stab their eyes?
BrosephKim 2 months ago
looks like fun
chickenman913 2 months ago
Why not try punching the attackers throat hard then do that? Just a suggestion because if the punch to the attacker's throat is hard enough, he/she will have difficulty breathing and will most likely give up.
bubblesam1 2 months ago
@bubblesam1
gotta remember you could miss the punch.
this technique is good because it hard to get wrong. pray, up, grab head and force thumbs into eyes.
like he said she has only a few moments. assuming she isn't trained, this will work for her
GlobalAssaultRecords 2 months ago
good teaching@!
fatalfeel 2 months ago
I am an instructor with years of training and have worked in the close protection industry, and whilst this is a very well made clip, the technique wont work in some instances because of arm length strength and the amount of pressure on the throat,in reality when someone applies that type of choke its always at arms length so they can apply as much pressure as possible, trust me I have had this happen to me
SuperDantheman1974 2 months ago
I wouldn'y recommend that head butt, you aimed for the mouth. It's very possible that the person could dig their teeth into your head. That's fatal.
theheadshot45 2 months ago
@theheadshot45
Would have good DNA from the fight bites though it there wasn't enough under the nails
GlobalAssaultRecords 2 months ago
nice video, your daughter is hot btw.
Benzei1337 2 months ago
@19snapy, what if the guy has his area protected? you can't get away then. whereas stabbing his eyes is sure to work, if done right.
ddelfao 2 months ago
@coffieworld101
multiple things can done, every situation is different, knowing many different techniques is a good way to go, but also when to use them
dfirekm 2 months ago
Love the thumbs to the eyes. Something else to consider. When in the praying move, another may be the attackers throat. However, turn one hand (most likely the dominate hand) so palm is facing the victim and knuckles facing attacker fingers extended. The fingers can then pinpoint the throat area. Enjoyed the vid.
Cr0cket20 2 months ago
1:00 and the knee into his balls!
Prototype10000 3 months ago
Very clever- because you can also use the Prayer gesture as an appeasent/distraction.
flashart 3 months ago
Thank u thank u soooo much
killingspeerx 3 months ago
Maybe the first self defense videoon YOUTUBE that I have seen that would actually work. It is simple, not at all pretty, but effective. One thing though, as he said this is a deadly force situation, so once she has her thumbs on the eyes if she hooks the thumbs and digs the fight is over.
raycirx 3 months ago
Thank you.
electricfemale 3 months ago
great, ty =).
totokun1 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
She should lose some weight.
Myanleader 3 months ago
Damn brutal and effective.
marilith2005 3 months ago
after the eyes are forced in,
why not just follow up with a couple knee strikes to the groin.
then strike the throat....then run away.
that way, he'll think twice about messing with you next time.
pain is a powerful motivator.
chrisgrinhard 3 months ago
seems really good ! i kinda like this guys way of teaching !
salchipapa8000 3 months ago
Excellent video. I've been teaching for over twenty years with the following
philosophy-simple, quick, effective! This can WORK! WELL DONE!
spsmonktoo 3 months ago
ITs Russell Crowe
Jammanio 3 months ago
yelling also depletes your lungs, so you could easily be done for even before the words fully left your mouth.
tagerung90 3 months ago
head butts?XD
uaelicous 3 months ago
Teach her to read instead
aFemale1 3 months ago
hey DM.... that was good.... I will teach it to my daughter....
anthropological 3 months ago
Every guy for the past 10000 years expects and defends against female knee to groin, not to mention that knee to groin does not incapacitate and is simple to block. It is a silly technique to teach a girl when her life is at stake.
cutegirl1854 3 months ago
@cutegirl1854 Agreed. Forget all that. Press in his eyes. I mean drive your thumbs all the way in, nails leading, you'll dish out crazy pain, he'll break the hold, slap away the arms fast and run! Oh and he'll have serious damage to his eyes as well. That'll teach him some manners.
Try it out gently with a friend, it'll take only a little bit of pressure to really push your nails and fingers deep into the eyes. Now remeber that in a situation like this you don't hold back. Push in hard!
deRenatoShow 3 months ago 2
todo bien pero es más fácil un rodillazo en los huevos(eggs) y a correr ;)
porencimadelaley2 3 months ago
How is she gonna headbutt someone that's much taller than her. I don't think this would work in a real situation, especially if someone grabs your neck much taller and stronger.
TributeToTesla 3 months ago
@TributeToTesla Agreed. Forget the headbutt. Press in his eyes. I mean drive your thumbs all the way in, nails leading, you'll dish out crazy pain, he'll break the hold, slap away the arms fast and run! Oh and he'll have serious damage to his eyes as well. That'll teach him some manners.
Try it out gently with a friend, it'll take only a little bit of pressure to really push your nails and fingers deep into the eyes. Now remeber that in a situation like this you don't hold back. Push in hard!
deRenatoShow 3 months ago
@deRenatoShow hopfully you will hold back...on your friend LOL
nothing end a friendship like eye trauma .
chrisgrinhard 3 months ago
@CMBPT2010 Aaaannnnddd, where does the head wind up after a knee to the gut/groin???? Conveniently down, for a head butt or possibly to be pushed into a rising knee. :D
PThompsonKS 3 months ago
i haven seen this but i would kick his balls!
overkill1697 3 months ago
THATS EASY, YOU CAN ALSO TURN YOURSELF FOR ONE SIDE, HE WILL LEAVE YOU. BUT I PREFER MAKE PAINFUL DAMAGES IN ORDER TO AVOID NEXT ATTACK. THE FINGERS MUST ENTER FAST AN DEEPER IN THE EYES ORBIT. NO MERCY. IN PREFERENCE WITH KI THEYARE LIKE STACKS, AND DONT BREAK.
99XM 3 months ago
Damn - The girl is extremely cute!!!! So adorable!!!! :-P
Hotrodd100 3 months ago
@Hotrodd100 YES SHE IS, VERY NICE. THE AGRESSOR CAN ALSO DO THE SAME FOR A SECOND, SHE WILL FREE FROM THE AGRESSOR JUST FOR A SECOND.
99XM 3 months ago
i agreed with your method right up to the headbutt point. there should be no reason for the headbutt. once a person is getting their eyes stabed by the thumbs they are likley going to let go and try to get the girls hands out of their eyes. it would seem a better use of the womans energy to simultaneous knee the groin and when the attacker lossens his grip due to pain to RUN. plus most people do not know how to properly head butt and might knock them selves out. Just my opinion.
drumerbumber 3 months ago
i loved the video, this is the true self defense for weak people
KelvinDC 3 months ago
This is good shit for males as well xD
TechnicalJaguar 3 months ago
im pretty sure a good knee to the balls would be alot better he would drop like a sack of shit
ItzRomeoNiggah 3 months ago
Great thanks! Now I know what to do with all these bastards choking me against the wall
:-D
juncode 3 months ago
great thanks! :)
KatiiezCam 3 months ago
Great!thanks for advise:)
Solska1989 3 months ago
Nice.
DemonKingMMA 3 months ago
@perfectshot77 it is a very bad idea to "beg" in such a situation. If someone chokes you you 1. can not speak any more and 2. have only approx. 14 (!) seconds until you pass out. The time until you pass out is so short because the blood (and thus oxygen) transport to your brain is stopped - you can NOT compare this with holding your breath, which you easily can do much longer! So your highest priority in such a moment has to be to regain the blood-flow to your brain (aka stop the choking).
muellerforte 3 months ago
@perfectshot77 What?!? NO. One of the worst pieces of well known advice out there is to yell "Fire!" Fire is an environmental danger. People may want to observe, but only from a distance that's safe for themselves. And yelling "Help" by itself isn't much better because it communicates nothing. You need to yell clear concise commands that tell bystanders what your situation is so they can help accordingly.
"Get away from me!"
"Let go of me!"
gabrielsburg 3 months ago
here's a good tip a guy is chocking you kick him in the balls and punch his face then run like mad good tips
platypuslord1 3 months ago
best move ive seen yet
sinavaghef 3 months ago
Best Video I've seen on this yet! Congratulations!
TAKAHASHIGRAY 3 months ago
@perfectshot77 ? HUH?
TAKAHASHIGRAY 3 months ago
@DarkMagician70 well I must say he had point there with a knee to the groin. Its seems to be a good follow up when you have his head.
timtico 3 months ago
@timtico It is important to remember that the most important part of this technique is the hold break. The eye gouge and head butt are only suggested conclusions. A person could choose others id they prefer.
DarkMagician70 3 months ago
@DarkMagician70 Great video...great technique. This method of the break is very effective in deed...Greetings from London :)
will101page 3 months ago
Watch Steve Brule's Last Resort Fighting, ya dingus! FOR YOUR FIGHT!
tokyocraze 3 months ago
No need to do the head thing i would just kick in the nuts.
JossuGaming 3 months ago
oh the eyes.. i was going to say go for the balls
PETAVER 3 months ago
@perfectshot77 Begging for mercy and crying is not going to help-if someone is determined to harm you, they will go through with it, they wont change their mind. Best thing to know in this situation is how to counterattack.
paganslav6 3 months ago
I know a better one
gekiryudojo 3 months ago
When it's your husband, you don't react in time. When he's twice your weight and 7" taller with longer arms, nothing works. Tried everything. Tried the moves in self-defense class years later. I know none would have worked. This is tougher than you make it look. Couldn't reach his eyes. Tried pushing arms up from middle, tried going overtop, tried elbows, tried kicking (he just leaned at different angle), can't scream, can't speak. Eyes black. Nothing to bargain to. I'll NEVER be there again.
Carol2Carter 3 months ago
@perfectshot77 hahahaha fire you watch tosh.o
jordy961000 3 months ago
the girl thats doing this is preatty auckword
roflcopterse7en 3 months ago
I hate these dump self defence videos?
When someone comes at yo. You gotta think defend like in the wild!
This person is gonna hurt you or try to kill you or rape you.
Practice using mace or have a small pistol you can take out of your purse to intimidate him with or use if necessary. Plane and simple.
These are my real world tips!
Dorisequador 3 months ago
@Dorisequador heres a real world tip for you , what if you dont have those things on you eh, and what if the persons not from america where you can go running around with a gun everywhere you go , what then .....
Tallen0123 3 months ago