It's not exactly a break up song. I think it's more a song about deciding to do what you need to do on your own, rather than doing something to please the other person...
bow down people..... saw these guys in London in 1992, this vocal performance is beyond comprehension. the greatest vocal performance by a white man ever recorded
I was lucky in 1998 had season tickets to Raleigh venue and BNL played twice. This is arguably the best, most soulful song they have ever done. Steve Page ladies and gentlemen. Mc
Here's the steven page i knew and loved...the change was absolutely obvious, and sad...im glad there's still a bnl to go c, even tho i miss THIS steven page...
If this song comes up on my ipod in the car while I'm driving, I shamefully have to skip it or I'll make a fool of myself sobbing in the driver's seat >.<
I hope Ed doesn't ever try to do this one w/o Steve... Love ya Ed but... this song is Steves masterpiece. Tears every time he sang it live, and I saw them 10 times.
This and War on Drugs are Steve only songs that shouldn't be touched.
I never thought about it, but I agree with the comment that they were the Canadian Beatles. I've been lucky to see them several times, but i agree withouth Steve Page its not the same. Heartbreaking, just like this song.
I never thought about it, but I agree with the comment that they were the Canadian Beatles. I've been lucky to see them several times, but i agree withouth Steve Page its not the same. Heartbreakeing, just like this song.
BNL are like the Canadian Beatles. Multiple lead singers, multiple songwriters, a great main songwriting partnership, and major success in their tenure. They were massively underrated. And i say "were" cause the band lost my interest when my favorite singer from my generation parted ways...
I seriously wish that they would all just get over themselves and get back together. I just watched that midlife crisis, I mean interview that Steve did a year ago. I really hope that they all realize that the reason they were together for twenty years was because IT WORKED. They may not have been hugely popular, but their fans are fiercely loyal.
This band is second in my book only to the Beatles, which is interesting because they have a few Beatles references. It's sad with no Steve Page, and hopefully one day they'll all reunite, they just can't replace his voice this far along.
BNL was one of the biggest bands in the world at this time, it's weird to think they were the top dogs in the industry when this was recorded. One Week was HUGE, since then they have been plagued with some pretty sad circumstances, but they'll always be my favorite band.
It sucks that Steve is gone, because now Ed and the other's can't play the songs where he's the lead vocals without it sounding TOTALLY weird. It's basically like the are gonna have a do-over now...
I've listened from beginning to end - it's a good live performance. I don't know much about the band - but when he started screaming at me around the 3:45 mark I almost ran out of my apartment with my headphones still attached to my head. What are you trying to do Mrs. Waite - kill me!!! Sheeshhh
Good song, good performance by a fairly nerdy band - but there's a certain amount of soul within.
I hope I haven't locked myself out of my apartment.
LOL, Beefman. You sure are a drama queen, you know that? :) You should explore more Barenaked Ladies music here on YT. They are a great band, from Canada. Listen to the "Old Apartment" "Good Boy", and If I had a Million Dollars" for starters. :)
I'll do that Mrs. Waite - I've heard from others that they're very a very good live act and a very good concert to see. I'll check some of their other stuff - after I get back into my apartment that is - Shhhhhheeeeeesssssshhhhh!!!!!
i'm confused about some of the previous comments, its not a song about someone leaving you and you having a broken heart about it. The perfect lyrics are about the horribleness of breaking up with someone not for a reason like they had an affair, but because you just don't feel the same way anymore. Like the song says its cowardice and weak to carry on but its very hard to break up with someone and break their heart when they haven't done anything wrong :/ anyway, great song :)
I'm late to the BNL's. I love how truely humble they are, which I can only attribute to being Canadians. Two highly talented song writers, able to work together, respect each other, like each other as much as two people can. They have SO MANY good songs. What a band. I'm glad I was late to them, now i'm not sick of them...:)
do you know how many btimes i have gotten drunk as shit and screamed with glee rining this song every step of the way and not caring because FUCK!!!!!!!!!!! this is ART!!!!!!
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In this and on the album he says " just stop wasting my time and now I'm over you I'll be ok and Ive got what I want and that's rid of you". Just listen you'll hear it. I've been listening to this song for a good 12 years now. I know what the lyrics are, thanks anyway though.
Actually we're both right. I checked it out and he does say both lines, I guess it all depends on the show, and I apologize to PhatMatt5 for having been so rude to him. I should have looked into it before I made the assumption I was correct.
Have you seen BNL live since he left? They're never going to be the same BNL without him, but they're still absolutely awesome. If you're a fan, you owe it to yourself (and to the band) to give 'em a shot.
@hiketeck To each their own, I guess; obviously, they're not going to be the same. When I heard that he left the band, I said to myself that I would wait until I saw them live again before passing judgment. Personally, I thought their show in Calgary in April was amazing. They're coming to my town next week, and I'm absolutely stoked.
Sure, it's a different band, but they still have the energy and skill it takes in order to make it; the new album is a testament to that, as well.
such a kickass live band
Deltamango 1 day ago
Steven Page is the only singer who can pull off 240p
jeepdude770 1 week ago
This song is a contextually protracted equivalent of 10cc's "I'm Not in Love."
NatalieWould2 2 weeks ago
Thank you friend for bringing me here:)Amazing song..
AutumnWeimer 2 weeks ago
It's not exactly a break up song. I think it's more a song about deciding to do what you need to do on your own, rather than doing something to please the other person...
kurenaikumodesu 1 month ago
Amazing song!
missymaxy 1 month ago
I'm living this right now!
emmaromanable 1 month ago
@emmaromanable As am I... Hrmm...
ctrlaltdelaltf4 1 month ago
seriously, mate..you've got some seriously, lazy, half arsed, Sheldons, cant be bothered weird,, star Trek fans out there.................but hey, thats showbusiness
1961webby 2 months ago
fuck it...by any man of any colour.....absolute genius x
1961webby 2 months ago
bow down people..... saw these guys in London in 1992, this vocal performance is beyond comprehension. the greatest vocal performance by a white man ever recorded
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@1961webby i dislike you
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jeepdude770 1 week ago
I never get tired of this song.
eva1729 2 months ago 3
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oh my dearest lord.... this song is like a sharp knife to the heart. even if you are in the situation you could feel the emotion~! brilliant~!
TheBabiPANGGANG 2 months ago
not even 240p can hold this performance back!
jeepdude770 2 months ago 3
The part at 3:20-3:30 or so has always given me shivers. Really too bad he couldn't get his drugs under control. Awesome song.
Sondie00 2 months ago 2
I was lucky in 1998 had season tickets to Raleigh venue and BNL played twice. This is arguably the best, most soulful song they have ever done. Steve Page ladies and gentlemen. Mc
markmcfa06 3 months ago
I've seen these guys live quite a few times. And this song always made me tear up a little. Beautiful song. I miss Steven.
diesel3981 3 months ago
master!
perZiBal 3 months ago
"That's Steve Paige singin' for you, folks"
KillahCam00420 4 months ago 3
@KillahCam00420 Page.
MrCopperhead1861 3 months ago
This is an amazing performance....so much emotion coming from a real place. Love this.
omgjmg100 4 months ago
This gives me a female hard on for the 41 yr old Steven Page.... and it always will
fyrdanser 4 months ago
This song will never, SHOULD never, be preformed w/out Steve. LOVE BNL but without Steve, this song should remain in the closet.
Firegrl1031 4 months ago
Holy cow. That's an awesome performance. They were at their peak here, and Page's vocals are outstanding. What a great song.
oberlepa 5 months ago 2
No matter how many times I reset this video to the 3:00 mark, I still get chills.
thedarkcanuck147 6 months ago 2
I could watch this video all day
iammrawesome100 6 months ago 2
Their my band. Love them. :)
Zaacnasty 6 months ago
Wonderful song, wonderful perfomance... Steve Page is greeeaaaat!
Hengehog888 7 months ago
Absolutely brings me to tears every time I hear this song.
blodyholy 7 months ago
Here's the steven page i knew and loved...the change was absolutely obvious, and sad...im glad there's still a bnl to go c, even tho i miss THIS steven page...
hollyraeraeful 7 months ago
Saw them at Glastonbury this year and they were awesome!
RICCY6969 7 months ago
Cette chanson est tout à fait merveilleuse, presque autant que la voix de son son interprète..;)
isabeille78 7 months ago
If this song comes up on my ipod in the car while I'm driving, I shamefully have to skip it or I'll make a fool of myself sobbing in the driver's seat >.<
JilliBelle 7 months ago 14
@JilliBelle I make a fool of myself full on going for and screaming it when driving lol :P
Lewis0Bunney 5 months ago
thank you for posting this song.......... has now become my favorite! thank you so much!
lilannie63 8 months ago
I love you Mr Page.
Inquisitorpink 8 months ago
Music is passion.
bipbopboop4life 9 months ago
I hope Ed doesn't ever try to do this one w/o Steve... Love ya Ed but... this song is Steves masterpiece. Tears every time he sang it live, and I saw them 10 times.
This and War on Drugs are Steve only songs that shouldn't be touched.
AsheAFK 9 months ago 2
I'm not digging Ed's hair. He must have been going through a mid-life crisis.
shannal1985 9 months ago
@shannal1985 actually he had a mid-life crisis in 2003 that mo-hawk was worst than the blonde.
Edchick28 9 months ago
@Edchick28 I saw that in another video and I agree! Neither are great on him though.
shannal1985 9 months ago
@shannal1985 Not that matters but yeah those hair styles should never be seen again.
Edchick28 9 months ago
30 day song challenge day 5
djtazzyjeff 9 months ago
most underated band of all time.
shikari1989 9 months ago 3
I'm done searching for live performances on youtube for awhile. Nothing is going top that.....
chmick50 10 months ago 3
How many real singers are on the radio these days? This is not a pop sensation, but a true artist that performs with passion.
glstrojan 10 months ago
@glstrojan Who became a pop sensation back in the 90's where some pop still involved talent :P
AExpression 8 months ago
nice
KomodoDragonLady 10 months ago
One of the GREATEST song EVER!!
boobscoob 10 months ago
one of the most amazing songs ever.
ErinPatricia 10 months ago
this is uniquely BNL, one of their best, most soulful, heartfelt songs. Sorry to see them split, Mc
markmcfa06 10 months ago 2
was contemplating downing a bottle of Tylenol while looping this vid
jeepdude770 11 months ago
This song might be the band's masterpiece. Well, this and "If I had a million dollars."
noistate 11 months ago
i love this band .... i'd marry Steven Page if i weren't already married ... and if he proposed of course *snort*
CurlyGirly33 11 months ago 2
I love this video... I used to get drunk and listen to this....go drunk song
eva1729 1 year ago
@eva1729 Here Here!
patrickikis 11 months ago
It sounds like a cheesy wedding tune for the bride and groom to dance to, but the lyrics are hidden and lead a fool away from it's real cleverness
rsxfan 1 year ago
Ok so a Canadian man has never be so sexy!
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sulochanasaranga 1 year ago
best break up song EVER! love it!
Hbunzable 1 year ago 12
Come back Steve Page.....................
iriemon2469 1 year ago
Mr. Page needs to swallow his Vanity and come back to the Band that made him what he is and he made what it is! Come Back Steven you are missed!
ThePaulE1974 1 year ago
i hate how i can't download this song
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it's amazing
melo503 1 year ago
@melo503 This live version is available on their Rock Spectacle album. You can get it there.
djnormal 1 year ago
5 people prefer justin beber
jeepdude770 1 year ago
@jeepdude770 and we will call these people FAGS
sonicbetrayal 1 year ago
@jeepdude770 Don't bring that thing in here :/
harrynginny4eva 1 year ago
@harrynginny4eva meep meep
jeepdude770 1 year ago
great performance...its from the Stunt tour!
jpcolts 1 year ago
@ 3:36 he actually busted a nut lmao, honestly tho that was an amazing performance
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omasanidinuka 1 year ago
Simple superb!!!!!!!
mel456789 1 year ago
so much raw emotion always loved this song.
fallenstar26 1 year ago
steve,a band is missing 75% of tallent and foundation.
inmylife10465 1 year ago 3
i didnt know dwight schrute was in the barenaked ladies. actually steven page is way more stuntastic than dwight any day.
TMccord 1 year ago
Fantastic!
DuffyJock 1 year ago
Brill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gderry7 1 year ago
Great Music Great Lyrics!!!!!Great Performer!!!!
mel456789 1 year ago
This is the one song that the boys aren't going to be able to sing on tour in my opinion. :(
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@jaimeh0304 None are my videos, but search youtube for "break your heart jason plumb bnl"...try those puppies on for size! :)
melzer333 7 months ago
@jaimeh0304 it wouldn't be the same without steve page
samnbern 6 months ago 2
Wow, he sings with so much emotion. Wow great song
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Eye2EyeIIIV 1 year ago
A true classic..... I love this song..... Steven Page we miss you sooooo much!
21huggybear 1 year ago
I never thought about it, but I agree with the comment that they were the Canadian Beatles. I've been lucky to see them several times, but i agree withouth Steve Page its not the same. Heartbreaking, just like this song.
markmcfa06 1 year ago
I never thought about it, but I agree with the comment that they were the Canadian Beatles. I've been lucky to see them several times, but i agree withouth Steve Page its not the same. Heartbreakeing, just like this song.
markmcfa06 1 year ago
BNL are like the Canadian Beatles. Multiple lead singers, multiple songwriters, a great main songwriting partnership, and major success in their tenure. They were massively underrated. And i say "were" cause the band lost my interest when my favorite singer from my generation parted ways...
iamthewalrus2358 1 year ago
What a performance. What a voice. Bravo, Mr. Page.
yornocm 1 year ago
but you did, Mr. Page.... you did.
fons666 1 year ago 45
@fons666 Ha! So true... Such a big part of my childhood gone...
Motorcitymilo 8 months ago
@fons666 ahhhh but doesnt everyone, sometime, someday, always? including your very own self?
hollyraeraeful 6 months ago 2
I love this song so much it really gets to me.(: my favorite part starts at 2:33 and ends at the end of the song
heigley 1 year ago
This may be my favorite song of all time....yes i think so.
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heigley 1 year ago
Wow. up until now i thought he said "i love you" at 3:39!
stonetemplepilot420 1 year ago
damm this song! love it...to c crinklaw from omaha, ne...wherever you may be!
lisasboogies 1 year ago
this performance is life-changing
slappy021 1 year ago 6
Loved it and the BNL.
ddarlage1 1 year ago 3
in this vid he looks like a mix between the numa numa guy and the pc from the mac and pc commercials
YoshiFan501 1 year ago
...is Ed BLOND?!?!?! oh, and I love this song!
TheseApples 1 year ago 2
Absolutely the best. He puts so much emotion into it. Its a shame that it will never be performed this way again.
grassrootsgurl 1 year ago
I seriously wish that they would all just get over themselves and get back together. I just watched that midlife crisis, I mean interview that Steve did a year ago. I really hope that they all realize that the reason they were together for twenty years was because IT WORKED. They may not have been hugely popular, but their fans are fiercely loyal.
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julsmee 1 year ago
This is what I love about BNL. They sound amazing live. Steven Page doesn't need a studio to sound beautiful. I truly respect this band.
Sierrabelle 1 year ago
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Sierrabelle 1 year ago
Gotta Love It!!!
60Crisco 1 year ago
the best song ever. so blunt. so mean. so good!
kailanGoreng 1 year ago
I used to have this on VHS... the whole thing... lost years ago...
Any chance you can upload each song from the stunt tour of 1999???
Rememberable versions of this tour are Brian Wilson, Something fantastic and call and answer... The whole tour show was great though...
RascalKyng 1 year ago
Fucking amazing. Goosebumps......
djnormal 1 year ago
This song is insane.... Barenaked Ladies rules
beneb1 1 year ago
Goosebumps. thank you bnl for that amazing experience
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DestineyThomas123 1 year ago
Incredible singer, Ive seen alot of singers and you know that steve means what he's singing about. Straight from the heart. Well done!
eatborkpants 1 year ago
I saw the Stunt tour concert in Sunrise musical theater. They are an acquired taste , but I've been a fan ever since.
dcarr84 1 year ago
This is the first time I've seen BNL live, watching this video now, Steve is way more energetic than I thought!
Bassist172112 1 year ago
This band is second in my book only to the Beatles, which is interesting because they have a few Beatles references. It's sad with no Steve Page, and hopefully one day they'll all reunite, they just can't replace his voice this far along.
gashnor321 1 year ago
True he is the only one who can sing this!!!!
yoda25uss 1 year ago
This is an awesome song and his vocals are amazing.
1dayitllb 1 year ago
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niramel1 1 year ago
did his leaving have anything to do with him getting busted for drugs while their kids album was being released?
GenghisWanghis 1 year ago
watch his interview on QTV, it answers some stuff like that.
thierryman 1 year ago 2
BNL was one of the biggest bands in the world at this time, it's weird to think they were the top dogs in the industry when this was recorded. One Week was HUGE, since then they have been plagued with some pretty sad circumstances, but they'll always be my favorite band.
BNL919 1 year ago
how did he die??? thats f*ed up man! some one let me know please!
benisdown 2 years ago
He didn't die, he chose to leave the band to go do his own thing.
kellycolter1978 2 years ago
It sucks that Steve is gone, because now Ed and the other's can't play the songs where he's the lead vocals without it sounding TOTALLY weird. It's basically like the are gonna have a do-over now...
Xicris 2 years ago
Goddammit, Steve, we miss you.
josephrawlins 2 years ago
LOL what is that at 3:39?? Is that a 1998 cell phone? Walkie talkie? LOVE IT!
llamaoffspring 2 years ago
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brandy170 2 years ago
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would make sense, since the show is from 1999.
moeaholic 2 years ago
I'll be okay..thanks for wasting my time....and my heart will heal....
Btowngirl38 2 years ago
you can tell Steve Page was affected by the words he sang -- str8 from the heart, the stuff the best songs are made of!!!
unbjames 2 years ago 3
Wonderful song. So much emotion. Saw them in concert years ago. Great band. :)
ny4000 2 years ago 5
Very well Mrs. Waite - I've done as ordered
I've listened from beginning to end - it's a good live performance. I don't know much about the band - but when he started screaming at me around the 3:45 mark I almost ran out of my apartment with my headphones still attached to my head. What are you trying to do Mrs. Waite - kill me!!! Sheeshhh
Good song, good performance by a fairly nerdy band - but there's a certain amount of soul within.
I hope I haven't locked myself out of my apartment.
MANHATTANBEEFMAN 2 years ago
LOL, Beefman. You sure are a drama queen, you know that? :) You should explore more Barenaked Ladies music here on YT. They are a great band, from Canada. Listen to the "Old Apartment" "Good Boy", and If I had a Million Dollars" for starters. :)
ny4000 2 years ago 2
I'll do that Mrs. Waite - I've heard from others that they're very a very good live act and a very good concert to see. I'll check some of their other stuff - after I get back into my apartment that is - Shhhhhheeeeeesssssshhhhh!!!!!
MANHATTANBEEFMAN 2 years ago
I love this song and his voice! Barenaked ladies is one of the really good bands out there ^_^
narutardourannote 2 years ago 5
He sings this like its from experience...nice.....classic BNL. Love it.
1973cableguy 2 years ago 36
i'm confused about some of the previous comments, its not a song about someone leaving you and you having a broken heart about it. The perfect lyrics are about the horribleness of breaking up with someone not for a reason like they had an affair, but because you just don't feel the same way anymore. Like the song says its cowardice and weak to carry on but its very hard to break up with someone and break their heart when they haven't done anything wrong :/ anyway, great song :)
gggrrrargh 2 years ago 4
We can ALL relate to this,great track.
hominer 2 years ago 2
@hominer agreed
YoshiFan501 1 year ago
Why did steven paige leave the band? Hope its just a shoft break
gstatre43 2 years ago
Did he really leave the band?
gstatre43 2 years ago
this is the best drunky angry at that one that got away song...LOVE IT!!!!!
lisasboogies 2 years ago 4
Oh god, that is so right! I need that song for new years because the one that got away is going to be at the party i'm going to be at...
thierryman 2 years ago
I agree and there is always one that did, cracking tune.
hominer 2 years ago 2
oooh, shivers!
*sigh* What an awesome song...
BarenakedCanadian 2 years ago 5
I'm late to the BNL's. I love how truely humble they are, which I can only attribute to being Canadians. Two highly talented song writers, able to work together, respect each other, like each other as much as two people can. They have SO MANY good songs. What a band. I'm glad I was late to them, now i'm not sick of them...:)
festyxfi 2 years ago 6
do you know how many btimes i have gotten drunk as shit and screamed with glee rining this song every step of the way and not caring because FUCK!!!!!!!!!!! this is ART!!!!!!
eva1729 2 years ago 2
He has one of the most beautiful voices I have ever heard
krisstricklandhoyle 2 years ago 16
amazing,plain and simple
kingcobra6188 2 years ago 6
I love the way he looks right after he says, "I'm not that weak you know!"
drgnfrddd 2 years ago 4
i know he says "now im over you" but it sounds like he says "now I love you" in this video for some reason
mulcahy2609 2 years ago
"JUST STOP WASTING MY TIME
AND
NOW
IM OVER YOU!!!"
I get goosebumps every time I here that part. Such an amazing song by an amazing band!.
heraldosurpriz 2 years ago 2
I agree, it is an amazing song. I don't know how the lyrics were originally written but I think that he actually always sings it this way...
"Just stop wasting my time.
And now I know that you will be OK,
and that I've got what I want,
and that's rid of you - goodbye"
PhatMatt5 2 years ago 4
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In this and on the album he says " just stop wasting my time and now I'm over you I'll be ok and Ive got what I want and that's rid of you". Just listen you'll hear it. I've been listening to this song for a good 12 years now. I know what the lyrics are, thanks anyway though.
heraldosurpriz 2 years ago
12 years of getting the words wrong then! 'PhatMatt5' is right. What you're saying the words are don't fit in with the rest of the song!!!
haigy 2 years ago 6
Actually we're both right. I checked it out and he does say both lines, I guess it all depends on the show, and I apologize to PhatMatt5 for having been so rude to him. I should have looked into it before I made the assumption I was correct.
heraldosurpriz 2 years ago 2
It an easy mistake to make. i made it the first few times I heard the song, and then i figured it out.
drgnfrddd 2 years ago
I could be wrong
PhatMatt5 2 years ago
Dude has such a great set of pipes on him. Great song.
vigodagod 2 years ago 5
fucking great song...geesh...what else can i say...he said it all
lisasboogies 2 years ago
this song.........is perfect with what it is........
I am glad it never became a radio hit......
I can still enjoy it today.
Runepriest442 2 years ago 3
first time i've heard this song.... awesome steve is in top form, love it!!!!
myfrenchybuster 2 years ago 4
this is why there is no BNL with out Steve Page
hiketeck 2 years ago 46
@hiketeck
Have you seen BNL live since he left? They're never going to be the same BNL without him, but they're still absolutely awesome. If you're a fan, you owe it to yourself (and to the band) to give 'em a shot.
NeapolitanSixth 1 year ago 3
@NeapolitanSixth i have seen them without page and without page its not the band i have been following all these years.
hiketeck 1 year ago
@hiketeck To each their own, I guess; obviously, they're not going to be the same. When I heard that he left the band, I said to myself that I would wait until I saw them live again before passing judgment. Personally, I thought their show in Calgary in April was amazing. They're coming to my town next week, and I'm absolutely stoked.
Sure, it's a different band, but they still have the energy and skill it takes in order to make it; the new album is a testament to that, as well.
NeapolitanSixth 1 year ago
@hiketeck i hate to say it but BNL is nothing with out Steve. i love BNL but Steve made it for me
liamshrek 1 year ago 4
@liamshrek agreed!
hiketeck 1 year ago
@hiketeck ur sooooo right!
hereinthebronx 1 year ago