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  • he talk with a lisp

  • its fuuny because when i 1st met u, i myself was just coming out with my sexual pref. u gave me sooo much insight not only on that but on life as well. hide;n in hip hop was a great read and im glad that u wrote it. ppl go off whats right on tv sets and not whats in front of their face. be aware but dont be afraid!!

  • Will like dick bottom line, shid Jada lick pussy, ect. Tupac use to try to get wid jada nmbut she was a dike

  • @75bari: It does not matter if he really kissed him or not....just look at the image he projected. When he was caught getting sodomized in that bedroom scene it had a big impact on the viewers and it accomplished what it was set up to. Time to grow up and see the bigger picture. There is something greater then Will Smith at work here. You have to be a certain type of person to play a role like that....trust me.

  • Why not name names? If it's true, it's true. It's like the UFO's. No one wants to show proof!!!!!  WTF!!!!

  • @MsBlackie07

    TY! U hit it right on the head.

    Why elude to outing rappers in his book if he isn't going to name names;book sells?

    The 'gay rapper' thing is fairly new to me(I'm ole skool); I use to take it as rumors but w/ recent news of Mr.Cee & Chingy I gotta say I believe it now & I'm curious who is what? I don't & wouldn't take their sexuality as an affront to my masculinity (I'm still a fan) but I know many if not most men would.Yea,I know we shouldn't care but I still wanna know.

    1love

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  • @MsBlackie07 Becuz the book would be to heavy.

  • So this guy says he got fucked in the ass and that led him to CHOOSE homosexuality. Says it all.

  • @knowledgeiswhatsup I totally agree with you! He said he was raped and before that, he never thought of having sexual encounters with other men. He said it out of his own mouth. That shows proof that male on male rape and homosexuality is closely related. #HIP-BY-HIP!

  • @thegodsend: Well, I meant that he was making excuses for his gayness.

  • I am thinking he didn't name names because he did not want to get sued lol But it was an interesting book, I could only guess a few and had to come online to see what others thought.... It's still really hard to believe, like Boris kodjoe and tyson Beckford!???

    I only guessed Ginuwine, Sisqo and Will Smith

  • You should have named them,some are obvious though! Had you named them you would have sold tons of books and made gazillions.I cant waiste my money of ghost subjects.Im doing double takes on everybody.My gaydar is terrible most of them I completely didnt even see it.Some I stll dont want to believe.I hope that 5 of them arent on the list or in that book. If they are I would be so dissapointed.

  • Check this out Gay rappers and Celebs part 1.Watch It claims Quincy lets men screw him,It names Wil Smith,LL and Michael Jackson,Check out the Michael Jackson video with him and Quincy's Interview.Quincy looks like he's getting aroused as michael strokes the snake

  • BEING IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY IS A JOB THAT ENTITLES ONE PURPOSE AND ONE PURPOSE ONLY,AND THAT IS TO ENTERTAIN!!!! THESE PEOPLE DON'T OWE ANYBODY ANY INFORMATION THAT PERTAINS TO THEIR PERSONAL LIFE AND PREFERENCES.PEOPLE REALLY NEED TO GET A LIFE AND STOP WANTING TO KNOW EVERY ASPECT ABOUT SOMEONE ELSES LIFE....IT'S REALLY PATHETIC

  • people should be honest with themselves. to share their personal sexual experineces is nobody business but theirs. for you as an author to take advantage of your personal friends by disclosing their personal business is betrayal. i understand the need to educate, but sharing your story, not using actual names does not guarantee anonymity. i wish you luck and Gods speed. just be careful going down this path.

  • @MisterIndividualGuy: What dosen't count? 

  • somebody gone hurt him i think it petty in he wrong for doing it

  • I doubt very seriously if much of anyone is gay in Hip Hop or Rap those are music businesses that just breed out of everything that isnt gay. They arent gonna be vulnerable to the gay or Bi lifestyle.

  • He should have named some names. He would have sold more books. We have been seeing all these promiscuous women coming out with books bragging about all the pro athletes and celebrities they have slept with. Now, a gay groupie tell all story would really shake things up. This dude would have made the rounds on all the talk shows. His book would be selling like hotcakes.

  • Why did he write the book if he wants to protect them?

  • is this at borders?????

  • Why everyone talking about gays in hip hop when their in every industry, trust me rock n' roll has some downlows in they section also. 

  • @broyota it's obvious in Rock-n-Roll. To be honest I thought everyone in the Rock-n-Roll community was either gay or bi-sexual.

  • Well, I think that a lot of these rappers should come out. Maybe they can stop taking their frustrations about not being able to come out on woman and calling us b*thces and hos. No really straight men is going to do this to woman but it seems that a man who is frustrated about revealing his sexuality will.

  • I don't understand when a man/boy get rape by a other man/boy becomes attractive to the ones who rape them thats crazy and how could you bring hip hop in this . They blame hip hop on everything.

  • @MZENERGY Well if your sexuality gets distorted before you even grow up to know what it is than that can happen. It's well documented though that many people who get raped start identifying with their attacker. Look it up in psychology and you will know its true.

  • too many fag ass niggas sucking dickn for a little bit of fame and money. get your shit together.

  • Dam so about 90% OF BLACK MEN ARE ON THE DOWN LOW.

  • @bouncewhisky Lol dont knw bout 90%,lol but more than the average person thinks.

  • i been wit several NBA, NFL & Hip Hop Artist, this aint nothin new

  • @downlowblackmen I know! It really isn't anything new!

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  • @downlowblackmen can you name a few for me?i would like to put your list together with mine that i suspect to see how accurate i am you can send me the info in a private message thanks..

  • I'm really starting to believe that this Sissy is lying about some of this because it seems that every cat that he came in contact with was a Gump. I do believe some of it but come if they really wanted to keep their secret on tge DL they wouldn't just trust some random nigga that knows somebody who's that's like them into the world. They have to much to lose.

  • @jaust1n You are stupid because nearly all of the industry men are gay...if they want to last in the industry, they have to be gay or satanic....look at some illuminati videos...

  • @Domini478 That's being a bit simplistic, don't you think?

  • lol @blazz. I was thinking the same thing.

  • sticky fingas????

  • God bless you. I wonder about writing a book about all the incest and child molesting that goes on in the black community. Its really bad! I mean worse than the whole catholic priest scandal. Almost every time I talk to a gay man, he says I was raped or I was molested. People want to look at the scourge of homosexuality in the feminization of black males but they don't seem to dig deeper in the exploitation and abuse of our children.

  • Being gay isn't caused by events or actions in a life... Your born a certain way and nothing can change that. Being gay has nothing to do with abuse as a child. I have plenty of gay friends and in fact the only friend I have that was "abused" as a child was straight.

    I understand people come from different places, but don't make an assumption on a whole culture by a handful of people you talk to.

  • That might be true according to your experience. but not mine. I am sure you could be right. But so could I. All I know is that I want everyone to work hard and love hard and respect ALL. If people can do that and be gay then I don't have a problem and neither does anyone I know. Many can. But then he's talking about those that can't and choose to live double lives. That down low crap has got to go.

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  • wth is your problem? Overreact much?

  • So true. I have talked to many homosexual Black men, and the majority, at least 90%, have siad that they were molested as a child. They have distinct memories of having sex with an adult as a child.

  • @etemuru AMEN...

  • The fact that a man is married these days is not fooling anybody. A lot of peeps know that men and women get married for image sake. When Will Smith played that role in 6 degrees of seperation,most men were like hollywood don't have enough money to get me to play that role. I also found out that Will Smith went after that role it was not offered to him. My point is this,that just because a man is married means nothing anymore. I take it case by case basis\, Will has a lot of fem attributes.

  • @BLKJEW01 yes i heard the same thing that Will went after that role i was young wen Fresh Prince of Bel Air was out i use to watch it i would feel real awkward when he would act so feminine and do his little girly screams i know everyone laughed like it was comedy because it was funny but i just never seen a guy act like that and i have two older bothers 9 uncles on my mom side and a ton on my dads who is an only child so it was very odd for me to see a man act that way.

  • @BLKJEW01 will smith did not really kiss that man.

  • You did not name names in order to keep your ass from getting sued. People will make innuendos and sly allusions In order to sell books and cast doubts on a person character. This book will give nuts the okay to label anyone they do not like as gay. There is no way a person could not see this guy is fruity. So, how is he a down low brother?

  • I don't really get the fact that people say if they come out of the closet it will hurt their careers because Queen Latifah is a big star and you can clearly see she is gay. Also Will Smith displays fem attributes all the time and that has not stopped his career. Most people said when Will Smith was in that movie 6 Degrees of Seperation his career was over,but not the case as a matter of fact he blew up after that. I think most ppl would be more like who cares be it right or wrong.

  • Well Will Smith is also married so alot of people probably wouldnt immediately say he's gay and then some will. Its easier for WOMEN to display their homosexuality freely. Not there are openly gay men and women but in the black community we dont have as many openly black celebs

  • @BLKJEW01 WTF!? QUEEN LATIFAH IS A FUCKIN WOMAN AND WILL SMITH IS MARRIED SO THAT SHIT DOESN'T EVEN COUNT !

  • @BLKJEW01 not all gays are effeminate though, but I see what you mean.

  • the dancehall reggae culture is the very same in terms of their homophobic behavior...hmmmmm.....I've always been suspicious of men who are too overly homophoic...

  • and def ne-yo and loyd banks and kanye an jah rule and dre.

  • dont forget to throw diddy in there

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  • Groupie fag.

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  • so you're a member of a gay black fraternity? Right! I'm telling Buju Banton.

  • i still say Rosie O'Donnell, Ellen Degeneres, Clea Duvall, Queen Latifa, Heather Matarazzo are very Gorgeous Beautiful Pretty Women.

    and Not that long ago i bearly found out Queen latifa, Clea Duvall and Heather are homosexuals as well. i didn't since it, but maybe i senced Clea was one.

  • Can you get it through your head that some people simply aren't mentally, physically or emotionallly attracted to members of the opposite sex. For you or anyone to say that their only choice is to remain single or "asexual" is ridiculous! Everyone desire and have the right to love and be loved by the person of their desire. To deny someone that is just inhumane! If you think being gay is wrong, practice your belief and don't engage in a same-sex relationship and stop judging those that do.

  • Gee Golly, i never stated that have to stay asexual. I said Jesus was Asexual, and Maybe Fifty cent is asexul or bisexual or homosexual or heterosexaul/straight. Me i don't like assuming what sexuallaity people are. If you read my other post i never stated Fifty says was or wasn't. i said "I don't think He is". I don't care how people live as long as it doesn't affect my personal life. Jesus would never bash on homosexuals. He would simply treat them like He treats all other sinners.

  • @WarriorOfChrist777 haha god you are a fucktard. "He would simply treat them like He treats all other sinners." dumbist shit i've ever heard.

  • So in what I have read in this book so far... Gavin is Johnny Gill and this guy Corey is Sean Devoreaux. Is Eli fifty cent? I don't know if I can believe that FIFTY likes men. But then again, 50 does have some bitchassness about him.

  • you really can't tell whose homosexual. cause not all homosexuals are the same. To many stereotypes out there. I seen homosexuals that don't look homosexual and doesn't act like those stereotypical homosexuals. Not all homosexual women have short hair and not all of them are fat. Portia De Rossi for example, She has long hair and is skinny. She married The Very Gorgeous Women Ellen Degenerous. She's Skinny too but has short hair

  • WarriorOfChrist777

    You are preachin to the choir. I have many gay and lesbian friends and you are right. None of them fall into the same category when it comes to the public perception of what gay is. I know guys who are thugs and gay, I also know very feminine men and women who are gay. Although I have to same some people are in total denial. Like Terrance, one look at him and I would know.

  • Chile, it's time to wake up and smell the coffee... Men like 50 cents (hyper-masculine and has been in the jail systems) are some of the main DL characters around. If you listen to most of these rappers coined phrases in some of their songs;

    "I'll die for my nigga" -- "bros before hoes"

    These are really codes for these brothas profound love affair for one another. Also, most don't know but some gang wars are related to DL love affairs that started in prison and spilled out on the streets!

  • slimsxyblkwoman

    I didn't even know that. What I find crazy is that they will fuck and suck on a man, but not consider themselves gay because they are still sleeping with women. To me that is just denial. It is really a scary thing, because so many women get AIDS from these dudes.

  • "bros before Hoes" has nothing to do with homosexuality. Hoes are any women a man or women would have sex with. A hoe isn't a wife. Unless she cheating on her husband. overall

    Brothers are more important than hoes. Family Comes First. Friends on the other hand are also important too. You can't put hoes/prostitutes before your friends, and you can't put them before your own brother and sister, father and mother.

    Dying for your friend is a good thing. A real friend would die for a friend.

  • I don't think you get my point -- to many of these DL men, "hoes" is code name for female! She doesn't have to be a trick, prostitute or promiscuious! It's the same case, when some men reference ALL women as 'bitches', because in truth, they actually hate women.

    It's time that we take our heads out of our behinds and stop with the foolishness because NO ONE is going to fix the deception and madness for us. We created it, therefore, we must fix or undo it.

  • how come you assume 50 Cent? unless someone catches him having sex with men, you can say He's Bi or homosexual, or a newly Bi man or newly homosexual.

    2nd) if He's not homosexual or bi. I do hope he sticks with only one woman and marries her. He don't need to be sleeping with women and men. All he needs is One Woman as a wife, or at least He can be Asexual. Jesus was Asexual. The bible says either we marry one Person or we be like God (asexual). Asexual means not having sex with either gender.

  • WarriorOfChrist777

    On another site the initials FC were given for that particular Rapper. The description of "Eli" in this book fits Fifty cent to a T. But of course this book doesn't give exact names, probably for liability sake. I still believe that it is 50. Just like the character Quinn is Ginuwine and one of the other characters is Russell Simmons.

  • oh i see. :)

    Me personally, had thought Fifty was a homosexual before.

    I don't know about Ginuwine.what i don't see is that if FC was homosexual. I think he shouldn't hide. I think it's time for them to say the truth cause it's ridiculous to hide it. In America Lots of homosexual celebrites already came out, and they're doing fine. The only Hated Homosexual that i know of is Rosie O'donnell, I don't hate her, But lots of people do, and they make fun of her.

  • WarriorOfChrist777

    50 Cent can't come out. His career would be over, not that it isn't headed that way anyway. He is getting older by the minute..lol But the black community is more homophobic than the white community and it would be career suicide.

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  • @5yearplan1 you said Bitchassness? that's a phrase ditty uses and he definitely goes to alot of those DL parties and haves them at his house

  • i don't know about you guys but i don't have a orinentation. Cause i rather Marry one Woman. I saving myself for marriage for one Woman only. i consider myself "NONE" cause from what i know straight means that you have to have sexual feelings for lots of women. So i rather save myself for one woman as the bible says. The bible says that a man should have sexual feelings only for his Wife which is One woman, so that means we can't have sexual feeling for other women who's not our wife.

  • @Warrior Of Christ 777 you seem to be a wholesome person i would like to talk to you privately im looking for a wholesome person such as yourself to marry :)

  • I am actually reading this book right now. It is a very good book, even if he doesn't name anyone directly. Just reading about how he grew up and where he came from and his life experience is fascinating. I am glad I bought this book.

  • So here are the names that I got from the scenarios in the book. Will Smith, Duane Martin, Ginuwine and Boris Kodjoe as well as fifty cent.

  • true he couldnt be on the downlow..

    no women would be that dumb..hes so obviously gay

  • This nigga couldn't possibly have been on the downlow. You can look at him and tell he is gay as fuck. His book sucks, he never names names so you know he is making this shit up. At least Confessions of a video Vixen had the BALLS to give names. Nobody cares if you are gay, you are a nobody. You made this shit up. You need to stop.

  • They should be proud to be whatever they are and let him name them. Do anyone have any idea who they are?

  • all you see is Men in hip hop

  • and??? that doesn't mean anything. Lots of rappers are homosexual. Lots of famous hide out and years later they come out. Some never come out, unless you catch them but then you'd be a stalker. <.< I wa shocked to find out QUeen latifa was homosexual. She is a Very Gorgeous women. Apparently the women i find pretty/gorgeous turns out to be homosexual Women. Ellen Degernes, Clea Duvall, Heather Matarazzo, Queen Latifa, Wanda Sykes, Rosie O'Donnel are all gorgeous but they like Women.

  • WarriorofChrist777

    Don't forget Missy Elliott. You know that heffa is gay

  • i had not clue she was homosexual. i always thought she wanted a husband.

  • Kanye West is def gay. Still think hes top dog though

  • Nah, i don't think so. :) i think Emeinme may be for some strange reason, and 50 Cent..

  • I think Lucas is between Eddie Murphy, Will Smith, Sam Jackson or Denzel. Eli is LL Cool J Nyce is Jadakiss Gus is R. Kelly Lola is Monifah Sheena is Queen Latifah Galvin is Johhny Gill Craig is Method Man Junior is either Sean or Marlon Wayans & his partner Fritz is Omar Epps Flynn is Tyson Beckford Usher, Jamie Fox, Tigger and Shemar Moore also mentioned to be on the DL from Karrine. Busta was mentioned by Deelishus. Let me know what you think!
  • sheraw99

    We all knew Queen Latifah was gay as well as Tyson Beckford and Tigger. Marlon Wayans does seem to be gay, not sure about Sean. But also isn't MC Lyte and Da Brat also gay. They don't seem to be hiding it. I don't think Method Man or LL COOL J is gay or Busta or Jaime Foxx. Shemar Moore might be gay..lol Will Smith and his wife are swingers, they said that it keeps their marraige fresh. Johnny Gill is probably gay..

  • Queen Latifa is very Goregous. I don't care if she is homosexual, she will always be a Beautiful Woman. I know one day she marry a Man. One day......

  • WarriorOfChrist777

    No, Queen Latifah will never marry a man..lol She is HOMOSEXUAL! Get that through your head. She doesn't like men and her girlfriend is really pretty too.

  • This guy I is self absorbed, I had to fast forward through most of this. All the dropping of places that he is working, blah blah blah

  • Killaki4183: Be very careful how you wish hell on others for their sins,because yes they might go there for homosexuality,but you might go for another reason. Jesus gives us a call to repent and turn from our wicked ways. I am so glad GOD is not like man,he has mercy and he does not wish for anyman to go to hell,if they will change. You have announced a judgment on homosexuals and that is not your place. Please read Matthew 7:1-2. I know homosexuality is wrong but pray for people not judge them.

  • you are rite i will try i just hate that life style its so unataural but people have a rite to like what they want for some reason i just have so much hate toward it but you are rite pray for me ill do the same for you

  • learn how to spell love then practice it,be good and have a nice life.

  • Yes, but we still have to call out sins. All of them. But, I think sometimes when people don't say it is a sin, they can't repent and ask Jesus to help them. The sin is saying it's not sin. How can you then repent. If I'm a liar, and repent of it, I can be set free, but if I say, it's okay to be gay or fornicate then, I'm being self rightous, be have to take it to the cross.

  • Amen Homosexuality is a Sin. Amen. Remember In Provberbs 4:24 it says don't talk corrupted. So since Gay really means Happy, and gay does not mean homosexual. We can't use gay for homosexual. Jesus would never use Happy for homosexuality. Jesus would never twist the meaning of gay. Gay will always mean happy. Homosexual will always mean homosexual. The media is corrupted saying gay means homosexual which it doesn't mean that. Rainbows do not represent homosexuality either.

  • How do you know what Jesus would think or say? I don't even think you should even begin to wrap your mind as to how such a Being thinks because NO HUMAN on earth has that level of conciousness-- so please stop assuming that you know because most humans are still too primitive to understand the basics, let alone ultra-cosmic knowledge!

  • First off, we would sorta know what Jesus would say. Jesus sets a Good example on how He acted & made it clear. IN proverbs 4:24 it says do not talk corrupted. as in Corrupted Speech. There's many examples of Corrupted speeches. One of them is twisting words around by changing their meaning in a bad way. Example: The Original Meaning of Fag is Cigarette. Now a days people call homosexuals FAG. Changed the meaning to homosexual. All their doing is calling Homosexuals "Cigarette" now that's mean

  • In your original posting, you said that Jesus would say this or that... If you had said that I think or feel that Jesus would say this or that, it would have gone over better. I just hate when people speak so matter of factly about dieties who have conciousness that we could never comprehend. Btw, Jesus never said a thing about gays. Therefore, if homosexuality was 'wrong', don't you think a wise Being who could see the future would have warned against it - if it were really a 'sin' or problem?

  • you don't get my saying i said. JEsus wouldn't call homosexuals "GAY". Jesus would never go against God's Word. If you read the bible, Jesus wants us to read the word. In Proberbs 4:24 says do not talk corrupted. That means do not talk foul languages and do not twist a word's meaning around. The original Meaning of Gay is Happy. As it says in that proverbs. Do not talk corrupted. Jesus would change the meaning of Gay. Gay will always mean happy in God's eyes. Gay does not mean homosexual.

  • Can we ever have this discussion without biblical references? There are thousands of things WE ALL do everyday that the bible speak against but how many of us get biblical with those so called "sins"? The fact of the matter is that AIDS is out of control in our community and religious dogma, fear, hatred and judgement is fueling it the spread of it. Instead of getting all religious on the matter; try an approach that's more universal such as; tolerance and understanding.

  • Thank you!

    Someone who finally gets it. You should be the black community spokeswoman.

    Once you tolerate and understand someone you tend to realize the TRUTH COMES OUT! And once you know the truth black women don't have to waste time on Down Low men cause all of them would be out of the closet. Well at least a great percentage.

  • @BLKJEW01

    You better tell 'em! Good post love.

  • lol i spelled it the way i wanted so when homos because they are the only ones wo will take offense i can wish death on them all homos die and burn in internal damnation

  • Homosexuality is a SIN!!

  • SAYS WHO?

  • You can't even spell die, unless you were saying all gay men should change color. No wonder you want people dead. You coulden't keep up in grade school.

  • lol,you need to learn how to spell and gays will never all die out faggot!

  • i know your a homo lol see what i mean this is how you bring them out but i bet your one of those down lo homos those are the ones i hate the most if your gay hey what ever floats your boat but the down lo fags come on pic a team fagot

  • go to my page and you will see that you are 100% wroung,i am very open about being gay,god bless you.

  • GIVE ME YOUR LIST

  • "may all gay men catch aids and dye please"

    You need to watch what you project on others because everything you put out comes back to you! I personally have straight male cousin who used to say things like what you've just posted. He marrieda chick (former stripper) who was HIV positive and didn't know it and caught it from her! The irony is that it is gay men (those he hated) that's been his greatest supporter when he found out he's positive. HIV can HAPPEN 2 YOU whether you are gay or not!

  • Nigga stop frontin,the only reason you wrote this book is to get paid. I know you telling the truth however,but stop saying your motives were because you care about the gay community. You really want to show you care,donate some of the money you make off this book to help those with AIDS or children who are left behind when their parents die from AIDS...put your money where your mouth is.

  • If money is a penis, then he IS putting his money where his mouth is!

  • @WHITESLICK10 that was rite on point he needs to put his money where his mouth is i think another good idea is for him to stop gossiping about it! and due to the fact his mother died from aids maybe expose the men who are still having intercourse with women who he knows to have HIV or AIDS in these books hes writing that would also help!

  • See this is the prime downfall of the black community. We can sell our dirty laundry, but not the soap to clean it. And we wonder why other races perpetuate stereotypes against us

  • who is any other race to sterotype anybody. thats the issue people come off like it's okay to be sterotyped

  • All the other races of people think that black men are the only men that are on the DL, which is false. This man doesnt give a damn about women, he is only out to make money.

  • true

  • No, that's not an accurant statement to say all black males are DL, that's a misinformed and uneducated assumption.

  • why write a book about downlows if it's not going to benifit women after all b/w are the one catching shit from these punk asses

  • Black women (like ANYONE not practicing safe-sex) are catching diseases, because you're allowing yourself to trust the wrong ppl in your life.

  • As long as there is stigma in homosexurality, dont expect any mass outings of hip hop artist anytime soon. As soon as you hear the word homo you think "soft" "Bitch". "Weak" nothing even remotely masculine comes from the term "Homo", for men at least. Women is a different story. As soon as society realizes that most gay men are not soft, Please Dont expect your black men to come out to your black women. And trust me everyone has a DL man in they life. Homosexural activity was here eons ago.

  • i dont thin gay men are weak or bitches I understand what you are saying but its just that I am one of those people who feel like if you come out and you are rpoud of it I accept you, but keep ot a secret and harm people in the path then you become that BITCH

  • i wish you would named names so people females would be aware

  • Not every female wants to have sex with an entertainment-industry guy, much less get close enough to him to get to sleep with him.

    People just simply have to be more accountable for their actions, and educate themselves.

  • huh?

  • What is it about what I said that you didn't understand? The comments you see posted are replied to comments left by others. If you click "view all" you can see the sequence and maybe get a clearer understanding.

  • okay

  • "keep gays out of the black community"...so what are gay black ppl supposed to do bleach their skin???that was a stupid comment. Gays belong to all demographics.

  • q8mind -- Do you know what an abomination is? If you did, you would realize that MOST of us commit them EVERYDAY Also, it's your kind of stupidity that keeps this destructive cycle going! Being gay is not the inherent to 'depression' and 'self-destruction' - it's the a hostile world and community that marginalize and persecute them... It's the same reason why TOO MANY blacks suffer depression and self-destruction from centuries of persecuting and white supremacy.

  • Not trying to start a debate, but I think the real abomination is the complacency and IGNORANCE in the black community, not homosexuality. We are not judges, and I'm all about the bigger picture.

  • as a gay person I have often wondered if it was some deep psychological choice...But the variety of personality types and the ability to spot a gay person(Male/female) at an early age(some studies as young as 1yr)makes me think otherwise

  • Until the black community wants to address that there is a gay community within the black community, gay/bisexual men will feel the need to be "closeted" not disclose their sexuality. We need to accept who we are, stop worrying if the black community will accept everyone....be yourself always!

  • people need to stop with the lying and be open. it hurts others to include them in a totally false life. it is such selfish behavior especially when you are causing another person pain through your lies, denying them the truth and robbing them of the right to their life. gay men who pose as straight and drag women and children into a totally false lie, nah, they are so wrong. the truth always has to come out and those people have been lied to and their lives with u r based on your lies & deceit.

  • Agreed. But not all of us in the black community are strong enough to stand on our own with being out, so where do we really begin to cohesively address this and be heard?

  • Amen well said!!!!

  • I'm a woman and I have a hella of a probably with man who live on the dl. I work in the medical field and I 've meant many sister who didn't know their boyfriends like men.

    I think it's nasty and greed. You put others at risk for not telling the truth. I 'm not hating on gay man just the nasty man who sleep with both sexes.

  • sorry I mean i have a big problem with bi sxual man. I have a problem with these man who lie to women.

  • OMG...whats the big deal if they are....

  • Thats the real. They letting Hollywood and these gay record execs push this shit in hip hop and in the black community.

  • See these damn gay men they need to be exposed because they are out here haveing it there way. Sleeping with other niggas and women and perpetrating to be straight and shit lying to every one acting like they are hard and soft as damn tissue paper. This is sad I dont trust any man it feels like you got to carry a damn lie detector machine around to test these perverted ass men because they will hide the shit and then dont want women to know thats crazy.

  • What I don't get is what silly ass "celebrity" would risk all to sleep with his ugly ass? I mean, look at him?!

  • Terrence's always been Gay, just was scared to let his entourage know. I don't buy his struggling argument BS. The question is when that dude took you to his room did u run away?? if you did not, you freaking gay, ain't no struggle there, you knew it within what u like, you made your bed, so lie in it. Should have say it out loud sooner I love men. I don't see the struggle, nowhere he said, it was hard for him to say no to dick, we all know it takes major courage to take dick mostly for a man.

  • Stop taking this debate anywhere it does not need to be. The fact is this a choice one made. Nobody is pushing u to bend over or get down on your knees and suck another man penis. The warning are there, you chose to follow your own lust and desire. I understand maybe that what you love or who you love. The problem with DL brothers is that they only want sex nothing else, no relationship with dudes. This is pure Perversity. Stop blaming outspoken christian!! You made a choice, God in it or not!!

  • I WOULD NOT bE sURPRISED iF hE dID nOT fUCK JAY-Z OR DIDDY

  • Funkycraze: GOD Bless you for telling the truth. I see the media and music videos promoting this way of life and many of the younger people are just confused. Now the states of Cali,Mass,and Ct have made it legal for gays to marry. People who say homosexuality is normal is calling GOD a liar. We need to control what our children see and listen to. Gay groups are on the move to promote this evil. Lev 20:13;Rom 1:24-29. GOD hates this life style no matter how we try to justify it.

  • Good thing I wasn't raised to believe in the the God that you decided to worship. I pray that God won't judge you at the pearly gates as harshly as you judge others here on earth. If I'm not mistaken, judgement is reserved for HIM. Your job is to spread a message of love and follow in His footsteps until you are called home.

  • 'Cornflake,' I disagree. The Bible says you're supposed to also warn your neighbor and "lift up thy voice like a trumpet." Don't confuse a warning with a judgment. If for example, I warm you that if you jump off the cliff you're going to die... and you ignore my warning an jump, then die... that is not a judgment but a warning about a fact: You'll likely die from the jump. We cannot say in life, 'the Bible says not to judge... so therefore I can ignore everything else.."

  • While I understand what you're saying, I do not believe it is a matter of ignoring the warning. It is a matter of spreading God's messages of love and understanding. His warnings are already there. He'll take care of the fire and brimstone without your help. Focus your efforts on being a kind and respectful person, and encourage others to do the same.

  • thank you!

  • Taritrott, the Bible also says to KILL your friends if they share info about their non-christian religions.

    Jesus, please save me from your followers! They kill!

  • Well, it's up to you pal, whether or not you want to burn in the lake of fire... where not a dime of the money you had on Earth won't be enough to cool your flaming tongue!

  • LOL! Taritrott! How dramatic! Again, do you follow the Bibical rule of killing anyone who shares their non-christian beliefs with you? Or do you pick and choose what you believe out of the Bible?

  • I do believe this principle. They must be killed without delay.

  • Are we going to see you in some David Koresh type documentary on A&E someday? The commandment is very clear. Thou shalt not kill. God will deal with the sinners. Your job is to model your life after that of Jesus Christ. He died for you to save your soul. Live your life spreading His messages of love.

  • LOL! ALONG WITH WOMAN THAT WEAR JEWELRY! HAVE PIERCED EARS!!! they must be burned at the stake!!! ROFLMAO!!!!

    AND those who show their knees. lol

  • The problem with us today, we think too much with our looks. When you forget about it and realized that God has not planned for you to lay with another man, you win over the demon of homosexuality and stop its demonic thought. No matter how sexy you are today,one day it will turn to wrinkles, pure vanity. The fun, the sex, being the "it" guy and then what. The day you catch aids or are not the sexy guy in the room or get old. They all dump you. Find your strength in the lord he'll set you free!!

  • I tired it, it don't work. The bible is not a spell book, where you can say an incantation, and zap, you no longer a homosexual. It's my cross I bear it. I've been in the lifestyle for over 25 years and I'm still HIV-negative. God has kept me, even in all my mess. "I knew you before your were formed in the belly" I'm content with my life, I don't need to be set free, but to show these young gay men, that God is love-unconditional love, which most of us lack. It's not a demon, it's genetics.

  • We, "heterosexual" Christians, are told GLBT People are not acceptable in our community.

    Meanwhile, we enable (don't snitch) the murderers, thieves, (hetro)sexual predators, poison vendors, and addicts, gangs, bullies, and misogynists religions in our community.

    We have become a "Contrary" People.

  • And how about all these teens that are having babies out of wedlock.......Doesn't that line still exist in the bible, or did someone suddendly drop that line from the bible???

  • we have stopped celebrating young peoples passages. so, they come up with their own 'rites of passage'. Sex, smoking, drugs, gangbanging, fast driving.

    The opperative word you use is "Teens". IMO it is on the heads of the parents.

  • @Funkycraze

    The problem with us today is religion bullshit that your spitting out. It is no doubt in my mind now, that the Bible was man written to promote certain agendas.

    Funkycraze, don't get crazedfucked in the head over "I know the lord", because neither of us don't know shit, or were the fuck were going once we leave this life period.

  • All I can say you're a ho lol. I know what you are saying is true. I am a former male model and after living in Paris,L.A, Milan, Monaco, N.Y and DC. It is hard for a young good-looking brother to make it in show bizz if he does not give up the ass. My rock was my love for Jesus and my father. if he was not there, I know no matter how strong I am or straight I know I am, I would have fallen. Saw lots of dudes fall in the trap. I hated those DL bastards users with power too!!