Is Your Ex STILL Ignoring You?

[iamnotcoolandproud]

In addition to my last comment. I would just like to say, although no event has ocurred to make this decision (or for me to take this livelier approach), and I am basing the following on what has happened in the past half a year or so, I give up. Cock it. I'm not trying the bull no contact approach, I'm just leaving it. Yes, I want her back, but I'm not trying anymore. It's not that I don't care about her. Hell, I care about her more then ever. But I've tried. I've tried for years. Any advice?

[iamnotcoolandproud]

My best friend has liked the same girl for seven years straight, yet he still feels the need to hang with my girl! Me and her have been great friends for years and suddenly 2 timer lovestruck comes along and I'm replaced! Now the other boy has started going out with the girl he likes and he talks to mine more than ever.The bus home from school is a nightmare now I can only watch as the boy replaces me being spoken to by her more than me. How can I get her back? I can't move on!

[newyork3020]

Best video from you so far.(simple comment advice) Less finger snapping and lots of good advice. You are in tune and in complete harmony with yourself in this video, therefore everyone else will enjoy your good advice AND furthermore, buy your product . Keep up this style. ~ Thumbs up

Thank You :)

[joori1984]

Hi, he just walked off from my life and few days later sent me horrible text msgs of swearing and calling names, i couldnt help not replying and i told him not to contact me again and that ill never forgive him. Did i make a mistake to reply? And is there a point in waiting for him after how he treated me suddenly?

[newyork3020]

@joori1984 You should have not reply to him. It is fine though. You must stay away from him and stop contacting him until he contacts you back. Do not respond to his first contact. You must make him fully understand his mistake, if he has made one towards you. if its mutual mistake, you must too apologize when time comes.

[dinunclv]

what if we Skype, does this make her not miss me?

[dackala]

I want you boy you're so handsome!!mmmmmm :*********

[TheK1N1]

There is no general advice for every situation. Be careful with general advices and dont get fooled by someone who just wants to take advantage from your desperate situation by selling you something!! The truth is that sometimes it does make sense to fight to get an ex back, for instance if you hurt your ex badly but he/she still loves you.Then you need to regain trust, prove yourself and fight for another chance!

[mbpwnzkidz]

Mothafuckin genius

[claimurexback]

Great advice. I agree space is needed when a break up happens so both people can figure out how they feel. This is of course easier said than done but staying busy is a great way to keep your mind off of it.

[jolz2608]

he's cute...

[joeysixtysix]

Kyle Orton WOW! JK good vids, good advice.

[TheWatsonGreen]

I'm confused about the conclusion drawn in this video - I've been in NC with my ex for a month but still want her back (though I've made some steps towards moving on). If she were to text me tomorrow I'm supposed to just ignore it completely? this feels like game playing. Wouldn't it be more appropriate to just give a short reply without any questions or open endedness? Should I be the one to make contact now that it has been a while and I feel better? A lot of this advice contradicts...

[cupidsfury]

how long would be too long before giving up tryna get your ex back?

[SKJett1]

sometimes people just arent meant to be.. but i love this guys approach,, at the end of the day, i really believe that it is possible to reunite, and this approach is the healthiest way to do it.. and most effective.... i always had a certain way of behaving, and i think it drove them away, but when i did this, stopped making them the focal point and got on with things , i found my boyfriend appreciated me so much more...... and even if the person doesnt come back you have been gettin on with it

[Fallout1Boi]

Shit my ex got jealous for me talking to another girl at school -.-

[huntmee]

use a better cam 2 record ur videos

[atillerman]

Sounds like good advice but it has never worked for me. If I don't contact them they don't contact me either. Sometimes when a girl lets you go she lets you go, and you just have to accept that.

[hamzakhan111]

well said man

[ebeledi]

wow...this is so true!

[cavesuki8510]

Well for almost 3 weeks I tried keeping in touch with her by writing to her and giving her flowers (stupid I know) is there any chance I could impliment scarcity on her and for it to still work effectively?

Cause this hasn't been working by me keeping in tough with her.

Will this still work? Help please!

[cprewittorgilbert1]

@cavesuki8510 Yeah it will. If he or she is used to getting calls / txts / letters or gifts, they'll wonder what changed when these things stop coming. Granted that you didn't do somthing horrible, they should contact you with some time. I actually did the same thing as you the first 2 weeks and when I stopped it was only 2 DAYS before I got a text from her saying she was worried I'd moved on. The next day we had a nice conversation on skype and now I'm somewhat in control. (My ex even has a bf)

[MKRM27]

But... Your name is 'LadyboyHunter'. Not sure if your advice is up my street?

[GCSerana]

what if , ive sent him messages saying sorry and tried speaking to him and telling him how much i love him ( i know pathetic) , will i still have a chance if i just stop talking to him ?????

[jenski2009]

thank you. its worked before, but didnt do it long enough.. i miss my best friend , i know we are meant to be.

[jeromescoching]

Great video. I know this can help me. Thanks dude. I'll commit to scarcity.

[sxyflgrl]

very helpful . I hope this works for me.

[HairLikeCottonCandy]

I'd rather be good on my own till I discover someone better for me.

[Edgaros]

I don't want her back, i just want respect. I don't want to feel like a complete idiot for loving her and not being able to contact her as if i was her enemy. I stood by her in difficulties and treated her like noone else. I don't deserve this hearless shit. You can't just erase people who love you and fought for you. You know what i mean? This kind of behavior is so fucking cruel and speaks volumes about what kind of person you are. And i don't want her to be that person. It hurts dammit!

[hasngel]

@Edgaros man i cant agree with you more, 4 weeks now and i got the same identical treatment, its a bunch of bullshit how some women can be so cold and heartless. i mean its just so crazy

[Edgaros]

@hasngel They just can't face themselves man and that's all! Nothing less, nothing more. If they keep in touch with you, you will remind them of what a person they turned out to be and they don't wanna face that. They don't wanna change that and become people of some worth. They prefer the easy way. They hide and cut you off. They are hiding from themselves actually and not from you, but it still hurts as hell if you love them. You feel as if you were a total idiot for opening to them and

[Edgaros]

being there for them trough difficulties. You feel like a complete dumbass for making plans about you two and for trying to help them find themselves and understand what's important in life. Some people are so cowardish and conditioned that can't really appreciate shit! They may seem to, but they don't. It makes you wanna really become their enemy since they treat you like one. But they ain't worth it, because in the long run they get what they deserve for being just what they are, SELL OUTS!

[ShodakonFury]

@Edgaros I feel the exact same way about my ex. Even though he was a complete jerk, played me for someone else, and cut contact because that person told him to, I can't forget him. I worked hard to get him and fought where we could be together...and I LOVED him too. People always just say, "Build a bridge and get over it." But do they truly understand how difficult it is to get over someone that you gave all of your care and love to? It's hard, and its hurtful to yourself in my opinion.

[LisaMarie734]

@Edgaros hi there.. I read your comment above and feel I'm in the same boat as you are/were, but I feel the way you do/did, but I"m female and I feel I did alot for guy(s) in the past who ended up being so cruel & heartless. I'd like to chat with you some time and share perspectives, etc. So if u have yahoo mssgr, send me your ID and hope 2chat there sometime. Thanks, and take care. :)

[newfnshow031]

I used the book Surviving a Breakup: Getting Back Your Ex For Good by Matthew Mehra to get my ex back. It is inexpensive and I got it through the Kindle store.

[jchaaaaapz]

Brilliant techniques!! I did the whole NC stuff and then after 4 weeks she randomly texted me saying she want sex and it up the bum......I'm Sorry, but scarcity was the last thing on my mind when I got the msg....i was around there in a shot

[tcmutemi]

situations differ,no advice is universal

[azngurl760]

I'm sure that works most of the time. But If your ex is ignoring you and want you to suffer and beg to get them back. Than what kind of person are they? I say you shouldn't even give them that satisfaction and just focus on other things. Like getting a better job, finishing school or whatever.  People like that don't even deserve anyone time because they are too self absorb to care about other people feelings. So let them be by themselves.

[j0n3s100]

I 100% back u up on that great job bro keep it up

[darkworlddealings1]

@Bradford71us thnx but she found someone else and I found someone else who likes all the stuff I do and she's liked me ever since I met her apparently

[dviper25]

thank u awesome video... but if she texts me or calls me.. how ling should I wait to text or call bak..

[Ranilius1]

Maverick sorry that happened to you but in order for these tactics and general attitude towards the crisis to work there has to be some sort of REAL emotional connection with your ex

I was with my gf for 6 years before she broke up with me because of several things i was doing wrong, we stayed apart for 6 months during which time i followed a plan it took a lot of discipline but most of all faith, at the end she eventually asked me back we got back together and a year later we were married

[pmstudios1]

@Ranilius1 Sorry, but I don't know you but have to tell you it was heart warming to read that. Thank you, that is what people like us need, POSITIVE thoughts. I have been with my lady for 14 years and she announced in January that she wanted to go! Personally I think it's down to the time of life (I hope) and that is all we have left, HOPE. The last thing we need to read about is negativity, it really wont help. I know there is no one else involved and I am broken hearted beyond belief. Space!

[L4Dgamerzb]

well im gonna tell u 2 move on she is just gonna make u jealous and make u suduced 2 her and the next thing u know your going out again she is just gonna repeat everything again or cheat on you or watever but if u love her listen up chat with her get 2 know her take her on friendly dates or something and when the time is right tell her how u really feel and dont screw up and cheat or something spend every second with her and always listen 2 her okay that is how i learned and i hope u do alright

[TheExtraCoffee]

press 5 and laugh.^^

anyway, good video bro. helped alot.

[darkworlddealings1]

I'm in a mix up I want her bac/rlly don't. Maybe I'm just desperate. But now She won't rlly talk to me that much. Every1 else Is being nice to me tho :) and this one girl wants to make my ex jealous. That good or bad?

[bradford71us]

@darkworlddealings1 thats bad, cause she hates your ex more than she likes you probably, but its good for a fling. do it.

[darkworlddealings1]

@bradford71us i dont know we have been friends for a long time and ive helped her/ her help me thru a lot so i dont know.

[bradford71us]

@darkworlddealings1 its likely shes liked you for a long time but you were involved. trust me...im old....friends are the BEST ones to get involved with.

[sofragile777]

A word of advice when you break up just move on and don't wait! You know you broke up for a very good reason! Going back to the same person will just repeat the whole thing again! And you know better what is it you don't want to be repeated in your life/relationship again! Remember life is too short so be happy as much as you can and try to let go of painful stuff that are coming your way! Never wait for someone! Set them free to free yourself from them!

[seekperfection]

@sofragile777 Very true. Too often we hold onto people fro out past that have some how intruqed or fascinated us. We are only putting ourselves through pain and need to find away to move and discover something new.

[Maverick2097]

Spent a whole year not contacting my ex. The result? Zilch... if a girl breaks up with you, it's over... Nothing you can do to change it.

[nightfire4107]

@Maverick2097 the not contacting trick only works on 8/10 girls...maybe your ex was just that 2/10

[Maverick2097]

@nightfire4107 I think the reason why i've never experienced this personally is because most of the women i've been with had relatively high self-esteem and self-confidence. Women with low self-esteem want the validation in order to feel good about themselves. That's why breaking up contact with women like this works because you're no longer giving them the validation. But this will not worth with a confident woman. When a woman like this makes a decision, it's usually final...

[TechNo1r69]

@Maverick2097 Ahh, women are the same, mine was very confident and sent me to hell, later I found out another guy was doing the same to her, it's all relative.

[nightfire4107]

@Maverick2097 Sux but true

[shitfoo]

@Maverick2097  not nessasarily my gf and i got back together after 2 months. sorry things didn't work out. but you never know what will happen

[88chevcaprice]

I already figured this out, the only hard thing is resisting to respond back. How can you? you cant. and then you lose. 1 - 0.

[vzenvhjc]

ohhshitty. A person uses scarcity if there mate breaks there union.

The bond has been broken and she wants nothing to do with you. What do you suppose to do, chase her? No phone calls, e-mails, texting and letters. Get a life and move on. Don't valiade her ego by giving her attention. Exercising disiciple instills human growth. You can live without her and happier this way. No contact rejects the rejector. I done NC for about a year, and let me tell you- the ex wants back in. NC works.

[Emanresuemal]

I SEARCHED for this. FML.

[SenneffRules]

and I'm going to be honest...this guy is giving bad advice..

[jxxxb]

right! right? right.

[mrxxxoriginality]

but what if you broke up with your ex gf and both of you tried to give another chance to the relationsip but she doesn't love you anymore and she sees in you a more of a friend rather then a lover?:|....please if you really know so much give me an advice....i'm kinda desperate....thanks

[101208CnE]

My girlfriend well i should say x girlfriend i hate saying that cause it hurts me..but uhm what the girl doesnt have the same feeling or love u or anything..i've tried so much to get back with her..and we have a 1 year old baby boy..like i dont even know how it happened that she just poof her feelings changed out of nowhere like everything that i've done..i've cahnge all of that whatever i did im not that person anymore and like i want her to see that.....idk.....its a loong story between us =(

[tdsa23]

@101208CnE

I feel you I'm going through the same thing just no kid. Its hard

[SenneffRules]

@101208CnE I'm going through the same thing..but with 2 children

[MrNightshade69]

VERY HELPFULL THANK YOU

[LamourDeLucie]

My husband's birthday is tomorrow. I wish I had seen this about 12 hours ago before I started spazzing out and crying to the point of hyperventilation. THANK YOU!!! You are awesome!!!

[datingwomensex]

Good video Mike.

[KappaEffect]

What if I don't see them often?

[Neonishly]

Hah, me and my ex broke up a week before our 14 months. He was contacting me almost everyday, telling me he missed me, but still wanted to stay broken up. After 3 days of no contact, he asked me out. I wish I would have denied him, and not given in. Make sure you dont just jump on the chance to see them! After a week of wonderful dating he changed back into the dick he was before we broke up. Be careful, make sure to wait!

[brocktonsoldier]

me and my girl broke up cause i was a jerk then told her i cheated on her...i know im a asshole but i really realized i loved her and it was a mistake i did the no contact rule after a while she contacted me...i made a mistake by brin too availa....now she is giving me mixed signals

[wickedeli]

u are fuckin genius!

[africa43]

This is helpful, but would also have been helpful had he explained what to do when your ex has initiated contact after an "i need space" conversation and you took their call. I did this, and I guess he still has the power. What do I do now?

[ratalac727]

I stopped texting my ex about a month ago and now she's starting 2 text me so I told her to stop and now she is texting me even more. This shit works!!!

[ewanthug]

@ratalac727 really.?aww i stopped texting my ex about a week ,this makes me feel bad,didnt want to bother her..but it doesnt mean i'm completely ignoring her,i'll keep myself planning to get her back without contacting her.good work man!!take a good care of her!

[datingwomensex]

, Not just another video, this one stands out.

[JOKER6218]

this guy is soooo fucken stupid I swear Michael just shut the fuck up u fucken puto....gay bitch

[Aggie09TX]

@JOKER6218 Says the person who lacks basic spelling skills. Go back to high school.

[JOKER6218]

fuck getting girlfriendscuz when I get girlfriends then break up with them I get sad like fuck,I have to smoke 2

or more ciggerets so that I can feel better.....I get bitches not girlfriends

[JOKER6218]

fuck getting

[ratalac727]

This guy is a genius!!! My girl broke up with me a week ago and I've been texting her like crazy. I'm gonna try 2 not contact her for a few weeks and see if it works.

[mindbank001]

I'd like to give my wholehearted support to anyone interested in buying Michael's book and following his system. I did so, and can say without hesitation that the book is well written, and is definitely effective. All correspondence that I've had with him so far, has been dealt with in a professional and efficient manner. Comparatively speaking, I consider his videos to be the most the most well done of the many "relationship help" videos on YouTube. You won't be disappointed.

[TheElectro2009]

I have been with my wife for 14years, I am trying this methed but I am scared that she will get used to me not being with her if I do the no contact tactic . plus when she dose call me and I don't call back right away she gets pissed and tells me more hurtful things, like we are done and things I cant avoid to ignore. Any ideas?

[MrDiamondcut]

Excellent Michael. Maverick2097 makes a good piont on EGO, too.

[Maverick2097]

I've been in the game for a while now and while i can say that this works. But most of it operates in EGO... When doing stuff like this, you have to realise that what you're really doing is tapping into a woman's EGO. It's not really about YOU, but about HER... She wants the validation that she still has you under her thumb... The minute she has that validation, its over... Hence why we need to be scarce... But real love is being able to let someone got regardless of how you feel about them....

[Ninjette529]

This is very helpful. Thanks Michael ;)

[mytaijutsu1]

what happens if she totally hates my guts cos i did all the wrong things to try and win dem back until the point that ive pushed them far away frm me

[Eternalifelove]

Whole heartedly agree? Fundamentals of marketing? Scarcity? leveling playing field? Funny you mention marketing..Some good points

[cookiemad100]

what dose it mean if i messaged him and told him thanx for reading it .and so everything i send him he reads. why doesn't he just say go away or something instead of reading them when he knows i look to see if i read them ? dose he want to talk to me and im just not sayin the right thing?

[chinitoxxx48chucha]

hey ,agreed with him to be friends? but its so stupid!! cuz i don't feel well ,it makes my sad so i should i do ? ignored him?

[eilay007]

What should I do if I already agreed with him to be friends? He texts me sometime but never calls me. What should I do to get him call me instead ?

[ocachisu]

i hate him. i hate that i love him. i hate him i hate him i hate him. i love him.

[MakeUpYourMindGirl1]

so depressed. my bf wont reply to my texts.:( sod him in one way tho, i dont need this crap im a single indepenent mother right?

[piggyoink16]

hello, my boyfriend broke up with me for almost 2 months now. I still love him. But he won't talk to me. I did the "no contact rule" for almost 3 weeks now. He won't initiate on contacting me first. I want to talk to him but I'm scared :(

[atillerman]

this video is very good, girls are all about games this guy is good

[XxDaRkLuNyxX]

n after that we didnt talk for 4 days n she called n i answer right away i talked to her like nothing happen n when we where about to hang up she said love u bye like always i said it back n ever since its bn a week we havent talk n im trying not to call her i just knw she always loved me more than i loved her n shes bn hangin out with her friend (girl) a while before we broke up until today ima give it some time see if she calls

[XxDaRkLuNyxX]

i use to treat my gf bad cuz she was always stress out n was always cryin or in a bad mood n it put me in her mood in some ways i didnt mess up not cheated but just treated her bad now she said she needs a break cuz she wants to love her self 1st than others then i started feelin lonely n she told me thats how she felt n she wants me to learn from it

[MsAdrienne19]

i don no what to do now i don call him or txts him no more or email him  the last time i email him was the 26 of february i keep it short n now it been 2weeks and 4 days since he txts me the last time he txts me was valentine day i dont no what to do now am giving him space and am taking the time of focusing on me i want him back but i will like to rebuil r relationship first help me how long do i have to wai unit he call or txts me hw do i no when he move on

[surferjas06]

@MsAdrienne19 we r kinda in the same boat. my bf and i of nearly 2 years had a massive fight 2 weeks ago, i got the courage to text him and he agreed to meet with me. he said he still wants a relationship with me but wants to be friends at the moment. im scared that if i take a step back again and wait for him to contact me, that i may not hear from him for another week or another month......

[Jewelryploy]

Hey becareful, Don't u disagree when he said he want to be friends for a moment. Let a guy hav time 4 himself or eles u might end up like me. I cried over him and tell him I don't want to be friends I want everything to be the same cos Im afraid of losing him.But it doen't work he cant has time alone and he said he cant feel what he used to feel with me be4 now he want 2 break up! If I gave him time be4 he might miss me n come back.Now it's too late but i still hope for good things to happen

[Jewelryploy]

@surferjas06 Be careful, give him time to thnk about himself and live his life. He'll come back. If u still stick with him, I don't tink he'll has time to miss u and want u back.

Give him some sapce. The result will come out good. GOd Bless ^^

[thelastclap]

YES! You...are...amazing.

[solomonpilot767]

well,if she still is ignoring u 4 get her life is 2 fkn shrt 4 mind games and,don't be a pussy whip but,if u cheated on her u deserve 2 loose her,u will never understand a women just go w/a flow and,don't be a sucker,my brother!

[subsaibot4512]

i didnt talk to my ex for a couple days and one day i got to find out she was blowing up my lap top wondering where i was and i stupidly got sucked back in now ill try it again knowing it helps not to talk for awhile and see what happens

[kailani1995]

Can I tell you my story? About me and my ex just message me and i will tell you and you could probley talk about it on your video

[wadehjb]

Tried and tested with success several times now...in fact it's the only strategy I've ever known to win back an ex. Although you may be in gutwrenching emotional torment, if you can play indifferent and keep your distance it will go a long way.

[cheekytue]

Very good this, lad :].

I'll take the tips.

[bunbot05]

what your saying is true...it apply to my situation as well but we never went out to break up...we just stop talking cus she not ready and i simply rush her..so now im using this method

[1984dub]

great video mate!!

[ohhhshitty]

Why are you comparing human relationships to scarcity? Scarcity does not exist... its apart of sociological imagination. If you want your ex back, just think of what you did for a long time, put yourself in his/her shoes, think some more, and treat that person with love and respect.

[swettiyetti]

if you truly believe that your going to win your girlfriend/boyfriend back with that stupid plan, your the biggest idiot i've ever seen speak on a youtube comment.

[ohhhshitty]

lol that cant be true, there are tons of big idiots on youtube. i pray that you are pretending to be a total moron... treating people with love and respect does win them back, its a tried and true fact. comparing your friends to MARKETING of all things removes any sort of human element from relationships. are you a heartless moronic robot? i hope not.

[cole2k8x]

i slept in bed wiv my ex and i was single and so was the lad im tryin 2 win back we both love eatchover but he thinks i slept as in sex wiv my ex which i never i fell asleep and he was on the floor he kicked of we argued now he wont answer my calls ttxs fb messages :( hes still angry but i dont want to losse him i do love him plz help!

[bluestrapsify]

I guess it depends on the type of person your ex is and the situation of the breakup

[Ringmastr01]

not necessarily true. i did most the stuff wrong at first like begging to stay blah blah blah. but i started searching after the first day. its only been 4 days but i dont know if im beyond that point yet there are things she said and has done to make me think she wants me to come back even during her telling me she wants me to go. but well find out in a month or so.

[pjmarc1]

Honestly, if you're online trying to find a way to get your ex back, more than likely you're at the point of no return. Meaning you did all the wrong things after the break up like calling like crazy, stalking, emailing, texting, crying, begging, pleading, gifts, etc. I read the book and it's not good for when the damage is already done, but the book may be useful for preventive measures. I for one will sure pay attention to the book lessons in my NEXT relationship.

[keongms]

i'm totally agree with you on this!

[kingd287]

Your clip is very informative. I'm going to use your scarcity strategy. I hope it works for me because my break up is making me go insane.

[Andybaby]

Girls who dump guys don't usually call back to chat. They usually are too busy having fun w their new guy. Who they are having sex with. A lot.

[SSsoldierHH]

Yea no shit...Then they call you a psycho when u try to talk to her.

[Greatsocratesghost]

What if she's told you not to contact her for awhile and that she doasn't love you and never will.

[suryabuddha]

what if she has found someone new

[skaterguy15499]

What if she's talking to her ex, and if he's part or mostly the reason why you broke up?

[2oopoopie2]

my bf keeps saying its over and he has a new gf, but he keeps texting with me and joking with me and stuff. we were together 8years and I made a huge screw up. while I have done the begging thing, for the most part, I have been just keeping it to fun, light cute messages. and he responds back.. im so confused, so I just been assuming he is confused to. this is so stressful.

[caramellokoala84]

Talk to him only if he talks to you first & sometimes not even then cos he'll know you will take him back, he's like emotionally going out with you but is fucking someone else, so he has you both in a way. Bad for the ol' self esteem. If you want him back tell him 'I dont think its healthy us seeing each other for a while cos I need to move on' which is true and at the same time he can't string you along.

[caramellokoala84]

After saying this stick with it, and you'll have a MUCH bigger chance getting him back. Cut all contact with him for at least 2 weeks.

[Alexitis]

Wow, this was deep and helped me understand things better. Thanks for sharing this with us, inexperienced folks. I really appreciate this! <3

[hopinabucket]

i actually just got back with my girl today. i kinda of did what he sayed to do and we talked maybe 3 or 4 times over a 3 week period after the break up. now when we talked i did beg alot, and i showed her that i was sorry and i want to make up for my mistakes. and it worked! im with her now and im so happy. but i do not recomend my method. this guys is better. i could see it bothered her by acting like i didnt care. but i did wrong and got lucky. if u beg u only ask for more pain to yourself!

[Alexitis]

I'm so happy it worked for u =) I wish my bf was the same way =(

[pul500runescape]

i need help!!! ok i got a girl. and we were talking on the phone. wait ok she already has a bf. and she likes me.and her bf i got in a fight with him and i lost. cause he had all his freinds there and i called her a doosh bag and i think i can get her back im close and her bf smokes help

[TubErSkillZ]

give her two days then get close slowly..dont get hurt dude

[tiwarivikram]

what if you have already done mistake?

what if you have already tried persuading her that you would do anything possible way to get her back and tried convincing her but still she does not want to listen to you.

Do you still follow the same path you have suggested??

Thanks!

[Erisus]

im in te same boat as u dude . i dont know wat i should do...did He get back to u on this one?

[jimbob150555]

Man im in thge same boat as you, its natural instinct to promise anything to your ex to get them back - and if this fails as it did with mine and I take it your, then I suppose we can follow this guys instructions.

I have to say when she contacts me - I have jumped staright away to answer, to make up for my mistakes in the past. It would therefore be hard to be so cold to her as this guy says, but its worth it for another shot. I must say this ort of makes sense.

Hang in there buddy.