You don't have N ugly face, but your hair isn't doing wonders for you! My advice is to get rid of the bangs. Also, I feels your pain, I'm flat-chested too...
Pt 2 of 2. On an animalistic level our purpose essentially is to have children and have them live long enough that they themselves can have children... and so on. Anything that offers survival advantage to the next generation (even if we don't intend having children) is attractive. A big chest suggests high milk production = kids get more nutrition = survival advantage. That + a bit of cultural training is why men in general find big ones attractive. DC
@diabolusdc Interesting. But why are there still flat chested women? You would think that gene would have disappeared. I guess because there are other cultures and maybe flat chests might be attractive to them.
@angelafromcanada Evolutionary trade offs and balances occur in all manner of different ways.. perhaps a smaller chest is still fit for purpose (and gets bigger when pregnant anyway) giving a good offspring survival chance at the same time as not being too much of a burden in terms of the amount of nutrition required to grow/maintain it or even obstructing mobility and other daily tasks. That would be my best guess for what it's worth.
@diabolusdc I see. All the track stars are flat chested. And skinny is preferred, most flat chested women are skinny. Another reason breasts are getting bigger is hormones in food and we are getting fatter.
I wasn't always a vegetarian. And I stopped drinking dairy milk maybe a couple months ago. So maybe diet doesn't have much to do with it. If there were such a miracle food, no one would get implants.
@angelafromcanada Of course track stars are winners, (being a winner is attractive) so perhaps endowment as it were isn't too important. The people we see are often larger than we're supposed to be so perhaps what you consider to be small (in size generally, not just chests) is actually quite typical for the human species. // We could also see men tending towards flat chested women not "because" they are flat chested but because they are sporty, fit, active, healthy etc.. DC
I would have thought that what makes a person good company or otherwise (extend to attractive if you like) has far more to do with what is contained within your character as opposed to what is contained within your bra. For me personally if I were hanging out with a girl who looked like she had a dead heat in a zeppelin race strapped to the front of her I'd be concerned others would think I were shallow. With ordinary proportions there's no need for that concern. DC
Just saying... when it comes to porn, Playboy is like Fox News. It's an old form of media that manipulates people more than it informs/teaches them. Overall, you should try to stop being manipulated so easily by any type of media you watch now that you're becoming an adult.
Based on what you've said though it sounds like what they call "Body Dysmorphic Disorder." Look into it and get some help; either professionally or internally. :)
Eh. As far as the Playboy thing goes I have a bit of a comment for that. See, I found this video while doing research for my implants. I have a 32AA's. Sure, while I am getting implants for myself and not my work (same with all my other body mods,) I have been in porn for almost three years now. Not only that, but most of the time I've been a top model, and lately, I've often been the -#1- model (if not one of the top 10.) This is out of ---thousands--- of girls on ---hundreds--- of websites. ;)
@SuperAlexKitty I am interested in getting implants as well. As I've said before I'd like to be a 32C. But just for myself, I'd like to look a bit more feminine and curvy. I'd love to model, but I'm a little short! :P
Hey Angela! I am Angela from Canada too,I just wanted to tell you that don't feel focused on being flat chested.I am flat - chested too but I got over it I love it how I am so skinny and flat chested othrz cnt b me cause God chose me to b lyk dat so i am fine with it.I dnt evn think abt it though guys teased me a lot but I said them you dont really kno hw its lyk 2 b a girl!.I feel gud evn sum1 who hd crush on me said it in jealousy I believe if some one points u out thy r jst envy so dnt worry.
@mashmellowcookies Thanks! :) I actually am an atheist, so genetically, I somehow am flat chested. Guys really dont say anything to me, I guess now they are a little more mature. :P Now it seems they don't care that much, but still.. I feel like even less of a woman.
@angelafromcanada and i saw one of your videos which says beauty is in the eye of beholder i guess so many people judge me harsh but to some of them I look beautiful. So it depends im 17 but i guess its nt lyk paedos lyk flat chests its lyk the person who loves u 4who u r can be hard to find ,It can take months or maybe years but you know u have your whole lyf so better nt waste time wid players you'll always feel embarrass if you think about it .Spend your time worthly wid right person :).
@mashmellowcookies I don't know who thinks I am beautiful. I am worried that they will love me, but deep down want me to get implants. Like guys who are with fat girls, deep down, they want them to lose weight.
I don't know if the right person exists, I've been used my whole life, I only attract douchebags.
@angelafromcanada eh I would say in my case my mom always kept an eye on me.She doesn't wants me to have boyfriend until i stand on my own feet and be independent (living from my earning) sad but true ,I do get jealous of my friends when they talk about their boyfriends and I am just waiting to chose a right person when I get to be independent individual and earn ample amount of money more than just for eating.
@mashmellowcookies My parents honestly don't care about me getting into relationships. They are okay with it. I get jealous too when I hear my friends talk about their boy or girlfriends, it's like... am I really that ugly that I can't get asked out ever, except as a joke? And my friends aren't skinny model looking, but rather overweight and not too good looking.
@angelafromcanada haha i know right the love songs from the 60's and 70's were much more complicated and with much more feeling been put into it but todays people cant relate to that music because there not on that emotional level or something todays love songs are so simple they sound catchy but the lyrics are afwul and simple everyone could of have come up with that.
@angelafromcanada i see some similarities in ur comment to me because i dont really believe in love anymore to this age its different love is getting more commercialized by the day and everything gets so romanticized what u said in ur mail i kinda agree with u.
@KoddyX Yeah, even todays love songs are horrible! I miss old love songs, like Something by the Beatles... Now we have Grenade or Just the Way you are. UGH!
@angelafromcanada ur brainwashed by todays music and the models world with the view of being a girl so skin that it looks like anorexia its ugly no im not trying to be offensive but really u only give a shit about the looks did u ever get real love from someone? like real love because i dont think u had ur a materialistic loving person
@KoddyX Actually. I hate today's music and models! I like 60s music and 60s models. At least back then there was no photoshop, no breast implants (it was probably very primitive and dangerous at the time).
Are you saying I look anorexic, I'm not. I am borderline underweight, but I'm healthy.
I'm just a very visual person. I care about personalities, but I don't romanticise things.
LOL, who gives a fuck if you're flat chested or not. Nobody fucking cares. Wahh, I'm flat chested, so lets make a video about. You're the ugliest bitch I've ever seen. I don't see how people could telll you that you're pretty, you're the fucking opposite. I'd deff. never fuck you. ALSO, you have a ugly voice along with face. You don't have a models body.
Maybe You have an average looking Bum, but You are so Cute, I would spend My time looking into Your Eyes, if I was in the same town as You. I Live in Eastern Canada and there is a lot more Men than Women here. If Some Guy dont Like You, for Who You are, then they dont know what True Beauty is. You are Beautiful, You really are. Maybe I will dream about You when I go to Sleep now. Good Nighty : )
Lots of men prefer small breasts on women. Many find large breasts a total turn off. Just like different women prefer males of different shapes & sizes. Accept and love yourself and that confidence will make you super attractive. Please don't ever wreck yourself with implants. They are a total turn off to most people.
@EYEmusique That's what they claim! Large, when I say it is a C cup. It's big for someone my size. How can I accept a mannish looking me? Implants would make me look better. But I'm on the fence about getting them (money, pain, how it looks). Even my mother thinks I should get implants! Most men can't tell the difference between implants and natural. Would they rather see someone who is a AA or a natural looking C?
@angelafromcanada - 1st, I know what it's like to have big issues about my own body & do things (spend lots of money& pain) to "fix it"... It's to make me feel better, to like what I see, for confidence ... Doing such things to maybe impress others can be a huge mistake ... Implants: Well if you can find a way/assurance that they look natural ... I think they're quite obvious, look grotesque & they feel wrong ... cont'd ...
@angelafromcanada - 2nd: Breast size is one of those things that younger/immature people use to bully ... Bullies pick on those outside the "norm" (inc. height, weight, skin & hair colour) ... Recognise those bullies suck! ;-)... As you grow out of school you'll find it is different ... Many people mature beyond "media conditioned opinions"... If you are fixated on an insecurity you'll focus on evidence to support that... And be blind to the fact many love you as you are.
@EYEmusique Many times I can't help but dismiss them as paedos or desperate. Flat chests are not womanly, like it or not. Many men prefer hairless, so they don't look like an animal! Men will still like boobs no matter what, unless they aren't attracted to women or they are attracted to children.
I don't want them just to accept my ugly flat chest! I either want them to support me to get implants or really love my flat chest without being a paedophile about it.
@angelafromcanada 3rd - Look for evidence of people who find small breasts attractive. Many blogs are dedicated to such beauty ... In public recognise cases of small-breasted women with boyfriends ... Don't dismiss them as "paedophiles" ... The same could be said for everyone who likes a hair-free look & so on ... We tend to see/hear what reinforces our beliefs... Be aware to contrary evidence ... Most of all: calm humble confidence is the key to attractiveness and beauty.
i kind of know how u feel. my bra size is 30A and most of the girls at my middle school look like they r in a B or C cup! they sometimes make fun of the completly flat chested girls. (luckily i have a little boobs) they wear tight fitted shirts to show off their boobs.
@fanttjm1 How old are you? 12? 13? 14? You still have time to grow! You might grow, you might not. Don't sweat it now. Take it from a 17 year old. Heck I think I might be growing a bit. I wish you the best of luck!
Dude! I know how you feel, I'm a 34A, both my mother and sister have been full C cups since they were in elementary school. I hate when big breasted women say you could fit into clothes a lot better, which is complete and total bullshit. All the clothes I have fit me so baggy. I'm 19, and know little kids with larger chest than me. My boyfriend says I'm not flat chested and not pay attention to bra size, though it still hurts to feel unsexy.
@jazminekill I know! I am either a 32AA, now I fit into it because I grew a tiny bit or a 30B, neither of which are in shops usually or they are in the kiddy section.
Try vintage shops. I got lucky there a couple times. I found one dress that fits perfectly, usually that doesn't happen.
ing. Being a beautiful woman in America isn't easy, it's a lot a work and in my experience more work then what it is worth especially when you think about how little effort boys and men make to be physically attractive. Anyways when I periodically gave up on the opposite sex and just concentrated more on my desires outside the dating game, I found boys and men were more open to me. Confidence goes a long way, people tend to go through a phase where they want what they can't have, sometimes just
@Ichliebemusikundybd following your intuition can lead you to better things. I also have a ruler shape body too, and I am a lil chubby in the tummy so obviously my dating pool isn't full of men. I do however still get attention and from better types, "cus I don't give out the message (I am desperate for your attention) men respect that. Well big boobs usually give you back pain, it's harder to fit into a wide range of clothing styles, breathing can be more difficult, and overall the attention
@Ichliebemusikundybd you get is more perverted in nature. Also it's more difficult to play sports, but if none of that bothers you then you'll probably be happier with a bigger chest. As long as you are happy, and have confidence in your presentation you'll attract better guys. With all love and light
@Ichliebemusikundybd I was in Secondary school. It's sad how women have to put in effort to look like models, but men? I don't see them try to look like rock stars! How many men colour their hair? Not many.
I think many guys think I'm a lesbian. And they like it when you show you want them.
I would like any attention, flat chest gets none, except for, oh wow, is that a man or a woman?
@angelafromcanada Very true, in mainstream culture the message to girls and women is always similar (be thin, have medium to big breasts, small waist, big patootie, and long hair) personality is always secondary but at the same time important. You end up with a society where girls and women have a tendency to be overly competitive, jealous, and insecure. Eating disorders have become very common in the west as well, when looking through the framework of our society it's no wonde
@angelafromcanada r there's so much emphasis on women's appearances. It's like women never feel good enough and that's sick, the beauty industry has plagued the minds of both sexes with these unreachable standards for too long. I've become very selective about what I watch on t.v, 'cus I don't want those messages planted in subconscious mind, fortunately not all all female celebs are walking examples of what the beauty industry promotes. Look at Keira Knightly for example she
@angelafromcanada is about as flat as a surfboard, has a ruler shaped body, but has managed to become a prominent actress. Natalie Portman is another one that springs to mind, point is not all of Hollywood and entertainment orientated industries market unrealistic beauty standards for women. Your right men overall has less emphasis on their looks but more on status, although one thing I will point out is height. A lot of women have a 6ft requirement for their men, that is also
@angelafromcanada superficial, sometimes women want a man to be muscular as well. But yes women are definitely snowballed more with beauty pressure, no doubt. A lot of it is influenced by porn too, and yes gradually men are turning into complete assholes. I feel bad for the younger generations, they have so much to overcome and parents are just not doing their job as effectively these days. Did you watch Killing us Softly? Good doc on the subject, and I doubt they think your a
@Ichliebemusikundybd Indeed. Beauty comes in all sizes and shapes and colours. But many girls want to be as thin as Keira. Men do have it easier as far as looks. Many women do prefer tall men, but there are exceptions in the celebrity world. Roger Daltrey in the Who is tiny, but was a favourite amongst female who fans.
@angelafromcanada lesbian. Boys and men these days just have way too many choices and unfortunately that means until they are ready to settle down they will go for the "hot" girls. Not all are that way though, it's always the jerks that are the loudest a guy that genuinely likes you isn't going to be so "smooth". When people actually have feelings for each other you can't be that confident player society to an extent worships. Stay positive, and you'll find the right one
@Ichliebemusikundybd Marriage is becoming less popular, men seem to never want to settle down and settle for a not so pretty woman. I must always be surrounded by jerks :(
@angelafromcanada True to an extent, well that's what happens when society equates material wealth to personal happiness. Short lived pleasures above all consequences, but there's still a lot of good guys. Keep your head up high and filter out the idiots.
my wife is 34 and says the same stuff (ie- middle school girls, clothes, etc). Just relax and don't worry about it. There are a lot of guys that prefer smaller breasts (for many reasons). Why are boobs so important to guys you asked? If our moms loved us they fed us with those things, plus it's a natural instinct for human males to find a "fruitfull" woman. Bigger boobs=well fed babies (in theory). You will find someone that loves you just the way you are.
Sweetie you've a wonderful personality and you are very cute, their are great guys out there looking for girls like you. Men like women are individuals and shouldn't be lumped together in one category, why do you want to be attractive to most anyways? Isn't that a lil extreme, focus on attracting someone with substance and you'll be happier then ever. Also in actuality having a small chest doesn't equate to "little girl syndrome" removing/waxing your body hair all the time does...love and light
@Ichliebemusikundybd Thanks. Cute? I don't really want to be cute. If I get into a relationship I wouldn't care who thinks I'm good looking. I want a big pool of men attracted to me.
Interesting how men want women to shave down there, but are not accused of being paedos, yet they hate flat chested women. Why is that?
@angelafromcanada Yes it's quite the contradiction isn't it? Women in the west are socially manipulated primarily by the media to adopt these unrealistic beauty standards all in the name of money. Women can't even walk around with hairy legs without being seen as a yeti, and now with the birth of the internet pornography and it's ideals on "beauty" western men are gradually adopting a preference for shaved/waxed crotches and yes big boobs. That's all they show in porn, and your
@Ichliebemusikundybd perception is right other countries now refer to American men as pedos by their viewing choices. Honestly it's pretty sick but fortunately not all men are as herd orientated as the ones you speak of. Being a sex icon here is pretty much reserved to big chested/hairless ladies. With all love and light
@Ichliebemusikundybd Being a size 0 isn't unrealistic if you are short. I'm a size 0 myself! But most beauty standards are unrealistic/not even that beautiful.
@angelafromcanada Very true, everyone is built differently and shouldn't be socially pressured to validate a one-dimensional model of beauty; some people are thin, some are average, others are chubby, but what it all comes down to is how you feel about yourself. High self-esteem is a product of a healthy mind. Look at it this way a person could be born into money, own all the latest gadgets, and overall be provided all the modern luxuries society has developed over the years ye
@angelafromcanada t there's a yearning for something more, like a void present in a lonely heart they have everything popular culture promotes, but still an emptiness persists. Motivated by material gain little did they know that wealth derives from state of mind, some of the poorest people in the world (from a material-wealth standpoint) are living fulfilling lives with far less then so many of us. This by no means suggests that materialism is completely devoid of spiritual
@angelafromcanada value but that the over-emphasisization on external reality has disconnected us from our higher being, the one that can differentiate from right and wrong. A lot of people are suffering from one degree to the other, it's all a process I suppose but I really hope you learn to love yourself unconditionally. If you genuinely want a big pool of men attracted to you your best best is to give out body language suggesting such. You want to be approachable, energy is
It doesn't matter what size you are. Nobody's perfect & Everyone has something attractive to them. I actually find you to be very beautiful. At the end of the day its how you are as a person that matters the most...Boobs & Ass are just Icing on the cake.
@JahkwonLewis No, there are quite a few perfect looking people. At the end of the day, looks aren't everything, but they sure are a whole lot of importance! Me? Beautiful? Are you mad? I guess I'm a cake with no frosting. :( and everyone likes the frosting, that's the best part. Like an oreo with no cream in the middle.
@angelafromcanada very prevalent and if you keep telling yourself that men are all the same i.e wanting big boobs only you will ultimately scare a lot off. In all actuality men have been socially pressured to ogle at big boobs, it's very much so a product of culture. If you accept yourself and become open to attention w e it may be chances are you will attract it. Besides when weighing in the pros of big boobs you'll find the cons vastly outnumber the pros, do something else to
@angelafromcanada get attention. You are already intelligent, believe it or not a lot of men appreciate intelligence just believe in yourself and you'll be fine. With all love and light
@Ichliebemusikundybd Guys my age don't care about intelligence. They are still 15, mentally. If I want someone who doesn't care, I'd be going for someone 10 years older. I could act confident all day long, but I only attract very ugly men who cannot get anything better, and guys that use me. What are the cons of big boobs? There's not that many. I've accepted myself, but nothing comes out of it. I'm still not as pretty as the other girls, my competition for men.
@angelafromcanada You've obviously had some bad experiences with the opposite sex, may I ask where you usually meet them? I can relate to an extent, it wasn't too long ago that I was in high school and had to deal some of the one-dimensional boys you mention. Honestly I became fed up with the unrealistically tall sexual/physical orders boys had and decided I would rather take care of my own sexual desires then rely heavily on selfish idiots high school boys are notorious for be
@ghol1x Well I don't have big breasts or a pretty face. that's what men like. My hair is black, I try going blonde and it turns red, guys don't seem to like either one.
Be myself? I don't know if guys like a girl that fangirls over 60s rock musicians. xD
Gift for what? Cross dressing? I'd be good at it since I'm flat as hell, but I'm short.
I honestly don't understand why big breasts are so "attractive" or "good-looking", either. I'm about a 36D, and honestly, I wish I was smaller so I could fit into shirts made for those with smaller breasts. I feel weird when guys stare at my chest, it's very uncomfortable. I also have a friend who wishes she has bigger breasts. I'm sure it IS a pain to shop for clothes, especially dresses, as you stated, but having bigger breasts like me can also be annoying. I think you're pretty, anyways. :)
@NeonTreeHugger I want to know too! I need more male opinions! Even the skinny and flat chested can have children! Twiggy and Audrey Hepburn had children. So why is that argument about fertility still going around? I want breasts that are about a 32C, I'm a long way away from that. :(
And while I think I'm a b-cup (I'm not sure bcs I've measured myself a couple of times but I really look flat-chested when I'm wearing a shirt :( ), I get INSANELY jealous of girls with big, beautiful eyes. I have tiny eyes. YOURS, however, are GORGEOUS. Guys love big eyes (ex. Angelina Jolie). You're super, super gorg and I'm not just saying that, I wouldn't comment at all if I didn't mean it :)
OMIGOSH you friekin' look like a MODEL in both of your dress photos!!!! (P.s. lots of models/actresses/celebs are A cups, i.e. yasmin le bon, valeria mazza, tori praver, tiiu kuik, tereza maxova, tamsin egerton, stacy keibler, shenae grimes, shannyn sossamon, sasha cohen, and keira knightley)
@soyouthinkyoucanread Thanks! :) Not all models are flat, most are actually larger chested than me. Men don't really look at runway models, but rather swimsuit models and lingerie models. I wish I could model, but I'm too short to model today, but if I lived in the 60s I probably had more of a chance.
It is not true that all guys like big boobs. A lot of men prefer smaller ones because they are more perky. The women in magazines don't represent what most men really want. I am about the same size as you and I get hit on and whistled at all the time. Guys like my boobs because they are perky. Don't worry about the guys who like big ones- there are plenty of guys that will love your smaller ones.
@acidstars9 Some men do prefer "smaller breasts," but a flat chest, oh no. When they say small, they are talking A or B cup, I'm way smaller, even a 32AA is a little too big for me! It's not even that I'm small chested, I'm completely flat, almost. What kind of man likes flat chests?
@angelafromcanada I don't even fill out an A cup, and I'm telling you guys still like me. If you walk around feeling like you're ugly because of your breasts or whatever, you have low self esteem and that takes away from your attractiveness. You either have to accept yourself or get surgery, what other choice is there? I feel bad about it too sometimes but I'd rather be like this than have implants. Besides, if you are thin, they will get bigger most likely if you gain any weight at all.
@acidstars9 How does low self esteem make someone unattractive? High self esteem on an unattractive man will never make them more attractive in my eyes.
I'd never get implants, but if fat injections are a possibility in the decades to come, I'm going for it.
Everyone has a different body shape. I'm a ruler-pear hybrid. If I gain weight it's going to my bum. I lost weight, went from 8 stone, 8 lb to 8 stone even and if anything my breasts look larger as I have zero fat on my chest
@acidstars9 I went from measuring 31-26-35 (8 stone 8 lb) to 31-25-33 (8 stone) I'm still as flat as ever, but in comparison to my other measurements, my breasts look larger.
Seriously, you drive me crazy with your flat chested complaints!!!!!!!! You are so beautiful and opinionated; you have such an interesting personality! You don't need boobs. I'm a 32B and I'd go for smaller if I could! Boobs are nothing!
Oh, I can explain: we like "boobs" because of what they express, i.e. your womanly/girlish nature - and even your personality, too. And because we can also express something to you through them.
Now if you could just be persuaded to quit the lamenting, you'll be absolutely top of the pops. You see it is not like "AA" is any less - it is more like with those master painters who can express everything with just a few strokes. I personally think that is often the ultimate in art ;o)
@NotMadeForYou Darn, so I'm less of a woman? Or I can look at it this way? More woman per square inch, as I'm flat chested and therefore am smaller? I don't know.
I don't know about being seen as better looking because I change my thinking. I won't get any boob men no matter what. But AA cup breasts are associated with children, who would want to be with a woman who looks like a kid? A paedo?
@angelafromcanada Yes more concentrated womanliness per cubic inch is a good way of looking at it ;o)
It is not that changing the thinking makes you look better (that even necessary either), but just that it would make you a little easier approachable ;o) Now if someone compliments you, you go "oh you must be a paedo"! So you're a hard nut to crack. That is the only hurdle. That you can everything with your "few cubic inches", that can be just something extra enchanting about you. Why not! :o)
@NotMadeForYou Sorry I had to shorten so I cut a wrong word! I meant you getting to look better is NOT even necessary. (was supposed to be a compliment) ;o)
@NotMadeForYou I don't say "you must be a paedo" out loud, but I definitely think it. Because from my experience all straight men (who are non paedos) like big boobs. Going for a flat chested woman is settling. I don't want him to settle. I don't want him just to accept that I'm not so well endowed. I'd want him to like my flat chest.
@angelafromcanada Yes, I understand! But no, going for you (and making your breasts feel wonderful) is definitely not "settling" - that is the hardest act of all. Much, much easier with your average C cup girl who just thinks: "Oh, I don't understand why those crazy boys like boobs... but quite nice, I guess, so I'll accept". But the way you resist ferociously, winning a lass like you takes a real little hero! I'm sure you will respond very generously, too! Besides, you are fun talking to ;o)
@NotMadeForYou I'd much rather switch places with that lucky C cup girl. She doesn't have to try to attract anyone, I have to try and even then, I find that guys will pick an overweight girl over me (it's not her personality trust me) because she has boobs. I don't resist surprisingly. I pick anything I get, which is not much. Not really anyone good looking. I find overweight men like me, but I find it's because they tried to get all the better looking well endowed ones and failed
@angelafromcanada We are not really contradicing each other now. You say when you go for a wimp that you don't even really like, it hasn't worked. I say when someone with real guts will go for you, you'll be heavenly with your ultra high female-power-per-cubic-inch ratio ;o) If it was difficult, it will probably also feel that much more precious, don't you agree? Wishing you a happy 2012!
Guys are attracted to girls with boobs because it's an indication of how well they will be able to care for their children (meaning to feed them). This trait is hard wired the brains of all of men. It's the same thing were guys look for girls with wide hips. These things may seem superficial but it has helped us survive for 1000's of years and made us what we are today.
You might like to watch The Science of Sex Appeal on youtube. Explains all this sort of stuff.
@Pikers81 But flat chested women were able to have children. Ex: Twiggy and Audrey Hepburn. And heck, Pattie Boyd, who was thin, but has larger breasts than they do/did, is infertile.
Why are the still flat chested women then? If it were such a disadvantage, there would only be curvy women.
@Pikers81 False, men in the west are socially indoctrinated to adopt a preference for anything that's big and covered, most cultures outside the west don't put a big emphasis on breasts as their natural function is to feed babies not MEN. Women with smaller chests are equally capable of producing sufficient milk for their offspring, the problem is our sex-obsessed culture. Essentially men''s preference for bigger chested women is more of a social construct then biological. Love and light
@Ichliebemusikundybd Exactly! If I were in a tribal area in Africa or in some tribal reserves in South America, where women go shirtless, no one cares about boobs. Perhaps this may happen if the laws are changed and women can go topless anywhere men can. Men can be such prudes! I don't wear a bra and in secondary school, classmates complained about me not wearing a bra. They're just nipples. Men have them too! Its sexist that women have to cover up their nipples.
@angelafromcanada I completely agree with you, men in the west aren't held to the same esteem as women sexually. Women in the west have traditionally been the gatekeepers of all behavioral modifications by that same token men as a result will benefit far more in this respect as they are merely the followers not the teachers. Men are equally capable of practicing self-control
@angelafromcanada the problem is society is still to an extent operating on the old model of gender roles, women tend to reinforce from generation to generation by expecting men to treat them with complete respect while claiming moral superiority. It's a double edged sword, both men and women need to be equally accountable for their actions and fortunately society has at least acknowledged this. Yes men parade around with their bulky muscles, tight bubble butts, and sometimes
@angelafromcanada hairy man boobs, and women don't behave like lustful dogs out to get a bone lol. Well some do but more subtly, and it would be interesting to see the varying levels and types of reactions we'd get when going topless was made legal for women. Obviously women would need to organize a movement of some sort that way more awareness and also protection would be offered. The beginning would be pretty hectic as there's a lot of money to lose if breasts become just
@angelafromcanada another body-part. That would be cool though, I think the human body should be respect irrespective of the opposing viewpoints, the less sexual-repression the better!
@Ichliebemusikundybd Sure it has a lot to do with social conditioning but I was refering to the evolutionary perspective. You can't erase that unless your planning to hang around for a few million years.
You don't have N ugly face, but your hair isn't doing wonders for you! My advice is to get rid of the bangs. Also, I feels your pain, I'm flat-chested too...
AllegraRULES 12 hours ago
@AllegraRULES I try getting rid of them and it looks bad.
angelafromcanada 12 hours ago
I thik your cute , I mean it , your smart and wow your cool
Chobits099 6 days ago
@Chobits099 Thanks.
angelafromcanada 6 days ago
@Chobits099 Thanks.
angelafromcanada 6 days ago
@Chobits099 Really? Thanks! :)
angelafromcanada 5 days ago
Pt 2 of 2. On an animalistic level our purpose essentially is to have children and have them live long enough that they themselves can have children... and so on. Anything that offers survival advantage to the next generation (even if we don't intend having children) is attractive. A big chest suggests high milk production = kids get more nutrition = survival advantage. That + a bit of cultural training is why men in general find big ones attractive. DC
diabolusdc 6 days ago
@diabolusdc Interesting. But why are there still flat chested women? You would think that gene would have disappeared. I guess because there are other cultures and maybe flat chests might be attractive to them.
angelafromcanada 6 days ago
@angelafromcanada Evolutionary trade offs and balances occur in all manner of different ways.. perhaps a smaller chest is still fit for purpose (and gets bigger when pregnant anyway) giving a good offspring survival chance at the same time as not being too much of a burden in terms of the amount of nutrition required to grow/maintain it or even obstructing mobility and other daily tasks. That would be my best guess for what it's worth.
diabolusdc 6 days ago
@diabolusdc I see. All the track stars are flat chested. And skinny is preferred, most flat chested women are skinny. Another reason breasts are getting bigger is hormones in food and we are getting fatter.
I wasn't always a vegetarian. And I stopped drinking dairy milk maybe a couple months ago. So maybe diet doesn't have much to do with it. If there were such a miracle food, no one would get implants.
angelafromcanada 5 days ago
@angelafromcanada Of course track stars are winners, (being a winner is attractive) so perhaps endowment as it were isn't too important. The people we see are often larger than we're supposed to be so perhaps what you consider to be small (in size generally, not just chests) is actually quite typical for the human species. // We could also see men tending towards flat chested women not "because" they are flat chested but because they are sporty, fit, active, healthy etc.. DC
diabolusdc 4 days ago
I would have thought that what makes a person good company or otherwise (extend to attractive if you like) has far more to do with what is contained within your character as opposed to what is contained within your bra. For me personally if I were hanging out with a girl who looked like she had a dead heat in a zeppelin race strapped to the front of her I'd be concerned others would think I were shallow. With ordinary proportions there's no need for that concern. DC
diabolusdc 6 days ago
Just saying... when it comes to porn, Playboy is like Fox News. It's an old form of media that manipulates people more than it informs/teaches them. Overall, you should try to stop being manipulated so easily by any type of media you watch now that you're becoming an adult.
Based on what you've said though it sounds like what they call "Body Dysmorphic Disorder." Look into it and get some help; either professionally or internally. :)
SuperAlexKitty 1 week ago
@SuperAlexKitty Yeah, the women in Playboy are a bit cookie cutter and airbrushed to death.
I think I have BDD I wish it could get better.
angelafromcanada 1 week ago
Eh. As far as the Playboy thing goes I have a bit of a comment for that. See, I found this video while doing research for my implants. I have a 32AA's. Sure, while I am getting implants for myself and not my work (same with all my other body mods,) I have been in porn for almost three years now. Not only that, but most of the time I've been a top model, and lately, I've often been the -#1- model (if not one of the top 10.) This is out of ---thousands--- of girls on ---hundreds--- of websites. ;)
SuperAlexKitty 1 week ago
@SuperAlexKitty I am interested in getting implants as well. As I've said before I'd like to be a 32C. But just for myself, I'd like to look a bit more feminine and curvy. I'd love to model, but I'm a little short! :P
angelafromcanada 1 week ago
Hey Angela! I am Angela from Canada too,I just wanted to tell you that don't feel focused on being flat chested.I am flat - chested too but I got over it I love it how I am so skinny and flat chested othrz cnt b me cause God chose me to b lyk dat so i am fine with it.I dnt evn think abt it though guys teased me a lot but I said them you dont really kno hw its lyk 2 b a girl!.I feel gud evn sum1 who hd crush on me said it in jealousy I believe if some one points u out thy r jst envy so dnt worry.
mashmellowcookies 2 weeks ago
@mashmellowcookies Thanks! :) I actually am an atheist, so genetically, I somehow am flat chested. Guys really dont say anything to me, I guess now they are a little more mature. :P Now it seems they don't care that much, but still.. I feel like even less of a woman.
angelafromcanada 1 week ago
@angelafromcanada well i know right .That feeling! but i hope when u will get married it'll be okay
mashmellowcookies 1 week ago
@mashmellowcookies Thanks!
angelafromcanada 1 week ago
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mashmellowcookies 1 week ago
@angelafromcanada and i saw one of your videos which says beauty is in the eye of beholder i guess so many people judge me harsh but to some of them I look beautiful. So it depends im 17 but i guess its nt lyk paedos lyk flat chests its lyk the person who loves u 4who u r can be hard to find ,It can take months or maybe years but you know u have your whole lyf so better nt waste time wid players you'll always feel embarrass if you think about it .Spend your time worthly wid right person :).
mashmellowcookies 1 week ago
@mashmellowcookies I don't know who thinks I am beautiful. I am worried that they will love me, but deep down want me to get implants. Like guys who are with fat girls, deep down, they want them to lose weight.
I don't know if the right person exists, I've been used my whole life, I only attract douchebags.
angelafromcanada 1 week ago
@angelafromcanada eh I would say in my case my mom always kept an eye on me.She doesn't wants me to have boyfriend until i stand on my own feet and be independent (living from my earning) sad but true ,I do get jealous of my friends when they talk about their boyfriends and I am just waiting to chose a right person when I get to be independent individual and earn ample amount of money more than just for eating.
mashmellowcookies 1 week ago
@mashmellowcookies My parents honestly don't care about me getting into relationships. They are okay with it. I get jealous too when I hear my friends talk about their boy or girlfriends, it's like... am I really that ugly that I can't get asked out ever, except as a joke? And my friends aren't skinny model looking, but rather overweight and not too good looking.
angelafromcanada 1 week ago
@angelafromcanada haha i know right the love songs from the 60's and 70's were much more complicated and with much more feeling been put into it but todays people cant relate to that music because there not on that emotional level or something todays love songs are so simple they sound catchy but the lyrics are afwul and simple everyone could of have come up with that.
KoddyX 2 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada i see some similarities in ur comment to me because i dont really believe in love anymore to this age its different love is getting more commercialized by the day and everything gets so romanticized what u said in ur mail i kinda agree with u.
KoddyX 2 weeks ago
@KoddyX Yeah, even todays love songs are horrible! I miss old love songs, like Something by the Beatles... Now we have Grenade or Just the Way you are. UGH!
Thanks! :)
angelafromcanada 2 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada ur brainwashed by todays music and the models world with the view of being a girl so skin that it looks like anorexia its ugly no im not trying to be offensive but really u only give a shit about the looks did u ever get real love from someone? like real love because i dont think u had ur a materialistic loving person
KoddyX 2 weeks ago
@KoddyX Actually. I hate today's music and models! I like 60s music and 60s models. At least back then there was no photoshop, no breast implants (it was probably very primitive and dangerous at the time).
Are you saying I look anorexic, I'm not. I am borderline underweight, but I'm healthy.
I'm just a very visual person. I care about personalities, but I don't romanticise things.
I never have been in love, I don't believe in it.
angelafromcanada 2 weeks ago
cunt
Dancingforblood 3 weeks ago
@Dancingforblood You're the cunt!
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
LOL, who gives a fuck if you're flat chested or not. Nobody fucking cares. Wahh, I'm flat chested, so lets make a video about. You're the ugliest bitch I've ever seen. I don't see how people could telll you that you're pretty, you're the fucking opposite. I'd deff. never fuck you. ALSO, you have a ugly voice along with face. You don't have a models body.
Dancingforblood 3 weeks ago
@Dancingforblood Obviously some people do! Piss off! You're probably a 40 year old virgin male who lives in his mum's basement.
I wouldn't fuck someone with an ugly personality, even if they had curly blonde hair and blue eyes (my favourite characteristics).
You don't know what my body looks like, but yes, I am a size 0/2, which is the size of many models (the shorter ones).
Yes, I know I am a butterface! This is why I'm planning on getting implants.
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
@Dancingforblood You're probably saying this because you're so ugly, even the ugliest women would go lesbian rather than have sex with you.
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
Maybe You have an average looking Bum, but You are so Cute, I would spend My time looking into Your Eyes, if I was in the same town as You. I Live in Eastern Canada and there is a lot more Men than Women here. If Some Guy dont Like You, for Who You are, then they dont know what True Beauty is. You are Beautiful, You really are. Maybe I will dream about You when I go to Sleep now. Good Nighty : )
MsTurboprop 3 weeks ago
@MsTurboprop Cute? I don't want to be cute! I'm not a little kid or a puppy or a kitty.
True beauty? Well there's more people than just me that are beautiful. They may not like me, but they like someone prettier.
I might not be ugly, but when you compare me to the rest, I am. You haven't seen beautiful until you've seen the girls around here.
angelafromcanada 2 weeks ago
There is absolutely nothing wrong, with being Small on top. I prefere small Breasts.
Like most Men, I like a Great ass. Dont do anything to alter Your Body...You are
perfect just the way You are. Dont do anything to impress others, It is You that
has to Like You. I wish You lived in My Town, and I was 18. You are a Sweet Girl. Good
Luck, and I Hope You find someone, who will Love You for Who You are. Hugs ooo
MsTurboprop 3 weeks ago
@MsTurboprop I just have an average bum. Not flat, but not great. Who would like me for who I am?
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
Lots of men prefer small breasts on women. Many find large breasts a total turn off. Just like different women prefer males of different shapes & sizes. Accept and love yourself and that confidence will make you super attractive. Please don't ever wreck yourself with implants. They are a total turn off to most people.
EYEmusique 3 weeks ago
@EYEmusique That's what they claim! Large, when I say it is a C cup. It's big for someone my size. How can I accept a mannish looking me? Implants would make me look better. But I'm on the fence about getting them (money, pain, how it looks). Even my mother thinks I should get implants! Most men can't tell the difference between implants and natural. Would they rather see someone who is a AA or a natural looking C?
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada - 1st, I know what it's like to have big issues about my own body & do things (spend lots of money& pain) to "fix it"... It's to make me feel better, to like what I see, for confidence ... Doing such things to maybe impress others can be a huge mistake ... Implants: Well if you can find a way/assurance that they look natural ... I think they're quite obvious, look grotesque & they feel wrong ... cont'd ...
EYEmusique 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada - 2nd: Breast size is one of those things that younger/immature people use to bully ... Bullies pick on those outside the "norm" (inc. height, weight, skin & hair colour) ... Recognise those bullies suck! ;-)... As you grow out of school you'll find it is different ... Many people mature beyond "media conditioned opinions"... If you are fixated on an insecurity you'll focus on evidence to support that... And be blind to the fact many love you as you are.
EYEmusique 3 weeks ago
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EYEmusique 3 weeks ago
@EYEmusique Many times I can't help but dismiss them as paedos or desperate. Flat chests are not womanly, like it or not. Many men prefer hairless, so they don't look like an animal! Men will still like boobs no matter what, unless they aren't attracted to women or they are attracted to children.
I don't want them just to accept my ugly flat chest! I either want them to support me to get implants or really love my flat chest without being a paedophile about it.
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
@EYEmusique No one loves me as I am!
angelafromcanada 2 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada 3rd - Look for evidence of people who find small breasts attractive. Many blogs are dedicated to such beauty ... In public recognise cases of small-breasted women with boyfriends ... Don't dismiss them as "paedophiles" ... The same could be said for everyone who likes a hair-free look & so on ... We tend to see/hear what reinforces our beliefs... Be aware to contrary evidence ... Most of all: calm humble confidence is the key to attractiveness and beauty.
EYEmusique 3 weeks ago
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EYEmusique 3 weeks ago
i kind of know how u feel. my bra size is 30A and most of the girls at my middle school look like they r in a B or C cup! they sometimes make fun of the completly flat chested girls. (luckily i have a little boobs) they wear tight fitted shirts to show off their boobs.
fanttjm1 3 weeks ago
@fanttjm1 How old are you? 12? 13? 14? You still have time to grow! You might grow, you might not. Don't sweat it now. Take it from a 17 year old. Heck I think I might be growing a bit. I wish you the best of luck!
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
Dude! I know how you feel, I'm a 34A, both my mother and sister have been full C cups since they were in elementary school. I hate when big breasted women say you could fit into clothes a lot better, which is complete and total bullshit. All the clothes I have fit me so baggy. I'm 19, and know little kids with larger chest than me. My boyfriend says I'm not flat chested and not pay attention to bra size, though it still hurts to feel unsexy.
jazminekill 3 weeks ago
@jazminekill I know! I am either a 32AA, now I fit into it because I grew a tiny bit or a 30B, neither of which are in shops usually or they are in the kiddy section.
Try vintage shops. I got lucky there a couple times. I found one dress that fits perfectly, usually that doesn't happen.
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
ing. Being a beautiful woman in America isn't easy, it's a lot a work and in my experience more work then what it is worth especially when you think about how little effort boys and men make to be physically attractive. Anyways when I periodically gave up on the opposite sex and just concentrated more on my desires outside the dating game, I found boys and men were more open to me. Confidence goes a long way, people tend to go through a phase where they want what they can't have, sometimes just
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd following your intuition can lead you to better things. I also have a ruler shape body too, and I am a lil chubby in the tummy so obviously my dating pool isn't full of men. I do however still get attention and from better types, "cus I don't give out the message (I am desperate for your attention) men respect that. Well big boobs usually give you back pain, it's harder to fit into a wide range of clothing styles, breathing can be more difficult, and overall the attention
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd you get is more perverted in nature. Also it's more difficult to play sports, but if none of that bothers you then you'll probably be happier with a bigger chest. As long as you are happy, and have confidence in your presentation you'll attract better guys. With all love and light
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd I was in Secondary school. It's sad how women have to put in effort to look like models, but men? I don't see them try to look like rock stars! How many men colour their hair? Not many.
I think many guys think I'm a lesbian. And they like it when you show you want them.
I would like any attention, flat chest gets none, except for, oh wow, is that a man or a woman?
It seems like good guys are extinct almost.
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada Very true, in mainstream culture the message to girls and women is always similar (be thin, have medium to big breasts, small waist, big patootie, and long hair) personality is always secondary but at the same time important. You end up with a society where girls and women have a tendency to be overly competitive, jealous, and insecure. Eating disorders have become very common in the west as well, when looking through the framework of our society it's no wonde
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada r there's so much emphasis on women's appearances. It's like women never feel good enough and that's sick, the beauty industry has plagued the minds of both sexes with these unreachable standards for too long. I've become very selective about what I watch on t.v, 'cus I don't want those messages planted in subconscious mind, fortunately not all all female celebs are walking examples of what the beauty industry promotes. Look at Keira Knightly for example she
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada is about as flat as a surfboard, has a ruler shaped body, but has managed to become a prominent actress. Natalie Portman is another one that springs to mind, point is not all of Hollywood and entertainment orientated industries market unrealistic beauty standards for women. Your right men overall has less emphasis on their looks but more on status, although one thing I will point out is height. A lot of women have a 6ft requirement for their men, that is also
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada superficial, sometimes women want a man to be muscular as well. But yes women are definitely snowballed more with beauty pressure, no doubt. A lot of it is influenced by porn too, and yes gradually men are turning into complete assholes. I feel bad for the younger generations, they have so much to overcome and parents are just not doing their job as effectively these days. Did you watch Killing us Softly? Good doc on the subject, and I doubt they think your a
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Indeed. Beauty comes in all sizes and shapes and colours. But many girls want to be as thin as Keira. Men do have it easier as far as looks. Many women do prefer tall men, but there are exceptions in the celebrity world. Roger Daltrey in the Who is tiny, but was a favourite amongst female who fans.
I did watch that documentary, very brilliant.
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada lesbian. Boys and men these days just have way too many choices and unfortunately that means until they are ready to settle down they will go for the "hot" girls. Not all are that way though, it's always the jerks that are the loudest a guy that genuinely likes you isn't going to be so "smooth". When people actually have feelings for each other you can't be that confident player society to an extent worships. Stay positive, and you'll find the right one
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Marriage is becoming less popular, men seem to never want to settle down and settle for a not so pretty woman. I must always be surrounded by jerks :(
angelafromcanada 3 weeks ago
@angelafromcanada True to an extent, well that's what happens when society equates material wealth to personal happiness. Short lived pleasures above all consequences, but there's still a lot of good guys. Keep your head up high and filter out the idiots.
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
The mind is sexy, work that mind XD.
cybelli80 3 weeks ago
my wife is 34 and says the same stuff (ie- middle school girls, clothes, etc). Just relax and don't worry about it. There are a lot of guys that prefer smaller breasts (for many reasons). Why are boobs so important to guys you asked? If our moms loved us they fed us with those things, plus it's a natural instinct for human males to find a "fruitfull" woman. Bigger boobs=well fed babies (in theory). You will find someone that loves you just the way you are.
snowj720 3 weeks ago
you're awesome how you are
josh71111 1 month ago
@josh71111 Thanks! :)
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
boobs are boobs, who cares what size they are?
skull9111 1 month ago
@skull9111 Men do.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada i am a man and i can truly say that i dont give a fuck, there are all awesome
skull9111 1 month ago
Sweetie you've a wonderful personality and you are very cute, their are great guys out there looking for girls like you. Men like women are individuals and shouldn't be lumped together in one category, why do you want to be attractive to most anyways? Isn't that a lil extreme, focus on attracting someone with substance and you'll be happier then ever. Also in actuality having a small chest doesn't equate to "little girl syndrome" removing/waxing your body hair all the time does...love and light
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Thanks. Cute? I don't really want to be cute. If I get into a relationship I wouldn't care who thinks I'm good looking. I want a big pool of men attracted to me.
Interesting how men want women to shave down there, but are not accused of being paedos, yet they hate flat chested women. Why is that?
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada Yes it's quite the contradiction isn't it? Women in the west are socially manipulated primarily by the media to adopt these unrealistic beauty standards all in the name of money. Women can't even walk around with hairy legs without being seen as a yeti, and now with the birth of the internet pornography and it's ideals on "beauty" western men are gradually adopting a preference for shaved/waxed crotches and yes big boobs. That's all they show in porn, and your
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd perception is right other countries now refer to American men as pedos by their viewing choices. Honestly it's pretty sick but fortunately not all men are as herd orientated as the ones you speak of. Being a sex icon here is pretty much reserved to big chested/hairless ladies. With all love and light
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Being a size 0 isn't unrealistic if you are short. I'm a size 0 myself! But most beauty standards are unrealistic/not even that beautiful.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada Very true, everyone is built differently and shouldn't be socially pressured to validate a one-dimensional model of beauty; some people are thin, some are average, others are chubby, but what it all comes down to is how you feel about yourself. High self-esteem is a product of a healthy mind. Look at it this way a person could be born into money, own all the latest gadgets, and overall be provided all the modern luxuries society has developed over the years ye
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada t there's a yearning for something more, like a void present in a lonely heart they have everything popular culture promotes, but still an emptiness persists. Motivated by material gain little did they know that wealth derives from state of mind, some of the poorest people in the world (from a material-wealth standpoint) are living fulfilling lives with far less then so many of us. This by no means suggests that materialism is completely devoid of spiritual
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada value but that the over-emphasisization on external reality has disconnected us from our higher being, the one that can differentiate from right and wrong. A lot of people are suffering from one degree to the other, it's all a process I suppose but I really hope you learn to love yourself unconditionally. If you genuinely want a big pool of men attracted to you your best best is to give out body language suggesting such. You want to be approachable, energy is
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
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It doesn't matter what size you are. Nobody's perfect & Everyone has something attractive to them. I actually find you to be very beautiful. At the end of the day its how you are as a person that matters the most...Boobs & Ass are just Icing on the cake.
JahkwonLewis 1 month ago
@JahkwonLewis No, there are quite a few perfect looking people. At the end of the day, looks aren't everything, but they sure are a whole lot of importance! Me? Beautiful? Are you mad? I guess I'm a cake with no frosting. :( and everyone likes the frosting, that's the best part. Like an oreo with no cream in the middle.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada very prevalent and if you keep telling yourself that men are all the same i.e wanting big boobs only you will ultimately scare a lot off. In all actuality men have been socially pressured to ogle at big boobs, it's very much so a product of culture. If you accept yourself and become open to attention w e it may be chances are you will attract it. Besides when weighing in the pros of big boobs you'll find the cons vastly outnumber the pros, do something else to
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada get attention. You are already intelligent, believe it or not a lot of men appreciate intelligence just believe in yourself and you'll be fine. With all love and light
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Guys my age don't care about intelligence. They are still 15, mentally. If I want someone who doesn't care, I'd be going for someone 10 years older. I could act confident all day long, but I only attract very ugly men who cannot get anything better, and guys that use me. What are the cons of big boobs? There's not that many. I've accepted myself, but nothing comes out of it. I'm still not as pretty as the other girls, my competition for men.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada You've obviously had some bad experiences with the opposite sex, may I ask where you usually meet them? I can relate to an extent, it wasn't too long ago that I was in high school and had to deal some of the one-dimensional boys you mention. Honestly I became fed up with the unrealistically tall sexual/physical orders boys had and decided I would rather take care of my own sexual desires then rely heavily on selfish idiots high school boys are notorious for be
Ichliebemusikundybd 3 weeks ago
attraction isnt depend on how big your breast are ...
woman are still woman with or without big breast
just be yourself and dont worry about it
you'll find the gift for that
ghol1x 1 month ago
@ghol1x Well I don't have big breasts or a pretty face. that's what men like. My hair is black, I try going blonde and it turns red, guys don't seem to like either one.
Be myself? I don't know if guys like a girl that fangirls over 60s rock musicians. xD
Gift for what? Cross dressing? I'd be good at it since I'm flat as hell, but I'm short.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
I honestly don't understand why big breasts are so "attractive" or "good-looking", either. I'm about a 36D, and honestly, I wish I was smaller so I could fit into shirts made for those with smaller breasts. I feel weird when guys stare at my chest, it's very uncomfortable. I also have a friend who wishes she has bigger breasts. I'm sure it IS a pain to shop for clothes, especially dresses, as you stated, but having bigger breasts like me can also be annoying. I think you're pretty, anyways. :)
NeonTreeHugger 1 month ago
@NeonTreeHugger I want to know too! I need more male opinions! Even the skinny and flat chested can have children! Twiggy and Audrey Hepburn had children. So why is that argument about fertility still going around? I want breasts that are about a 32C, I'm a long way away from that. :(
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
And while I think I'm a b-cup (I'm not sure bcs I've measured myself a couple of times but I really look flat-chested when I'm wearing a shirt :( ), I get INSANELY jealous of girls with big, beautiful eyes. I have tiny eyes. YOURS, however, are GORGEOUS. Guys love big eyes (ex. Angelina Jolie). You're super, super gorg and I'm not just saying that, I wouldn't comment at all if I didn't mean it :)
soyouthinkyoucanread 1 month ago
@soyouthinkyoucanread Thanks! :)
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
OMIGOSH you friekin' look like a MODEL in both of your dress photos!!!! (P.s. lots of models/actresses/celebs are A cups, i.e. yasmin le bon, valeria mazza, tori praver, tiiu kuik, tereza maxova, tamsin egerton, stacy keibler, shenae grimes, shannyn sossamon, sasha cohen, and keira knightley)
soyouthinkyoucanread 1 month ago
@soyouthinkyoucanread Thanks! :) Not all models are flat, most are actually larger chested than me. Men don't really look at runway models, but rather swimsuit models and lingerie models. I wish I could model, but I'm too short to model today, but if I lived in the 60s I probably had more of a chance.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
u look pretty cute in the dress at 3:27
TheSkullranger 1 month ago
@TheSkullranger Thank you.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
It is not true that all guys like big boobs. A lot of men prefer smaller ones because they are more perky. The women in magazines don't represent what most men really want. I am about the same size as you and I get hit on and whistled at all the time. Guys like my boobs because they are perky. Don't worry about the guys who like big ones- there are plenty of guys that will love your smaller ones.
acidstars9 1 month ago
@acidstars9 Some men do prefer "smaller breasts," but a flat chest, oh no. When they say small, they are talking A or B cup, I'm way smaller, even a 32AA is a little too big for me! It's not even that I'm small chested, I'm completely flat, almost. What kind of man likes flat chests?
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada I don't even fill out an A cup, and I'm telling you guys still like me. If you walk around feeling like you're ugly because of your breasts or whatever, you have low self esteem and that takes away from your attractiveness. You either have to accept yourself or get surgery, what other choice is there? I feel bad about it too sometimes but I'd rather be like this than have implants. Besides, if you are thin, they will get bigger most likely if you gain any weight at all.
acidstars9 1 month ago
@acidstars9 How does low self esteem make someone unattractive? High self esteem on an unattractive man will never make them more attractive in my eyes.
I'd never get implants, but if fat injections are a possibility in the decades to come, I'm going for it.
Everyone has a different body shape. I'm a ruler-pear hybrid. If I gain weight it's going to my bum. I lost weight, went from 8 stone, 8 lb to 8 stone even and if anything my breasts look larger as I have zero fat on my chest
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@acidstars9 I went from measuring 31-26-35 (8 stone 8 lb) to 31-25-33 (8 stone) I'm still as flat as ever, but in comparison to my other measurements, my breasts look larger.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
Nope. You're cute.
swedishvein 2 months ago
@swedishvein thank you
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
Seriously, you drive me crazy with your flat chested complaints!!!!!!!! You are so beautiful and opinionated; you have such an interesting personality! You don't need boobs. I'm a 32B and I'd go for smaller if I could! Boobs are nothing!
davidbowierocksilove 2 months ago
@davidbowierocksilove Thanks! :) I'd trade chests with you. I know that I don't need boobs, but it would be nice to have
angelafromcanada 2 months ago
Oh, I can explain: we like "boobs" because of what they express, i.e. your womanly/girlish nature - and even your personality, too. And because we can also express something to you through them.
Now if you could just be persuaded to quit the lamenting, you'll be absolutely top of the pops. You see it is not like "AA" is any less - it is more like with those master painters who can express everything with just a few strokes. I personally think that is often the ultimate in art ;o)
NotMadeForYou 2 months ago
@NotMadeForYou Darn, so I'm less of a woman? Or I can look at it this way? More woman per square inch, as I'm flat chested and therefore am smaller? I don't know.
I don't know about being seen as better looking because I change my thinking. I won't get any boob men no matter what. But AA cup breasts are associated with children, who would want to be with a woman who looks like a kid? A paedo?
angelafromcanada 2 months ago
@angelafromcanada Yes more concentrated womanliness per cubic inch is a good way of looking at it ;o)
It is not that changing the thinking makes you look better (that even necessary either), but just that it would make you a little easier approachable ;o) Now if someone compliments you, you go "oh you must be a paedo"! So you're a hard nut to crack. That is the only hurdle. That you can everything with your "few cubic inches", that can be just something extra enchanting about you. Why not! :o)
NotMadeForYou 2 months ago
@NotMadeForYou Sorry I had to shorten so I cut a wrong word! I meant you getting to look better is NOT even necessary. (was supposed to be a compliment) ;o)
NotMadeForYou 2 months ago
@NotMadeForYou I don't say "you must be a paedo" out loud, but I definitely think it. Because from my experience all straight men (who are non paedos) like big boobs. Going for a flat chested woman is settling. I don't want him to settle. I don't want him just to accept that I'm not so well endowed. I'd want him to like my flat chest.
angelafromcanada 2 months ago
@angelafromcanada Yes, I understand! But no, going for you (and making your breasts feel wonderful) is definitely not "settling" - that is the hardest act of all. Much, much easier with your average C cup girl who just thinks: "Oh, I don't understand why those crazy boys like boobs... but quite nice, I guess, so I'll accept". But the way you resist ferociously, winning a lass like you takes a real little hero! I'm sure you will respond very generously, too! Besides, you are fun talking to ;o)
NotMadeForYou 2 months ago
@NotMadeForYou I'd much rather switch places with that lucky C cup girl. She doesn't have to try to attract anyone, I have to try and even then, I find that guys will pick an overweight girl over me (it's not her personality trust me) because she has boobs. I don't resist surprisingly. I pick anything I get, which is not much. Not really anyone good looking. I find overweight men like me, but I find it's because they tried to get all the better looking well endowed ones and failed
angelafromcanada 2 months ago
@angelafromcanada And I'm a girl who is into very thin men! No thin guys like me. :(
angelafromcanada 2 months ago
@angelafromcanada We are not really contradicing each other now. You say when you go for a wimp that you don't even really like, it hasn't worked. I say when someone with real guts will go for you, you'll be heavenly with your ultra high female-power-per-cubic-inch ratio ;o) If it was difficult, it will probably also feel that much more precious, don't you agree? Wishing you a happy 2012!
NotMadeForYou 2 months ago
@NotMadeForYou Well I had to try getting those loser guys. I had to make an effort. Still was not precious. Happy New Year to you too! :)
angelafromcanada 2 months ago
Because boobs are fun to play with.
DarkArtistChick 2 months ago
You know, the one's who are flat chested win America's Next Top Model.
aLySaSpIvAk1 2 months ago
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aLySaSpIvAk1 2 months ago
Guys are attracted to girls with boobs because it's an indication of how well they will be able to care for their children (meaning to feed them). This trait is hard wired the brains of all of men. It's the same thing were guys look for girls with wide hips. These things may seem superficial but it has helped us survive for 1000's of years and made us what we are today.
You might like to watch The Science of Sex Appeal on youtube. Explains all this sort of stuff.
Pikers81 2 months ago
@Pikers81 But flat chested women were able to have children. Ex: Twiggy and Audrey Hepburn. And heck, Pattie Boyd, who was thin, but has larger breasts than they do/did, is infertile.
Why are the still flat chested women then? If it were such a disadvantage, there would only be curvy women.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@Pikers81 False, men in the west are socially indoctrinated to adopt a preference for anything that's big and covered, most cultures outside the west don't put a big emphasis on breasts as their natural function is to feed babies not MEN. Women with smaller chests are equally capable of producing sufficient milk for their offspring, the problem is our sex-obsessed culture. Essentially men''s preference for bigger chested women is more of a social construct then biological. Love and light
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Exactly! If I were in a tribal area in Africa or in some tribal reserves in South America, where women go shirtless, no one cares about boobs. Perhaps this may happen if the laws are changed and women can go topless anywhere men can. Men can be such prudes! I don't wear a bra and in secondary school, classmates complained about me not wearing a bra. They're just nipples. Men have them too! Its sexist that women have to cover up their nipples.
angelafromcanada 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada I completely agree with you, men in the west aren't held to the same esteem as women sexually. Women in the west have traditionally been the gatekeepers of all behavioral modifications by that same token men as a result will benefit far more in this respect as they are merely the followers not the teachers. Men are equally capable of practicing self-control
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada the problem is society is still to an extent operating on the old model of gender roles, women tend to reinforce from generation to generation by expecting men to treat them with complete respect while claiming moral superiority. It's a double edged sword, both men and women need to be equally accountable for their actions and fortunately society has at least acknowledged this. Yes men parade around with their bulky muscles, tight bubble butts, and sometimes
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada hairy man boobs, and women don't behave like lustful dogs out to get a bone lol. Well some do but more subtly, and it would be interesting to see the varying levels and types of reactions we'd get when going topless was made legal for women. Obviously women would need to organize a movement of some sort that way more awareness and also protection would be offered. The beginning would be pretty hectic as there's a lot of money to lose if breasts become just
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@angelafromcanada another body-part. That would be cool though, I think the human body should be respect irrespective of the opposing viewpoints, the less sexual-repression the better!
Ichliebemusikundybd 1 month ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd Sure it has a lot to do with social conditioning but I was refering to the evolutionary perspective. You can't erase that unless your planning to hang around for a few million years.
Pikers81 1 month ago
Society teaches and trains us to like women with bodies, instead of personalities.
Thats why
TheFullNEWS 2 months ago
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