Saying "I don't believe in bisexuality. Don't freak out on me for my opinion, because this is what I think," is like saying "I don't believe in black people. Don't freak out on me for my opinion, because this is what I think." You don't get to decide who exists or their experience of the world.
just because u lean toward one doesn't mean u still don't like the other, bisexuality means liking both genders but it doesn't have to be equal, asshole.
bisexuality doesnt mean you necessarily like both genders equally.. the majority of the bisexuals out there prefer one sex over the other... like for me . i prefer boys much much more sexually... there is certain girls that turn me on though..i dont mind being called gay or bi it doesnt matter to me. i dont need people to know my sexuality completely
You're ignorance is astounding. You give gays a bad name. Please stop posting videos. We don't need this kind of thing tarnishing our reputation. There's a sexual spectrum. It's proven. I know plenty of bisexual people who are legitimate. Your non-coherent rambling is nauseating. Too bad this is a shared channel because the other guys seem to actually understand the concept of bisexuality rather than base their judgments on ignorance.
Is it really that hard to think a person can be attracted to both sex's? Of course there might be some who do use it as a cover before coming out as gay but to say it's all bisexual's, its like saying all gay guys are flamboyant and very feminine.
Alas, I thought Andrew was a night in shining armour. Turns out he's just a douchebag in tin foil. :) Hun, you are entitled to your opinions, but not to false facts.
@claytonjaros The existence of bisexuality, is not an opinion, it's a fact. Also "most gay people say they're bi first" is a false fact. Did he conduct a research survey? Don't think so. but an lgbtq newspaper did one and most men did NOT identify as bi before coming out as gay. Also he states that you have to lean to one side or the other. That's kind of like me, as a man, saying PMS is fake. He's gay, not bi so he obvsly will have no idea. and don't forget, its LGBTQ, not LGTQ. just sayin. :)
@ManveerSinghSihota Now that I re-watched this video, I see what you mean. Thanks for clarifying. I was half asleep when I first watched this. Sorry bruh. lol
i think unless you are absolutely 100% gay or absolutely 100% straight - 100% gay means you hate all oposite sex, 100% straight means you hate all same sex...now we all know that no one is this...so in fact we are all Bi but lean more towards either being gay or straight...so the Bi people are the only ones being completely honest...remember sexuality is very complex - so to say only gay and straight exist makes you a moron
This is incorrect. I for one am 100 % gay. Girls are a complete turn off for me. I never felt the slightest attraction to girls or women, just the opposite is the case.
We all should refrain from telling other people what sexuality they have and what attraction they feel. They know it best for themselves. (And the most ridiculous thing is, when religious bigots are explaining gays, that their sexual orientation is a 'choice'.)
@JeremyScottThompson 100% gay doesn't mean you hate the opposite sex, and being straight doesn't mean you hate the same sex. Then friendship wouldn't exist. It means you're not attracted to anyone of the opposite/same gender
@aboutashow - yes it does...thats why people use the terms incorrectly - to like someone as a friend is to have some form of attraction to them, whether it be on a sexual, mental or physical level...hence why no one is 100% of anything...at the same time you never know who might come along...most people are ignorant and close minded...some people give themselves labels without knowing and end up detesting them...in truth people feel secure with labels
@JeremyScottThompson I'm saying you don't HATE them, you're just not attracted to them. Hating someone is when you dislike someone because of their personality, baisically everything about them
@aboutashow - hate is the correct word - 100% of one thing and another have to be the FULL extremes...and in this case hate and love are the extremes...
if you gay your not just attracted to someone sexually - if so then your a very shallow person - to be attracted to someone you normally looks for common interest, looks, personality etc - all play a role on a certain level...so to be 100% gay means you cant stand the oposite sex and therefore hate them
@aboutashow - hence why no-one is 100% gay or straight...theyre are some where along the line between the 2 extremes - which is why sexuality is so complicated - to make things more complicated, different things attract different people and so gender doesnt come into play...hence why everyone is bisexual
I find that a lot of gay guys are just jealous about bisexuals having the ability to have relationships with the opposite sex. I think they feel threatened or also want to be attracted to the opposite sex but can't. Calling bisexuality a phase is no different than some bible thumping person claiming that homosexuality is a choice or an experimental phase. And just because gay guys like you hide the bi label because they are not comfortable with their gay orientation, it's not a bisexual's fault.
I told a few people I was bisexual at first. That seemed less scary to me than saying gay. I think there are many gay people who say they are bisexual first, so I can understand why you feel it is a phase - kind of a step toward self-acceptance. I don't think it is a phase for quite a few people though. I see bisexuality as an orientation.
PS: What you said about bisexuality, that it's just a "phase" - that sounded like what many straight parents say about their kids' homosexuality...
I think especially the gay community should be more open-minded in this regard. Just because it's not right for us doesn't mean it isn't right for others.
i believe that bi sexuality exists and though yes i believe that people will have a preference as to which ender it doesnt mean tha thats the only gender they truly like
Bisexuality is just as real and distinct on it's own as homosexuality. I know you meant well in your opinion but this type of denial of someone else's identity further places us all in a bad light and lessens our credibility in the eyes of the "majority" and justifies them in trying to deny us whatever it is they feel they want to deny. I am gay myself and though there are people who do use bisexuality as a "cover up," it is real and there are millions of people who will tell you the same.
Umm first of all, bisexuality does not mean that you equally like girls and boys... I think you must know a little more on the subject before you try to make a video about it. Also, the fact that a lot of gay guys use bisexuality to ease their coming out does not indicate that bisexuality is not real. Why should it mean that bisexuality doesn't exist. I can't see any sort of correlation at all.
Don't bash me about this it's only my opinion but i think elephants are capable of flying. -.- ''
bisexuality is just a scapegoat word for gay people who don't want to be seen as exclusively gay, just in case some day they wanna live out their parents dreams for them of getting married to some girl and having kids...
i wrote a nice little angry paragraph, but it looks like everyone else has it covered. i think you should have said " i have no fucking clue about bisexuality" and that could have been the entire video. cute sunglasses, and H&M.
I am not here to "hate" on you, your video is not hateful just misinformed , but your defence of "this is just my opinion or belief" is the same one used by many a homophobe (racist, sexist, ageist etc) to justify themselves. Look back over your video and count how many of your statements are based on stereotypes of bisexuals or your own experiences. Your own experiences are of course valid but you cannot project them onto every person who has ever claimed to be bisexual.
you make it sound like its all about the sexual part of it, a bi person can love a women the same as a man. in the end we are all human, why label really.
Just because you don't understand it, doesn't mean it does not exist sweetie. The world is not just black and white, and there are more flavors than vanilla and chocolate. I'm personally into rocky road ;) You're a homo, so you kinda HAVE to be a bit more open minded haha :P
well since I'm bi and used to think I was gay then LOL I GUESS GAYS DON'T EXIST. Your personal experience is in no way a valid standard to dictate the lives of others.
I think this type of "bisexuality-doesn't-exist/just-a-phase" attitude especially among gays has caused hurt and division within the LGBT community. As a bisexual, I find it's as offensive as saying that "homosexuality is a choice" by some straight people.
Yeahh there is a lot of gay people who pretend to be bi because they think straight people wont judge them as harshly but I most surely think there are bi sexuals out there. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it isn't real, the same way straight people don't understand us (:
im trying not be upset bc i can tell you are just so young and need to desperately reach out, discover, and learn more about the LGBTQ community. what you are saying is like if a straight person said they dont believe being gay exists just bc they, themselves, are not attracted to the same sex.
there are numorous people about 3% of the population whom are truly bi-sexual. They are able to have emotional and sexual connections with either gender equally. Studies have shown that of those who identify as bi-sexual most are women. For some reason girls are able to be more emotional open to those kids of experiences then men. BUt it does exist.
I think there are homos, bi's and heteros and some other things between and beyond. A lot of guys use the 'bi' identity as a bridge to homosexuality, but some guys (and apparently more gals) just stop on the friggin' bridge and stay there. Why is that hard to believe?
Some guys say 'everyone is bi-sexual.' Nope, not me. I dated girls in HS and college, went 'all the way' several times. But it was all an act - I was 100% homo the whole time, just trying to convince myself otherwise.
Psychologically speaking, everyone, whether they accept or not, that's irrelevant, has some percent of attraction towards the same-sex and vice versa, albeit-- could be a very low one.
There are gays out there who like fucking girls. There are "lesbians" out there that like getting fucked by dudes. Saying bisexuality is a phase and not real, is like saying the same about homosexuality, and honestly, makes like-minded (that bisexuality is BS) gays like hypocrites.
Well, maybe you can't understand it the same way lots of hetero don't understand how can people be gay =) I got your point: you can't process in your mind how come people can like girls and boys at the same time. But it seems to exist, since some people keep switching among boys and girls. I also have a friend that is pretty close to me who is, and she seems to really be. I don't know. Lets keep owr minds open =)
@aboutashow I'm bi and like I said love is not determined on gender with bi people it's determined through how u feel about the person .p.s. Don't get bi and pansexuals mixed there is a difference .
Boy oh Boy, you are going to get a lot of shit from people in here. I feel like it is very hard to find legit bisexuals in this world. Most so called bisexuals are just using the word to cover their true sexual identity.
YOUR life experience is not identical to EVERYONE ELSE'S. sexuality exists on a spectrum; like you, i'm gay. lots of people are straight. and lots of people are somewhere else on that spectrum! just as i'm sure you don't appreciate straight people saying that homosexuality is not real, is "a mental illness," or "demonic possession," or whatever - so too do bisexuals out there really NOT appreciate your "opinion" that their sexuality is not REAL! let's embrace EVERYONE'S UNIQUENESS!! :)
well i am bisexual and also polygamous and i have a girlfriend that i love and i am very sexually active with her and i have a boyfriend but i am not sexually active with him only bcuz i choose not to be with him does that mean i am straight????
I have a quick question. So to be bisexual. you have to fall right in the middle of the two? I mean even if you lean a bit more towards one side you can still have feelings for the other gender right? Is that not bisexuality as well?
oh and yeah i am kinda labeling myself bi right now but i am definately attracted to guys but i guess i connect with girls more so yeah maybe the bi stage is what im going through
i think i might just come out next year my final year of high school to my best friend and go on from there. Maybe i can finally date someone ive always refused to date anyone because of my sexuality confusion so im a 16 year old guy who has never dated anyone how shameful...
@sdmm1 You are wrong, that is not shameful. You are a young guy you have to deal with your own issues ( good or bad) in your own time. Don't give into pressure to conform. Only you will know when the time is right for you to date and I am sure you have a lot to offer the right guy or girl.
Hmm You are probably right. I was "straight" for 45 years and then "bi" for 10 and now "gay" for 9. Maybe it was "gay" all the time????? Thanks for sharing.
Bi now straight later. Had a boyfriend like that it tramatized me so I orignally thought it was just a phase. But I have bi friends and they both like genders equally. :) It gets through you when your older.
I don't think it's a phase. Why is it a phase if you are attracted to both sexes? I'm bi and I don't want it to be a phase. I don't want my attraction to be limited to just one sex. I like being attracted to both sexes. But I respect and understand your opinion.
You guys... I'm not saying it doesn't exist. Re-watch the video. I say that I think it's a phase and I also say that I don't understand it. What do you expect someones opinion to be when they don't fully understand a concept? I'm done replying to the comments. I don't need to defend what I think. My thoughts are my thoughts and yours are yours. Not everyone agrees on everything! So, enough.
I'm sure you didn't mean to offend people, but... There's an important difference between (a) not understanding or being able to relate to something and (b) not believing it exists. For example, I would have no business telling a woman, "In my opinion, PMS doesn't exist" (esp. since I'm not a woman). Sure, I'll never experience it, but its existence is a matter of fact, not opinion.
I agree with you...I think it's most of the time a transition between straight and gay. Making it easier on the person to come out. Bottom line tho, you can't help who you fall in love with regardless of gender. That's just my opinion. Stay sweet. <3
Why would you try to come out twice? It is like you come out halfway by saying you're bisexual but then when you come out fully as gay then you're going to be judge twice as much. Better off if you had just said you were gay in the first place. I personally think bisexuality is an in-between so gay people can seem kind of normal while in high school because bisexuals are discriminated against less than gay people by society.
Oh an bisexuality and pansexuality r totally different bi is the liking between males and females but pansexuals r different they like all different kinds of lgbt people including the ones who go overbored and completely change gender by surgery idk if u all knew that but that's just in case clarity was needed
bisexuality exist.......sometime it can be a phase of transition for someone who is gay...but bisexuality still is a sexuality....most of my friend who are by are people who have really search and try to understand theyre preference but they come to realize that most of the time they are connected with someone for different reason....a guy or a girl don't really make a difference it is more about the connection...
ps : excuse my english......is not perfect yet....
@5sortastraightguys I'm bisexual and I don't actually c a problem with it or ur opinion . Ur entitled to ur opinion and I understand where u r coming from, but it is possible to like them equally cuz it's who ur with that matters it really just depends on the person is all.
@Deathragon99 Yeah. I forgot to add that in there. I would also like to add before everyone starts commenting that I this is my opinion because I have no actual experience being truly torn between likIng a guy or a girl. I've never had to make that decision. And for all of you who are bisexual, I'm sure it really does just depend on the person you're with. It's whoever you're attracted to, regardless of their gender. I completely understand that. Just wanted to clear that up :)
@WusssupDrew I don't think you understand my point O.o sex and gender are different things. You are homoSEXUAL, there is heteroSEXUAL and biSEXUAL and transGENDER (plus a bunch of other ones). But whatever.
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Saying "I don't believe in bisexuality. Don't freak out on me for my opinion, because this is what I think," is like saying "I don't believe in black people. Don't freak out on me for my opinion, because this is what I think." You don't get to decide who exists or their experience of the world.
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SarahBearah333 1 month ago
Here's hoping being a bigot is just a phase.
OtherGonzo 2 months ago
Bisexuality is a tough subject. Everyone criticizes everyone's opinions on it.
donkeykong127 2 months ago
kinsey scale.....that is all.
emotioncomotion123 2 months ago 2
just because u lean toward one doesn't mean u still don't like the other, bisexuality means liking both genders but it doesn't have to be equal, asshole.
zitalee2 6 months ago 4
bisexuality doesnt mean you necessarily like both genders equally.. the majority of the bisexuals out there prefer one sex over the other... like for me . i prefer boys much much more sexually... there is certain girls that turn me on though..i dont mind being called gay or bi it doesnt matter to me. i dont need people to know my sexuality completely
Concept3601 8 months ago 4
Ahahah, No. You are really wrong. I am bisexual. I like girls and guys equally. It is a phase for SOME. Not all like your saying.
danielhenryl96 8 months ago 2
look im gay so if ur saying that ur making fun of me and those sun glasses u got came out of ur fucking ass and thanx for making fun of me
dakotavogel12 10 months ago
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look im gay so if ur saying that ur making fun of me
dakotavogel12 10 months ago
look im gey so if ur saying that ur making fun of me
dakotavogel12 10 months ago
You have AMAZING lips!
StevinSto 10 months ago
I don't understand something, so it doesn't exist.
This sounds really familiar...
lukeisareilly 10 months ago
@deshonster ? I dont even watch that channel haha. I'm pretty sure my voice is my own?
WusssupDrew 11 months ago 2
You're ignorance is astounding. You give gays a bad name. Please stop posting videos. We don't need this kind of thing tarnishing our reputation. There's a sexual spectrum. It's proven. I know plenty of bisexual people who are legitimate. Your non-coherent rambling is nauseating. Too bad this is a shared channel because the other guys seem to actually understand the concept of bisexuality rather than base their judgments on ignorance.
LegoRevolt 11 months ago 5
i agree with you buddy, i totally agree. and i think peeps lie when they say there r some inded bi
a7medsarCA 11 months ago
Is it really that hard to think a person can be attracted to both sex's? Of course there might be some who do use it as a cover before coming out as gay but to say it's all bisexual's, its like saying all gay guys are flamboyant and very feminine.
MrSinister84 11 months ago
lololol this guy is so dumb
DaveOf92 11 months ago 3
Hey everyone..it is just his opinion. Don't hate on someone for announcing their opinion. And no an opinion is not a fact.
5people1love 11 months ago
Alas, I thought Andrew was a night in shining armour. Turns out he's just a douchebag in tin foil. :) Hun, you are entitled to your opinions, but not to false facts.
manveersihota 11 months ago 2
@manveersihota Tell me where he stated a false fact. Maybe it's because it's late and I'm out of it, but could you please tell me? lol
claytonjaros 11 months ago
@claytonjaros The existence of bisexuality, is not an opinion, it's a fact. Also "most gay people say they're bi first" is a false fact. Did he conduct a research survey? Don't think so. but an lgbtq newspaper did one and most men did NOT identify as bi before coming out as gay. Also he states that you have to lean to one side or the other. That's kind of like me, as a man, saying PMS is fake. He's gay, not bi so he obvsly will have no idea. and don't forget, its LGBTQ, not LGTQ. just sayin. :)
ManveerSinghSihota 11 months ago
@ManveerSinghSihota Now that I re-watched this video, I see what you mean. Thanks for clarifying. I was half asleep when I first watched this. Sorry bruh. lol
claytonjaros 11 months ago
i think unless you are absolutely 100% gay or absolutely 100% straight - 100% gay means you hate all oposite sex, 100% straight means you hate all same sex...now we all know that no one is this...so in fact we are all Bi but lean more towards either being gay or straight...so the Bi people are the only ones being completely honest...remember sexuality is very complex - so to say only gay and straight exist makes you a moron
JeremyScottThompson 11 months ago
@JeremyScottThompson
"now we all know that no one is this"
This is incorrect. I for one am 100 % gay. Girls are a complete turn off for me. I never felt the slightest attraction to girls or women, just the opposite is the case.
We all should refrain from telling other people what sexuality they have and what attraction they feel. They know it best for themselves. (And the most ridiculous thing is, when religious bigots are explaining gays, that their sexual orientation is a 'choice'.)
ab0kanal 11 months ago
@JeremyScottThompson 100% gay doesn't mean you hate the opposite sex, and being straight doesn't mean you hate the same sex. Then friendship wouldn't exist. It means you're not attracted to anyone of the opposite/same gender
aboutashow 11 months ago
@aboutashow - yes it does...thats why people use the terms incorrectly - to like someone as a friend is to have some form of attraction to them, whether it be on a sexual, mental or physical level...hence why no one is 100% of anything...at the same time you never know who might come along...most people are ignorant and close minded...some people give themselves labels without knowing and end up detesting them...in truth people feel secure with labels
JeremyScottThompson 11 months ago
@JeremyScottThompson I'm saying you don't HATE them, you're just not attracted to them. Hating someone is when you dislike someone because of their personality, baisically everything about them
aboutashow 11 months ago
@aboutashow - hate is the correct word - 100% of one thing and another have to be the FULL extremes...and in this case hate and love are the extremes...
if you gay your not just attracted to someone sexually - if so then your a very shallow person - to be attracted to someone you normally looks for common interest, looks, personality etc - all play a role on a certain level...so to be 100% gay means you cant stand the oposite sex and therefore hate them
JeremyScottThompson 11 months ago
@aboutashow - hence why no-one is 100% gay or straight...theyre are some where along the line between the 2 extremes - which is why sexuality is so complicated - to make things more complicated, different things attract different people and so gender doesnt come into play...hence why everyone is bisexual
JeremyScottThompson 11 months ago
"I can't speak for everybody." understatement of the year.
I can't say that I understand what it's like to have schizophrenia, but I wouldn't deny it's existence.
TsubasaEmoFool 11 months ago
I find that a lot of gay guys are just jealous about bisexuals having the ability to have relationships with the opposite sex. I think they feel threatened or also want to be attracted to the opposite sex but can't. Calling bisexuality a phase is no different than some bible thumping person claiming that homosexuality is a choice or an experimental phase. And just because gay guys like you hide the bi label because they are not comfortable with their gay orientation, it's not a bisexual's fault.
etamlous 11 months ago
How sad
1030ct 11 months ago
H&M...
linkinparkray14 11 months ago
I told a few people I was bisexual at first. That seemed less scary to me than saying gay. I think there are many gay people who say they are bisexual first, so I can understand why you feel it is a phase - kind of a step toward self-acceptance. I don't think it is a phase for quite a few people though. I see bisexuality as an orientation.
garysdeskcom 11 months ago
PS: What you said about bisexuality, that it's just a "phase" - that sounded like what many straight parents say about their kids' homosexuality...
I think especially the gay community should be more open-minded in this regard. Just because it's not right for us doesn't mean it isn't right for others.
TheVitmo 11 months ago
You say that it's simply your opinion, so we shouldn't get mad at you.
You are entitled to your own opinion. But not to your own facts.
Bisexuality means that one is attracted to both genders. It doesn't say anything about possible preferences - just about the desire for both.
And if you don't believe me, just read some scientific research about this.
TheVitmo 11 months ago
i believe that bi sexuality exists and though yes i believe that people will have a preference as to which ender it doesnt mean tha thats the only gender they truly like
heartless666667 11 months ago
I respect your opinion, difficult subject to talk about, I however disagree with you, I believe it exists, keep up the good work, :)
qamdam2009 11 months ago
doesn't matter Bi or Gay...Dicks always gonna win ...right?
Sanguanboon 11 months ago
Bisexuality is just as real and distinct on it's own as homosexuality. I know you meant well in your opinion but this type of denial of someone else's identity further places us all in a bad light and lessens our credibility in the eyes of the "majority" and justifies them in trying to deny us whatever it is they feel they want to deny. I am gay myself and though there are people who do use bisexuality as a "cover up," it is real and there are millions of people who will tell you the same.
tytheeman20 11 months ago 3
Umm first of all, bisexuality does not mean that you equally like girls and boys... I think you must know a little more on the subject before you try to make a video about it. Also, the fact that a lot of gay guys use bisexuality to ease their coming out does not indicate that bisexuality is not real. Why should it mean that bisexuality doesn't exist. I can't see any sort of correlation at all.
Don't bash me about this it's only my opinion but i think elephants are capable of flying. -.- ''
thekiddeathzone 11 months ago 8
bisexuality is just a scapegoat word for gay people who don't want to be seen as exclusively gay, just in case some day they wanna live out their parents dreams for them of getting married to some girl and having kids...
ThomasJKH 11 months ago
i wrote a nice little angry paragraph, but it looks like everyone else has it covered. i think you should have said " i have no fucking clue about bisexuality" and that could have been the entire video. cute sunglasses, and H&M.
konradkayden09 11 months ago 3
I am not here to "hate" on you, your video is not hateful just misinformed , but your defence of "this is just my opinion or belief" is the same one used by many a homophobe (racist, sexist, ageist etc) to justify themselves. Look back over your video and count how many of your statements are based on stereotypes of bisexuals or your own experiences. Your own experiences are of course valid but you cannot project them onto every person who has ever claimed to be bisexual.
l88101 11 months ago 11
@l88101
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
itsJoeeeee 11 months ago
you make it sound like its all about the sexual part of it, a bi person can love a women the same as a man. in the end we are all human, why label really.
mybigsecret3 11 months ago
Bisexuality exists. End of.
AdvaitSarkar 11 months ago
Just because you don't understand it, doesn't mean it does not exist sweetie. The world is not just black and white, and there are more flavors than vanilla and chocolate. I'm personally into rocky road ;) You're a homo, so you kinda HAVE to be a bit more open minded haha :P
vipersoren69 11 months ago 6
lol they aren't mythical creatures!!
ThatsHellaTooMuch 11 months ago 2
well since I'm bi and used to think I was gay then LOL I GUESS GAYS DON'T EXIST. Your personal experience is in no way a valid standard to dictate the lives of others.
derebin 11 months ago 2
I think this type of "bisexuality-doesn't-exist/just-a-phase" attitude especially among gays has caused hurt and division within the LGBT community. As a bisexual, I find it's as offensive as saying that "homosexuality is a choice" by some straight people.
klausweasley 11 months ago 3
Yeahh there is a lot of gay people who pretend to be bi because they think straight people wont judge them as harshly but I most surely think there are bi sexuals out there. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it isn't real, the same way straight people don't understand us (:
CoreyLucidity 11 months ago 2
this is stereotipically painfull
JansRox 11 months ago 5
im trying not be upset bc i can tell you are just so young and need to desperately reach out, discover, and learn more about the LGBTQ community. what you are saying is like if a straight person said they dont believe being gay exists just bc they, themselves, are not attracted to the same sex.
mechmech101 11 months ago
People just need to stop lying. And if you're not sure of your sexuality yet, don't label yourself, not like you need to anyway but yeah :P
Sebizzar 11 months ago
there are numorous people about 3% of the population whom are truly bi-sexual. They are able to have emotional and sexual connections with either gender equally. Studies have shown that of those who identify as bi-sexual most are women. For some reason girls are able to be more emotional open to those kids of experiences then men. BUt it does exist.
ironspoon 11 months ago
I think there are homos, bi's and heteros and some other things between and beyond. A lot of guys use the 'bi' identity as a bridge to homosexuality, but some guys (and apparently more gals) just stop on the friggin' bridge and stay there. Why is that hard to believe?
Some guys say 'everyone is bi-sexual.' Nope, not me. I dated girls in HS and college, went 'all the way' several times. But it was all an act - I was 100% homo the whole time, just trying to convince myself otherwise.
trisshandy 11 months ago
Psychologically speaking, everyone, whether they accept or not, that's irrelevant, has some percent of attraction towards the same-sex and vice versa, albeit-- could be a very low one.
There are gays out there who like fucking girls. There are "lesbians" out there that like getting fucked by dudes. Saying bisexuality is a phase and not real, is like saying the same about homosexuality, and honestly, makes like-minded (that bisexuality is BS) gays like hypocrites.
DeathtotheAshes 11 months ago
Well, maybe you can't understand it the same way lots of hetero don't understand how can people be gay =) I got your point: you can't process in your mind how come people can like girls and boys at the same time. But it seems to exist, since some people keep switching among boys and girls. I also have a friend that is pretty close to me who is, and she seems to really be. I don't know. Lets keep owr minds open =)
guicsgui 11 months ago
@aboutashow I'm bi and like I said love is not determined on gender with bi people it's determined through how u feel about the person .p.s. Don't get bi and pansexuals mixed there is a difference .
Deathragon99 11 months ago
Boy oh Boy, you are going to get a lot of shit from people in here. I feel like it is very hard to find legit bisexuals in this world. Most so called bisexuals are just using the word to cover their true sexual identity.
honduranflame 11 months ago
Hmm still love you anyways <3
StrangeBiKid 11 months ago
YOUR life experience is not identical to EVERYONE ELSE'S. sexuality exists on a spectrum; like you, i'm gay. lots of people are straight. and lots of people are somewhere else on that spectrum! just as i'm sure you don't appreciate straight people saying that homosexuality is not real, is "a mental illness," or "demonic possession," or whatever - so too do bisexuals out there really NOT appreciate your "opinion" that their sexuality is not REAL! let's embrace EVERYONE'S UNIQUENESS!! :)
batjon1963 11 months ago
H&M thats were he got em from! Hmm so your saying I'm just going through a phase imhmm...
StrangeBiKid 11 months ago
why can i only hear you through one earphone?
XxaleyixX 11 months ago
i would like to know were u got the sunglasses
martinezchris62 11 months ago
well i agree with u
NicholasDBarragan 11 months ago
Dislike.
dardarbinx07 11 months ago
well i am bisexual and also polygamous and i have a girlfriend that i love and i am very sexually active with her and i have a boyfriend but i am not sexually active with him only bcuz i choose not to be with him does that mean i am straight????
cirrek90210 11 months ago
As a gay man I cant believe some (any) person cant find Javier Jattin sexy, but theres a lot of different tastes around
JansRox 11 months ago
I have a quick question. So to be bisexual. you have to fall right in the middle of the two? I mean even if you lean a bit more towards one side you can still have feelings for the other gender right? Is that not bisexuality as well?
MusicManiac0123 11 months ago
You are rlly hot....
oh and yeah i am kinda labeling myself bi right now but i am definately attracted to guys but i guess i connect with girls more so yeah maybe the bi stage is what im going through
i think i might just come out next year my final year of high school to my best friend and go on from there. Maybe i can finally date someone ive always refused to date anyone because of my sexuality confusion so im a 16 year old guy who has never dated anyone how shameful...
sdmm1 11 months ago
@sdmm1 You are wrong, that is not shameful. You are a young guy you have to deal with your own issues ( good or bad) in your own time. Don't give into pressure to conform. Only you will know when the time is right for you to date and I am sure you have a lot to offer the right guy or girl.
l88101 11 months ago
Hmm You are probably right. I was "straight" for 45 years and then "bi" for 10 and now "gay" for 9. Maybe it was "gay" all the time????? Thanks for sharing.
1malldoc1 11 months ago
Bi now straight later. Had a boyfriend like that it tramatized me so I orignally thought it was just a phase. But I have bi friends and they both like genders equally. :) It gets through you when your older.
sasukeichigo12 11 months ago
wait am i the only one gettting no sound?? :S
7HCO7 11 months ago
very true....great video
LEEP1948 11 months ago
I don't think it's a phase. Why is it a phase if you are attracted to both sexes? I'm bi and I don't want it to be a phase. I don't want my attraction to be limited to just one sex. I like being attracted to both sexes. But I respect and understand your opinion.
KT8907 11 months ago
lol i don't understand heterosexuality, cuz i'm gay. but i still believe in it because.. it exists lol, its the same with bisexuality.
jjohn211 11 months ago
You guys... I'm not saying it doesn't exist. Re-watch the video. I say that I think it's a phase and I also say that I don't understand it. What do you expect someones opinion to be when they don't fully understand a concept? I'm done replying to the comments. I don't need to defend what I think. My thoughts are my thoughts and yours are yours. Not everyone agrees on everything! So, enough.
WusssupDrew 11 months ago 2
I believe in bisexuality, but feel it is more of a transition state. Course that could be that I got burned and used by a bi guy for four years.
val3345 11 months ago
this is like if a straight guy said that being a gay guy is a choice, of course bisexuality exists.
Ameliaisntimaginary 11 months ago 2
I'm sure you didn't mean to offend people, but... There's an important difference between (a) not understanding or being able to relate to something and (b) not believing it exists. For example, I would have no business telling a woman, "In my opinion, PMS doesn't exist" (esp. since I'm not a woman). Sure, I'll never experience it, but its existence is a matter of fact, not opinion.
Kimokeo15 11 months ago 36
Definitely is YOUR opinion. People need to recognize! Lol
ambamalot 11 months ago
Just because you haven't been attracted to both sexes doesn't mean someone else can't.
RaynMan718 11 months ago 2
damn you are gorgeous
daviemx51234 11 months ago
Bisexuality does exist. Even my homophobic ultra-religious aunt thinks so -_-
aboutashow 11 months ago
I agree with you...I think it's most of the time a transition between straight and gay. Making it easier on the person to come out. Bottom line tho, you can't help who you fall in love with regardless of gender. That's just my opinion. Stay sweet. <3
HotMissa 11 months ago
im bi its not a phase just like ur love for chris brown isnt a phase even though he cant sing or write
ThePaag1 11 months ago
@ThePaag1 Haha insulting my man... Not cool
WusssupDrew 11 months ago
Why would you try to come out twice? It is like you come out halfway by saying you're bisexual but then when you come out fully as gay then you're going to be judge twice as much. Better off if you had just said you were gay in the first place. I personally think bisexuality is an in-between so gay people can seem kind of normal while in high school because bisexuals are discriminated against less than gay people by society.
CrazyAznFanatic 11 months ago
Oh an bisexuality and pansexuality r totally different bi is the liking between males and females but pansexuals r different they like all different kinds of lgbt people including the ones who go overbored and completely change gender by surgery idk if u all knew that but that's just in case clarity was needed
Deathragon99 11 months ago
bisexuality exist.......sometime it can be a phase of transition for someone who is gay...but bisexuality still is a sexuality....most of my friend who are by are people who have really search and try to understand theyre preference but they come to realize that most of the time they are connected with someone for different reason....a guy or a girl don't really make a difference it is more about the connection...
ps : excuse my english......is not perfect yet....
cameron944 11 months ago
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cameron944 11 months ago
@5sortastraightguys I'm bisexual and I don't actually c a problem with it or ur opinion . Ur entitled to ur opinion and I understand where u r coming from, but it is possible to like them equally cuz it's who ur with that matters it really just depends on the person is all.
Deathragon99 11 months ago
@Deathragon99 Yeah. I forgot to add that in there. I would also like to add before everyone starts commenting that I this is my opinion because I have no actual experience being truly torn between likIng a guy or a girl. I've never had to make that decision. And for all of you who are bisexual, I'm sure it really does just depend on the person you're with. It's whoever you're attracted to, regardless of their gender. I completely understand that. Just wanted to clear that up :)
WusssupDrew 11 months ago
@WusssupDrew It's not about gender, it's about sex. There is a difference, learn it.
cautionMCRfan 11 months ago
@cautionMCRfan Pretty sure I made that clear in my comment...
WusssupDrew 11 months ago
@WusssupDrew your comment says "It's whoever you're attracted to, regardless of their gender" <_< which part makes it clear?
cautionMCRfan 11 months ago
@cautionMCRfan And yours said it's not about gender either. So we're in agreement but you're getting defensive?
WusssupDrew 11 months ago
@WusssupDrew I don't think you understand my point O.o sex and gender are different things. You are homoSEXUAL, there is heteroSEXUAL and biSEXUAL and transGENDER (plus a bunch of other ones). But whatever.
cautionMCRfan 11 months ago
you're going to get alot of hate about this..
xCraigg 11 months ago 32