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  • Sound sucked

  • Question! meet a girl who asked me to go out to dinner, we had a great time. skipping the details she asked me to her place, i'm male (duh) and she really wanted me to stay the night.. i refused... i've had things like that happen.. but i like her. should i hold off or just go for it? been alone for awhile now and it seems to good to be true..

  • @jimmyhatts Never pass up on the good things mate. The only way to find out if it's too good to be true is to... find out! Spend time with her and be decisive but kind and only time will tell if you're a match.

  • Shoot...never thought I will be watching the "National Geographic- On Women"....but seriously. You make my heart sink C.M.

  • :D wow now im on pressure ;D third date this weekend :D

  • @expertvillage can you plz help me i have a gf and i know she wants to kiss but i just back down ever time this is my 1st kiss and i dont have the gut or know what to do and i dont want to look like a fool so can you help me by giving some tips plz :)

  • ok, that chick is soooo out of that guys league. He looks like some weekend Country music Kareoke assclown. Watch as she is trying not to laugh at him kissing her!! I'll be the devils advocate here and say they are probably paid actors since the kiss was an epic fail. And the lesson (a good one) is to give her the heads up by touching her first , then kissing her. He didn't do this...he might have had a few too many Schlitz beers! lol

  • how do you initiate a first pussy eating session?

  • @dhide14 - neck massage =d

  • touch her boobs

  • fuck the wind

  • nice.

  • man, the guy in this looks soooo sketchy

  • It can happen on the first date. Depends on how much attraction you create

  • Jessica.. You're good!

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    gordiniya.dateer.com

  • how many erogenous zones do women have??? how about men???

  • shut up woman

  • It's pretty creepy that you can actually feel when is the right moment. it's like "hey, I can do it now! don't know why but I just know!"

  • Additional information: don't ask to do it. If you're in close enough proximity to have the chance to initiate a kiss, it means she's not creeped out by you, and that's generally a great sign. Women aren't stupid and are more intuitive than men; we always know when you want to, and if we're letting you get close enough, go for it. Asking may seem polite, but it means you're unsure, and confidence is always sexy.

  • Nice advice! :P This is giving me an ideas hehe. Like say to the girl she has something on her eye brow fake removing something then with the back of my hand gently touch her cheek, look her in the eyes and go for the kiss ^^ What you think?

  • @dinosaurdinosaur I am so glad someone mentioned this. Asking makes me think should I? Everytime a guy has asked if he can kiss me I have said no. Of course they always just end up doing it anyway, but they should have just done that from the start.

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  • Lets be honest women today are cheap sluts, straight from the gutter, dragged up kicking and screaming. Two ankles, two post codes/zip codes. It's no more a date than ordering a prostitute round. Oh, I forgot, it's sophisticated, powerful, fierce FUN. LOLOLOL. Whatever, keep lying to yourselves. XD

  • @MrWollyBong

    Nope men are the sluts.

    Women are the whores.

  • We nice guy/or good man gotta to be mean and selfish all time in oder the a relationship with the woman?

  • The step to a first kiss is RAPE!!!!!!!!!!!

  • You both just know when its right. Thats why you have to learn body language. But that just comes naturally. Sure some people are clueless, but there are no rules.

  • @AmbioriV Real women don't. Dating my husband was easy breezy. I dont play games with him. Real women don't do that crap. GIRLS do.

  • wow man i felt like hunting a deer or something wtf.

  • got dat right

  • She is a dating coach, she just watched too many hollywood films :P

  • I know a shortcut: it involves a pint of Gin and Tonic and a bunch of lies...

  • Shes just telling clichés... But the comments are awesome. Us guys are so rude and funny.

  • Get a load of Grizzly Adams in that kissing scene

  • girl kissed me without initial contact....it was wierd

  • Personally, while I find exceptions to this, I prefer to let the woman kiss me. That serves a couple purposes. For one, it shows she's the kind of strong-minded, dynamic woman who doesn't give a damn about gender roles, that I prefer.

    I like a lot of your points and suggestions, but in your "example", I have yet to see a first kiss go like that where a relationship was any good! "She" is pulling away, not to mention it's more of a peck; no feeling. A first kiss usually is very moving.

  • Jessica is extremely attractive because she probably follows her own advice in these videos. Thanks for the posts I really do appreciate them : )

  • i just jump on top of them as soon as i see them

  • @kistthesky good strategy, I'm still working on that :)))

  • That is obvious advice...

  • You said to touch the woman, now look at that guy... I wonder where he touched her.

  • I've watched 3 of these videos back to back...this chick has no idea what she's talking about. Does she really get paid for this shit?

  • @AmbioriV I'm a girl and I thumbed this up. Its pretty damn true!!

  • I thought it was a very good summary, but the bit about kiss her when she looks beautiful, when the wind is blowing and the birds are singing and the flowers are in bloom - nice touch, no question, but not absolutely necessary. You can make an ordinary moment special. It's probably a mistake to wait for a better situation if the moment feels right.

  • your one to talk.

  • Can you do a video when to ask her for the first blow job? Thanks!

  • @TazRulesNY i can tell you...when your drunken and shes ugly as hell

  • @TazRulesNY this just made my night. thanks haha

  • @TazRulesNY heheh:)

  • @TazRulesNY

    YES!

  • @TazRulesNY If I were you I would wait until you're mature enough not to have to ask.

  • Look at her while gently stroking her hair, if the vibe is right kiss her.

    In human sexuality men must be able to 'lead' and be aggressive, while natural female behavior is more about receptivity. Hopefully that answers the last poster who thinks 'equality' means women should act like men... uhh yeah maybe not.

  • Women are have equality now,get of your pedestels women and make an effort.

  • ur smooth

  • She clearly hasn't taken into account other cultures where people are just less physical. In my part of the world, you could be going a long time without a kiss and only sex after marriage. There should be no hard and fast rules regarding when the first kiss should happen. If you like her, go for it. If you're not sure, then you should take your time to get to know her better. If she can't take that, then she has little respect for you in which case she's not worth it to begin with.

  • @andrian007 she's a New York dating coach, not some other culture dating coach. If you want somebody to take your culture into consideration, then find a coach from your own place/culture.

  • I'm kinda nervous to be honest, I'm scared that the lady might not want to and I'll feel embarrassed/ 

  • people comments make me laughs so badly  XDD

  • Wait...he didn't touch her 1st. 

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  • Right, what i usually do is stick my tounge down a drunk girls throat. If she doesn't bite into it and give you a serious medical problem, then she wants it.

    Also, if you have to wait for a second or third date to get a kiss, then you should forget it. You might have to listen to her or have to talk to her! Not worth the effort

  • Well I'm going to stay with my old women attracting move. I leave most of my ballsack hangin out of my zipper with no weiner showing. It drives women crazy!!!! It's like dangling candy to a kid.

  • Before I kiss a woman for the first time, I always give her a compliment earlier in the evening. From my experience, what has worked best for me is...on the first date, as soon as you pick her up or meet her, tell her that she has a pretty mouth. Don't give her any other compliments, you have just planted a seed with her and she will think about kissing you all night, until it finally happens!

  • @chadley6916 Get a job.

  • @Kinglynation

    Hey douche bag, you are 15! Get off your moms computer, get back into school, and stay off vids intended for grown ups!!! With the pimples on your geeky face, you don't need to worry about trying to kiss girls!!!

  • She says useful things, but if you are an idiot, a retarded person or a fat person.. her tips may not work..

  • @andydj96 True.

  • @Kinglynation That brings me a smile

  • i love when i'm lucky, it happened once

  • The wind is blowing just right. LMFAO.

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  • OPTIMUS PRIME ENGAGE --> ROLE OUT =D

  • ima gurl ;)

  • You're so awfully cute Jessica :)))))

  • Thanks Jessica

    Your advice is clear and concise and is about the best I've seen so far

  • @INT3RNAUT you are giving bad reputation to her videos by your idiotical comments. I think you should go and get some of her advice on how to think by bigger head. Oops, I don't know if you need any more of her advices, lol. You are already screwed up, haha :).

  • @INT3RNAUT exactly I'm saying. See who's having sex on the first date, lol :). Only idiots would date loosers like you, I can't believe I'm even replying, lol. Kiss on exchange for a movie, ahaha. Look for chippies, get some AIDS. OMG :)

  • lmao i love how the video they showed us at around 1:35 the guy didnt touch her anywhere and just "went in for the kill" xD

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  • @htammam oh, you couldn't see it, but he had his hand up her skirt, so, yeah, he did touch her first, it was safe to kiss her

  • @agony202 fucking assholes!

  • So not true. 1st date kissers spray deseases. 1st three dates? I do not kiss anyone unless I feel secure to be with him. It might take months. Sex should not start unless there is mutual respect. 1st date kiss? Slutty, slutty.

  • this is perfect advice! dont know if those were actors at end but can tell they felt for eachother and was a sincere kiss not just teying to get it in! pay attention boys this works!

  • @AmbioriV buy an inflatable.

  • @sybyly Go stand on your corner and make some money.

  • @AmbioriV your comment is based on...? clearly your pigeonholing tiny mind finds the only thing it thinks it recognises. yea, i guess when you've been paying for it for so long, anything else must seem complicated. i wish you a quick and painless exit.

  • @sybyly Yea and your comment is based on...? Now you know how I feel, stopping down to your level is the only way to get through your complicated little mind.

  • @AmbioriV xD EPIC WIN

  • Hi Jessica, I have been dating a lovely woman for three months now and things are great however I am ready to turn it up a notch. I'm not talking about standard sex. We do that regularly ind it is great. What I am getting at is the fact that I have decided that I want her to take a dump on my chest. A Cleveland Steamer, if you will. I'm not sure how to approach the subject in a gentleman-like manor. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

  • Vanae is hotter than this chick.

  • xD im dating a guy and ive been dating him for 4 weeks now and he hasn't kissed me. FML.

  • @eversauce maybe he wants u to signal that its ok for him to kiss u....i know my boyfriend doesnt kiss me until he gets the ok from me..like in public places n stuff...n wen he doesnt he would tx me n say "what happened to my kiss"

  • @eversauce dump that loser and date me

  • @Gorax90

    What the frick?!

  • a firm ass-slap works well as pre-kiss contact.

  • need moar tips, I'll become a dating machine HUARGH

  • so i shoukd like kiss every gurl thta i think is attractive :) so i can say in court: jessie made meh do iT!!!!

  • @agentbl lol u must be about 7?

  • @Metal4ever923 No, I'm 33 my friend. I was just saying that because I haven't been with a woman in 4 years. I've been celibate.

  • You can kiss whenever there's a chance, not within "3 dates". If she likes you, you'll see that in her eyes. Sit next to her, be gentle, say nice words, run your fingers through her hair, kiss her cheek, than her lips. If she likes you, the rest will come by itself.

  • @thermotor dumbass lol

  • im so pathetic. i cant believe im watching this

  • I haven't kissed or been with a girl in over 4 years. I've been celibate all this time and I'm tired of being celibate. I'm tired of being without a girlfriend. I need a girlfriend.

  • yeah, but how to initiate a first anal sex?

  • @blackraider777 haahahahahahhahaha

  • @blackraider777 watch the video again, and exchange "first kiss" to "first anal sex" instead, i lol'd!

  • @blackraider777 hahaha i tel u tell her u wann do doggy style and go for the wrong cavity

  • @blackraider777 Surprise!

  • @blackraider777 There is a point when you make your girl is so horney ,that she says to you: you can do everything. Then is the time, don't just do it, talk about it. If she don't like it, bad luck.

  • this is one of the most dumb videos i have ever seen...

  • oh shit this is what i did wrong ! as soon as i drop her home i try to kiss her ! and she say hellloooooo with her chick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!sh­it happens!

    but she says me no! what does she mean?

  • oh shit this is what i did wrong ! as soon as i drop her home i try to kiss her ! and she say hellloooooo with her chick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!sh­it happens!

  • a hug works to initiate a kiss.

  • @erkishmusta i dont mind. why would a girl like that? cos that would be hot as well.

  • Although, I was kind of annoyed by her assuming that her audience would simply know when the right time to go in for the kiss was (like, what's the purpose of this video?), I do like that she points out that we should touch our date before we make our move. Based on personal experiences from the past, I do know that if you go in without any warning sometimes, you really can creep your date out. So, this is likely to be very helpful advice.

  • @selfReferencinDox

    BUT, I did imagine how her advice could go wrong if you don't execute it correctly. If you touch your date, then look her in the eyes, and then smile she might think that you're being romantic or she might think that you plan to kill her. I'm not sure, since my people skills do kind of suck, but I think it has alot to do with timing. You try to follow her three steps and you wait too one step before you go to the next then you're going to frighten her.

  • tounge?

  • Wiminz shud be in the kitchen maken meh diner not beh ah goddess

  • Ooooo dirty dirty

  • Jessica....I think 'Im getting in love with you  :()

  • I hate women.

  • jesus christ, i wish I would have seen this video before I bought a gag ball for the girl I have been stalking ;D

  • Touching, hah?

  • I can feel it on my dick usually its hard :D

  • WTF why do u portrait women as some godeses that need to be worshipped Fuck Off

  • might as well stick ur head in a poopy toilet & give urself a chocolate swirly, cuz thats all u deserve..

  • How do I turn off that stupid subtitles? I can hear you fine...

  • How do I turn off that stupid subtitles? I can hear you fine...

  • Oh Jessica, I have a six inch dating tip for you!

  • @Attila709 thats small kid

  • @Attila709 lmao

  • @Attila709 ...That is not a very thorough invitation young man. You happen to be a white guy?

  • Yeah right, Kiss her when you think she looks beautiful?

    what if thats all the time?

  • @theICE23 hhahaha lmao you are so funny hahah xD

  • @theICE23 then thats great :-)

  • Clearly the best time to kiss is any time after the credit card transaction clears.

  • HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA the guy in the video was so creepy with that kiss lmao

  • And then you have a cold sore (twice!) during your first three dates :(

  • I wonder if any of Jessica's clients had like say 10 classes with her, got all the tips and feedback, learned a lot, and then just dived on her screaming "fuck your advice you're mine now!"

    P.S. rape isn't cool.

    P.S.S after the first time...

  • what if she just wanna fuck the guy n move on, how will we know jess?

  • them 2 in the bar are butt ugly =))