I have Mars and Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th house...once I find something 'higher' to attach onto, and grow with, outside of the relationship, then it is quite easy for me to leave.
I have been in a two year long BATTLE with a Venus square Neptune. I am giving birth to his child next month, and finally, I just called the police and has a stalking protective order placed against him. If he doesn't GET THAT, then I will have him arrested.
it depends on the person. i don't try to define "relationships" as anything other than what they are. usually, if im involved, they're constantly evolving anyway. i like "odd" kinships so i have no problem continuing them in a different way after the physical aspect is out. but i also will not waste my time when i want an end point (unless im extending some form of grace period or want to observe them before dropping them). when im done, im done. i do so relish burning a bridge. ;)
Dumping somebody? I close the door and toss the key into a vat of lye. I dont want to see you. I dont want to hear you. Smell you or taste you. A dark hole that eats you up is the best thing if I dont want you in my life. Being dumped? Beg pardon? I am miles away.
Contd - but i would prefer the cut throat ending Scorps bring any day to partings that are confusing and go on and on. You're really good at what you do! :D Thanks for posting
Scorpio here sticking my tuppenceworth in.Your absolutely correct, i cut them off. Thinking back i have been the one to end any relationship ive been in (i aint proud of that fact, just the way it was) and when i have decided thats it with them, it's almost as if they are dead to me.I know that sounds awful and some of my ex's have thought it terribly cruel but i just cant do the whole dragging it out thing. We feel deep and need to be alone to get over it, being cruel to be kind is never easy
every single relationship ive had, i have "cut-off" my former lover. In a way it is such a deep cut into my exsposed emotions that this person either doesnt want to be with me or has done something to make it obvious that they dont want to be with me, every time i have every intention of trying to get back in touch with them but i unintentially let resentment into my heart towards that person that can only be overridden with time. . .and naturally another woman that actually wants me
ps..I am a nurse and work in a psychiatric residential tratment center for kids 12 to 18 yrs old. all 145 of them live there under lock and key because they have been severly abused mentally, physically and sexually. their self esteem is gone, they hurt themselves,..cut themselves, try to kill themselves. most are in dss custody cuz they end up doing similar to others younger. then I date dickhead (see below) who watches teen porn. nope.. he's out ! scorpio or not
I am a gemini on the cusp of cancer. been with a scorpio 5 years he all that you describe, but have learned to stand up for myself. strange how a tongue which can give so much pleasure, can also cut you to shreds,. grew tired of his open drooling at any female in site.disrespectful. hides internet relationships with women, webcams as well. thinks I should be "open" and "share" these things with him. called it quits with him 2 wksago.should have seen the scathing email i got.
and pain, and it gives you a clearer understanding. Especially on why they would want to do this in the first place. I just wouldn't do this with a MARS in scorpio. In my opinion. Because I've seen myself when I'm getting revenge and that is just too far. Plus my sagittarius moon square saturn (IM NOT HATING. I'M JUST EXPRESSING MY THOUGHTS..) kind of gives me an exaggerated more serious tone. you know? so theres my two cents. loved the video!! love all your videos! you're really great. <3
I got back at my boyfriend and my ex friend for breaking my heart by sending hate mail, hacking my sisters account and removing the friend continuously, pretty much whatever in my power I could do to destroy the bitch who made me feel the way I did. ) It was terrible what I did, but after that I felt complete. For you to say you'd want a Scorpio to get the stinger on you is a mighty brave thing to say. I am like this also. We both understand that life becomes more meaningful when you have hurt
I'm like you. I'm a venus square neptune AND venus square uranus so I am destined for a social and love life of messyness. But I can tell you this for sure... . For me, it is a very true aspect. I never could date a person in real life, so far, because they simply weren't good enough.. The one guy I managed to date in real life for a first time ever (i'm 15 years old) I met over the internet and we were talking for months. Then we met and of course he cheated on me. (quality internet bfs.)
And I have all this water in me that I can sense that they feel this and it hurts me.... But anyways, back to your question.
Yes, I do this all the time. I do it out of sheer dissapointment and loss of faith. One time I did this was because they backstabbed me by cheating with my bf. Another, a guy friend of mine had a crush on me, and I could no long see myself being comfortable around him... Things like that.
Hello.. I am a mars in scorpio progressed venus into scorpio and I feel very closely with these placements. I'm also a moon in sagittarius. So it's funny to me. I attract all of these water type friends, who care about me emotionally, and are such great people, and then you see my moon tossing around friends making them like they're worth nothing.
it's true, but people who get cut off have done something to deserve it! usually things will be discussed, but if a person is insensitive, ungrateful, abusive, thoughtless, whatever, you just feel like you don't want to look at them or talk to them ever again. it is kinda the ultimate way to tell someone to F off. i will, even years later refuse to speak to them if i see them out, forget about being phoney and polite just because others are around watching.
Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts...maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts...maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!! Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts..... maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!! Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts..... maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!! Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
This is true to the root. I tend to cut them off completely, not because I didn't care for them, but because it was just hurting us both too much. It wasn't healthy and I hated knowing that I caused grief so I did what I felt was natural even if inflicted hurt on me. I cut them off. I still tried to make contact but deep down inside I knew it wouldn't work, they couldn't exist to me.
I do this too. even though sometimes I am still thinking about it, I still know its the only way, especially when they are causing grief, the quicker and cleaner the less they have a chance to make me any more crazy than they already are doing. I cant let someone do that to me, I can only take so much, then its done.
I am not a scorpio but have Venus and Uranus in Scorpio and I defnitely amputate both friends and lovers if I feel they have run their course. I have felt a sense of guilt tied in with this for a long time thinking there is something wrong with me...
Proud Scorpio here, this vid hits the nail right on the head as far as break ups go for me. Hold on to the bitter end with all I have but when its over........Its over, otherwise it wouldnt be over! After WE (mutual decision) decided to break up, I didnt shed a tear. 2 Months later she was there and said she still loved me, started getting hyterical and said to look her in the eyes and tell her I didnt love her. Big mistake, Scorpio's dont f*ck about or sugarcoat, dont wanna hear? Dont ask!
I am a scorpio, and I am totally like that. depending on the seriousness of the issue, like lets say the guy cheats. just amputate, and move on. if its about lying, or lots of other things, I can be forgiving, but they have to commit to change. THEN if they don't, just amputat. all about transformation.
Yeah honesty is essential without it there can't be anything. But unfortunately because of my past life I grew very dependant of my mother, not anymore though -_-
Scorpio here. I'd say for me personally through the entire relationship, HONESTY means more than anything. I can't stand people who dodge the subject or try to sugar-coat it. Say it how it is, no matter how brutal. Then we'll take it from there.
I'm a Scorpio but I'm actually not really like that - I find it hard to "let go" off the person I want to break up with - or I did break up with. I've heard of at least one more Scorpio that is the same haha... funny... weird that others experience it differently... if I'm not attached to the person then I can let go reaaaallly easy but once I let them close to me - it's difficult.
I'm a Scorpio and I have Mars in Aries and the last time I broke off a relationship I was out to do as much emotional damage as humanly possible (god of war) I told her that she was a stupid little whore that slept around because she had low self esteem.
We don't talk anymore, it was over three years ago, but we are facebook friends now. I have Mercury and Venus in Libra so OCCASIONALLY I can be nice to someone again.
Yes,when it's time to move on they are bounced from my orbit . They also get the emotional chop if they whine about it because I determine that to be a weakness. Great vid BTW!!
scorpio here. i perfer no conections with my break ups. none at all. which is also why im sooo very care on who im going to have kids with if any at all. it has to be some one whom im gonna be with all my life.
yeah Im like that too, its all or nothing, no in between for me, I need to know where I stand with people and if they want to play me, I just get really nasty and agressive, I hate that, so yes, I do appreciate the scorpio style
I gave you and Jmazzotta a thumbs up because I can relate to you two.
I have Moon-Uranus conjunction in Scorpio in 12h, and stellium in 8h. I try to work things out with people (I do have Sun in nostalgic Cancer)...but once I'm done with them, I'm DONE. People get angry when I do that but I view it as I gave you chance after chance (Neptune in 1h) but you wasted it, so GOODBYE. They always get a rude awakening (that is Scorpio style).
I never used to believe in astrology (or anything supernatural, for that matter), but one day I read my astrological profile. I've got to say: It described me perfectly. It was just like I was reading about myself in a book. I'm not sure what to make of that, but astrology now has a lot more credibility in my mind than it used to!
I like what you said in this video and would love a scorpio for that. It's real and you need to know if your parner has moved on or not. Someone who would not tell you the real and decieve you until you find out is what kind of sign?
Im a TEXTBOOK scorpio, Ive had people pick me outta group in 5 minutes as to what I am. Im a good lookin scorpio, and thats a bad combo. Totally true on basically telling the women what I have to, to keep them still loosely attached. Never satisfied, always thinkin of the next women. Just enough to keep then hanging on, but when I am done, Im fuckin ice cold. I have options, and the mental dominance/ego to keep any I wanted. I love cancers though, they always seem to know how to get to my heart.
Well, I'm a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Moon and I do tend to "let people down easy" so I won't hurt their feelings...but if they refuse to take the hint, I get ice cold and "slit their throat" so they will stop bothering me. Better to rip that band-aid off fast sometimes.
I'm scorpio and thats exactly how I am - I'm not understanding the relevence of the 13th zodiac and how that all falls into play - Am i still a scorpio?
Absolutely!!.... especially if it's an abusive one! I can't tolerate a man even if he rises his voice to me... think if he tries to hit me? just imagine for a few mins....:)
I have Mars and Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th house...once I find something 'higher' to attach onto, and grow with, outside of the relationship, then it is quite easy for me to leave.
I have been in a two year long BATTLE with a Venus square Neptune. I am giving birth to his child next month, and finally, I just called the police and has a stalking protective order placed against him. If he doesn't GET THAT, then I will have him arrested.
pattycrful 1 month ago
it depends on the person. i don't try to define "relationships" as anything other than what they are. usually, if im involved, they're constantly evolving anyway. i like "odd" kinships so i have no problem continuing them in a different way after the physical aspect is out. but i also will not waste my time when i want an end point (unless im extending some form of grace period or want to observe them before dropping them). when im done, im done. i do so relish burning a bridge. ;)
ChimneyMcSmokesalot 1 month ago
Dumping somebody? I close the door and toss the key into a vat of lye. I dont want to see you. I dont want to hear you. Smell you or taste you. A dark hole that eats you up is the best thing if I dont want you in my life. Being dumped? Beg pardon? I am miles away.
CatpurrRobertaBobbi 4 months ago
Contd - but i would prefer the cut throat ending Scorps bring any day to partings that are confusing and go on and on. You're really good at what you do! :D Thanks for posting
PaganGlade 5 months ago
Scorpio here sticking my tuppenceworth in.Your absolutely correct, i cut them off. Thinking back i have been the one to end any relationship ive been in (i aint proud of that fact, just the way it was) and when i have decided thats it with them, it's almost as if they are dead to me.I know that sounds awful and some of my ex's have thought it terribly cruel but i just cant do the whole dragging it out thing. We feel deep and need to be alone to get over it, being cruel to be kind is never easy
PaganGlade 5 months ago
every single relationship ive had, i have "cut-off" my former lover. In a way it is such a deep cut into my exsposed emotions that this person either doesnt want to be with me or has done something to make it obvious that they dont want to be with me, every time i have every intention of trying to get back in touch with them but i unintentially let resentment into my heart towards that person that can only be overridden with time. . .and naturally another woman that actually wants me
MrDinger15 6 months ago
ps..I am a nurse and work in a psychiatric residential tratment center for kids 12 to 18 yrs old. all 145 of them live there under lock and key because they have been severly abused mentally, physically and sexually. their self esteem is gone, they hurt themselves,..cut themselves, try to kill themselves. most are in dss custody cuz they end up doing similar to others younger. then I date dickhead (see below) who watches teen porn. nope.. he's out ! scorpio or not
musicmanic1955 8 months ago
continued from below... dont know if I am brave or stupid, but I sure feel better than I have in a long time. dickhead !
musicmanic1955 8 months ago
I am a gemini on the cusp of cancer. been with a scorpio 5 years he all that you describe, but have learned to stand up for myself. strange how a tongue which can give so much pleasure, can also cut you to shreds,. grew tired of his open drooling at any female in site.disrespectful. hides internet relationships with women, webcams as well. thinks I should be "open" and "share" these things with him. called it quits with him 2 wksago.should have seen the scathing email i got.
musicmanic1955 8 months ago
and pain, and it gives you a clearer understanding. Especially on why they would want to do this in the first place. I just wouldn't do this with a MARS in scorpio. In my opinion. Because I've seen myself when I'm getting revenge and that is just too far. Plus my sagittarius moon square saturn (IM NOT HATING. I'M JUST EXPRESSING MY THOUGHTS..) kind of gives me an exaggerated more serious tone. you know? so theres my two cents. loved the video!! love all your videos! you're really great. <3
TOracheldied 10 months ago
I got back at my boyfriend and my ex friend for breaking my heart by sending hate mail, hacking my sisters account and removing the friend continuously, pretty much whatever in my power I could do to destroy the bitch who made me feel the way I did. ) It was terrible what I did, but after that I felt complete. For you to say you'd want a Scorpio to get the stinger on you is a mighty brave thing to say. I am like this also. We both understand that life becomes more meaningful when you have hurt
TOracheldied 10 months ago
I'm like you. I'm a venus square neptune AND venus square uranus so I am destined for a social and love life of messyness. But I can tell you this for sure... . For me, it is a very true aspect. I never could date a person in real life, so far, because they simply weren't good enough.. The one guy I managed to date in real life for a first time ever (i'm 15 years old) I met over the internet and we were talking for months. Then we met and of course he cheated on me. (quality internet bfs.)
TOracheldied 10 months ago
And I have all this water in me that I can sense that they feel this and it hurts me.... But anyways, back to your question.
Yes, I do this all the time. I do it out of sheer dissapointment and loss of faith. One time I did this was because they backstabbed me by cheating with my bf. Another, a guy friend of mine had a crush on me, and I could no long see myself being comfortable around him... Things like that.
TOracheldied 10 months ago
Hello.. I am a mars in scorpio progressed venus into scorpio and I feel very closely with these placements. I'm also a moon in sagittarius. So it's funny to me. I attract all of these water type friends, who care about me emotionally, and are such great people, and then you see my moon tossing around friends making them like they're worth nothing.
TOracheldied 10 months ago
it's true, but people who get cut off have done something to deserve it! usually things will be discussed, but if a person is insensitive, ungrateful, abusive, thoughtless, whatever, you just feel like you don't want to look at them or talk to them ever again. it is kinda the ultimate way to tell someone to F off. i will, even years later refuse to speak to them if i see them out, forget about being phoney and polite just because others are around watching.
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Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts...maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
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Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts...maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!! Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
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Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts..... maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!! Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
NEAAMusic 1 year ago
Im a scorpio female, I amputate when I feel that its time to move on, but we scorps have hearts..... maybe too soft... cause sometimes I get phantom pains :-( but then I think pretty hard about why I amputated and then the phantom pains go away :-) Love what you do Elsa!! Q. How does a scorpio single mum survive with an aries and a Libran (boys)
NEAAMusic 1 year ago
This is true to the root. I tend to cut them off completely, not because I didn't care for them, but because it was just hurting us both too much. It wasn't healthy and I hated knowing that I caused grief so I did what I felt was natural even if inflicted hurt on me. I cut them off. I still tried to make contact but deep down inside I knew it wouldn't work, they couldn't exist to me.
XFry333X 1 year ago
I do this too. even though sometimes I am still thinking about it, I still know its the only way, especially when they are causing grief, the quicker and cleaner the less they have a chance to make me any more crazy than they already are doing. I cant let someone do that to me, I can only take so much, then its done.
deroseg 1 year ago
I am not a scorpio but have Venus and Uranus in Scorpio and I defnitely amputate both friends and lovers if I feel they have run their course. I have felt a sense of guilt tied in with this for a long time thinking there is something wrong with me...
misscelanious 1 year ago
wow...I do amputate...I look at it like a toe with frost bite-cute it off before it poisons the rest of the body
gg6394 1 year ago
wow...I do amputate
gg6394 1 year ago
m a scorpio and this video i s so funny
takenbythesky 1 year ago
Proud Scorpio here, this vid hits the nail right on the head as far as break ups go for me. Hold on to the bitter end with all I have but when its over........Its over, otherwise it wouldnt be over! After WE (mutual decision) decided to break up, I didnt shed a tear. 2 Months later she was there and said she still loved me, started getting hyterical and said to look her in the eyes and tell her I didnt love her. Big mistake, Scorpio's dont f*ck about or sugarcoat, dont wanna hear? Dont ask!
420peacetheory 1 year ago 4
@420peacetheory This is so freaking cool , please see my video called scorpio zodiac , we scorpios rule
monas 1 year ago
I am a scorpio, and I am totally like that. depending on the seriousness of the issue, like lets say the guy cheats. just amputate, and move on. if its about lying, or lots of other things, I can be forgiving, but they have to commit to change. THEN if they don't, just amputat. all about transformation.
heavenlyangelsrhere 1 year ago
Yeah honesty is essential without it there can't be anything. But unfortunately because of my past life I grew very dependant of my mother, not anymore though -_-
Aki24san 1 year ago
Scorpio here. I'd say for me personally through the entire relationship, HONESTY means more than anything. I can't stand people who dodge the subject or try to sugar-coat it. Say it how it is, no matter how brutal. Then we'll take it from there.
rosenti 1 year ago 14
@rosenti I'm a Scorpio as well and I agree 100%
rwomack1 1 year ago
I'm a Scorpio but I'm actually not really like that - I find it hard to "let go" off the person I want to break up with - or I did break up with. I've heard of at least one more Scorpio that is the same haha... funny... weird that others experience it differently... if I'm not attached to the person then I can let go reaaaallly easy but once I let them close to me - it's difficult.
Squashka 1 year ago 12
Proud Scorpio! When you are gone, you are dead to me. Period!
peeweecoco 2 years ago
I'm a Scorpio and I have Mars in Aries and the last time I broke off a relationship I was out to do as much emotional damage as humanly possible (god of war) I told her that she was a stupid little whore that slept around because she had low self esteem.
We don't talk anymore, it was over three years ago, but we are facebook friends now. I have Mercury and Venus in Libra so OCCASIONALLY I can be nice to someone again.
rocknrolling101 2 years ago
@rocknrolling101 I told her that she was a stupid little whore that slept around because she had low self esteem...ouch that hurted o-o
Aki24san 1 year ago
Yes,when it's time to move on they are bounced from my orbit . They also get the emotional chop if they whine about it because I determine that to be a weakness. Great vid BTW!!
capebee 2 years ago
scorpio here. i perfer no conections with my break ups. none at all. which is also why im sooo very care on who im going to have kids with if any at all. it has to be some one whom im gonna be with all my life.
brujahkid 2 years ago
haha ive done that manytimes...proud scorpio
armanisoccer7 2 years ago 2
I'm not a Scorpio. I have sun, moon, merc in the 8th hoswever and I don't want to be left. I DO THE LEAVING. I also do the AMPUTATING.
JMazzotta 2 years ago
yeah Im like that too, its all or nothing, no in between for me, I need to know where I stand with people and if they want to play me, I just get really nasty and agressive, I hate that, so yes, I do appreciate the scorpio style
yankat369 3 years ago 2
I gave you and Jmazzotta a thumbs up because I can relate to you two.
I have Moon-Uranus conjunction in Scorpio in 12h, and stellium in 8h. I try to work things out with people (I do have Sun in nostalgic Cancer)...but once I'm done with them, I'm DONE. People get angry when I do that but I view it as I gave you chance after chance (Neptune in 1h) but you wasted it, so GOODBYE. They always get a rude awakening (that is Scorpio style).
jdfodio 2 years ago
i have amputated before... im a scorpio :D and of course i love ur videos becuz u talk about scorpios aka me :D
amazingamy89 3 years ago
I never used to believe in astrology (or anything supernatural, for that matter), but one day I read my astrological profile. I've got to say: It described me perfectly. It was just like I was reading about myself in a book. I'm not sure what to make of that, but astrology now has a lot more credibility in my mind than it used to!
marktech101 3 years ago
Wow, that is so accurate.
po3a8 3 years ago
I like what you said in this video and would love a scorpio for that. It's real and you need to know if your parner has moved on or not. Someone who would not tell you the real and decieve you until you find out is what kind of sign?
ausar279 3 years ago
Im a TEXTBOOK scorpio, Ive had people pick me outta group in 5 minutes as to what I am. Im a good lookin scorpio, and thats a bad combo. Totally true on basically telling the women what I have to, to keep them still loosely attached. Never satisfied, always thinkin of the next women. Just enough to keep then hanging on, but when I am done, Im fuckin ice cold. I have options, and the mental dominance/ego to keep any I wanted. I love cancers though, they always seem to know how to get to my heart.
Dirtythinker420 3 years ago
Well, I'm a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Moon and I do tend to "let people down easy" so I won't hurt their feelings...but if they refuse to take the hint, I get ice cold and "slit their throat" so they will stop bothering me. Better to rip that band-aid off fast sometimes.
jdfodio 2 years ago
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420peacetheory 1 year ago
I'm scorpio and thats exactly how I am - I'm not understanding the relevence of the 13th zodiac and how that all falls into play - Am i still a scorpio?
AbsoluteWebDesign 4 years ago
Absolutely!!.... especially if it's an abusive one! I can't tolerate a man even if he rises his voice to me... think if he tries to hit me? just imagine for a few mins....:)
derruledatura 4 years ago
hmm... i'm scorpio and thats exactly what i do. amazing! :)
bearer9 4 years ago