Stop the ignorance people please! Who you love is who you love---POINT BLANK!!! I happen to be heterosexual, but that's my preference. There's more than one definition of a couple or family. I applaud your confidence in who you are. Keep doing what you're doing sister! And for those of you who are still living in the dark ages----GET OVER YOURSELF!
The use of stud/fem labels to express what society views as dominate/masculine and submissive/feminine acts is confusing and subjective.
I suggest stop labeling yourself as a fem and your partner as a stud to your children and focus on the idea that no matter what gender a parent or parents view themselves as, its better for the children to be grateful to just have people period who love and cherish them.
@queangel08 I don't label myself as anything but mom to my kid. That was the purpose of the video. It's funny though that people would think we spend our time labeling ourselves to kids. If it wasn't for her listening to the youtube videos I watch she would have never known what a stud or a femme was. I refuse to go in a box.
I am relieved to hear this. However, by letting your daughter watch and learn from these youtube videos on how to recognize a fem or stud you are subjecting her to human labels, which should not exist. There is no such thing as a stud, fem, ag, aggressive fem, lipstick, dom, butch, whatever because in the end there is only the Lesbian.
Hopefully you are teaching your daughter the negatives of labels, and the difference between labels and identity.
This is such a sweet video :3 I am gay as well and this gives me so much hope for the future for my girlfriend and I. Your daughter's very well-spoken :) And you are completely right- you can't choose to be gay. I wish gay marriage was legal everywhere.. since it's sad that my girlfriend and I would have to go to a random state just to get married because my state doesn't even legalize our marriage.. I wish this would change.
Anyhow, lovely video :3 and best wishes to you and your family :)
@darklatios132 All it demonstrates is that gays are very good at raising their kids to be meat shields.
This kid will feel differently when she's got kids of her own and recognizes that GROWN UPS put their kids needs first, that GOOD parents don't USE their kids to feel good about themselves or feed their egos.
We will hear THE TRUTH when gays and lesbians start dying and their kids are finally free to say whatever they want without "hurting" any emotionally stunted parent.
@vicorii 0_o.. wh-what..? .. so you're saying that she used her daughter to say such things..? .. I don't believe that at all.. I don't think that it was kind of you to say that children will 'finally speak the truth' when their parents die.. that isn't right.. X/..
@vicorii But why exactly is it bad that a child doesn't have a mother or father? Sometimes a parent dies, and there's nothing you can do about it.. so why is it a bad thing if they have two moms or two dads? I don't see the problem with it.
Actually, many same-sex couples have a friend of the opposite gender who act as the male/female role model that the family is missing, or in other cases, it is the sperm donor who acts as such. I think that these children are fine just the way they are.
@darklatios132 If gays want what is best for their child, they should recognize that having a "friend who stops by" isn't good enough. The child needs and deserves an actual mother AND father, preferably the child's real biological mother and father - it IS better to be raised by your own real parents - but if that genuinely isn't possible, the child should have a legally adopted mother/father.
This doesn't have to be incompatible with a gay lifestyle. Gays are just making it be so.
So my friend whose father died at a young age wasn't raised properly? .. I'd like to see proof that children need both a mother and a father. I have both a mother and a father, but my father is not fit to be a parent at all, since he has rejected me for my sexuality... so you're saying that gay parents are worse than straight ones..? .. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, but gay couples are NOT less than straight couples.. and their children are fine as well.
If you're a lesbian, why do you have children? You're not interested in men so why lay with a man and have kids? It's seems you're with a women out of convience because it didn't work out with a man. I'm just asking because I see all these kids walking around. Also, your daughter is so confused. She can't really express herself. She doesn't understand that fem/stud nonsense.
@americangirlfan12341 That is so hateful. Gay people do not ask to be gay. That's like saying don't be black, black sucks or don't be asian. I feel sorry for this world.
@deborahdaughter7 kind of your asking to be gay because you control if your gay or not even in the bible it says not to be so apparlenty when god comes and takes all christains you will be staying here
I appreciate your interrogation method lol ... kids are smart. period.
I agree with her, you want your parents your mother to be happy. That's all you want. Those issues about step-father or step-mother are the same. You can't expect them to BE LIKE the biological parent, but they are not always best for the family and the kids. Step - parents is another issue from gay - parents though. So I don't really see why you talk about step-parents so much tho..
so have u ever considered men cus in the bible it says marrage is ment for a man and a womman so dont u feal guilt about this and fear that ur daughter will end up a lesbo 2
Wow. Intelligence. Beauty. Charm. Humor. Innocent wit. My goodness, 'lil mama is one dynamic 'lil package. :-) Loved the video, of course. She did a great job! 5*
Ish that is exactly what I complimented you on. You have done it again. Show the world that we are wonderful and the intelligence level of our kids....man....
I am trying to challenge her knowledge and show we still parents regardless of what we do in the bedroom. She is eleven and capable of carrying on a mature conversation. Some grown people can't do that. Thank you for the compliment. It means alot to me.
Stop the ignorance people please! Who you love is who you love---POINT BLANK!!! I happen to be heterosexual, but that's my preference. There's more than one definition of a couple or family. I applaud your confidence in who you are. Keep doing what you're doing sister! And for those of you who are still living in the dark ages----GET OVER YOURSELF!
talkative12 1 year ago
your daughter is so strong and clear in her thoughts. you've raised her well.
cymonebreathe 1 year ago
@cymonebreathe Thank you.
deborahdaughter7 1 year ago
I agree with kiasky1,
The use of stud/fem labels to express what society views as dominate/masculine and submissive/feminine acts is confusing and subjective.
I suggest stop labeling yourself as a fem and your partner as a stud to your children and focus on the idea that no matter what gender a parent or parents view themselves as, its better for the children to be grateful to just have people period who love and cherish them.
queangel08 1 year ago
@queangel08 I don't label myself as anything but mom to my kid. That was the purpose of the video. It's funny though that people would think we spend our time labeling ourselves to kids. If it wasn't for her listening to the youtube videos I watch she would have never known what a stud or a femme was. I refuse to go in a box.
deborahdaughter7 1 year ago
@deborahdaughter7
I am relieved to hear this. However, by letting your daughter watch and learn from these youtube videos on how to recognize a fem or stud you are subjecting her to human labels, which should not exist. There is no such thing as a stud, fem, ag, aggressive fem, lipstick, dom, butch, whatever because in the end there is only the Lesbian.
Hopefully you are teaching your daughter the negatives of labels, and the difference between labels and identity.
queangel08 1 year ago
lol i love her ... but she's also a stud lmao
jcmrt 1 year ago
This is such a sweet video :3 I am gay as well and this gives me so much hope for the future for my girlfriend and I. Your daughter's very well-spoken :) And you are completely right- you can't choose to be gay. I wish gay marriage was legal everywhere.. since it's sad that my girlfriend and I would have to go to a random state just to get married because my state doesn't even legalize our marriage.. I wish this would change.
Anyhow, lovely video :3 and best wishes to you and your family :)
darklatios132 1 year ago
@darklatios132 All it demonstrates is that gays are very good at raising their kids to be meat shields.
This kid will feel differently when she's got kids of her own and recognizes that GROWN UPS put their kids needs first, that GOOD parents don't USE their kids to feel good about themselves or feed their egos.
We will hear THE TRUTH when gays and lesbians start dying and their kids are finally free to say whatever they want without "hurting" any emotionally stunted parent.
vicorii 1 year ago
@vicorii 0_o.. wh-what..? .. so you're saying that she used her daughter to say such things..? .. I don't believe that at all.. I don't think that it was kind of you to say that children will 'finally speak the truth' when their parents die.. that isn't right.. X/..
darklatios132 1 year ago
@darklatios132 I'm saying that good parents put their child's needs first.
There is ample evidence (as well as just plain common sense) that says motherlessness and fatherlessness are both bad for a child.
Gays are committed to arguing that this *DOESN'T MATTER*.
The kids are being used. That's neither fair nor "loving".
vicorii 1 year ago
@vicorii But why exactly is it bad that a child doesn't have a mother or father? Sometimes a parent dies, and there's nothing you can do about it.. so why is it a bad thing if they have two moms or two dads? I don't see the problem with it.
Actually, many same-sex couples have a friend of the opposite gender who act as the male/female role model that the family is missing, or in other cases, it is the sperm donor who acts as such. I think that these children are fine just the way they are.
darklatios132 1 year ago
@darklatios132 If gays want what is best for their child, they should recognize that having a "friend who stops by" isn't good enough. The child needs and deserves an actual mother AND father, preferably the child's real biological mother and father - it IS better to be raised by your own real parents - but if that genuinely isn't possible, the child should have a legally adopted mother/father.
This doesn't have to be incompatible with a gay lifestyle. Gays are just making it be so.
vicorii 1 year ago
@vicorii
So my friend whose father died at a young age wasn't raised properly? .. I'd like to see proof that children need both a mother and a father. I have both a mother and a father, but my father is not fit to be a parent at all, since he has rejected me for my sexuality... so you're saying that gay parents are worse than straight ones..? .. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, but gay couples are NOT less than straight couples.. and their children are fine as well.
darklatios132 1 year ago
@darklatios132 My sympathies for your friend on the loss.
To lose a father is a serious loss.
Nobody should ever be forced to pretend otherwise.
vicorii 1 year ago
If you're a lesbian, why do you have children? You're not interested in men so why lay with a man and have kids? It's seems you're with a women out of convience because it didn't work out with a man. I'm just asking because I see all these kids walking around. Also, your daughter is so confused. She can't really express herself. She doesn't understand that fem/stud nonsense.
kiasky1 1 year ago
DON'T BE GAY GAY SUCKS!!!
americangirlfan12341 1 year ago
@americangirlfan12341 That is so hateful. Gay people do not ask to be gay. That's like saying don't be black, black sucks or don't be asian. I feel sorry for this world.
deborahdaughter7 1 year ago 5
@deborahdaughter7 kind of your asking to be gay because you control if your gay or not even in the bible it says not to be so apparlenty when god comes and takes all christains you will be staying here
americangirlfan12341 1 year ago
She's smart :) she knows what she's talking about.
illlluck 1 year ago
AWESOME!
Thanks for uploading this
celgaara 1 year ago
I appreciate your interrogation method lol ... kids are smart. period.
I agree with her, you want your parents your mother to be happy. That's all you want. Those issues about step-father or step-mother are the same. You can't expect them to BE LIKE the biological parent, but they are not always best for the family and the kids. Step - parents is another issue from gay - parents though. So I don't really see why you talk about step-parents so much tho..
chromeNRG 2 years ago
damn i can't believe people still talk about bible when it comes to LGBT topics...anyway, i love this vid! ^^
eligarf0001 2 years ago
WOW I love your
Videos
cakebaby1 2 years ago
L.O.L. My mom is the same way
cakebaby1 2 years ago
so have u ever considered men cus in the bible it says marrage is ment for a man and a womman so dont u feal guilt about this and fear that ur daughter will end up a lesbo 2
hunterRYANSmusic 2 years ago
My mom is straight and I still ended up a lesbian. So what did she do so wrong?
deborahdaughter7 2 years ago
@hunterRYANSmusic Then let's arrange for gay men to raise daughters and lesbians to raise boys. There's your solution.
treetri88 2 years ago
wow your daughter is great.
ilm7 2 years ago 4
She think she all dat now! LMAO. Naw, thank you.
deborahdaughter7 2 years ago
Wow. Intelligence. Beauty. Charm. Humor. Innocent wit. My goodness, 'lil mama is one dynamic 'lil package. :-) Loved the video, of course. She did a great job! 5*
estari4life 2 years ago
Yeah, she somethin else, girl. She a talker like me. Thx for your support. Much love to you.
deborahdaughter7 2 years ago
give him some cookies lol
CrucialImpactCEO 3 years ago
Bad ass kids... What I give her, she betta duck it! Lol.
deborahdaughter7 3 years ago
Ish that is exactly what I complimented you on. You have done it again. Show the world that we are wonderful and the intelligence level of our kids....man....
Nola504Nola504 3 years ago
I am trying to challenge her knowledge and show we still parents regardless of what we do in the bedroom. She is eleven and capable of carrying on a mature conversation. Some grown people can't do that. Thank you for the compliment. It means alot to me.
deborahdaughter7 3 years ago
Beautiful kids!!!! Your little girl is very intelligent.
LaDyDaLeSbN 3 years ago 2
Thx you. She says thank you too.
deborahdaughter7 3 years ago