Don't get me wrong... We do have some imperfect moments, especially when cruising the Caribbean, but all in all it works out well between us. Actually, I have never experienced it working so well between me and anyone else!
Interesting that you just parted, shrugged it off as a no-go, and forgot about it. And then after all that time, it all came back together and worked.
After being treated like dirt for the last two months the first time around it was easy to call it off and a bit of a relief to go my separate way... Only years later did I find out why she was being a bitch to me. She was expecting me to treat her bad like other men in her life did, and so she was being nasty to me to get me to be nasty so she'd have an excuse to break up with me or I would break up with her because she was being a bitch.
I've been mostly here since 1992 LOL PM me next time you're down this way... Come to think of it, Cindy and I are thinking of taking a road trip in Summer up towards Jasper. I'm sure we can work something out!
@fehquig I went down the Vancouver couple of years ago, 10 hours away from where I usually stay at lol. I still think you guys should visit Barkerville I can see t being your type of thing since its historic ;-p I'll let you know when I am in Canada again, hopefully it will be this year at some point.
It's very interesting to me to hear how the 2 of you met and found a relationship. I can only recall such a relationship between my paternal grandparents. Even though my parents stayed together till death their relationship was chaotic. Most of the relationships of my peers have resulted in disaster. Personally I'm comfortable being a bachelor. It would probably take something similar to your situation to change that.
I think the most important thing is to be comfortable... I was forty-one before we got together for the second time, and I was finally happy being alone. I had resigned myself to being a bachelor for the rest of my life when I got that unexpected call from an old flame...
Thanks for finishing the story, I wanted to ask, actually wrote it as a comment- but I thought I was being to nosy SO I deleted it. That is a great story, that bolt of electricity , I understand that completely. I love it, that was great. Great advice about not going to bed mad, I am guilty-
I have done that a few times, I don't like doing it though.
I read your comment already because they all show up in my email LOL We did both parts in one take but the clip came out to seventeen minutes so I had to split it somewhere as I'm not allowed to post vids longer than fifteen minutes on this channel for some reason or another...
Very cool story and great to see you guys going strong and having fun together! Hope you and yours are having a wonderful holiday Season! See ya, Dave
Hi Dave... Cindy's going away to be with her family over the holidays and I'll be left at home to work and get the rent money together Since our recent vacation took a bigger bite out of us than expected... I kinda look forward to January.
Andy and Cindy, i am so glad Cindy came back and you two are so happy together, enjoy every day of it for the rest of your lives, maybe we will get a big youtube wedding yet??
Great story. I saved the longer one for later; out of time yet again - but I enjoyed this a lot. Sometimes i think making a choice of partner is better done later in life. Passion is still a part of it but no longer over rides the other issues; we value respect, friendship, interests in common more than we did in youth. I wish you many more years (and videos) together! :)
For me, the choice of a partner was a process of elimination that lasted many years... I had met so many women while driving cab, and I have seen them all at their worst. I kept saying to myself which and how many personality characteristics were deal breakers.
Gracious my falling in love wasn't that complicated lol. But regardless it takes work over the years.
cozzyk 1 month ago
It does take work... It always takes work, but in the end no one has been able to show me that it's not worth it!
fehquig 1 month ago
So glad you guys gave it a second try. 99% of the time I don't think that's a good idea, but you guys are so perfect together!
AtomicBluRadioVision 2 months ago
Don't get me wrong... We do have some imperfect moments, especially when cruising the Caribbean, but all in all it works out well between us. Actually, I have never experienced it working so well between me and anyone else!
fehquig 2 months ago
Interesting that you just parted, shrugged it off as a no-go, and forgot about it. And then after all that time, it all came back together and worked.
anmoose 2 months ago
After being treated like dirt for the last two months the first time around it was easy to call it off and a bit of a relief to go my separate way... Only years later did I find out why she was being a bitch to me. She was expecting me to treat her bad like other men in her life did, and so she was being nasty to me to get me to be nasty so she'd have an excuse to break up with me or I would break up with her because she was being a bitch.
I still don't understand women... Do you?
fehquig 2 months ago
@fehquig,
LOL! I don't even understand that last statement. I don't expect to live long enough to ever understand women. :-)
anmoose 2 months ago
Damnit @fehquig we need to meet! You live In Victoria BC right? I havn't been there since 2007 lol.
MizzCreativeDreamer 2 months ago
I've been mostly here since 1992 LOL PM me next time you're down this way... Come to think of it, Cindy and I are thinking of taking a road trip in Summer up towards Jasper. I'm sure we can work something out!
fehquig 2 months ago
@fehquig I went down the Vancouver couple of years ago, 10 hours away from where I usually stay at lol. I still think you guys should visit Barkerville I can see t being your type of thing since its historic ;-p I'll let you know when I am in Canada again, hopefully it will be this year at some point.
MizzCreativeDreamer 2 months ago
@MizzCreativeDreamer If not next year, eventually! I would love to meet you too. Barkerville looks like a good idea too!
fehquig 2 months ago
Awe, such a nice story :>
Vespur 2 months ago
Thanks! We enjoyed living and telling it :)
fehquig 2 months ago
and then she unbroke your heart, how sweet!
What an awesome story, you two are great:-)
1DRock37167 2 months ago
I was past being over her when Cindy came back into my life, but I'm glad she did...
fehquig 2 months ago
PS. Six years is a long time.
fehquig 2 months ago
It's very interesting to me to hear how the 2 of you met and found a relationship. I can only recall such a relationship between my paternal grandparents. Even though my parents stayed together till death their relationship was chaotic. Most of the relationships of my peers have resulted in disaster. Personally I'm comfortable being a bachelor. It would probably take something similar to your situation to change that.
EdElisea 12/19/11
EdElisea 2 months ago
I think the most important thing is to be comfortable... I was forty-one before we got together for the second time, and I was finally happy being alone. I had resigned myself to being a bachelor for the rest of my life when I got that unexpected call from an old flame...
fehquig 2 months ago
Thanks for finishing the story, I wanted to ask, actually wrote it as a comment- but I thought I was being to nosy SO I deleted it. That is a great story, that bolt of electricity , I understand that completely. I love it, that was great. Great advice about not going to bed mad, I am guilty-
I have done that a few times, I don't like doing it though.
justwant2bhappy 2 months ago
I read your comment already because they all show up in my email LOL We did both parts in one take but the clip came out to seventeen minutes so I had to split it somewhere as I'm not allowed to post vids longer than fifteen minutes on this channel for some reason or another...
fehquig 2 months ago
What a warm story :)
AxeMoose 2 months ago
Yes, it gives me the fuzzies!
fehquig 2 months ago
Thanks for telling your story guys. I love a good ending.
yllekr123 2 months ago
Wait! We're not at the ending yet I hope...
fehquig 2 months ago
@fehquig I guess I was thinking, and they lived happily ever after. I hope it is not the end.
yllekr123 2 months ago
@yllekr123 I get it...
fehquig 2 months ago
Very cool story and great to see you guys going strong and having fun together! Hope you and yours are having a wonderful holiday Season! See ya, Dave
POPARTPRODUCTlONS 2 months ago
Hi Dave... Cindy's going away to be with her family over the holidays and I'll be left at home to work and get the rent money together Since our recent vacation took a bigger bite out of us than expected... I kinda look forward to January.
fehquig 2 months ago
I always tell my kids do not go to bed mad..great advice..
yes The being there in person is the best!
TY for telling your love story.
BIG HUGS
tweetnes 2 months ago
It was our pleasure, Irene... The worst thing you can do in a relationship is hold grudges or give your partner the cold shoulder.
fehquig 2 months ago
Andy and Cindy, i am so glad Cindy came back and you two are so happy together, enjoy every day of it for the rest of your lives, maybe we will get a big youtube wedding yet??
longcara 2 months ago
Why get married? It's just a formality, and legally we have all the rights of married folk...
fehquig 2 months ago
Luv u guys...happy Xmas...
TheFatAussieBarstard 2 months ago
Thanks, Pete... Happy New Year!
fehquig 2 months ago
what is so good with these two vids is the honesty and utter openness that you bring out in the open for us ! Love you guys for that !
dagocleo 2 months ago in playlist More videos from fehquig
Two of the cornerstones of our relationship are openness and honesty... We don't have any secrets. It works very well for us...
fehquig 2 months ago
Second thoughts. Thank God for the right to change ones mind.
PuppyZwolle 2 months ago
Nothing is exactly permanent...
fehquig 2 months ago
lol that was sweet ! lol, if u guys r not married better get !
Reddylion 2 months ago
What for? Common Law is good enough for us...
fehquig 2 months ago
When it's meant to be, it is meant to be.
MrFrozenCanuck 2 months ago
And by the same measure you just know when it's not!
fehquig 2 months ago
goood story. thanks for sharing fehquig
DavidSaintOnge2007 2 months ago
Cindy and I both enjoyed making this one...
fehquig 2 months ago
Great story. I saved the longer one for later; out of time yet again - but I enjoyed this a lot. Sometimes i think making a choice of partner is better done later in life. Passion is still a part of it but no longer over rides the other issues; we value respect, friendship, interests in common more than we did in youth. I wish you many more years (and videos) together! :)
thizizliz 2 months ago
For me, the choice of a partner was a process of elimination that lasted many years... I had met so many women while driving cab, and I have seen them all at their worst. I kept saying to myself which and how many personality characteristics were deal breakers.
fehquig 2 months ago