I love this funeral-approach. Never thought about it like that, but it's crystal clear that it works. If they don't cry at your funeral, get rid of them, ignore them or whatever, but don't let them influence your life. You've got more important things to do.
momo you're the man buddy, just startin watchin your videos tonight, this one just brought a tear to my eye... you're a good dude man... peace and love brother!
How about longer and longer forays away from the old crowd? Gaining confidence that you can make the break? Tasting and gaining a craving for the success? Seeing that it can be done?
Great stuff! I'm telling my personal training clients this all the time. You won't find a Polar Bear in the desert :P Find what you love...then find people who love what you love...it works! Love your vids. :-)
ALSO...just wanna say, to all the people who are gaining positive stuff from Momo, don't forget to SPREAD THE LOVE! If all the 3000 or so people who've seen this (so far) infect all the people they come into contact with in their everyday lives and they, in turn infect other people and so on, well, it won't be long before the world is a MUCH better place! THIS is what the web should be for! Hat's off to Momo!
Love it Momo! Good advice. I've been there myself and I'm so much better off for it.
But I just want to point out to people that 2:43 is a VERY important point. By all means change your friends but stay friendly with your old ones. Just keep them at arms length so they're negativity doesn't affect you. Don't diss them or look down on them once they become acquaintances. You never know, some of them may see your progress and get up off their sorry asses too!
Hey Soklinda..thank you so much for your great vibe and i am so thankful for being able to affect you in a positive way.I thank you and everyone who takes the time to watch and write.Lets take ourselves to the to of our dream chain.See you
It reminds me of something that a friend said to me not that long ago...:"what you need to do is surround yourself with people who think like you do" instead of hanging on to old, stale friendships with people who do not desire to grow or expand their horizons.
Thanks for the power bytes. I've put this into action in my own life and to great benefit to myself... I no longer do many things that I don't want to do or spend time with people who are a negative influence on me. I'm not saying I'm perfect now, just a lot happier. Not the easiest thing to come up with by yourself or to carry out. Just well worth it.
They don't even necessarily have to be a "bad crowd" for you to outgrow them and shift your focus away from them... they could just be apathetic and not understand your goals. You have to find people who want to grow with you.
Absolutely. They may be good people, just not good for you. I used to think that just because a guy made me laugh he was cool. Not so.
Funnily enough, 2 years later, the people I left behind are EXACTLY where I left them. I recently moved into a penthouse and I'm about to launch my own business with my new friends who are cool, funny AND winners. Coincidence? Don't think so.
This is the single most POWERFUL step I took to make a positive change in my life. So cool that Momo is talking about it too. You are the sum total of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Listen to Momo on this, people. You can't be the kind of person who hangs with positive, empowered people AND be friends with negative, narrow minded, also rans. It just doesn't work. Not now, not ever.
Lose the losers and do it NOW!
Momo, the world's a better place with you in it, fella!
Dude I have been working on that same thing. I am worried about losing friends, Again but the other day I was watching a clip somewhere and I heard,~~"If You Can't Change Your Friends, Then Change Your Friends."~~
momo is right ... even when he's is wrong ( idont know win but ?) iam sure he has a solid truth to what he is saying this shit is real... keep that that real muthaphuckkin mantaliy rollin to the people around the fuckking world we needed to hear this shit seriously :)
What you're saying in this video is hitting me more on the family side, but the subject is very close in that respect. My brother doesn't influence me, but I'm tired of being around a self-involved drunk who is unemployed and inconsiderate of others in the home. He takes no accountability for his actions and he's very unwilling to change; even against the word of his family. I'm making a goal to break away from this in this year by getting my own place and finding my peace there. Thank you :-)
My father used to tell me, "You are who you associate with." Unfortunately, I did exactly the opposite of his suggestion and am still reaping the misery from it.
Meglio solo che in mala chompania...old Italian saying...maybe:)
If you cut your "friends" in a small town or small city's there is not much left of people:)So you go on the fuckin net..or something.I really miss more crowded city's...
u deserve more views. wat u do is great but the people who really need this information (i assume) probably dont get to watch these vids. not alot changes in the world because its hard to get the attention of the people who need the right advice
Wow, so true Momo. This is it. I've watched every one of your videos, and they've all skimmed the surface of what I've debated with, they came very, very close. Still absolutely great videos none the less. However, this is the clincher. Right on! You rock buddy.
Very very true. You are what you eat, you become what you consume, you establish an equilibrium with your environment. If your environment is moving in the direction you want to go, then you will move with it with hard work. If your environment is static, you will remain static.
It can also be a bit of "birds of a feather,flock together."
I look out for #1,and happen to wind up meeting generally good friends. If what ever we as the crowd do,seems not as satisfying as I wish,I quickly go for something closer to what I want.
One year ago I cut ties with some very negative and sarcastic "friends" and it was the best thing I ever did! Your video is like an anniversary present!! Thanks Momo - you speak the truth, my friend!
Momo You are rockin with these PowerBytes!! I agree with this advice wholeheartedly. Hee hee if theyre not crying at your funeral get rid of them now!! awesome.. Thanks
Momo, if you haven't read it already, read The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis. It talks about stuff that you talked about today, and I think you'd really like it. It's a quick read.
If you find happieness within Yourself, you do not, necessarrily, need to find it in others. I have always been very carefull choosing who my friends are.. And the friends I have now, though they might not be many, but you can call them friends.
Momo....great power bytes and your positive attitude is awesome...you have passion and insight and I love that your sharing them in your video's...... Momo you rock!!!
All true...But,what about spending more than a year developing a plan with someone you trust and getting fucked off...more than few times-(that can happen,something comes in the way,I get that)...at the end of time,you don't even get a descent answer why.I see it as unfer,played off,..so it is normal to feel bad about it...What do you think?
very wise!!
PaperFace6 1 year ago
The coolest and most helpful guy on youtube!!!
You ROCK momo, thanks for all the vids, there really helpful.
:)
gamerglazer 2 years ago
I love this funeral-approach. Never thought about it like that, but it's crystal clear that it works. If they don't cry at your funeral, get rid of them, ignore them or whatever, but don't let them influence your life. You've got more important things to do.
You rock, Momo.
mariokluser 2 years ago
all of the videos are great i find them very helpful
igec007 2 years ago
Hey igec007 thanks you totally rock. Momo
TheMomoZone 2 years ago
love it!!!!! u r great dude!!! keep goin with ur shiT!!!! LOL
4real1975 2 years ago
Hey 4real1975 thanks my friend i appreciate it YOU ROCK momo
TheMomoZone 2 years ago
momo you rock
igec007 2 years ago
Hey igec007 no you rock..see ya Momo
TheMomoZone 2 years ago
momo you're the man buddy, just startin watchin your videos tonight, this one just brought a tear to my eye... you're a good dude man... peace and love brother!
kaptain333 2 years ago
mmm...power bites
ryallwayne21 2 years ago
MOMO is officially the coolest dude on earth.
ssips720 2 years ago
great advice momo!
ur the best
ssips720 2 years ago
How about longer and longer forays away from the old crowd? Gaining confidence that you can make the break? Tasting and gaining a craving for the success? Seeing that it can be done?
eventide925 2 years ago
Great stuff! I'm telling my personal training clients this all the time. You won't find a Polar Bear in the desert :P Find what you love...then find people who love what you love...it works! Love your vids. :-)
MilitaryCoreBodyFit 3 years ago
ALSO...just wanna say, to all the people who are gaining positive stuff from Momo, don't forget to SPREAD THE LOVE! If all the 3000 or so people who've seen this (so far) infect all the people they come into contact with in their everyday lives and they, in turn infect other people and so on, well, it won't be long before the world is a MUCH better place! THIS is what the web should be for! Hat's off to Momo!
p.s. I meant their in my last comment. Tsk tsk!
awolseb 3 years ago
Love it Momo! Good advice. I've been there myself and I'm so much better off for it.
But I just want to point out to people that 2:43 is a VERY important point. By all means change your friends but stay friendly with your old ones. Just keep them at arms length so they're negativity doesn't affect you. Don't diss them or look down on them once they become acquaintances. You never know, some of them may see your progress and get up off their sorry asses too!
awolseb 3 years ago
Momo's the king, man. Damn, you're such a character. Inspiring. Thank you Momo!
cml89 3 years ago
I love the things you say. They're so beautiful and helpful. I am so thankful.
Soklinda 3 years ago
Hey Soklinda..thank you so much for your great vibe and i am so thankful for being able to affect you in a positive way.I thank you and everyone who takes the time to watch and write.Lets take ourselves to the to of our dream chain.See you
Momo
TheMomoZone 3 years ago
Thnx Momo...
It reminds me of something that a friend said to me not that long ago...:"what you need to do is surround yourself with people who think like you do" instead of hanging on to old, stale friendships with people who do not desire to grow or expand their horizons.
rawlibear 3 years ago
good advice but what kind of korny style does this guy appeal to??
somewhatinspired 3 years ago
What do you mean? Style of dress? Style of person? Soooo let me know hit me back on the really real. pz from PZ
TFizl 3 years ago
He's being himself. He's not "Appealing" to anyone else's style.
Listen to him again. He advocates against being anything but your best SELF.
eventide925 2 years ago
Great video.
Zebonka 3 years ago
Thanks for the power bytes. I've put this into action in my own life and to great benefit to myself... I no longer do many things that I don't want to do or spend time with people who are a negative influence on me. I'm not saying I'm perfect now, just a lot happier. Not the easiest thing to come up with by yourself or to carry out. Just well worth it.
TFizl 3 years ago
They don't even necessarily have to be a "bad crowd" for you to outgrow them and shift your focus away from them... they could just be apathetic and not understand your goals. You have to find people who want to grow with you.
acousvnt 3 years ago
Absolutely. They may be good people, just not good for you. I used to think that just because a guy made me laugh he was cool. Not so.
Funnily enough, 2 years later, the people I left behind are EXACTLY where I left them. I recently moved into a penthouse and I'm about to launch my own business with my new friends who are cool, funny AND winners. Coincidence? Don't think so.
chocolatethunderpua 3 years ago
Thank u 4 taking time out 2 make this video.
This is one of the best vids I have seen in a WHILE.
deschuy27 3 years ago
This is the single most POWERFUL step I took to make a positive change in my life. So cool that Momo is talking about it too. You are the sum total of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Listen to Momo on this, people. You can't be the kind of person who hangs with positive, empowered people AND be friends with negative, narrow minded, also rans. It just doesn't work. Not now, not ever.
Lose the losers and do it NOW!
Momo, the world's a better place with you in it, fella!
chocolatethunderpua 3 years ago
Dude I have been working on that same thing. I am worried about losing friends, Again but the other day I was watching a clip somewhere and I heard,~~"If You Can't Change Your Friends, Then Change Your Friends."~~
You Rock Buddy Keep Up The Good Work.
RandyGrover 3 years ago
Awesome video :)
Thanks..
ilabstudios 3 years ago
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Manbi 3 years ago
This is a GREAT message!
seattlesekhmet 3 years ago
Momo for president!
Rock on! ♫♫♪♪
Rockguitarnow 3 years ago
best power byte yet. keep up the good work.
calibernguyen 3 years ago
I usually watch your videos just before going to gym and I have to say that they give great motivation!
keep up the good work 5/5 ! :D
Johnno3D 3 years ago
MOMO YOU ROCK...
sulivel 3 years ago
momo is right ... even when he's is wrong ( idont know win but ?) iam sure he has a solid truth to what he is saying this shit is real... keep that that real muthaphuckkin mantaliy rollin to the people around the fuckking world we needed to hear this shit seriously :)
187beyond 3 years ago
I've had to do this with relationships before, and it was a lot better for me in the end(even right after, although there was crying and some pain)
People sometimes hold you back either emotionally or with their lifestyle, and sometimes you gotta cut those ties and fly.
This video really helped my husband. Thanks Momo.
Songbottle 3 years ago
This was great !!!!!!!
So true for anyone looking to take their life to the next level.
dustin474hahn 3 years ago
What you're saying in this video is hitting me more on the family side, but the subject is very close in that respect. My brother doesn't influence me, but I'm tired of being around a self-involved drunk who is unemployed and inconsiderate of others in the home. He takes no accountability for his actions and he's very unwilling to change; even against the word of his family. I'm making a goal to break away from this in this year by getting my own place and finding my peace there. Thank you :-)
SerinaJK 3 years ago
My father used to tell me, "You are who you associate with." Unfortunately, I did exactly the opposite of his suggestion and am still reaping the misery from it.
Fatheadious 3 years ago
And it's never too late to change your life, your thoughts, your circumstances--your power is in the NOW.
seattlesekhmet 3 years ago
Thank You!
Meglio solo che in mala chompania...old Italian saying...maybe:)
If you cut your "friends" in a small town or small city's there is not much left of people:)So you go on the fuckin net..or something.I really miss more crowded city's...
XthunderA 3 years ago
Wow, this is so true. A very good reminder if you want to stay productive and not waste weeks and weeks of time accomlishing nothing.
Rock on!
Rockguitarnow 3 years ago
u deserve more views. wat u do is great but the people who really need this information (i assume) probably dont get to watch these vids. not alot changes in the world because its hard to get the attention of the people who need the right advice
Martyncuz 3 years ago
Wow, so true Momo. This is it. I've watched every one of your videos, and they've all skimmed the surface of what I've debated with, they came very, very close. Still absolutely great videos none the less. However, this is the clincher. Right on! You rock buddy.
MattMargolisMusic 3 years ago
Very very true. You are what you eat, you become what you consume, you establish an equilibrium with your environment. If your environment is moving in the direction you want to go, then you will move with it with hard work. If your environment is static, you will remain static.
CanadianNinjaMonkey 3 years ago
Hello,Mom.
It can also be a bit of "birds of a feather,flock together."
I look out for #1,and happen to wind up meeting generally good friends. If what ever we as the crowd do,seems not as satisfying as I wish,I quickly go for something closer to what I want.
Blargaldalien 3 years ago
One year ago I cut ties with some very negative and sarcastic "friends" and it was the best thing I ever did! Your video is like an anniversary present!! Thanks Momo - you speak the truth, my friend!
Anim8torCathy 3 years ago
You are who you walk with..
Chillart 3 years ago
Momo You are rockin with these PowerBytes!! I agree with this advice wholeheartedly. Hee hee if theyre not crying at your funeral get rid of them now!! awesome.. Thanks
luv
D
selfoasis 3 years ago
Momo, if you haven't read it already, read The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis. It talks about stuff that you talked about today, and I think you'd really like it. It's a quick read.
bottleship 3 years ago
Have you ever read the screwtape letters? That's a good one too.
Chivalryaintdead 3 years ago
Your friends are those who know all about you and still like you.
SSparks555 3 years ago
If you find happieness within Yourself, you do not, necessarrily, need to find it in others. I have always been very carefull choosing who my friends are.. And the friends I have now, though they might not be many, but you can call them friends.
SSparks555 3 years ago
great vid.
gerry2345 3 years ago
Rock on Momo!!!
jven11 3 years ago
Power Bites rule! I want more of these
vainihminen 3 years ago
Momo....great power bytes and your positive attitude is awesome...you have passion and insight and I love that your sharing them in your video's...... Momo you rock!!!
gifting4prosperity 3 years ago
FEATURE !! FEATURE !!!
sinnerstefan 3 years ago
Honing your shit! LOL great words!
Chivalryaintdead 3 years ago
All true...But,what about spending more than a year developing a plan with someone you trust and getting fucked off...more than few times-(that can happen,something comes in the way,I get that)...at the end of time,you don't even get a descent answer why.I see it as unfer,played off,..so it is normal to feel bad about it...What do you think?
XthunderA 3 years ago
Thanks Momo for your power bites. They always come at the right time. Love it and ya'll! =)
Carolhope39 3 years ago
nice....right on time! :]
willsmine 3 years ago
Momo, you're a good man
Unscarred1985 3 years ago
momo you simpley raw
pymonster 3 years ago
Hey man, great video, love the new format! Thanks for all the positive vibes you give out. You rock!
Cydonos 3 years ago