thanks for the video so far i'm just confuse because nice guys got bad reputation by fake nice guys aka you guessed it jerks so yes i too am a nice and i'm still a virgin some reason women don't keep their legs close and save it for a right guy they give it to jerks and assholes and pussy beggars and and us nice guys get nothing but left overs can i ask why is that so i can add this to my knowledge and and so you know it annoys me if you can shed some light on this thanks if not i understand
In the bible, in book of First Corinthians Chapter 11 versers 8 and 9 where it says that man is not of woman, but woman of man; neither man was created for the woman; but woman made for man. I read this to figure out why nice & shy guys failed with most women while jerks, gangsters and other bad boys succeed with women. If man was to be of woman, and created for the woman; then Nice guys would succeed with women.
Even after theyve lost their perceived beauty they still wanna pull a good man in....there's a serious sense of entitlement because of anatomical features. Not worth all the trouble in my opinion. The moment you become a slave to the anatomy, its all over. treat it like anything else.....*shrug*
But the Good Guy isn't afraid to stand up for himself if someone-no matter what their gender is-treats them like crap. Nor is he afraid to challenge a woman in friendly debate with her if he doesn't share the same opinion as she does. I guess what I'm trying to say is that its possible to be nice to women, while at the same time being yourself and not taking crap. I've been on all THREE sides of the spectrum. I was the depressed "Nice guy", the Asshole, and I've found a happy spot as a good guy
Great video. But I do think there is a difference between the "Nice guy" and the "Good guy". The nice guy is often times very apologetic, is too afraid to disagree with a woman, won't stand up for himself even if he knows he's being treated wrong, and comes off as desperate. He'd basically come running if a woman snapped her fingers for him. The Good Guy on the other hand enjoys helping others, has good manners, isn't afraid to be himself or even laugh at himself from time to time!
Im a 25yr old nice guy. Iv been rejected a few times and man does it hurt. Thank you so much for taking the time doing this video and i hope u can find yourself a guy who can respect ya and luv ya. Bless ya!!!!!!
true, i haven't been with a girl for 10 years, i try and try, but it never works out, and when nice guys like us do get with the girls, they use and abuse us, but no matter what i won't stoop down to being an asshole
Genuinely, nice guys are more real and comfortable with themselves and assholes are just really the insecure ones deep down and try to play the "bad boy" crap.
It depends on many factors. Is he really a nice guy or just an awkward douche with no balls that looks like bee wee Herman? Is he in an urban area where a truly nice guy would have a hard time in the hock up-meat market culture?
Assholes get chicks. You ever seen an asshole sitting at home crying on a lonely Saturday night, wondering what wrong with him? Of course not. He's out there making it happen. If you're a nice guy, you don't necessarily have to become an asshole, but you do have to get out there and make it happen and act like you don't give a damn what others think.
lol, I'm sorry...it just seems that in my town thats how it goes...maybe someday the one in my town like you will come out of their hiding place...LOL
Actually, I think that a lot of nice guys try to make a girl fall in love with them before ever asking them out. That's an advantage that bad boys have. They don't focus on just one girl, and they don't care about love, so their odds are better to land a fish. Nice guys take so long on one girl that she knows he's not going anywhere, so she grabs the bad boy before someone else grabs him. Anyway, check out my video poem to get a better idea what I mean.
As a lifetime nice guy, I want to say thanks for the video, but I think a lot of younger women want to think that they would pick the nice guy, but when faced with the decision, they always seem to pick the bad boy.
I'm a nice guy. But unfortunately, I have a small penis (in reference to another of your videos). Perhaps most "nice guys" are nice guys because they have small penises -- they don't have that confidence-booster to make them sexually-aggressive and macho.
Well, more accurately they are low testosterone males who are weak, docile and shy, lacking the confidence, muscles and chiseled features that women are programmed to like. Not their fault to be what they are and not the fault of women for passing on them. This is just nature at play. They should legalize prostitution so that the lesser males would have an outlet and society can benefit from happier nerds working hard to get money for the cat house.
yep all these dudes discount how much nature plays into attraction. Nature says, if youre too timid and have no backbone..you have no chance of rearing a family or protecting them. It takes assertion and confidence to be successful in life. But you dont have to be a dick to be assertive and confident,which nice guys lack understanding of. Ultimately, a girls attraction is based off her FEELINGS, so if you cant stimulate all her emotions..youre not gonna be able to 'nice' your way into her heart.
@24Elementman chill the fuck out. Whats wrong is your attitude towards women.. you act like a frustrated chump who cant get his way. The reason why you cant nice your way into a girls heart is because you're proof that nice guys aren't that nice; they just think its a fast track to someone's instead of actually being a socially adept person--which is lazy,cheap, and insulting in a girls' eyes.
@ibmsony101 Your a fucking bitch I'm buff and I'm nice if you don't like that then fuck you and your little Sluts. It is girls fault for passing on good guys for being such a dumb slut. Your just a little faggot that thinks he knows it all but doesn't. Go put a dick in your mouth because we can all tell your a faggot.
thank you kc! and yes, I do miss you guys, i'll try to get on soon...i'm sure my town looks like shit!(and here is where every1 is wondering wtf we're talking about...lol!)
Thats true hun either gay or takin and thank you but for me i need a man to come along lol!!! you ROCK hun your very sweet too you know that take care hun Oh nice tree im not going to have a xmas this year in my next video you know why well got to jet and say sweet
ahh nice guys are either gay or already taken. that is not true, srparrish I know it is hard to find a good man nowadays but don't loose hope, you are raising one that is for sure..
I'm glad you love kind-hearted men.
KhagarBalugrak 4 months ago
thanks for the video so far i'm just confuse because nice guys got bad reputation by fake nice guys aka you guessed it jerks so yes i too am a nice and i'm still a virgin some reason women don't keep their legs close and save it for a right guy they give it to jerks and assholes and pussy beggars and and us nice guys get nothing but left overs can i ask why is that so i can add this to my knowledge and and so you know it annoys me if you can shed some light on this thanks if not i understand
thecrown871 7 months ago
Hello everyone, I
In the bible, in book of First Corinthians Chapter 11 versers 8 and 9 where it says that man is not of woman, but woman of man; neither man was created for the woman; but woman made for man. I read this to figure out why nice & shy guys failed with most women while jerks, gangsters and other bad boys succeed with women. If man was to be of woman, and created for the woman; then Nice guys would succeed with women.
Flxiblemetro 7 months ago
@enterjcs
Even after theyve lost their perceived beauty they still wanna pull a good man in....there's a serious sense of entitlement because of anatomical features. Not worth all the trouble in my opinion. The moment you become a slave to the anatomy, its all over. treat it like anything else.....*shrug*
Spadadiforza 8 months ago
Being nice gets us taken advantage of.....i'll just be a jerk from now on.
Spadadiforza 8 months ago 2
*guy
romans52345 1 year ago
any ugy would Rock this chick's boat...she is a bad example...
romans52345 1 year ago
FINALLY someone on here besides me is speaking the truth! thanks for teaching us men that the nice guy can finish first afterall!
4dhu78889 1 year ago
But the Good Guy isn't afraid to stand up for himself if someone-no matter what their gender is-treats them like crap. Nor is he afraid to challenge a woman in friendly debate with her if he doesn't share the same opinion as she does. I guess what I'm trying to say is that its possible to be nice to women, while at the same time being yourself and not taking crap. I've been on all THREE sides of the spectrum. I was the depressed "Nice guy", the Asshole, and I've found a happy spot as a good guy
Oviraptor78 1 year ago
Great video. But I do think there is a difference between the "Nice guy" and the "Good guy". The nice guy is often times very apologetic, is too afraid to disagree with a woman, won't stand up for himself even if he knows he's being treated wrong, and comes off as desperate. He'd basically come running if a woman snapped her fingers for him. The Good Guy on the other hand enjoys helping others, has good manners, isn't afraid to be himself or even laugh at himself from time to time!
Oviraptor78 1 year ago
Thanks for making this video! I'm easily nice! And I feel that sometime I don't want to be a nice guy because of the feeling of not getting chicks!
Van2Dan 1 year ago
Im a 25yr old nice guy. Iv been rejected a few times and man does it hurt. Thank you so much for taking the time doing this video and i hope u can find yourself a guy who can respect ya and luv ya. Bless ya!!!!!!
redphantom85617 1 year ago
Your a beautiful person and i hope the best in your future
Deathstar931 1 year ago
I used to be a nice guy, not anymore ... ... ...
lefonceur26 1 year ago
Have you ever actually dated a nice guy? Or have you dated only "bad boys"?
KhagarBalugrak 1 year ago
Damn, I'd really like to meet this girl. I'm a nice guy and I love this girl. She's honest and gorgeous.
agentbl 2 years ago
true, i haven't been with a girl for 10 years, i try and try, but it never works out, and when nice guys like us do get with the girls, they use and abuse us, but no matter what i won't stoop down to being an asshole
Deathstar931 2 years ago
the thing is "most" nice guys finish last, not all, 95% finish last
Deathstar931 2 years ago
Genuinely, nice guys are more real and comfortable with themselves and assholes are just really the insecure ones deep down and try to play the "bad boy" crap.
FK4SD 2 years ago 4
I couldn't agree more!
srparrish2000 2 years ago
Girls really do want a nice guy. Bad guys are good at pretending to be nice.
needles1987 2 years ago
I think "Nice guys finish last" is a myth. I know plenty of nice guys who have girlfriends.
needles1987 2 years ago
It depends on many factors. Is he really a nice guy or just an awkward douche with no balls that looks like bee wee Herman? Is he in an urban area where a truly nice guy would have a hard time in the hock up-meat market culture?
ibmsony101 2 years ago
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chizzle72 3 years ago
And Ugly Girls Rock Mine :)
(Lie!)
AceroySangre 3 years ago
im a nice guy.. seems like no girls see me more then a friend... (nice guys finish last)
gamerfan26 3 years ago
Have you ever even asked out a girl?
needles1987 2 years ago
I think it takes real balls to be a nice guy. Unfortunately, most women don't seem to see it that way.
needles1987 3 years ago
I completely agree...are YOU a nice guy?lol :D
srparrish2000 3 years ago
Yes, I am a nice guy.
needles1987 3 years ago
good, now its your responsibility to teach all of the assholes you know how to treat a lady :D
srparrish2000 3 years ago
u are exactly right
crh2010 2 years ago
LIE!
AceroySangre 3 years ago
I'm neither taken, nor gay. x_X;
When you're 29 and not had a date since age 20, it really gets to you. o_o
TheCastellan 3 years ago 5
Assholes get chicks. You ever seen an asshole sitting at home crying on a lonely Saturday night, wondering what wrong with him? Of course not. He's out there making it happen. If you're a nice guy, you don't necessarily have to become an asshole, but you do have to get out there and make it happen and act like you don't give a damn what others think.
A550RGY 3 years ago
Blah blah blah. Show us your tits already.
AlphaTroll84 3 years ago
wow, either taken or gay... that certainly helps boost my confidence a whole bunch...
wait a minute. since I'm not taken...
that's it I'm outta here.
(shoots self.)
Yankeezcap 4 years ago
lol, I'm sorry...it just seems that in my town thats how it goes...maybe someday the one in my town like you will come out of their hiding place...LOL
srparrish2000 4 years ago
you can be a nice guy as long as your: funny, charming and confident
jamo917 4 years ago
Actually, I think that a lot of nice guys try to make a girl fall in love with them before ever asking them out. That's an advantage that bad boys have. They don't focus on just one girl, and they don't care about love, so their odds are better to land a fish. Nice guys take so long on one girl that she knows he's not going anywhere, so she grabs the bad boy before someone else grabs him. Anyway, check out my video poem to get a better idea what I mean.
ccniceguy2 4 years ago
That was a BEAUTIFUL poem! And,btw, I'm not as young as you think ;) In fact, not much younger than you...
srparrish2000 4 years ago
As a lifetime nice guy, I want to say thanks for the video, but I think a lot of younger women want to think that they would pick the nice guy, but when faced with the decision, they always seem to pick the bad boy.
ccniceguy2 4 years ago
Nice guys always gets the leftover when all things are done.
dekinono 4 years ago
I'm a nice guy. But unfortunately, I have a small penis (in reference to another of your videos). Perhaps most "nice guys" are nice guys because they have small penises -- they don't have that confidence-booster to make them sexually-aggressive and macho.
Hmm.
YourTaciturnFriend 4 years ago 2
interesting theory! btw, thank you for being a nice guy...it IS appreciated!
srparrish2000 4 years ago
Well, more accurately they are low testosterone males who are weak, docile and shy, lacking the confidence, muscles and chiseled features that women are programmed to like. Not their fault to be what they are and not the fault of women for passing on them. This is just nature at play. They should legalize prostitution so that the lesser males would have an outlet and society can benefit from happier nerds working hard to get money for the cat house.
ibmsony101 2 years ago
yep all these dudes discount how much nature plays into attraction. Nature says, if youre too timid and have no backbone..you have no chance of rearing a family or protecting them. It takes assertion and confidence to be successful in life. But you dont have to be a dick to be assertive and confident,which nice guys lack understanding of. Ultimately, a girls attraction is based off her FEELINGS, so if you cant stimulate all her emotions..youre not gonna be able to 'nice' your way into her heart.
RNRDOLL 2 years ago
@RNRDOLL Well thats whats wrong dickwad A girl could easily Nice Her way into my heart why can't girls think like that?? Your just a fucking moron
24Elementman 1 year ago
@24Elementman chill the fuck out. Whats wrong is your attitude towards women.. you act like a frustrated chump who cant get his way. The reason why you cant nice your way into a girls heart is because you're proof that nice guys aren't that nice; they just think its a fast track to someone's instead of actually being a socially adept person--which is lazy,cheap, and insulting in a girls' eyes.
RNRDOLL 1 year ago
@ibmsony101 Your a fucking bitch I'm buff and I'm nice if you don't like that then fuck you and your little Sluts. It is girls fault for passing on good guys for being such a dumb slut. Your just a little faggot that thinks he knows it all but doesn't. Go put a dick in your mouth because we can all tell your a faggot.
24Elementman 1 year ago
@24Elementman
I can only conclude from your comments that in addition to your claims of being buff that you are also deranged and there is nothing nice about you!
ibmsony101 1 year ago
i'm nice....and i aint gay...lol
stealurface1976 4 years ago
Then you MUST be taken!lol!
srparrish2000 4 years ago
haha no...but all my exs would probably say i'm not nice...lol
stealurface1976 4 years ago
Oooh pretty tree!
GET YOU ASS BACK ON AC BTW!
kcrojas05 4 years ago
thank you kc! and yes, I do miss you guys, i'll try to get on soon...i'm sure my town looks like shit!(and here is where every1 is wondering wtf we're talking about...lol!)
srparrish2000 4 years ago
Thats true hun either gay or takin and thank you but for me i need a man to come along lol!!! you ROCK hun your very sweet too you know that take care hun Oh nice tree im not going to have a xmas this year in my next video you know why well got to jet and say sweet
joseph
gijoe21 4 years ago
yeah, see...exactly what i mean...your a nice guy...but wont swing my way..lol (its ok...i'll just go sulk in my corner...lol!)
srparrish2000 4 years ago
Woo cool video Shannon, nice to hear something like this from a woman for once :D
smivadee 4 years ago
thank you for the comment,Matt! And yes, I know men like you are taken for granted, but never by me...so thank you for being a "nice guy"...
srparrish2000 4 years ago
ahh nice guys are either gay or already taken. that is not true, srparrish I know it is hard to find a good man nowadays but don't loose hope, you are raising one that is for sure..
nir1971 4 years ago
I wish i was a nice guy...haha!
ExPLiCiTfx 4 years ago
you ARE a nice guy, and will make a wonderful man too!
srparrish2000 4 years ago