I actually have a friend she's a MtF transgendered and i support and love her so much I was so happy when she decided to tell me and start transitioning
That should not be a shock. Effeminate? C'mon! we're having sex with men. That's a pretty effeminate act. How many gays out there wish they were born female so they wouldnt have to go through life with all the discrimination? With that being said, I believe if more gays thougt they would be passable there would probably be more getting sex changes. Yay or nay?
@Xcorgi that's pretty idiotic. Gay sex is not effeminate, and most gay men are attracted to male bodies, and very much enjoy their own body. Transition has nothing to do with wanting to have sex a certain way, it has to do with feeling that your body doesn't match the person you know yourself to be. Lots of trans women still have sex with women after transition, and identify as lesbians, and lots of trans men date men after transition and identify as gay. Educate yourself.
@missbrenn Ok, here I am defending transgenderd and a fucking asshole piece of shit like you has the audacity to call me idiotic. Just for being a dickhead, if you said that to my face in the street I'd stomp a fuckin' mud puddle in your mouthy, scoungy, fucking ass! You are NOT special. Get the hell over it! For some reason once you assholes go post op then all of a sudden you think youre fuckin special and somehow a step above gay men. In general, I defend trans people but fuck you haters!
@Xcorgi I didn't call you idiotic, I said your comment was idiotic, which it was. It wasn't defending anyone. It was a misinformed statement. I've lived in the gay community since I was 14, and I don't know any gay man who wishes he was born a woman, although I know lots of gay men who wish they didn't have to deal with persecution, sure, but that's not the same thing. Threatening to assault someone for disagreeing with you is idiotic too, so here we are.
@missbrenn Just because you use the word educate, does not make you educated, intelligent and especially not witty. You are still a hateful piece of shit who attacked me totally unprovoked. So go suck on a turd!!! for the record, you are aparently as big a hateful piece of shit before getting your dick cut off as you will be after it gets cut off. In your case, they should just stick it up your ass instead of turning it inside out. Are you "educated" now?
@Xcorgi I disagreed with your statement, called it idiotic, and made a case for why I thought it was idiotic.Throughout this I never once attacked you personally. You're making personal attacks and threats, but haven't once tried to support or defend your original statement, which in fact is what I commented on. I really don't think I need to try and prove which one of us is educated or intelligent in this scenario. I'm done.
@Xcorgi and for the record, don't think I'm special, love my gay friends and don't think I'm better then them, and I'm also not post-op, so I go back to my original point, educate yourself.
I'm a FTM who dated girls in highschool only to come to the conclusion that I'm for the most part homosexual. I dated one girl and I was 16 and I have recently found out that she is how I am. Only she is Heterosexual and likes women.
Even though I know how we are, I have a hard time remembering to call her he. Because she was always a woman to me, a crude, loudmouthed, masculine woman. It's not easy to adjust to, even if you understand the person and situation wholeheartedly.
I don't think you need to worry about how to handle the situation, your positivity and the fact that you've made an effort to except her already makes you a damn good human being in the eyes of myself as well and any other transgendered person out there.
This video was refreshing, it's surprising how much prejudice exists regarding the whole subject even amongst the gay community. I guess I missed the meeting where they announced the segregation of the island of misfit toys..
I'm heterosexual and got to this video from sour puch's video contest (??:D), but I liked what you said. I like that you're brave enough to say you're homosexual and I hope that a few years later people will open their minds and accept homosexuals as well as other people. We all have the right to live the ones we love, cheers keep on the good vids!
I really like the fact that after you told that he was now a girl, you started talking about him as "her" instead. I love your point of view on things, and that you're proud of your sexuality. You're just simply an amazing person, love it :)
@TGirlz4lif33333 TRANSGENDERS AND GAYS DON'T MIX I'm a part time cross dresser, but thinking about going on hormones, A transgender will have a better chance in hooking up with a straight guy. Lol!! weird but true.
ROFLMA. "Im still scared of drag queens cause i have a fear of clowns". Dude i know you made this awhile back and you have grown sense that time. But omg. that comment was to funny. And yes, MTFs, many are very sexy women. Drag Queens (not all) tend to go for shock effect, much like clowns.. ;) Later my friend.
What? So if you met an attractive man and he told you he was born a woman you wouldn''t date him? If you're attracted to men and he views himself as a male then he is a male, am I wrong?
I had a flatmate years ago who's father changed sex, it didn't go down well. I felt sorry for both parties....my flatmate felt abandoned, felt like his mother had been betrayed. He totally disowned his father.
I can never tell if aussie guys are gay or not. I watched this video like oh he's hot. And he said he was gay I was like wtf?! Because I'm ONLY attracted to straight guys, idk maybe cause I'm only bu. But then I was like...yea he's still hot.
This guy at school probably he's gay and fuck I think he thinks I flirt with him and thats why he act very bitchy. But no eeww he's ugly, he's acts very bitchy that's why I have to act like I don't give a fuck if he's there. Gays, gays uuuhg. I'm a straight girl. How to tell if he is gay or not? coz he ignores girls and like to talk more with guys. I just hate that he thinks I want something with him or talk to him. Fuck!!
@DoctorRainbow8321 being homosexual and being transgender is not the same thing..but who am i talking!..ur so gay,u can't even think straight...ok u won! faggotty fag fuckturd!
When you're having this conversation with yourself about your feelings toward transgendered folk, substitute the word 'gay' or 'homosexual' or even 'cocksucker' for the word 'transgender' and see how it fits as far as being comfortable with your own bias.
I respect gays but.. why do men wanna become women? Like woman go through monthly mnstrtion and get pregnant and shiat like that): yall men are lucky..
@FingersSoAwesome its not gay men who "want to become a woman". lots of transwomen can pretend theyre gay men(or even straight men) before they "come out" as trans, so that they live a more semi-normal life.
Its not about "wanting" to be a woman, its like your brain just identifies as female. it's embedded in your brain just as much as a trans-girl's brain.. just to get an idea, think if u had to pretend to be a guy yur whole life, most girls dont want facial hair/manly features, or a penis lol
She is still your ex-boyfriend, because she used to be your boyfriend, so she is your ex-boyfriend, (of course if ever you two would be together again, she would be your girlfriend)
If it's any consolation...I kind of have a uneasiness of drag queens, to. I've known some nice and amazing drag queens, but there were some that...I couldn't stand being around. Like, psychopathic.
Well, at the time you slept with her (present) was physically male then - don't let it affect your sexuality. However, even back then in her mind she was always female! Alot, of gay men don't understand - but in that - i never understood many things thats why i read about it or actually cared to ask!!
Hey, I know this vid has been commented on a lot and prettyeyes said it well when she said "ugh, yur too cute to be gay." Anyway, I just wanted to give my two cents- when you dated HER, she was living and presenting as male. That doesn't make you straight because you saw her as HIM and HE was male when you were with her. Because she transitioned, even though she was always female in her mind, you didn't know that because she didn't make that clear to you and she probably didn't know then either.
i don't get it, whats the point if your boyfriend is now a girl and your now a gay man dating a transgender man who's now a woman, thats like dating a woman, no? which makes you bi in a sense, no? i mean i know technically she's still a man but has been surgically changed to a woman now which means your dating a woman now which kinda seems like your not gay but bi but technically your actually still gay cause he's a transgender, idk
@lovelydiva06 Sorry, I didn't mean to confuse. We were dating in '97 and transitioned after we broke up and I hadn't seen her for ever. She got in touch to let me know she was now a woman. We weren't dating at the time
You look like a nice gay (When I mean gay, I mean as in happy gay and gay as in male likes male) man. If you didn't say your were gay, I would have thought you would look like a nice boyfriend for a girl.
Meh. Your ex-boyfriend is now a woman, but she's still an ex-boyfriend because she identified as a he when he/she was in love with you. My conclusions.
I liked your video it is outstanding that your ex bf decided to become at women just to feel comfortable with gender as a bisexual man myself I am very atrracted to both shemales and women.
To anyone here who has had a sex change, do you tell the person youre with that you have had a sex change before you do anything with them? Just wondering.
To be honest all of my trans friends have and would. I have gone through a number of friends freaking out before "coming out" to the interersted guys, but also Trans people are more likely to date people they have known for a while. IDK if this helps. I have found out so much since this vid was made. :-D
@ExplorationB Well, i feel it would have been a bit better to get it from a person who has done this themselves, but your input is definitely helpful. Thanks.
I think it wouldn't have been so shocking if you had known a transexual before this. But you hadn't and she was a major part of your past.
I think that when someone comes out as a transexual person, it's always very shocking because you know that there are going to be very big changes soon.
I'm not sure if it really matters, I mean.. Technically, your ex is still your ex-"boyfriend", I can't help but think it's a little worse when you're dating someone of the opposite, and then they change to being gay, or bi-sexual, and a little part of you is like.. "Was this my fault?" I mean, I believe in the concept that gay people are born that way, like being born in the wrong body. I dunno xD; Ranty, sorry..
Great VLog! Your honesty & quest for knowledge & understanding was refreshing. Came out around the same time you did & volunteered for a LGBT Youth Phone Line. Had the chance to meet transexual & transgendered people in the community. It definitely opened my mind to the fact that the body is just a shell for the person within. Your memories of your ex haven't changed, just your perception of who she is and what she has now embraced in herself. Hope that you did get a chance to meet again. :)
I never even thought what my ex's would feel like lol actually what am I talking about of course I think about that, they were never that great to me and they would die if they saw me now lol
hey dude i no this is really old but thank you for your honesty, i also hope u have a higher understanding of this particular situation so you feel more settled with it.. :)
@ljuze Hey there! Yeah a lot happens in a year. I have a number of trans friends now (I think they outnumber my Gay friends LOL) and am glad to have been shown this opportunity to learn something about humanity! I really need a follow up vid to this. LOL
Hi Mr. B, Thank you for your reply, I wasn't expect that. I think it's wonderful that you have such thoughtfulness for us trannies. And that you have a good understanding for what transsexualism is about, so many don’t. Please continue to share your insight with others. Best regards, Vivian ...Hey, your good lookin!
@VivianMae719 Oh for sure, I think it's importan to not only say "Hey Gay People Deserve Rights!" my feeling is that people deserve rights- full stop. I feel that a few people in the Gay and Lesbian community neglect or shun the trans component. Although they may be different in the journey - they have harder struggles. I think it's important to stay united. I don't know if that makes sense. :-D
Hi ExplorationB, I just read what “gaga19143” who wrote of your "X" about still being a boy without a penis. Your X was never a boy. Its difficult for many people to understand. Trannies are not necessary feminine or gay but could be. It's hormones in the womb during gestation. Gender identity has to do with the “hypothalamus” (Google it). They are simply borne with the feelings that they are female, regardless of their sexual preference or their mannerisms. Best regards, Vivian
@VivianMae719 Hi there Vivian, I really need to do a follow up video to this one. I am so happy that my Ex came out to me as transgendered because it provided me with an opportunity to learn and grow. I have so many trangendered friends now and would not swap the world for any of them. My friends and I are also starting up a GLBT theatre company that wil aim to explore issues like gender identity and encourage Transgendered actors to included. We will be attending the Trans aliance here in Van.
I appreciate your honesty along with your openess to be acceptable of your friends situation. I'm going through transition myself and have been married for 21 yrs. I don't plan on SRS, I prefer to be androgynous, M+F and it's confusing for my spouse as well. To let everyone know, it's just as confusing to us (Going through transition) as it is for those that love and share a life with us. Your kindness and support uplifts us all........Much love!
That's interesting because my sister was telling me how one of her gay friends from long ago also decided to become and woman and she was really surprised because he went all out.
You shouldn't be attracted to her. She is a woman, and since you are gay I would be very surprised if you were attracted to her.
I am married to a very cute, heterosexual man.... You know, being a transgendered girl, I perhaps have some unique insight. She was probably never a gay male, but a heterosexual woman who just happened to have a male body at some point. So yes, she would actually be your girlfriend.
All I can say - I am very much a heterosexual woman, now in body too.
@AgentPepsi1 Oh sorry! I meant never been attracted to Effeminate guys. This was a while back, about a year or so ago and now I have more trans friends than I can poke a stick at! If you move to Seattle I could have one more! It only costs $37 to catch the train to Vancouver!
Heee Heee.... that may actually happen. My husband is being moved by his company to either the Miami area, Frankfurt, or Seattle. I have never been to Canada except for the airport at Montreal.... I have always wanted to see Western Canada though.
I love what you said, but it could also be. The she was just acting more masculine than she really was. I know, when I was a boy, I used to put on an act - especially when I was in high school. At home, I was very "girly" actually
I'm a gay man born with a vigina and I'm together with a gay man, and believe me, he's gay. He was confused at first when I told him that my body wasn't exactly manly and well yeah, but we've been together for three years now and he understands more and more. So it will take time to open your mind to what happens to her, to what happens to you as well, knowing your ex-boyfriend is now a girl, but you'll get there, understanding it. Just give it time, ok? :) <3
no he's still a boy with cut off parts dude, you did not loose your verginity to a girl because you did not enter a girl with your penis.do you see your past with a boy now transforming into memories of a girl just cause he changed "now"?
@gaga19143 No I think I was more trying to express my grief of the loss of the boy who no longer exists. So much has changed since this vid I should post an update, I have made tons of Trans friends, visited them all over the world and am even thinking of attending the Trans alliance meetings in Vancouver. I talked to her on the phone and we reminisced. My first ever gay everything. :-)
@gaga19143 why are u such an asshole. she is a girl now. what is ur problem u hater. nothing is cut off u ignorant fucker. everything is reconstructed back to the way it was when in the womb. we are all born with a vagina. glad to educate u , u ignorant fuck
im a trannsexual and my parents will kill me if they find out 2 more years untili can get a sex change and be me full time i hate it how my parents will freak out if i tell them and i cant dress like a girl much anymore cause there always home :(
@glamoregirl600 I know exactly what you mean. It's the same for me, but only that I'm transitioning from female to male. My parents don't know/don't want to know about it at all. I've tried to drop hints about it by bringing up the topic, but everyone in the house freaks out. I still have at least three more years until I can go to the psychiatrists without my parents knowing. . . hopefully. I then would need at least two of them to agree before starting hormones. long way to go :( ttyl for now.
@glamoregirl600 i know what you mean, i'm in the same position as you... well, they would probably not kill me, but i'm too scared if they find out, so i'm trying to get some money so i can leave home and start a new life, at least I got my friend to help me when i got hard times ^^
@glamoregirl600: :( in sorry i feel for ya! I know that my wife's parents will be the same. just like how my parents are not huge on me liking girls. ihope that everything gets better!
I always prefer when people refer to me as she, not he. When I started living "full time" as a woman I got the second glance at the time. But, I was only on hormones for 3 months when I went full time.
We in the tg/ts community appreciate propper pronouns when addressing us.
@mychelletgirl Thanks! This video was a long long time ago and I now have a handful of Trans friends. I actually met one friend off YouTube last week in Melbourne for Coffee when I visited Australia for my sisters wedding. We're all just people!
@ExplorationB I'm glad you're not one of the many trans-hating gay guys. A lot of gay guys really don't like trans-people for some reason... even though its LGB*T*. I'm transexual too, BUT I haven't told my parents... and don't know when I should :x
I would argue that your ex is an ex boyfriend, because he was a guy when you dated him in 97 and he was a guy when you two split up. The fact that he has changed his sex still makes him an ex boyfriend in my eyes.
@Fiorwestcoast If they're straight, then they don't have anything to do with the gay community, true. I'm also trans, though I do not identify as transgender, and I'm into men. Which makes me gay and also a part of the gay community.
@Littlefire100 well then you look at yourself as a man not a woman sorry hun but its the truth...im am not a gay man and i do not find gays attractive....
why are you showing your friends Hanna of your ex. im pretty she not going to happy about it. i understand why your ex changing becuse that who she is. there are some people who born in the wrong gender and first they thought they were gay...long story
@Naren789 She's seen this video and she loves it. She said that she felt so touched that I would make a video about it, and we talked on the phone. She is fine with me sharing out story.
@louphebe The news was pretty fresh and She was the first Trans person I knew, now I have a number of Trans friends who I keep in contact on a regular basis. I am much better at all the nouns etc now LOL
Your channel is very beneficial in people seeing more than one side of gay, and I thank you for that. In line with that, I'm sure you've heard of "gender dysmorphia". There are some men and women who struggle with that, regardless of their sexuality. Although I don't suffer from that, I am sympathetic to those who do.
this is so strange, i know my ex girlfriend has these kinds of feelings about our relationship, she's not a lesbian so it's similar, in the opposite way.. it's not so unusual for trans women to be dykes. so did she lose her virginity to a girl? etc.
hey, so, we're like opposite things, cept i'm the ex and my ex is you.. but backwards cos she's a girl, but she's straight.. and i'm the girl 'suddenly' but i'm gay..
I wish i had your freinds courage... we aren't something to be afraid of though... even hideous transgendered people can still be beautiful people inside... with a bit of work im sure many of us could pull it off because we embrace femininity... probably some drag queens you know of are overcompensating when they dress because they can't express themselves often enough. Imagine how hard it is for many people to come out gay then x by 10...sad but true...you are cute and sweet by the way
Hi! I kinda understand the feeling of your ex boy friend as I am in the same situation which he (she) might be in when he (she) was with you before. I aam also a gay and have a boy friend. But one feeling I have in my mind is .... I have been eager to become a woman. I occationally dress up like a woman and go out. Crossdressing is the only way that I can explore my feminine side. My boy friend doesn't know that fact that I am a kind of transgendered ... I don't know what I should do now .....
ask a LOT of questions and follow fellow YouTubers. I suggest Bananabread119 and Whatisbeneath two trans friends of mine. They have such a great insight and post regularly. Also my friend lipfix2007 is a great smart resource! good luck! If they are a careing person they will understand but may leave you, not because they don't love you. It's your own personal story. I wish you luck
WoW. What a shock for you. I sort had a somewhat experience but it was the reverse in a way. Over 12 years ago I used to do drag shows and got comfortable looking as a woman where I had dated straight men. Of course I broke out of that and now I'm more in touch with my masculine side. At Christmas time I found out that one of my ex's moved out of state to become a woman. I'm still walking around with my jaw to the ground trying to picture this gym lord transforming into China.
Actually one of my friends who is now a woman used to be a competitive body builder. Amazing I think that people can find themselves and make such bold and brave moves.
Oh I have grown to widen my circle to include many trans people since this vid last year. I would hug her, but she lives in Australia and I Canada... maybe one day!
you should give her a hug for sure and again thank you for being so nice and hinest about us transgender people really are just like eveyone else ! i owe you a hug too.Jenny
I actually have a friend she's a MtF transgendered and i support and love her so much I was so happy when she decided to tell me and start transitioning
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missbrenn 2 months ago
That should not be a shock. Effeminate? C'mon! we're having sex with men. That's a pretty effeminate act. How many gays out there wish they were born female so they wouldnt have to go through life with all the discrimination? With that being said, I believe if more gays thougt they would be passable there would probably be more getting sex changes. Yay or nay?
Xcorgi 3 months ago
@Xcorgi WTF? No way. Being a man's good.
Neurozumim 3 months ago
@Xcorgi that's pretty idiotic. Gay sex is not effeminate, and most gay men are attracted to male bodies, and very much enjoy their own body. Transition has nothing to do with wanting to have sex a certain way, it has to do with feeling that your body doesn't match the person you know yourself to be. Lots of trans women still have sex with women after transition, and identify as lesbians, and lots of trans men date men after transition and identify as gay. Educate yourself.
missbrenn 2 months ago
@missbrenn Ok, here I am defending transgenderd and a fucking asshole piece of shit like you has the audacity to call me idiotic. Just for being a dickhead, if you said that to my face in the street I'd stomp a fuckin' mud puddle in your mouthy, scoungy, fucking ass! You are NOT special. Get the hell over it! For some reason once you assholes go post op then all of a sudden you think youre fuckin special and somehow a step above gay men. In general, I defend trans people but fuck you haters!
Xcorgi 2 months ago
@Xcorgi I didn't call you idiotic, I said your comment was idiotic, which it was. It wasn't defending anyone. It was a misinformed statement. I've lived in the gay community since I was 14, and I don't know any gay man who wishes he was born a woman, although I know lots of gay men who wish they didn't have to deal with persecution, sure, but that's not the same thing. Threatening to assault someone for disagreeing with you is idiotic too, so here we are.
missbrenn 2 months ago
@missbrenn Just because you use the word educate, does not make you educated, intelligent and especially not witty. You are still a hateful piece of shit who attacked me totally unprovoked. So go suck on a turd!!! for the record, you are aparently as big a hateful piece of shit before getting your dick cut off as you will be after it gets cut off. In your case, they should just stick it up your ass instead of turning it inside out. Are you "educated" now?
Xcorgi 2 months ago
@Xcorgi I disagreed with your statement, called it idiotic, and made a case for why I thought it was idiotic.Throughout this I never once attacked you personally. You're making personal attacks and threats, but haven't once tried to support or defend your original statement, which in fact is what I commented on. I really don't think I need to try and prove which one of us is educated or intelligent in this scenario. I'm done.
missbrenn 2 months ago
@Xcorgi and for the record, don't think I'm special, love my gay friends and don't think I'm better then them, and I'm also not post-op, so I go back to my original point, educate yourself.
missbrenn 2 months ago
I'm a FTM who dated girls in highschool only to come to the conclusion that I'm for the most part homosexual. I dated one girl and I was 16 and I have recently found out that she is how I am. Only she is Heterosexual and likes women.
Even though I know how we are, I have a hard time remembering to call her he. Because she was always a woman to me, a crude, loudmouthed, masculine woman. It's not easy to adjust to, even if you understand the person and situation wholeheartedly.
JaPeepers 4 months ago
25 people are racesist
elephant54376 4 months ago
wow that's tough,i don't have any experience but that's gotta be a pretty strong topic
Shotgunryugan 4 months ago
who cares... why does it matter what he did? get over the shock! people change their sex more and more these days...
MarcNfl 5 months ago
I don't think you need to worry about how to handle the situation, your positivity and the fact that you've made an effort to except her already makes you a damn good human being in the eyes of myself as well and any other transgendered person out there.
This video was refreshing, it's surprising how much prejudice exists regarding the whole subject even amongst the gay community. I guess I missed the meeting where they announced the segregation of the island of misfit toys..
EndVsOther 5 months ago
i love your accent :) it's adorable.
brannimikal 6 months ago
I'm heterosexual and got to this video from sour puch's video contest (??:D), but I liked what you said. I like that you're brave enough to say you're homosexual and I hope that a few years later people will open their minds and accept homosexuals as well as other people. We all have the right to live the ones we love, cheers keep on the good vids!
ImSoooLevi 6 months ago
I really like the fact that after you told that he was now a girl, you started talking about him as "her" instead. I love your point of view on things, and that you're proud of your sexuality. You're just simply an amazing person, love it :)
TheMarleney 6 months ago
I really liked your point of view on things.
kgfm29 6 months ago
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it looks like someone kiss you on your neck?
hinata499 6 months ago
Im transgender and whoa your so cute, kinda hard to take my eyes off! xD
TGirlz4lif3333 7 months ago 3
@TGirlz4lif3333 You're way too sweet. Thanks!
ExplorationB 7 months ago 2
@TGirlz4lif33333 TRANSGENDERS AND GAYS DON'T MIX I'm a part time cross dresser, but thinking about going on hormones, A transgender will have a better chance in hooking up with a straight guy. Lol!! weird but true.
btkeeptrying10 5 months ago
Wat a fukken fagget gayy bitchh nasty fucker
831SkaTeRR 7 months ago
@831SkaTeRR If you're going to be a prick.. at least spell the main words in your hate right.. wankass.
xEskimoEmilyx 7 months ago
shit your sexy. too bad i dont have a penis..
josephcandylips 7 months ago
<3 ur so cute xD
qscplmyhb 7 months ago
Haha U gotta love us Trannys :D
Tryvise25 7 months ago
boreing
Monica70207 7 months ago
thumbs up if you saw the lipstik mark on his neck :D
RESPECTtheARCEUS 8 months ago 22
@RESPECTtheARCEUS Ha ha ha! It's a Tattoo!! Good catch!
ExplorationB 7 months ago 8
What made me laugh about this video, is the advertisement on the side for me said "Are you unhappy with your body? GET SURGERY TODAY!" xD
WeLyrics 8 months ago
why are the good looking ones always gay! ur gorgeous :)
IntelligenteEtBelle 8 months ago
hes gay
elephant54376 9 months ago
We as gay people should not judge. Be her friend, that could make a wonderful difference, and will honor you both...
GaryInMilwaukee 9 months ago
ROFLMA. "Im still scared of drag queens cause i have a fear of clowns". Dude i know you made this awhile back and you have grown sense that time. But omg. that comment was to funny. And yes, MTFs, many are very sexy women. Drag Queens (not all) tend to go for shock effect, much like clowns.. ;) Later my friend.
AodhanChance 9 months ago
@TGAmelia If I met a Trans man and I was attracted to him then yes I would date him if I was single.
ExplorationB 9 months ago 6
What? So if you met an attractive man and he told you he was born a woman you wouldn''t date him? If you're attracted to men and he views himself as a male then he is a male, am I wrong?
TGAmelia 9 months ago
I had a flatmate years ago who's father changed sex, it didn't go down well. I felt sorry for both parties....my flatmate felt abandoned, felt like his mother had been betrayed. He totally disowned his father.
vegemitegrrl 9 months ago
he haves a kiss mark in his neck?? :\
baby6889327 9 months ago
I can never tell if aussie guys are gay or not. I watched this video like oh he's hot. And he said he was gay I was like wtf?! Because I'm ONLY attracted to straight guys, idk maybe cause I'm only bu. But then I was like...yea he's still hot.
ichbineincoolcat 9 months ago
This guy at school probably he's gay and fuck I think he thinks I flirt with him and thats why he act very bitchy. But no eeww he's ugly, he's acts very bitchy that's why I have to act like I don't give a fuck if he's there. Gays, gays uuuhg. I'm a straight girl. How to tell if he is gay or not? coz he ignores girls and like to talk more with guys. I just hate that he thinks I want something with him or talk to him. Fuck!!
ConsejosChannelTv 9 months ago
if a girl says " my ex boyfriend is now my ex girlfriend " that would be even more fucked up..lol XD
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@coolpunkxx that's not fucked up you twat
DoctorRainbow8321 10 months ago
@DoctorRainbow8321 actually ur right it's not that fucked up compare to ur tiny brain, for thinking it's normal..fucktard!
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@coolpunkxx Ooh. Sorry, I didn't realize I was talking to an emo, dumbass, homophobic twat.
DoctorRainbow8321 10 months ago
@DoctorRainbow8321 being homosexual and being transgender is not the same thing..but who am i talking!..ur so gay,u can't even think straight...ok u won! faggotty fag fuckturd!
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@coolpunkxx umad?
DoctorRainbow8321 10 months ago
@DoctorRainbow8321 no u r
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@coolpunkxx umad
DoctorRainbow8321 10 months ago
@DoctorRainbow8321 rainbow!
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@coolpunkxx I'm so queer I fart rainbows.
DoctorRainbow8321 10 months ago
@DoctorRainbow8321 hahahaha
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@DoctorRainbow8321 I like turtles
coolpunkxx 10 months ago
@coolpunkxx Turtles are cool but ducks are awesome.
DoctorRainbow8321 10 months ago
Hey, had no idea you were big on YouTube ;)
Keep doing your thing. I just subscribed <3
TheAndyLoraProgram 10 months ago
When you're having this conversation with yourself about your feelings toward transgendered folk, substitute the word 'gay' or 'homosexual' or even 'cocksucker' for the word 'transgender' and see how it fits as far as being comfortable with your own bias.
Dmactds1 10 months ago
just be happy with your vagina
mikerhoa 10 months ago
You are who you are regardless of who anyone else is, was or has become. So good for her and good for you!
YoungTeezy801 10 months ago
You are who you are regardless of who anyone else is, was or has become. So good for her and good for you!
YoungTeezy801 10 months ago
I think your cute :)
Snowflakeblue123love 11 months ago
I respect gays but.. why do men wanna become women? Like woman go through monthly mnstrtion and get pregnant and shiat like that): yall men are lucky..
FingersSoAwesome 11 months ago
@FingersSoAwesome its not gay men who "want to become a woman". lots of transwomen can pretend theyre gay men(or even straight men) before they "come out" as trans, so that they live a more semi-normal life.
Its not about "wanting" to be a woman, its like your brain just identifies as female. it's embedded in your brain just as much as a trans-girl's brain.. just to get an idea, think if u had to pretend to be a guy yur whole life, most girls dont want facial hair/manly features, or a penis lol
DaFawky 11 months ago
make me ur bitch?
pigletpdx 1 year ago
Dude you don't look "gay"...
s3dooooooooooooooon 1 year ago
I am a TS and I fucking love gay men. Better than the closet case men who go after me.
Glyvxx 1 year ago
She is still your ex-boyfriend, because she used to be your boyfriend, so she is your ex-boyfriend, (of course if ever you two would be together again, she would be your girlfriend)
ImaginaryMdA 1 year ago
Eeeeh. You aren't very educated here are you.
Uktrayf 1 year ago
@ExplorationB im a chick and i know youre gay but your really cute and your accent is kickass!! my mom is australian i love their accents
NeonAngel1997 1 year ago
If it's any consolation...I kind of have a uneasiness of drag queens, to. I've known some nice and amazing drag queens, but there were some that...I couldn't stand being around. Like, psychopathic.
Lanedude08 1 year ago
You can share now what you learn from this experience
MrFefe2010 1 year ago
im not gay, but you are a very attractive man
runningwild1231 1 year ago 28
@runningwild1231 Thanks mate! That is a nice compliment. Happy Holidays
ExplorationB 1 year ago 3
@runningwild1231 no, attractive, but sexy and hot :-D :-D
TannygirlNatasha 1 year ago
Well, at the time you slept with her (present) was physically male then - don't let it affect your sexuality. However, even back then in her mind she was always female! Alot, of gay men don't understand - but in that - i never understood many things thats why i read about it or actually cared to ask!!
LadyAlexiasWorld 1 year ago 2
Are you a Madonna fan? I hear the Madonna ring tone. :P
Limegreenyummyyummy 1 year ago
@Limegreenyummyyummy LOl No my friend gave me the phone, it's not mine. ;)
ExplorationB 1 year ago
Bisexuality and gay is the way forward
TheMrMcswall 1 year ago
Hey, I know this vid has been commented on a lot and prettyeyes said it well when she said "ugh, yur too cute to be gay." Anyway, I just wanted to give my two cents- when you dated HER, she was living and presenting as male. That doesn't make you straight because you saw her as HIM and HE was male when you were with her. Because she transitioned, even though she was always female in her mind, you didn't know that because she didn't make that clear to you and she probably didn't know then either.
jenniadriana 1 year ago
Ugh. Your too cute to be gay:'(
prettyeyes96 1 year ago
Your ex girlfriend is a MTF (male to female). would you ever date a FTM(female to male).
CantTrustAnyone 1 year ago
@CantTrustAnyone When I initially did this video I don't think I would, but now definitely. I have learnt so much since then!
ExplorationB 1 year ago 11
@ExplorationB That's good :)
CantTrustAnyone 1 year ago
i don't get it, whats the point if your boyfriend is now a girl and your now a gay man dating a transgender man who's now a woman, thats like dating a woman, no? which makes you bi in a sense, no? i mean i know technically she's still a man but has been surgically changed to a woman now which means your dating a woman now which kinda seems like your not gay but bi but technically your actually still gay cause he's a transgender, idk
lovelydiva06 1 year ago
@lovelydiva06 Sorry, I didn't mean to confuse. We were dating in '97 and transitioned after we broke up and I hadn't seen her for ever. She got in touch to let me know she was now a woman. We weren't dating at the time
ExplorationB 1 year ago
Sexuality is fluid. Who cares. Even if she was a she even then who cares. She probably knew who she was then but hadn't come to terms with it.
lipstickgoblin 1 year ago
@lipstickgoblin Exactly! I know so many transgendered people now, I am so with you on this one. It's def opened up my life to some amazing people!
ExplorationB 1 year ago
You look like a nice gay (When I mean gay, I mean as in happy gay and gay as in male likes male) man. If you didn't say your were gay, I would have thought you would look like a nice boyfriend for a girl.
MeLover99 1 year ago
@MeLover99 Thank you :-) That is very nice for you to say
ExplorationB 1 year ago
Meh. Your ex-boyfriend is now a woman, but she's still an ex-boyfriend because she identified as a he when he/she was in love with you. My conclusions.
Rickyrab 1 year ago
@Rickyrab Yeah you are totally right!
ExplorationB 1 year ago
I liked your video it is outstanding that your ex bf decided to become at women just to feel comfortable with gender as a bisexual man myself I am very atrracted to both shemales and women.
eddiet809 1 year ago
To anyone here who has had a sex change, do you tell the person youre with that you have had a sex change before you do anything with them? Just wondering.
crackerkiller89 1 year ago
@crackerkiller89 Hey bud!
To be honest all of my trans friends have and would. I have gone through a number of friends freaking out before "coming out" to the interersted guys, but also Trans people are more likely to date people they have known for a while. IDK if this helps. I have found out so much since this vid was made. :-D
ExplorationB 1 year ago
@ExplorationB Well, i feel it would have been a bit better to get it from a person who has done this themselves, but your input is definitely helpful. Thanks.
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monkeythong68 1 year ago
I think it wouldn't have been so shocking if you had known a transexual before this. But you hadn't and she was a major part of your past.
I think that when someone comes out as a transexual person, it's always very shocking because you know that there are going to be very big changes soon.
SixtenBengt 1 year ago
I'm not sure if it really matters, I mean.. Technically, your ex is still your ex-"boyfriend", I can't help but think it's a little worse when you're dating someone of the opposite, and then they change to being gay, or bi-sexual, and a little part of you is like.. "Was this my fault?" I mean, I believe in the concept that gay people are born that way, like being born in the wrong body. I dunno xD; Ranty, sorry..
Peachiko 1 year ago
You are looking t your own navel! Dear me this is boring.
bootfonk 1 year ago
Great VLog! Your honesty & quest for knowledge & understanding was refreshing. Came out around the same time you did & volunteered for a LGBT Youth Phone Line. Had the chance to meet transexual & transgendered people in the community. It definitely opened my mind to the fact that the body is just a shell for the person within. Your memories of your ex haven't changed, just your perception of who she is and what she has now embraced in herself. Hope that you did get a chance to meet again. :)
shaych12 1 year ago
I never even thought what my ex's would feel like lol actually what am I talking about of course I think about that, they were never that great to me and they would die if they saw me now lol
Great vids BTW xxx
missglenny 1 year ago
hang on, no picture of her?
Natasha26 1 year ago
@Natasha26 She's Stealth so I respected her privacy.
Sorry :-(
ExplorationB 1 year ago
@ExplorationB then thanks for building up on how pretty/realistic she looks!! :)
Natasha26 1 year ago
hey dude i no this is really old but thank you for your honesty, i also hope u have a higher understanding of this particular situation so you feel more settled with it.. :)
ljuze 1 year ago
@ljuze Hey there! Yeah a lot happens in a year. I have a number of trans friends now (I think they outnumber my Gay friends LOL) and am glad to have been shown this opportunity to learn something about humanity! I really need a follow up vid to this. LOL
ExplorationB 1 year ago
Physically you lost your virginity to a male body but mentally you lost your virginity to a girl.
LukeHand16 1 year ago
Physically you lost your virginity to a male body but mentally you lost your virginity to a girl.
LukeHand16 1 year ago
Hi Mr. B, Thank you for your reply, I wasn't expect that. I think it's wonderful that you have such thoughtfulness for us trannies. And that you have a good understanding for what transsexualism is about, so many don’t. Please continue to share your insight with others. Best regards, Vivian ...Hey, your good lookin!
VivianMae719 1 year ago
@VivianMae719 Oh for sure, I think it's importan to not only say "Hey Gay People Deserve Rights!" my feeling is that people deserve rights- full stop. I feel that a few people in the Gay and Lesbian community neglect or shun the trans component. Although they may be different in the journey - they have harder struggles. I think it's important to stay united. I don't know if that makes sense. :-D
ExplorationB 1 year ago
Hi ExplorationB, I just read what “gaga19143” who wrote of your "X" about still being a boy without a penis. Your X was never a boy. Its difficult for many people to understand. Trannies are not necessary feminine or gay but could be. It's hormones in the womb during gestation. Gender identity has to do with the “hypothalamus” (Google it). They are simply borne with the feelings that they are female, regardless of their sexual preference or their mannerisms. Best regards, Vivian
VivianMae719 1 year ago
@VivianMae719 Hi there Vivian, I really need to do a follow up video to this one. I am so happy that my Ex came out to me as transgendered because it provided me with an opportunity to learn and grow. I have so many trangendered friends now and would not swap the world for any of them. My friends and I are also starting up a GLBT theatre company that wil aim to explore issues like gender identity and encourage Transgendered actors to included. We will be attending the Trans aliance here in Van.
ExplorationB 1 year ago
Honestly, I'm surprised that homosexual men have the exact reaction to this sort of situation as hetereosexual men would have.
AndreaManion 1 year ago
I appreciate your honesty along with your openess to be acceptable of your friends situation. I'm going through transition myself and have been married for 21 yrs. I don't plan on SRS, I prefer to be androgynous, M+F and it's confusing for my spouse as well. To let everyone know, it's just as confusing to us (Going through transition) as it is for those that love and share a life with us. Your kindness and support uplifts us all........Much love!
Rachelxdresser 1 year ago
That's interesting because my sister was telling me how one of her gay friends from long ago also decided to become and woman and she was really surprised because he went all out.
SharinByakuGan 1 year ago
dammmm ur sexy i would totally date u find me on facebook James Sucholl
burqueboi2121 1 year ago
Sweetie,
You shouldn't be attracted to her. She is a woman, and since you are gay I would be very surprised if you were attracted to her.
I am married to a very cute, heterosexual man.... You know, being a transgendered girl, I perhaps have some unique insight. She was probably never a gay male, but a heterosexual woman who just happened to have a male body at some point. So yes, she would actually be your girlfriend.
All I can say - I am very much a heterosexual woman, now in body too.
AgentPepsi1 1 year ago
@AgentPepsi1 Oh sorry! I meant never been attracted to Effeminate guys. This was a while back, about a year or so ago and now I have more trans friends than I can poke a stick at! If you move to Seattle I could have one more! It only costs $37 to catch the train to Vancouver!
ExplorationB 1 year ago
@ExplorationB
Heee Heee.... that may actually happen. My husband is being moved by his company to either the Miami area, Frankfurt, or Seattle. I have never been to Canada except for the airport at Montreal.... I have always wanted to see Western Canada though.
I love what you said, but it could also be. The she was just acting more masculine than she really was. I know, when I was a boy, I used to put on an act - especially when I was in high school. At home, I was very "girly" actually
AgentPepsi1 1 year ago
I'm a gay man born with a vigina and I'm together with a gay man, and believe me, he's gay. He was confused at first when I told him that my body wasn't exactly manly and well yeah, but we've been together for three years now and he understands more and more. So it will take time to open your mind to what happens to her, to what happens to you as well, knowing your ex-boyfriend is now a girl, but you'll get there, understanding it. Just give it time, ok? :) <3
Surfarmia 1 year ago
I love how respectful you are. Keep it up, there's enough hate in the world.
MrImportrans 1 year ago
no he's still a boy with cut off parts dude, you did not loose your verginity to a girl because you did not enter a girl with your penis.do you see your past with a boy now transforming into memories of a girl just cause he changed "now"?
gaga19143 1 year ago
@gaga19143 No I think I was more trying to express my grief of the loss of the boy who no longer exists. So much has changed since this vid I should post an update, I have made tons of Trans friends, visited them all over the world and am even thinking of attending the Trans alliance meetings in Vancouver. I talked to her on the phone and we reminisced. My first ever gay everything. :-)
ExplorationB 1 year ago
@gaga19143 why are u such an asshole. she is a girl now. what is ur problem u hater. nothing is cut off u ignorant fucker. everything is reconstructed back to the way it was when in the womb. we are all born with a vagina. glad to educate u , u ignorant fuck
stefanybody 1 year ago
Totally off topic, but your accent is awesome!~
:'3
NumaNumaRiiko 1 year ago
i just wish i had someone that lived by me thats just like me so i had someone to talk to :(
glamoregirl600 1 year ago
im a trannsexual and my parents will kill me if they find out 2 more years untili can get a sex change and be me full time i hate it how my parents will freak out if i tell them and i cant dress like a girl much anymore cause there always home :(
glamoregirl600 1 year ago 25
@glamoregirl600 I know exactly what you mean. It's the same for me, but only that I'm transitioning from female to male. My parents don't know/don't want to know about it at all. I've tried to drop hints about it by bringing up the topic, but everyone in the house freaks out. I still have at least three more years until I can go to the psychiatrists without my parents knowing. . . hopefully. I then would need at least two of them to agree before starting hormones. long way to go :( ttyl for now.
the2slants3freak 1 year ago
@glamoregirl600 i know what you mean, i'm in the same position as you... well, they would probably not kill me, but i'm too scared if they find out, so i'm trying to get some money so i can leave home and start a new life, at least I got my friend to help me when i got hard times ^^
darkmagi468 10 months ago
@glamoregirl600 same here mama its wierd for me lol
sxytgirl 10 months ago
@glamoregirl600: :( in sorry i feel for ya! I know that my wife's parents will be the same. just like how my parents are not huge on me liking girls. ihope that everything gets better!
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glamoregirl600 1 year ago
poor you
restj63 1 year ago
I knew straight away that you were an Aussie but then as I listened i could hear small bits of the canadian accent coming through.
edaj84 1 year ago
I always prefer when people refer to me as she, not he. When I started living "full time" as a woman I got the second glance at the time. But, I was only on hormones for 3 months when I went full time.
We in the tg/ts community appreciate propper pronouns when addressing us.
mychelletgirl 1 year ago 11
@mychelletgirl Thanks! This video was a long long time ago and I now have a handful of Trans friends. I actually met one friend off YouTube last week in Melbourne for Coffee when I visited Australia for my sisters wedding. We're all just people!
ExplorationB 1 year ago
@ExplorationB I'm glad you're not one of the many trans-hating gay guys. A lot of gay guys really don't like trans-people for some reason... even though its LGB*T*. I'm transexual too, BUT I haven't told my parents... and don't know when I should :x
bonifagurl 1 year ago
btw is that a tatto of lips on your neck/shoulder?
TrappedJoo 1 year ago
haha that'd be wierd but as long as she's happy i guess
TrappedJoo 1 year ago
I would argue that your ex is an ex boyfriend, because he was a guy when you dated him in 97 and he was a guy when you two split up. The fact that he has changed his sex still makes him an ex boyfriend in my eyes.
tejo29se 1 year ago
How hot is that - your ex-boyfriend is now your ex-girlfried? You had the best of both worlds! Lol
theshadow664 1 year ago
well its interesting im transgendered....but your video just makes my point....transsexuals have nothing to do with the gay community...
Fiorwestcoast 1 year ago
@Fiorwestcoast If they're straight, then they don't have anything to do with the gay community, true. I'm also trans, though I do not identify as transgender, and I'm into men. Which makes me gay and also a part of the gay community.
Littlefire100 1 year ago
@Littlefire100 well then you look at yourself as a man not a woman sorry hun but its the truth...im am not a gay man and i do not find gays attractive....
Fiorwestcoast 1 year ago
@Fiorwestcoast Of course I see myself as a man, not as a woman turned male. Besides, everyone had their own preferences, don't they.
Littlefire100 1 year ago
who cares shiut up boring
Tinker8177 1 year ago
why are you showing your friends Hanna of your ex. im pretty she not going to happy about it. i understand why your ex changing becuse that who she is. there are some people who born in the wrong gender and first they thought they were gay...long story
Naren789 1 year ago
@Naren789 She's seen this video and she loves it. She said that she felt so touched that I would make a video about it, and we talked on the phone. She is fine with me sharing out story.
ExplorationB 1 year ago
am an african, from the gayhood to the trans is crazy still tryna picture it men, am straight and happy about that...........
hamlawzz 1 year ago
why do you keep referring to her as he? :O
louphebe 1 year ago
@louphebe The news was pretty fresh and She was the first Trans person I knew, now I have a number of Trans friends who I keep in contact on a regular basis. I am much better at all the nouns etc now LOL
ExplorationB 1 year ago
You should have shown the pictures of her!!
arg110587 1 year ago
@arg110587 Indeed!
onikuma25 1 year ago
Your channel is very beneficial in people seeing more than one side of gay, and I thank you for that. In line with that, I'm sure you've heard of "gender dysmorphia". There are some men and women who struggle with that, regardless of their sexuality. Although I don't suffer from that, I am sympathetic to those who do.
emmtee03 1 year ago
You are SUPER HOT! ..yummie ;)
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samantharockin 1 year ago
this is so strange, i know my ex girlfriend has these kinds of feelings about our relationship, she's not a lesbian so it's similar, in the opposite way.. it's not so unusual for trans women to be dykes. so did she lose her virginity to a girl? etc.
hey, so, we're like opposite things, cept i'm the ex and my ex is you.. but backwards cos she's a girl, but she's straight.. and i'm the girl 'suddenly' but i'm gay..
PoorElbe 1 year ago
I wish i had your freinds courage... we aren't something to be afraid of though... even hideous transgendered people can still be beautiful people inside... with a bit of work im sure many of us could pull it off because we embrace femininity... probably some drag queens you know of are overcompensating when they dress because they can't express themselves often enough. Imagine how hard it is for many people to come out gay then x by 10...sad but true...you are cute and sweet by the way
chrissyisasissy 1 year ago
hi there ur a sexy man i like u woof rick here in the USA come meet me ok
rickyragoo 1 year ago
god! Your so sexy! why do all the gay guys have to be so damn sexy.
LEXISMAMA428 1 year ago
same as me wondering why all the lesbian girls are hot
HJOWLH 1 year ago
Im gay and im usually attracted to straight people!!! lol however, this gay guy is really good looking ;)
Randomidable 1 year ago
Thanks mate ;-)
That is very nice, of all of you guys.
ExplorationB 1 year ago
maybe you do have some transgendered friends---- but you just don´t know it :-)
74stef 1 year ago
dam you are cute and is that a tattoo of lips or one wild hicky
johhb1 1 year ago
Hi! I kinda understand the feeling of your ex boy friend as I am in the same situation which he (she) might be in when he (she) was with you before. I aam also a gay and have a boy friend. But one feeling I have in my mind is .... I have been eager to become a woman. I occationally dress up like a woman and go out. Crossdressing is the only way that I can explore my feminine side. My boy friend doesn't know that fact that I am a kind of transgendered ... I don't know what I should do now .....
miho47 1 year ago
ask a LOT of questions and follow fellow YouTubers. I suggest Bananabread119 and Whatisbeneath two trans friends of mine. They have such a great insight and post regularly. Also my friend lipfix2007 is a great smart resource! good luck! If they are a careing person they will understand but may leave you, not because they don't love you. It's your own personal story. I wish you luck
ExplorationB 1 year ago
ow, you're so nice (:
And your voice is amazing, very hot :P
Bye ^^
ArabicLynx 2 years ago
WoW. What a shock for you. I sort had a somewhat experience but it was the reverse in a way. Over 12 years ago I used to do drag shows and got comfortable looking as a woman where I had dated straight men. Of course I broke out of that and now I'm more in touch with my masculine side. At Christmas time I found out that one of my ex's moved out of state to become a woman. I'm still walking around with my jaw to the ground trying to picture this gym lord transforming into China.
midnitekraft 2 years ago
Actually one of my friends who is now a woman used to be a competitive body builder. Amazing I think that people can find themselves and make such bold and brave moves.
ExplorationB 2 years ago
Thank You for being understanding i wish you a wonderful life and please hug your ex from me !
jennjelly 2 years ago
Oh I have grown to widen my circle to include many trans people since this vid last year. I would hug her, but she lives in Australia and I Canada... maybe one day!
ExplorationB 2 years ago
you should give her a hug for sure and again thank you for being so nice and hinest about us transgender people really are just like eveyone else ! i owe you a hug too.Jenny
jennjelly 2 years ago
Thank you Jenny, your hug is happily accepted. I think I will do a follow up video to this!
ExplorationB 2 years ago
please do and maybe.... and hopefully a photo? HUGS Jenny
jennjelly 2 years ago