The other person always feel unheard. She thinks if I listened very carefully I would totally agree or at least in great parts but I obviously do not. Resentment builds up there.
It becomes nerve-wracking when the other person repeats herself for the 4th time like a machine and still feels unheard while the whole time I don't agree from the very premise.
The thing is I usually can not even be a decisive factor in most of these conversations so the whole thing feels like picking and choosing some of my reactions to random pieces of conversations. I don't know.
She can't tell me what's supposed to come out of it....
The other person always feel unheard. She thinks if I listened very carefully I would totally agree or at least in great parts but I obviously do not. Resentment builds up there.
alleyghost 1 year ago
I mean I listen but still don't agree.
It becomes nerve-wracking when the other person repeats herself for the 4th time like a machine and still feels unheard while the whole time I don't agree from the very premise.
The thing is I usually can not even be a decisive factor in most of these conversations so the whole thing feels like picking and choosing some of my reactions to random pieces of conversations. I don't know.
She can't tell me what's supposed to come out of it....
alleyghost 1 year ago