Forget looks, lets talk personality

[YoungFlowLive]

BEN BREEDLOVE i wish you were still here bro i miss you, you impacted the world you were such a nice guy everyone stay strong keep your head up and we should get through this together :'( much love to you R-I-P <3

[MsSayrahSmiles]

Oh man I looooved bens videos miss him alot ;) rest in peace hon heaven gained ab angel

[hahaha1122van]

Heaven really did gain an angel when Ben passed <3

[CrazyPrincessAttack]

@METROSTATION108 what when did he die?????

[stylishstephiee]

@CrazyPrincessAttack he died this past christmas day </3

[MrAndeyman]

I heard about Ben's story two days ago and last night I had a dream where I was killed by falling off a ledge. I closed my eyes and awoke in a white room, the room Ben described in His Story video. I stood up and saw the same room he explained he saw in their, I looked in the mirror and I saw my self and I asked God if he could bring me back to life I would try and live life to the fullest, that instant i awoke for school and promised I would change and be the best i can be, Thanks Ben RIP

[sexiipimp22]

RIP Ben, you are truly my hero<3 Hope to meet you in Heaven One day. I didn't know you but you are amazinggggg :)

[italia0421]

RIP

[xXxTHRETxXx]

Wow he is so smart and right about everything.. RIP see you soon (hopefully)

[TheCircaAlex]

R.I.P man..

[tyguzman1]

Ur right looks are not important

[amirhobson]

they're both so cute :))

[happythedog55]

you are, by far, one of the most strong, genuine, and compassionate young man i have ever had the priveledge to watch. I hope to meet you one day. Keep on smiling<3

[happythedog55]

Hey Ben. This video is great. Ive watched a lot of your videos and you were such a genuine guy (something that you cant find often!) You really were a spectacular young man and I'm sure you make an extraordinary angel. Hope youre making videos for other angels to watch:) keep smiling; everyone thinks about you everyday. See you again someday (cant wait!:) )

<3 you are such an inspiration and i wish you were here to see that! <3

[8mycrab]

Watch This is my story part 1 and 2 (can be found in the list of videos to the right of this one) if you haven't. Ben went into cardiac arrest early last month but was able to be revived. He describes feeling perfect peace and being proud of himself. He didn't want to "come back". Many of us are afraid of death. HERE IS A BOY WHO WAS AT PEACE, PROUD OF HIMSELF, WITH NO REGRETS. HATERS CAN SAY WHAT THEY WANT BUT THEY CAN'T TOUCH THAT AND THEY KNOW IT.

[StudioSara19]

Your friend Grant looks exactly like my sister's friend Grant but with brown hair!! RIP Ben! :(

[crosscountry223]

r.i.p Ben Breedlove<31993-2011 December 25 2011 Christmas Day.Ben Breedlove When you look down on the world,smile and know that you will be miss and an insperation to many!Your are with God and The Angels now!You are Healthy now!See you in heaven<3 ~Ben Breedlove 1993-2011 12/2

[crosscountry223]

r.i.p Ben Breedlove<31993-2011 December 25 2011 Christmas Day.Ben Breedlove When you look down on the world,smile and know that you will be miss and an insperation to many!Your are with God and The Angels now!You are Healthy now!See you in heaven<3 ~Ben Breedlove 1993-2011 12/2

[TheJBgirll]

I can't stop watching your videos, for some reason it makes it feel like everything is OK and your still here....miss you<3

[MzSkittlez32]

If only guys were more like Ben where I live. :/

[tardz13]

This is horrible (not the video, his death :( He will forever be 17, and there will forever be 17 videos on his channel. Rest in peace

[crosscountry223]

@tardz13

ben was 18 not 17...

[cheerbeastly]

-3 Rest In peace. I wish there were more guys like you in the world....

[Taylorciara123]

<3 R.I.P



[11lovesyouu]

he was an amazing guy and his story made me tear up...save me a spot in heaven <3

R.I.P

[memyselfandpurple]

damn i wish there were more guys like you out there...

[LissaRuthie]

If there were more guys like you the world would be so much better.

[SaraiJewel]

To both of your parents you should be soo proud of what your young men turned out to be.

[bunyins]

GOD BLESS HIM

[EmilysMusic14]

What a great guy. RIP, Hope I'll meet you in heaven one day(:

[kproytube]

ben makes me so happy and confident he allways seemed so happy and proud even though he had very little to be happy about this makes me happy to know that im just alive instead of being sad over stupid stuff. thankyou ben for everything and may you r.i.p

[TiAmo4life]

You are such a beautiful soul.  I know you knew that, but I just thought I'd let you know anyway. Give God a hug from all of us.

[joannatroth]

He was seriously an amazing guy based on this video. I mean personality over looks! That is something you don't hear every day. Much respect to you Ben! I LOVE YOU <3 RIP:)

[xX24YMCMB24Xx]

Dang, what an amazing guy.. R.I.P. man

[XkennahasurcupcakeX]

Wow...

there is almost no words to explain it...

how can i- a total stranger... feel an amazing amount of grief.. he was such an amazing person... <3 rest in peace ben c:

~I do ...

[ifyoucatchmydriftbud]

I'm not a teen, only I can relate. It always feels like within the first five minutes of meeting somebody or when somebody views a video of mine I'm always being judged for how I look before people even know me.This young man is wise beyond his years.

[simpleswaggur]

Rest in peace Ben.♥

[ENDLESS164]

I fell as if Ben was like me .much respect R.I.P.

[48acar19]

Ben, just the fact that you have lived your life around us makes me feel a much better person.

I am a hard core atheist, but I swear I would prey for you, be it to an unknown god!

[diggis21]

what a shame,a son to be proud of,sympathy to his family r.i.p ben

[righe001]

May God always keep you Ben. I have never met you, but would have felt honored to have done so. You have been so brave in your life ...at least now, you are in a world where you can do all that you ever wished to do. For tonight, my prayers will be with you - for I too have been dealing with tragedies of other kind in my life - but your life should have never ended so soon...

May God watch over you, Ben, and may you be able to smile and feel free, like you have never felt before.

[texasprincess200]

RIP ben we love you

[TheEdsonYvan]

im sorry for dont understanding english very much, rest in peace guy. =)

[carmeno411]

The Austin skyline<3333

He's in a better place now.

[mabelxxxbsb]

Guys should get used to be more like him nowadays

[TutorBug1]

R.I.P Ben!! Everyone misses you!!! Any guy who watches this needs to be more like Ben!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[VoidTroopiez]

Rest In Peace from Germany, buddy.

[karena321]

Rest in Peace, Ben.

You are LOVED!~

[jamiejamenson101]

Rip ben your an inspiration and so cute:)

[TalkShow2011]

R.I.P.

[gmgsoccer3]

I just heard about Ben, and his death, and so now I ended up watching his videos and each one kind of wants to make me cry. He seems so genuine, and real, and just so down to earth. I love you Ben. I just can't believe your gone. It doesn't seem real. I mean I don't know you but I just, idek.......

[taylorrox3]

Any girl who got the chance to date this boy is truly blessed. He is the ideal guy and such an inspiration. I wish I would have found these videos sooner. Rest in peace, Ben. <3

[miisshannaa]

I miss you already Ben): but I know you are in a better place 0:)

[Elinnaxoxo]

i wish i had a chance to date him

[Shamberg4]

He is such an angel in this video! And in all of them! But now he is a real angel :) Too bad he had to go so soon, but now his messages are reaching even more people. What an inspirational boy!

[AwesomeBosoxfan]

Ben, just by watching your videos you have taught me so much in such a short time. From not taking life for granted, to focusing on the important things in people. It's truly amazing how you inspired ALLL these people. My true belief is that God needed such a great soul as yours to help him in heaven. Whenever it may be, I look forward to having the privilege of meeting you one day.

Rest In Peace Ben.

[wiseperson02]

You will always be, in my thoughts. RIP

[PEACELOVE1034]

who the hell could dislike this? RIP Ben.<3 i wish more guys were like you.

[peaceluvcupcakes]

You can really see the goodness of Ben in this video. I like how he's encouraging good things. He seemed like such a sweet guy! Rest in peace, Ben.

[iStutterbug]

I adore Ben. R.I.P.

[ffiffixx]

if every boy was like Ben it would aweosme!!! R.I.P Ben you'll be missed <3 <3

[Isthereananswer]

He is amazing. Never have I ever heard a teenage boy say that personality is more important than looks. He will be sadly missed.

[beautybebe00]

I didn't even know him and yet I feel so awful

[allievictoria]

you have a beautiful personality, rest in peace x

[taylorlol23]

i did not even know he died well since i know now R.I.P hope you have a good journey

[xxKhemo]

Such an inspiration man. I cant believe god took him :( RIP Ben. Well see you one day.

[TopHitPlaylist]

he died? :(

[skyemarine]

@TopHitPlaylist he died on christmas night because of another heart attack. :(

[iStutterbug]

@TopHitPlaylist He had a heart condition, he died on Christmas.

[FarAwayDistance]

He really knew how to live his life. <3 What a fantastic young man. God bless<3

[Haziel83]

Rest in peace Ben....I wish i can find someone like Ben but gay and older......Happy new year 2012....Be Gay, Be Proud!

[africanqueen194]

if only all guys were lyke u. the world wud b a better place <3

[NIC0L3182]

R.I.P Ben he would have been an awesome broad caster!!

[TeamRPattinson]

Just by this video.... I love you Ben. RIP. 33 I know you are looking down.. And granted I didn't even know you in real life. Hopefully your my angel. You are sweet, cute, and all of the above. You seemed amazing Ben. God's gift to people.

[falalala98]

Story of my life.

I love you, Ben.

Forever in our hearts, rest in peace.<3

[itsabbyyoo]

He was a really great guy. Rip Ben. We all miss you<3

[shibbydoo322]

He's right, people do care way to much about looks. I have been guilty of this, but usually the #1 rule in my book is the guy just needs to be a genuinely nice person all around. I think it's attractive when a guy is nice to everyone, even "losers" and people they don't like. Friends have called me crazy for liking an "ugly" guy but those "ugly" guys are the sweetest :)

[knottsberry45]

Benjamin Daniel Breedlove

Rest with Jesus, Benjamin Daniel Breedlove. You were such an extraordinary person. Just watching your videos made me fall in love with who you are personally. You were a beautiful person especially on the inside. I loved how you talked about inner beauty in a girl and how you think they are beautiful in their own way with out makeup and primping. That gave almost every girl watching a confidence boost. You also said that all you want in a girl is a great personality. Y

[PetkaBruton]

never forgotten ben

[faithfox3]

you'll be in the place you never wanted to leave,. rest.in.peace,buddie.(:

[pmiddyyy]

wow.. after watching this video i feel even more sad about ben. it really sucks that we had to lose a guy as great as him because i think he really could have made a big impact on our generation. rest in peace.

[deeNayDott]

Gone TOO Soon:(Rest In Paradise Ben Breedlove-3

[missmegancook]

i dont even care if i dont know him, i sat and cried for ages, angels will guide you, and i hope your in the hands of god, i know you will look very hot with angel wings<3

[KnowThe1Dats1TooMany]

Rest In Peace xx from Ireland

[bieberfever6894]

8 dislikes..wtf!!!!!!!!

[bieberfever6894]

Im getting braces in Feb.

[funnyretard667]

Bad and good things happen to EVERYONE.

[MichaelaMay97]

All the bad stuff happens to good people

[AwesomeElias]

It makes me sick how a young smart person like ben died. And not those people that are on drugs, and rob.. We need more people like him in this cruel unfair world.. R.I.P Ben.

[Myerdah1]

@AwesomeElias Your SO right!!

[CrazyisAmy]

RIP Ben - you had both personality AND looks and you were truly amazing! God only takes the best and you really were the best. RIP. <3

[thepresleyfamily]

He always dressed so nicely <3 lol

[glittermonkey11]

I love how he wasnt sacred to be himself and just relax around other people!RIP.

[SuperMiro73]

rip

[abrcrmbieluva98]

i think i'm in love with him... he seems so sweet. i wish there were guys like him where i live. why did he have to die? life is so unfair.

[laurenhopee420]

I didn't know Ben personally, but he seems like the most sweetest and caring guy I have ever seen. It's too bad that he passed, but he is still my idol. I love you ben! Have fun with god and the angels! -3

[mecrazy123]

Now the most genuine and unshallow guy ever= YOU. No wonder the angels asked you to come to heaven..you are amazing.

[purpleroyalty1996]

He had such a good heart <3 R.I.P Ben <3 my condolences to your family

[Alexys3512]

He had such a good heart <3 may he RIP!!!!

[ChloeMcLellan]

Aww! He was such a special person. A genuinely good person. I wish I could have met him. Maybe I still will one day <3

[rachel3527]

Rest in peace Ben, I will truly miss you!

[izzle8103]

R.I.P Yu Will B Missed :(

[dontbeadoorknob]

i love you

[vicklyy]

Rest in peace even though I didn't know about you till and hour ago.. but your story touched me and I think you died a young awesome person and that your and angel 3

[bySwaps]

Live life to fullest because you just never know when your times up.

[Primarus]

RIP

[PleaseDrinkMeAlice]

People are saying it's just "more proof that God doesn't exist" because he died, but I never would have found his story had he not died, and on a sacred day. He's inspired millions of people in a short period of time, half of those would never have seen it and had such an impact on their lives.

[xxbindlexx]

RIP ben-3 i know your having a much better time in heaven!

[PinkFreeze23]

RIP Ben. We all love you so much. <3

[rudemood2011]

This was a nice young kid. Too bad he had to die. He would have made a great person. This is just more proof that god doesn't exist or if he or she does that they don't give a crap about anybody

[NBfilmsTV]

wow this guy has a a huge heart

[SHiMMERx0o]

every guy should take note from these 2 amazing boys !! rip ben <3

[MakeupMadnessTV]

Love you Ben<3 RIP!

[GlossAndGlamour]

Gone but never forgotten </3

[supvball123]

wow. i wish every guy was like both of them. they are amazing. RIP ben <3

[ActiveHippoFred]

@eyeloveyou05 faggot

[careerofbeingblue]

<3

[eyeloveyou05]

okay guys, we all know Ben has passed away, but do we really need to remind people of it on all of his videos? Let's just live in the moment as we watch his videos. we all know he was a great person and he had so much to offer. we all love him to death, but seriously write somewhere else. I don't want to be reminded every time I watch his videos.

[megalrypete]

@eyeloveyou05 I see what you're saying, but you can't just expect people to act like nothing ever happened. We are going to leave comments about how great Ben was, and say what a wonderful person he was, and how he touched our lives. I think that the comments on his videos are a sweet tribute to an amazing guy. If they bother you that much, then just don't scroll down and read the comments...

Love you Ben, RIP <333

[TheJman6360]

Only the good die young!

[holimaan]

BEN BREEDLOVE LIVES.... RIGHT HERE..... RIGHT NOW ..lets just watch and smile...

[iknowimokay]

the good never lasts :(

[leyavf1ava]

Seeing a few of Ben's videos makes me feel like I knew him. R.I.P Ben. You won't be forgotten.

[therealrobvandam]

I agree with alot of what is said, but let's be honest; Looks matter. Yes personality matters too but looks is the first thing you see when you look at somebody. I think this discussion is more directed towards the extremely picky people (people that are turned off for one thing they see as a flaw). So yes I agree nobody is perfect but the bottom line are looks ARE an issue. Would you date a 300 lb girl based on her personality? Chances are you wouldn't. Don't lie guys, looks matter.

[AllisonRose11]

RIP



[xXCaRnAgEXx1000]

Died on such a holy day R.I.P.

[SecretAngel98]

I only watched one of his videos and it is so unbelieveable that someone you barley recognise could die so easily , my prayers go out to him!~ RIP~

[nicolesianabffs4ever]

such an amazing guy, he left too soon. R.I.P. <3

[lizzysayshai]

wait someone answer me. Ben died? like meganheartsmakeup's ex boyfriend's friend? omfg....some please answer me

[mrsbarbie07]

@lizzysayshai yes he died on christmas night because he had a heart condition

[beautybyhaleigh]

@lizzysayshai he died on Christmas from a heart attack. :( his family is accepting donations so they can donate to a charity in Ben's name. Spread the word! its gofundme (dot) com (slash) breedlove

[lizzysayshai]

@beautybyhaleigh omg :( im so sad. i used to watch his old channel's videos , he was such a nice person from what ive seen...this is too heartbreaking , thanks i'll check the donation site :)

[nicolespeaksbieber]

@lizzysayshai yeah. ben died on christmas day :(

[SecretAngel98]

@lizzysayshai yes he died on christmas day.. RIP

[1234hellohello]

same. You will NEVER be forgotten. The message you sent us all was truly wonderful. Look, maybe your life was short. But I am sure in those 18 years you made such an impact and warmed everone's heart. So Thank you. Thank you Ben. You are safe with God now. Rest in peace, We all love you.

[1234hellohello]

Hi Ben. How are you? I am so devasteted to hear that you have passed away. I don't understand why God decided to take you so soon. Life can be so unfair sometimes. I know I never knew you personally, but you always made me smile, and everytime I watched your videos it lightened up my day. You are a beautiful person, Ben. Always was, and always will be. I will never forget the lessons you have taught me, and you will forever stay in my heart. I am sure thousands of people out there will do the ..

[klifesahighwa]

R,I.P You have a good soul

[aqualilly16]

Rest in peace Ben, you are a great inspiration to thousands. You will forever stay in my heart. <3

[WackyWeezyy]

Rip ben. you will never be forgotten

[PindyFLove13]

R.I.P Ben your such a great person ! <3

[Cathrocko]

Rip Ben u are a wonderful person..

[Cathrocko]

U are beautiful

[SammieTalks]

rest in peace ben! ♥ we love you!

[bjs123z]

Looks draw you in, personality keeps you there. That's how it is for me at least. I'm not gonna lie and say that a person's physical appearance doesn't matter, 'cause it does.

[hallelovesdance]

a lot of people say that looks don't matter but honestly i don't think many of you would look past someone's braces, acne, frizzy hair and ugly clothes if they had an awesome personality.

[wtfothermuckerZ]

you guys r amazing

[Guitarandsingforever]

Why cant all guys be like this!! There are so many amazing girls out there who are just waiting to be found if guys could get over the whole looks thing! Keep doing what you guys are doing :)

[smiles5433]

You and Ben are so cute!! Love your date ideas

[shespeaksbeauty]

grant. we r perfect for eachother.. no joke... <3 

[ScarletGoldForever]

You're a cutiee <3 I'm so glad that at least ONE guy doesn't think that looks are everything... jheez . A few days ago, (school just recently started) this guy came up to me and basically said that I'm "way hotter this year", and asked me out. Uhh .. rejected . ;P lmfao !

[illberapping]

Do you and Justin even talk anymore?

[luvglitter16]

i think that i would rather date some one with braces then messed up teeth

[DeskJet1104]

"The first thing you notice is looks, and it's really sad that that's happening." HOW IS THAT SAD? Look, if I can't get aroused while seeing a woman naked, there is NO POINT in having a relationship with her. I don't care how funny they are or how great of a personality they have. I don't have sex with their brain, I have sex with their BODY. I'm not talking down on personality here...I'm just saying that anyone who says they disregard looks is in COMPLETE DENIAL.

[Piinkbubblegumlove]

Lmao I don't think you would ever date a super ugly girl with a awesome personality... Get real

[RealGirlz3]

Sweetheart!

[annesmiless]

Aha, if anything, braces make some people cuter :3

[woodwinked16]

0:11, thiiiis. I'm so glad someone still has common sense! 

[TracyLorimor]

I love this video :) Guys that aren't superficial, we need more of you!

[EventerGal42]

You guys are so amazing :). It's hard to find genuine guys like you. Ben , you're such a sweetheart!

And..

DANNNNNNGGGG, is Grant attractive or what? Marry me? Lol, jk ;)

[MsEsquina]

I wish I could love this (: it makes me feel so much better about myself!

[BeckyLurvesYou]

what planet are you guys from?

i wish guys acted like this at my highschool. :c

[katster1880soccer]

GRANT WILL YOU MARRY ME? :D

[KeepIt1up]

i think:

if someone is funny or has a nice personality theyre instantly more attractive

but let's be real. if im going out with someone i want them to good looking.

i wouldnt break up w/someone if they had braces or acne cause thats ridiculous. but itd be nice if you were good looking or had basic hygeine habits

[caoimhelovessummer]

grant is hot.

[catchingthemariix3]

this is one of my favorite videos on YouTube ever. legit.

[iAutumnable]

When guys text message a certain girl a lot, what does that mean?? Because usually when I or my friends text a guy a lot, it means we like him. Is it the same with guys?

I hope you read this! Keep making videos, PLEASE! Like this so he can see??

[lustbydust]

Look at Ben 3:08 LOL

[QuixoticXmischief]

Thanks for being sweeties :) We need more guys like this.

[XoXoSakuraKissXoXo]

Tonight we're talking about.. BRACES aanddd things like that

oh my god marry me ben

[lola2xoxo]

how could someone not like this video??

[XoXoGossipGiRL12]

well when i go to the mall yeah i think about their looks more cause im never going to see them again. but i wouldnt go out with them just for their looks. im 16 and have never had a boyfriend but every guy that ive liked i dont find particularly attractive look wise anyway

[msbbdarling]

Omg. You are a sweetheart. "It doesn't matter if they have braces or acne." Love this. :)

[ca]

For me, smarts are definitely a deal breaker. I'm towards the top of my class, and if i can't have a conversation about something that isn't superficial, it's wouldn't work. They don't need to be a genius, but I want them to be intelligent.