you're 100% right Pastor Jake, my husband walk away from me and our three children when l was in my second year degree, it was tough with the three children but God is faithful and l completed my degree, God never leave us or forsake us, always there, when man said is finished that's when God start is work on us, l am a woman of God and l am going higher because my God is with me.
I am so thankful to God for those that left me behind... I felt betrayed and hurt at first but after so much thoughts and prayers I am greatful that are gone from my life. I will make sure they will never return :)
I love this message! I am a "walker" I see from a totally different perspective!!! People who were not tied to my destiny had to be stripped so that I can ascend to the mountain top without the hindering extra weighty resistant spirit that complained at my every new step of freedom in Christ ~ God meant this day for me to walk free of all bondage, all relational enslavements, every persecution against my purpose - I am given the easy yoke and light burdens provided by Jesus my Lord & My God!
I love this sermon! I have been waiting this for the last couple if days praying that God give me the gift of goodbye. It's very hard for me right now and I commend everyone that has acquired this gift.
Amen to that! One year ago tomorrow January 8th, my husband came home; told me he did not want me there any longer, I needed to pack my bags and leave. I heard deep in my spirit God say, "Go now." So I told him okay. I left there, taking nothing from "that" kingdom. My life has completely turned around, God has given me HIGHER grounds, taken care of my every need, and has given me more than "that" kingdom ever promised me in the first place. I can testify - Let Them GO!!!! if they want to go.
Pt 2 but in recovery. My message is anyone on the border of ending life - just wait a day, a week because time is healing me, God I hope is with me. Time heals the heart just wait. I thank everyone who posted their stories sounds you are good people. Best wishes for you all.
I was so devastated I tried to kill myself but the cries of my daughter to come home on my voicemail made me stop driving over 100 mph in a empty freeway in the storm. I prayed crying into my wet hands on the side of the road for God to save me from death. I pleaded please hysterically to save me because I any second would drive that car over a bridge. Hours later I saw this video & his words shook me. This was 2.5 weeks ago. I'm in recovery. Isolated a lot in my house office writing my novel.
I met this Christian woman 8 years ago. She left her husband after 13 years Christmas 2003 and came to me saying I was her true husband. She threatened to leave me every week for 8 years so I finally told her last year if she wanted to go I would give her money and she could leave. I was doing well but, she refused. After she spent my money, sabotaged my business affairs and we lost our home, 30 days ago she left me without a goodbye or a word. It was two weeks before Christmas .
this sermon is on time. it hurts when you are faced with a situation like this.... i want to try to make it work..,.. but its not gonna work in the long run Im just gonna let go and let God .....
@1208drew EXACTLY! Honey, its the BEST thing I ever did..when you have time to sit back by URSELF and look at it...I started to shout with JOY in my heart...what a headache turned into HAPPINESS! Keep on praying! God Bless!
first of all I want to say I'm very sorry for the lost of your child my sister..I was married to someone who was my wife the mother of my two children and another mans girlfriend...she locked me out of our house to be with this Dude after 10+yrs of marriage I just left and my teen children were so disgusted they moved out also. dude dumped her and my boy's and I are doing just fine.I don't allow her anywhere around me but,I allow my children to have a relationship with her..SEE YA! (HAPPY)
@1mansdream I was told to listen to this by T.D. Jakes My wife walked out on me 13 weeks ago and she came back later with your sister and brother inlaw to get her clothes and things after 1 year and two weeks of marriage she said she won'ted me to give her some time and space and I said ok three weeks ago I was served with papers if you know what I mine.
@free50daddy my brother,I feel your pain.at first I was hurt and then very upset and after I hired a PI and found out the truth I was seeing red...and thought about all the times she wasn't there for our boys leaving them without rides to get home from after school activities.her sister knew what was going on the entire time she was having the affair. I said to myself I don't need anyone in my life like that.I watched pastor's mike and Dee Dee freeman-spirit of faith and this message. I'm good
I needed to hear this this morning, and agree a thousand fold with damedukes87!!! I've spent several years of my life holding onto someone, who, when I let them back in, would do the same thing all over again!!!
when a father, a dad, a mother can walk away, let them walk and let them carry the shame. So many of us kids grew up trying to be good enough ...the child/children are blessings and some are too weak to see that. God makes us good enough as we are, when we are born, He already created and loved us with his own hands/ breath.
Bishop Jakes, you blessed my soul with this, WOW...!!!!!!!! AND OUCH!!!!!!!! ON THIS ONE seriously, this was down right, coutrified for me, i will recieve this in JESUS NAME AND take head
wow i needed to here and listen to this i have held on to something that has walked away and thought that what i needed was in them, him or her, but WOW! i thank God for this message, I'm letting go, whether it's hard or not
I've been doing this my whole life. Begging for people to stay, what did I do wrong, blah blah blah. I finally learned this. Finally. God will take care of you. I've always found that if you are fighting to make people stay it is because they don't belong in your life anymore. They have to grow and you have to grow. Apart. God Bless!
I watched as my husband packed up all his belongings into a cab and without a word to me, left after only 2 weeks after our baby daughters funeral all the begging, pleading didnt stop him. this message has given me a moment to breathe and just be amongst all the heartbreak and loss.
@reneafraser I'M sorry 4 your lost but my boyfriend walk out on me but it was the best thing happened to me free of fussing and fighting now i;m living my life 4 Christ the best thing that ever happen i should let him left along time ago. stay strong god got your back
Omg what. Relevant word for me... Ig brings forth yet again confirmation, look up to Jesus and don't go back. Only a dog returns to it's own vomit. What god has for me is for me hence that joka left, let him stay gone thank u Lord
@damedukes87 Amen yes yes I totally agree that is why people are being hurt by the same people. They need to let them go I totally got what Bishop was saying I have the gift of goodbye too. Some people think it makes you hateful but not true. I arrive @ that point when I really started to understand GODS WILL FOR MY LIFE. And that some people are seasonal connections and some are life time connections. And only GOD can show you the difference so you r not used up and tricked by the enemy folks
@TheShanda2011 especially people my age need to listen to this but some are too blind or deaf to acknowledge this, I say it like this if you hold on to trash, you are goin to feel like trash.
@gqpostaboi lol just saying some out here will never get this message they are too busy trying to hold on to dead weight and then come with that lie "he or she still love me"
Amem Brotha...Donald I know you did not understand but you did understand I will Love you wether you are right are wrong but my stance is standing in the Lordi hope you are very happy with Marilyn ...baby Nothing just happen!!!
If you see a RATTLESNAKE ready to bite you!Why try to PET HIM?I never have a problem letting someone WALK out of my LIFE!If she wants to go,then there's tha doe!When you LOVE YOURSELF,you will NEVER have a PROBLEM LETTING GO!GOD IS ALWAYS THERE FOR US!
@Glossy2012 If it agrees with the will of God in your life, it may be His will. God will give you someone that is meant to compliment you and you spirit. Learn to defer who is in your life for a season, and who is there for good.
Good bye
tiredofthebs2011 1 day ago
It's just soooooooo HARD to let go!
BreeBam60 1 day ago
you're 100% right Pastor Jake, my husband walk away from me and our three children when l was in my second year degree, it was tough with the three children but God is faithful and l completed my degree, God never leave us or forsake us, always there, when man said is finished that's when God start is work on us, l am a woman of God and l am going higher because my God is with me.
su7yxX 4 days ago
I am so thankful to God for those that left me behind... I felt betrayed and hurt at first but after so much thoughts and prayers I am greatful that are gone from my life. I will make sure they will never return :)
TarikenKEYARI 2 weeks ago
I love this message! I am a "walker" I see from a totally different perspective!!! People who were not tied to my destiny had to be stripped so that I can ascend to the mountain top without the hindering extra weighty resistant spirit that complained at my every new step of freedom in Christ ~ God meant this day for me to walk free of all bondage, all relational enslavements, every persecution against my purpose - I am given the easy yoke and light burdens provided by Jesus my Lord & My God!
van4christ 3 weeks ago 3
@van4christ great comment!!!!!! i agree
gqpostaboi 2 weeks ago
So true!
that80sblackchick 1 month ago
I love this sermon! I have been waiting this for the last couple if days praying that God give me the gift of goodbye. It's very hard for me right now and I commend everyone that has acquired this gift.
lashonda4360 1 month ago
I needed to hear this! Yes Lord!
kk7462 1 month ago
Acquire the "Gift Of Goodbye"!!! Love this!
mombo301 1 month ago
amen! Glorrrryyyyy!
larisa1234larisa 1 month ago
Just do it.........., you will not regret it in the long run.
gant1180 1 month ago
Amen to that! One year ago tomorrow January 8th, my husband came home; told me he did not want me there any longer, I needed to pack my bags and leave. I heard deep in my spirit God say, "Go now." So I told him okay. I left there, taking nothing from "that" kingdom. My life has completely turned around, God has given me HIGHER grounds, taken care of my every need, and has given me more than "that" kingdom ever promised me in the first place. I can testify - Let Them GO!!!! if they want to go.
RikkiAndrews 2 months ago 5
@RikkiAndrews FYI we were married over 14 years
RikkiAndrews 2 months ago
AAAAAAAMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!
WDEMOM2011 2 months ago
@reneafraser praying for healing!
samzilla02 2 months ago
Right on time!!!! Thank you Almighty Spirit for the clarification and lifting me out of confusion. Amen.
aligned576 2 months ago
I cannot tell you how many times I have listened to this, and kept listening to this, and shared it with others. God bless Reverend Jakes!
ThineOwnSelf71 2 months ago
I LISTEN TO THIS C.D. AND IT HAS REALLY HELP ME GET OVER MY HUSBAND LEAVING
THE MARRIAGE AND LOOKING BACK OVER ALL THE HURT AND PAIN I FELT, HE DID ME A FAVOR AND I'M A MUCH BETTER PERSON AND HAPPIER PERSON WITHOUT HIM!
sparkys1angel 2 months ago
Well... Come on Bishop! I just had to grab this and run with it! Wash your face and have another baby!
MemawCharlotte 2 months ago
Let go and let GOD do HIS thang....
LJLewis59 2 months ago 2
Thank you for posting this vid. The lord have really lead me to this video and it's the very words that I needed to hear.
MrProtecter 2 months ago
woooow.. I needed this word at this particular moment. Funny how God can speak through anything.
JCBeautyQueen91 2 months ago
THIS GOT ME THROUGH! I love this message! Amen and thank you jesus!
Ateyaaa 2 months ago
Amen!!!!
keicha48 2 months ago
Pt 2 but in recovery. My message is anyone on the border of ending life - just wait a day, a week because time is healing me, God I hope is with me. Time heals the heart just wait. I thank everyone who posted their stories sounds you are good people. Best wishes for you all.
AmericanWoman1231561 2 months ago
I was so devastated I tried to kill myself but the cries of my daughter to come home on my voicemail made me stop driving over 100 mph in a empty freeway in the storm. I prayed crying into my wet hands on the side of the road for God to save me from death. I pleaded please hysterically to save me because I any second would drive that car over a bridge. Hours later I saw this video & his words shook me. This was 2.5 weeks ago. I'm in recovery. Isolated a lot in my house office writing my novel.
AmericanWoman1231561 2 months ago
I met this Christian woman 8 years ago. She left her husband after 13 years Christmas 2003 and came to me saying I was her true husband. She threatened to leave me every week for 8 years so I finally told her last year if she wanted to go I would give her money and she could leave. I was doing well but, she refused. After she spent my money, sabotaged my business affairs and we lost our home, 30 days ago she left me without a goodbye or a word. It was two weeks before Christmas .
MegaEOM 2 months ago
I can't stop listening to this with the biggest grin on my face, ten words that put everything into perspective :)
semaproductions 2 months ago
AMEN
TheDatfatrat 2 months ago
I DEDICATED THIS 2 SOMEONE SO CLOSE TO ME THAT I COULDN'T TOUCH THEM!! 2 KILL EVIL WITH KINDNESS.
FWASHINGTON80 2 months ago
@FWASHINGTON80 AMEN TO THAT! Kindness kills...amen!
Ateyaaa 2 months ago
this sermon is on time. it hurts when you are faced with a situation like this.... i want to try to make it work..,.. but its not gonna work in the long run Im just gonna let go and let God .....
1208drew 2 months ago
@1208drew EXACTLY! Honey, its the BEST thing I ever did..when you have time to sit back by URSELF and look at it...I started to shout with JOY in my heart...what a headache turned into HAPPINESS! Keep on praying! God Bless!
Ateyaaa 2 months ago
Let them walk! Short and sweet... black and white!
katydo1 2 months ago 2
first of all I want to say I'm very sorry for the lost of your child my sister..I was married to someone who was my wife the mother of my two children and another mans girlfriend...she locked me out of our house to be with this Dude after 10+yrs of marriage I just left and my teen children were so disgusted they moved out also. dude dumped her and my boy's and I are doing just fine.I don't allow her anywhere around me but,I allow my children to have a relationship with her..SEE YA! (HAPPY)
1mansdream 2 months ago
@1mansdream I was told to listen to this by T.D. Jakes My wife walked out on me 13 weeks ago and she came back later with your sister and brother inlaw to get her clothes and things after 1 year and two weeks of marriage she said she won'ted me to give her some time and space and I said ok three weeks ago I was served with papers if you know what I mine.
free50daddy 2 months ago
@free50daddy my brother,I feel your pain.at first I was hurt and then very upset and after I hired a PI and found out the truth I was seeing red...and thought about all the times she wasn't there for our boys leaving them without rides to get home from after school activities.her sister knew what was going on the entire time she was having the affair. I said to myself I don't need anyone in my life like that.I watched pastor's mike and Dee Dee freeman-spirit of faith and this message. I'm good
1mansdream 2 months ago
Love it! Nothing else needs to be said. God is the only one who will never forsake you! Y
ou were born alone and will most likely die alone!
kbreland 2 months ago
@reneafraser I am praying for you...God is our very present help in our time of trouble.
RevSGeoffreyMonts 2 months ago
going to meditate on this video and pray to let it go
Ashiapayne 3 months ago
amen!!!
CaylaRhene87 3 months ago
had to comment to dis video again..... your an inspiration
Ashiapayne 3 months ago
Amen!!!!!
TheDatfatrat 3 months ago
Walk away and say thank you Jesus and see where you are going and don't look back.
alwaysjamming 3 months ago 2
I needed to hear this this morning, and agree a thousand fold with damedukes87!!! I've spent several years of my life holding onto someone, who, when I let them back in, would do the same thing all over again!!!
Qsusie1954 3 months ago
Exaclty what I needed to hear,right on time! Wow!
LopezLoyalty 3 months ago
Oh my! I needed this!!
kccotton 4 months ago
JESUS. I thank God for the gift of good bye. Hallelujah
pslams91lady 4 months ago
when a father, a dad, a mother can walk away, let them walk and let them carry the shame. So many of us kids grew up trying to be good enough ...the child/children are blessings and some are too weak to see that. God makes us good enough as we are, when we are born, He already created and loved us with his own hands/ breath.
TheCynbuck 4 months ago
AMEN ON THAT.
TheDrumKidWorld 4 months ago
Bishop Jakes, you blessed my soul with this, WOW...!!!!!!!! AND OUCH!!!!!!!! ON THIS ONE seriously, this was down right, coutrified for me, i will recieve this in JESUS NAME AND take head
MrLaterian 4 months ago
wow i needed to here and listen to this i have held on to something that has walked away and thought that what i needed was in them, him or her, but WOW! i thank God for this message, I'm letting go, whether it's hard or not
MrLaterian 4 months ago
I really needed this !!! Sometimes I can't understand why things happen & ppl walk away when im there for them but this message was powerful
grurly 4 months ago 2
I've been doing this my whole life. Begging for people to stay, what did I do wrong, blah blah blah. I finally learned this. Finally. God will take care of you. I've always found that if you are fighting to make people stay it is because they don't belong in your life anymore. They have to grow and you have to grow. Apart. God Bless!
Mzkeepingitreal 4 months ago
I watched as my husband packed up all his belongings into a cab and without a word to me, left after only 2 weeks after our baby daughters funeral all the begging, pleading didnt stop him. this message has given me a moment to breathe and just be amongst all the heartbreak and loss.
reneafraser 4 months ago 38
@reneafraser I'M sorry 4 your lost but my boyfriend walk out on me but it was the best thing happened to me free of fussing and fighting now i;m living my life 4 Christ the best thing that ever happen i should let him left along time ago. stay strong god got your back
bookay42 3 months ago
Only Jesus, Only Jesus!!!!!!!!!
Bladesofafro 2 months ago
@reneafraser Godbless You
SkateBoardTARD 2 months ago
@reneafraser I'm so sorry for your loss; I know the feeling. I shall include you in my utmost of prayers ~ God bless U
Hevinlee 2 months ago
@reneafraser
May the Lord keep you thru your trials and troubles,hope TD Jakes message comforts you.
NightinMadrid 2 months ago 2
Powerful
reneafraser 4 months ago
amen to that WOW!!!!
Momonjwall 4 months ago
Myyyyyy God! Thank you for posting this Word keeping my sanity right in this season!
Tjwill 4 months ago
This is a Word in due season. We all need to hear this as we all have been hurt by someone we loved. Let them go and move forward into your destiny!
cwood66 4 months ago
@cwood66
Exactly!!! I learned the hard way. If they are going to walk, nothing will stop them.
katydo1 2 months ago 3
Amen, Amen!
reallifediva1 5 months ago
Amen! This is sooo true. Wish I knew this along time ago.
Rogers01able 5 months ago 2
This is some good common sense preaching. Thank you T D Jakes.
1feltner 5 months ago 3
@1feltner
Absolutely!
katydo1 2 months ago
AMEN..GOODBYE..MOVING INTO MY DESTINY
ms5linx1 6 months ago 2
Omg what. Relevant word for me... Ig brings forth yet again confirmation, look up to Jesus and don't go back. Only a dog returns to it's own vomit. What god has for me is for me hence that joka left, let him stay gone thank u Lord
AnikaEvans1 6 months ago
i had to come back to hear this because i have a Bestfriend whos slowie walking away from me for another friend i have to get this in my spirit
tekoa4567 6 months ago
some people today need to listen to this and quit holding on to people who's going to keep on hurting them
damedukes87 6 months ago 24
@damedukes87 Amen yes yes I totally agree that is why people are being hurt by the same people. They need to let them go I totally got what Bishop was saying I have the gift of goodbye too. Some people think it makes you hateful but not true. I arrive @ that point when I really started to understand GODS WILL FOR MY LIFE. And that some people are seasonal connections and some are life time connections. And only GOD can show you the difference so you r not used up and tricked by the enemy folks
TheShanda2011 5 months ago 3
@TheShanda2011 especially people my age need to listen to this but some are too blind or deaf to acknowledge this, I say it like this if you hold on to trash, you are goin to feel like trash.
damedukes87 5 months ago
@damedukes87 aye....why u talking bought me.lol.......but thanks to God and jakes, I got the message now!!!!!!
gqpostaboi 2 weeks ago
@gqpostaboi lol just saying some out here will never get this message they are too busy trying to hold on to dead weight and then come with that lie "he or she still love me"
damedukes87 2 weeks ago
Amem Brotha...Donald I know you did not understand but you did understand I will Love you wether you are right are wrong but my stance is standing in the Lordi hope you are very happy with Marilyn ...baby Nothing just happen!!!
Yourlioness 6 months ago
If you see a RATTLESNAKE ready to bite you!Why try to PET HIM?I never have a problem letting someone WALK out of my LIFE!If she wants to go,then there's tha doe!When you LOVE YOURSELF,you will NEVER have a PROBLEM LETTING GO!GOD IS ALWAYS THERE FOR US!
MrGoodlee 6 months ago
I really acted up tonight. Needed to hear this preaching. My chilren not currently with me due to health issues.
0906blue 6 months ago
hahahaha halleluyah!!!!! Preach Pastor!!!! Preach :D :D :D LOL AMEN!
taiwee 6 months ago
The gift of goodbye!!!!Jesus....Amen....
MsUnbelievable3 6 months ago
I needed this...
sheerellagance 7 months ago
What if they come back?
Glossy2012 7 months ago
@Glossy2012 If it agrees with the will of God in your life, it may be His will. God will give you someone that is meant to compliment you and you spirit. Learn to defer who is in your life for a season, and who is there for good.
ronniebobsquareskirt 7 months ago
This is one of the most powerful messages of Deliverance I've ever heard!!!
Force1112 7 months ago 2
Amen let them go!!!!!
Keach17 7 months ago
Okay! I can't ask you to stay when you are telling me you're leaving!!!!!
MeNoi38 8 months ago 2
YEEEEESSSSSSS!!!!!! YOU BETTA SAY THAT REV. JAKES!!!
jmac25100 8 months ago
Walk on !
x1KiDDChris1x 9 months ago