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  • You think all Human been has enough time to do all ur suggestions.. LOL!! comon be real the best way is go out n meet a real girl be yourself :)!! real talk nigga !!

  • amazing advise

  • great advice!! Thanks, Vanae

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  • Nice boobies!

  • ya but dating should be free just like youtube paying for a website to find a date should be out lawed who pays for music today who should pay for a date something got any free websites just long in with no cost at all ?? thanks for any tips on free web sites or do i have to just call escort service and pay 150.00 per hr. it is faster and the person will be closers but no photo so how would you know not to throw up your hot by the tho.. how about us hooking up thanks 
  • I 'm looking for a beautiful asian wife like and I will not stop untell i find one...

  • I'm sorry, but this is incredibly uninformative.. I'm sure you were trying to keep some stuff secret for your workshop, but you leave almost absolutely nothing to really sell yourself on having knowledge of online dating. Now I'm not saying you have no knowledge, but you have definitely done nothing but state the very obvious. Sell yourself some more! Give some kind of information that people don't just think of! It'd make you look much more like an expert with this stuff. =]

  • DAMMMMMMMMMM!! very hot mama! What's up sexy!?

  • Nice tits! Can I date those?

  • EYE CATCHING BOOBS.

  • Jamal why don't u practice safe sex and go fuck yourself

  • Most people resort to online dating because they are hideously deformed or are pathetic losers that can't get laid the normal way.

  • vanae how did you create your dating wensite i am trying to do the same and make money online

  • @BiGMANJOE32 Make money? Why don't you just stick to giving blow jobs down at the bus station?

  • @jamaljamal85 Jamal you going to let BigmanJoe sit up here and talk shit to you like that?

  • wow i learn alot think from u i v got real date thanks xx

  • Well, if you want people to listen and focus on what your saying you shouldn't be wearing that top. I saw a online datingtip video before yours from a guy that critisized women that get the wrong attention by having their boobs hanging out. He actually called them freaks that are not suitable for a real relationship, i'm just saying, it's weird.  I will never understand why women have to show their boobs like that unless they are just being fresh and want guys to look at their tits.

  • what u say is true, but what ur suggesting is indeed quite difficult..its very hard to be creative and interesting. im sure that most people out there are interesting but its extremely hard for us to express that way.

  • well i think your hot meet me xxxxxxxx

  • @MrRyanpritchard You fail lmaoo

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  • 2:18 "Don't post photos of your half-naked"

    Actually, men with topless shots got 50% more responses on OK Cupid than men with clothed shots. Look up "The 4 Big Myths of Profile Pictures."

    Also, it turns out that for women, girls with the awkward-angle "Myspace/mirror" shots had the most popular profiles.

  • @maramyfriend - I completely agree about being upfront and honest but note that she does say, "if you're not a dad..."

  • I stumbled on your site by accident and been enjoying the videos and agree with so much you say. But I was compelled to respond to this as you say if you're a single dad no pics of you with the kids.

    I couldn't disagree more.

    As a single dad I would NEVER consider not having at least one picture with my kids on there. What would be the point of advertising yourself and then telling someone down the line that you have kids. Bit better to be up front and honest, is it not?

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  • I'll consider Bebeye Dating Community an ideal site for online dating: it is a 100% FREE DATING community at bebeye.com

  • Or just show your boobs!

  • people who date online are LOSERS!!!

  • @BlackMessiahX How come your mom is on one then..? 

  • I love you.

  • Great tips. Lots of common sense ideas for a great cyber dating profile.

  • You guys are right!! I have experienced the same. They judge your profile, but show some boob and get a hundred emails. Also, they play games or want money. I mentioned I am starting a good paying job,and got replies...so go figure!

  • i love your boobs ,seriously and i m 17 lamo 

  • FUCK BABY you fine

  • hahaha lady ur so funny i will follow ur tips thanx !!

  • loool i find this so funny. ahaha

  • SO this is geared towards men, didn't say on Title.

    OK well if women always complain about guys without shirt shots etc...

    then why is it OK FOR WOMEN TO SHOW BOOB/BIKINI SHOTS?

    Not complaining but that's because women always want it both ways and women wonder why many guys stay single. Us guys can hardly be right about anything.

    Mixed signals honey...

    You can Title the pictures if you are with a nephew or cousin or sister... hello....

    So you don't have to assume anything.

  • @DallasLuvster

    Absolutely. Women can show off their hot bods, but when we do it, we're "vain." Women had show their kids in profiles and are family oriented (cough, cough), but men can't? Are they can show their vehicles/motorbikes and men cannot?

    Hypocrisy. Complete and utter.

  • ur cute

  • Boobs keep popping up and down, lol... not professional although shes sounds it;)

  • Just put 10 inch penis. Taking new patients. Cause your gonna need a Dr. afterwards!

  • Yes, she is doing what all women do in their photos, show off breast,then get mad when guys talk trash...a no no, but it`s a double standard,women bash a guy with no shirt or showing chest,but wearing something low showing there breast. I have seen some with one line in profile, but with a photo like her,gets tons of mail. Us guys may get one or two a week if lucky,and not from hot women..This bites...

  • @GreggW29805 I totally agree....... I left almost the same message.

  • i want to suk that boobs man damn hot

  • you have beautiful breast

  • i clicked on the torrent link, and it sent me to this shit, IS THE LINK TO BREACH HERE?

  • uhh, what did you say? I was staring at your boobs.

  • yea man i've given up on online dating because of the photos she described and some real scary profiles from woman who tried to contact me, sure theres 10000 guys to the 600 women on those dating sites and i've learned one thing, %90 of the women are pure throwbacks no local guy wants. I met some real flakes and crazies on dating sites. Better off meeting a woman at your local gym, work, or out jogging. ...and if you see a beaver shot as a profile pic.. run away fast.

  • Advice 4: If ur out hunting....DO NOT lose time with girls profile that r full of pics and have a big description....those in general just want appreciation, they just want to be seen

  • DO NOT THINK that you`ll get all the girls that you want with these advices, you`ll just have better chances by knowing this....

    P.S.: From 100girls....95 will call you a creeper or looser....4 will talk to you nicely....and one will think that she would like to spend some more with you

  • Advice 3: You started talking to her.....if you feel unsure, OR, you feel like you don`t know what to say....don`t stall....open the astrology subject and let her talk...you`ll win a few with this, just approve with what she sais, and say that ...hey I met someone exactly like that....hey...that`s true... ;)

  • Advice 2 : DO NOT buid an elaborate profile.....again, the ladies judge, write ONLY what is stritly necessary, like...eye color...ur alone....how tall you are and so on.....DO NOT describe your dreams and what you did and what you think....

    Ohh....and for better chances do not say that you want sex or get married or any of that sh!^

  • don`t forget.....ask for oppinion from a good friend of yours...and if she sais....ah...ur cute in this one....use that one to get the girls online....DO NOT ever put a pic that you think ur hot in it, because the girls think verry diffrent then us in terms of cuteness and they may think otherwise.... ;)

  • Advice:On your profile....never put more than ONE photo (one which you know from a former gf or a good friend that ur cute in it).....that`s because if there are more than one....girls tend to judge and say...ohh he doesn`t have that...ohh god, he has that and all that bs

  • Great points. I wish more men have seen this.

  • Cool, thanks.

    I'll point out though, that you can use photos including other people if you want to be associated with them.

  • So vanae is a goddess among women who just knows exactly what all girls think... Um yeah, if you believe gullible isn't in the dictionary.

    Check out okcupid trends for some advice based of actual data collected off tens of thousands of profiles.

    For one, the data shows that it actually helps guys to pose topless if they have a sexy body.

    Also the best pictures are the ones where you're doing something interesting or you're looking off camera(for guys).

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  • @musicguy550 lol? bad experience? because I've yet to experience what you're describing. anywhere.

  • @musicguy550 BINGO.

  • Funny that most heroines go out of their way to show themselves with some form of alcohol in hand, kids, & men. Granted, the situation isn't the same for them as it is for men here.

  • cleavage caught my eye.!

  • my cock is pretty big & full of sperm

  • your cleavage is so distracting :)

  • @quicksiiver She MUST know that.

  • Guys, LOOK @ 4:55 "Don't list your income unless you make over 100,000 k "

    Evidence that all girls are gold diggers!!!

  • @CARPSPUDPICKER It is their nature.

  • This video in itself was pretty "eye catching"...

  • great advise from a chick pressing her rack out of my screen ... ;-)

  • Online dating sucks. Unless you look like Justin Timberlake and have donald trumps wallet and the intelligence. It's designed for women to have more options than men.

  • Its not about looks its more about fame and popularity.Hell even scandal celebrities are faved.

    I tommorow I get famous over you tube then it goes all up in adds etc.

    Its funny how an anonymous gets all of a sudden a topic or something.

  • cunt

  • Tip #1 epic cleavage.

  • your boobs look real nice not trying to be perverted or anything seriously just a genuine honest compliment :)

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  • Online dating is a bunch of fat chicks!!!!!!! A total waste..lmao

  • online dating is bs the only chicks that I dated that looked half as hot as u I met here. I tryed online dating it's all bs. real life and youtube was a fun way to meet people though. Try to meet people here joke have fun and live life. Web cam and five min and boom your there milloins of people here.

  • Hi Vanae,

    Just came across your video while doing research for my documentary. I'd love to get in touch with you and talk further about what you're doing. (which is great by the way)

  • at 3:09 I love how she said ask your girlfriend to take pics. lol

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  • I have a profile on Tagged.com and I make it clear on my profile that I don't like or want kids and that has pissed alot of women off in the past. Now I have no plans to ever taking that off my page. It's going to stay there because I make it clear how I feel abou those little rodents. But is that a problem or is it just me stating what I do and don't want in my life?

  • sorry vanae but honestly..your boobs distract my attention..maybe distracts everyone who watch you x(

  • I came here thinking i was going to get some usefull information. Can I have my 5 minutes back please.

  • wow u r so hot sexy taco hehe

  • honey, u look awesome in that top =) ...

  • I disagree with the part about posting photo's with girls. Girls are more attracted to a girl who surrounds himself with women then guys who do not.

  • great..thanx

  • Vanae, I think its better to post a video than photos, it's more real, like whatcha doing right now which I think it's pretty cool..

    So, most of your boyfriends are found online? really?

  • Dumb bitch. Of course we need to be different.

  • all of the things are true XD

  • Ahhh come on not interested in the luxury cars and house...bullshit !

  • I don't want to post pictures on my profile since I'm in the political lime light, do you think it would be alright to let a woman know that if she includes an email address in her reply you'd be happy to send her pics?

  • You have to redo the video, your tits do not allow men to thing... So cut it out...

  • she me some titties

  • My point was that I do this but I still get messages from fairly decent women. The rules she laid down are not set in stone. One more thing, sorry, I think its more douchey to walk around in a tight fitted shirt AND post it on a dating website than have a photo of you, not posing, doing some kind of activity without a shirt just to give the chick a better idea of what u look like. Thank you!

  • I am on POF and I have a topless shot and one with my buddy. Reason being is that I am sure if a girl likes your face she wants to know what the rest of you looks like. It wasn't a pose shot, or anything douchey and I am not chiseled so I thought I was giving a more thorough description. I would say just make sure your pictures are honest and clear, and if your going to put a body shot, only put one, and don't make it seem like you took it just to post or if its clear that you are ripped.

  • Very informative.

  • I love her titties!

  • same here

  • had to watch this video twice because I kinda got hypnotised by this girl the first time around. jeez...

  • She is not that find man your buggin.

  • u r perfect girl for a wife.. xD

  • Is that Tila Tequila ?

  • Here's my tip ... don't follow tips

    Stupid people should have stupid profiles

    Creepy people should have creepy profiles

    Dull people should have dull profiles

  • god she is hot

  • There's some good practical advice here particularly the semi naked photos. Nonetheless, some of the advice is impractical on websites like Match. For example, favourite things, for fun etc are all limited to 250 characters each. Thus, there's not the space to say what you like to do in any great detail/panache.

    In addition, most people would find it very difficult to come up with an amusing story that a stranger could find funny too. A lot of the time you just have to be there.

  • Some good advice here but I disagree with the comment concerning photos. I think that you should have at least 5 on your own (preferably high quality JPEGs) so it's obvious who are you and they should of course be your primary photos. However, a few photos with you and your friends show that you in fact have mates and that you're not a freak.

    Moreover, there's nothing worse than seeing a badly cropped photo that's obviously been taken with a camera phone.

  • lol hmmm~ no advices 4 girls ? XD

  • this idiot thinks all men are wussbags. that means she never met a real hot cool guy...i wonder why, she looks so average

  • I'm surprised by her comment about not posting photos with other people. I think it's good to have some photos depicting social activity - especially with women. It demonstrates social value. As long as there are several different women in your photos then it won't look like it's your ex.

  • does it get annoying having to push your hair out of your face every few seconds? id assume this would get tiring after a day... a month... a year...?

  • Lol, it's all about style.. If u got the good way to do it, u can't be tired, even after one month. :D

  • Funny how wrong the statement about solo photos is.. cuz women typically dont know it appeals to their subconsciousness. May i advise the person in this vid to open a book?

  • you have nice breast

  • put your boobs in your shirt so i can understand the video ma'am....

  • lol!! it was distracting me as well ;p

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  • Hey Jamesparker19751975 .. It would be wise if you removed your comment. It doesnt really do a lot for you. I also dont see why a girl who has had experience is automatically labelled as a slut whereas a guy who screws around is a hero. Think about it. I think Vanae is doing an awesome job.

  • @sychmusic

    Nonsense. Women nowdays that are "sluts" are praised as liberated and empowered, and when they don't want to be that's their choice, too.

    Players are rewarded because women reward them---it takes two to tango. Whereas women will not stand in line for a guy that others aren't going for either---they would rather go for the top 20 percent than "settle" for an "average Joe."

  • OMG your booooobs :PPPPPPP

  • I find your advice very helpful.Thanks

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  • @viethugzzz

    Look up "Mylene Jampanoi." She's gorgeous.

  • Omg I'm only paying attention to her boobs...seriously...especially when she moves her hands around..

  • thanks for the advice, tits mcgee!

  • It's funny because sometimes theres fake women online too and we guys probablly get sick of writing to a ghost so online dating is a big waste of time unless she is from your state

  • Hello,

    I am having some trouble dating anyone. Do you know anywhere where one can/will date someone with a disability.

    I am legally blind and all the people I met aren't my type.

    Please Help.

  • sorry i got to masterbate..i cannot take this anymore...your boobs is flashing nicely what a nice pair you have..give me more some of that yummyy....

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  • i kind of disagree about the solo photos only

    wouldn't you want a girl to see that you have friends and people of the opposite sex are comfortable with you

    out of the 5 photos i have, one of those are with two females

    not sure how that would be a turn off, but interesting to hear you have another perspective

  • esp if you have photos with females, we start wondering if it's your sister, your friend, if one of them are your exs.

    it's fine to have group photos but not photos with other chicks

  • thanks for the tidbit...i did actually send you an email not too long ago but didn't know you do online consults

    so any pics with any girls is a no no i take it...i'm a bit surprised that it has no chance to come off in a positive light

  • @vanae12 Hey stupid, obviously you should have girls in your photos, guys who do only solo photoshots are fucking sad. Especially if they put anime shit on it. Just sad. What you should have is groups pics, photos with you doing sports, musically instruments, traveling, and with other friends, THATS WHAT WE SHOULD DO, dumb asian bitch

  • @MrPowerraper, I agree with some of what you are saying as far as you don't want anyone thinking your some sort of anti-social loser by having loner pics with anime but just how you approach your argument is sad. Its kinda funny how most comments are actually worth listening to and then here comes your comment, Pathetic, weak and useless.

  • @vanae12 I disagree about the group photos with same-sex friends...how does the person checking out your profile know which one is you?

  • @vanae12

    Your thinking about on field skills astone08. When it comes to profile pictures online its a completely different game with women

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  • @vanae12 Hi Vinae, I just wanted to be shallow and to say that I think your smokin hot!!!  :)