When I was 16, I met the most amazing girl on the planet! Now that I'm 23, we are HAPPILY married. =) Most people say teenage relationships don't last, but this one has! Not many people believe love at first sight, but I know I do! The MOMENT we saw each other, rockets shot into the air for us! It was almost like we've known each other from a previous life or something, but we knew at that moment that we just found love! I was AMAZED at how simple love found us! Love will find YOU one day too!
Maaaan, fuck a BITCH! I saw DON'T CHANGE FOR THEM; WHO THE FUCK ARE THEY AND MADE THEM SOOOO WORTHY OF US MEN TAP-DANCING FOR THEM?? WTF DO THEY EVER DO FOR US?? What do they have to offer?? I'll yoy what....tits, ass, pussy, a pretty face and..... Unecessary DRAMA/STRESS! Period.
If you open your mind and realize the amount of vids of guys complaining about this..that should tell you...TREAT THESE WOMEN LIKE THE WHORES THEY ARE, FUCK THEM AND LEAVE THEM.
Great vid! I too used to be the nice guy. All I got was cheated on over and over again and disrespected. I think alot of it is media fueled and some is just nature. Women see a nice guy as weak. I think a guy needs to show strength, leadership and ability to get women's attention. Women get turned on for weird reasons. Hell, I had a lady watch me build a gazebo for my mom and I thought she was gonna rape me. She even brought me a beer when I was done. Lose the emo wuss look guys act like a man!
@shock80ey I'm glad they are blockin you, woman. You got your ass handed to you on HelperDog's video I noticed. I'm gonna leave you alone now. I'm bored with this back-and forth with you, ok? If you are a guy so BE IT and move on.....
@rang3r34 Are you kidding me haha. Got my ass handed to me? You have no idea how to argue do you? Google "20 most common logical fallacies" and "how to reconstruct an argument."
@rang3r34 So I will take that as " I didn't go look up how to argue because i am scared and don't want to argue logically becaue there is a large chance i am wrong" I didn't get my ass handed to me I offered helper dog, like I offered you, a chance to debate but no instead you insult me and block me which is the EXACT same thing you accuse feminist of doing. Hypocrisy?
We can't help it. It goes all the way back to the cave man days. Bad cave men survived longer, which was good for breeding, the nice guys who got killed by the bad cave men.
you are sooo right!!! Woman don't like nice guys. me, being one i find the nice guy routine very boring... my ex bf was your typical nice guy and he was just too... well... NICE!! it was completely annoying. Even though i never took advantage of him (that's what he admired most about me) he was such a pushover and he was TOO. sensitive. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST NUFF SAID
And another thing...if you have depression or social anxieties you better get them fixed...a prescription is just a dr. Away. Or the result you get from women will only enhance these things.
Bravo brother! Your right most men don't do their homework...men are visual creatures we are ready for sex instantly upon visual verification. Women as we know are emotional creatures they are wired to follow their emotions no matter how much reason and rationality they have and believe me they have it. In a womans mind everything is connected, the house is connected to the phone the phone is connected to the car and so-on. I wish I had women completely figured out but what man does.
The corporate culture (that continually infiltrates a media-saturated society via vested interests) promotes and exults jerk values at every turn while downplaying the immorality, aggressiveness and superficiality of the capitalist system. People strongly resist having their comforting illusions dissipitated, so will construct rationales designed to 'explain away' unfavorable reality. Honesty has never been humanity's strongest suit - it's strongest suit is cruelty, which in turn attracts many.
I think this is just the tip of the iceberg. Women tend to go for jerks and such, but I am just going to have to make my own video on this issue. I got tons to say...
Unless you're a famous cartoonist with a twisted view of the female body, have a bank account or women want to fuck you for looking like Mr. Bean, you can't afford to be a nice guy which is the fat girl's word for curvy. Nice guy = loser and if you want to be a genepool dropout, tell a girl how nice and loyal you are then watch (well imagine 'cause you'll never get to see it in its bloom) as her vagina shrivels up into a rosebud. If you can't backup "nice" with a fuckable trait, no ladylay sorry
This vid is so true. What I'm seeing is that the guys who get the girls first are using game where ,instead of the girl going by their own logic, the guy just convinces her that he is what she wants.
It's sad when a woman is more likely to give you her phone number when you tell her to instead of when you ask. :( But that's the majority of the modern women. Nice guys will have to adapt or just settle for "step dad".
@msagnosticatheist I disagree with you here, you say most would date a hot bitch over a nice fat girl, your examples are too extreme. Bitches can be ugly too and most me would tap them but not date them believe me, and about "fat nice" that's wrong cuz men like a girl with some meat on her bones but not FAT cuz that means she doesn't take care of herself not matter how nice. In general, between fit and "thick" , with a fun type of personality that's what most guys would be willing to date (bitc
Wow, after reading more of these comments i see so many 'nice guys' let their bitterness run wild. This is why women don't bother with you because we can see through you fake niceness. Evolution explains both sexes preferences. Men only care about looks, don't bother saying otherwise because you know you are lying. Most would date a 'bitch' that is hot over a 'fat' nice girl. Oh my do we have hypocrites here! I have yet to here any man compliment or brag on his buddy on how 'nice' his girl is!
@MsAgnosticatheist umm ive dated fat girls who treated me like shit. just like girls/bitches like u dont date guys that you dont like. most of the time u sawy "ewww" like cunts. cunt.
The problem with most 'nice guys' is that they aren't really nice, they are just pushovers. They have no balls and will not stand up for themselves or even their women. Women want a strong man that will defend them and be able to wear the pants in the relationship. They don't have an opinion about anything and let you run over top of them or being way too agreeable. What motivates them isn’t kindness but fear. You will not get a woman's respect if you are like this.
Also I'm from America and I know for a fact that most younger girls want thugs. But WOMEN want real men. not low lifes who do nothing with their lives. You just got to go for us girls with brains, we want the good guys.
Not all girls are the same. I was initially attracted to my boyfriend because he was sweet and we had alot in common. Him being cute was just a bonus. He is the one who took my virginity and the only one I've been with since. We are still together and planning to keep it that way. My point is that not all girls go for the 'alpha' type. My man is nice, he treats me good and is a bit cheesy but thats what I love about him. No other could take his place. :)
We live in an increasingly globalised world today gentlemen, which means the language and cultural barriers are nowhere near as extreme as they were in the past. If you aren't happy with women you are meeting in your own country, date foreign women. I know guys that have done that and they are extremely happy.
@7hom Not true. My boyfriend and I were both virgins when we got together. He is the man who took my virginity and he is the only one I've been with since and vise versa. Nobody wants a dirty manslut except equally dirty whores.
This happens only in America and may be other western english speaking countries. Women from south america, africa, eastern europe, asia and most of western europe only date nice guys as far as I know. So if u can't get one of these thug loving americunts, just go abroad. Get out of the US matrix
And remember this well, nice/good guys: a woman have two needs in life: mate with the "alpha" male for the best genes (however bullshit that "alpha" mask may be) and find a mate for the resources and support he can provide.
DO NOT become someone else's Captain Save-a-ho and do not fall for this. She would tell you she loves you (and probably do) but it would be because she loves that you provide for her...
She would still be fucking other guys behind your back..
Most of the contemporary world is caught up in an unconscious and gigantic conspiracy to ignore facts while embracing comforting propaganda and illusions. The late George Carlin spoke at length on this, that latter 20th Century people had devised an entire lexicon/public discourse of euphemistic language intended to obscure reality and champion deceptive belief systems. This, for example, explains a great deal about the US in general. Never underestimate the power of denial.
wrong frame of mind Ive been living..........its simple do not show someone to much attention or love if they do not give it in return, you dont necessarily gotta be a prick just dont be a stepping stone
What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?
I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.
Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)
What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?
I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.
Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)
If you are going to get together with a girl that acts of impulse and insticnt, you might as well go marry that monkey in a zoo or go find that bitch on heat roaming through the streets. THAT, good/nice guys, is what makes better genes. The ones that still act on instinct and impulse are simply degenerates deevolving, or in actuality making our gene pool weak. You do not need that. Besides, you have already waited for 8-10 years for that good woman...
I deserve someone who 1) is not someone's sloppy 30ths or 40ths, 2) have intellect and don't go off on instinct and impulses like an animal in heat on the jungle, 3) that can take care of themselves and 4) be adventurous. Everything else is negotiable.
That whole alpha male atraction is true but it shows how degenerate of a person such woman is. We did not become the most dominant species of the world by instinct or impulse; we became such by INTELLECT: the ability to learn and reason.
For the first time in my life, I truly know, now, what my worth is and I am quite proud of myself for being that guy. Not because some bitch in heat who bangs any wannabe bad ass tells me to stay like that, no. (They tell us that because, once they are past their most attractive years, they want to settle down since they get tired of that life).
have been taking inventory. I am in the US Marines, 24 years old, I only had sex 3 times in my life (so I am still very fresh), I will start attending college again on March 3rd, I will be an aprentince computer networking for Coca Cola which would mean I will have a great job that pays 65 thousand a year waiting for me in 3 years or so.
There is no such thing as perfect...but there are limits. I have been labeled for most of my life as the good/nice guy (they really are the same thing; whores and sluts simply perverted the former to have an excuse to keep being what they are). Don't confuse us with the needy or the desperate, please.
Woman want excitement not mundane things. "Nice guys" often seem boring and insufficient. Hell, even men in maximum security prisons have beautiful wives. Some may even say being an a** is a much more efficient way to attract women then being the overly sincere and nice guy.
@RB902050 The problem with "nice guys", is that, they're "motherstruck"...that is, in childhood, their mothers were usually overprotective, or submissive, or neglectful, or mean and cold, etc...either trait, the nice guy subsequently views every other female he comes across, as "mother", regardless of her age...since he labels all females, with the same brush, he can't discern between the good and the bad, thus getting burned in the process...
@RB902050 Plus, nice guys tend to have the same image problems as females have...for instance, most nice guys, think that they're ugly...whereas "bad boys", know that they're hot, because they approach females from a "prince's" perspective, that is, he is just as good-looking as her, so he's automatically on her level...a female can sense an imbalance in a man, a mile away, and that's what the nice guys never understand, that don't step up to the plate...
You mentioned being an alpha male, did you know alpha male dominance leads to neurogenesis (birth of new brain cells) in women? Nature has designed women to fall for alpha males, since beta males have a low survival rate (during hunter gatherer days). Beta males come last throughout the animal kingdom, and humans are no different.
We want confidence. I just did an entire video on this subject, actually. 0.o Women go after jerks because they appear strong. See, most nice guys nowadays act less nice and more like they've been neutered or something. Women want a confident nice guy, and all the confident nice guys I know (which are few and far between) have loads of girls that have mad crushes on them. So between a wimpy nice guy, and a jerk, women will pick the jerk, because he appears stronger.
Dude, nice guys only finish last if they go after the wrong kind of women. Just as bad boys only finish last if they go after the wrong kind of women.
I don't think a lot of guys that are branded with the 'nice guy' tag exhibit generosity etc because of social conditioning but perhaps a lack of it. Many guys that do not spend enough time socializing with women in the earlier and most formative stages of their life do not get to learn what many typical women respond positively to so they logically ask themselves,'If i were her what would i like in a partner?' and they answer 'generosity etc' but really men and women look for different things.
It isn't why women don't like nice guys, it is why women don't like pussies. There is a difference between a nice guy and a pussy who is always submissive.
I'm a nice guy. Almost all my friends are women and all of them want me. Just last night one of them offered I crash at her place and sleep in her bed while she would sleep on the couch. Right...Not sure if them knowing I would never have a relationship with any of them makes it an appealing challenge or a perceived forbidden fruit.
What women want is a "nice guy" who has his own opinions. The "nice guy" standard generally includes the following: Liking everything I like even though you liked something different BEFORE we hooked up, complementing me ALL the time (yes I like complimants and I like to feel pretty and loved, but sometimes I am a bitch, I am overbearing, I am pissy, TELL ME!), you always want to do what I want to do (sure I like when you value my opinion, but isn't there something YOU want to do??), etc
This is why women are exactly the wrong people to ask and explain why women dont go for nice guys. What they think logically contradicts what they respond to emotionally.
I didnt find this completely true I always dated bad boys I was married to my exhus 4 13 ys- bad boy. After the divorce I conti w what i knew- bad boys finally, I met this guy who is a nice guy. I think it was weird at first cause i wasn't used to someone like him, treatin me well, complimenting, putting me first, etc. But it didn't take long n i was totally n love w him. Now we r married n it is 3 yrs later n i wouldn't trade him for anything proud to say i have a nice guy <3
@adinac73 the point is as you stated in the beginning " I always dated bad boys" it's because women by nature are programed to go for the bad ass in the beginning ...then after you fuked about 13 thugs and have 5 kids not knowing who the father is you want to look for a nice guy "now" to settle down with to love you then take care of your children...Why do nice guys have to suffer and get the left overs is what I want to know.
wow, U r the first to answer that question with an answer that I can work with.... u see Im a nice guy, and i know it because of all the friends I have that are girls... but non of them see me in that way. I Fiiiinaly got why! Ive tried to be the bad type, its just not in me... but being those things and nice, that im sure i can do.
well my guy is a nice guy and i like him. He calls me everyday, compliments me, and takes me out to nice places. The guys before him treated me like crap, went missing for days on end, and were womanizers. So yes, i like nice slightly needy men..........cuz i am a nice girl, hot, and slightly needy...........so we go hand and hand.........and its been great.
The problem with nice guys is 1.You often come across as lap dogs 2.Most women who date assholes/douchelords usually have self esteem issues 3.No woman wants a man who sits around palying war craft/halo/call of duty 22 hours a day 4.women like a challenge -just like men do
I was the nice guy, girl used me so badly. Then she comes back months later crawling to me crying that nobody else was nice like I was. Kicked that whore to the curb.
GOOD GOOD GOOD! This is the hard attitude we need to adopt in order to stamp out this bullshit behavior. It is totally 100 percent unacceptable what women in general are doing these days, and they can spend the rest of their lives alone for all I care.
@Krieger91 i'm also a former now "RECOVERED NICE GUY", who learned the hard way, that all that bullshit that "works" in the movies, t.v shows, soap operas, love songs, does not work in the real world. now i'm the carefree jerk/bad boy that i should've been my whole life. now when all these bitches that rejected me back in the day when we were younger and in our prime, and now want to "holler" at me, i tell these skanks, sorry honey i am not interested in sloppy seconds or left overs.
@sasquatch13ja This is what I hate.. "We just want to have fun and then when we get older we wise up and get the nice guys", so you fuck morons then you finally understand that they won't go anywhere and you expect us to take you? Fuck that shit.
i got me an average looking girl with a great body who gives me a lot of pleasure and does whatever i want, that's what u gotta do don't go after the beauties if u're an inexperienced or average looking guy cos they'll have like impossible demands u don't want to put yourself thru that kind of drama and psychological torture just cos she has a 'cute' face cos those are always impossible to get.. just go for a girl who's a 6 in the face but an 8 in the boobs :D
"Nice guy" is such a broad label. It could mean any number of things. I believe the key to attracting women is finding balance. Be nice, respectful, kind and caring but also confident, strong and not afraid to say no and stand up for yourself, even if it means the girl might not like it. I used to be very shy and quiet growing up, well into my teens but I've developed alot of confidence and self-esteem as a young adult. When you combine confidence with kindness, it'll go a long way usually.
This is the typical thing you hear from the D'angelo "dating tips". I agree that "nice" guys who try too hard to make a woman like you and seem needy don't get it. But you have to define exactly what nice guy is. They can be the guy who knows how to make thier own decisions and be themselves. I think it's absurd for a nice guy to try and act like a "bad" guy to get women.
Women love confident jerks because these guys have the stamina and high testosterone levels needed to produce the best offspring. It is not survival of the nicest. It is survival of the fittest. Using niceness is a ploy to compete against the standard assets that alpha males use. Girls who are rejected by alpha males are more likely to mate with the nice guys, even though they secretly desire the alpha.
I am not interested in whores who drank cum from 20 or more thugs. . . but if you want to chase such a whore then be my guest and the have fun kissing their cum-stained lips
@konman001 Your comment and the other one with many thumbs up are the perfect example of 'nice guys'. The 'nice guy' act isn't real it's usually faked out of desperation and fear of rejection. When hurt you resort to name calling and put downs it only exposes your true insecurity. Be confident, it attracts women of all kinds. Few women want a pushover or who only agrees with everything she says because he's afraid of being dumped.
I think personally I would want to find a woman with solid Christian beliefs. I kinda feel odd telling someone who is agnostic/aethist but that is something that is important to me. When I lived in Japan, I was hoping to find a "cute" Japanese girl, but the problem was that majority of them did not share same beliefs.
Nowadays I look at the "bright side" of my situation - which is that I am not pegged down by a relationship and free to go just about anywhere.
The thing is women will stay with a guy who abuses them over a guy who is good to them.I have seen this many times.I am a caring and respectful guy and women act like I don't exist.Even when you go out dancing they would rather dance with each other.
For some reason that is what gets a woman's attention, if you do not seek her attention, she finds it intriguing that you are not trying to get her attention unlike other men, and then goes out of their way to try and get your attention. The signs she throws can range from being very subtle to very obvious. Just try to read the signs but without blowing your cover, look for her signs without her seeing that you are interested.
Most bad boys I noticed are adaptations to women's behavior. Meaning they used to be nice once, but upon seeing how bad boys are treated, they adapt and become one themselves.
Note that is not the bet thing to do, I used to be what you call a nice guy, but after enough failures I questioned my tatics, then tried something new, something different.
I then began to care less on getting females attention, and since I did not seek it, female attention came looking for me, it works.
Well said...Not gonna lie, i'm an extremely attractive guy and have been akin to these realizations for the simple fact that I have always been stared at by women then I realized who I was and why the women like me..everything he just mentioned is basically how to capture a woman's attention. If you're not as attractive as you want to be, work at it. Develop yourself for yourself and always remember that only by not trying to impress people will you impress them. It's all for the better.
It's all mating/breeding BS. We're pathetic vessels for our genes, not free agents. This is the reason why I'm completely turned off by anyone whose entire focus in life is either getting laid or being in relationships. Wanting to be in a relationship is about as original and interesting as needing to take a shit. I'm attracted to people who break that mold (not b/c they think it will get them laid, either). In general , people are in serious need of hobbies and personal interests.
@ritter89 yeah but pursuing hobbies or interest doesn't generate the same feeling as being in love or kissing or making love to someone you're crazy about.. it's not even remotely comparable
"Nice" guys fail because they tend to label and polarize themselves. They're pretty much the same as the "bad" boys - they only want to get in the girl's pants; the only difference is (as he said in the video) is that they overcompliment and say a bunch of meaningless shit which is all for self-gain and not so much about being truly loving. So stop being "nice"; be kind instead and just know the other person and acknowledge their complexities.
I am nice guy and I will be for the last of my life.I don't intend to go agianstmy nature just because the current trends in western society.If girls are stupid to ignore you go to a third world country and buy yourslef one.She'll be more then greatfull to you for pulling her out of mudpitt she crawled out and your so shunned "niceness" will only add more value to it.
oh for Christ sake - NOW I find out 40 years too late ! As someone who has always been attracted to pretty women, I've made it a point to hang around them and try to get closer since my teens. I have gone out of my way numerous times to try to be nice to them all. Bottom line - they all wanted to be "friends", I never got anywhere emotionally or physically with any of them. None ever took me seriously. So I have to agree with this video - nice guys DO finish last. I give up.
Any woman that comes on here that says "Well you are wrong cause I like nice guys" is giving you a biased answer. Several studies have been made in the past pulling random women together asking what they like in a man, most of which said they wanted nice and compassionate guys.
But upon digging further into some of the girl's backgrounds, like people who they dated in the past did not match the standards they answered in the test.
So basically what they say they want is the opposite.
Another problem with dating now is the idealized portrayals of the male masculine physique. People believed such portrayals on tv shows, movies, and many other sources set unrealistic standards in male beauty, which disturbingly a lot of women go by those same standards.
There is a lot of single women out there cause of the fact they cannot find a man that meets these unrealistic standards that they found on the tv and other media sources.
you know, when they say "nice guys finish last" that just another way of saying "bad guys always win". i am a bad guy and i can certify that indeed the universe loves evil.
for instance, i ran over two kids on my way to score some drugs the other day. obviously i got away. i was relating that story at a bar later that night, and some really cute girls overheard ... needless to say, i was SWIMMING in hot pussy by the end of that evening
This is depressing. I think nice guys are better-looking than the assholes anyway. Alot of girls need to wake up. And alot of guys need to stop turning into the "bad" type just to get girls.
show it, take pics of the guy you seem to be attracted to and show it then. People should judge base on the actions a lady does not by what she types on a computer. This is what the creator of this video is stating. You may say what you want in a man, but you will not respond to a nice guy.
you are the one who said how you find cute pretty boy guy attractive cause they are innocent and nice..
@rgchrono All I'm saying is, if you're attracted to someone, it won't be for their looks. Because looks go away eventually.
And why wouldn't anyone respond to a nice guy? Because they don't have game? There's a difference between a nice guy and a chump. Even the most hideous person on earth can get a date, because everyone has different taste. The one thing you can't be is an asshole. Who'd want to date someone unpleasant?
@SuperGrinningIdiot : comment women reply, " looks fate away " reply. This comment is a comment made by a lot of times by women so that they can get away with the kinds of decision they make in life, when it comes to dates.
the fact that you are using terms to describe a person's looks, hideous-cute-pretty" it is a clear sign that you evaluate base on looks and now base on something like " game". You are lost
con: you do not know what you are talking about. You are just trying to make your point seem right, even if you use negative terms to try to show your point.
If you are the "nice guy" type, avoid Western women (America, Australia, Canada, and UK) b/c they shit on the "nice guy" type and worship the "asshole" type that treat them like shit.
Go to Central+S.America, Russia, and SE Asia for better women, you don't need dating advice to date women from these places.
Trust me, this comes from overseas dating experience.
Wow..... This makes me feel worse than shit. Its like a slap to the face, and what makes it worse, at least to me, is the fact that its true. Its taken me a while but, slowly I've been falling into place and understanding women more and more. But this... this makes me feel pretty fuckin' bad....
@parkourjosh yeah, it makes me feel like a fucking jerk - AGAIN - but this guy is right on the money - chicks don't really want nice guys regardless of whatever bullshit they are saying
i recently went through somethintg like this her reason was i was too nice i didnt even want to meet her she wanted to meet me and what sucks is i ended up liking her..that fucking hurt!
Woman are brainless(I am a Lady btw) they read mills&boons(oh man) watch tv & expect men to be like that!When a woman is just that a woman..Hopefully she has clicked on..if she hasn;t RUN hahahahaha ;]
once girls are done getting stuffed by all the jocks, band members, yoga instructors then you can have the leftovers. Once she starts losing her looks, getting fatter / older and wants some chump to pay for her kids, dream wedding and house you can pay the bills. What you dont know is that while your at work the pool boy will be stuffing her because he makes her feel young again
It's not necessarily the bad boyness but the confidence I've heard. Thing is though, there is no tried and true set in stone way of this. Every single situation will be different. What one woman wants another will find appaling or not be as into.
The idealistic side I think MIGHT be a balance between the two. Nice and caring ,but also fun and spontaneous.
@Mikayish I can tell right away what ur problem is.. By the way u talk I can tell u dont have patience, u wana rush the girl into sex. Dude thats not the way it works u need to slowly seduce her. If u tell what u just said in ur comment ull end up looking like a jerk. Also u need to stop that victim mentality u got, stop whinning women hate whinners.
In the whole grand scheme of things, if you are a nice guy an things don't work out with the girl there is only one thing you can do...go for mom! With all due respect, with age "cums" experience.
Scientists found that assholes - well they defined it as people scoring with high levels on the dark triad of personality traits - get more sex. Women like alpha males, and men demonstrate alpha status by being disinterested... I blogged about this...
So true, except that I would add one to the list of conditioning factors: mother. If a guy has a mom who is a feminist and raises him to be a "different" guy, different from all the other "chauvinists" in society...
...Yeah, he'll end up "different" alright. When it comes to women, he'll be doomed if he doesn't rebel in one serious way.
@WickedKnight07 Well, the rebelling itself isn't what gets you noticed; what I mean by "rebel" is you just make it clear in your mind that you aren't going to listen to what she says regarding relationships, equality, feminism, etc. (but don't disregard all she says about life otherwise, and don't "rebel" in any general sense of the word; i.e. doing random stupid/illegit/pointless crap).
Don't listen to women SAY on that subject, but watch what they do, what they go for, what they DON'T notice.
by saying all women want assholes, you are saying all women are the same and that is not true,women dont expect the perfect asshole or the perfect gentleman...there are women out there who just dont want to be lonely. usually a woman with to much expectations ends up being alone...thats what i think.
many of you people including you PUA followers go for the girl with daddy issues, there is nothing more destructive on women that having issues with theirfathers, the statics even prove it! It shows that women who had asshole/jerk fathers are more liking to end up with countless men her father, they also prove that women are more like to become promiscuous and suffer alot of psychological issues what will lead to alot of failed relationships. you see why you guys always end up single.
Nice guys do not finish last, i am so tired of this PUA seduction BS! It really ashamed me to see that everyone goes after these skanks and assume the bad experiences or their dysfunctional appeal is how all women are and what women want ,no! People don't seem to realize the majority of these girls you pick up are not mentally stable these women come from broken/absent father homes where their was alot of hell raise and so when a woman is treated nice it feels so foreign to her.
i am gonna treat the next women i meet like shit.instead of asking her stuff about herself, i am just going to say : my dick is really starving for a piece of meat like you.I tried nice guy,alpha male and bad boy, but nothing has worked..im good looking and intelligent, but when you haven¨t got a car or loads of money, they only wanna be your friend.When did charm, interest, love and affection stop being enough? It seems like we judge to quickly.Wouldnt the quiet guy seem most interesting?
Insecure people are the ones that are nice cuz they don't want people to think badly of them. "jerks" on the other hand don't care what you think. If you like me great lets hang out, if you don't then move along and make room for people that do want to hang out with me. thats the attitude of a jerk. or should I say an alfa mail.
to be ballsy, confident, spontaneous and fun is too much work, its easier to be lazy and not give a crap. juts compliment her over and over, and open doors for her, kiss her feet and maybe she'll like you back one day. lol just kidding (kinda)
this is so funny chicks want something they think needs changing if you are nice there is not much to change so they feel useless but a bad boy has so many flaws and chicks think they can change that. For a man the challenge is getting into their panties but for a female the challenge is to change the bad boy into a nice guy lmao nice guys finish last alright because by the end of your life this is what you have become so keep kidding yourselfs bad boys lmao hahahahahaha
I don't believe that, I know with experience, I'm 43 years old and I didn't date to many women in my life because I was too nice, Of course I lived at home until I was 34 and my MOTHER kida took care of every thing for me and I notice when I was living at home women took advantage of me, not for sex but for my time and money.
I'm a nice guy, but I'm not a pushover. I'm an honest straight-shooter, but I'm not uber friendly. Many people thought I was a jerk because I'm blunt as a hammer. I'm still tactful, nonetheless. A few mistake my kindness for weakness. One time, I put a gang member's head through a plate glass window because he made that mistake. I caught him by surprised when I showed him I've had years worth of martial arts training. As far as women are concerned, I pretend I couldn't care less. That works.
@daugenstine you sound like an insecure little pussy who has to tell some fabricated story about how you beat up gang members. face it you're a fat little fuck in your mom's basement. shut the fuck up.
Excellent commentary. Key word is confidence. Women want the leader. (Fine line between confident and cocky though) confidence is a state of mind - cockyness is a front that you try to put to get attention
Sometimes it sucks being a nice guy, but its just how I am. I'm not a doormat, though. You can be a nice, civilized guy without being a boring doormat.
But yeah, bad boys get all the girls. Every girl I've had a serious chance with ended up staying with their bad boy boyfriend, and it just sucked--but I moved on.
Don't worry nice guys. When those silly women stop watching so much mtv and their skin is crispy from all their fake tans and their boobs are saggy like grapefruits in socks and their vaginas are smothered in STDs like a hollowed out burrito filled with green chili and they stop getting drunk every weekend and THEY REALIZE THE ERRORS IN THEIR WAYS........you'll get your chance.
@JoshRom hmm, what abt nice guys dating nice girls? there must be 'nice' girls out there that are not super 'pretty' on the outside, perhaps the 'nice' guys aren't even looking at those that are not so attractive? and looking for hot girls that would date a 'nice' guy only? Silly women you mentioned seem like those that party like crazy and obviously can get guys easily, not the ones that are shy and nice? those are probably not the nice guys type? hmm..
When I was 16, I met the most amazing girl on the planet! Now that I'm 23, we are HAPPILY married. =) Most people say teenage relationships don't last, but this one has! Not many people believe love at first sight, but I know I do! The MOMENT we saw each other, rockets shot into the air for us! It was almost like we've known each other from a previous life or something, but we knew at that moment that we just found love! I was AMAZED at how simple love found us! Love will find YOU one day too!
coheedandcambria100 6 months ago
@coheedandcambria100 GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
drazvannn 3 months ago
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LMAO at all you PUS$IES that have NO GAME!!
Just because I feel sorry for you .. lol .. I'll give you some sympathy advice.
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UFCFights11 7 months ago
Maaaan, fuck a BITCH! I saw DON'T CHANGE FOR THEM; WHO THE FUCK ARE THEY AND MADE THEM SOOOO WORTHY OF US MEN TAP-DANCING FOR THEM?? WTF DO THEY EVER DO FOR US?? What do they have to offer?? I'll yoy what....tits, ass, pussy, a pretty face and..... Unecessary DRAMA/STRESS! Period.
If you open your mind and realize the amount of vids of guys complaining about this..that should tell you...TREAT THESE WOMEN LIKE THE WHORES THEY ARE, FUCK THEM AND LEAVE THEM.
BE STUPID IF YOU WANNA. I'M NO FOOL.
iYEMTheGreatest 8 months ago
Great vid! I too used to be the nice guy. All I got was cheated on over and over again and disrespected. I think alot of it is media fueled and some is just nature. Women see a nice guy as weak. I think a guy needs to show strength, leadership and ability to get women's attention. Women get turned on for weird reasons. Hell, I had a lady watch me build a gazebo for my mom and I thought she was gonna rape me. She even brought me a beer when I was done. Lose the emo wuss look guys act like a man!
rang3r34 8 months ago
@rang3r34 Again I am sorry for spamming but your MRA friends are blocking me. I am not a women. So stop using that against me. (Just to be clear)
shock80ey 2 months ago
@shock80ey I'm glad they are blockin you, woman. You got your ass handed to you on HelperDog's video I noticed. I'm gonna leave you alone now. I'm bored with this back-and forth with you, ok? If you are a guy so BE IT and move on.....
rang3r34 2 months ago
@rang3r34 Are you kidding me haha. Got my ass handed to me? You have no idea how to argue do you? Google "20 most common logical fallacies" and "how to reconstruct an argument."
shock80ey 2 months ago
@shock80ey Yep, you ARE a female....I take it back. You DID get your ass handed to you. Go wipe your vagina and shut up.
rang3r34 2 months ago
@rang3r34 So I will take that as " I didn't go look up how to argue because i am scared and don't want to argue logically becaue there is a large chance i am wrong" I didn't get my ass handed to me I offered helper dog, like I offered you, a chance to debate but no instead you insult me and block me which is the EXACT same thing you accuse feminist of doing. Hypocrisy?
shock80ey 2 months ago
You have no fucking idea what your talking about
thatsmartguy97 8 months ago
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I've concluded that Woman are all whores.
ih8makinusernames 8 months ago
We can't help it. It goes all the way back to the cave man days. Bad cave men survived longer, which was good for breeding, the nice guys who got killed by the bad cave men.
jednpep 9 months ago
you are sooo right!!! Woman don't like nice guys. me, being one i find the nice guy routine very boring... my ex bf was your typical nice guy and he was just too... well... NICE!! it was completely annoying. Even though i never took advantage of him (that's what he admired most about me) he was such a pushover and he was TOO. sensitive. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST NUFF SAID
KaelGian93 9 months ago
Maybe I should get me a prescription for valium so I can really not give shit. They would be dating the drug within but who the hell cares
newj34 9 months ago
And another thing...if you have depression or social anxieties you better get them fixed...a prescription is just a dr. Away. Or the result you get from women will only enhance these things.
newj34 9 months ago
Bravo brother! Your right most men don't do their homework...men are visual creatures we are ready for sex instantly upon visual verification. Women as we know are emotional creatures they are wired to follow their emotions no matter how much reason and rationality they have and believe me they have it. In a womans mind everything is connected, the house is connected to the phone the phone is connected to the car and so-on. I wish I had women completely figured out but what man does.
newj34 9 months ago
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The corporate culture (that continually infiltrates a media-saturated society via vested interests) promotes and exults jerk values at every turn while downplaying the immorality, aggressiveness and superficiality of the capitalist system. People strongly resist having their comforting illusions dissipitated, so will construct rationales designed to 'explain away' unfavorable reality. Honesty has never been humanity's strongest suit - it's strongest suit is cruelty, which in turn attracts many.
TheeUnidentified 9 months ago
I think this is just the tip of the iceberg. Women tend to go for jerks and such, but I am just going to have to make my own video on this issue. I got tons to say...
zelvadrian 9 months ago
Girls like bad guys because, they seem more confident.
starfaery 10 months ago
whoa
1234lilspooky 10 months ago
Unless you're a famous cartoonist with a twisted view of the female body, have a bank account or women want to fuck you for looking like Mr. Bean, you can't afford to be a nice guy which is the fat girl's word for curvy. Nice guy = loser and if you want to be a genepool dropout, tell a girl how nice and loyal you are then watch (well imagine 'cause you'll never get to see it in its bloom) as her vagina shrivels up into a rosebud. If you can't backup "nice" with a fuckable trait, no ladylay sorry
smurfieboo 10 months ago
This vid is so true. What I'm seeing is that the guys who get the girls first are using game where ,instead of the girl going by their own logic, the guy just convinces her that he is what she wants.
It's sad when a woman is more likely to give you her phone number when you tell her to instead of when you ask. :( But that's the majority of the modern women. Nice guys will have to adapt or just settle for "step dad".
randomdude5640 11 months ago
@msagnosticatheist I disagree with you here, you say most would date a hot bitch over a nice fat girl, your examples are too extreme. Bitches can be ugly too and most me would tap them but not date them believe me, and about "fat nice" that's wrong cuz men like a girl with some meat on her bones but not FAT cuz that means she doesn't take care of herself not matter how nice. In general, between fit and "thick" , with a fun type of personality that's what most guys would be willing to date (bitc
mm3n 1 year ago
Wow, after reading more of these comments i see so many 'nice guys' let their bitterness run wild. This is why women don't bother with you because we can see through you fake niceness. Evolution explains both sexes preferences. Men only care about looks, don't bother saying otherwise because you know you are lying. Most would date a 'bitch' that is hot over a 'fat' nice girl. Oh my do we have hypocrites here! I have yet to here any man compliment or brag on his buddy on how 'nice' his girl is!
MsAgnosticatheist 1 year ago
@MsAgnosticatheist umm ive dated fat girls who treated me like shit. just like girls/bitches like u dont date guys that you dont like. most of the time u sawy "ewww" like cunts. cunt.
dontcarewatuthink 1 year ago
The problem with most 'nice guys' is that they aren't really nice, they are just pushovers. They have no balls and will not stand up for themselves or even their women. Women want a strong man that will defend them and be able to wear the pants in the relationship. They don't have an opinion about anything and let you run over top of them or being way too agreeable. What motivates them isn’t kindness but fear. You will not get a woman's respect if you are like this.
MsAgnosticatheist 1 year ago
Also I'm from America and I know for a fact that most younger girls want thugs. But WOMEN want real men. not low lifes who do nothing with their lives. You just got to go for us girls with brains, we want the good guys.
LadyChakra 1 year ago
@LadyChakra well where are you hiding at? approach a nice guy?
dontcarewatuthink 1 year ago
@dontcarewatuthink I already have a nice guy. :)
LadyChakra 1 year ago
Not all girls are the same. I was initially attracted to my boyfriend because he was sweet and we had alot in common. Him being cute was just a bonus. He is the one who took my virginity and the only one I've been with since. We are still together and planning to keep it that way. My point is that not all girls go for the 'alpha' type. My man is nice, he treats me good and is a bit cheesy but thats what I love about him. No other could take his place. :)
LadyChakra 1 year ago
We live in an increasingly globalised world today gentlemen, which means the language and cultural barriers are nowhere near as extreme as they were in the past. If you aren't happy with women you are meeting in your own country, date foreign women. I know guys that have done that and they are extremely happy.
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7hom 1 year ago
@7hom Not true. My boyfriend and I were both virgins when we got together. He is the man who took my virginity and he is the only one I've been with since and vise versa. Nobody wants a dirty manslut except equally dirty whores.
LadyChakra 1 year ago
This happens only in America and may be other western english speaking countries. Women from south america, africa, eastern europe, asia and most of western europe only date nice guys as far as I know. So if u can't get one of these thug loving americunts, just go abroad. Get out of the US matrix
110301839 1 year ago
And remember this well, nice/good guys: a woman have two needs in life: mate with the "alpha" male for the best genes (however bullshit that "alpha" mask may be) and find a mate for the resources and support he can provide.
DO NOT become someone else's Captain Save-a-ho and do not fall for this. She would tell you she loves you (and probably do) but it would be because she loves that you provide for her...
She would still be fucking other guys behind your back..
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
Most of the contemporary world is caught up in an unconscious and gigantic conspiracy to ignore facts while embracing comforting propaganda and illusions. The late George Carlin spoke at length on this, that latter 20th Century people had devised an entire lexicon/public discourse of euphemistic language intended to obscure reality and champion deceptive belief systems. This, for example, explains a great deal about the US in general. Never underestimate the power of denial.
TheeUnidentified 1 year ago
@TheeUnidentified I love this so much wow
eyeonwashparish 1 year ago
wrong frame of mind Ive been living..........its simple do not show someone to much attention or love if they do not give it in return, you dont necessarily gotta be a prick just dont be a stepping stone
karan6 1 year ago
I'd rather not date a woman that doesn't like nice guys, thank you.
1981bendover 1 year ago 2
What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?
I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.
Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?
I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.
Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
If you are going to get together with a girl that acts of impulse and insticnt, you might as well go marry that monkey in a zoo or go find that bitch on heat roaming through the streets. THAT, good/nice guys, is what makes better genes. The ones that still act on instinct and impulse are simply degenerates deevolving, or in actuality making our gene pool weak. You do not need that. Besides, you have already waited for 8-10 years for that good woman...
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
I deserve someone who 1) is not someone's sloppy 30ths or 40ths, 2) have intellect and don't go off on instinct and impulses like an animal in heat on the jungle, 3) that can take care of themselves and 4) be adventurous. Everything else is negotiable.
That whole alpha male atraction is true but it shows how degenerate of a person such woman is. We did not become the most dominant species of the world by instinct or impulse; we became such by INTELLECT: the ability to learn and reason.
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago 2
For the first time in my life, I truly know, now, what my worth is and I am quite proud of myself for being that guy. Not because some bitch in heat who bangs any wannabe bad ass tells me to stay like that, no. (They tell us that because, once they are past their most attractive years, they want to settle down since they get tired of that life).
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
have been taking inventory. I am in the US Marines, 24 years old, I only had sex 3 times in my life (so I am still very fresh), I will start attending college again on March 3rd, I will be an aprentince computer networking for Coca Cola which would mean I will have a great job that pays 65 thousand a year waiting for me in 3 years or so.
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
There is no such thing as perfect...but there are limits. I have been labeled for most of my life as the good/nice guy (they really are the same thing; whores and sluts simply perverted the former to have an excuse to keep being what they are). Don't confuse us with the needy or the desperate, please.
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
Woman want excitement not mundane things. "Nice guys" often seem boring and insufficient. Hell, even men in maximum security prisons have beautiful wives. Some may even say being an a** is a much more efficient way to attract women then being the overly sincere and nice guy.
RB902050 1 year ago
@RB902050 The problem with "nice guys", is that, they're "motherstruck"...that is, in childhood, their mothers were usually overprotective, or submissive, or neglectful, or mean and cold, etc...either trait, the nice guy subsequently views every other female he comes across, as "mother", regardless of her age...since he labels all females, with the same brush, he can't discern between the good and the bad, thus getting burned in the process...
GemCan78 1 year ago
@RB902050 Plus, nice guys tend to have the same image problems as females have...for instance, most nice guys, think that they're ugly...whereas "bad boys", know that they're hot, because they approach females from a "prince's" perspective, that is, he is just as good-looking as her, so he's automatically on her level...a female can sense an imbalance in a man, a mile away, and that's what the nice guys never understand, that don't step up to the plate...
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AyannaShana 1 year ago
well said
dalebonifant 1 year ago
You mentioned being an alpha male, did you know alpha male dominance leads to neurogenesis (birth of new brain cells) in women? Nature has designed women to fall for alpha males, since beta males have a low survival rate (during hunter gatherer days). Beta males come last throughout the animal kingdom, and humans are no different.
Everything in this video is dead on
JLuvs0fficial 1 year ago
@JLuvs0fficial yea but we dont fight its insults lmao i could kick that badass guys ass
frostbite0995 1 year ago
Bad guys have small penises. Heard from lot of girls. But it takes some time to at least small ammount of smartness to come in female brain.
marcus10 1 year ago
What about neutral guys? Nobody talks about them :/
RHNJL95 1 year ago
@RHNJL95
They're so-so.
c00lwatter 1 year ago
We want confidence. I just did an entire video on this subject, actually. 0.o Women go after jerks because they appear strong. See, most nice guys nowadays act less nice and more like they've been neutered or something. Women want a confident nice guy, and all the confident nice guys I know (which are few and far between) have loads of girls that have mad crushes on them. So between a wimpy nice guy, and a jerk, women will pick the jerk, because he appears stronger.
arabbel 1 year ago
dude you need to make a fucking book and make some money off the shit you know about the females
bignate1288 1 year ago
Dude, nice guys only finish last if they go after the wrong kind of women. Just as bad boys only finish last if they go after the wrong kind of women.
MrTrance3000 1 year ago 2
I don't think a lot of guys that are branded with the 'nice guy' tag exhibit generosity etc because of social conditioning but perhaps a lack of it. Many guys that do not spend enough time socializing with women in the earlier and most formative stages of their life do not get to learn what many typical women respond positively to so they logically ask themselves,'If i were her what would i like in a partner?' and they answer 'generosity etc' but really men and women look for different things.
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DragonsTooth 1 year ago
It isn't why women don't like nice guys, it is why women don't like pussies. There is a difference between a nice guy and a pussy who is always submissive.
I'm a nice guy. Almost all my friends are women and all of them want me. Just last night one of them offered I crash at her place and sleep in her bed while she would sleep on the couch. Right...Not sure if them knowing I would never have a relationship with any of them makes it an appealing challenge or a perceived forbidden fruit.
33MrSmiley 1 year ago
What women want is a "nice guy" who has his own opinions. The "nice guy" standard generally includes the following: Liking everything I like even though you liked something different BEFORE we hooked up, complementing me ALL the time (yes I like complimants and I like to feel pretty and loved, but sometimes I am a bitch, I am overbearing, I am pissy, TELL ME!), you always want to do what I want to do (sure I like when you value my opinion, but isn't there something YOU want to do??), etc
peglegpirateqn 1 year ago
This is why women are exactly the wrong people to ask and explain why women dont go for nice guys. What they think logically contradicts what they respond to emotionally.
RoninHawk 1 year ago
I didnt find this completely true I always dated bad boys I was married to my exhus 4 13 ys- bad boy. After the divorce I conti w what i knew- bad boys finally, I met this guy who is a nice guy. I think it was weird at first cause i wasn't used to someone like him, treatin me well, complimenting, putting me first, etc. But it didn't take long n i was totally n love w him. Now we r married n it is 3 yrs later n i wouldn't trade him for anything proud to say i have a nice guy <3
adinac73 1 year ago
@adinac73 the point is as you stated in the beginning " I always dated bad boys" it's because women by nature are programed to go for the bad ass in the beginning ...then after you fuked about 13 thugs and have 5 kids not knowing who the father is you want to look for a nice guy "now" to settle down with to love you then take care of your children...Why do nice guys have to suffer and get the left overs is what I want to know.
Jazzyjaxx55 1 year ago
wow, U r the first to answer that question with an answer that I can work with.... u see Im a nice guy, and i know it because of all the friends I have that are girls... but non of them see me in that way. I Fiiiinaly got why! Ive tried to be the bad type, its just not in me... but being those things and nice, that im sure i can do.
flimfan92 1 year ago
well my guy is a nice guy and i like him. He calls me everyday, compliments me, and takes me out to nice places. The guys before him treated me like crap, went missing for days on end, and were womanizers. So yes, i like nice slightly needy men..........cuz i am a nice girl, hot, and slightly needy...........so we go hand and hand.........and its been great.
starangel031785 1 year ago
You can be a nice guy, and be successful with women. Be confident, be yourself, and don't be a doormat.
Oviraptor78 1 year ago
The problem with nice guys is 1.You often come across as lap dogs 2.Most women who date assholes/douchelords usually have self esteem issues 3.No woman wants a man who sits around palying war craft/halo/call of duty 22 hours a day 4.women like a challenge -just like men do
crazycatlady76 1 year ago
I was the nice guy, girl used me so badly. Then she comes back months later crawling to me crying that nobody else was nice like I was. Kicked that whore to the curb.
Krieger91 1 year ago 55
@Krieger91 Yeah, I know what you mean! You did good thing.
marcus10 1 year ago
@Krieger91
GOOD GOOD GOOD! This is the hard attitude we need to adopt in order to stamp out this bullshit behavior. It is totally 100 percent unacceptable what women in general are doing these days, and they can spend the rest of their lives alone for all I care.
suchafool990 1 year ago
@Krieger91 lol i would have boned her once more !!! and then dump her silly ass!
vyrgo84 1 year ago
@Krieger91 i'm also a former now "RECOVERED NICE GUY", who learned the hard way, that all that bullshit that "works" in the movies, t.v shows, soap operas, love songs, does not work in the real world. now i'm the carefree jerk/bad boy that i should've been my whole life. now when all these bitches that rejected me back in the day when we were younger and in our prime, and now want to "holler" at me, i tell these skanks, sorry honey i am not interested in sloppy seconds or left overs.
sasquatch13ja 11 months ago
@sasquatch13ja This is what I hate.. "We just want to have fun and then when we get older we wise up and get the nice guys", so you fuck morons then you finally understand that they won't go anywhere and you expect us to take you? Fuck that shit.
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Krieger91 1 year ago
The nice guy syndrome exists majorly in USA.
Go to an asian country and the women will love a nice guy. They appreciate such things unlike the materialistic divas in this country.
ASIAN GF FTW
woodyfly 1 year ago
its the truth.
k5lta 1 year ago
i got me an average looking girl with a great body who gives me a lot of pleasure and does whatever i want, that's what u gotta do don't go after the beauties if u're an inexperienced or average looking guy cos they'll have like impossible demands u don't want to put yourself thru that kind of drama and psychological torture just cos she has a 'cute' face cos those are always impossible to get.. just go for a girl who's a 6 in the face but an 8 in the boobs :D
Casarzino 1 year ago
@Casarzino oh and she isn't fat if u go for the fat chicks u're a loser cos that feels worse than getting nothing
Casarzino 1 year ago
@Casarzino "6 in the face but an 8 in the boobs" pure wisdom
choi4816 1 year ago
"Nice guy" is such a broad label. It could mean any number of things. I believe the key to attracting women is finding balance. Be nice, respectful, kind and caring but also confident, strong and not afraid to say no and stand up for yourself, even if it means the girl might not like it. I used to be very shy and quiet growing up, well into my teens but I've developed alot of confidence and self-esteem as a young adult. When you combine confidence with kindness, it'll go a long way usually.
Trancemaster2052 1 year ago
This is the typical thing you hear from the D'angelo "dating tips". I agree that "nice" guys who try too hard to make a woman like you and seem needy don't get it. But you have to define exactly what nice guy is. They can be the guy who knows how to make thier own decisions and be themselves. I think it's absurd for a nice guy to try and act like a "bad" guy to get women.
2cool4u24 1 year ago
I treat women like they don't matter. Not mean, I just don't fawn all over them, and I turn away more pussy than most guys will ever see.
thanks51 1 year ago
Women love confident jerks because these guys have the stamina and high testosterone levels needed to produce the best offspring. It is not survival of the nicest. It is survival of the fittest. Using niceness is a ploy to compete against the standard assets that alpha males use. Girls who are rejected by alpha males are more likely to mate with the nice guys, even though they secretly desire the alpha.
buddhasknowbest 1 year ago
You looked like Dane Cook
gerardz101 1 year ago
Look no further than Revenge of the Nerds.
The nerd won over the cheerleader. Hardly happens in real life here in the USA even in the 1980s.
MrRuigni 1 year ago
This is what whores will find attractive.
I am not interested in whores who drank cum from 20 or more thugs. . . but if you want to chase such a whore then be my guest and the have fun kissing their cum-stained lips
konman001 1 year ago 29
@konman001
commenting to who, and based on what do you say this?
Madsovic999 1 year ago
@konman001 Your comment and the other one with many thumbs up are the perfect example of 'nice guys'. The 'nice guy' act isn't real it's usually faked out of desperation and fear of rejection. When hurt you resort to name calling and put downs it only exposes your true insecurity. Be confident, it attracts women of all kinds. Few women want a pushover or who only agrees with everything she says because he's afraid of being dumped.
MsAgnosticatheist 1 year ago
@MsAgnosticatheist
I think personally I would want to find a woman with solid Christian beliefs. I kinda feel odd telling someone who is agnostic/aethist but that is something that is important to me. When I lived in Japan, I was hoping to find a "cute" Japanese girl, but the problem was that majority of them did not share same beliefs.
Nowadays I look at the "bright side" of my situation - which is that I am not pegged down by a relationship and free to go just about anywhere.
konman001 1 year ago
The thing is women will stay with a guy who abuses them over a guy who is good to them.I have seen this many times.I am a caring and respectful guy and women act like I don't exist.Even when you go out dancing they would rather dance with each other.
lghaze42 1 year ago
For some reason that is what gets a woman's attention, if you do not seek her attention, she finds it intriguing that you are not trying to get her attention unlike other men, and then goes out of their way to try and get your attention. The signs she throws can range from being very subtle to very obvious. Just try to read the signs but without blowing your cover, look for her signs without her seeing that you are interested.
ManSpeakOut 1 year ago
Most bad boys I noticed are adaptations to women's behavior. Meaning they used to be nice once, but upon seeing how bad boys are treated, they adapt and become one themselves.
Note that is not the bet thing to do, I used to be what you call a nice guy, but after enough failures I questioned my tatics, then tried something new, something different.
I then began to care less on getting females attention, and since I did not seek it, female attention came looking for me, it works.
ManSpeakOut 1 year ago
Well said...Not gonna lie, i'm an extremely attractive guy and have been akin to these realizations for the simple fact that I have always been stared at by women then I realized who I was and why the women like me..everything he just mentioned is basically how to capture a woman's attention. If you're not as attractive as you want to be, work at it. Develop yourself for yourself and always remember that only by not trying to impress people will you impress them. It's all for the better.
sasoon 1 year ago
It's all mating/breeding BS. We're pathetic vessels for our genes, not free agents. This is the reason why I'm completely turned off by anyone whose entire focus in life is either getting laid or being in relationships. Wanting to be in a relationship is about as original and interesting as needing to take a shit. I'm attracted to people who break that mold (not b/c they think it will get them laid, either). In general , people are in serious need of hobbies and personal interests.
ritter89 1 year ago
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@ritter89 LOL well said.
infantileretard 1 year ago
@ritter89 yeah but pursuing hobbies or interest doesn't generate the same feeling as being in love or kissing or making love to someone you're crazy about.. it's not even remotely comparable
Casarzino 1 year ago
"Nice" guys fail because they tend to label and polarize themselves. They're pretty much the same as the "bad" boys - they only want to get in the girl's pants; the only difference is (as he said in the video) is that they overcompliment and say a bunch of meaningless shit which is all for self-gain and not so much about being truly loving. So stop being "nice"; be kind instead and just know the other person and acknowledge their complexities.
freshasflowers 1 year ago
I am nice guy and I will be for the last of my life.I don't intend to go agianstmy nature just because the current trends in western society.If girls are stupid to ignore you go to a third world country and buy yourslef one.She'll be more then greatfull to you for pulling her out of mudpitt she crawled out and your so shunned "niceness" will only add more value to it.
Kharmazov 1 year ago
Nice guys don't finish last pusies and push overs do
zeroxlulu 1 year ago
oh for Christ sake - NOW I find out 40 years too late ! As someone who has always been attracted to pretty women, I've made it a point to hang around them and try to get closer since my teens. I have gone out of my way numerous times to try to be nice to them all. Bottom line - they all wanted to be "friends", I never got anywhere emotionally or physically with any of them. None ever took me seriously. So I have to agree with this video - nice guys DO finish last. I give up.
haworthhoarder 1 year ago 2
damn nice guys and jerks
its all about the strong silent type which is both of em combined
GeneralDonut123 1 year ago
you are so right..good vid
TheLou28 1 year ago
Any woman that comes on here that says "Well you are wrong cause I like nice guys" is giving you a biased answer. Several studies have been made in the past pulling random women together asking what they like in a man, most of which said they wanted nice and compassionate guys.
But upon digging further into some of the girl's backgrounds, like people who they dated in the past did not match the standards they answered in the test.
So basically what they say they want is the opposite.
Garrett00009 1 year ago 2
Another problem with dating now is the idealized portrayals of the male masculine physique. People believed such portrayals on tv shows, movies, and many other sources set unrealistic standards in male beauty, which disturbingly a lot of women go by those same standards.
There is a lot of single women out there cause of the fact they cannot find a man that meets these unrealistic standards that they found on the tv and other media sources.
Garrett00009 1 year ago
you know, when they say "nice guys finish last" that just another way of saying "bad guys always win". i am a bad guy and i can certify that indeed the universe loves evil.
for instance, i ran over two kids on my way to score some drugs the other day. obviously i got away. i was relating that story at a bar later that night, and some really cute girls overheard ... needless to say, i was SWIMMING in hot pussy by the end of that evening
see how that works? evil = reward :)
paragshah2112 1 year ago 2
@paragshah2112 Hopefully you will get run over :)
earthquake572 1 year ago
@earthquake572
nah, i'm too evil to get run over. the universe loves me for it. well, i might get run over with riches :p
paragshah2112 1 year ago
@paragshah2112 Yeah I hope a really really expensive car full of rich people run over you. lol
earthquake572 1 year ago
@earthquake572
HAHAHAHA that was funny ... *props*
paragshah2112 1 year ago
Nice guys are boring to women. Women use nice guys. Jerks use women. Whom would you rather be? I thought so.
violatione 1 year ago
This is depressing. I think nice guys are better-looking than the assholes anyway. Alot of girls need to wake up. And alot of guys need to stop turning into the "bad" type just to get girls.
SuperGrinningIdiot 1 year ago
@SuperGrinningIdiot .... nice guys are better looking taht the assholes??
show it, take pics of the guy you seem to be attracted to and show it then. People should judge base on the actions a lady does not by what she types on a computer. This is what the creator of this video is stating. You may say what you want in a man, but you will not respond to a nice guy.
you are the one who said how you find cute pretty boy guy attractive cause they are innocent and nice..
rgchrono 1 year ago
@rgchrono All I'm saying is, if you're attracted to someone, it won't be for their looks. Because looks go away eventually.
And why wouldn't anyone respond to a nice guy? Because they don't have game? There's a difference between a nice guy and a chump. Even the most hideous person on earth can get a date, because everyone has different taste. The one thing you can't be is an asshole. Who'd want to date someone unpleasant?
SuperGrinningIdiot 1 year ago
@SuperGrinningIdiot : comment women reply, " looks fate away " reply. This comment is a comment made by a lot of times by women so that they can get away with the kinds of decision they make in life, when it comes to dates.
the fact that you are using terms to describe a person's looks, hideous-cute-pretty" it is a clear sign that you evaluate base on looks and now base on something like " game". You are lost
rgchrono 1 year ago
con: you do not know what you are talking about. You are just trying to make your point seem right, even if you use negative terms to try to show your point.
again..you are lost
rgchrono 1 year ago
@rgchrono Yeah? Then what is dating about, if not attraction?
SuperGrinningIdiot 1 year ago
@SuperGrinningIdiot : you don't get it
you are lost
rgchrono 1 year ago
I don't understand why men think they have to be one or the other------- WE WANT YOU TO BE NICE AND BAD!
LadyNemesis2007 1 year ago
@LadyNemesis2007 ready your comment again, champ.
Christianitylol 1 year ago
completely agree, women want a tease / something they cant get,
nice guys are there for them to much
guys that play with them and chose to push them away every now and then, keep them
wilkesd2601 1 year ago
It's not about being nice it's about being interesting and many times the the nice guy lacks the interesting facets a woman may be looking for.
RB902050 1 year ago
ok, how many good looking, wild, funny, alpha male, nice, rich, cultivated men exist? none!
the girls who follow their utopic expectations will end up lonley and/or boyfriend hopping.
streamgen 1 year ago
wow i feel like shit after 19 years....this is bullshit...thanks dude
xKSAx0JACKED0OG 1 year ago
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If you are the "nice guy" type, avoid Western women (America, Australia, Canada, and UK) b/c they shit on the "nice guy" type and worship the "asshole" type that treat them like shit.
Go to Central+S.America, Russia, and SE Asia for better women, you don't need dating advice to date women from these places.
Trust me, this comes from overseas dating experience.
ApollosInsight 1 year ago
Your voice is sexy
Pennys1 1 year ago
Wow..... This makes me feel worse than shit. Its like a slap to the face, and what makes it worse, at least to me, is the fact that its true. Its taken me a while but, slowly I've been falling into place and understanding women more and more. But this... this makes me feel pretty fuckin' bad....
parkourjosh 1 year ago
@parkourjosh yeah, it makes me feel like a fucking jerk - AGAIN - but this guy is right on the money - chicks don't really want nice guys regardless of whatever bullshit they are saying
haworthhoarder 1 year ago 2
i recently went through somethintg like this her reason was i was too nice i didnt even want to meet her she wanted to meet me and what sucks is i ended up liking her..that fucking hurt!
brawlz 1 year ago
Woman are brainless(I am a Lady btw) they read mills&boons(oh man) watch tv & expect men to be like that!When a woman is just that a woman..Hopefully she has clicked on..if she hasn;t RUN hahahahaha ;]
floydgirl7 1 year ago
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once girls are done getting stuffed by all the jocks, band members, yoga instructors then you can have the leftovers. Once she starts losing her looks, getting fatter / older and wants some chump to pay for her kids, dream wedding and house you can pay the bills. What you dont know is that while your at work the pool boy will be stuffing her because he makes her feel young again
5959512 1 year ago
It's not necessarily the bad boyness but the confidence I've heard. Thing is though, there is no tried and true set in stone way of this. Every single situation will be different. What one woman wants another will find appaling or not be as into.
The idealistic side I think MIGHT be a balance between the two. Nice and caring ,but also fun and spontaneous.
kurisu7885 1 year ago
because they don't know what they want..
MrPrideEvans 1 year ago
@Mikayish I can tell right away what ur problem is.. By the way u talk I can tell u dont have patience, u wana rush the girl into sex. Dude thats not the way it works u need to slowly seduce her. If u tell what u just said in ur comment ull end up looking like a jerk. Also u need to stop that victim mentality u got, stop whinning women hate whinners.
alex3373 1 year ago
Amen brother u speak the truth!! Agree with u 100%... CHURCH!
alex3373 1 year ago
In the whole grand scheme of things, if you are a nice guy an things don't work out with the girl there is only one thing you can do...go for mom! With all due respect, with age "cums" experience.
MrTrance3000 1 year ago
Scientists found that assholes - well they defined it as people scoring with high levels on the dark triad of personality traits - get more sex. Women like alpha males, and men demonstrate alpha status by being disinterested... I blogged about this...
harryfmk 1 year ago
So true, except that I would add one to the list of conditioning factors: mother. If a guy has a mom who is a feminist and raises him to be a "different" guy, different from all the other "chauvinists" in society...
...Yeah, he'll end up "different" alright. When it comes to women, he'll be doomed if he doesn't rebel in one serious way.
randommagnum 1 year ago
@randommagnum Could you provide an example on how you should rebel to get noticed by women?
WickedKnight07 1 year ago
@WickedKnight07 Well, the rebelling itself isn't what gets you noticed; what I mean by "rebel" is you just make it clear in your mind that you aren't going to listen to what she says regarding relationships, equality, feminism, etc. (but don't disregard all she says about life otherwise, and don't "rebel" in any general sense of the word; i.e. doing random stupid/illegit/pointless crap).
Don't listen to women SAY on that subject, but watch what they do, what they go for, what they DON'T notice.
randommagnum 1 year ago
@randommagnum Well I know not listen to women, THAT would be fucking stupid because they are never honest despite how much they ask us to be honest.
WickedKnight07 1 year ago
by saying all women want assholes, you are saying all women are the same and that is not true,women dont expect the perfect asshole or the perfect gentleman...there are women out there who just dont want to be lonely. usually a woman with to much expectations ends up being alone...thats what i think.
night88junkie 1 year ago
many of you people including you PUA followers go for the girl with daddy issues, there is nothing more destructive on women that having issues with theirfathers, the statics even prove it! It shows that women who had asshole/jerk fathers are more liking to end up with countless men her father, they also prove that women are more like to become promiscuous and suffer alot of psychological issues what will lead to alot of failed relationships. you see why you guys always end up single.
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
Nice guys do not finish last, i am so tired of this PUA seduction BS! It really ashamed me to see that everyone goes after these skanks and assume the bad experiences or their dysfunctional appeal is how all women are and what women want ,no! People don't seem to realize the majority of these girls you pick up are not mentally stable these women come from broken/absent father homes where their was alot of hell raise and so when a woman is treated nice it feels so foreign to her.
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
Dude, GREAT video... I need the HELP. LOL
supertenor 1 year ago
i am gonna treat the next women i meet like shit.instead of asking her stuff about herself, i am just going to say : my dick is really starving for a piece of meat like you.I tried nice guy,alpha male and bad boy, but nothing has worked..im good looking and intelligent, but when you haven¨t got a car or loads of money, they only wanna be your friend.When did charm, interest, love and affection stop being enough? It seems like we judge to quickly.Wouldnt the quiet guy seem most interesting?
Mickayish 1 year ago
You just gotta know HOW to be nice dumbfucks
sasoon 1 year ago
@sasoon Exactly sasoon.
attractionmethods 1 year ago
Insecure people are the ones that are nice cuz they don't want people to think badly of them. "jerks" on the other hand don't care what you think. If you like me great lets hang out, if you don't then move along and make room for people that do want to hang out with me. thats the attitude of a jerk. or should I say an alfa mail.
Notetomyse1f 1 year ago
to be ballsy, confident, spontaneous and fun is too much work, its easier to be lazy and not give a crap. juts compliment her over and over, and open doors for her, kiss her feet and maybe she'll like you back one day. lol just kidding (kinda)
ketogenesis 1 year ago
this is so funny chicks want something they think needs changing if you are nice there is not much to change so they feel useless but a bad boy has so many flaws and chicks think they can change that. For a man the challenge is getting into their panties but for a female the challenge is to change the bad boy into a nice guy lmao nice guys finish last alright because by the end of your life this is what you have become so keep kidding yourselfs bad boys lmao hahahahahaha
Masterkohatu 1 year ago
I don't believe that, I know with experience, I'm 43 years old and I didn't date to many women in my life because I was too nice, Of course I lived at home until I was 34 and my MOTHER kida took care of every thing for me and I notice when I was living at home women took advantage of me, not for sex but for my time and money.
exoticaguy69 1 year ago
I'm a nice guy, but I'm not a pushover. I'm an honest straight-shooter, but I'm not uber friendly. Many people thought I was a jerk because I'm blunt as a hammer. I'm still tactful, nonetheless. A few mistake my kindness for weakness. One time, I put a gang member's head through a plate glass window because he made that mistake. I caught him by surprised when I showed him I've had years worth of martial arts training. As far as women are concerned, I pretend I couldn't care less. That works.
daugenstine 1 year ago 7
@daugenstine Nice.
attractionmethods 1 year ago
@daugenstine you sound like an insecure little pussy who has to tell some fabricated story about how you beat up gang members. face it you're a fat little fuck in your mom's basement. shut the fuck up.
cbp4425ify 1 year ago
Excellent commentary. Key word is confidence. Women want the leader. (Fine line between confident and cocky though) confidence is a state of mind - cockyness is a front that you try to put to get attention
SkillzManiac 1 year ago
Sometimes it sucks being a nice guy, but its just how I am. I'm not a doormat, though. You can be a nice, civilized guy without being a boring doormat.
But yeah, bad boys get all the girls. Every girl I've had a serious chance with ended up staying with their bad boy boyfriend, and it just sucked--but I moved on.
Turlast 1 year ago
Don't worry nice guys. When those silly women stop watching so much mtv and their skin is crispy from all their fake tans and their boobs are saggy like grapefruits in socks and their vaginas are smothered in STDs like a hollowed out burrito filled with green chili and they stop getting drunk every weekend and THEY REALIZE THE ERRORS IN THEIR WAYS........you'll get your chance.
lol
JoshRom 1 year ago
@JoshRom hmm, what abt nice guys dating nice girls? there must be 'nice' girls out there that are not super 'pretty' on the outside, perhaps the 'nice' guys aren't even looking at those that are not so attractive? and looking for hot girls that would date a 'nice' guy only? Silly women you mentioned seem like those that party like crazy and obviously can get guys easily, not the ones that are shy and nice? those are probably not the nice guys type? hmm..
KS1224 1 year ago
@JoshRom - but after all that, what man in his right mind would WANT a chance?
WSenator1 1 year ago
You can be a nice guy, just don't be a boring pussy
sensationaldenny 1 year ago