Why Women are Intimidated by Educated, Intelligent, Conscious Men. Part 1 of 2

[rmsolympic1]

I have experienced something similar. One thought that has crossed my mind about this matter: perhaps some women have, consciously or unconsciously, decided that most Black men are intellectually one-dimensional, so that when they encounter an intellectually and/or spiritually well-developed Brother, it sort of throws them for a loop, making them very - and ironically - uncomfy with the very kind of man many women claim to seek. In fact, some women date fools so much that that is all they know.

[poeticpisces2007]

@rmsolympic1 That's true, I've even noticed it just in my pursuit for employment today. Like he said from the ages of 22-25 or 26, when you're closer to the age of 30, most men begin to awaken & start to notice particular behaviors in women and young females, especailly older women that have been abandonded by their biological fathers. Just watch a young woman now, who's in a position of authority or any kind of supervisoral position. The majority of them are very self-centered and insecure.

[rmsolympic1]

@poeticpisces2007 Yeah, it's pretty weird, almost as though - you know, interstingly enough, some of them may act this way moreso, if not exclusively, with ' different ' Black men, as opposed to,say, White men, particularly those White men whom they may deem brainy or professionally accomplished. In these particular cases, it;s almost as if, unconsciously, they see the Black guy's intellect as a sort of Coach knock-off bag: it must somehow be fake, But the White guy's must be real, cuz he White.

[poignant4insights]

@rmsolympic1 Women are retarded period. There's no helping them. Don't respect 'em, just fuck 'em and keep it moving. They're all attention-whores. It's no use being stuck with just one broad when they'll eventually cheat on their men no matter how good or well off he is. They'll look you right in the eye and lie to you then go suck someone else's dick even though most of 'em try to act like they don't, while you're at work being an honest, decent hard-working man. Condoms are awesome!

[poignant4insights]

@poeticpisces2007 True, women can be ..uhm, I mean ARE majoritively more self-centered & narcissistic than men are on any day. Like when you went to ask about the job yesterday. You were well-dressed, clean-cut & respectful. I noticed how she just looked you up and down as if you weren't even worth the time of day. And, she's black her damn self, plus took forever just to bring back an application. But, you handled it well, cause you sure don't need any more drama in Fredericksburg, VA.

[rmsolympic1]

Wow, your experience was heavy and yet, obviously, seminal. You were in the crucible of leadership. In my opinion, such crucibles are West Point academies of spiritual literacy and heightened consciousness, where you learn the ABC's of true survival, not unlike any battlefield in Afghanistan sans the bullets. It's a scary place that either breaks people or makes them warriors. Anyway, I am looking forward to new videos from ya.

[oveid]

It's bad enough trying to please women who are all NEVER SATISFIED. When you add a degree of some sort into the mix, now you have a woman who thinks she's better than men, even though she doesn't truly know what a man is. Women becoming cops was probably the stupidest thing they could have done if they are interested in respect.

[SpaceDoubtRapPage]

Man, you speak the truth. You're one of the people on youtube that I feel like I'm actually learning from. I subbed you man, please keep the knowledge flowing

[quixoto]

I'm sorry, can you really call this a "video?"

Isn't it more of an "audio?"

[boleroinferno]

You are wise; I'm glad that you're sharing your experiences with us, and I hope you have the opportunity to help guide those around you.

I think you should put a link to part 2 both in the description and have an overlaying link in the video.

[boleroinferno]

You should put a link to part 2 both in the description and have an overlaying link in the video.

You are wise; I'm glad that you're sharing your experiences with us, and I hope you have the opportunity to help guide those around you.

[framboise595]

Us women are intimated by educated ,intelligent ,conscious men but much more than that :we admire them. We admire them because they can lead us . We are attracted by them because any woman deep in her heart has a strong need to be guided and follow.

Women are attracted by strong intellectual men

Men turn away from "intellectual" women.

See the difference ?

The longer women study the more men turn aside from them.

[HumanRemodeling]

This whole video is about "I, my , mine" and not about giving anything to anyone else. That's not intelligent in the matters of heart and soul. True intelligence is not measured by how many books one has read :) It is measured by compassion and ability to love, give and serve.

Also, watch your voice - the whiney tone and all the incessant talking about you and you and only you and how you are special and everyone else just can't see it, is simply a put off to anyone, smart or not.

[logician3]

@HumanRemodeling Of course this vid is abuot ME you idiot. Guess what, its MY vid, on MY channel, and Im expressing MYSELF and MY views. Your a guest here, remember that!! So you watch your bitchy little tone!!! And if you dint like it, YOU had the freedom to simply watch one of the other 10 million vids here on YT instead of this one!!!

[hoboboxerjoe]

@logician3, wow, don't get so upset. I'm really frustrated by women and my relationships with them right now, too. Especially since I haven't had sex in almsot 2 years, soooo, I understand your frustration, quick freaking out at random people so easily though. Yeesh.

[88rosie8]

Who cares? this is all just your opinion, enjoy the self aggrandizement, I just switched off. Boring.

[blackbolt75]

@HumanRemodeling That's why they call it YOUTUBE. SMH.

[leostomicek]

I live far away from my home town, but recently I was visiting my neck of the woods and a young chick came to me and said: 'I heard that you are weird.' WTF?

[HumanRemodeling]

I have a PhD in engineering and am quite smart and also physically attractive, as well as outspoken. MEN RUN AWAY LIKE CRAZY. They are totally intimidated.

So, yes, men are scared of smart women too. Sorry! :) Majority of population does not have the capacity to deal with something complex. They need to eat and sleep and watch TV :) Plus, intelligent ones are not necessarily warm and loving, and often have their own ways, so it is even harder to pair up. Small pool to work with :)

[logician3]

@HumanRemodeling Yea, theres been a general dumbing down of America for the last 30 years. But the reason I made this vid is because we here about how men are supposedly intimidated by intelligent women all the time. The opposite is just as true but you'll NEVER here about. Just trying to bring a little balance to the situation. Also, a lot of women get being outspoken confused with being loud and belligerent. No man wants to be belittled. U have good qualities, but are you also a nice person???

[framboise595]

@logician3

You say men are supposedly intimidated by intelligent women but can't you see the difference ?

Men are NOT attracted by women who show off and display their "degrees" . They see it as a way to rule over them and they are right.

Not only are women attracted by men with degrees but they also admire them and consider them as a benefit for marriage (steady job ,financial security ..)

There is absolutely NO equality between the genders in the way they perceive and feel the same thing.

[Wytchfinde]

@framboise595

Not to mention that career women that have that background will never go out of their way to date blue collar men. You might as well be in a lower caste. I'm serious.

[framboise595]

@Wytchfinde

Of course. Women marry UP. They're not socially cornered to do so. It's natural attraction . A matter of hormones too.

I love it when feminists complain that men are 'machos' who don't want to marry 'successful' women . It is WOMEN who look down on less successful men !!

[Wytchfinde]

@framboise595

In a nutshell, most certainly. Many men are not intimidated by women who are in an higher echelon. They just don't even get a chance to date them----the janitor or the garbage collector are invisible to upper crust women.

[Wytchfinde]

@HumanRemodeling

The majority of women who claim they are successful, good-looking, and well-rounded---I have found---are cowards when it comes to dating.

I'm not the only one that has experienced this.

[theiceman2you]

@HumanRemodeling I have an MBA and NOT intimidated by college educated women! I notice that when women, especially Black women find out how education I had, they run for the hills! I make the effort NOT to talk about my education accomplishments but women, sooner or later, will ask me what my educational background is. There isn't that many college educated Black women out there - the numbers are inflated to give credence to this bullshit!! Other women of color and wht women don't do that!

[mostsincere]

@HumanRemodeling

I would not be intimidated by you. I can handle you. Peace.

[Pezoula462]

I think men and women are intimidated by anybody with intelligence.

[logician3]

@Pezoula462 Agreed...

[YoungBlackStud95]

Man Im so blessed. Im a dark skin smart 15 year old teenager and Im physically fit you kno I play sports I out run people im in good shape. But not only that Im a introvert and I LOVE watching documentaries and reading books. And I noticed girls are really really attracted to me. I often get asked from my family members. How many girlfriends you got Im like none why?But I already kno why I have so called "good hair" which by the way i detest that term.And im dark skin and fit which is a bonus.

[TheShadowtail1126]

You read between 2 to 3 thousands books?! A thousands books is a big difference. I would know if I read more than a thousand books. If you did it in three years you would have to read between 2 to 3 books a day. Your full of shit. You cant read that many books a day unless they where Dr. Seuss books. You dont have to lie bro.

[patriciacarrasco]

i like ur video and your self-awareness..if ure still looking for the truth? look to Jesus, take care

[CaramelCleo]

You have hit the nail on the head for a lot of women. I think intelligent men are extremely attractive however, men who are constantly thinking are harder to read than a guy whom you know is only thinking about one thing. And when I approach an intelligent man, I'm constantly wondering whether or not he sees me on his level and if I'm not, would he humiliate me and drop me. Ready for part 2

[logician3]

@CaramelCleo "I'm constantly wondering whether or not he sees me on his level and if I'm not, would he humiliate me and drop me" Question: What would make you think this in the first place?? Have you actually experianced that happening before in a relationship.?? Im just trying to find out why women try to think of the worst possible senario with good men, but think of best possible senario with knuckheads. Seems kinda back wards to me... Just wanderin...

[CaramelCleo]

@logician3 Well, I try to not to compare men of my past to future men because it can do more harm than good. Its not so much that I try to think of the worst as it is, I'm more careful. Lets say you buy a very cheap hooptie. Its a car, great, but youre not as worried about it breaking down, its almost expected. However, when you upgrade to a luxury car, you are excited and expect the best. However, you tend to be more worried about whether or not it will quit on you so youre more careful.

[logician3]

@CaramelCleo Feedback, mistakes from the past should be analyzed and learned from so we dont make the same mistakes in the future,. This is a chronic problem among women and relationships (men too), makin the same stupid mistakes over and over again. If the engine blew on your hooptie even though youve got a luxary car now, you'll tend to check the oil more often. Its a good thing you actually do approach smart guys though. @ Thumbs up!! Oh, and you still didnt answer my original question...

[mvs31a]

Damn your life sounds like mine. LOL

[tobysoter]

Whenever I use intellect around "certain" women they tend to go bonkers.

[Sexymetroman]

I don't have to watch this vid to answer the question. But, also add beautiful sexy men, as well creative/artistic men, fasionable men, etc. Right quick, they know that were above tem, but the system is to thier advantage, they therfor date only submissive, weak men who achieve masculinity through the sytem of professional sport's. what fucking fags, to know a mans stat's career, college life, wtf. and i was concidedrd fem when I whore my man hood and paid a price for it aswell, homeless nigga.

[LanlandeVAG]

me as a female, I totally agree. I remember at 22 I ran away from an intelligent man. Now at 26 and conscious, Ive realized an intelligent, conscious man is whom I desire. But now is so hard to find.

continuing to part 2

[logician3]

I luv when women comment on this sort of thing. It helps us all become a little more aware of the true complex nature of both sexes and some of the lesser kown insecurities that many women exhibit. Thus, we as a people could begin to rebuild our coulture and the idea of the family unit based on this new understanding. Very encouraging. Thankx for watchin Sis... ...

[zk92000]

It seem to me most BW only go after, or date men that they feel are "in or Below their league". Sometimes it seem they dont want to date a man THEY see as bein out of their league. Maybe they feel a real deep dude is kinda too much to handle. But aside from that, some women have told me the type of men that they want to hold a conversation with is not the type of men they are sexually attracted to. go figgure....

[edupbeat]

This is sooo true dog! And I love how u clarify that women are attracted 2 u/us, but once they c your consciousness, they hit the "alert" button. Its almost like a light goes off in their head and they say 2 themselves " I can't dupe this one"!

[whitebitchnigga]

The BW wants control,thats why they deal with weak men,they want to manipulate them. A strong minded BM presents a challenge to BW. It's all about control with the black woman

[Remedymp]

I think they're avoid the true challenge. Non-sexuality. When it comes to Intellect, she can't hang. But, when it comes to sexuality, she can bang all day. During the election, I met this BW & she asked me about my opinion on Obama. When I challenged all her view points on obama & stood my ground with conviction, she didn't want to socialize anymore. She told me "don't try & change her views". I didn't! I just used my intellect! She never spoke to me again.

[cjjaxxon]

@Remedymp Amazing ain't it? LOL.