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  • Ohmygod , thank you so much.

  • Oh yah and you are such a beautiful person in every way!

  • This is the best advice I've ever heard!

  • you made my day .. <33

  • Can I PLEASE get personal advice on this?? Message me please. I am desperate.

  • @wildchild401 Hi, this is my job so you are welcome for coaching. Just chock my website for prices and information :)

  • Ok i really need help im desperate theres a boy that i like he is totally cute he said he likes me a little bit i dont know if that means i should ask him out i mean i thought its supposed to be the boy asking the girl now what am i gonna do i know what kinda boy he is and he wont ask me out till i drop hints but am i really supposed to he already knows i like him so what should i do plz help plz i really need your help

  • @riah9826 Some men are shy. Be bold and start the conversation. I never just bodly ask them out, start with a conversation. The vibe will tell you if he wants to date or not :)

    I have heard plenty of my guy friends say they are scared to approach a woman if they are really hot and/or they really like her.

    Be bold, and hey whats the worst that could happen .. no? LOL. There are 7 BILLION ppl out there !

  • My bf liked some one else while we were in love, not dating just super close basically dating and he told me today I can't stop crying please respond

  • All girlz that have commented here well let me give u some advice when he dumps u become rude give attitude and thats whats gonna make him want u back if he hates u pretend u hate him and like i said show attitude once u have done that if it dont work well then make him jelouse pretend u like another boy make it gossip all around then he will start making hints trying to get u back

  • what i was doing was exsactaly what you said not to do so i am gonna take your advice he dumped me and now im a lonley teenage girl i want him back but thanks for the advice

  • I'm a guy. All you girls saying that he broke up with you and now you want him back. STOP put all these emotion's aside and think logically. What do you really have to do to get him back? Certainly not whining about it. Nobody likes a weak person. So go out there, work on yourself. Get your emotions in control and do your thing. When he sees that you are not affected by what he did then he'll want to know more about you and come to you. Remember men like chase.

  • @324582782 Well said :)

  • I broke up with my boyfriend because he was clingy, childish, and we didnt do any couple stuff. Now I REALLY want him back but I have no I idea on what to say, when to do it, or how to do it. What if he says no or hell what if the world explodes!!!! please please PLEASE respond

  • Oh, sister. People aren't worth asking back.

  • ok well my boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago because of a rumor that i was cheating on him... i dont know what to do... i told him its not true over and over again... but he still doesnt belive me.. WHAT DO I DO??

  • You cannot make someone come back to you. Why try for someone that doesn't care enough about you to stay with you in the first place? Real love does not just go away. This just does not work. Chasing after someone does not end well and when you get back together all you have is a bruised ego, and a broken heart. Is he so worth it now? i would sadly beg to differ ladies and gentlemen.

  • Okay so he dumped me over text!!! The night before on skype he was all like "wow you are soo pretty I'm glad youre mine!!" and "I love you" and all that stuff!! Then the next day he broke up with me......ughhhh!!! Then he started going out with the girl I hate more then ANYTHING!!!! Now I want him more then ever:(

  • he told me 5 months ago he needs time for himself :( and, he texts me like, every other day. and, he tried putting the blame on me. and, he says we will go back out, but he doesnt know when. and, im afraid he never will come back. :(

  • this boy hates me like hell pls help me tell me what to do my life is a complete disaster and i totally love him i can't stop dreamin bout him!!!!

  • Feel like shit!(: 0:39

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  • So...my bf broke up with me 3 months ago and we see each other A LOT during school...he probably thinks I'm a stalker :p haha but anyways, I have a big mouth and every time he's around I'll say something stupid like "I need another boy" or something or I'll be super loud and happy which overdoes it :p I really want to win him back so hopefully this works(: If not, at least i'll be happy still (:

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  • your amazing haha :)

  • What if I broke up with him not he broke up with me would this method/methods still work?

  • i want my ex back but the same time i dont.. i gess when he left me i felt lost and miserible .. i feel so cold and alone im tierd of crying and im tierd of triying yes im smileing but insidd im dieying. i want for him to know and fell the pain i felt ... lost, cold, alone .

  • i totally feel the same way as you. My ex proposed to me, and THEN dumped me like the idiot he is. i couldn't eat or sleep or think right. meanwhile he's just fine. I'd bet a pretty penny that he isn't going through anything like me. no tears,no horrible loneliness... nothing. i miss him like hell, but he is SO not worth it! and i hope he feels my pain some day. i hear karma's a bitch, but is it really?.... i don't know, but i hope so

  • i broke up with him, but i regret it, i'm too afraid to ask him back out, he might laugh at me :'(

  • @xXglittterwitchXx Oh. Are you scared of laughs? Come on... what if he wants you back to? Isn´t it worth taking a risk?

  • @carolinlovecoach

    Well I'm Scared of not just laughs, but i'm also scared he'll reject me:(

    But your right, i'll try next time i see him:) Thanks

  • @carolinlovecoach

    i am male and i have never a girlfriend ever before

    and i am going places to find them .

  • @xXglittterwitchXx same here ;o i broke up with him and i really want him back. but just tell him how much you miss him. And maybe he'll understand.

  • @jilienirigoyenn

    Thanks:) But i decided its not worth it D; so i let it go and now we're real good friends:) I hope u and ur guy gets better tho!:)

  • @xXglittterwitchXx thanks (:

  • @jilienirigoyenn

    No problem :3

  • @xXglittterwitchXx  me too </3

  • @xXglittterwitchXx Life is all about risks !

  • @xXglittterwitchXx Life is all about risks (appropriate risks)

  • my hero!

  • your amazing :) you've inspired me so much... now im confident... i actually broke up with him but he wants to stay friend. i think that is a good thing because he might want me back if i just be myself :) im hoping for the best ^^

  • What if your boyfriend isnt into u and hes the kind of boy that hates you now but you REALLY!!!!! want him back bcuz its exactly like me now my ex boyfriend hates me so much but i am sooooooo desperate to get hin back and its like i cant live :((((((

  • what if you don't think he really liked you when you were going out with him?

  • @alysonivette Why would you want someone who does not like you? Sometimes we are drawn to them because they are a challenge... Watch my video "When you can´t stop thinking of HIM". Then clarify to yourself what you truly wish for at this point in your life.

  • I'll try to use your advices tomorrow, when I'm going over to my ex to have a talk with him about what happened.

    Wish me luck! :)

  • @CarolineSkov Better to use the advice than to count on luck :) But I hope you are meant to be. If you are not, the angels will direct you in another direction. x

  • is it really that smart to purposely dig the grave? if anything should happen it should happen spontaneously

  • lol does she blink

  • My boyfriend and I were together for 4 years and he broke up with me because I am the kind of person who has a bad temper. Anyways after the break up I realized I need to change and I'm taking steps to doing that. And I'm already seeing a difference in myself. I'm more happy and relaxed now. Now the only thing I'm missing is my boyfriend back. I'm not sure what I should do to get him back. People say wait for him to call/text you. But what do I do after he has contacted me?

  • She has GREAT POINTS

  • When will you girls learn that guys hate relationship games?

    The truth is much simpler! Ask the questions that you are anxious to ask him, tell him how you feel and you will get an honest answer I PROMISE!

    Stop letting the fear of rejection alter your course of action!!

  • Ok....Well my bf broke up with me...I really liked him but he liked someone else. I told him how upset i was but he didnt seem to care! That happened last school year. I got over him over summer, but know school is back and i think i might like him again! i asked one of my friends to ask him if he likes me anymore the answer was no!!!! But i really want to change his mind!! Idk what to do!!!!! please help!!!!!!!!!

  • @SongBird100001 Listen, I want you to join every club in school and start new activities like clothing/food/volunteer drives and/or act in a play where you can bring attention to your character. In addition to caring for your looks, these activities will make you so attractive to everyone. Everyone will praise how amazing you are. All the GOOD boys will giving you attention. Your ex will want you back because they never want us with someone new. You will have options and confidence to say NO!

  • um me and this guy broke up a while back and he used to tell me everyday that he still loved me and he always would.....im not sure why we broke up we just did and i still love him alot but now he has a girlfriend and we are friends but i want him bck so badly how can i get him back!!!

  • I was with my boyfriend for 6 months, and we were so in love. We've been broken up for 6 months now, and I've been miserable since then. Have I ruined my chances of getting him back? I've been too clingy and I still tell him I love him every day. He tells me that he loves me too, but he doesn't want me back because he is too unsure about it. I don't know what to do now. It's horrible.

  • I got broke up wit bc I'm annoying:(

  • @fevofbieb be with a man who loves to be around you. we can´t please everyone, can we?

  • my boyfriend broke up with me coz i wasnt texting him he said coz when he tries to talk to me im always 'buzy' and he didnt even say it to me my bff called me whilst i was watching tv with my family but i love him sooo much and apparently he had a crush on me for a year and i was crying and i rly wanna get bck with him

  • hahaha ¨i tryed all this but it didn't work¨

  • Baby girl just tell him how you really feel Bo honest with him

  • me and my boyfriend just broke up yesterday and we were together for 8 months and he dumped me becausehe liked someone else but i really really wang him back but HOW .!!

  • so me and my boyfriend broke up 6 months ago... he dumped me and i really havent got over him and hes dating another girl.. my friends think hhe has a thing for me still but isnt saying anything because hes dating someone else.. i dont want to say anything to him because i dont want our friendship to be awkard.. and if he doesnt like me back it would be really awkard... what should i do? please help

  • @taylorswiftgirl1231 Hi girl, I am happy to help through Skype coaching. I work as a coach and you can read more about my services on my website :)

  • To mld are you guys still a couple

  • I really miss my bf but he never txt me is tht a bad thing

  • I wish this can help me and I only like 14

  • me and my ex broke up because we didnt talk for a day...so hes like well since u dont talk to your boyfriend i guess u dont have time for one we r over....thts when it all ended... but we were in a really good and caring realationship for a really long time and i want him back and thats all i can think about but i dont know if hes worth it...is he? or is it just a waste or time...also i would like to say we r really great friends it just doesnt feel right

  • Thank you sooooooo much!!!!! You helped allot!

  • hi, its been 4 month after i brokeup n i neva try 2 contact him since then but last month i wished him on his b'day thru facebook but instead of responsing me back he just blocked me... we almost getting married but at the end his mind changed n he leave me even when there is no any mistake from my side.. wat cud b the reason behind that..m going thru very painful life.. plzz help i need him back anyhow..

  • My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he doesn't love me any more...but I know some where in side he still does

  • I've done all of the stuff that you said not to do! is there anyway that I can bring that back so that he might want me again by doing what you said?

  • i need him!

  • Thank you so much!

  • Well, this is embarrassing but...I'm a guy watching this video. My girlfriend broke up with me about two months ago saying she just believes we're better of as just friends.I haven't seen her since then but the school year is approaching once more. But in this period of absence I've done wonders to myself; I've really figured out who I am and what I want in life and part of that...is still her.2 Days ago she contacted me via facebook casually asking how my vacation was. What should I do?

  • @TheSacredSound I know ur asking this to the lady in the video and all but I just waanted to help.. Anyways here goes:, tell her how you really feel, how you've changed and proove it to her! make plans with her bring her flowers, do stuff you never did with her before, show her how much you care about her :) that's just my advice

    p.s. it's ben like 3 weeks since u posted that comment so idk if things worked out but hope it did ! :)

  • my bf broke up with me because he dose not have time for me he works all the time im so sad about it and just want to talk to him but he wont reply what do i do? :(

  • I love this video thAnk u

  • he isnt making me feel special or loved eventhough he says he loves me, and i love him so much but i am sick of being with when he doesnt know how to be with me. what should i do i really want him back but i want him to improve but i dont know if he will want me back.

  • I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because the first time we had a fight i told him to be better in treating me and stuff and he did become better but these few months he went back to being a bad bf, but i dont blame him he isnt eperienced and i was his first proper gf, but i think he needs to try harder with me. he says i need to tell him what he is doing wrong but i feel like a bad person telling him to do things. he isnt making me feel special or loved eventhough he says he loves me.

  • hello, My boyfriend left me a week ago, and since then we haven't been talking, (except one time) but we should go to get a cup of coffee later this week. We've been together for 4 years and i miss him and love him so much :( He isn't sure in our relationship any more, sure if he sees the future (no other women involved). Also he had been in a lot of stress lately(work, college etc...) How should I proceed? How to gain his hart back? I'm afraid the coffee could go wrong :/

  • i break up with all of my bf.. idk y i just have and i just broke up with the guy i love cuz he was trying to make me break up with him cuz he doesnt like me anymore and i am so sad like it wasnt really a mistake to break up with him cuz i dont want to go out with someone who doesnt like me but i just want him back:( what shud i do to get him t not like my bestfriend cuz he kinda likes her, i dont want her going out with him! thats all really i dont really want him anymore cuz he doesnt like me.

  • @alucky31alissa6 Hey darling, you are worthy of a loooovely relationship. Let yourself be loved! Take off that mask of yours...

    If you best friend goes out with your ex, she is not your best friend.

  • So Me And my Boyfriend Just Broke Up i was the one who did it i did it becuase i still have Feelins For him n Some people Tells Me he Still Likes Me It Been Like a 2 Month Since me and himm broke up Should i Belive them!!!???!

  • @55cutiebunny How will you find out if you don´t ask? :)

  • My boyfriend left me for a other girl but he is so cute i want him back. HELP!!!!!

  • @schultz4016 WTF... dooood you shouldn't even try.. he's going to screw you all over again.. this happened to me but it was with my best friend then he ran back to me then did it all over again!!.. he's not worth it; you don't deserve to get hurt :|

  • my break-up was based on drama so i broke-up wit him but now im thinkin it was a mistake im thinkin tht i jst could have ignored it but i didnt now he has a gf nd everything sooooo this wont help me well maybe ^_^

  • ...than I'll never understand. He also said that we had been growing apart. He said that he didn't want me to think that he doesn't love me. Ever since this happened I've been doing a lot of thinking. Asking myself if I really love him. Asking lots of questions. I came to realize that I really do love him and I think that we can work this out. I haven't tried to really contact him because I felt that he needs space. what to do next ?

  • My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. At first he said we needed to take a break because of his job and how much time he needed to put into it this summer. He's a filmmaker which requires a lot of time that he wouldn't be able to give me. He said it wouldn't be fair to me. In my hysteria, I begged him not to do this and I called him selfish. I think I made a mistake by saying that. After that he said he didn't know if this was just a break or a break up. He said if I don't understand now...

  • So me and ma x broke up 7 months ago n yesterday we were txting each other and he said he still like me alot but when we broke up he said he was over me n liked another girl Idk what 2 do I still like him but I'm not sure if I should get back with him please help ASAP

  • @mexicanos4eva go out wit him,c if it works out if it dosent jst dump him there r secound chances nd if there is take it i wish i got a secound chance wit my ex have fun gal be4 he goes 2 a different gal hurry up times ticken but the decision is totally 2 u

  • So me and my boyfriend have broken up twice first I broke up with him and then he broke up with me because he says he wasn't happy but see he said it wasn't me causing the unhappiness so what should I do because he wants to talk Saturday :/

  • @TinaTits93 Focus on him, because it is not about you... He is unhappy, so ask and listen and give him a hug. He doesn´t have space for you right now so avoid speaking about yourself and your needs :) Just hug and love.

  • My bf says I am not the same person he fell in love with, but a lot has happened since I met him, I was laid-off, moved back in w/my parents (I'm 29), and I have been doing all the things I can to get a job...and admittedly, I've been dwn bec I'm in a bad place...being negative, but sufferent thru it, and fighting to be happy again... The last thing he told me bscly is tht he needs to focus on his life and his business, and I "need to get a job" and become again who he fell in love with. Advice?

  • @NawticJ Also...he just got a new job - he urged me to live back w/my fam despite my worries, n it has effected me bec I'm so independent...he lives far away...I now feel like I'm lowly to him, and he thinks I'm bringing him down...it's awful...

  • @NawticJ dont let him change u maybe the reason u changed is bcuz u started goin out wit him move on wit ur life have a good life!!!!! get a job tht u want i no my reply is a little late (i mean very) but still make him beg on his knees 4 u nd play hard 2 get, get a hotter bf show him ur VERY independent nd tht u dont need him

  • thank you

  • my ex boyfriend thinks i will break his heart again but i've changed and i need ways to let him get his wall down. do you have any suggestions?

  • @dearbriellex3 actions speak louder than words

  • @dearbriellex3 should i go see him? we were a long distance couple.

  • helloo am beth and am 15 years old! yeah you all might think oo she dont know what love is but i really do! i been heart broken so many times! but i have put a smile on my face but this boy friend i really do love him and he tells me that we will get back together cuz right now we are ona break! i just dont know why but we are! we text a lot and ring each other a bit! watching this i think this has helped me tbh i do miss him but i know ill see him again!! i just dont get why we are on a break?

  • @bethaniie100 A break is a gift to you, time to discover who you are and what drives YOU

  • @carolinlovecoach so we will defo get back together then?? cuz i really do love him and we do still meet up and all that and call each other!

  • @bethaniie100 Don´t meet him for a while. He has to get time to miss you, right... :)

  • @carolinlovecoach but he wants too meet me he rings me up asking to go to his and that? so what do i do tell him am busy?

  • @crispexi:  same here!!!

  • i was dumped by my bf, he said it was cuss he didnt trust me enough? now he said he possibly wants to go back out, he keeps saying idk. i wish i really knew what he meant. all i know is our realationship was going pretty good. he still talks to me, and says oh i dont care if you go out with another guy out of the blue in a conversation. he obviously still cares if he brought that up.do you know whats going on in his brain?

  • @linkinParkGirl10 He doesn´t trust you and is testing you with questions. What have you done to make him loose trust in you?

  • @linkinParkGirl10 nope we started dating online not too long ago, he had other girl friends that used him. ive known him for 2 years, i was always there for him when he needed it. i thought he would know me by now. he said he would think about it,was him saying he loved me a lie?

  • hi im 14 years old, and i just got dumped last night :( we were a month together and he randomly texted me: "i think we should break up" and i was like WTF! because we were perfect! i never stalked him, or pushed him and he was so sweet, so i did not expect from him to dump me ! and i'm a very sensitive girl and i literally cried from 1am to 5am :'( and today i woke up crying AGIAN... and i find myself very preetty and i have a good heart and he just told me that he does not like me anymore:(

  • I have severe depression and just lost my boyfriend. Y'know what? You just made me smile so much :) much love for what you do!

  • @SiianyXx reflecting back on previous relationships (im a guy) i would have taken the girl back if she tried to talk to me about a month later, but only if she didn't bring up anything from the past, but just made some short friendly contact and built it up over the weeks from there.

  • @crispexi Really calms me down to know there's hope. My only problem is that we were in a long distance relationship. I know he left me due to me causing arguments and being constantly moody 'cause of the depression, but I'm getting help for that now. It's a lot harder to act like you're happy in front of a guy who can't see you! I'm relying on facebook and msn here. He hated the distance, I know that, but we managed and we were happy and he could cope better than me. Times are tough.

  • @SiianyXx I was in a few long distance relationships. I stopped doing that unless I can visit them within a day. So say no more than 2-3 hours away by car at most :\

    LD is tough sometimes. My lifestyle made it easy to have LD because I was always online, but now a days I'm not really on as much so I rather have someone closer.

  • @crispexi It's just hard 'cause I can see on his facebook he's been going to parties & hanging out with friends & doesn't seem to miss me. I'm trying to turn the tables and show him I can do the exact same and put across the idea that I don't need him. Not sure if it's working since I don't know how he's feeling. He's swedish and has no need to talk in english anymore, but he's been putting some status' and comments in english and even changed his picture to the one I used to say I loved of him.

  • Good Advice! I'm going to try and get my man back. I will send you another comment to tell you how it went.

  • This is so wonderful. So zen and awesome.

  • Would this work if my ex left me 6months ago, because he is just bored with me? He said he was going to explore, and he said he moved on some. So..

  • When you feel like, er um SHIT(:

    haha I love this video, thanks (:

  • I love this video so much! The advice is so true, and it actually helped me get back together with my boyfriend. I was focusing on the negative and he could tell--it never worked! As soon as I became positive and carefree (overall, not just to get him back), suddenly everything just fell into place! Thanks so much! Love from the U.S.A. :)

  • @chinesefiredrill2 Ooooh, I am so happy for you :)

  • hello... Carolin.. would this work after a 3 years relationship, and been separated for a 5mths before and recouple, and now we broke up seem difference than last time, this relationship seem perfect but unstable, what should I do next ? plus... we work together, how I'm going to treat him?

  • thank you : )

  • hey wud this work if u broke up with him and hes already moved on? im only twelve. is that too ypung to feel like u love somebody? PLEASE HELP ME! : )

  • @Weamrandom Lovely you. You are never to young for love of the world, for loving the sun and the moon and your friends and being alive. To be tied up with one person is a waste though... Live with passion, focus on the positive.

  • Hi I'm megan your advice helped me alot but woulld this work for a 11 year old

  • @meganhanson101 Dear, focus on what you love doing now. What makes you happy and smiling - riding horses, read books or painting? When you put yourself in the center, the right boy will come along after a while. Don´t adjust anything about yourself at the moment!!!

  • @carolinlovecoach ok thanks your right :)

  • Don't bother getting the guy back, if he left you, accept it and move on! you probably don't deserve him, Try to change and stop being a bitch, we dont like blogers that seat typing on their pc and complain all day, get the fuck up and do something before you trash up your girlfriend and the guy that just left you! Get some self respect.

    T.C u all.

  • @nicolaidna It´s not about deserving or not. Cheer up now. Life will be brighter when you spread love :)

  • :/ i'll try :/ :D x will let you know how it turns out :D x

  • good advice , i remember that when i was younger my ex broke up with me and i really loved her but i kept living normally without showing my feelings to her and she came back to me in no time =)

  • I had to laugh so much when she asked''is it because you love and miss him/her so much or is it because of your ego and it was comfortable to have him/her''...i realized something at that moment. napoleon complex etc...awesome! thx carolin!

  • @HeidePark1987 Thank you for watching. Hope there is heaps of love in your life.

  • as a dude i say u have to keep that sexy up the minut u become negative or controlling he will just go els were unless he has no self esteam

  • I just love all your videos:D

    Love from Sweden.

  • @kaddoa Thank you!! Love from Australia :)

  • So you tried all of these and they didnt work for you, sounds like you give some good advice darling!!

  • @Animationgatecom Haha, I tried all the wrong things until I learned... :)

  • true .. attract instead of chasing

  • wat a lesbian

  • i dont want her back she played a game with me sow ruinned my life and my heart sow no way :(

  • I really like the fact that you describe how people can act "crazy" after being dumped. I think it makes people feel less crazy to know that they aren't the only ones who feel that way & act so out of character during these times.

  • omg we can ALL be crazy :) The trick is to accept the anger, frustration and sadness but not ACT on it. But we all fail. Me too. We can only do our best and learn.

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