thanks for the video. a lot of assholes misconstrued the message of this video. you can not just tell kids "don't have sex because i said so". that does not and will not ever work. sexual education is one of the tools you equip your children with.
Oh, and why is it that when a girl DECIDES to have sex with a guy she's a victim? If she regrets it, that's her fault. I wish people took more responsibility for their actions...
I love how there's no talk about even encouraging abstinence... just because it's an uphill battle doesn't mean it's reasonable to forget all about it, like "oh shit, the kids are going to fuck anyway, let's throw condoms at them." "Teach them about being sexually active and being safe." FUCK YOU. Children should be told not to have sex, fuck.
I think every generation of females had the same problem if not similar(think when the miniskirt came out)Girls are becoming sluts,not girls anymore.And what's worse is that some guys are actually promoting it by saying bullshit like"I love it when you wear this,dye your hair that"etc.Some guy said if I want to dye my hair I should do it blonde.I'm like,no way am I doing that!I love my natural hair color.
girls are brainwashed to bascially become sluts. they will feel left out if they don't have sex by a certain age, dress a certain way, shag around etc etc. but the thing is, guys dont wanna settle down with girls like that.
I am so tired of hearing the " the greeks molested kids so it must be ok " excuse. Just because something is common practice doesn't mean it's not damaging greeks also sent some young boys at the age of 5 to be warriors do you advocate that ? No!The greek culture was very violent especially the young men..perhaps as a reation to being violated on a regular basis. Sex is not evil but sex comes with responsibilities and young people are not ready for them especially when adults are included!
I agree that having sex with young boys is wrong, but it was the Spartans who trained young boys to be warriors and the Athenians who had sex with them. Completely different cultures. A Spartan who had sex with a young boy would have been killed.
Women generally are not the victim but more often the voctomiser. Every time a woman puts out for a man, a man puts out for a woman, is he a vicom. ofcourse not there is no victom. It was "CHOOSE" are does only count when kiilling babys.
the problem is both cause by the liberal left and the capitalist fashionist right and even the religious institution.
the liberal-left says: do everything sexual, if it feels good do it!
fashionist capitalists says: your ugly, your a whore, you might as well accept it now and buy this mini skirt and make up
Religious institutions say: your are born evil by the original sin, you should feel guilty about your feelings, and desires and your body. but repression lead to excessiveness!
America has been demoralized by Marxist-Leninist propoganda brought to us through socialist public education system. This immorality is just another symptom to a much bigger problem. We've been brainwashed and nobody knows the full extent, but you can learn a lot if you try trusting God. The founders of our country did. It took them a few generations to unlearn many things that were brainwashed into them (e.g. witches, forced religion), but eventually they made it. We can too!
I feel really sorry for boys because we ae havingthe conversations about protecting young women from disease and we want our young women not to grow up too soon but whos looking out for the boys? We teach our sons that boys will be boys and male sexuality is normal as a teen but our girls must be under lock and key there are two sides to this issue and the boys need protection as well.
What you're aying sounds like a great fairy tale, but in reality girls DO face a lot of contradicting pressure, both to be "sexy" and "sexual" and to be "pure" and "virginal". That constant tension in the collective psyche between the Saint and the Whore puts a lot of pressure...and can take you places where you don't want to be... Date rape anyone?
That's completely contradictory. You can't be sensual and sexual while being virginal at the same time. It's like being a gun toting mass murderer who's peaceful and calm and non-violent. Notice I neglected to say 'pure' since I don't consider sex to be dirty or wrong at all, and I mean this for both boys and girls.
ariakokoschka, I take it from your comment that you've seen the movie, Network? It's a great movie, you're comment just made me think about that movie again.
I agree that girls need to be informed about and practice safe sex if they are sexually active
HOWEVER - I am tired of hearing that "some girls give it up too easily" - girls shouldn't have to submit to an ideology that makes us more valuable the more unattainable we are or regards us as too dumb to make decisions about our bodies-- our sexuality isn't dirty and we shouldn't have to deny our desire
Maybe people are questioning wether we value our bodies and sex as much as we should. It is something that can produce a light and unique bond between us as human beings. I strongly disagree with it being degraded to something to sell products, music, or to alleviate unwanted feelings of sexual frustration (as many of my friends do). I question if the desire and belief for immediate gratification of desires (fuelled by culture and media) hasn't infected societies view on sexuality?
I am sure that culture and media have affected how society views sexuality, and there are serious problems with the commodification of human bodies to sell products. Valuing our bodies and sex would entail respecting people's sexual choices, if even to relieve sexual frustration. To value our bodies and sex is to believe that neither are derogatory when everything is consensual.
the idea that a girls value decreases the more sexual partners she has is not an ideology. it is a real fear deep within the human (especially male) psyche. a girls sexual reputation is directly related to male paternity reliability. it is not ideology.
I know what ignaciom means, it's not ALL cultural. Evolutionarily, a girl knows whether a child she's caring for is her baby or not, while a guy can only guess. If a girl's promiscuous, a guy might end up having to care for a baby that isn't genetically related to him. This is all Stone Age stuff, wired into our brains before birth control existed.
But I agree, the media definitely puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on girls to be sexual.
i agree with the fact that we need to make sure girls are being safe and informed when they are sexually active
HOWEVER -- i am tired of hearing that "some girls give it up too easily" we shouldn't have to submit to ideolgies that regard girls as more valuable when they are less attainable - girls shouldn't have to deny our desire -- our sexuality isn't dirty
Of course I listen, and of course I encourage my 15 year-old to keep talking. The hard part is what do I tell her? So far, it's 1) sex requires emotional maturity 2) sex can feel demeaning outside of a caring relationship, 3) High School kids are highly sexist and brutal to "sluts", 4) Condoms aren't 100%. What else?
Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with? Your self worth isn't defined by your sexuality? Sounds like you have the big issues covered, just be open for questions. Thats a big help.
exactly! too many adults rely on the television and other media sources to provide the information to kids that they themselves "don't have the time" to disseminate. stop being absentee parents!! sex is not evil, but teach sex ed and birth control early.
thanks for the video. a lot of assholes misconstrued the message of this video. you can not just tell kids "don't have sex because i said so". that does not and will not ever work. sexual education is one of the tools you equip your children with.
cherubicnerd 9 months ago
Oh, and why is it that when a girl DECIDES to have sex with a guy she's a victim? If she regrets it, that's her fault. I wish people took more responsibility for their actions...
losersalwayswin 2 years ago 3
I love how there's no talk about even encouraging abstinence... just because it's an uphill battle doesn't mean it's reasonable to forget all about it, like "oh shit, the kids are going to fuck anyway, let's throw condoms at them." "Teach them about being sexually active and being safe." FUCK YOU. Children should be told not to have sex, fuck.
losersalwayswin 2 years ago 2
@losersalwayswin wooord up im thinkin the same thing
a4d2d0 2 years ago
I think every generation of females had the same problem if not similar(think when the miniskirt came out)Girls are becoming sluts,not girls anymore.And what's worse is that some guys are actually promoting it by saying bullshit like"I love it when you wear this,dye your hair that"etc.Some guy said if I want to dye my hair I should do it blonde.I'm like,no way am I doing that!I love my natural hair color.
BodhisattvaxChihiro 2 years ago 3
girls are brainwashed to bascially become sluts. they will feel left out if they don't have sex by a certain age, dress a certain way, shag around etc etc. but the thing is, guys dont wanna settle down with girls like that.
girls - be girls. guys like that.
sugarpuffsandwich 2 years ago 4
I am so tired of hearing the " the greeks molested kids so it must be ok " excuse. Just because something is common practice doesn't mean it's not damaging greeks also sent some young boys at the age of 5 to be warriors do you advocate that ? No!The greek culture was very violent especially the young men..perhaps as a reation to being violated on a regular basis. Sex is not evil but sex comes with responsibilities and young people are not ready for them especially when adults are included!
krissy4nik 2 years ago
I agree that having sex with young boys is wrong, but it was the Spartans who trained young boys to be warriors and the Athenians who had sex with them. Completely different cultures. A Spartan who had sex with a young boy would have been killed.
logic11isGod 2 years ago
Women generally are not the victim but more often the voctomiser. Every time a woman puts out for a man, a man puts out for a woman, is he a vicom. ofcourse not there is no victom. It was "CHOOSE" are does only count when kiilling babys.
EFC100t 2 years ago
My oppinion a strong woman will be able to keep her morals
calus14 2 years ago
the problem is both cause by the liberal left and the capitalist fashionist right and even the religious institution.
the liberal-left says: do everything sexual, if it feels good do it!
fashionist capitalists says: your ugly, your a whore, you might as well accept it now and buy this mini skirt and make up
Religious institutions say: your are born evil by the original sin, you should feel guilty about your feelings, and desires and your body. but repression lead to excessiveness!
deviantcreep 2 years ago
America has been demoralized by Marxist-Leninist propoganda brought to us through socialist public education system. This immorality is just another symptom to a much bigger problem. We've been brainwashed and nobody knows the full extent, but you can learn a lot if you try trusting God. The founders of our country did. It took them a few generations to unlearn many things that were brainwashed into them (e.g. witches, forced religion), but eventually they made it. We can too!
1110111011101110 2 years ago
20 today is like 30 a decade ago. It's disgusting.
AshillaBeige 3 years ago
I feel really sorry for boys because we ae havingthe conversations about protecting young women from disease and we want our young women not to grow up too soon but whos looking out for the boys? We teach our sons that boys will be boys and male sexuality is normal as a teen but our girls must be under lock and key there are two sides to this issue and the boys need protection as well.
krissy4nik 3 years ago 3
thanks krissy, was almost shocked to see a bit of truth on YouTube
EFC100t 2 years ago
This is very interesting . Young girls today need support , there is way too much media pressuring them to do more than they want .
4770set 3 years ago
477, are you saying woman/girls are not able to form their own judgments or are more easily brainwashed by the liberal media, wow you are sexist.
EFC100t 2 years ago
responsibillity in america???
lol- we won't do shit about this or anything else, we will roll over and let the coorperations fuck us a little harder.
Ben1607 3 years ago 3
looks good.
nerdelicious5 4 years ago
What you're aying sounds like a great fairy tale, but in reality girls DO face a lot of contradicting pressure, both to be "sexy" and "sexual" and to be "pure" and "virginal". That constant tension in the collective psyche between the Saint and the Whore puts a lot of pressure...and can take you places where you don't want to be... Date rape anyone?
babybunnyberry 4 years ago 9
That's completely contradictory. You can't be sensual and sexual while being virginal at the same time. It's like being a gun toting mass murderer who's peaceful and calm and non-violent. Notice I neglected to say 'pure' since I don't consider sex to be dirty or wrong at all, and I mean this for both boys and girls.
Hotshotter3000 3 years ago
One solution: Turn off your TV and keep them off.
ariakokoschka 4 years ago 5
ariakokoschka, I take it from your comment that you've seen the movie, Network? It's a great movie, you're comment just made me think about that movie again.
graeme6630 4 years ago 2
This happens every generation. Wah wah wah.
mooktank 4 years ago
I agree that girls need to be informed about and practice safe sex if they are sexually active
HOWEVER - I am tired of hearing that "some girls give it up too easily" - girls shouldn't have to submit to an ideology that makes us more valuable the more unattainable we are or regards us as too dumb to make decisions about our bodies-- our sexuality isn't dirty and we shouldn't have to deny our desire
jennaow 4 years ago 4
Maybe people are questioning wether we value our bodies and sex as much as we should. It is something that can produce a light and unique bond between us as human beings. I strongly disagree with it being degraded to something to sell products, music, or to alleviate unwanted feelings of sexual frustration (as many of my friends do). I question if the desire and belief for immediate gratification of desires (fuelled by culture and media) hasn't infected societies view on sexuality?
defmenace 4 years ago
I am sure that culture and media have affected how society views sexuality, and there are serious problems with the commodification of human bodies to sell products. Valuing our bodies and sex would entail respecting people's sexual choices, if even to relieve sexual frustration. To value our bodies and sex is to believe that neither are derogatory when everything is consensual.
jennaow 4 years ago
the idea that a girls value decreases the more sexual partners she has is not an ideology. it is a real fear deep within the human (especially male) psyche. a girls sexual reputation is directly related to male paternity reliability. it is not ideology.
ignaciom777 4 years ago
We shouldn't operate at such a low level. Just because you can rationalize something doesn't make it right.
Bio98765 4 years ago
I know what ignaciom means, it's not ALL cultural. Evolutionarily, a girl knows whether a child she's caring for is her baby or not, while a guy can only guess. If a girl's promiscuous, a guy might end up having to care for a baby that isn't genetically related to him. This is all Stone Age stuff, wired into our brains before birth control existed.
But I agree, the media definitely puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on girls to be sexual.
nerdelicious5 4 years ago
i agree with the fact that we need to make sure girls are being safe and informed when they are sexually active
HOWEVER -- i am tired of hearing that "some girls give it up too easily" we shouldn't have to submit to ideolgies that regard girls as more valuable when they are less attainable - girls shouldn't have to deny our desire -- our sexuality isn't dirty
jennaow 4 years ago
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There is no way to become "safely" sexually active, when you are not married!!!
nicibdanza 4 years ago
will you grow up
DJHarrie 4 years ago
By grow up you mean?...
nicibdanza 4 years ago
in my high skool there r about
11 girls who r p.g
winecountry1 4 years ago
Of course I listen, and of course I encourage my 15 year-old to keep talking. The hard part is what do I tell her? So far, it's 1) sex requires emotional maturity 2) sex can feel demeaning outside of a caring relationship, 3) High School kids are highly sexist and brutal to "sluts", 4) Condoms aren't 100%. What else?
cobwebhead 4 years ago 2
Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with? Your self worth isn't defined by your sexuality? Sounds like you have the big issues covered, just be open for questions. Thats a big help.
henname 4 years ago 2
Those are both great points, thanks very much!
cobwebhead 4 years ago
Are they still made of sugar and spice?
higgrobot 4 years ago
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cityview1989 4 years ago
I'm european. Over here sexuality is not scary :) it can be done overcome the taboo and start the dialogue TV is a bad babysitter
KingCook85 4 years ago 8
exactly! too many adults rely on the television and other media sources to provide the information to kids that they themselves "don't have the time" to disseminate. stop being absentee parents!! sex is not evil, but teach sex ed and birth control early.
Romperjet 4 years ago